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| 3 | TIL: iMessages on Mac doesn't BLOCK your blocked contactsThis happened to me too! I don’t understand how this is even possible. It’s jarring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 03:10 PM |
| 14 | Who’s watched Maid on Netflix.It was hard to watch - found it very triggering, but I do highly recommend it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 10:00 AM |
| 2 | PSA -CHILDFREE LADIES AND MOTHERS WHO ARE UNDECIDED/WANT NO MORE KIDS LISTEN UP-MEN TRAP WOMEN WITH KIDS ON PURPOSE TO CLIP YOUR WINGS!!!!!!Disgusting but not surprising. Thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 03:53 PM |
| 200 | Why are there so many stories of shitty men not respecting women’s’ bodily autonomy?I am livid. That poor woman 😰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 11:57 AM |
| 243 | Yes Queen! You deserve more than a $5 date. Swipe to see the scrotes’ responsesWhy the fuck would I spend a ton of time + money getting ready for a “free meal” when I can just buy one for myself and not have to deal with the very real possibility of being assaulted by some scrote? Ugh the delusion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 02:22 PM |
| 57 | (kinda) Red flags for dog ownersHe also walked him the absolute bare minimum and he was part husky so he had a lot of energy. That poor dog. It honestly broke my heart. I used to take him on 5-10km walks as often as I could just so he could get some proper exercise in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 04:11 PM |
| 154 | (kinda) Red flags for dog ownersOmg my ex used to let his dog pee on his balcony because he was too lazy to take him down to the park literally BESIDE the condo building. Don’t get a fucking dog if you’re not going to take full responsibility for it 🙄 He also never bathed him because he said dogs’ fur naturally cleans itself??? Like yes to a point but this dog was literally running around in mud all day. He was filthy and then he let it up on the bed all dirty 🤢😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:59 PM |
| 94 | Do they...do they not know it's an okcupid ad?Men are biologically delusional 🥴😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 12:41 PM |
| 303 | Do they...do they not know it's an okcupid ad?The only thing that chart “proved” to me is that men are pedophiles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 12:18 PM |
| 101 | What are your basic standards that others consider high standards?You do not need to communicate your standards, just simply leave/block and delete if he does not meet them. We do not teach men how to be our man and we certainly do not tell them what we expect - that just gives them ammo on how to play the next woman. If he wanted to, he would. This guy clearly doesn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 04:36 PM |
| 4 | Faking HV behavior at the beginningI feel this! My last ex did the classic bait and switch. I’ve been struggling so hard, trying to figure out what I did wrong and what I could have done differently. But just reading through this thread has been really validating. I don’t even miss him, or who I thought he was, I’m just fucking pissed at him for bamboozling me and at myself for putting up with it longer than I should have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:39 PM |
| 8 | Always trust your gut... it can save your lifeI’m glad you’re okay! But yes, listening to your gut is so important. I’m reading a book right now, The Gift of Fear, and it’s been so insightful. I recommend checking it out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:04 PM |
| 14 | The Bizarre History of Masturbation, Vegetarianism, and CornflakesNot sure about the masturbation thing but to my understanding he never consummated his marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 11:53 AM |
| 33 | If men are so driven by their "biology" and "instinct" then paying for everything for a woman should be no problem at all.mic drop | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 07:25 PM |
| 10 | What are your dealbreakers in terms of looks?Ain’t that the truth. My morbidly obese ex only showered every 2-3 days, never washed or moisturized his face, refused to keep his beard trimmed/looking tidy, and of course had trouble getting/staying hard. I’m embarrassed I let him even touch me. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 02:33 PM |
| 11 | What to do when a man mansplains 😂She reminds me of Zoey Dechanel! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:53 PM |
| 20 | FDS must be an Eye Doctor, because I'm now seeing that most dudes are NOT AttractiveHAHA accurate 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | FDS must be an Eye Doctor, because I'm now seeing that most dudes are NOT AttractiveHAHA accurate 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:52 PM |
| 1 | FDS must be an Eye Doctor, because I'm now seeing that most dudes are NOT AttractiveHAHA accurate 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:52 PM |
| 22 | High Value Dates OnlyI follow her on Instagram (love her videos!) and was laughing at some of the comments on this. The “a walk date is cute, get over yourself” women and the “you’re high maintenance/enjoy being single” men - they really do tell on themselves, don’t they 😂 she’s not high maintenance honey, you’re just low effort 😘 die mad scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 11:23 AM |
| 5 | How would anyone consider these red flags?Yes, this. Came here to say this. Get another account if you want to cross-post Tiktoks but don’t use your personal account that has your name + picture attached. Stay safe sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 12:31 PM |
| 4 | This absolute winner trying to convince me why I need to continue hooking up with him. Also...he was not good in bed.Don’t beat yourself up about it sis. Lesson learned. Have you read the handbook? Lots of great info in there for why we wait ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:43 PM |
| 51 | Well...He hit the C-spot certainly.Seriously I feel SO uncomfortable right now 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:36 PM |
| 84 | Well...He hit the C-spot certainly.Hey Siri how do I delete someone else’s post? 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 79 | Please google your name and “opt out” of these background check websites that make it easier for men to stalk you.It’s so scary they’re allowed to do this without our permission! Women’s safety is never considered. 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:21 PM |
| 20 | This absolute winner trying to convince me why I need to continue hooking up with him. Also...he was not good in bed.This is why we don’t hook up with men until we have a commitment from them and feel ready to share that intimacy. He’s butthurt because he feels entitled to your body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:19 PM |
| 27 | "I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂I literally GASPED then died of laughter 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:53 AM |
| 260 | Second self aware man I've seen in that thread. And all the angry scrotes downvoted himI don’t necessarily mean perfectly tailored clothing - just something that isn’t 4 sizes too big, full of holes, or clearly something his mom or ex gifted him for Christmas seven years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 09:24 PM |
| 599 | Second self aware man I've seen in that thread. And all the angry scrotes downvoted him“Wow he wears clothes that fit him and showers more than once a week, what a catch!” * swoon *🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 09:18 PM |
| 4 | Can we redefine sex to include the female orgasm?Absolutely!!! I’m NEVER putting up with less than that again. I’m embarrassed that I was ever “okay” with it, but alas I was a cool girl PickMeisha 🤡 “as long as you’re enjoying yourself babe that’s all that matters xx” 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Can we redefine sex to include the female orgasm?I used to say “it’s okay, I can’t get off from PIV sex anyway” 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 12:17 PM |
| 9 | Can we redefine sex to include the female orgasm?Same sis 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 12:16 PM |
| 249 | Discussion: why do men think they can bring nothing to the table and still be valued? Why should we value a man who offers NOTHING?All these men have to offer is the audacity 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 11:16 PM |
| 2 | How to let go of the anger and disappointment?I could have written this. Currently working through those exact same feelings of bitterness and resentment toward my ex but especially at myself. I can’t fucking believe I put up with something like this—again. I truly thought I had a good one...but fuck did he ever bamboozle me. He was so great at first, but soon became complacent, low effort and took me for granted. Thinking back, there were multiple instances that just didn’t feel right; I should have listened to my gut. What’s worse is, I w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:54 AM |
| 5 | Any tips on how to deal with mensplaining?FUCK. YES. Saving these responses for later. Perfection. chef’s kiss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:59 PM |
| 12 | Pick me makes sure to give her credit card to her boyfriend so it can look like he payed. I hate this.Oh my god my ex used to make me give him my card so “he could pay” and he wouldn’t have to be embarrassed about not being able to afford it himself. I can’t believe I enabled this 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 01:52 PM |
| 34 | Remember ladiesI just say “yes.” You’re really beautiful. Yes. You have great style. Yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 11:51 AM |
| 34 | Oh, So I’m Distant And Emotionally Abusive For Several Years, And All Of A Sudden I’m Not Good Enough For You Anymore?My body tensed up reading this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 12:05 PM |
| 8 | The first time a new guy takes 24H+ to text, call, or reach out in any form? Don't bother acting chill, move on.Needed this reminder today. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:11 AM |
| 4 | The friend zone doesn't existGood point! Thanks for sharing. Hope you’re having a good day sis! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 05:32 PM |
| 15 | The friend zone doesn't existSure, but I think he worked it into the rest of his skit nicely and it’s no harm in getting the message out to a broader audience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 11:32 AM |
| 33 | Recognizing Red Pill Strategies So You Can BLOCK AND DELETEThank you for sharing! Super helpful information. Saving for later!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 07:27 PM |
| 18 | Should we split the bill?Please read the handbook sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 02:29 AM |
| 318 | This needs to be an actual song I can blast in my car. 👑HERE FOR THIS ENERGY + NEW GENERATION OF QUEENS 😍🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 11:17 PM |
| 49 | Why you should never give a "nice guy" the slightest chanceFor real. My EX was a NiCe GuY who I decided to give a chance thinking he’d treat me better than average because he should be honoured to have a chance with me. No. He still went DAYS without texting me, talked to another woman behind my back, basically refused to give me any compliments (he said they lose value if you say them too much - but never gave any), and never got me any gifts (he also forgot our one year anniversary!). I can’t believe I ever put up with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 07:21 PM |
| 29 | LVM interactions with your pets that set off alarms?If a man doesn’t like cats, I take it as a sign that he dislikes things he can’t control. Run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 02:18 PM |
| 3 | TELL YO DADDY WE DON'T CARE!!! I remember seeing this show a few years back and really really wanting to high five this boss babes!!Literally got chills!!! WHAT A QUEEN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 08:21 PM |
| 85 | One time a man I was dating sent me this “joke” so I blocked him. Did I save my own life? Potentially.I read someone explain it as men can’t/won’t fully appreciate women’s experiences so the joke needs to be explained to them, thus rendering it “unfunny.” Women are fucking hilarious—way more so than men are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 01:30 PM |
| 58 | She is right, society pushes us to give “nice guys” a chance even if we are not attracted to themLiterally my ex 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:15 PM |
| 7 | Why have I never heard about this woman until now? She helped 600 women get out of forced/abusive marriages before divorce was an option!Love her!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 02:04 AM |
| 39 | Pushing buttons on purposeMy ex used to “patty flip” (yes, flip up my breasts) all. the. time. I hated it with a passion. At first, I asked him to please not. Then, I got a bit more frustrated. Finally, I flipped the fuck out. “STOP FUCKING DOING THIS” and somehow I was the asshole, even though he was the one continually pushing that boundary after I told him I didn’t like it. Fuck him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 11:51 PM |
| 9 | Being single is not an insultI want to be her best friend 🤩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | GrowthAmen sis! Ignoring the red flags because you want to see the good in people will undoubtedly cost you later. Proud of you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:50 PM |
| 1 | I just joined and you guys have increased my quality of life tenfold. Thank you.Welcome, sis ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:49 PM |
| 3 | My daughter bought this recently and I just had to share it.SAME sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:41 PM |
| 64 | Save time: Picture-based vetting on OLDIt’s a way for them to hide their ugliness and deter you from making a comment on their appearance. “Of course I look bad, I was making a stupid face durhurhur” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 08:53 PM |
| 55 | OLD Safety: photos you useGreat tip! Thanks for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 08:48 PM |
| 23 | Negging because your pretty 💀Reading this now! So insightful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 02:04 PM |
| 17 | Omg this triggered me. This is such a common interaction I have with men...We are so tired.Ugh I so badly want to memorize this as a clapback should I ever need to use it. It’s perfect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 02:34 AM |
| 57 | Comeback queenThis is gold 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 03:31 PM |
| 7 | Men and general cleanliness/groomingI’m embarrassed to admit my recent ex falls into this category. He’s already overweight (bordering morbidly obese) and after moving in with him (I know), I realized that he doesn’t shower every day (usually every 2-3), he doesn’t wash his face (??), he refuses to keep his facial hair (beard and eyebrows) properly groomed, and I didn’t find his oral hygiene was up to snuff either (and he’s a mouth-breather so I got to really enjoy that one /s) I tried to nicely convince him to do these things, bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | We've seen the bad, what good gifts have you gotten?😍😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 10:36 PM |
| 2 | LVM in disguiseNext time don’t even send the goodbye text. Just block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 10:34 PM |
| 62 | She explains it perfectlyWhat a queen!!! 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 06:02 PM |
| 32 | List of AccomplishmentsI LOVE THIS!!! Levelling up queen!!! 2021 is going to be our year 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 08:31 PM |
| 2 | “Alpha Males” teach men how to be a HVM 🤦🏻♀️Link? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 04:39 AM |
| 1 | I deserve more.Thank you sis. Needed to hear this. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | I deserve more.Yeah, never again 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | I deserve more.💯💯💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:09 PM |
| 1 | I deserve more.🥰❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:08 PM |
| 2 | I deserve more.Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:08 PM |
| 3 | I deserve more.Ugh, looking back, I feel like one of those women on relationships who’s like “he’s perfect except for the when he tries to murder me while we sleep.” 😅 Thank you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:08 PM |
| 2 | I deserve more.Thanks sis !! 🥰💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:01 PM |
| 1 | I deserve more.Thank you ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:01 PM |
| 3 | I deserve more.I won’t ever again!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 10:42 PM |
| 5 | I deserve more.Thank you!! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 10:41 PM |
| 6 | I deserve more.Thanks sis 💕💕 so do you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 09:48 PM |
| 18 | I deserve more.I was heartbroken! I confronted him about it and he assured me it was nothing, so I took his word but I’ve always had a bad feeling about it. I’m not comfortable with that and find it to be disrespectful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 09:40 PM |
| 7 | Ready To Glare take on Instagram model (https://instagram.com/coconutkitty143?igshid=1ha1ctuty1ihh) pandering to PEDOPHILES / HEBEPHILESIs there a full video somewhere? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:23 PM |
| 2 | You don't even have to try to weed them out on OLD, you just breathe at them and they melt into incels mid-conversationI can’t tell you how many times I’ve come across boys like this and god, how fucking cringe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩Oh my god my ex. I had long hair and was tired of it getting in the way, so I chopped it off into a lob with it a little shorter in the back. I even added in a touch of lavender because I thought it was so pretty! I loved my new hair and felt so cute. Then my (ex) boyfriend saw it. “What the fuck did you do to your hair? I hate it. Why would you do that? And the colour? You look like a fucking fairy.” Confidence gone. Mood ruined. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 08:07 PM |
| 6 | Imagine using this many words to tell the entire world you’re shit in bed.That’s a lot of words to say “I suck at sex” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 11:06 PM |
| 9 | This poor woman 😭Wow I am so sorry. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:41 AM |
| 42 | This poor woman 😭YEET OR KEEP 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 10:16 PM |
| 22 | This poor woman 😭💯💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:49 PM |
| 236 | This poor woman 😭In the comments: “He called me a fattie when I recently put weight on, not knowing it was because of the cyst.” Ugh what a fucking asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:32 PM |
| 10 | Half of All Men Have Never Had an STD TestAbsolutely sis. WTF?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 12:56 PM |
| 6 | Because this was being discussed: Expectations from dating, to girlfriend, to fiance, to wifeThanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 10:19 PM |
| 30 | It is not our jobs to make better boyfriends out of bums.Love this 🙌🏻 saving it for when I’m feeling foolish 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 08:57 PM |
| 5 | Advice NeededHey sis! u/eng2fly wrote an awesome post on this about a month ago - she covers strategies on how to find HVM on OLD apps and how to make an awesome profile (in the comments). You can find the post here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 02:01 PM |
| 28 | They hated her because she spoke the truth.Yeah I refuse to do that again. And I actively warn my friends against it. It’s not a good situation to be in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:56 PM |
| 9 | "I like small penises," said NO WOMAN EVER who was actually interviewed for a formal scientific study. Men who insist the “Motion of the Ocean” is better than the size of the ship is scientifically disproven Scrote Cope.I’m the same — any bigger and it hurts for me. I’m perfectly happy with an average sized guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:54 PM |
| 72 | Please please please stay safe out there. Seemingly "nice guys" can be predators. Never feel guilty for setting boundaries or telling people that make you uncomfortable to piss off.I lock my door the second I get inside my house. And I check it again and again and again to make sure it’s actually locked. I am TERRIFIED of this happening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:50 PM |
| 136 | Never disregard FDS advice...I almost double texted a guy but didn'tSis, you’re already fed up with his communication style? He’s not going to change. Just ghost him. You’re clearly not compatible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:45 PM |
| 63 | They hated her because she spoke the truth.This exact thing happened to me once. Met a guy online, chatted for months, fell in love, then met up and... I despised him. Everything about him annoyed me in person. It was the strangest feeling to be in love with someone but also actively hate them?? Broke up with him soon after 😂 never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:39 PM |
| 4 | Piercings, tattoos and unnatural hair colorsThis is why I’m getting my visible tattoos removed. I don’t feel like my current look reflects the woman I’m becoming inside. I consider myself a HVW and I want to look the part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 02:48 PM |
| 16 | What are your top ten-ish requirements for dating?Men who don’t like cats don’t like things they can’t control. Total red flag! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 02:40 PM |
| 63 | Being upfront about wanting a HVMThis. Anything you tell them they’ll use to their advantage to play you. Don’t show your hand sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:52 PM |
| 11 | The NVM FWB that ruined my spring semester messaged me with this after a month of nothing 😕Translation: I’m lonely and realized I’m never going to find anyone (who I deem worthy) to date so I’m coming back to you since you seem to desperate and eager to please me. Do not give this man your time. He does not respect you. He’s treating you like a last choice. Block him sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 12:43 PM |
| 6 | Am I in the wrong???Sounds like he already wanted out and is just using this as an excuse to leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Remember at this time that if he can't listen respectfully to your political views, he doesn't respect you.Thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry you went through it too sis. 😞❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 01:03 PM |
| 35 | Second disappointing man in one week. My major, apparently, is cute.Omg I get this too! It’s so annoying 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 10:18 PM |
| 51 | I was disappointed this OP thought this was sexy, but the first comment said everything I wanted to say. Glad to see smart women on other subs!Ew, what the fuck did I just read? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 10:16 PM |
| 27 | Remember at this time that if he can't listen respectfully to your political views, he doesn't respect you.I cried about this just this morning. My ex and I had very different political beliefs. I had always been headstrong in my views, but after multiple fights, being yelled at, made to feel dumb, I eventually gave in. I echoed his beliefs. I formed some awful opinions on things. I had became the very thing I swore I’d never be. I’m trying to come to terms with the fact that I was bullied into submission, but I’m so embarrassed. I’m not sure if I did it just to keep the peace, or if I truly believed… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 03:05 PM |
| 23 | Lundy is a HVMJust started reading his book! Really interesting stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 11:24 PM |
| 8 | Just LVM ThingsWhere’d you find this picture of my ex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 12:44 PM |
| 6 | If he bothers you about your body hairSeriously! I’m a grown ass woman. I have some body hair. So what? I’m tired of these men with their pedophilic beliefs 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 10:02 PM |
| 23 | LVM is unhappy that his girlfriend isn't 'open minded' enough to do anal and have a threesome involving him and her 'cute friends.' 🤮HAHAHAAH shitdick that’s perfect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 09:41 PM |
| 39 | I cannot believe this 🤮 ladies, men doing ANYTHING to you in your sleep without consent is assault.I am so sorry sis. A similar thing happened to me too. I’ve also woke up to someone whom I trusted having sex with me. So violating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 04:38 PM |
| 101 | The downvotes I get for saying that grabbing you gf's ass and saying you'd like to fuck her isn't foreplay. Guess what? Apparently sex doesn't require foreplay every time! I'll know in ten years when I've had more sex. Honey, I've had more than 10 years of bad sex, that's why I'm saying this 🤣I swear guys think they can just rip their pants off, gesture toward their dick, and expect us to be ready to go 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 04:32 PM |
| 83 | Getting a UTI just reading this 🤢My ex didn’t want to brush his teeth at night. I had to remind him to do it and he’d throw a hissy fit. Fucking nasty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 06:58 PM |
| 18 | Scrotes be scroting: the tale of yet another NVMHe did! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 02:31 PM |
| 176 | Scrotes be scroting: the tale of yet another NVMShe’s all over the place!!11! It’s out of control!1! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 12:39 PM |
| 105 | Scrotes be scroting: the tale of yet another NVMFULL POST TEXT: AITA For Telling My GF To Not Dye Her Hair, And Getting Angry When She Did? READ , I KNOW THE TITLE SOUNDS BAD. This has really been bugging me, so here we go. Throwaway and all fake names btw. So Sarah (24F) , my (25M) girlfriend (now ex I guess) had always had these random... 'style changes' I guess? Like one day she'd wear skirts, or a simple dress shirt and the next she's wearing shorts and crop tops, halter tops, tank tops etc. so her style changes a lot. It bothered me, sin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 12:26 PM |
| 8 | Throw the whole man away! 🤮This is as bad as men not wanting to wash their ass because it’s “gay” 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 02:01 AM |
| 8 | Last few months I’ve been going around with an attitude of “well, if a man can do it, it can’t be that hard, I bet I can do it too” and ladies I have yet to be wrongHAHA YES QUEEN 🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 01:28 PM |
| 14 | What to do about my gamer boyfriendExactly. My MAILMAN is nice. Doesn’t mean I should date him 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 12:17 PM |
| 8 | Is it just me or are guys more eager than ever to meet up without even a conversation first?Seriously! He couldn’t muster up more than a “hey”? So low effort. NEXT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 12:15 PM |
| 5 | Is it just me or are guys more eager than ever to meet up without even a conversation first?HAHAH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 12:15 PM |
| 15 | Last few months I’ve been going around with an attitude of “well, if a man can do it, it can’t be that hard, I bet I can do it too” and ladies I have yet to be wrongDid we date the same guy? Damn. What is up with these scrotes? 🙄😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 12:06 PM |
| 11 | Last few months I’ve been going around with an attitude of “well, if a man can do it, it can’t be that hard, I bet I can do it too” and ladies I have yet to be wrongNot OP but for me: building furniture (hidden cat litter in a cabinet with a swing door), changing a tire, fixing my broken vacuum (had to take it all apart, replace a bit, and rebuild), regrouting the floor, mowing the lawn, installing curtains... I could go on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 12:02 PM |
| 50 | Last few months I’ve been going around with an attitude of “well, if a man can do it, it can’t be that hard, I bet I can do it too” and ladies I have yet to be wrongFor real! When my ex and I lived together, it would be ME changing the lightbulbs, fixing the vacuum, hanging pictures, building the (IKEA) furniture. I even built a hidden litter box with a cabinet and swing door. What was he doing? Playing video games. He said he couldn’t help because he “didn’t know how to do those things”... as if I came into this world with the knowledge to rebuild a vacuum. It’s called the internet, dumbass. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 11:59 AM |
| 13 | I’m tired of this narrative that women live life on “easy mode.” Imagine being so narrow-minded that you think that women getting free drinks and movies means the patriarchy no longer existsYou nailed it sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 11:52 AM |
| 8 | Whats with men feigning weird eye health issues to excuse their bad behaviour?Omg 😂🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 02:19 AM |
| 22 | You've got to be kidding me. This is just unacceptable.Wow what a piece of trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 06:17 PM |
| 115 | Forever girlfriend-turned-wife’s unfaithful scrote of a husband demands empathy for wanting to cheat more.What the fuck is wrong with men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 02:33 PM |
| 29 | Woman is amazed and horrified at how many men “stealth” or try to slip inside without a condom during casual sex. This is what happens when you don’t tell women the truth about the unequal risks and abhorrent behavior of men during hookups.This is the correct response 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 05:57 PM |
| 47 | Woman is amazed and horrified at how many men “stealth” or try to slip inside without a condom during casual sex. This is what happens when you don’t tell women the truth about the unequal risks and abhorrent behavior of men during hookups.I’ve had a little bitch boy do this to me before. Started with a condom on, then snuck it off while changing positions (in the dark). I could immediately tell and called him out on it, but he told me it wasn’t a big deal and proceeded to choke me (?!?). I wish I had enough self respect to just get up and leave then, but my pick-me ass stayed and continued casually seeing him. Yeesh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 05:35 PM |
| 16 | Sis, you can’t make this up.Big OOF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 05:30 PM |
| 43 | Men age like rotten food 🤢What’s worse is, those are the pics they CHOSE to show off because they think they look best in those ones hahahah imagine what they look like IRL 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:37 AM |
| 18 | Men are less likely to wear masks because it's a sign of "weakness." Meaning, it's a sign of a weak ego.“Fellas, is it gay to help curb the spread of a devastating viral pandemic and protect vulnerable people from literally dying?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 12:52 PM |
| 20 | Do you even lift? Yeah bro, I doMy friend has received similar messages. I guess these scrotes get self conscious that she can outlift them. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 12:42 PM |
| 13 | Online dating strategy to find a HVMThese are great! Thanks for taking the time to research and write this up 💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 12:33 PM |
| 8 | Focus on making your body feel good, not on how it looksLove this! You’re so right, sis 🙌🏻 thanks for sharing 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 12:27 PM |
| 54 | What was your turning point to follow FDS?I had just gotten out of a relationship with a NVM, was browsing reddit and FDS came up as a suggested subreddit. I checked it out and it was like a lightbulb went off in my head; this place was exactly what I needed (and still is!) — just wish I found it before I wasted 5.5 years with that scrote 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 12:25 PM |
| 29 | 5 ways to spot emotional immaturity“I’m not so good at spending time on my own.” (Insecurity) “I don’t really remember much about my childhood.” (Ignorance) “I’ve never really thought about that before.” (Close-mindedness) “Everything is pretty good. All is fine, all is fine.” (Irrational optimism) “That’s just a load of psychobabble.” (Denial) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 12:13 AM |
| 12 | GiGi Engle, who we’ve called out here multiple times for giving absolutely harmful anti-woman bad sex advice, has written for almost every single major magazine imaginable. Why is this horrible woman allowed to speak for and to us like this?Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 07:36 PM |
| 30 | DATE PARTNERS, NOT PROJECTS 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 01:26 PM |
| 6 | On today’s episode of why are men™It was probably his lazy ass 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 07:53 PM |
| 20 | .....Pickmeishas evolvingreminds me of this lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 06:28 PM |
| 7 | Men truly think that women’s trauma is funny so my queens DO NOT EVER trust a man with your trauma, men are actually incapable of empathy for women. Men don't perceive women's humanity because they lack it themselves.This is why we should have a solid group of sisters to lean on for this type of support! Men just can’t be bothered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 01:02 PM |
| 6 | Isn’t it sad how basic human decency can make a guy more attractive??Seriously! It seems all a guy has to do to be considered attractive is shower on a semi regular basis, wear some clean clothes and brush his hair/teeth. “oOoOoH mY LiFe iS sO hARD” 🙄 Cry me a fucking river. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 12:56 PM |
| 12 | Ladies, what does FDS think of men who are into gaming?Don’t date gamers. It’s a childish hobby. My ex had a video game addiction. He would spend the majority of his time and money on them. He would get so angry he would verbally take it out on me and physically on my furniture (he broke a chair I had bought, which I made him pay me back for). He also insisted on me having dinner ready for him exactly at 6, so he could be online at 7 to “game with the boys.” It ruined our relationship. It wasn’t the only thing, but it was a big thing. Don’t date gam… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:37 PM |
| 11 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?I’ve definitely been distant recently just to gauge whether or not he feels like chasing me again. He’s gotten complacent. He needs to be reminded he doesn’t have me wrapped around his finger and I don’t come at his every beck and call. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 10:04 PM |
| 2 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?Thank you so much!!! 💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:59 PM |
| 17 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?I think it’s more that historically, I’ve been the one to reach out first and more often than not, he just doesn’t reply (or replies much, much later) meanwhile he’s on Instagram, posting stories, watching mine, etc. I’ve stopped making that initial effort because it breaks my heart when I don’t hear back from him. I’ve even told him I’ve loved him before and he left me on read. So yeah, maybe I’m not holding up my end of the bargain currently, but I feel like I have put in more than enough effo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:44 PM |
| 3 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?You’re so right. Thank you. Should I have this conversation via text or in person? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:29 PM |
| 13 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?I didn’t think I was being unreasonable! That seems like such basic, low effort thing someone can do to show they care. It takes 30 seconds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:53 PM |
| 3 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?For sure! I try to frame things with “I feel” statements so he doesn’t feel like he’s being criticized and needs to be defensive. Honestly, whenever I bring things up he’s super understanding and says the right things... but actions speak louder than words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:52 PM |
| 3 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?Thanks for the reminder! I’ve been practicing my meditation, doing 9Round workouts, training for a 5K, learning to cook new recipes, watching TV, FaceTiming with friends... but there’s definitely so much more I could be doing, like reading more and learning a new language. I’ll just keep distracting myself, focusing on myself and levelling up! Whether he comes around or not, I’ll be in a better place. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:50 PM |
| 11 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?I like that! I’m going to give that a go. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:18 PM |
| 11 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?No he’s not working at all (except for some passionate projects) since his business is not essential. If he can’t even make the effort now, how can I expect him to once he’s busy again? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:09 PM |
| 2 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:08 PM |
| 3 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?I honestly don’t think he’s even noticed that I’ve been distant. He’s probably thinking, “great, she isn’t being as needy anymore. She finally gets it.” 😒 He calls or FaceTimes a few times per week, which I suppose is better than nothing. But I’d still like more. I don’t feel loved or appreciated when I don’t hear from him and I’ve told him this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:08 PM |
| 21 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?In my past, I’ve been loyal to a fault and stayed in relationships far past their expiry date. After leaving my last relationship, I promised I wouldn’t put up with any BS again. This one was loads better - and I truly thought he had potential - until now. I’m beyond frustrated and because of that, I feel like I’m done. And once I make up my mind about something, it’s hard to go back. In fact, I’ve already grieved this relationship. I’m over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:05 PM |
| 14 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?You’re so right. I don’t know why I’m putting up with this. I deserve so much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:03 PM |
| 7 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?I’ve explained to him I have an anxious attachment style. It’s not great, but it’s something I’m working on and the reality of my current situation. I explained to him my thought process and how when I don’t hear from him, my brain convinces me that he hates me and doesn’t want to be with me. I said some more communication would really help with that. Like he’ll ignore a good morning text but then watch my Instagram stories. So I know he’s seen it. Omg I’m getting angry just writing this out 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:02 PM |
| 33 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?I have been distancing myself over the past few days — mostly for my own sanity! I haven’t reached out, am taking my time texting back and being succinct with my messages. He did FaceTime me last night (while I was cooking dinner so I was a little distracted), but I told him I’d talk to him later. I decided to not text him, wondering if he’d reach out. It’s now 3 pm and I haven’t heard shit from him all day. I’m so frustrated right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 07:02 PM |
| 79 | Is it a bad idea to send your long term partner sexy videos and pictures?You don’t get anything out of it. And even if he seems like a “nice guy” now, doesn’t mean he will be if/when you break up. Never send a man nudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 02:59 PM |
| 10 | Girl Wash Your Face Book - Pick Me behaviourThis has been sitting on my bookshelf for several months now. Guess I made the right decision to not read it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 12:16 PM |
| 10 | I'm either done to the point where I don't care. Or I'm angry and saltyI’m so sorry sis. I’ve been there too. Just know the trash took itself out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 12:01 PM |
| 61 | LVM caught in the wild.What absolute trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 09:06 PM |
| 19 | The comments were like “he did what she asked, what’s the problem?” 🙄🙄🙄Seriously. She needs to throw the whole damn man away! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 03:01 PM |
| 8 | Imagine dating a guy this useless?? YIKESI love that she’s like proud of this 😂😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 04:08 PM |
| 35 | It’s the little thingsYou’re so right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 01:13 PM |
| 12 | Men tend to reduce in risk taking behavior when they get girlfriends..Lucky us 🥰 /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 12:39 PM |
| 22 | Men complain about how women use too much toilet paper. Yet you hold your genitals when you pee and some of you don’t even wash your hands afterwards🤢 I’ve legit seen guys write on Reddit ‘iTs bCus mY dIcK iS cLeAN’ lol no it ain’t....HOLDUP. You’re telling me these scrotes dip their toilet paper in their dirty shit water to clean their asses? Ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 12:34 PM |
| 145 | It’s the little thingsHow is it that so many men struggle to manage their time effectively? How hard is it to stick to a fucking schedule? WHY WOULD YOU START WORKING OUT 15 MINUTES BEFORE YOU MADE PLANS WITH SOMEONE??? sorry, not bitter about this 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 12:32 PM |
| 20 | Men complain about how women use too much toilet paper. Yet you hold your genitals when you pee and some of you don’t even wash your hands afterwards🤢 I’ve legit seen guys write on Reddit ‘iTs bCus mY dIcK iS cLeAN’ lol no it ain’t....Wait, what? Like in the toilet water? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 12:27 PM |
| 53 | God I love this! I hate mornings and men that expect you to wait on them hand and foot....sorry if it's a repost. I'm just so tired of being expected to be happy and functioning in the morning....mornings are stupid.My ex used to wake me up to tell me to make coffee. Pardon me? You were up first, you make it 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 12:33 AM |
| 16 | Guy on TinderI wouldn’t classify it as a classic neg but it’s essentially one. By saying “you are my prettiest match so far,” it acts as a compliment whilst also making her feel insecure — she’ll have to continually prove her worth to him and fight for his attraction. It doesn’t sit right with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 07:09 PM |
| 7 | The moment you show interest in return, they don’t want you. What’s the psychology behind this? I’m so done.Came here to say this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 11:57 AM |
| 59 | Guy on TinderI would have unmatched right after that opening line. That’s essentially a neg - he complimented you whilst also trying to make you feel insecure. NEXT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 11:54 AM |
| 6 | My BF dumped me because I cheated on him, what the fuck?Let’s play spot the bitter scrote. Oh wait, found him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 02:34 PM |
| 83 | Shit like this makes me SO MAD 😡This comment was ON POINT: “So she parents the kids, does most of the chores, does all the mental labour and works full time. So she does a lot more than you. Yet you think you deserve a break? That's pretty pathetic. Why do you think that's okay? Maybe you should swap for a month and live in her shoes. You'd be breaking down after a day. You also need to stop being crappy about your kids. Save the video games for 1-2 nights a week, spend your time with your wife and kids. You're failing right n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 01:57 PM |
| 27 | Are we modern day women dumb and desperate? While it hurts and it’s obviously provocative, I’d agree. Pickme culture.And the fact that they’re continually evolving their strategies is just another reason to NEVER show your hand, don’t tell them what your expectations or rules are, etc. because they’ll just use that as ammo against you and their next victim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 01:39 PM |
| 11 | Not me, a friendThe implication 😏😏🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 12:54 PM |
| 9 | Does this seem like a red flag?Ew ew ew ew ew. This whole conversation has me feeling gross. He reminds me of someone I know (pre-FDS days) who turned out to be a total clingy, possessive, pornsick CREEP. Block him IMMEDIATELY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 12:52 PM |
| 18 | Women are sensitive? But are they?Where is the lie 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 01:08 AM |
| 25 | Men who expect you to "prove" that you are not a gold-diggerI swear this was written about my ex boyfriend 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 06:06 PM |
| 13 | Goals and Desires are NON-NEGOTIABLE!I love this! Thanks for sharing sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 05:05 PM |
| 18 | This dude claims he is 27 years old. What do you think? 🤷🏽♀️If so, that’s a rough 27. I’d say dude is closer to 47. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Realizing your guy is LVM: Guy brings illness home, hides it, infects his gf and is lazyOof. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 01:24 PM |
| 33 | Bf is insecure, because gf’s ex(hvm) still pays all her billsSeriously!!! Money does NOT automatically equal HVM status | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 12:23 AM |
| 26 | At first I hoped this is not real :/HAHAHA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 10:38 PM |
| 186 | At first I hoped this is not real :/This reminds me of a time when I was at home sick and my (now ex) boyfriend asked me to cook him some sausages. I reminded him I wasn’t feeling well and asked if he could do it himself, to which he replied, “it’s not that hard, I don’t know why you can’t do it.” Pardon the fuck me, sir? I’m like “if it’s so easy, why don’t you do it then?” and this man had the audacity to GET MAD AT ME. Should have dumped his ass then. This was not the first time he acted like this either. So glad I finally real… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 10:31 PM |
| 246 | At first I hoped this is not real :/On today’s episode of why are men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 09:47 PM |
| 9 | A post in r/twoxchromosomes to remind you HV men exist at this time.😍🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 08:34 PM |
| 18 | Too hot to handlePlanning to watch this tonight with a glass of wine. Can’t wait! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 07:57 PM |
| 2 | When you exist as a woman on online dating apps. Ladies! Men are a PENNY a dozen! AND THIS IS A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE EASILY REPLACEABLE MEN!Dick is abundant and low value 👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 06:52 PM |
| 35 | Now, how the hell do I reply to this LOLI’d just say “lol” but I’m a dick 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 04:44 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone received hatemail from commenting or posting in this sub?He’s the one who messaged me! Hahah what a fucking loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 01:37 PM |
| 7 | Has anyone received hatemail from commenting or posting in this sub?I got one yesterday! I just laughed and blocked/deleted. I feel like it’s a rite of passage — I’m an official FDSer now. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 01:35 PM |
| 39 | Imagine speaking that badly of women and not even reaching 6ft.That is absolutely heartbreaking. That poor woman. And yeah, unfortunately so common. Ugh. 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 03:19 PM |
| 36 | Anyone else ever have trouble with an extremely persistent guy?It’s because in this type of chasing is romanticized in movies about love. Men are taught that when women say “no” they really mean “not now” and that if they’re tenacious in their pursuit that the woman will eventually accept their date proposal. It also doesn’t help that sometimes women will reluctantly agree to go on a date with a man if he continually asks because there’s so much pressure to “just give him a chance.” 🙄(It also reinforces to them that if they keep harassing us then we’ll even… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 02:54 PM |
| 538 | Just because men wanna fuck you doesn’t mean they like you. Don’t be gullible.Nobody is nicer than a guy who hasn’t fucked you yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 02:30 PM |
| 82 | Imagine speaking that badly of women and not even reaching 6ft.I got angry reading this lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 02:29 PM |
| 239 | Imagine speaking that badly of women and not even reaching 6ft.This man has nothing to offer but the audacity 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 02:11 PM |
| 34 | A boy tried to convince me to break quarantine. I said no, and he blocked me on social media afterwards.Trash took itself out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 05:33 PM |
| 29 | Should I dump him?I don’t think she was implying there was anything wrong with it, but rather pointing out that these models photoshop that out; as such, when these men come across women with larger bottoms IRL - who most likely have stretch marks and cellulite - they’re more likely to be grossed out by it or shame them for it. These models are setting such unrealistic expectations of size/texture/everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 01:43 PM |
| 9 | Call her daddyYes!! Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 09:29 PM |
| 36 | Call her daddyThey’re hella pick me’s! I do think their podcast is entertaining, but I listen from the stance of “here’s what not to do.” They’re trainwrecks 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 08:34 PM |
| 10 | My fiancé threatened to kill me.Seriously this! Do not take this situation lightly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 06:44 PM |
| 20 | My fiancé threatened to kill me.Yes, I would absolutely be worried if I were you. That is not a normal response. I am genuinely concerned for you and your safety. Plus he’s jealous? Leave him, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 05:12 PM |
| 15 | Go out with me?I don’t think dating right now is smart; however, moving forward I would say something along the lines of, “I’m free for dinner Saturday night.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 05:04 PM |
| 10 | If he cannot take care of himself he cannot take care of youMe as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 07:25 PM |
| 16 | How do you get satisfied?The more we engage in casual sex and hook up culture, the less effort men will feel they’re expected to put in. It hurts all of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 02:14 PM |
| 41 | This is what happens when you compromise and date a pornsick man. This guy chose porn over his girlfriend and told her to fuck off and thinks he’s not the asshole.That poor girl :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 02:09 PM |
| 31 | I’m finally actually attracted to a partnerI feel you on this!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 01:17 PM |
| 4 | These damn men 🤦♀️Such an edgelord 🙄😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 05:43 PM |
| 23 | Guy wants to make dinner for first dateThis is such a cute (and safe!) idea! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 02:56 PM |
| 35 | This sums up so much trying to look into their mindset.Fitting 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 02:35 PM |
| 6 | Pay attention to word salad and or arguments that seem to have no solutionNothing bothers me more than people who have a problem for every solution. 😂😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 05:22 PM |
| 17 | Boss level PickmeishaHe’s a man, not a boy - video games aren’t a hobby. What do you do to pass the time? I stay busy with reading, crafts, research, spending time with friends, going to the gym, etc. Definitely no time for video games. I’m busy building myself up; a man should be doing the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 05:04 PM |
| 388 | Man using his girlfriend as a literal sex doll; she’s worried about offending him for not wanting sex 6 TIMES AN EVENING. Ugh.“When I don’t want sex anymore he’ll masturbate in front of me too” WHAT THE FUCK 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 12:57 PM |
| 37 | Ladies, THIS is how men view you when you do wifey shit before they've earned it. Stop embarrassing yourselves with simple bitch nonsense.I have a question. I’m still fairly new into my relationship (3 months) and he’s been incredible so far. He’s been working A LOT lately (and still making time to see me) but the other day he said something to the effect of, “I wish you could stay over at my place so I could see you in the evenings and we could do dinner together.” Now, he didn’t outwardly say it, but I THINK he was implying that I would cook since he would be busy at work. I didn’t acknowledge it and changed the topic of convers… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 01:07 PM |
| 8 | How do I respond to a guy who wants to know how many sexual partners I've had?And then block him 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 07:58 PM |
| 10 | For every woman who thinks she "doesn't deserve" a high value man.Thank you for this 🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 11:27 PM |
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