So I am slowly looking to date again. Starting chatting to one guy when he told me he was 5 months out of a 9 year relationship.

Although I can recognise my previous behavior in his behavior I was barely single 2 months between relationships

I knew that nothing good would come from getting involved with a man in those circumstances.

Previous me would have looked at the good points, but my current self after therapy knows I no longer want 'Fixer uppers'

So I just unmatched and moved on, a red flag is just that... Red. It doesn't change and would I want to spend anymore of my precious free time try to ignore them.

To those queens out there, wondering if your making progress, little changes lead to big ones

Feel free to share your wins here!