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Dude, as you get older, you’ll realize that most people don’t know what they are talking about, but on the same token, don’t bash people for it, especially your family. Reading this makes it look like something off of mgtow or some trump subreddit. The best way to handle situations like this is “always be 2 steps ahead of the game you’re having them play”. Just be amused about what they have to say, be happy for them, and if they ask for your opinion, go ahead and chime in.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 08:16 PM
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One thing that has helped me is the idea of: “Don’t compromise yourself for someone who hasn’t respected you” You like the girl, and you know you’ll be a great match for her, but sometimes, people are just too dumb to realize what they have in front of them until it’s gone.
/r/seduction26/12/17 07:53 PM
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Idk, something like, “I usually find selfies annoying but you really pull them off. Keep it up”
/r/seduction26/12/17 07:50 PM
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Missed out on the AMA but just wanted to say thanks and congrats on the family. Engineer, nerdy student and socially anxious guy and the way you articulate things helps me a ton. I hope to throw money your way some day !
/r/seduction08/12/17 05:43 PM
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Dude, you're crazy for breaking it down like this. I appreciate it. I can sit here and lie to you that I wasn't having long back and forth conversations, but I won't, it's true. It's interesting that you say social media is just faux-investment, I'll have to do some personal research on that. I wish I had more to say, but it's late. Again, I appreciate it.
/r/seduction07/11/17 06:18 AM
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So I see what you’re saying, and I appreciate the response but I guess I have to break it down so you can see it from my perspective. I’m not overly invested in this one girl, or any girl, the true story is that this is a reoccurring issue of mine. I get attraction, we exchange social media, she likes and watches all my shit, I dm and get tons of investment (long texts from her, dirty talk, etc) and the girl is “still too busy”. I am on a 10 girl flake dry spell. It obviously has something to do…
/r/seduction06/11/17 08:32 PM
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Na, when you’re asking these interview questions, it’s not to really know what she’s about but about how to can move the interaction forward. Oh, she has to wake up in the morning ? Better take her phone number and try to plan a date. She’s not upto anything right now ? Better take her out right now and go for the kiss. Nuances like that. There’s also sexual ways to ask these questions: it’s hard to explain online, but you can ask these interview questions in a man to woman type of vibe. Have a …
/r/seduction05/11/17 07:13 PM
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Like, you are not really finding a solution to these interactions. Like everything is in the right direction but you still have that slight hesitation step that's keeping you from sealing the deal. A big thing I see is that you are getting positive interactions but no plans on what to do with the girl. Not one mention of you dicussing where is she from, where is she staying at, who is she with, what is she doing tomorrow ? To me it seems like 3 interactions of you playing clown man, and not bein…
/r/seduction05/11/17 02:18 AM
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Tbh almost everyone goes through this, especially after a breakup. I lost some great friends because I thought game was the answer to everything. Tbh, it made me a scumbag at one point where I was borrowing money and not paying it back, showing up late to work, and cheating on my girlfriend who I was in a monogomous relationship with, just because I thought I could charm my way out of everything. And I guess I did, because I no longer have to face those people in my life. At the end of the day, …
/r/seduction04/11/17 06:46 PM
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Cool stuff. I'd say everything is good but you still have to figure out the nuances. From my experience, the good part about being "good enough" is that your friends think you're amazing and that amps up your vibe. The other good part is that girls genuinly like you, but you zigged when you should've zagged, and they really do APPRECIATE that you took a shot. Fuck, they might even say, "hey, I'm not into you but I think you're perfect for my friend" "or you're cute but I'm not interested, we sho…
/r/seduction04/11/17 06:14 PM
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We actually fucked for a while, like I said below, we fucked on the boss's desk. But, I see your point. Fuck yeah, for sure she's trying to use me for the attention. Thanks for the clarity.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 08:19 PM
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Lol, I fucked her. Even fucked her on the boss's office. But I wanted to keep the narrative as pure as possible to see if I can continue fucking her.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 08:18 PM
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Na man, to me, a LTR is one the most beautiful things in the world. But you have to be happy with yourself forst, second do not become dependent on them emotionally (like any girl), and 3rd, just based off divorce rates, you just have to go all in and just write off that it will end eventually. The 3rd point is the most important, you can have a rational paranoia, even a little jealous, but you have to accept the end. Relationships are about the adventure. I'll admit, that I'm not above this yet…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 10:57 AM
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I would just like to say... Right away, write off that this may not work/last. Once you are not outcome dependent, it will make your nerves easier. Second, you can litteratly talk about anything. Don't treat this like a date! I repeat don't treat it like a date! if you were the virgin that I was, havig that mindset just makes you awkward. Treat it like you're just hanging out. A cheat code for having nothing to say is having masculine energy, google how to act masculine. Finally, I would avoid g…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 10:14 AM
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In my experience, talking to women in the day is hard work, but can be done. This won't be a night and day thing, however. You have to set goals and write down reports to show how far you've gotten, serious.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 09:57 AM
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"It's okay baby, whatever he did to you, I'll do to him. I'll make him love me"
/r/askTRP28/08/16 11:51 PM
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How do you know she's still going? Also, put all the gifts, and keepsakes in a box and put them in the garage. You have to desentize yourself from everything that reminds you of her.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 07:47 PM
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Personally, I love them. A lot of heir videos are sound pickup advice. Also being a big philisophical nut, it really speaks to me. I started off with pua with The Manual : What women want, and TRP. But then RSD took my game to he next level. All this reading and personal journals are great, but actually being able to WATCH that you can be a social retard really helped me calm my nerves and not be hurt by rejection. With that being said, I wish they had more dating advice. And I also know some pe…
/r/askTRP28/08/16 04:34 PM
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It's possible actually: Through mutual friends, school, or work. Don't have any of the above? No problem, after you fuck a girl, cuddle wih her, then take her out to eat. Become her friend, and eventually plant the seed of being her friend and be interested in her. All of this is a long term investment, amd is no quick fix, but here you go man. Hope you find the one
/r/askTRP28/08/16 04:23 PM
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As someone mentioned before, Romance Novels are a form of a more socially acceptable media of porn, but for women. When laws are made, mostly by men, to censor PHYSICAL forms of pornography, tnere is an other outlet that you can see when you are shopping for grocieries.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 04:09 PM
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Thanks for the motivational speech. Take care
/r/askTRP28/08/16 07:18 AM
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Haha, yeah for sure, thanks guy, really appreciate the help
/r/askTRP27/08/16 11:40 PM
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Jesus, yeah lol now I see it
/r/askTRP27/08/16 11:39 PM
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Makes sense dude, thanks
/r/askTRP27/08/16 11:39 PM
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Thanks for the insight guy
/r/askTRP27/08/16 11:39 PM
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Sorry, she did actually. Just didn't want to put filler stuff from our conversation into the OP
/r/askTRP27/08/16 06:27 PM
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That makes sense, thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 06:26 PM
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Okay, but that's implying that she had an idea that I was looking for a date when I first met her. To be honest, I think it was a logistics issue because she lives off campus during he weekend. Thanks for the input though
/r/askTRP27/08/16 05:58 PM
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She's been on multiple dates with you. Even wanted to go on a 3rd. She had fun. She's going to like you even more when this other dude fucks up. IF YOU KNOW that you gave it 100% of your trp material, then you'll be fine. Chances of her finding TWO red pillers, slim to none. A girl is lucky to even find one in her life. As long as you're okay wih her seeing other people, you'll be okay. At the end of her day, her emotions will rule over her brain. As far as what you could've done. She seems like…
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:37 PM
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Not ADHD but ADD here, but here is my experience: I'm not as lucky with polarizing personality where I know what I want to talk about. My thoughts are all over the place where I overthink any future interactions that if something doesn't go the way "I planned", it hrows me off and kills the vibe. Just comes down to putting yourself out there and being okay to whatever outcome happens. As for what to do: I'd recommend meditation and just generally studying game, emotions, and technique and be up …
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:16 PM
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I would also add about the first shit test: When she kissed you good bye, on the cheek, you should've grabbed her lightly and pulled her back to give her a real kiss. So howreceptive she was and escalate to a makeout. But from what I can see, she likes you. Only thing you can do is continue what you're doing and let the other guy fuck up the date with her.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:06 PM
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The thing is, I don't want to be that guy who is known on campus as the pick up artist. So yes, there is such a thing as advancing too fast. But for sure, I definetly get what you're saying. Insecure question here though: Game pretty solid then?
/r/askTRP27/08/16 03:48 PM
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I'm 24 and your age as well. Still have 2 years of school and can't relate to these young kids. At the end of the day, sure, I have to dumb myself down, but waaaaay better than eating lunch by yourself. My age never comes up when I'm hitting up 19 and 20 year olds. Here's a trick, actually to turn your insecurity to heir insecurity. You: So wait, how old are you? Her: 20, how about you? You: Ahhh, you're a nice girl, but you're too young for me. Her: lol what? How old are you You: 24 Her: lol wu…
/r/askTRP27/08/16 03:44 PM
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Good point. It's on and off. Depends how many girls I've talked to that day. Just could be he lack of feminine energy
/r/askTRP26/08/16 10:48 PM
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Thanks dude
/r/askTRP26/08/16 10:47 PM
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I am, doing all of the above. Thanks, just wanted to confirm I'm making the right plays. My next move is to say hi and ask how her week has been and leave it at that. Not kino, no compliments. Just be friendly. Ignore her, then have her chase me for my attention. If she chases, I'll reward. I'm just trying to push it as far as I'm allowed to push it. Going to ask her to walk me to my car, maybe take a walk, and kino if things go as planned
/r/askTRP26/08/16 03:59 PM
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For sure, 100% but the back story is that I actually wanted to break up wih her. Then she broke up with me and I feel salty. I just want to reverse the salt. I mean, I want to let her know what she gave up and I don't hink she understands.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 03:52 PM
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It's not even that, it's just the way you handled being vheated on. I got dumped, and I was crushed for about a week. It's been a month later and still think about her. So there you go
/r/askTRP26/08/16 12:10 AM
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Gotcha, yeah, that's fucked. I trust that there wasn't any missing information in between. You're a tough dude
/r/askTRP25/08/16 04:52 PM
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Dude, then that is an insecurity within an insecurity. If you really are over it, then that is something you should be willing to bring up lightly in a conversation. Even joke about it. For example; I have intense acne on my neck and back, I was insecure about it. I better be prepared to get a comment on it, and if not, atleast not hesitate to take my shirt off during sex. That's part of being a man, not giving a fuck. Not to turn the conversation onto me, but the only way I can relate to you is…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:29 PM
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Exactly, win-win. Build connections, introduce friends to other friends. Then those friends have something in common; you. Then they go, "hey, I wonder what he's upto'" and text you to hangout. You then introduce yourself to your friends' friends. This will create a snowball effect, and boom. Everyone knows you.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:47 AM
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Idk man, I take female advice with a grain of salt. Especially after my last break up. In general, women's advice to a guy goes like this: "Just wait, the right one will come to you". NO SHIT! It's easy for you as a woman to say that because you're not the one doing the approaching, it's the guy. How can women justify giving men advice like that? Then my break up happens and desperate to get advice from all over, get advice from female friends, made thigs worse obviously. I go back to what broug…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:40 AM
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I agree. Quality over quantity, but game and life have parrallels where here are paradoxes. If you go for THE girl, and get her, you're left thanking your game, but then if and when you break up, you're being accused of having one-itis. It's a double edged sword, game and trp is.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:34 AM
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Jesus dude, yeah, I think, to a certain extent, if a guy goes too deep into the rabbit hole of trp, any frame breaking will ruin it. That's why I think it's important to be upfront about serious shit like that. Any insecurities you have, or anything you had to go through. Lay it on the table. I had a ltr that ended because apparantly I was too "macho", but in reality, I'm sure it's because I was a jealous freak and didn't let her know from the get go, until it all exploded.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:31 AM
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Okay, so I had a similar experience with an ex and this is how I handled it: Sucks that most people here are not giving you the advice you want. Only the advice you need. But I get it, it's a jungle out there and a girl you actually like is a slut. Who the fuck knows when you're going to run into an other pretty girl you can get along with? But, to turn it into a similar experience and how I handled it. As far as she's told me, she never had anything beyond 1 guy at a time, no trains, but she wa…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 01:02 AM
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Sure man, pm me. Maybe we can set something up...
/r/seduction21/02/16 05:36 AM
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That's good. Just pull out every stops. My advice; pull out everything you've learned and see what works and what doesn't. For future references when dating girls.
/r/seduction08/04/15 11:56 PM
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To add to your part 3 and 4 I would have to say that when you didn't get the girl, it means that your approach didn't work and that the girl didn't neccessarily didn't like you. What that statement means is; if you approached her right, you would have gotten her. Learn from mistakes you may have made.
/r/seduction08/04/15 10:28 PM
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It just means you were interesting to her, but your seduction wasn't enough. She is basically giving you a second chance...
/r/seduction08/04/15 10:24 PM
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I totally understand that you don't want to take someone's seat. Fucking sucks when someone takes my seat in class as well, but if this chick is important, you should take a seat next to her and come out with your intentions right then and there. If you can't do that, then don't do it not because you're shy, but because you don't want to be rude. Anyways, enough about basic etiquette, time to work on your body language. I'm assuming that because you can't spark a conversation with something half…
/r/seduction08/04/15 10:21 PM
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Very good philosophy, however, how can one even start this approach?
/r/seduction04/04/15 05:01 AM
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It wouldn't be too fast as long as you are prepared to have her either say yes or to be told no. If she says no; that means she is not quite comfortable with you just yet. You have to talk to her before class, a bit after class, through texts, etc. and always translating your intentions. Remember; the fact that she said no does not mean a rejection, just means she is not comfortable, however, if she straight up stops talking to you after a few approaches and even tells you to stop, then you have…
/r/seduction04/04/15 04:57 AM
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Politics, racist bullshit, drama, prolonged gossip (celebrities is fine), sad things, things that made her mad, and don't try fixing her problems.
/r/seduction04/04/15 04:54 AM
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You should go to not what you feel comfortable with, but what the girl feels comfortable with. Simply put; keep pushing your intentions until she subtly tells you to slow down or gets uncomfortable. Keep pushing as to not scare her; make her feel comfortable. For example: You said hi to her (She didn't run away) You ask for her phone number (gives in and gives) You walk her to a table in the corner (she follows) You walk her outside where it is less noisy (Continues to follow) You talk about tak…
/r/seduction04/04/15 04:52 AM
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The "let's just be friends" talk just means that she literately sees you as a friend; you got friend-zoned bud. You did not approach her with confidence and did not let your intentions known from the start. On the contrary, if she told you "I can't because (I have a boyfriend/busy/lesbian/etc)" or "I can't but I have a friend I like to introduce you to" then that means you did the right job. This showed that you approached her with confidence and understands and sees that you have charm and does…
/r/seduction04/04/15 04:44 AM
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I am not sure I understand? Of course both men and women can be promiscuous. As mentioned already; social conditioning tells us that Men are praised and Women are seen as less valued. That answers your question; But I am not sure how this applies to any questions or concerns in seduction...?
/r/seduction04/04/15 04:40 AM
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I use the same response or also "I don't care about your boyfriend, I want to know about you" I would use the latter to a stranger rather than the coworker, only because you have to work with the person. The "I didn't know having a boyfriend kept you from having friends" is more of a casual response.
/r/seduction03/04/15 06:03 AM
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Yes, all the time, I'm in a long term relationship and sometimes, I just let my girl take over just because I had a long day. Nothing wrong with it, just make sure there are no misunderstandings and don't let it go for too long.
/r/seduction27/03/15 04:19 AM
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You didn't fuck up anything OP, girl was just busy and was just humoring you by playing with the idea on getting dinner. You can see this by reading "Time and Place?" Girl is coming off of work and she can already picture herself dreading on making the drive (in which she told you that she can't) right after work. Personally, I would have handled it to bring up the topic of dinner and what restaurants are her favorites. I would have told her to come to dinner with me on Saturday (instead of aski…
/r/seduction27/03/15 04:16 AM
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She didn't smile or you didn't smile? If you didn't smile, you should smile next time and walk towards her. That is how you should approach it next time.
/r/seduction27/03/15 04:03 AM
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Just go upto her yourself. You're introduction can be "I've seen you talk to my friend blahblahblah, and couldn't help but notice you, what's your name?" From there, just kick it off. Just open the door for yourself, open the door of opportunity, do not worry about what to talk about. Just introduce yourself, compliment on something she is wearing, have a cool short conversation and tell her you will talk to her later. During your free time, you can come up with stuff to talk about like what her…
/r/seduction27/03/15 04:02 AM
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I agree, I warned OP of the repercussions. Mentioned that he really shouldn't shit where he eats.
/r/seduction26/03/15 12:22 AM
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Something fun I do when I haven't chatted up with the girl, put the blame on her. It always comes to them as a surprise. I like to message them as: Me: "Hey, what's the problem?" Her: "What do you mean?..." Me: "Yeah, you don't call, you don't text anymore, wtf?" Her: "Sorry, I've been really busy, blahblahblah insert excuse here Me: "It's cool, I get it. So what have you been busy with? And you can take it from there, you pretty much just hit it off where you left off. After that, you mention i…
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:56 PM
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Fuck it, there you go. Fat girl ends up boasting that she got laid by the hot guy. This is free advertisement to her friends.
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:52 PM
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To the ones approaching you with a hug, never lose out on those hugs. By that I mean, not only do you receive hugs but also give them out, be the first to give them out. When you do this, make sure you never fall back down to a simple handshake or a simple hello. This is taking a step backwards if you do. Same thing can be said with good night kisses after a date. When you greet them the next time, don't fall back onto hugs, go in for the kiss on the cheek/mouth. Now that we have that cleared ou…
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:49 PM
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It depends guy, are you looking for a quick hookup just to get laid, or are you looking for a relationship and someone that you can fuck in the longrun?
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:41 PM
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To add to what everyone said. Make sure you give open ended questions in order to start conversations. For example: Do: Hey, how's it going? What did you do today? Don't: Hey how was your day? Pretty much one question leads to the possibility of getting a long thought out response. The other, can simply lead to just, "good". Either way, I wouldn't be discouraged. If you still don't see an improvement, try going for the stuff that she is passionate about. What they are, is upto you to find out. I…
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:24 PM
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It's true that existentialism rings true to the concept of inner game, I just wanted to add that philosophy itself stands and rings true to our concept of inner game. Existentialism denies any human nature (IE selfishness, helping one an other, our sexual needs, etc). That being said, the idea insists that we create our own human nature. The bottomline is this; If you can control your hardwired human nature, you can come out ontop. This is what is simply known as "staying cool".
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:20 PM
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Boom, there you go, you should be fine. And even if you already did approach her, doesn't hurt to try again.
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:11 PM
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I can't sit here and lie to you but I will say that my negging game and putting down her bitch shield is not that great. If I approach a bitch, I usually just consider them as a lost cause and move on, but would be interested if someone can lead me to the holy land of neg game.
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:09 PM
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I am OP. Glad I made it a bit more clearly though.
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:05 PM
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Personally, I've never seen him and to be honest, this is the first I have heard of him. I am assuming he is a famous youtube pickup artist? (Assuming this is the case) Personally, I don't check out these types of videos, I find them too situational and a little bit cheesy. I am sure that he gets just as much negative responses than positive responses. Wouldn't be surprised if the ratio of the women he picks up would be the same amount of women that I can pick up, with our respective approaches.…
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:02 PM
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Hey, I'm glad you are acknowledging me. This has been my first time on Seddit and I plan on posting long thought out responses whenever I can.
/r/seduction25/03/15 05:45 PM
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I've read a few articles on game theory and it all boils down to putting yourself in the best situation where you can receive the best and many results.
/r/seduction25/03/15 05:44 PM
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Sure, I'll write up one. (Assuming OP's situation and never introduced himself) Me: Hi, how are you doing? I see you all the time but don't know your name Her: I'm good, my name is Sally Me: Okay awesome, now I know! (smile) I just wanted to say I really like your shoes, where did you get them from? Her: Ohh, it's just something I bought for work at walmart, 20 bucks. Me: Haha, really? They look comfortable for 20 bucks. Her: Yeah, they are actually. (At this point, in real time, I choked up and…
/r/seduction25/03/15 07:23 AM
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Simply because if they are in the group, you want to make everyone in that group feel special. Sure you can just go straight to the hottest one there, and make her feel special that you chose to speak to her, but then you are playing a situation where it is you and the girl with awkward lingering friends on the side. If you approach them all at once, with talking to the unattractive girl first, you will leave everyone smiling and have them all talk about you vs just leaving with 1 girl talking t…
/r/seduction25/03/15 07:05 AM
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Boom, yeah, that's a great approach. Wasn't exactly sure what you meant. I literately thought you meant to spill your whole life about yourself. I've tried this approach before and failed only simply because I have an ADD problem... I can't really follow through with conversations like that, which is why I like to stick to my approach to keep the conversation on their end instead of heavily relying on my witty responses. Hell, by the end of the conversation I have already forgotten their name ha…
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:56 AM
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That shouldn't throw anyone off though. Unless OP already approached her already once and fucked it up.
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:11 AM
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I can see your points, but I believe you are blowing my advice out of proportion. I approach a girl and start talking to her, most guys would tell them their name. I don't...why? If she says "I"m X" that's a indicator of interest that you can use to judge how interested she is. It's a small sign but it helps you get a read. Not necessarily sure what you mean by this statement. When you first meet someone, you have to introduce yourselves to each other. I can agree that it is fine to go on with t…
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:05 AM
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This is in response to the poster that disagreed with my last point and deleted post (not meaning to call you out btw, I just wrote a well thought out response that is too good to just throw out) I can see what you are saying, however, I don't necessarily mean picking up the "least valuable" girl. I mainly mean introducing yourself to that girl first. When asking for names, you can start off with her. An other reason why this approach will most likely work is because, lets say that the girls do …
/r/seduction25/03/15 05:48 AM
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You shouldn't let whether she is at the same hotel or not to stop you, just pull her away. If she shows a little bit concern, assure her that that whatever happens you'll be responsible and to promise her to take her back to the ceremony. There is just one thing; try getting her phone number anyways just because if this is a mutual wedding, chances are you'll run into her again someday and you'll look like a dope and it could get ugly. Also, when/if you return back to the ceremony, don't flirt w…
/r/seduction25/03/15 05:18 AM
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Plus; play it cool. Chances are the friends don't know anything about you and from first looks, they may initially like you because you look smooth. Also, if you do go upto the friends, talk to the fat/ugly chick first.
/r/seduction25/03/15 04:45 AM
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My one night stand game is not too big, but a simple hello always works. Go upto a woman and say, "Hi, I couldn't help but notice you, are you friend's with the bride or the groom?" "Ohh really, im friends with them too" "What's your name?" "My name is blahblahblah" " I was looking across the room and noticed your really nice dress, where did you get it from?" "Ohh cool, I really like it, compliments your blahblahblah very well, I just threw this on so I hope I look good too." Say all this with …
/r/seduction25/03/15 04:11 AM
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Edit: Damn, wrong thread, helping out a few guys at the same time. Will reedit to your situation accordingly, give me a few minutes! Okay, back to your situation. You should not ever go directly to the phone number, always do that at the end of your conversation, I would say, only because if she declines, you can walk away, because hey, it's the end of the conversation. If you ask for it in the middle of the conversation, it just kills your momentum. If you ask for it in the beginning, you just …
/r/seduction25/03/15 04:05 AM
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Whether you are busy or faking that you are busy is never wrong, as long as you play this card every now and then. What I mean by this is that you want to sometimes throw the girls off, by becoming inconsistent from time to time. For example: Pavlov's dog: (Hopefully you know the story and research done, if not, google it to get a better understanding) Pavlov rang his bell everytime he fed his dogs. When dogs get hungry, they salivate. He rang his bell everytime he fed his dogs for a week (or mo…
/r/seduction25/03/15 03:58 AM
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You mention picking up women at the park, concert, event, which is the right idea. I've tried women at the club/bar, all of which were big trouble and very distracting in my life. The biggest mistake guys make, I would say, when picking up women in public is that some women do not want to be disturbed. These are the women who are on the phone, wearing headphones, reading a book, or anything that requires her attention. This is the biggest no no. Other than that, everything is fair game. You see …
/r/seduction25/03/15 03:42 AM
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You obviously know her name; so if you haven't already; greet her with "Hello her name here how are you today? " With a smile on your face. While you are filling out her prescription, make small talk, like how her day was or any other open ended question. Respond with a simple "that's good" and briefly explain your day at the pharmacy (if it was a shitty day, pull back a little and just show your condolences.) If she is biting a little (that is, if she is responding to you cheerfully, or seems h…
/r/seduction25/03/15 03:30 AM
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Depends; are you looking for one night stands or someone to get to know and eventually be able to get a number for the future?
/r/seduction25/03/15 03:20 AM
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Do you know her name? If not, introduce yourself. To me, the number one rule in seduction is; Don't try to make an excuse to talk to her. For example: Don't make up a stupid excuse like you don't know what time it is. Be confident. Even if you are not confident, atleast be more confident than this girl who cannot even make eye contact. When you speak to her, make eye contact and smile. If you already introduced yourself (formally that is), then just compliment on something she is wearing. If she…
/r/seduction25/03/15 03:17 AM
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I don't think that's true. I told her what day i'm free for the date, but that's all I implied.
/r/askTRP
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You're probably right on that. For sure, I didn't make it obvious my intentions when I first met her. So what is something I could've done to kake her realize hat, ohh, he's a guy hat wants to date me? I feel like I did a good job opening her, but got lost somewhere in between...
/r/askTRP
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