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FDS MEMESlillylilacladybug/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:25 PM
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How-To High Valuelillylilacladybug/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:22 PM
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REMINDER 👑lillylilacladybug/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:50 AM
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FDS MEMESlillylilacladybug/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:59 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDlillylilacladybug/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:20 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tlillylilacladybug/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:57 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSlillylilacladybug/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:52 AM
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SCROTES MADlillylilacladybug/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:01 AM
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LIES MEN TELLlillylilacladybug/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:26 AM
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PICKME CULTURElillylilacladybug/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:16 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlillylilacladybug/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:28 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlillylilacladybug/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:43 PM
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RANTlillylilacladybug/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 10:24 PM
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RANTlillylilacladybug/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 10:21 PM
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RANTlillylilacladybug/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:30 PM
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lillylilacladybug/r/askFDS27/03/21 11:26 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tlillylilacladybug/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:22 PM
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LEVEL UPlillylilacladybug/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:23 AM
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Thank you I appreciate you saying that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:03 AM
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Why does the keep saying safe and at peace the way you talk a suicide bomber down? Is he mentally unstable and violent? So in that case the question really becomes should he be playing gun based video games?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:40 PM
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OMG no I was lucky - my parents have always raised me since I was little to find solitude in myself, the difference in alone and loneliness, having hobbies and goals, and to never ever settle. Of all my parent’s friends and siblings they’re also the only ones never divorced so obviously their advice works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:57 PM
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Here’s the thing - it actually really is how you use it but for some scientific reason Marie Curie didn’t live long enough to do an experiment on dudes with tiny ducks don’t know how to use them. Like ever. It’s like they got up one day and said it’s small might as well pretend no women will ever touch it and act accordingly. I think dudes with bigger ducks just practice more bc they know they’ll be called to the plate more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:55 PM
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My guinea pigs would need less help navigating the pet store aisles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:38 PM
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I mean I see what he’s saying - after I’ve slept with 672 men in one year my value as property decreases. My parents will be getting significantly less goats for me 🙄 Seriously though I always throw this shit back at guys. Like can I call up your mom, or sister or granny and call her a hoe and shame her for her body count and ask her to gobble up my meat stick? And they always get so offended like calm down you hypocrite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:43 PM
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Meanwhile guys like this shit out hundreds on video games, porn, OnlyFans…. But sure sis be duped into thinking the bare minimum is sexy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 09:00 PM
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Uggh that’s cringier than someone dressing up as the joker and asking why so serious in 2021
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 08:42 PM
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I never understood the appeal of dragging around a body just to say you “had someone.” I mean I guess if you’re Jeffrey Dahmer but otherwise…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 08:23 PM
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100% of LVM don’t have a penis either. But their revolting personality is a built in defense mechanism so they never have to get as far with women as taking off their pants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:01 PM
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I can boil it down to one 5 minute episode - the fboys hit you up at 2 in the morning with “you up” and the nice guys get pissed when you won’t send nudes after the first text. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 10:22 PM
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Shhhhh fleshlight that’s not how any of this is supposed to work. Society is very clear on this you please me not the other way around. I sit around all day long getting greasy and fat playing video games and lusting after pornstars that look like botched Purge face masks and then at the end of the day you blow me on my thrown of takeout boxes and dirty clothes like the Viking God I am. (That is sarcasm before someone calls me out lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 07:26 PM
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OLD always reminds me of what a former colleague of mine once said about men in Alaska (btw she was from Alaska and this was her quote not mine) - The odds are good but the goods are odd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 10:18 PM
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Why did he choose her and not me? Idk why do some people choose to walk while texting, or choke because they talked with their mouth full, or got sick because the didn’t wash their hands when they came in from outside? It’s not for me to figure out why some people are dumb as shit. Those are the mysteries of the universe. I’m just glad I’m not connected to this dumbshit anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:37 PM
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Don’t they do this for preschoolers when they don’t shit in their pants and bite other kids?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:06 PM
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And let’s not forget all the women who have children who absolutely shouldn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 07:37 PM
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Hosseini is truly a master when it comes to writing. He can say things with words that I’ve only ever been able to feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 07:35 PM
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I have never been more sure of anything in my entire life that no woman has ever in the history of time immortal said yes to anything sexual with Omar Delewar, Humanist Philosopher. Therefore, based on the academic tradition of expecting experts to have experience in the fields they advise on, he doesn’t have a pot to piss in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 07:34 PM
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My mother always warned me to stay away from men who needed teeny tiny types - she said they had control issues and were more likely to be abusive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:58 PM
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I am so sorry this was so long ago I don’t even know. And like I maybe he never meant it that way but just me personally I’ve never liked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:50 PM
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He actually made a comment about him choosing the red pill. Now maybe he’s just really into The Matrix. But in the context he said it, his overall appearance and how he was always dating the youngest looking model out there I took in the red pill douche context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:09 PM
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I’ve never liked Adam Levine personally since I heard him make comments that made him seem very red pill but that’s just my personal opinion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:51 PM
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Then « blue balls » is not a reason to pressure a women for nudes or sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:15 PM
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Some of the best advice I ever got on people was you have to meet them where they are and sometimes you have to leave them there. Whatever his reasons are they will never be enough to fill the space of abuse and neglect he put you through. F**k him and don’t give him anymore head space. Onwards and upwards to better things. Enjoy your life. And the right man who will treat you right will come into your life when it’s meant to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:12 PM
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OMG if you hadn’t added the lab part I would honestly wonder if we knew the same guy. But the douche I know has a poodle/chihuahua mix
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 07:20 PM
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Oh absolutely. My response is hey let’s find a daring surgeon willing to remove my uterus and give it to you. We’ll pump you full of hormones, have you grow breasts, have your body undergo pregnancy and the dangers of childbirth. Oh you don’t like that idea? Then shut up and keep your opinion to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 07:00 PM
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A little off topic but follow up on men telling women to be more feminine - it is amazing since I’ve come out as possibly not wanting kids how much disrespect and abuse I get from some men. I couldn’t care less but interesting aside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:46 PM
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Oh believe me I’ve been the cool girl too. And it’s funny not being it really helps weed out the HV from the LV. LV dudes get real frustrated when I don’t play into the part and suck up their bull shit. Like well tough titties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:21 PM
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Flip side - now he has all that free time to finish all that porn he « fell asleep « on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:53 PM
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THE COOL GIRL!!!! Yes Yes Yes! I agree with Flynn’s thesis entirely! We are conditioned to contort ourselves into some cool girl so other guys have a good time at our expense. F**k that shit to the bank and back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:52 PM
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That describes me pretty closely but I’m not sure I’m versed enough yet in everything FDS to apply
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:50 PM
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Life is short - statistically we have maybe 80 years which seems forever but goes by like the snap of the finger. Do you really want to be alone in the nursing home looking back on your life and this was your one big relationship? What if you missed out on your one great love because you wasted time with this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:29 PM
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Awesome keep up the great work! I’ve said it before but it bares repeating - sometimes the trash takes itself out. Let him go leech off someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:13 PM
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And the fact that he’s never been married shows not a lot of takers on that offer. Course he could always just move back home and let his mother take care of him like he’s some kind of impaired/enfeebled adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:52 PM
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OnlyFans - Instead of spending money on themselves to make them more attractive, interesting, developing a hobby or learning social skills to meet a woman in real life, men will instead waste it on an internet girl who finds them repulsive and wouldn’t give them the time of day in real life. Should be OnlyDumbshits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:08 PM
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Some people shouldn’t have kids. Some people shouldn’t get married . Sometimes that is the same person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:55 AM
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« Also how do I make a sandwich and blow myself at the same time??» -mgtow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:54 AM
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So I was thinking- what about if we had a sidebar where we keep a list of the main Redditers who troll/brigade the most. Kind of like how childfree has a sidebar of doctors and clinics that will do sterilizations. I just got followed (I blocked him) by what I believe is a troll but it took me a minute and if i had a list I could add his name to so other women who might also find themselves being followed my him would also know to block that would be helpful. I know some people might say well thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 07:34 PM
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Omg this is beyond awful. I’ve been lucky that with one exception all of the men I’ve been with know how to wipe their ass. I went out with a guy once whose breath stank and he insisted on sticking his face in my face while rubbing my leg under the bar and talking about his fascination of women who like big dicks. I’m sorry but if your hygiene is that bad and you expect to put that nasty naked body near another person’s body that has to be considered some kind of assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:02 PM
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Yea but that makes it seem like getting laid is the problem. I wish I had a problem getting laid maybe I wouldn’t be a sex addict. I just am tired of the sexist down right ignorant and cruel men who flood the dating scene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:09 PM
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No bisexuals but they stroke their tiny peens to lesbian porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:07 PM
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I swear it’s stuff like this that must make God shake his head and consider a flood part two
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:58 PM
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I looked into the one guy’s profile and he’s posting bedroom shots of his wife which sadly aren’t even getting that many upvotes. Poor thing has her body slung all over Reddit by a man who most likely can’t sexually satisfy her and then goes halvies on 3 AM sunny side up eggs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:18 PM
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Jeez you read stuff like this and it’s like how can someone be so willing to put up with so much misery for nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:47 PM
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I need to keep coming back here more. I’m not doing really great. I backslid on my sex addiction and hooked up with a bunch of losers off of dating sites who of course treated me like garbage. I know I know it’s my fault I’m not looking for pity. Almost hope this comment gets buried. I keep thinking it would be so much easier if I could be a guy and just hookup without feelings getting in the middle. I’ve tried for like seven years and I still can’t get there. But anyway maybe I need to start be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:42 PM
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There’s a guy in my hometown who has that hoe into a housewife comment on his Facebook who is running around town giving chlamydia to everyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:46 PM
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I’m not going to lie I’ve never heard one Good Charlotte song in my life and after this I now feel confident to say I never will
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:34 AM
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And just like any good Ponzi scheme if he plays his cards right he’ll be fucked up the ass at the end of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:56 PM
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These guys need to be chemically castrated to protect society from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:02 PM
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That face is a computer generated compilation of thousands of awful OLD profile pics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:23 PM
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On OLD men who very clearly had to have gone out of their way to look creepy. Like it’s so easy to take a normal pic. Standing shirtless in your wood paneled basement seems like your advertising to me the location of the last place I’ll be seen alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:58 PM
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I remember, and it wasn’t that long ago, a time when being this desperate was embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:42 PM
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The men on Reddit are not a fair representation of the vast pool of men. There is an overwhelming knuckle dragging inbred hillbilly man population who has no social skills and creeps out women and have pedophilic urges. This is their lonely little echo chamber where they can tell each other their perversions and inappropriate behavior are perfectly normal and acceptable while the rest of the world laughs and laughs at them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:28 PM
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Imagine the garbage man swamp creature that thinks this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:25 PM
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I am. I can’t figure out how to get them down but fortunately my face and tats aren’t them so small win
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:56 AM
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Most of the men on Reddit can only cum when bathed in the immense amount of shame they have for being creepy spineless NVM who should’ve been swallowed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:34 AM
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Can confirm because mine are on the internet and I can’t get them down. Don’t be stupid like me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:18 AM
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George Carlin once said “If it’s true that our species is alone in the universe, then I’d have to say the universe aimed rather low and settled for very little.” He was talking about this chick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:24 PM
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Some people just shouldn’t be therapists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:20 PM
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And after you throw out the diaper dump him in there as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:13 PM
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I’m a self harmer and self harmed pretty extensively in 2020 and I was hooking up with this guy who I thought I was in love with. Absolute NVM. He would come over to hookup and I’d have fresh cuts and I’d tried to hide it but I know he saw them anyway and not once asked how I was. It wasn’t until he was out of my life that I realized what a red flag that was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:08 PM
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Lmao I’m not proud to say this but I can say confidently I have screwed enough guys that the men who tell women they need some good dick have never ever in their existence given women good dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:33 PM
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Joe Goldberg did you write this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:38 PM
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This is f*cking vile. And putting aside for a minute how unbelievably misogynistic this is what about men who get raped? Were they mad they couldn’t monetize their asshole and be treated like princes? This is very clearly written by someone who lives a bitter miserable life and the only way that they can relate to other people is violence. Death will be a relief for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:56 PM
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It’s easier to control younger women that’s why men target them. Also they have experience so they’ll be less able to see his low value efforts in their relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:00 PM
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By and large I don’t trust the men on Reddit. This is one step before the dark web and their founder is a father of a daughter not moved enough by the pedophilic goings on of this site to do any crack downs. I assume these are lonely basement dwelling men who not even the meter reader wastes time trying to talk to. If I’m pissing them off I’m doing something right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:35 AM
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In my experience weak little men who can barely get it up in the bedroom and will never please a woman live vicariously through porn. They can pretend to be these macho guys that they could never be in real life. And most of them secretly wouldn’t mind screwing the guys just as much as the girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:27 AM
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Right! Some of y’all’s dicks ain’t big enough to get past the big ass doggy style but we have high standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:52 PM
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Yea this is exactly the kind of guy I wouldn’t date and therefore could not care less about his opinion. I’m now more than ever convinced that these men think we sit on some thrown of elitism waiting for the perfect guy. I’m not waiting for anyone that’s how you miss out on your life. I’m living my life, improving myself so I can have an even better life, and experiencing all that this world has to offer me. If a man who meets my standards comes along and I choose to experience life with him tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:51 PM
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You have to be an approved commenter. What you have to do is make a post asking to be approved and then link your most recent comment from here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:39 PM
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Imagine if we just rubbed period blood everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:22 PM
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I always feel bad for those people. Imagine how miserable your life must be that you can’t stand being alone with yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:10 PM
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Well I’ll say it loud and proud in case in the future something happens - I love my life, I love being single and I doubt very much I’ll ever get married. If my life had to come down to marrying one of the LVM scrotes so over represented on Reddit or death I’d gladly take death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:49 PM
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I’m nominating you for a Noble Peace Prize. This is genius! Omg I can’t wait to use this! I know I know I should block these guys but I want to try it once
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:13 AM
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My father has told me since childhood most men are pigs so I’m under no illusions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:36 PM
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She means mother - that’s what mothers do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:36 PM
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Yea because they get “preyed on” by predators in the wild. In a domesticated situation seeing that in action is hilarious. So they are constantly trying to stay hidden and so they are constantly moving their hut over their food but only end up knocking the hit over and then staring at me angrily until I fix it. It’s adorable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:28 PM
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OMG all of this is awful. I feel like I’m in a Criminal Minds episode and I’m trapped in some basement dungeon and this guy’s my creepy captor and he tortures me by forcing me to watch his cringe TikToks all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:59 PM
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If it is it wasn’t intentional I saw it on Instagram but if you want me to take it down let me know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:53 PM
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A while ago on AskReddit someone asked something along the lines of men who need a hug why? What astounded me was the vast amount of men who so desperately wanted their partners and families to be psychic. Answer after answer of well my mental health is struggling but my family doesn’t know because I hide it but they also won’t support me. Like how are they supposed to support and hug you when you’re deliberately hiding from them. I call this guinea pigging. Guinea pigs hide their ailments becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:50 PM
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Yes the Bible and God both endorse the porn industry 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:35 PM
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You don’t have a dick? No prob you can suck mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:52 PM
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I promise you this guy tried hard to pass himself off as a nice guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:41 PM
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Absolutely- it’s free porn made just for them. I find that so beyond basic. Like the minute a guy asks for my snap I instantly lose all interest. Like “what’s your snap babe” dries up my pussy like the Sahara desert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:55 PM
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It’s ok someone else deleted them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:41 PM
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I have snap but I lie when they ask me for it. I find it so annoying the amount of lazy ass men there are who are unable to be interesting enough to actually have a conversation without trying to force it into a sexual direction. No we’re not going to have a back and forth that ends in a series of increasingly sexual pics. That is a huge pet peeve of mine. Some people should’ve been swallowed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:41 PM
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Says a LVM who’s never peaked a day in his life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:33 PM
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Exactly! But here’s the other side of that - unless you’re in the middle of nowhere or like caught in some ten car pile up on the express why are you peeing out in the open in the middle of society? You couldn’t hold it or duck into a bathroom. What goes on in the mind of someone who’s out in public and thinks it’s perfectly acceptable to drop trou and put themselves out on display and then on top of that start wizzing. Yea they might need to be on a registry. Like hey you see this guy maybe run…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:55 PM
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That’s awesome but just be careful with the two guys and jumping into a relationship so soon after one ended. No need to rush anything. It’s always really great to get to know yourself first. And if they’re HVM genuinely interested in something long term they’ll respect you and wait. I’ve found men can be jackals and see women fresh out of relationships as fresh meat somehow vulnerable and more easily swayed by the tokens of niceness they throw your way. Keep vetting. You got this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:47 PM
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But now she’ll have all that extra time to play free pool with him (This was a joke)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:33 PM
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Girl how’d you get this to post 11 times when half the time I have one post I can’t get to upload?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:32 PM
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Just because they won’t now doesn’t mean we give up. You have to keep fighting. 1000 of us might fail but if one breaks through to make a difference that’s all that matters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:18 AM
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I am so tired of that. Society needs to stop making excuses for violence after the fact because it wasn’t energized enough to keep it from happening in the first place. Stop letting men believe they’re entitled to their violence. No one has a right to infringe on another person’s space or body regardless of what half ass excuse they pull out of their pocket later. Throw the book at everyone evenly. That’s what I’m saying - you start penalizing johns like you do sex workers prostitution and viole…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:23 AM
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That is truly frightening. They need to crack down on punishing johns and not just sex workers. I say put them on the sex offender registry minimum tier one lifetime members but that won’t happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:04 AM
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I know! I love when a guy expects you to give him a bj for literally nothing in return. Like no suck it yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:48 PM
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This sounds like some very lonely, desperate man has this fantasy in his head which he thinks sounds kinky but when you play it out it just reads like a very sad, pathetic creepy pasta.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:13 PM
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And to a degree I don’t understand why that bothers them? Like no one’s saying they can’t have their own men only space. Like if they wanted to make The red pill men only that would be fine by me. Talk about plates and steroids all day long but not once the real reason they hate women is their mothers never hugged them enough. Be my guest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:52 PM
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Anytime a guy gets even a little sexual that early on their only aim is a hookup. And I think some of their lingo is so cringe. I have a lot of guys ask if I want to come snuggle on a first date. Da fuq I don’t. That sounds like some weird fetish involving a stuffed animal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:48 PM
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Thank you so much I really appreciate that!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:25 PM
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I LOVE this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:22 PM
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I’m not going to lie I’m probably still a pick me- but here’s the thing- for me it goes a lot deeper than wanting a man to pick me. Because honestly I love being single. I’m a sex addict and sex toys don’t do it. BUT before everyone downvotes or bans me after finding this sub I have hope that I can get better and am worth more and tomorrow in fact I’m talking to my doctor about starting therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:21 PM
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Can you get a restraining order or a protection from abuse? I’m not a lawyer but that may be one way you can force him out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:18 PM
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This sadly goes beyond college. I know 40 year old men who act this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:16 PM
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I could be wrong but something in my gut says this guy hasn’t had good sex with a woman in his entire “mature” life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:03 PM
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Is he really taking back the jewelry? That’s low
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:09 PM
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I use that line on soooo many people and it def feels super good. 10/10 Yelp rating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:02 AM
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Yea and the men to be kind to them and treat them with respect will never be those grody red pill men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:56 PM
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Damn I wish that was my neighbor. All my neighbors do is smoke weed and slam their doors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:32 PM
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Red Pill Women are such an oxymoron- they think if they try hard enough they can nab a red pill guy and change him. Red pill men are basically a cult and like all cults their members get more and more indoctrinated every day. These men hate women and no woman will change that. All these woman end up doing is being used by men and treated like fools.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:31 PM
2

Awww thank you!!! They are my furry potatoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:28 PM
30

That’s what I thought too! I was like I’m in this pic and I don’t like it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:26 PM
30

I love it!!! I tried to post it yesterday but I don’t always have good luck in my posts going through
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:13 PM
10

No I know who he is but I thought I had something offensive by criticizing him and didn’t mean to offend anyone. I’m glad I’m not alone in that sentiment. I’ve thought for a while how sadly ironic it is he’s the father to daughter yet this site is such a garbage fire of child molesters and woman haters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:12 PM
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I’m not sure what you’re asking? I’m just saying Reddit very clearly has a predilection as providing a safe haven for pedophiles and misogynists and does virtually nothing to crack down on that population’s presence on here. I would think anyone with especially daughters would feel a need to try and drive those people as far underground as possible. Idk maybe I’m a bad person for taking that position.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:59 PM
3

It’s ok - truthfully it was a message from a guy on OLD a couple days after a breakup and it actually provided a much needed comic relief in a very weird way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:47 PM
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They could. Most paraphilias develop during puberty when a sexual arousal is pared with a non sexual stimuli. So he could’ve been jerking off to regular porn but saw a stuffed animal the moment of orgasm and boom the brain now identifies this seemingly regular object as sexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:25 PM
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Yea it stuck in my mind all these years later too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:22 PM
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bUt WhEn MeN dOn’T hAvE aN oUtLeT fOr ThEiR sExUaL iMpUlSeS tHeY gEt ViOlEnT aNd TaKe It OuT oN sOcIeTy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:09 PM
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Reddit - designed by a man who has a daughter for men to treat women like shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:33 PM
84

I used to get upset by those posts but the reality is the majority of those men aren’t in relationships with anyone so they aren’t getting blowjobs or a Starbucks gift card. I’m not saying all but most. All they have is their right hand and the fantasy of a fictional girlfriend who will do anal as a gift. Meanwhile in real life even hookers are like not for any price.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:03 PM
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And then of course the obligatory “fat b*tch” like trademark to seal the deal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:56 PM
55

I’m convinced that the men on OLD make a real effort to be as off putting and creepy as possible. Idk maybe it’s just my area but yesterday I actually said out loud are these guys trying to look like Urkle? I believe confidently that when the writer for The Hills Have Eyes needed ideas for their mutants he or she went to OLD for inspiration and even then turned the creepy down about 50%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:40 PM
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Oof there’s a lot of small peen men out there. And btw I consider myself a vocel - voluntary celibate - I have men thirsting over me everywhere - Instagram, my email, my OLD account, Snapchat. If I want it I can get it I just don’t want it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:01 PM
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I don’t like any of the Jokers because the whole character vilifies mental illness. Most people with that level of mental illness aren’t sarcastic or moody edge lords going around committing crimes. They’re people struggling to bath or eat or take care of themselves. But the Joker permeates this idea that mentally ill people are dangerous and violent when most don’t even have the energy to get out of bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:27 PM
57

I cringed at this I am so sorry. I once talked to a guy on a dating site who I swear on ten bibles wanted me to blow him while his mom watched. He was being 100% honest. Yes I blocked him right away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:36 AM
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Thank you! Thank you! I couldn’t have done it without you inspiring Queens!! Edit: In all seriousness I backslid recently and hooked up with a LVM. He is starting to ghost like they always do. It’s my fault I know better. In the past I would’ve self harmed and I was about to three days ago but I came on here instead and this community kept me safe. So all joking aside seriously thank all of you beautiful, intelligent, fantastic Queens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:33 AM
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Yes!!! That’s exactly what I was thinking. I feel like I should give an acceptance speech. Like I want to thank God and my mom and my producer and all the creepy red pill guys on steroids with tiny balls and scrotes who’s moms still cut the crust off their pb & j sandwiches and guys who take women on drink dates and roll off of them an hour later after three pumps thinking they’re sex gods. As I hold up my FDS inductee trophy lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:21 AM
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I’m eagerly waiting for the day some dude gets so bothered by what I say he feels the need to DM me and tell me off. That’s how you know you got them. Edit: LMAO it happened! Some scrote just messaged me to say that based on the amount of times I post here I must be hideous. 🤣🤣 2nd Edit: Some guy just tried to make fun of my guinea pigs. So let’s play this out. I’m supposed to want some insecure tiny penis man baby over my adorable fur potatoes. Am I also supposed to want to be the middle of a h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:24 PM
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This man is extremely wicked, shockingly evil and vile. There is absolutely no question he is a true psychopath. Any apology he gives her is insincere. He isn’t remorseful at all. If he could have slowly killed her he would and was probably attempting that. Despite what he said he never loved her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:39 PM
28

I just looked up your comment and it was my first LOL of the day! He’s probably hate jerking off his tiny peen right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:15 PM
93

It’s normal to be turned off by low effort men who watch porn all the time. It’s normal to not want to be with a « nice guy » who’s only « nice » attribute is that he doesn’t get overly sexual right out the gate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:12 PM
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I’ve done this but more worth sex and less with dating. I realized I used sex as a form of self harm. I would have casual hookups for the same reason I cut- I felt out of control, that I was worthless and didn’t deserve to be treated nicely. But the hooking up only acted to further those feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:05 PM
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Yes! Whenever I see a profile that says fun I cringe. Biggest insult- you look like fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:40 PM
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Because these are men who have never grown up. They basically married their mother and treat her that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:24 PM
21

Oh that’s good I wish I had thought about that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:25 PM
136

Once I told a guy I was on my period when he wanted to hookup and word for word his response was “but you have an ass and mouth right?” Blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:15 PM
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No all men don’t look at porn. I had an ex who thought porn was disrespectful to women. It amazes me the converse is never brought up - not all woman look at porn. And don’t even try to tell me women are different then men. Just no. My libido and sex drive is higher then most men I know. And I don’t watch porn morning, noon and night. I don’t watch it all. But somehow we make excuses for men because they have urges women don’t (which I don’t believe) and because men can be all sloppy with the ur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:06 PM
32

“Hideous creature after hideous creature“ - OMG that’s hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:35 PM
144

Martin Luther King Jr. said “Let no man drag you low enough to hate him.” I don’t hate anyone. It’s a worthless emotion. I just ignore them and don’t give them any of my time or head space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:28 PM
15

Haha nice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:30 PM
136

Agreed! I feel like so many of the guys on OLD look like a casting call for Deliverance 2.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:16 PM
31

Omg I think I speak for all women when I say if we didn’t ask for a dick pic don’t send it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:26 AM
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Girl I got you - I’m the queen of inspirational quotes if you ever need reinforcements message me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:15 AM
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I’m the same way I wish I had found this in my early 20s. But I hear so many people say your 30s will be great that I’m optimistic I’m going to crush the next ten years with stuff I read on this site. Queens if a guy picks another girl over you never ever give him the luxury of your time and presence again. He was a fool to not see the treasure that was in front of him the first time and probably still isn’t wearing glasses now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:56 AM
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Thank you that makes me feel a lot better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:20 AM
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Yes! This! Exactly!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:17 AM
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Thank you so much and exactly. I was inspired to write this because of the last guy I was vetting. He kept telling me he was suicidal but he also was a father to young kids. I guess I should’ve called 911 for his sake but I know he was close with his family so I hope if it ever got serious one of them would jump in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:05 AM
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My mother was super duper overprotective of me as a kid and I hated it. She wouldn’t even let me go to sleepovers because she was afraid that a creepy uncle or dad or brother would try and molest me. At the time I hated it and she and I had a lot of fights over it. But looking back now I really appreciate that she was so cautious. So many creepers just look like the friendly guy next door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:03 AM
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If I could give you 100 upvotes I would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:02 AM
3

Omg I never even thought about that that’s a really good point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:43 PM
7

Same to you. Like do these guys not have a clue?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:00 PM
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I am so sorry about that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:46 PM
11

Right! I can’t believe I even tried to be in a relationship with this person at one time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:39 PM
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I am so tired of these guys feeling entitled to women being attracted to them. My father has a saying “Just because you like someone doesn’t mean they have to like you.” Brutal truth but it holds. Get over it and stop pining after women who don’t want you. Maybe pull back and put some effort into yourself and become more interesting then a porn addicted limpy dick and you might find women will be attracted to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:38 PM
134

Five years ago I briefly dated a guy who cheated on me and when I confronted him he proceeded to lie about it. Then two weeks later he broke up with me for a woman I’m pretty sure he was cheating on me with. Last week he popped up out of the blue and he said he missed me and new he messed up. You bet you did bud I laughed to myself as I blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:01 PM
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Awesome thank you for your explanation and approval!!!
/r/askFDS28/03/21 09:56 PM
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They should have one of these when you report someone for a pedophilic comment “A concerned redditor reached out to us about you. We think you’re extremely pervy and for the safety of society should be locked up and the key thrown away. We understand that your type are over represented on here so it’s easy to think your comments and thoughts are acceptable. But know they are not and that you are a disappointment to everyone who knows you and most people can’t wait to get away from you. Here’s a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:51 PM
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And sadly I know girls who will think this dude is edgy instead of just self involved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:44 PM
19

Ewwwww Human Centipede was less gross than this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:49 PM
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Last guy I was vetting would routinely black out every night missing out on calls he promised to make. It was frustrating and he almost flaunted his drinking like he wanted me to almost be a therapist and fix him. Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:07 PM
208

Their cries of not all men could be heard from miles away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:09 PM
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I only briefly watched his content with a friend a few years ago and was unimpressed. I felt like he was trying too hard to be funny and wasn’t. I didn’t know about any of this but it doesn’t surprise me. In my brief experience I got the feeling that the majority of his fans were scrotes and dudebros anyway so I’m sure they lap his porn and disrespectful women comments up as quality content. As for the women my hunch is the vast majority of them only listen to him to him to impress the men in th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:54 PM
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Yea I tried but I still didn’t see it two hours later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:35 PM
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I don’t use guys when referring to a group of women and I haven’t in years. I see it as a respect thing. Also totally unrelated I apologize but I have a question- I’m struggling to post something- I see it in my profile but it doesn’t show up under the sub. Am I doing something wrong?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:56 PM
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If a guy’s into you you’ll know. And I wish I knew that in my 20s. Wasted so much time on losers and LVM who wasted my time, dragged me around, and stole from me. But I’ve learned from those lessons and now I’m confident my 30s are going to be rocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:07 AM
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Well one, I am neither lonely nor bitter. I’m actually living my best life. Also “How to enjoy the company of your cat, flat and never be a placemat” is that somehow supposed to be a bad thing? Because that actually sounds pretty nice. Take it or leave it but I’ve actually had better convos with my guinea pigs than some of the knuckle dragging dudebros I no longer waste time on. But hey this is a free country, if you want to be the walking equivalent of a mattress with a hole in the middle be my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:31 PM
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Like no I am cute you’re just bitter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:53 PM
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Lmao this is why I love this site - I thought I was the only one 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:34 PM
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I see what you’re saying and I didn’t mean for this to be primarily directed at them. It was more in general for everyone but acknowledging that there are male lurkers and that, like this post, not everything id about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:19 PM
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I personally don’t believe they can be fixed. And what I point to is the ones who have been chemically castrated and still offend. Their perversion is such an overwhelming compulsion they can’t help themselves. I say we keep them locked up for life. My understanding as of now the only crime that can be considered for life without the possibility of parole is first degree murder but I think underage sex crimes needs to be added.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:01 AM
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Not me but another girl one of my old guy friends was “hooking up with” - he didn’t want to see her so he said he was sick. She showed up at his work with chicken soup and ginger ale as a sweet gesture and he thought it was creepy and he blocked her. Maybe it was I don’t know but I think back on all the fuckboys I wasted time on and if one of them had done that I’d be floored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:58 AM
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I reframe it - I see being in a relationship with a LVM just to say I’m in a relationship the same way those women look down on single women. And I’m not trying to say I look down on them I don’t. But I feel terribly bad for them. Let me give you a personal example: My grandmother was a pickme. Now she lucked out my grandfather was a wonderful person. But she never lived alone. She went right from her parent’s home to living with my grandfather. Sadly he passed away 20 years ago. Because my gran…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:21 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:58 PM
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NOBODY IS NICER THAN A GUY WHO HASN’T FUCKED YOU YET Very important to remember!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:18 PM
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Well here’s a solution- she can just not charge all the men who screw her. Then it’s not prostitution just casual hookups and gross but perfectly legal. Problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:06 PM
1

Ew that post just made my skin crawl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:57 PM
51

Well he’s right on one thing- she very clearly did settle unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:11 PM
68

What I truly honestly don’t understand is why women stay with these men. And please don’t tell me they are afraid of being alone. She is so alone in that relationship right now it’s pathetic. I don’t get it is having a 190-200 lb ball of skin, blood and gas really that imperative to be shackled to in order to say you have self worth? Because you don’t have self worth you have a giant man baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:54 PM
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No it’s never just writing. That writing triggers pedophiles who then feel a compulsion to abuse that they don’t have the self control to manage and so they abuse. Those writings cause abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:16 PM
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Exactly!! And that’s so basic and boring I don’t even bother with those guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:09 PM
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First of all you deserve so much better than this. Just reading his text ew he just sounds whiny and gross. And that whole “I watched it but never touched myself.” Definite cringe. He’s obviously a liar who cares more about his feelings then yours. Block and move on there’s absolutely someone out there better for you. As one of my favorite sayings goes “Sometimes the trash takes itself out.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:05 PM
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Vet vet vet. I don’t believe every guy wants an Instagram model. Do a lot yes but I also know guys who genuinely find the girls that other guys might say aren’t necessarily Instagram hotties as 10s. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and most people find different things beautiful. The way to figure this out is vetting. Eventually a guy who sees you as a consolation prize will show his true colors. Most people can’t hide their real motives/personalities very long. I’ve personally found these g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:22 PM
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100 upvotes for the yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:51 PM
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I am so sorry that is horrific!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:29 PM
368

I’ll tell you something equally concerning- the amount of men who wanted me to call them daddy. And a substantial amount of them had daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:20 PM
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LVM need women to have esteem and worth issues because it increases their chances with those women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:03 PM
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One of the first things I learned after joining Reddit was the overwhelming amount of pedophiles on here. It’s almost like one step before the dark web. And I learned this while trying to tell someone that an adult sleeping with a 17 year old is rape and being brigaded and downvoted. At the time I was incredulous but looking back I think it was kind of like an initiation for me because I realized then that there was this slimy underbelly dragging itself across this site and so I’m always on some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:53 PM
49

“Dan is not creepy...he is simply horny and does not exhibit the amount of self-control a person of his status should strife to possess.” AKA Dan’s creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:08 PM
65

In the Atlanta shooting the shooter said he was motivated because he was a sex addict and couldn’t control his temptations. We need to raise our sons to be givers not takers. To feel appreciation not entitlement. When you raise young boys to think their every need should be satisfied and women are only here for that purpose they grow into men who destroy when they don’t get what they have been raised to believe is owed to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:00 PM
83

I’m in this picture and I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:39 PM
137

Our no isn’t enough because men have been raised to believe that we are property not people and so have no right to tell them no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:34 PM
42

You’re clingy when all you’re trying to do is a.) get to know someone better and b.) give them attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:07 PM
7

Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:02 PM
31

Blocking feels good because he thinks he has you and you always be a slave to him so you will always and forever be an option. Block him and you take your power back and establish you are worth so much more than an option and he doesn’t have unfettered access to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:12 PM
80

Until masculinity isn’t equated with entitlement we’re going to keep slipping down the rabbit hole. And making excuses/blame women the whole way down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:09 PM
121

I love the “wow this convo got inappropriate” at the end like this is an absolute surprise to him and he has no idea how he got there and it was in no way a direct result of his words and actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:55 PM
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I understand and sympathize with people who have disabilities. I have several close family members who have rather severe physical and mental disabilities. But with all that being said there is just something about this that really rubs me the wrong way. It still feels like he’s just trying to use another woman’s body for his “release” and all of that just strikes me as prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:57 PM
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I also think it’s a form of settling. I’m perfectly happy on my own I actually don’t get lonely. But I understand a lot of people do and I think those women would rather have anyone, even if it’s a LVM, then be alone. Or they can only see their self worth if they’re attached to a man and if that means they have to settle for a LVM they will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:47 PM
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Some of the best advice I ever got was « you have to meet people where they are and sometimes you have to leave them there ». You can’t fix everyone. I feel bad for pickmes because I personally think they have just such incredible low self esteem that they don’t believe they are worth more then LVM and also simultaneously need to somehow prove their self worth to these LVM. I hope someday they see the light and place themselves on a higher pedestal, that they are deserving of so much more but I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:39 PM
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Or woman! There are a lot of women who drive this mindset too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:54 PM
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See right there I feel like that’s concerning. Why are people being paid to mod? Then Reddit can literally control the information that is out there based on who they monetize to mod. They can lead posts and responses in one direction or another. Then the « front page of the internet » just becomes propaganda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:50 PM
13

What’s going on in UKPolitics?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:33 PM
49

A mod to mod the mods?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:27 PM
43

Absolutely the pervs really come out of the woodwork in the teenage years. That’s why I think it’s so important to keep the age of consent at 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:10 PM
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The more and more I read stories like this the more and more I’m convinced there are a lot of pedophiles out there that just haven’t been caught. That’s terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:40 PM
14

And they will go to court and use women “not giving them attention” as if it’s some kind of defense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:43 AM
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I once saw a post about a guy trying to get a blow job from a vacuum. Queens you are worth so much more than a household appliance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:18 AM
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Well see that’s the thing- they don’t have anyone in their life. It’s just them. Alone. Holed up in their basement alone typing these posts with their sausage fingers thinking they’re taking a stand for men. Maybe if they pay their Onlyfans girl a little more tonight she’ll pretend to care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:04 AM
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These men have nothing to bring to the dating table. So instead of maybe seeing that as a sign to change themselves they double down and say everyone else but them is the problem. So I might be a creepy barely employed neck beard who gets off on schoolgirl porn and makes literally everyone who comes in contact with me creeped out but if I say it’s those man hating women then the problem isn’t me it’s them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:58 AM
44

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again- no one pays attention to them in their real day to day life so they need to force attempts on some poor woman on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:15 AM
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These are the same guys who don’t understand why women look past them because they’re “nice guys.” If you’re selectively a nice guy based on something as shallow as another person’s looks you’re not a nice guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:25 AM
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Number 4 is so important I would maybe even put it right after number 1. I used to have a friend who was in an awful marriage. She got married in her early 20s only because she thought it would be her only chance to get married. Seven years later she knew for a fact he had emotionally cheated on her (found out he was on multiple dating apps) and possibly physically cheated. She finally initiated divorce proceedings and I remember being so happy for her because I thought now she could focus on he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 11:41 PM
99

OMG SAME!!! Can we all seriously pool our money and finally invent that time machine so I can go back in time and not waste any on those gross dudebro f**kboys I wasted some great years of my 20s on??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 11:10 PM
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I am so over the tired and weak ass “you don’t want to die alone” trope. First of all on a purely face value interpretation everyone dies alone. It’s not like being dropped off at the hospital for surgery. No one dies with you and comes back like “yea she got there alright.” But second, almost no one knows the hour of their death so who can guarantee you won’t be alone in your last hours. You could be married to the love of your life and die alone in a car accident. You could never be married an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 11:02 PM
69

I am more and more convinced everyday that social skills should be a mandatory class for a lot of people in school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:44 PM
1

I think the same thing with Khole Kardashian- she’s constantly going back to the same guy who cheated on her when she was pregnant and then again with her little sister’s best friend. I mean some people can change and some cheaters reform I just don’t see that being the case here. Sadly I think he’ll cheat on her again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:35 PM
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Learned this with the last guy I was talking to. He pursued me for years so I finally gave him a chance. At the very beginning he seemed like a very great guy. But it wasn’t two months in that I realized he was getting black out drunk every night missing out on phone calls he promised to make or screaming “f**k you” at his neighbors. I kept giving him a chance because he told me he suffered with suicidal thoughts which I could relate to and so felt guilty leaving. But in the end I realized I’m n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:48 PM
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Exactly! I would talk to these guys and they always wanted to “chill” or just “come over and order in and watch a movie” but there was always this underlying subtext of it’s all casual and it will all lead to sex. And I didn’t like that and it annoyed me but it happened so much I was like well is this the new norm? Am I being too picky. And then I found FDS and I’m like nope I don’t have to lower my standards and expectations for myself just because some dude can’t be bothered to put forth effor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:37 PM
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Can I just say that as a newbie I find this sub to be the safest on Reddit I’ve encountered so far. And I’ve been on Reddit almost two years. But there’s such a culture of sex on Reddit that for these past two years I’ve kinda felt like an outsider. I’m a recovering sex addict and while I find a lot of escape in Reddit sometimes it could be dangerous for me because the blatant sex everywhere could trigger me. And also I just felt bad. I wanted to believe I was worth more than the one night stand…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:50 PM
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I’m brand new here and don’t want to be seen as like monopolizing the conversation or adding my two cents but I almost feel like this sub is FLS - Female life strategy. So many wonderful queens on here are just rocking out on life- killing their careers, buying houses, new cars, rocking hobbies. And are absolutely happy being single and aren’t really even looking to be in a relationship. So like I totally understand how this sub helps queens looking to navigate the dating world. But so many of t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:50 AM
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I think people know their porn kinks are weird and unsettling and they just want the internet to be an echo chamber of porn addicted people saying “your daddy fucking his step daughter porn proclivity isn’t weird it’s just kinky”. Let’s not forget you can find support for anything on the internet. Suicidal? We have people who will tell you the most pain free way to do it. Eating disorder? Here’s some thinspo to keep you purging. Think it’s ok for family members to fuck? We’ll call it kinky and s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:39 AM
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Newbie here as well but unfortunately and embarrassingly I’ve been around the block more times then I wish to remember and if I learned one thing it’s this- you can NEVER be too vigilant: I think of all the « nice guys » I made exceptions for their minor odd behaviors and have always regretted it. Here’s an example - met a guy I thought was HVM - took me out to dinner, held the door, bought me flowers and then slept with me on the first date. I was uncomfortable with that but wrote that off sayi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:33 AM
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Exactly and I also think the punishments would be firmer - forced castrations and life imprisonments. And there would be much more support for victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:02 AM
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Truth!!! I have been struggling with bulimia for a year and a half and when I opened up to my ex his response was “I expected better from you”. No compassion, no concern. Judgement. I was thinking just today how much lighter my life feels without him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:49 AM
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I’m like you - I was engaged to a LVM at 22 and when the engagement ended I was in a dark place. I felt like since I was single that I had done something wrong and needed to do whatever I could to be in a relationship again to establish my self worth. But a little less then 9 years later and I’m so glad it ended. If I had got married back then I would have been miserable and it would have ended in divorce. I found out recently he just had a kid and is still only working a part time retail job. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:47 AM
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Ah I see the “-“ now my crappy eyesight missed it. And that’s actually a pretty doable savings number I appreciate that! That’s a good goal to work towards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:31 AM
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I think mental health issues would have a more open arena to be safely discussed and treated. None of this “be a man” and push it down and ignore your emotions and mental health and then take your untreated mental illness out on some innocent person. Edit: I also think there would be a decline in pedophilia because we would have a more maternal environment where children are protected and not sexualized as a commodity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:05 AM
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I have a question about the checking account balance- is that good or bad? Just curious - in my early 20’s I was terrible with money and it is one of my big goals I’m currently working on but I live alone and so foot all my own bills and some months I can see myself struggling to keep a balance like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:13 PM
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I’ve noticed Reddit unfortunately seems to be a haven for a lot of these knuckle draggers who spew violences and hatred about women with other knuckle draggers they find here because people in the real world won’t give them the time of day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:22 PM
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Same- I’ve gotten to a place where I couldn’t possibly give less of a crap to the stuff that was marking me a nervous wreck before. I was surrounded by women getting married or having babies simply because they thought that was the only thing that would add value to their lives and it was really disheartening. In quarantine I got to block all of them out and focus on my work and hobbies and have learned so much more about myself. On the flip side all of the LVM/NVM bottom feeders who were just l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:13 PM
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