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For the sake of argument, yes. I know it's redundant, but what would you do if this subject would come along in the future? My gut says to treat it as a shit test, although keeping her to continue opening to me, while not necessarily accepting whatever she says (keeping frame/setting boundaries).
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:35 AM
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Actually, she said she may be too shy to do it or she would need a lot of alcohol for something like this. And also not anal. Of course, words, but a desire is still there. And I was wondering if it can be overwritten with something else, tied to me. More like exploiting this, without including a second dick in the picture.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:30 AM
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Why do you think mixing sexual tension with comfort is bad? Especially after 2 months of dating. If you're too much of a cold fish, not ok. Been there, did that. Nope. Also, been in the situation of too much comfort aswell. Why not mixing them, which consists the essence of seduction? More like a macro push/pull. In regards to what you said, it may also be some mental masturbation, I admit. But nonetheless, it's good research and here is the (probably) best spot for this type of advices. As far …
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:22 AM
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One more question. If she brings it up in the near future, should I treat it like a shit test? Agree & amplify, then gently setting some boundaries? Keep in mind, the chick I'm talking about I'm currently venting for LTR (not fully convinced yet, although appears to be a decent candidate and although she seems, for now, more convinced than me, of course). The reason I'm asking this is cause I like tying their emotions and tingles fully to me, although she knows I can leave at any time. You can c…
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:09 AM
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I know I don't have to. But what if I want to? Perhaps I like giving good experiences, similar in intensity, but in my own terms.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 10:55 AM
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You got me wrong. We were speaking about fantasies and I digged for it. She didn't say she wants another dick, but that she never did this and one night stands. I also don't say I necessarily believe her, of course. In regards to same desires, do a research on some forums. There are tons of women who would wish, in a unicorn world, to be fucked by 2 guys at once. Also, about respect, I prefer opening her up by myself, then, if needed, establishing some boundaries, from time to time, than having …
/r/askTRP27/09/18 10:42 AM
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And, since covert communication is preferred over overt communication, you state those boundaries in an indirect manner, like indirect dread, don't explicitly mention them, right?
/r/askTRP12/05/18 06:44 PM
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Whenever I'm in a relationship, I always had this approach, of letting her do as she wants, cause she will see the outcome. How to own her without being abusive/insecure/pressuring?
/r/askTRP12/05/18 06:34 PM
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I'd say soft next. Maybe demote to plate if she comes back, but wear a condom. Question: who was the one initiating the breakup between them, in the past? Her or her ex?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 12:50 PM
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Define 'good LTR'.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 07:56 AM
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Comfort test? Depends o what you want from this situation.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:58 PM
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It's not always black or white.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 06:59 PM
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He was overreacting in a bitchy way and subcommunicated weakness as a man in regards to these said boundaries. Best he can do now is admit this and leave her at her own pace. If he still wants to see/spin/fuck her. If not, go pump and dump others and learn to DGAF by having a strong purpose and getting centered, grounded etc.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 03:59 PM
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Just imagine a man that has his shit together and how would he act in this particular situation. Then do that. IMO, I would reach out to her, admit my mistake (only if I'm truly congruent with this), tell her directly that I wanna make up to her, but also telling her that I'm totally ok with her decision to not see me, if that's the case, and her anger levels at this moment. If so, I would say something like 'ok, I understand and you're right. Take your time and, if you change your mind, give me…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 03:23 PM
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Dude, sounds to me that you failed a shit test, then expanded it to a even bigger one (the next day, when she escalated the likes - 3) and now you may wanna show some manliness, if you still wanna see each other. Check out Corey Wayne www.understandingrelationships.com for info on this subject. It helped me in the past.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 03:08 PM
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Thanks!
/r/askTRP22/02/18 04:44 PM
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She texted me last night saying she started liking someone at work and it's mutual and she said she's saying this to me cause she wants to be honest like I was and doesn't want to go on a double road. I called her, teased a little, she was indeed sick, we remain acquaintances. But something inside me tells me that this is a bluff. And she said this cause I was probably speeding up things with that soccer match and in the past days, but kept being a dick on the phone and didn't provide proper log…
/r/askTRP22/02/18 09:10 AM
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Thanks again for all the answers, guys! You truly make this a community, in the truest sense. God bless you.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:58 PM
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Thanks! I thought I was a dick but..thanks again!
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:53 PM
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Called a potential plate, no answer, jerked off, feeling better lol Date planned on Friday, probably night game if no pull, but I suppose she'll reach out this week hmm
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:53 PM
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One more thing. Is it a possibility that I was being a dick to her, when she asked for logistics in the morning? I posted the convo here somewhere. I kind of feel this way and this messes up with my head. Should I give her a call? Wtf is wrong with me
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:33 PM
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Deal. I'm letting her get back to me and, if so, will set logistics towards sex. If this continues, I now know what to do. Fucking estrogen comfort shit. I cannot settle. Not right now. And not like this. Big thanks.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:29 PM
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Major thanks. How to treat her when she writes me back? Will she? I may know the answers, but your view sounds solid and helpful.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:23 PM
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WhatsApp convo - 10:45 am ............. G: - How are you doing, tomcat? :) (she sometimes calls me this way) are we still seeing each other after work? - I let you know from now that I'm feeling cold, I hope I don't give you viruses [silly laughing emo] D: - Brampampam - Yeah, sure, why not (a little different in my language, but same vibe) G: - Why not??? - Really??? - No me jodas [angry emo] (smth she repeats in Spanish, like 'get outta here... ') D: - You hold your nose and hug me and I'll fo…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:15 PM
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But she kept saying after January that she sees each other together and she mentioned me a wedding in april that we should go, she cooked for me, treats me like her king, said after January that age doesn't matter to her, I shit tested her a little, I'm kind of a psychopath with her tbh, I exploit emotions face to face, illicit investment, she knows I can get away with much, I can always find another one and I feel like deep down inside she likes it as well. Can I still treat her only like a pla…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:08 PM
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Met someone? This fast, 2 days? Well, to be fully honest, I'll post the English translation of the WhatsApp convo below (g - her, d - me). I'm sensing I did something wrong along the way, although I cannot fully see what. Keep it mind that her PMS started Saturday and it's probably finishes today. WhatsApp convo - 10:45 am ............. G: - How are you doing, tomcat? :) (she sometimes calls me this way) are we still seeing each other after work? - I let you know from now that I'm feeling cold, …
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:00 PM
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Thank you. It never happened before with this chick. It happened that we made plans several days in advance, then I would have sent her a follow up with even more concrete logistics in the day of the date. It even happened that she arrived at the date place without talking the day before. But, if the only red flag in this situation is my overthinking, I'm more than willing to fix my inner issue.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 04:55 PM
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Yep. She will come back. If not, I have 2 possible plates and some know how on game.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 04:41 PM
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Cold shower. Tks.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:11 PM
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After fucking that chick before NYE, it was a little odd, I thought about her, but not that much to contact her back, after she ditched me. I sure have some stupid hamster myself too..
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:07 PM
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No shit test, nothing? She has to be eager to see me, (almost) regardless of her state! Lol, it sounds different in text than in my head :) Also, you say it has nothing to do with my behavior from the last 3, 4 days, do you?
/r/askTRP21/02/18 02:39 PM
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Agree, but still wanna keep fucking her, without catching too much feelings. Fuck
/r/askTRP21/02/18 02:36 PM
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Edit 2: She texted me now (1h later) an SMS saying that she wrote me on WhatsApp (above) and saying that we cannot meet tonight, cause she really doesn't feel good and tomorrow she may be working from home (corporation benefit, 1/week). Thoughts?
/r/askTRP21/02/18 02:26 PM
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She saw 50 shades 3 at the cinema, although before, when she told me she's going to see the movie, she said that at 1 she laughed a lot etc. I sensed it's bs and treated her like a child. Now she wants to see it together, she basically wants to have the whole picture (all 3 films) and includes me in this. It's like a serious relationship frame with a hidden shit test. Or maybe I'm too egomaniac and the only person I may be jealous on is the main actor from the movie and I don't want to project t…
/r/askTRP17/02/18 01:01 PM
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How did your girl react when watching it with you? I suppose it's your opinion above and not necessarily hers too
/r/askTRP16/02/18 06:59 PM
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Actually, I thought that watching this film represents putting a more BP serious relationship frame on me, along with other shit tests, like Christian Grey that has it all and keeps chasing this woman and yada yada and with me that I have almost all (although I know I can and I will have it all in the future) and doesn't chase like him.. *has it all = aesthetics, resources, pussy
/r/askTRP16/02/18 06:58 PM
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Your solution is in the middle. Shit test her a little bit (reverse script), then tease her, meet her, have fun with her, indulge her in your tremendous personality's sexual side and fuck her brains out, that she'll keep chasing you the next time and so on and so forth.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 09:36 AM
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It may be an ego shit. I admit having a big one
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:56 AM
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So it's not like she's aroused by the main actor and wanna see how the fuck I react. Honestly, the idea of this being a potential shit test annoys me more than if she would truly even fuck the guy from the movie right in front of me. What the fuck is wrong with me
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:56 PM
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Oh so you mean this type of problem... I see My English can be bad, but, in this case, by cuck you mean she can get pregnant by other guy, then claim it's mine? Or she'll try to get pregnant by me? I'm avoiding a kid right now, she sees each other together for a long time, but, to be honest, I may have stayed with her due to the massive ego boots I got, cause I had 2 plates, one broke, one is (let's say) idle now and I did had a break in game (only once per week, night club), but this is also du…
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:39 PM
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Look. I know my frame. It's not an issue with it. What I wanna know is if watching this damn movie with her means I buy a little into her frame or if it's a shit test zone see how I react. Perhaps I was triggered due to my past experience on this, which was odd af in my BP times, when I thought that she was the one (the girl at that moment).
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:28 PM
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Huh?
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:25 PM
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I really am, it's kinda starts to be a LTR, but that doesn't mean I don't have options. Or you say that, because I'm saying I'm RP with her, I'm not? She's the one doing the most chasing, I'm the one that opens new experiences for her.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:22 PM
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I gave her something similar, I have a lot in my head to do, I like this stuff, but I don't wanna do things like this in the future cause I watched some movie with this. Although I can turn this around like a leverage, for her to be even more sexual with me hmm.. I wanna avoid shit test and possible drama
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:14 PM
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What's A&A?
/r/askTRP11/02/18 09:05 PM
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It's going quite well with this chick, I'm being aloof, funny, dominant and feeling great in my skin with her and not only, but I took her to see a movie last night and I left her home with the cab. Since I worked this morning, I didn't fuck her, but after reading some posts here I dunno wtf happened cause I made a link in my head with her ovulation, occurring these days. She was very down last night, but sex would have interfered with my goals and I also was tired. I basically had a beta moment…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 06:18 PM
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Awakened, ty.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 05:57 PM
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Yeah, ok, I understand the alpha-beta paradigm, but how does this translates into a LTR? For example, in my current situation, with a chick higher older than me, at ovulation phase. Do you need to be mostly alpha mode or more alpha than beta, in that period? Is intercourse mandatory? If you're already alpha with a pinch of beta here and there with her, is already fine? Besides developing a sense for it, of course. The ability to provide is important, I know, mostly in terms of emotions, sense of…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 10:54 AM
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I'll talk to him, yes. Establish some boundaries. People tend to lose a bit of respect to you, perhaps, from game perspective, you are qualifying too much to them when helping them with powerful knowledge most of the time. If he won't understand, I'll cut him off too. From my plans, I mean. :)
/r/askTRP12/01/18 12:31 PM
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Yeah, brother, it kinda hurts. But fuck it. One life.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:58 PM
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Yeah, and the problem is, with all the TRP been going on last year, I cut most of my shallow connections and I would rather prefer not having too much friends and only acquaintances, than more friends just for the sake of socializing. It's funny. I cannot relate to them, therefore, when I try to, I feel bad, but when I don't, I feel bad too, cause my brain is signalling that I'm isolating (superficial loneliness). New (meaningful) connections to be made. I'm gonna focus on my mission instead and…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:21 PM
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Fuck. So basically if I want to connect with someone, it's better to find people with same interests, that require not much help, instead of dragging others up
/r/askTRP11/01/18 09:03 AM
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Example: changing the dynamic and the way he speaks to you, apparently out of nowhere (but after complaining hours at you about that girl; now acting like a big head, like 'I know it all' attitude, but not that extreme..yet).
/r/askTRP11/01/18 09:01 AM
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So I'm not nuts. I felt understood. Thank you.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:58 AM
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To be honest, it's a feeling of being afraid to drag someone up, once you already are a little advanced, but, If you don't do it, you'll feel and/or be very lonely at the top. Uhm, help..
/r/askTRP11/01/18 02:21 AM
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Steve-O? What does O stands for
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 03:55 PM
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I agree, but the thing is I kind of depend to his feedback about me to the company that hired me. Since I'm a contractor there (external) , not an intern employee. Wouldn't this approach be risky? Otherwise, I would have done it long time ago. Basically, until now, I did an assistant job for him, making him look good and now it feels like I was too involved or smth.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 05:26 PM
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Just found this video, but feel free to add your completion here too: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JZ5BkOafwYw&t=259s
/r/askTRP11/06/17 10:54 PM
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Solid advice, bro. Thanks.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 11:36 AM
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"Best way to form new social circles is to befriend people you like and introduce them to each other. Take those sporadic one or two guys you know from wherever and invite them out for drinks on a Friday. New social group done." I don't know, don't you have to repeat this 3-4 times in a row? I also imagine that you have to steer some kind of rapport between them as well. Otherwise, the gathering would risk to appear artificial, even though I would be social, value giver and talkative. I wanna av…
/r/askTRP28/05/17 09:11 AM
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UPDATE: Indeed was an ambush. She received some feedback about me from the single girl in my team, which is also the technical lead. We argued, then I had a meeting with my boss. Bottom line, he subtlety told me that these 2 scrum masters women are the bosses and I do have to put up with their shit. But he also appeared to be caring about what I have to say also. Today seems chilly. Depends on how this week is going to end, I'm gonna reach some conclusions. If no improvement until the end of the…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 01:22 PM
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There is a chance. That unprofessional bro actually spoke behind my back several times with scrum masters at lunch. A herb in the truest sense of the word. Or even beta.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 05:50 AM
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Trying to help me? By pointing fingers?
/r/askTRP19/05/17 05:48 AM
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I think it will be very obvious from me, since I already talked with the boss to meet him in the morning. Hopefully before this ambush shit. But my workday starts at 10 am. The meeting is at 11.30. But what's the baddest thing that can happen in an ambush? It's basically a meeting with 2 scrum masters, one of them from another project, apparently none of the 2 bosses involved. Ok, so they exaggerate, but I have witnesses. I'm guessing the boss will also hear my version, too.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 08:11 PM
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If they won't reschedule and indeed it's an ambush, my only hope is to find some clear logical thinking in my bosses mind.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 08:08 PM
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Will give a try, but pretty sure they will say no...
/r/askTRP18/05/17 08:02 PM
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I just spoke with colleagues (men) and confirmed I am ok. Few jokes made here and there, but overall job done, mistakes everyone makes, but this isn't about simple, usual, daily mistakes. 2/5 men confirmed me that I'm being hunted, as it's seen from outside.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 08:00 PM
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Yes. The subject is debatable ('Review meeting'). I don't think I can cancel it.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 07:58 PM
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Want if they don't agree to bring a witness?
/r/askTRP18/05/17 07:07 PM
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Well, in regards of that meeting after 2 months at the workplace, after "harsh verbal kidding" with that chump, when my trial period was over (at 3 months), the boss called me into another meeting, stating that I'm doing a great job, but they were thinking if it's good to keep me or not. He said that he heard that I was making jokes with colleagues and not everyone wants to get in a good mood, sometimes. 'Emotionally dominant' it's the way I reframed his words, when answering to this. After this…
/r/askTRP18/05/17 07:06 PM
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Will I get fired? At this moment, it's all I care about.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 06:40 PM
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How are they going to ambush me? I mean, I may see it, but it sounds so ugly. Only the 2 scrum masters are in the mail invitation as attendees. I have some witnesses, only 1 of them promised to speak off necessarily, so far... What to expect more?
/r/askTRP18/05/17 06:35 PM
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Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 06:18 PM
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I adready have 2 interviews scheduled, one tomorrow morning and the other one Tuesday. My concern is if they can break my contract with this meeting, considering the fact that in the beginning I was 'emotionally dominant'.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 06:18 PM
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Yeah...
/r/askTRP18/05/17 06:16 PM
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No HR in this company. I'm seriously thinking in bringing a co-worker or even the boss I talked to himself.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 06:15 PM
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If it would have been that easy... PS: now she changed the meeting's hour to 11.30. Crucifixion coming soon.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 05:47 PM
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Not that easy, but not extremely hard either. But the last time I was 4-5 months on break, after quitting another job. Now, adding these 9 months, I don't know if recruiters will see a pattern of inconsistency in regards of my experience or not. I don't have a master's degree. Only 5y XP.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 05:45 PM
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Indeed. You should focus on yourself and this, also, includes seduction related skills. But not how rsd or other pickup gurus teach, to put the game on 1st place and assume attraction. Become the attraction. You should be on the 1st place, then other areas within which you're trying to develop skillsets to better yourself and expand your horizon.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 09:00 AM
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Yo. I understand your point and I agree that you can't get pussy by simple exposure to high class social circles. But I'm not talking here by simple exposure. Having strong alliances and more doors open comes with developing strong social skills, but not necessarily in terms of vocabulary or etiquette! And is not a simple instagram photo. It's a LTR declaration on both facebook (social media) and tabloids & newspapers. Did I tell you that the "pick-up line" used by this guy was: "Hey, do you kno…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 07:54 AM
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