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Hmmkey/r/seduction09/07/18 06:25 PM
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Removed: Specific Situation Hmmkey/r/seduction19/03/21 01:38 PM
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Removed: No Beginner Topics/Too BroadHmmkey/r/seduction19/03/21 01:55 PM
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ConversationHmmkey/r/seduction31/05/22 08:16 AM
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My post is about wondering why that doesn’t seem to apply when you meet someone in a class or at a job.
/r/seduction31/05/22 08:53 AM
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So why the whining if you are good.
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:03 PM
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I think so
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:50 PM
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For sure
/r/seduction23/04/22 09:00 PM
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Dont read to much into the examples, think about the concepts behind them. Ignoring it, ridiculing it, not taking it seriously. They all project that you are not emotionally overinvested or easily manipulated and that you have a strong frame
/r/seduction20/04/22 04:27 PM
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I never like straight up asking these things, it Makes something that’s feelings based into a rational thing and people are put on the spot for things they might act differently on when you lead and they just have to go along and let it happen. But you do risk the rejection and the wasted effort and hope though when you don’t straight up ask it. It’s always a tough one
/r/seduction20/04/22 03:48 PM
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There is a thin line in being persistent and harassment and a thin line between a shit test and a rejection. A lot of times we shoot ourselves in the foot, for example when she says I like you as a friend and you die on the inside and thereby just stop making moves and crawl back into your comfort platonic friend zone and you would have gotten her but you just failed the shit test. And other times she is serious and rejects you as a potential partner and you might be persistent and basically jus…
/r/seduction20/04/22 03:12 PM
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Yeah that feeling is the fear of rejection, are you physically escalating during your dates? Holding hands, touching her, grabbing her hand? Sitting close to her etc? If not get familiar with that I think there was something out there called the escalation ladder. With that you can get closes even without any intent in your words. ( I don’t recommend that, but still). When you start escalating pay attention and see for yourself that escalation and showing intent are seen as attractive and turn o…
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:26 AM
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Its inexperience, dumb might be a bit harshly worded. But it’s normal for younger insecure guys to feel Like they own a woman and woman’s sexuality scares them, they want their girlfriend to be a “good girl” but all it does is repress sexuality and gives problems. These “good girls” usually have issues and the sex is also shit 😁
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:18 AM
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How do you know they don’t see you as dating material, whatnot your sticking point exactly ? Do you kiss girls on dates, do you have sex but they end it after? The kiss suggestion was maybe a bit random since I was assuming a certain scenario where you were getting interest but just not closing and thereby eventually friendzoning yourself by not making moves
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:16 AM
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That’s pretty black and white, there is quite a spectrum in between of sexually healthy women.
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:13 AM
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Well you clearly give a fuck hence making a whole topic about it, you can either continue in your playful frame and not let it get rattled by her which would show you have a strong frame and she can’t influence your emotional state, for example : wait till you become 30 and your hormones change and you are begging me for children. Or you just totally ignore it and stack on by just continue the conversation in another direction: I was at place x yesterday blabla happened. Or you call her out in w…
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:12 AM
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Usually people saying their exes were bad people or did things wrong are huge red flags for me.
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:07 AM
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Sounds like intent and kino are missing. So I’d guess you are scared of rejection and therefore don’t state your intent or you do but you do it in a playful way. Work on the rejection. I’d suggest for example when talking keeping eye contact and stating something that she did for example wow I love your passion when you talk about x , that’s very sexy, remain eye contact and pull her in for a kiss.
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:05 AM
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You are worrying about dumb ass shit that isn’t your business and shouldn’t be.
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:00 AM
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Lol what a dumb ass standard to have. I also don’t know if you are 18 or something but nothing beats a sexually experienced and open woman. It’s usually insecure 18 year olds that get threatened by the idea, good luck with all the sexual repression and shame.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:59 AM
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Haha i spent the last years getting decent with women and I just got hired for a 9-7 and was quite wondering how the fuck I am going to manage my dating life
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:54 PM
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Ok bye
/r/seduction13/04/22 07:45 AM
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It keeps the blood in the area
/r/seduction26/03/22 10:05 AM
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I feel like your reply misses some sort of disclaimer where you state that you don’t really care, which makes it clear that you do care. It would look much cooler and fit the persona.
/r/seduction11/02/22 04:19 PM
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Ok you win the victim trophy of the day 🏆 congratulations. On to another day of being a child. ✊🏻
/r/seduction11/02/22 08:57 AM
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Worst thing is always to procrastinate. I’ll do it when I am… I’ll do it when I have.. people do it with everything. With girls they think when they have money and when they have money years later they still have to start at the bottom with basic shit and walk into problems they could have walked into and solved years before while they were broke. Just get on the damn road and start driving towards your goals
/r/seduction11/02/22 08:50 AM
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Go develop a real personality dude
/r/seduction11/02/22 08:45 AM
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You probably dont make authentic connections with them, if you make a woman feel emotions when she is around you, I’d say most of them eventually want to have a relationship
/r/seduction25/10/21 09:01 AM
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Well if you detach from your feelings, in my amateur psychologist opinion, you are so afraid of getting hurt that you care extremely much about it even so much that you detach. So getting more in touch with your feelings would allow you to actually accept rejection, feel what you feel and let it go. It doesn’t mean you have to overthink that’s the other extreme, in the middle I think is feeling it, accepting it, thinking about what could be better (to progress and improve) and let it go and move…
/r/seduction21/10/21 03:58 PM
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Do you want to work on that? I mean it’s handy not to care in getting women (maybe) but there is no happiness after that just emptiness imo.
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:12 AM
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Maybe its some form of detachment to your feelings?
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:23 AM
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It seems like you are moreso trying to convince yourself with your post, your reasoning that he has stds makes no sense. You could have gotten stds from the women you slept with and he could have had safe sex with 200 women and gotten nothing. Don’t be jealous of your friend and if you are unhappy with your situation change it.
/r/seduction17/10/21 08:39 AM
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No worries dude, so many people are virgins around that age and like someone else said most people have no clue what to do sex wise and satisfy a woman and just talk a big game.
/r/seduction30/08/21 02:38 PM
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The problem would be that there is no more incentive to better oneself if everything is just being yourself and not “bad”
/r/seduction19/08/21 09:48 AM
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I think for me it’s not being afraid of other guys, physically and competitively (social) this makes me at ease around other guys and not stress out or put up a front. I’m not in this constant competition with them or uneasy around them. So it’s a self valuing thing a certain amount of self worth combined with a physical security.
/r/seduction18/08/21 08:27 AM
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🤣
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:07 PM
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Ask her how much she benches
/r/seduction14/08/21 04:09 PM
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Tease, turn the dynamics around to where you are giving her good sex instead of receiving sex like a lot of guys do. But it’s a bit of a chicken and egg story, because you need to build up confidence first to do that. I liked Charles black’s books don of desire and dirty talk mastery, because it breaks things up in steps. You’ll see a lot of advice from people that is correct, but if you are super insecure and shy in bed your don’t just tell her she’s a dirty whore and that you are going to fuck…
/r/seduction27/07/21 08:57 AM
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My comment has little to do with actually stopping being emotionally to invested, but keep the conversations fun and spicy, if you are not escalating even over text by setting up a date for example women will lose interest fast.
/r/seduction27/07/21 08:55 AM
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Definitely an interesting insight, to be fair I haven’t met a single woman yet that was into Modeling and was very active on instagram that I would describe as without major Issues. This also sounds like a super immature insecure young girl with emotional issues
/r/seduction19/07/21 01:49 PM
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You are taking out your whole seduction skills out of the equation, your will improve the most probably when you even if it’s not 100% true view this issue as you having bad text game and trying to fix that, analayze and find out what is missing doe them to be enthousiatic to go on a date with you. If you have fun playfull flirting conversation there is literally no reason for them to turn down a date.
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:06 AM
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Id be careful, not invest too much but see what happens and let her invest more than you. Just let her chase you, usually it dies a bit because they were not that much into you anyway and that’s fine it saves a lot of trouble and if she was genuinely interested and the flakes etc had some other reason you can be open to her investing
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:03 AM
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Thats the dumbest shit ever, being authentic and vulnerable is going to get you all the girls, but to make a distinction being a little bitch and telling her things like I need you I can’t sleep without you I am nothing without you please take me back is very different from telling her that you felt abandoned when your dad left you and your mom.
/r/seduction14/07/21 04:15 PM
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Maybe you are disconnecting to protect yourself from Getting hurt, putting up a wall to block your emotions.
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:20 AM
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Amazing man, 3 weeks in and so much experience, action and feedback. Props
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:13 AM
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Our concern, we are a team here
/r/seduction11/07/21 06:14 PM
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Haha the first 2 times!, I know she is no relationship material for me, but even though I date many girls now, the sex was amazing. I’m not willing to break my principles to be with her, so basically I just want to have sex with her and the question for me is since she ended it 2 times, if I still see her, am I just putting aside my ego or really giving away my power. I can def see the toxicity and my opportunistic angle here. But somehow I also feel like if I would Manage to have her as a fuckb…
/r/seduction11/07/21 05:56 PM
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No worries bro, don’t beat yourself up over it too much just try to push yourself a little bit, it will get better with time. The more you keep strong eye contact/ tension and the more you physically escalate like caressing her arms hugging and get closer to each other physically the smaller the step will be for you to go for the kiss. In example if you are sitting next to her and you have placed her hand on your leg and you are caressing her hair or arm and your faces are basically almost touch…
/r/seduction06/07/21 02:56 PM
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What? You are on a reddit called “seduction” its basically about how to make someone want to have sex with you, basically the whole goal of being here is to persuade people to have sex with you.
/r/seduction01/07/21 08:22 AM
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Great post and lots of troubled people that sadly don’t get the point in the comments
/r/seduction19/06/21 08:49 AM
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Think deeply why you are self sabotaging, maybe it’s low self esteem and you don’t see yourself as a guy that deserves success ? Don’t mistake this for being a good guy, I have for a large part of my life thought I wasn’t competitive and I didn’t mind others winning, but in the end I was afraid to compete and lose. Make yourself and your wants and needs your priority, love yourself go for what you want and need.
/r/seduction17/06/21 03:24 PM
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I think You have a wrong perception of alpha, because you mention things like liking arts and puppies as beta characteristics. With your definition of alpha and beta you will get a different answer to your question. Because now the answer would be yes those guys can be good with women, but if you would take my definition of beta which would be something like needy, passive, insecure, emotionally unstable, irresponsible, than the answer would be no, imo next thing would be what does good with wom…
/r/seduction16/06/21 08:12 AM
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I think it’s general good advice for guys that get into chat relations that spend weeks texting and not meeting. I had the same experience I got my routines of texting quite a lot but I started to get results, when I tried to text way less my results plummeted. Now I have re calibrated, and I basically have certain milestones I need to get to which can happen in 5 mins or 3 days of texting.
/r/seduction02/06/21 05:34 PM
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I feel the kiss is just a small step on the escalation ladder, Google that shit if you don’t know it. If you didn’t escalate up until that point and you basically want to skip many steps it will be ackward as hell going from no touching to suddenly a kiss. If you just gradually escalate the touching it will be 0 ackward and just natural. To illustrate, example one is when you are sitting on the other side of the table and have no touching going on and you suddenly want to sit next to her and kis…
/r/seduction01/06/21 04:02 PM
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You are explaining the logistics and why you didn’t make moves. That’s all great I mean for all we know they are legit reasons or they are not that doesn’t change the fact that some girls get turned off fast if there are no moves being made. And her feelings about you don’t care if is your fault or a hurricane preventing you from making moves, its your job to make something happen despite the obstacles.
/r/seduction22/05/21 11:58 PM
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Try to talk emotions and feelings and if you get the i don’t know, Start sharing some of your own first, often they are not comfortable yet opening up or nothing comes up yet, but let’s say you are telling them about how your dad left you as a kid and it made you always want to prove to him that you are worth something and you are honestly sharing often they will open up and share their feelings too and it can surprise you how you can still connect even with superficial young “instagram” people.…
/r/seduction21/03/21 10:42 PM
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I imagine you as Joey from friends now
/r/seduction13/09/18 06:55 PM
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I like to not ask much questions but make statements first. I feel it is adding more (value) than taking value by asking too much questions. Statements usually get the others to share similar experiences or react to it and you can take off from there "Like i was watching this documentary about inmates and it totally made me think of you." or combine it, like "Damn i had a crazy weekend almost got robbed, got hit on by a dude and forgot my moms birthday... how has your weekend been?" its very ran…
/r/seduction13/09/18 06:48 PM
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I just realised i always text a lot before i meet up and it is because i am still scared to meet up with someone i know nothing about, in the sense that i am scared i will have nothing to talk about or don't even like her which comes down to the same. So i text to get to know her a bit and than meet up. I guess i am going to work on that.
/r/seduction13/09/18 06:41 PM
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This could explain a lot of woman that blocked me for fucking with them in the first message lol
/r/seduction13/09/18 06:38 PM
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I second the enter "self improvement mode" I just have a different definition of what it is. While i def agree about the hitting the gym that someone reccomended i feel "self improvement mode is more about inner game. Getting to feel good about who you are as a person, getting a fulfilling positive meaningful life, working on yourself, finding your passion in life, taking care of your family and friends and others around you.. Become a man, a man that can feel good about who he is, unapologetic,…
/r/seduction13/09/18 06:30 PM
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While i def agree about the hitting the gym part, i feel "self improvement mode"( which he definitely has to switch to, i totally agree on that advice) is more about inner game. Getting to feel good about who you are as a person, getting a fulfilling positive meaningful life, working on yourself, finding your passion in life, taking care of your family and friens and others around you.. Become a man These things will also automatically attract woman..
/r/seduction13/09/18 06:27 PM
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I personally always try to get some momentum going before i propose to meet up. I dont just throw it in there after days of not texting. ​
/r/seduction13/09/18 06:11 PM
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You could also read the post and see this as an complementary example of the whole frame he is advocating.. the not chasing the pussy and letting her chase you. The other examples you could take more literally and this example as what it is an example of a time him not chasing the pussy turning out in his favor. That doesnt mean it's advisable to do exactly that in that situation obviously.
/r/seduction13/09/18 06:05 PM
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Hm i guess it depends on the kind of personality you have, i am in no way advanced in my game results and have pretty basic sticking points, but i can totally throw that in congruently and make her even hornier. Maybe it has to do with how dominant you are in the interaction, dnno. Edit i think i can easily pull it of because i am like the least needy guy that is out there. So since i give off that vibe from the start, there is almost no part of her that still thinks she has some power over me w…
/r/seduction13/09/18 05:47 PM
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I was out of the game for a long time, so i have no clue what Rsd has become now. That being said when i first got to know them after the Mystery Method and Style. I instantly discarded the whole dancing monkey Mystery Method and started studying Rsd material. What i really liked and still like is that they focussed a lot on self improvement as opposed to the Mystery Methid where everything felt like a scam, i was at a point rehearsing approaches and learning stupid gimmicks. When i found Rsd it…
/r/seduction13/09/18 05:03 PM
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At a bootcamp i did, they made me do dozens of approaches saying ridiculous things. Like tell the girl or group you are gay, say you have diarrea and ask for the nearest pharmacy, go tel hem your favorite movie is Grace, walk up to them make a 360 and say i am fabulous. Etc etc. Doing these things made me get out of my comfort zone so much that at the end of the night i was literally immune to rejection. So i would suggest something like those things.
/r/seduction13/09/18 04:45 PM
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In my opinion the introverted girls are mainly lower quality than the extroverted ones. Just like with men, when you are a real catch you fix your issues and still go out there same goes for women. If they cant deal with their introvert issues they are lower quality than someone who does. Obv there are some great introverted girls, just saying if there were twin girls with everything the same but one worked out her social anxiety id pick her.
/r/seduction31/08/18 11:10 AM
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Again i get what you are saying, but yet again if someone walks in to a store and wants to buy some nonsense, after people already point out to him that he wants to buy nonsense and it wont benefit him, who are we to decide he cant get the nonsense he wants and thinks he needs.
/r/seduction31/08/18 11:02 AM
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While i agree, i think sometimes people need little steps to feel just enough confidence to make the bigger steps or mindset shifts etc for that reason i sometimes think who am i to decide this guy doesn't need what he is asking for. Maybe faking some social proof will give him just that little boost he needed not to quit improving or whatever and will in the long term get him to the right place and mindset. /incoherent rant
/r/seduction31/08/18 10:47 AM
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I noticed and agree. Sometimes i feel like telling people they are asking the wrong questions and or having the wrong mindset but at other times im just like hey give the guy a bone and tell him what he is asking for, he is an adult
/r/seduction31/08/18 10:06 AM
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I feel like this getting to friendly with other girls advice people are giving is only going to make things worse. It sounds more of an emotional revenge thing and i dont see any good coming from it but a confrontation, which you could also ust have with your girlfriend if you want to talk it over, without first " getting back" at her.
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:36 AM
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Get some dates of Tinder, if all goes well you ge to blow out some backs, if it goes wrong you'll make some friends :D
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:30 AM
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It does help and especially if you are not getting any girls in bed now, why not try to get more social proof?
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:28 AM
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Just do it and see if it works and makes you feel good and don't forget to lose this stepping stone when you get to the next level, to prevent you from becoming a real fraud :D
/r/seduction31/08/18 09:28 AM
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The woman will notice the structure of your friends group where you as it sounds will have low value so yes it will totally block you out. It is the opposite of having high value where girls will notice that your friends listening ad being quiet when you talk for example and or trying to direct most of the talk to you. Than they will accept you as a high value guy, but now if your the butt of the jokes they will automatically accept you as the low value guy. Like i said in my previous post you w…
/r/seduction30/08/18 12:28 PM
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There is probably a lot going on with you that you are not aware of, i'd focus on inner game to try to become more independent and confident. It is very probable that it is not a coincidence that you get picked on in different social groups. Partially it will be the idiots you surround yourself with, but don't underestimate your own share in this. The guys that i know that get picked on all have underlying issues, like for example wanting to be liked so badly, trying to be someone they are obvio…
/r/seduction30/08/18 12:20 PM
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Can't reccommend people enough to read Seneca. And study Stoicism in general.
/r/seduction03/08/18 10:22 AM
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Yeah your being creepy. which means nothing more than that you are being over invested.
/r/seduction03/08/18 10:19 AM
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If you are european and in Brazil, a simple "hey girl" should already get you laid.
/r/seduction03/08/18 10:18 AM
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Jordan Peterson
/r/seduction20/07/18 03:00 PM
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You are young and it is an insecurity, with time you will appreciate just the way you look and when you do, you will radiate that confidence and girls will find you attractive. I think by wondering how you can change your looks you are feeding into the insecurity. Just be well groomed well dressed work out and work on your game. Of course the better you look the more initial attention you will get, but i can assure you you are better off having a non perfect chin and jawline, but some game than …
/r/seduction20/07/18 02:52 PM
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I try to keep it brief and not respond too much when there is already a date set, definitely agree you only have something to lose from there on. But i do make sure to be aware when i get the feeling from her texts that she is starting to feel uncomfortable and needs some comfort to feel its alright. Sometimes when girls get really sexual over text i feel like after they are scared a bit because they feel like expectations are created and they are scared not to live up to it or feel uncomfortabl…
/r/seduction20/07/18 02:45 PM
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I just recently truly realised that the kiss and sex are just really small steps in the progression that we call kino escalation. The second you meet a woman is when this progression starts, you can hug her and hold her hand for a couple of seconds and you are well on your way at step x, or you can say hi with no touch and you are still at step a... when you simply progress the escalation, you will eventually without having any ackward moments! find yourself in a sitatuation where kissing is suc…
/r/seduction20/07/18 02:35 PM
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Analyse the fuck out of everything i guess, maybe videotape it, try it with friends or other puas from reddit or fora and get feedback from them, get some coaching from a pro. There's tons of options.
/r/seduction18/07/18 09:43 AM
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Ok so first accept you are doing shit wrong and what you have been doing up until is not working, take responsibility. You have 2 options. 1. feel like a victim that wants to kill himself, get some encouraging words online, feel like shit, get nowhere and get down some self hating spiral. 2. Take full responsibility for your life actions and results, accept where you are maybe you are at 0 at the moment, who cares. You want improvements otherwise you wouldnt be frustrated. Just decide to go for …
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:33 PM
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Was there any physical escalation?
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:22 PM
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With time You’ll get there, in the mean time i personally would recommend training a martial art like brazilian jiu jitsu or wrestling and Reading About stoicism and taking responsibility for everything in your life, figuring out exactly what You want in life so You can do everything with conviction and lead. These things are imo the fast track to becoming a man from a boy
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:20 PM
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Its horrible, dirty talk in Dutch during sex is even worse
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:12 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:00 PM
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Tell her You are on your period so she can come with You but nothing is going to happen
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:00 PM
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Fix your self sabotaging attitude, if i was a hot chick i wouldnt be attracted to a Guy that thinks like that
/r/seduction17/07/18 11:57 AM
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Sounds really difficult, id try to keep them as friends but less intense. Your Own path in life is fucking important and when You have ambitions and other dont that Will hold You back tremendously as opposed to having Some people around that motivate You and possibly even elevate You to a next level. If You choose to take your own path they might break with You and it can be really hard, but at the same time at your age being “alone” in my opinion Will build character tremendously, by forcing Yo…
/r/seduction17/07/18 11:49 AM
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Seneca’s letters from a stoic
/r/seduction17/07/18 11:31 AM
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Sounds familiar, i was really growing with the pick up when i met my ex, Who was the love of my life and even though i wanted to grow old with her in the back of my mind i kept feeling i should have continued my pua journey of Getting out of my comfort zone and growing as a person. After 8 years we ended it and i am back on my journey again and feel great to be on a Path going up again. That being Said i would never cheat, just make the tough decision if You feel the need to chase other girls an…
/r/seduction17/07/18 11:30 AM
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Sounds like there is something happening in the interactions that You are probably not aware of and that we probably cant figure out from your descriptions.
/r/seduction16/07/18 09:43 AM
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The reason i am second guessing myself is because i want to work on my weaknesses and take my own destiny in my hands, i for some reason still feel uncomfortable using words to show intent and for example dirty talk during sex is a problem too While indeed like you pointed out physically in both cases i am doing it already. Thanks for replying by the way.
/r/seduction09/07/18 09:14 PM
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Balance man. The important things in life like work,purpose, family, finances, social and girls. Sometimes i did well with girls and i was really happy, because the other factors were doing decent to good and at other times i have done great with girls but id still feel empty because some of the other factors were not going so great.
/r/seduction09/07/18 06:30 PM
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That was hypothetical, i train a real sport :) Good luck with playing like you guys are fighters, no real sparring and living the rest of your life saying things like I would have done this and that. Good luck when your reality gets checked and your weird sticky hands nonsense don't work against some drunk idiot that will knock you out.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 03:11 PM
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You are hilarious you shoud do standup Wing chun is total shit, i would prefer ballet to become a better fighter if my options were ballet and Win Chung and i am not even joking.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 02:55 PM
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lol Wing Chun has literally 0 to do with fighting,
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 11:52 AM
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Lol what kind of nonsense is this
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 11:49 AM
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In my experience the best thing would be to cut it off, it sounds weird and unlogical but i compare it with staying in a bad relationship that doesnt really work for some opportunistic reason. Like the sex is still really good, but the rest is just not working out. Maybe you can function like that, but in hind sight these situations will keep me from really going for something new, starting new chapters and progressing in life. For example i needed to cut off my relationship and starting to feel…
/r/seduction29/06/18 11:16 AM
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I do pretty good on tinder, but i feel like a weak bitch for using it instead of opening in the street. Going to work on that, it's also pretty hard to really see the vibe someone gives off on tinder compared to in real life, so lots of time wasting there too. tl;dr : fuck Tinder
/r/seduction29/06/18 11:12 AM
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I think the age difference is crazy, if i talk with girls 10 years younger i already cant take them seriously. Can't blame an old guy for wanting to have sex with a good looking woman though. So in my opinion if you see him as a potential sex partner go for it, but to have an emotional relationship with someone that much older is creepy af.
/r/seduction29/06/18 11:07 AM
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I know shes young but i wouldnt appreciate a girl sending me screenshots of that kind, i need to have trust in a relationship and trust that shes not open to other guys trying to fuck her, i need a woman that deals with that shit on her own without me even having to know about it. Whats the point of showing it to you? So you can go play the alpha male and fight the other guy. I dont like being put in that position its a big turn off for me. Does she want you to have/ start drama with other guys?…
/r/seduction28/06/18 10:29 PM
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Lol this reminds me of a time 10 years ago where i was in bed with a naked girl and i literally lay awake the whole night frozen not doing anything. lmao.
/r/seduction28/06/18 10:06 PM
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I think if you are already massaging her, that shows a lot of intention. unless its your job or something.
/r/seduction28/06/18 09:38 PM
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You come across a bit nerdy, shy, passive and scruffy. Imo I think a picture with some nice clothes like a suit, a picture with friends where you are a bit more dominant, like having your arms over two friends for example, and to have a bit more of a secure look in the pictures like in the one with the girl you look secure. I think with these pictures you are waiting for a random girl that by chance really likes you. I think you wil do fine with decent pictures.
/r/seduction28/06/18 09:14 PM
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I have the same, firt off its not like i totally fixed it yet so take my 2 cents with a grain of salt. But i am seeing improvements. For me the most important thing was letting go of the thought : "This is just the way i am, i am just a low energy guy" because that thought will block the progress. I accepted that i was just a noob in leading conversations and bringing people into emotional states or " manipulating" emotions. I still dont thnk i will ever be one of those dancing monkey puas, but …
/r/seduction28/06/18 09:02 PM
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Thanks, just checked out Todd and im going to check more stuff from him. I'm a low energy guy more with the sarcastic jokes instead of the dancing monkey that never stops talking, i hate clubs and i hate the high energy clowns so would be nice to see some lower energy stuff
/r/seduction14/02/18 04:49 PM
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I have been to one a long time ago, it was a crazy experience one of the craziest of my life. I went so far out of my comfort zone that a whole new reality opened up for me, i think that realisation was life changing. My stretched out comfort zone slowely went back to its old form in the following weeks, so thats that. It was fucking expensive though. So that makes it hard to say yes or no if it were cheaper id 100% reccomend to anyone. So to summarize it can be amazing but its no magic pill tha…
/r/seduction14/02/18 04:04 PM
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Accept where you are at this point, somewhere down there where you obv dont wan to be. If you really accept that, you can only go forward from here. Just like life, the alternative to progressing, working hard for whatever and improving, is death. So might as well go for it. No matter how slow, there will be progress. Take full responsibility for everything bad that yu dont like and think about the option that its totally your own fault that the interactions are not working out, only then can yo…
/r/seduction14/02/18 03:53 PM
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