It's all in the title. Wanted to know how does one really develop social proof, maintain healthy friendships and truly grow socially no matter the environment.

I understand that a party is different from business but how does one make those connections and keep those connections? I ask because while I have many friends and go out on weekends, I don't have a really following or sort of influence/status. I get that it's built-up over time but how does one maintain it?