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Wasn't knocking your post at all by the way, on the topic of strictly sex and getting laid there is only so much to be said / read before people gotta go out there and actually do shit - which is where most of our subscribers fall short
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 08:27 PM
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As an EC of old (this is the third account, keep gettin redditbanned) it's getting hard to relate. Dating / sex is easy and overrated. It ain't shit, just like money, only sought after and glamorized by people who haven't had their fill - just like the toy you pined for months / years as a kid, but once you got it, a month later it ain't shit. The issue with most people who can't date is that all they do is fucking think, instead of doing - and reading is seldom the cure.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 06:03 PM
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Fucking trade me, when I look into people's eyes by default they usually look away. Impossible to have a conversation
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 04:38 PM
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No such thing as too late - you either get it on your own, or with the help of a painful lesson.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 04:33 PM
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Here's what to do on a date with a girl to never be seen as a boring man! (self.TheRedPill) FTFY / ISHYGDDT. Enjoying yourself is obviously the goal, but this takes it far, FAR too far.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 07:57 PM
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when I know there are people comped there in that role for higher, do I tell them "I'm not sure this particular position is right and would like to be considered for a similar one with a better package."
/r/askTRP20/04/17 05:02 PM
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Is tinder an option provided you live in LA or NYC? If you're hot enough for Tinder, you can slay far better in person. And how can I best frame myself in such a scenario? The best way you can frame yourself in any scenario: as yourself. Any advice trp? Same shit as always: lift, take care of yourself, don't be a bitch.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 09:22 PM
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Also an employer in the field. Follow this advice, OP /u/acoupleyearsred - here's why: Most manager's jobs are two-fold: employee retainment and productivity. Your HR's/Management's interests are the opposite of yours 99% of the time. Their job is to keep you there, working as hard as possible, for as little as possible. was told that getting leadership experience as young as possible is advisable and this seems possible By who - the guy who'll benefit from you pulling your and your coworkers we…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 09:09 PM
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When is enough enough? (self.TheRedPill) Never, hope that helps because my life is awesome.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 05:10 PM
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Yet another shitty imitation of Tinder Select for women who aren't hot enough for it. 10/10
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 11:33 PM
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Worth, +1 for a good nutshell post with original thought in it.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 11:27 PM
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For any of these, you need to be emotionally intelligent This is the real "how to be good with chicks" in a nutshell.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 01:22 PM
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It's ironic how pandering to SJWs is identical to attempting to negotiate attraction, right down to the end result.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 01:14 PM
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I don't think the creature this story is about qualifies as a "dude" or "guy", my man. Holy fuck.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 01:13 PM
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They are more like dangerous temptations that should be kept at arms length. Yeah - so were bears and tigers. Our ancestors killed them with a wood stick so you'd be here. There is a weight and debt to the fact that you & I exist since we did not emerge into this world from another dude making a Reddit post.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 01:05 PM
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Sounds like possible side effects from your meds. Also, take a break man. From the gym, from work, from your entire routine - just for a few days.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 08:32 PM
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Shoot the shit with em and you'll be cool to attend even if you're not in the frat. If they see you as valuable, they will find a way to get you into their group.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 08:27 PM
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You think people dislike you because you appear "too perfect"?
/r/askTRP20/03/17 08:23 PM
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You can't "counter" Tinder being a looks-based platform, it is what it fucking is - a place for attractive people to fuck other attractive people. If you aren't one of these people, do yourself a favor by not wasting any more time on Tinder.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 08:21 PM
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Blows my mind every time I see / read about shit like this being done. Actually threw up in my fucking mouth a little bit while reading this.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 08:17 PM
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Advice #1: Don't do it. It will cost more, take longer, and earn less than you ever hope. Learn to play the corporate game. More revenue, easier life, and you're done at the end of the day. The corporate world is full of professionally incompetent social parasites precisely because this holds true for them. As for everyone who's tangible merit exceeds their willingness to kiss ass, self-employment will work wonders.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 06:05 PM
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shove some trp insight down my throat please. Ready? Here's some super secret dark red inner circle secret that will instantly solve all your problems and make the hottest bitches from every country fly over to your city and collectively book an auditorium to marvel at your phallus: If you want to go, go. If you don't, don't.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 06:02 PM
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Breaking News! You don't need to trust someone to date or fuck them. In Other Breaking News: The Sky Is Blue.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 06:01 PM
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You're either fucking as many chicks as you want, who are as hot as you want - or you aren't, in which case do work. Numbers mean nothing - and something as specific as how many you got from approaching is extremely myopic.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 05:58 PM
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I should be dating multiple girls too, but it's not quite that easy for a guy like me. Well then you best act like it. Your lack of abundance is no excuse to try locking down hers, nor would it go over well. If you want to "keep" chicks like these, don't try to lock them down - it'll never happen, and you'll have wasted a lot of time on just one person. Work hard on improving yourself, you'll notice EVERY person who used to be 'meh' about you will start wanting to hang out with you - and the peo…
/r/askTRP17/03/17 03:47 PM
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Stop lying. I replied to someone else, YOU replied to MY post, attacking it out of nowhere, I even humored your previously retarded reply of implying that the burden of proof is on me, and you STILL failed to provide any fruitful discussion after entering my conversation with another user. Your attempt at framing is shit and you desperately need further practice.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 02:55 AM
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Guy hasn't made a move yet, making it his loss. If he doesn't understand this he'll probably do bitch shit like snitch on you and cause drama down the road anyways, meaning he's more of a liability than a friend. I generally take the side of "bro code" but this situation is pathetic. Fuck the chick, but there is no need to go around telling people of it.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 02:41 AM
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Message only for logistics. In person, ignore their words and observe their actions.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 02:37 AM
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Honey, are you forgetting which gender has started every major war Are you forgetting which gender commits the vast majority of violent crimes? don't know what woman hurt you in the past, but whoever she is, she's not representative of all women. these evil, hissing Medusa-types but they don't represent all women. not unusual for people to project their fears, negativity, and more shadowy traits onto women. Arguments are meant to be countered with arguments - not fallacies, ad hominem bait and t…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 02:29 AM
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Assume this is either a test of my interest or a soft next, I go silent. Good call, sounds like complete and utter disinterest on her part. Question is, where to go from here? Go out and find some new chicks
/r/askTRP15/03/17 03:44 PM
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It exists, and is called passion. If you can figure out how to make money off of shit you love, you won't need discipline. Alas, a corollary: for most people, cultivating discipline is easier than figuring out how to make their passion profitable.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 01:10 PM
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Let's assume your post is the truth. You're at a serious materialistic advantage which you will realize is pointless far too late in life, because you did not make real connections with people whom you cared for, and who cared for you. Even if you can't bring yourself to care for people, choose people who are beneficial to you & simulate the behavior of caring about them - not superficially, but completely, with actions, without boundaries. You'll find it is reciprocated. Choose these people ver…
/r/askTRP15/03/17 01:07 PM
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girls find me "cute" and I have been told that "your future girlfriend/wife is a very lucky girl" unattractive yet of course all of the girls who told me this I'm unattractive end up with an ugly, wide-bodied, fat, dumb, unfunny, loser guy who treats them like shit and who they are following 24/7 so he does not cheat again, I just KNOW that she wanted the other guy to fuck her lights out and wanted to just keep me as a cuddle buddy. Hi everyone, I am /u/whatwasthatcat, my self-image is shit tier…
/r/askTRP15/03/17 01:02 PM
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Backstory is my ex just broke up with me for a second time a month ago You were never together the second time. . (we were back together for over a year) because of something I did. Would you leave someone you liked "because of something they did"? . but I did sleep with my ex wife twice. My ex told my gf out of the blue in a facebook post This is why you never go back to EXs - the sex is never worth it. . gf said she loved me but "had" to do this because of what she found out. Bullshit. You alr…
/r/askTRP15/03/17 12:56 PM
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This is a prime example of why everyone should prioritize what women SAY infinitely below what they DO.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 12:51 PM
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is that the case, or has he run off at the first sign of things getting tough? THIS is what you doubt about someone who's been in an LTR for twice as long as you've been legal? I have to stress the fact that if that's how this guy was, he wouldn't last a year, let alone a decade. I'd have lots of questions if I was OP. Too many, but it's safe to say there is zero doubt that this whole situation is a bad idea for OP.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 12:46 PM
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If things were that bad don't you think he would've left a long time ago? Men will stay in horrifyingly shitty relationships for decades because of scarcity. So will women, once they are no longer attractive and also subject to scarcity. Seems suspicious that another woman had to be the catalyst, don't you think? A better job offer is a good reason to leave a shitty job. If the job wasn't shitty, the offer would've been ignored. So unless OP here intends to not fuck her guy for months on end, ex…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 12:30 PM
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This. If a dude hasn't been single for AT LEAST 3 months, preferably much longer, RED FLAAAAAAAAAAAAG.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 12:26 PM
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If he can leave his long term relationship for another woman, then he can do the same to you. How is that relevant to OP? She did explicitly say "turns out that they had basically zero sex life." Anyone sane will (and should) leave because of this.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 12:25 PM
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Fine, I'll bite. I don't visit RPW to write about shit like this, because that's retarded, but both you & OP did ask. How do you logically prove that women are shittier than men? Because Scholarships, Title 9, "Equal Opportunity", Pay Gap, Feminism and ten billion other "strong wymmyn" female handicaps are so pervasive throughout modern society as to be rendered invisible / reasonable to the average person. Better yet, since this is already proven to women, by women, every day, everywhere, why n…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 11:45 AM
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If you think I'm wrong, feel free to logically point out why.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 09:53 PM
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Which is why I gave it to you. "It was at work" is bullshit reasoning because "IT WAS AT WORK" when this fucker WALKED UP TO YOU TALKING TO SOMEONE AND TOLD YOU TO LEAVE. Again, I wish this shit happened to me.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 08:57 PM
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HE walked up to YOUR conversation and asked YOU to leave ...and you actually fucking did it. In simple terms, you got casually AMOG'd by a chump in front of a chick - and you still need to ask about why she's not talking to you.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 08:53 PM
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Him: I want you to leave You: Too bad. [Resume your conversation with the girl like he's not there] Confrontations like this are basic social mastery 101. We see specific posts about it all the time but you need to be able to assess situations like this and handle them in real-time. Specific hindsight examples are unlikely to help you.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 08:46 PM
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Despite my explanations he still had to give me a verbal warning. In CorporateLand, explanations only lend credence to fault - don't do this again. Set an appointment with your boss, tell him you believe X has it out for you & needs to seek mediation rather than unprofessionally complain. Keep your cool because you are not the issue and she's just fucked herself out of any possible promotions, and likely even merit raises, by creating work / paper trails / problems for your supervisor in hopes t…
/r/askTRP14/03/17 08:26 PM
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Balance. If you do nothing but study and work while managing to NOT burn out, you could get hit by a bus and die having fucked 3 fatties & 300K in student loan debt. Plan for the future without sacrificing too much of the present. If you're not enjoying your life RIGHT NOW, make changes RIGHT NOW.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 08:23 PM
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The fuck you mean, advice? You're free - temporarily or otherwise. Enjoy it.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 08:18 PM
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The writer forgot that anyone worth anything has a manual: if your life ain't better with someone in it, they won't be. I mostly see the same shit from both genders - the desire to "cheat the system" & end up with someone they do not deserve instead of work hard on themselves to be eligible for better partners - it just comes out in different words.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 08:07 PM
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People are shaped by culture. The issue isn't with women, it's with a society that is infinitely more forgiving of women then it is of men. As a result, women are generally shittier people than men - not because they're intrinsically shittier humans, but because like most humans, they tend to end up as rotten and useless as their environment will permit. A girl is lied to about her worth from birth - the special treatment in school, the scholarships, the equal opportunity job welfare. But when i…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 07:50 PM
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That ain't it. Every "LTR" is a good LTR for you, as a guy, if you can do two simple things: (1) know when to cut it off and (2) build it on the facts that sex and loyalty are worth nothing because one is temporary and the other, a myth. Lots of guys seem to have this idea of "settling down" planted in their heads. There's no such thing. If you get a chick and stop doing what you did to get her, she will leave - or cheat - even faster than she otherwise would've. If you get a chick and KEEP doin…
/r/askTRP14/03/17 11:34 AM
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Developing meta-cognition / self-awareness in real-time. It's like a gym for your brain - results take months to show.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 04:58 AM
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If your girl cheats on you, how much of the blame can you put on yourself, realistically? If a bee stings, or a snake bites, you - how much of the blame can you put on yourself, realistically? what defense against cheating do you even have? Getting a newer, hotter, younger girl. Wouldn't it be a given that your girl will always cheat on you eventually? Yes. What is keeping any girl from immediately trading up the second she can Before, it was the culture & the social contracts / shaming / ostrac…
/r/askTRP13/03/17 04:20 AM
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Most importantly, just don't lose your shit and do something to worsen your situation. You'll survive. While you're in, think carefully about whether you want to take this higher up the chain. You probably don't - but, if you know people, ask them in an unofficial capacity - and if they believe they can help, email them in an official one. Gather evidence, wait for your civilian cases to pan out and if those end up well leverage them as evidence too, and then take a look at Form DD293. The Army …
/r/askTRP13/03/17 12:25 AM
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Life's shit? Life's great when you get better sex with hotter women for free while other guys have to slave in a law or medical office and pay out their asshole to get lower quality sex with infinitely more "terms and conditions" attached. This is why there is no substitute for taking care of yourself, having a personality and being social.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 06:38 AM
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No, TRP is imaginary - just like your common sense if you actually wrote this out to a chick.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 07:46 AM
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No it isn't. It's the sup I'm IIFYM 20s, party every night, but do enough clen/tren and dnp if I'm that dumb.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 01:08 AM
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I'm saying that commitment from a male should reflect loyalty from a female: an ethereal, theoretical concept. People's heads get fucked with because these things are still called "LTRs" or "Relationships" or "Marriage", but any meaning to these terms has vanished long ago. They are just empty words, of empty dreams in which fools believe. The times when there were consequences for not committing as a man (dead career) or unfaithfulness as a woman (homelessness / all friends outcast you / stoned…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 07:29 AM
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Just because someone earns my commitment doesn't mean it's permanent That's exactly what that means. If someone earned money, and you paid them, shit ain't yours anymore. It's my commitment I can do what I want with it. See above / pick one. Don't mistake me for being an English stickler either. Perception is paramount.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 07:25 AM
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4 The LTR: Well, she did it. She managed to make it this far. She earned your commitment. At this point you should have a pretty dope girlfriend because you put her through the process and already know she's a well behaved girl for you. See how this is so much better than just giving your commitment to a girl who hasn't even made it past level 2? This is a myth. Nobody ever "earns" your commitment any more permanently than you "earn" their loyalty. As long as things are good, they respect you an…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 07:14 AM
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there's a better chance I can hook up with her if I pick her up. Guess again. If she doesn't arrange a ride, you never had a chance. Save yourself the guesswork by letting her actions reveal her intent.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 09:30 AM
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hosting a bonfire and they asked me for a ride. You can't give them a ride because you're busy HOSTING THE FUCKING EVENT. How do I get the plate alone, and how do I escalate? You don't. You just do you. She disappears? Let her. She doesn't? Smash.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 09:27 AM
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If you're questioning whether you should keep a girl around, get rid of her - yesterday. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 01:22 AM
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I am slowly getting out of ideas of what to do after work. It's not your job to plan her day for her. This is reason #98518925 why we advise against cohabitation. What else can I put into my life after work and on weekends to make it more exciting Probably alone time. she is looking for a job, so she is mostly staying at home, and is becoming bored Bored while looking for a job? Doesn't sound like she's looking very hard. Not to sum you up into a statistic, but after reading / responding to thou…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 10:16 AM
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How can this be creepy? You can't be too into someone unless she is already into you, right? That's pretty much the definition for creepy. You can definitely be too into someone. The human brain is really, really, ridiculously good at distorting your perception of reality to make it appear closer to what you want reality to look like. This the reason a negative self-image is so destructive to your psyche, but, the opposite also applies.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 08:36 PM
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She says maybe watching a film isn't a good idea, she feels pressured about what I may be expecting It's the third date, two weeks later, you still haven't fucked - this isn't ASD or anything else you can "handle". She simply doesn't want to fuck you. Take the L, move on.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 10:02 AM
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Go down on her or finger her or some shit. Like the other guy said, if your sex drives are (or have grown) significantly different, that's a sign of incompatibility - not a shortcoming on your, or her, behalf. These things happen. Sometimes it normalizes, sometimes she'll grow frustrated until she cheats and/or breaks things off. Since you realistically have no way to predict what'll happen or how she will react, your logical outcome is to just act in your own best interest.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:57 AM
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No, even on AAS it's difficult to get so big as to be unattractive unless you're running insane amounts of gear.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:54 AM
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Think back to the time some random 5 or 6 obsessed over you, and how repulsive it made her seem. Well, that's YOU every time you interact with a girl you "REALLY WANT". When you internalize the fact that possessive desire / damage control is inherently repulsive, you will quickly find ways to make sure you don't appear to - and truly don't - feel that. Fake your aloofness even if you crave her like crazy. Don't show your true emotions. Don't make that intense eye contact. Don't let her see what …
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:48 AM
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That sounds about right, unfortunately I'm not one of them so my advice is not as useful. Good luck!
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:44 AM
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No exceptions at all? I've been coming around to viewing women as equivalent to children. Children you let fuck up in little ways but you step in before they do anything too serious. No exceptions at all, because where that analogy fell short is you assumed it was your kid. It's not, it's someone else's kid that you are casually watching run around the playground because it's fun. What they do is none of your business until they run into you, look up, and blurt out some shit you can respond to -…
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:38 AM
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Trying to logic your way through human interaction means you're gonna have a bad time. I'm sorry man, what I just said will not make any logical sense to you, but rest assured it's the truth. If you're in your head, thinking, rather than fully immersed in the interaction and spitting out whatever pops into your head, odds are it's not a good interaction.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:36 AM
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"I need some time to find myself", lmao.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:34 AM
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What the fuck does this have to do with TRP?
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:33 AM
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in those situations when I have only a second to think If you feel the need to think when you see a hot chick, she's probably not into you. guess you cant avoid coming off as desperate if you only look at each other for a mere second Wrong. If a chick makes you feel good when you look at her, say Hi. If she makes you think, you're probably nervous - for whatever stupid reason - and should do yourself the solid of fucking right off before you go and embarrass yourself. Note, this isn't big city a…
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:27 AM
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How hard should I have mate guarded my LTR? (self.asktrp) No offense, but your post is very long and the second I read your title, I had your answer without reading further. Ready? Not at all. Regardless of situation, you shouldn't mate guard, at all, ever, and yes that always applies.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:25 AM
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some background, my FWB and I started dating in July 2015, Contrary to popular belief, you can either be "dating" or "FWB". I have to wonder if he's trying to suppress / hide feelings for me I honestly just need to know where he's at, I'm just afraid he's going to lie to me about how he feels.\ don't want to throw this away if it has the potential I read this as "hamstering because I want to be dating him" - Let's be real, this guy does not give a fuck about you. Your best bet to keep anything g…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 09:18 AM
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You keep talking about not wanting to go back, but I'm just making the case that going in once, for 4, is worth it. I never disagreed with you about the facts that our military's retention, funding and vision problems are severe.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 07:14 PM
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But if it works for you, who am I to call it a bad thing? Yeah but I'm not just trying to get you to see things the way I do. I'm trying to explain why I see things that way. If you play your cards (really) right, you can exit the AF with a full/free college degree (at least a 60k value), AS AN OFFICER at 22 with over 90K in savings if you save most of your pay, and at least 50k USD of free shit you would've otherwise paid for between BAH/med/food/etc. Now, is this living hell compared to colleg…
/r/askTRP24/02/17 06:53 PM
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That all depends on your contract & missed / seized opportunities while in. It's really easy to join the Army and come out of it with literally nothing after 4 yrs. It's impossible if you go SF or a technology-related MOS in the Navy or AF. From what my friends tell me, it's not the same one you left anyways. This was always the consensus about most general forces / occupations. Military or not, niches have rewards.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 01:55 AM
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HATE TELLING PEOPLE TO CHOOSE USAF, AND THEN THEY REGRET NOT DOING SO A decade later, it's still hilarious how true this is.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 01:52 AM
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Afraid I got nothing for ya on the trade front, but if you do go military with a good career plan, it can be very advantageous. You'd get out at 22 with transferable GI benefits, plus in-field experience AND education if you negotiated your enlistment contract, had the aptitude scores for technical training / position & didn't fuck up.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 06:58 AM
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Yeah, the ex is still up in the air. I kinda miss it, plus the re-up bonuses are insane, they were 150K a decade back, looks like even now 1T2X1 from OED of '03 or newer is at 90K USD for E6+ @ 6 - or just 4 if you made it up to E9.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 06:42 AM
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Stop focusing on what you're getting, stop focusing on what your friends are getting, focus on what you want to get (keep in mind this chick you wrote OP about doesn't wanna fuck you, so move on). Walk up to chicks you like, crack jokes - never at your own expense - and try to fuck em. You spend 2-4 hours on a chick and didn't fuck her? Next.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 09:30 PM
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and certainly my best bet to get some pussy in my last year of HS. A chick you're not even fucking has a BF? You don't have oneitis, you're just being a time hoe. Stop it. and I'm scared I'm missing out on what should be prime pussy pulling times. You're mindfucking yourself. If you aren't rich / hot, this post (that you need to read) is fairly spot on. Any advice from some of the older guys here? Yeah, stop thinking about how hot the chick who doesn't wanna fuck you is and find one who does.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 09:22 PM
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who she was engaged to when we started fucking. What goes around, comes around. I sincerely hope you aren't surprised. I've never broken up with anyone, do you have any advice? Do it in person, say your line, let her exhaust herself while you say nothing more & show no emotion.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 09:18 PM
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psychology was my major. And I work in that field. So I think I've read a thing or two Please don't insult actual doctors and scientists. Wild guesses and stats 101 is not science, and unlike a Psychiatrist, you are not qualified to prescribe medication for this exact reason - all that is assuming you even have a Doctorate. So nothing. Can't answer. You wouldn't feel the need to lean on worthless credentials if you didn't already have a sufficient answer. Do keep in mind that people just like yo…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 09:02 PM
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don't know where you're getting that a personal preference is the same thing as genetic behavioral science God, you're just itchin to argue and get a rise out of someone. If you actually read what you are talking about you'd quickly realize that what you falsely imply to be my personal preference is in fact what the science points towards. Clearly not everyone agrees. By not everyone, let's clarify that you mean you. The thing about reality is that it does not require your agreement. And how is …
/r/askTRP22/02/17 07:16 PM
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physique pic? Nice try. what kind of businesses? Semiconductor - EE/CE how old are you that most of your friends are dead? Early 30s. It's hard to find worthwhile people.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:49 PM
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Logic doesn't work well in the primal realms of attraction and repulsion. Women are hardwired to want to fuck men who've fucked many other women. Men are hardwired to be disgusted by women who've fucked many other men.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:41 PM
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You'd rather kiss/finger a chick tonight and never hear from her again than fuck her a few days from now? Lol
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:38 PM
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Stealing this format. Physique/Fitness: Often accused of AAS usage. Finance/Business: Very good, own 2 businesses. Social: Pretty shit. Most of my friends are dead. Girls: Good, not that I care. Lowest priority.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:19 PM
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Don't know jack shit about medical residencies (assuming you mean shadowing), but I suggest educating in a country where healthcare pays modestly and education is cheap, then moving to the USA. You'll make insane money as a MD.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:13 PM
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If you like gettin cucked by dead dudes, sure. It's hard for a woman to vilify a man who croaked beforehand, so you'd never live up to the inevitable psychologically destructive comparisons between yourself and the ex. Plus, kids = nope.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:10 PM
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Don't make out with / finger chicks who have to go home - you didn't know she had to go because you didn't ask. So next time, ask about logistics before escalating. Just like you have to throw away or re-cast iron if you heat it without forging it, don't get chicks hot and bothered (to the point of fingering) if you can't smash or you'll have to next them. This is almost like those "went to chicks house, didn't smash, howcome she's ignoring me?" posts.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:01 PM
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A younger woman (10+ years), who I'm hooking up with, has repeatedly told me "you're nothing like I expected". This post should end there. And by there, I mean "a chick im smashing says im XYZ". She's still fucking you. when it comes to dating and initial attraction, I feel like there's some optimizing to be done. There is. Hide everything that shows you have money or a career, show boarding/scuba/travel/boxing/cooking/etc. She's only known me professionally, where I have a senior leadership pos…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:57 PM
2

Evolutionary advantage for men, evolutionary disadvantage (and huge risk) for women.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:54 PM
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Don't enter escalate-or-bust scenarios when logistics preclude sex.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:52 PM
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I mean, you still have to do what's best for you. That includes work if you need work to eat & have no other offers.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 08:57 PM
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Are you here for advice, or to argue? I'm not here to argue. What I think, and do as a result, works very well. Stereotypes are a thing because they work. There's too much information for you to evaluate everything, even the chicks you date, on a case by case basis. That is, while ideologically appealing, is not how the human mind works.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 08:52 PM
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If your supervisor has openly stated that some of the people under her should get another job... Run. Run like the wind. Fly like the fucking birds. Leave that workplace at the speed of light, faster than you pulled out of the chick that told you she's on birth control because you've been reading TRP and know better than that. Females are unfit to lead in any capacity. Nobody knows this better than the women who have to work under them.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 08:47 PM
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Now I can't reconcile what I did that was so wrong that it led to this? You are missing my point, and have been from the start. You didn't have to do anything wrong. You, in fact, didn't have to do ANYTHING AT ALL - except become her EX - for her to think that you were a huge fuck up and for her to wish she never met you. Because that self-deception is the easiest way for them to move on with their life without questioning, changing or even doubting any aspect of it, themselves or the delusions …
/r/askTRP21/02/17 08:37 PM
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What should i do ? I think im gonna start reading no more mr nice guy and how to win friend Making adequate employees believe they are somehow inadequate is business 101. Namely, it's bad business 101. At a shit company that doesn't understand (or an occupational level where they don't need) the value of retention, your boss doesn't work for you, they work for the company. And since denying you a raise gets them theirs, it's no surprise that they'd get a head start on it. I have a feeling, based…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 08:17 PM
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Month later she says she regrets my existence a tweet shown to me by a mutual friend. Bruh, if I was a chick, and a dude who used to put his dick inside me cared about his EX's tweets, I'd regret fucking him too, no homo. I think I've a clue as to why you might be enjoying women's already naturally prevalent sadism: Wtf I was kind and attentive and masculine ... I offered to keep supporting to her if she needed help
/r/askTRP21/02/17 08:10 PM
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This has to be among the top shitposts on here lately.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 08:08 PM
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every time it ends no matter what I do, the woman ends up hating my fucking guts. To be able to paint themselves as victims to others, women first mindfuck themselves into full absolution of guilt, fault & any other flaw. OF COURSE her Ex was abusive / an asshole / manipulative / a druggie / hit her all the time, 24 / 7! When was the last time you talked to a woman who had anything nice to say about her EX? At first, I thought it had something to do with the fact women don't actually love men. B…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 07:58 PM
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You deal with plates by fucking them while both of you are down - anything outside of that is not your concern.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 08:20 PM
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These posts are a recurring theme here, here's my response to the last one.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 08:14 PM
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Volunteering to be #21?
/r/askTRP17/02/17 08:12 PM
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If you lift to put more weight on the bar, get a belt. If you lift to improve / strengthen your body, don't.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 08:09 PM
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knowing this means I'm reactively likely to refuse to pay for girls who are better qualit Good. Statistical heuristics (stereotypes) are something your brain's evolved to identify incredibly well - with good reason: 8 times out of 10 or more, they work, which is good enough of a return ratio to make up for your losses.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 08:05 PM
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GO - who gives a fuck man? You hit it, it ended, cool. You still got to hit it. All of this shit's literally in your head. There's nothing even awkward about it. YOU just think it's awkward because YOU know how much YOU like her. Nobody else knows that shit. To everyone else it was probably just a fling that happened, a high five scenario.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:05 PM
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Each time a bitch leaves you is one of the best days of your life, you just don't know it yet.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:04 PM
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Look, it's clear you've posted here with the intent to argue rather than discuss. Because you want to be right, and to defend your viewpoint successfully. Nothing wrong with that, but you've already been presented with sufficient evidence to flip it: you're free to continue willfully ignoring it. I got no dog in this fight.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 09:03 PM
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I believe it's deleted now, like everything else that isn't perfectly politically correct. But not before it was cited in many other places: 538 Link Dailymail Link Warning: Trash Tier. Please don't give them views. Bustle Link WARNING! SHIT TIER! PLEASE DON'T GIVE THEM VIEWS! Jizzabel It's based off of OkCupid's (in)famous research blog which revealsed truths they don't write about anymore since they got bought out by IOC. Before, they posted statistics that proved all the things the "U GO GUUU…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 07:59 PM
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This conversation is ten paces too petty for me to be having right now. GTFOH
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 06:21 PM
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Except all the normal/non-crazy 25 year old women I know are dating/hooking up with 25-30 year old men You implicitly shame women who aren't fucking / dating in their own age range & then state that you don't know any because all your friends are "normal" in the same sentence? Let that sink in. Odds are, many more women than you'd like to admit are fucking guys 10 to 20 years older than them, they just don't tell people like you - with good reason. 27 year olds hit on me but I just know it isn't…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 06:00 PM
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Ditto, now apply this logic to the garbage reply you originally posted.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:17 PM
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We sincerely apologize for the inconvenience, alas this is a fact.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:14 PM
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I'd hope this isn't surprising in a country where, from a legal standpoint, you're often better off killing than maiming.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:11 PM
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Came here to say this. If a chick thinks she can do better, cool. If she actually can, it wouldn't have lasted anyways. The catch is that it never lasts.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 11:35 AM
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My issue is I am not satisfied, I am getting laid on a regular basis by good looking women and I am generally doing well in life. I still feel like I am missing something which was not an issue when I was in a LTR. Satisfaction / happiness is a matter of belief, namely in what you have vs what you could have - it's an implicit choice resulting from how you think about where you are in life as opposed to "where you could be". Women won't make you happy - not the kind of happiness that lasts. But,…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 05:43 PM
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I get what you're saying though, birth control takes away consequences and enables more selfish sexual behaviors. Yeah and no, I'm saying the consequences birth control took away were the reason for the behavior to begin with. So now that 16-26 women are riding a lot of good quality dick and feeling satisfied, their instincts are literally backfiring on them because no children will come from that since they are on birth control, making the heuristic a net negative.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 05:13 PM
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Indeed. Must be monolithic, just like his wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 10:56 PM
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In this instance her hypergamy is likely maximized. False, birth control saw that the instincts of hypergamy have been rendered completely null. In normal times, she'd have had 1-5 genetically superior offspring in her prime as a result of this behavior. Now? Just Loneliness & Regret.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 10:52 PM
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Man, you need to read because we are not having the same conversation. Your statement: Searching for studies to prove it came up with nothing My response, followed by an explanation of why you're spreading misinformation about it: Self-education is perfectly fine, but saying that something is broscience because there is no study is like saying that since nobody wrote the explicit proof for "300+150=450", it is somehow debatable And then you go back to "muh studies, couldn't find some." What the …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 10:13 PM
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Don't be a "no studies = broscience" google champion without a medical background. Self-education is perfectly fine, but saying that something is broscience because there is no study is like saying that since nobody wrote the explicit proof for "300+150=450", it is somehow debatable or unproven. Cold showers are beneficial for digestive, hormonal & immune profiles - which adds up to up-regulation of T since the immune system is one of its biggest control vectors.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 08:01 PM
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Fucks it up because the overall quality of women is factors of magnitude lower. Easier because it's easier to bang the sluts not even really worth dicking down. Perspective, I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 07:00 PM
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Much like football or basketball, society is a team game. Having 5-10% of your teammates be competent when 90% of your team are idiots who'll grovel, beg, and buy dinners for the fat dumb sluts still completely fucks it up for everyone
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 05:53 PM
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Never say never, but that's what pretty much happens with a high partner count. Sound familiar? knows how to push my buttons like no one i've ever been with in my life. She knows how to get me worked up, jealous, worried, etc. She uses little things like a guy liking her pics and messaging her to her advantage to make me jealous ...I just found out she's been texting a dude. She said he's helping her with something for work, Yeah I bet he's helping her with something alright. Drop this cunt alre…
/r/askTRP02/02/17 07:47 PM
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The result of knowing (on paper) that there are more chicks out there is putting up with her bullshit / being pussied around, the result of FEELING it is you give almost zero shits about whether she stays or leaves & have a backbone. The difference between knowing it on paper & feeling it in your gut lies in being able to readily fuck other hot chicks.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 07:42 PM
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she immediately threatens to stop things. SHE threatened to stop things? You're her bitch. go no contact ...taking a toll on my close friend who is friends with her as well. This isn't your problem, your friend can tell her to stop being a cunt or pick a side. continue no contact indefinitely but I don't see that as an option Then get a new set of fucking eyes mate, because you're blinder than a bat with taped ears. still like her and would like to fuck her, ... I show I don't have any feelings …
/r/askTRP02/02/17 04:56 PM
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I'd suggest being single & fucking chicks for a year or two. They stop being a big deal after a hundred or so. Self-improvement while dating one is possible, but it's like trying to change a clutch while you're driving.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 04:42 PM
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The truth is I am better than her and them. Much better career, money, status, way bigger social circle, great reputation, etc And yet, you're insecure. Not jabbing at you, just pointing this out. Just clown em. "Blah blah XYZ liked my pics! ABC msg'd me!" "I bet he's cool, ask him out!"
/r/askTRP02/02/17 04:38 PM
1

did IT support for Special Forces in my USAF career God bless your rickety soul, brother.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 04:33 PM
2

Self-administered (if you don't mind me asking) or anti-aging clinic? Most insurance / regular doctors, even endos, don't know enough about TRT regimens to set you up with something like that, unless your hospital is world class.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 04:26 PM
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Multi-business owner here, founded all of them, now employing a lot of people. This is all excellent advice! I'd like to throw in that sometimes, risking what you can't afford to lose is worth it. At one point I was about to go under, the bank wouldn't extend credit based on my (honest) financial projections. I had to get an equity loan out on my house (keep in mind, I don't have a wife and kids and was in my late 20s at the time). My gut told me to go for it, so I did, and it's paid off more th…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 05:30 PM
2

Is that 210 pmol/L, putting you at half the average, or 210 pg/ml, putting you at twice the average? Sounds like it could be 40-75 mg/wk Cyp or 40-60mg Prop EOD, depending on measurement - either way, glad you're doing well. HCG and DHEA are often recommended for co-administration with permanent TRT, alongside basic T3 tests.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 05:17 PM
1

No girl I am currently seeing has put on an ounce of weight No gaslighting, no blaming, no games No talk of babies Sex is plentiful and generously given Our time together is always fun and truly enjoyable I have never lost attraction for them. If anything, it has grown I always retain my ability to walk away The biggest sacrifice with this model of course, is that all these relationships will end. I will move on to other girls. They will move on to other guys. I will grow old. I will die. Taggin…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 04:59 PM
1

Expectations from men are bigger than ever, while expectations from women are smaller than ever. Fortunately, the expectations from women are up to men. At the same time, men must demand absolutely no performance from a woman. Per above, no: what to demand from women is up to us. The female psyche is simple, it always vies for more while ultimately bending to reflect the reality of what it's been given. Ergo, being sane or reasonable just isn't required. Even in the most liberal-infested shithol…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 04:45 PM
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phenomenon called "crab bucket mentality". Betas are literally women sans the vagina. Don't trust them, or their word. They've no backbone, just like women. They were raised to act like women.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 04:36 PM
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First off, ignore every other comment in this thread. People without a fucking clue shouldn't be giving you advice. Second, 650 isn't low, it's normal. But, Third, your total T doesn't matter - your free T, Albumin and SHBG do (a more expensive exam). As for treatment (check the shit above to know if you need it), from least to most drastic: 1) Exercise, be outside and active, eat well, rest enough (This is common sense / a fucking no brainer) 2) Anastrozole would be next IF you have low T - do …
/r/askTRP01/02/17 12:18 AM
1

No porn, no booze, lift right, eat right, sleep right. If all that fails, 500mg/wk of Test-E won't.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 10:34 PM
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Better question: why wouldn't you be? If you DO have an off the bat answer to that, fix shit until you don't.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 09:50 PM
1

because I know, based on an OBJECTIVE analysis of the sexual marketplace, Your analysis is wrong because you only view the externals of people. Bunch of dudes, taller, slightly better looking, maybe making slightly more. That's not objective, that's incomplete - because all of them are at least doubly, if not more, mentally fucked up than you are. You really don't need to know the reason ...just appreciate it for what it is. More than 9 out of 10 people are mentally weak, insecure, and brittle. …
/r/askTRP31/01/17 07:23 PM
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Roses are red, Violets are blue, This isn't even a haiku, I'm about to fuck you.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:46 PM
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It'll come on its own with time, better male friends, better hobbies, and more women under your belt.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:40 PM
4

If I was in your shoes, I'd look the other way and consider renting your own place - it's a lifestyle you'll eventually get into anyways, and it does wonders for organizing your life and having more peace of mind. Plus, being able to throw dinners and after-parties when you feel like it, without worrying about your roommates, is also a significant bonus. Respect to you for spending wisely despite having good income, but look at your own place as an investment.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:33 PM
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You should've handled the situation by knowing that if their lips are moving, they're likely lying. Getting surprised, offended or otherwise bent out of shape over the situation is a bit immature.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:29 PM
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I feel bad for whoever's your autism receptacle.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:27 PM
2

Those are all good potential upsides, but the downsides you seem to not be considering are all the potential complications from living with a coworker - such as fucking a different chick every other night, for example.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:23 PM
2

he only had to send a couple of easy simple comfort text on Saturday and this would have all been avoided. Even with your top notch hindsight 20/20 skills, this doesn't help OP's situation, plus he already knew: wondering if the day after my close I probably should have been more attentive to her? So, back to your special self's arbitrary internet tantrum in my direction: your advice is to go full retard, next her and go work on attracting a non-attracted new girl. Those are your words, not mine…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:17 PM
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So not sure how to proceed When someone's not giving you the time of day, whether it's your fault or not, the one thing that will definitely NOT help your situation is ramping up your investment in exchange for their declining one - never, ever, EVER do this. Ride it out. If she comes back around, cool, if not, there's jack shit you can do, so focus on fucking new chicks.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:15 PM
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I have a good income Hopefully you've read enough TRP to know better than to disclose / make this obvious to women. dress very well, visibly very fit. So this already puts you in at least 7/10 as long as you're not a manlet. ended up sleeping with her (she practically took her clothes off when we came back). Well, like you said, she either just likes you ...or found out she's pregnant. You'll know in 3 months, ayy. Can anyone explain wtf is going on here? is she trying to settle down with beta b…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:12 PM
1

Probably not. Your best bet might be to find an English-speaking chick who already has an EU or US passport.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 08:44 PM
2

If that's the case just do your thing man, I'm sure some cutie will date you while you're there.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 08:31 PM
1

Not that it's any of my business but why go somewhere new to date one chick? Hook up with tons of em.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 08:26 PM
1

No idea, I doubt it's any different - but I don't know. Your post sounded like you're going for tourism?
/r/askTRP17/01/17 08:21 PM
1

Just like foreigners come to California thinking they'll find nothing but beautiful, positive, outgoing, hot surfer chicks. Every place has the local's (aka real) scoop, and its tourist / outsider equivalent - pamphlet tourism is boring as fuck. Dress ragged as shit and go check out poor areas that aren't too known for violent crimes, robberies or kidnappings.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 07:57 PM
7

A magical place called The Sidebar.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 04:13 AM
10

It really should just be called The Real Pill.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 03:57 AM
6

So HB7.5 sends me a FB text, telling me that it's not fair Right. Life's not fair. "Volunteering to take her place?"
/r/askTRP04/01/17 02:44 AM
1

The only exceptions are women whose loyalty exceeded your lifespan, and you'll only know on your deathbed. So nah, this isn't an AWALT exception - just give it time. But, 3 years and things going well is a good sign.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 01:27 AM
2

Not a bad choice either. I like to stir shit up to see where chicks really stand in the midst of their bullshit.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 01:25 AM
3

I don't speak for TRP, I'm not sure we advise any particular approach, but covert communication is the more reliable, effective and natural method for getting things across with women: this much is hard / practically impossible to deny. So how would a direct approach look like? What do you mean? What you say doesn't really matter, your body's doing the talking.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 10:13 PM
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in a cold approach you usually overtly state your intentions (e.g. I thought you were cute...) Only autistic PUAs do this. Please do not do this. Come up to a chick, say hey how's your day, if your dick's hard and you're switching sights between her eyes, lips and tits, she's gonna telegraph you a "yes" or "no" back pretty quickly.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 10:11 PM
1

If context was a zipcode, you're taking this so far out of it that you're not even in our solar system. 99% of the time when chodes or new guys say something overtly, their voice, face and body communicates the opposite - that's why.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 10:09 PM
3

Better question: does it matter which one? Nope. Go on the date, have fun, and if she's also having fun, fuck her.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 10:06 PM
3

Treat TRP like statistics, if you try to apply large-scale trends to individuals the result would be retarded rather than beneficial. You're still going to have to go on a case by case basis since it will always depend on where you are, what mood you're in, what mood the chick you're talking to is in, what's going on in your life, and her life - so far, so on.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 10:00 PM
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if "with how things are like this we probably wont last long anyway" is still her last message, I'd reply with "If thats how you really feel..." and let her lose her shit for a few hours. Pressuring you to buy vacations and shit is bad news and there's really nothing you can do in this situation - if it's not enough for her, let her talk herself into singledom.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 09:56 PM
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Doesn't matter, and it's more than you're doing so it will be an improvement. If you start bending over ass-backwards to what you think she wants, you'll instantly crush yourself in her eyes & realize that you did so in your own eyes too. Do what you're genuinely willing to, because if you do shit that pisses you off because you think it makes her happy, not only will it not make her happy, it'll also definitely contribute to a pretty rapid and irreversible LTR death spiral.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 09:50 PM
3

That's ass-backwards. Don't try to magically divine your "league", fuck the hottest chicks you see & you'll find out.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 09:48 PM
1

Is who she is / what she does / her pussy still worth all this trouble?
/r/askTRP03/01/17 09:47 PM
1

Only ever give affection genuinely, The Art of Seduction is a good read. I don't like chick things, just do your shit next to her. Ex: Snuggle up & read yours books or do work on your laptop while she watches TV with headphones. A dinner or some other kind of date once or twice a month, with you making the effort to enjoy it, will go long enough of a way.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 09:44 PM
1

How long has this "LTR" been going on for?
/r/askTRP03/01/17 09:42 PM
3

What's the question? I've read your entire post and don't see one.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 09:40 PM
1

Same effects as any noticeable status has, they'll return your DMs and invite you out to places.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 08:21 PM
2

Yes, if you use it right. And by "use it right", I mean get people to have your IG instead of your number when you go to bars - guys, girls, etc - and just tell them it's your default messaging tool and they can reach you via that. Having a few thousand followers already has a noticeable effect on people, having a few tens of thousands will do even more.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 05:20 AM
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I think homeboy should start fucking new chick(s) in their pad the day his uninformed ex leaves, and notify her when she returns that he's already got a new GF & is seeing [x] other chicks, and thus she can get the fuck out of his life.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 05:19 AM
1

With /u/dendsm111 on this one, YouTube is all you need. The stretches you want are mostly for pecs.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 05:17 PM
3

Barbell Rows / T-Bar Rows, Pull-Ups / Pull-Downs, Military Press, Rear Delt Row, Lateral DB Raise. what I really want to know is if you can do something about the bone structure. Most clavicle-centered surgeries shorten, not lengthen. Stretch, exercise, eat right, sleep well.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 02:22 AM
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Bruh. You can see if someone wants to kiss you or not without asking. Look em in the eyes, then at their lips, then at their eyes, see how they react. Lean in a little. They don't lean back? Good, put your hand around their waist and get real fuckin close, all one relaxed motion. If there is no negative reaction in the 3-8sec it takes you to do this, go for it.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 09:33 PM
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Do your absolute, impeccable best in your last month(s) at work. Always. How you go out of a specific workplace often plays a bigger role in regards to what connections remain open to you from it than what you did while you were there. Make it known that you're parting ways with the company soon, and pull shit together to wrap everything up & leave it in a good place. Because nobody else does, you will stand out and get respect from the people you want to keep in touch with years down the road. …
/r/askTRP16/12/16 08:53 PM
1

Normal, yes, but who the fuck wants to compare themselves to that? Personally, started fuckin at 13 because shitty childhood - but back to you. Don't feel that way man. Your whole life is ahead of you. Work as hard as you can at it and you'll start pulling bitches. Work hard enough and it can be before year's end I'm sure. Get a fake, hit up bars.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 08:49 PM
1

Approaching strangers? (Which in reality would require you to approach 100 women to get at least 1-5 numbers and even only 1-2 of them lead to sex because life) Man, like 90% of the vetting is done mutually before anyone even says hi (or not). Just learn social skills so you can capitalize on it, if you have that + good vibes & take good care of yourself physically, AT LEAST 1 in 10 will go out.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 05:47 AM
3

Helping girls with pocket betas stay sexually sane is doing the lord's work. They do that shit to themselves, and if you don't dick them down, someone else most likely will. A girl with a guy locked down is likelier to fuck you fast, because she doesn't need a date, she doesn't need someone to listen to her bullshit, she just needs dick. Welcome to the real. What you have isn't a problem, it's a blessing. Emotionally, they're basically in a relationship with you anyways.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 02:16 AM
7

There is no morally neutral advice for cheating. Don't do it - not because it's wrong, but because it isn't in your best interest. What if you hit it, the pussy's fire, and she wants to fuck day and night for weeks? Face the fear of losing the chick you're seeing and being single now instead of being dodgy and still smashing other chicks. Tell her hey, we can see each other but not exclusive. She can take that, or leave it. Don't bare the burden of shitty decisions on your own.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 01:07 AM
16

Bringing a girl home, getting her naked, then NOT getting laid I ...is this even possible?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 01:52 AM
1

Tell her you're leaving, say why, and go. Not only is trying to one-up women at female behavior legitimately pathetic, chancing a psycho stalker bitch trying to make your life hell for petty revenge means your life priorities are fucked up. Stick your hand in your pants so you remember that you don't have a vagina down there, and start acting like it. Paging /u/willysmiles in hopes this doesn't fall on deaf ears.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 06:57 PM
2

Why is it that this doesn't look like the general opinion here regarding women? Because it isn't. Most guys are insecure / ugly / short / no game / no style / no hygiene, or for some reason trying to date or fuck the hottest chicks they can. The time required to date 10s isn't worth it when you have shit to do in life, so, in my humble opinion, better to smash 8s / 9s with exponentially less work and resume focus on life goals ASAP. It's a matter of perspective. Most people waste vast amounts of…
/r/askTRP09/12/16 06:50 PM
3

Sometimes women go on a date with the sole goal of not fucking, because they either don't want to, not with you, or something else is wrong with their head from the excessive estrogen. It's your job to ID these and fade appropriately so you can spend more time going balls deep in girls that don't give you bullshit and don't make you pointlessly wait. Persistence is overrated, if a chick is being resistant, send her on her way and pull a different one or smash a plate.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 06:53 AM
7

She hasn't been taken by anyone yet, and is asking you to do the job.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 06:51 AM
2

Expat and see if she's still crazy about dating him knowing she'll never get a green card.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 06:26 PM
4

This girl im talking to has the most ridiculous standards. She is waiting for marriage for her virginity. You mean double standards, that standard isn't for her, it's for you; question is, why are you still talking to her?
/r/askTRP08/12/16 05:24 PM
2

what does it matter if she goes to sleep with other guys and continues to have sex with you? It doesn't, personally I assume everyone I'm seeing is getting plowed on the side. Why should you dump a girl you're in a relationship with because she slept with some other guy? Because not everyone might be okay with this, it's personal preference.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 05:23 PM
3

Seconded, /u/Bfwantstobeamonk ---> /r/RedPillWomen
/r/askTRP08/12/16 03:00 AM
2

Are you in school and / or employed (if so, what is your income after tax), how old are you, what's rent in your area? The quicker you adjust to independence, the better, but it depends on your goals & the above. Keep it anonymous.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 10:40 PM
1

What you describe isn't hitting or abusing women, like your title alludes to - it's self-defense: you would be retarded to not do it when necessary. On the other hand, do ponder what things led up to a woman thinking she can hit you.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 08:28 PM
1

I think that you did not escalate as much as possible, you escalated as much as you thought was possible. This ain't a knock on you, just that when you post here asking for advice, do be prepared to take it in stride & make it actionable.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 08:25 PM
0

Don't text her again unless she texts you, odds are you missed your chance by not fucking her the first date when she ended up being at your place, making out with you. Things have a tendency to sour after you pass up on shit like that.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 07:07 PM
3

I know some dudes that take it up the ass who could probably kill even me, so whatever floats your anusboat man. If I was you (cringing writing this, nothing personal), just 1 protip: NOT try this with anyone you already know.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 07:04 PM
1

Is there a way to cut down on fat while maintaining (even gaining) muscle? Not unless you're extreme skinnyfat or on steroids. Put a bunch of food that needs little to no cooking in your fridge and do not eat out. Stay hydrated, and as you get hungry, cook up a sausage or 2: small meals. Trust your sense of hunger, don't eat impulsively. Cottage cheese, pre-packaged sausages and canned stuff like red beans are all great. Don't try to do some super strict 6meal/day BB bullshit, you'll fail - the …
/r/askTRP06/12/16 06:58 PM
5

She passionately makes out with me at the end. We hold hands as I bring her to her train home. Well, what happened is you held hands and brought her to her train home, instead of fucking her, because she was "WAY more attractive", as compared to your other plates. Remember to ask logistics questions early - i.e. how long people are in town for. I'd wager that if you asked at the appropriate time, you'd have the common sense to smash.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 06:53 PM
1

Newsflash: two months is nothing, you were not even together - as far as anyone is concerned, yourself included, it's just a chick you had a fling with ...at best. It sounds like she wants drama, so go to this guy's GF & tell her that he's refusing the slut but there's some chick persistently trying to make moves on her BF. The chicks get their drama fill, the dudes get to stay out of it, and she'll likely stop flirting with the guy. As far as I see it, everyone ends up peachy. P.S. Realisticall…
/r/askTRP06/12/16 06:30 PM
2

Buying equipment vs a membership depends on your training goals - what do you want to do with your body?
/r/askTRP06/12/16 06:27 PM
1

and want a relationship/marriage/kids with a women eventually. Ahh, many wives. You've learned well. Jokes aside, I find that most reasonable people swing in cycles. Sometimes you go steady with a girl or two ..or three, or four - sometimes you do your own thing. MGTOW would just be an extreme.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 12:41 AM
6

Read all of it, stop hamstering. YOU LITERALLY WROTE THIS: 6 months ago she became friends with some trashy bitches sex dried up, privacy increased(phone and facebook), partying increased, drinking I did everything. I kicked her out. Dread game on blast. I fucked other girls.. ...And then this: still wanted things to work out with her given our relatively perfect history. Let's fix this whole "relatively perfect history" ordeal into something realistic: Perfect GF of 6 years, lived... jealous is…
/r/askTRP03/12/16 09:46 PM
7

has a boyfriend texts me today Bruh. Do it
/r/askTRP02/12/16 05:00 PM
1

My question is should I just let this lil convo continue time and time again? No, just don't say anything and go on with your life. She's not interested, and if that changes - she'll let you know. and the alternative would make me look butthurt and bitter This is a person you (shouldn't) don't give a fuck about. Why care about what they think? Don't start conversations.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 10:15 PM
9

Do you guys know how to get the control back? She will come back ...or not. Nothing you do can favor that, but what you DON'T do might. Letting her simmer and fucking other bitches is in your best interest in every possible way, since control isn't taken: it's relinquished. As an extreme, if everyone stood by "freedom or death", nobody would control shit & governments could not exist. Get it?
/r/askTRP01/12/16 08:01 PM
3

If you're cool and ask around, someone probably an older brother/sister who knows parties - it would be that or get onto online dating sites and pretend to be 18. You won't like the most realistic response ....just give it a few years.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 08:36 PM
2

Stop bringing her around your friends, keep smashing while you find a girl that you can bring around your friends.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 09:18 PM
1

Stop thinking. Try to fuck her, if you smash and it's good, keep smashing while it's good, if you don't, next.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 09:16 PM
8

How do you deal with too much thirst? (self.asktrp) Electrolytes, it's what plants crave. I avoid watching or doing anything sexual to keep my mind off of it. Repression ...is not a good long-term strategy for anything. don't even know how can I have IGDAF while giving off this vibe to girls. They can fucking bathe with my intention. I assume this is bad, it means thirst. Or would there be a way to make use of this energy? Why do you assume that's bad? If you wanna fuck a girl, talk to her and p…
/r/askTRP28/11/16 11:22 PM
3

If you two have completely incompatible schedules, is that not a dealbreaker in and of itself?
/r/askTRP28/11/16 10:57 PM
3

This looks like meaningful discourse, so I'll bite. With women, balls do MUCH better than "effort" or time. You want to meet people? Go talk to the ones you like, for 30 minutes a day. That's it. This "don't have time, can't meet XYZ" shit is just your brain feeding you excuses. You have time. More of it then you want to admit since we're discussing this on reddit. Anonymous messaging, non anonymous messaging, they are unattractive because it takes zero balls to do, just like almost everything i…
/r/askTRP28/11/16 09:44 PM
4

Make a blowup doll of yourself and make love to it until your self-esteem improves. No homo?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 09:22 PM
5

You can't anonymously put your dick in a woman (unless you're into some ...extreme, things) so why anon message?
/r/askTRP28/11/16 08:59 PM
3

2 dead kids just to hurt a man during divorce proceedings. Quite a testament to women's ability to hide A psycho bitch murdering her own kids is not a testament to anything about women in general, in my humble opinion.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 07:37 PM
1

Reality: Higher stress / competition -> "Worse" mental health Higher stress / competition -> Higher Testosterone Higher Testosterone -> More masculine behavior Study: Masculine tendencies are markers of mental disease. Much science, very logic, such causality, many conclusion, so ass-backward, wow. Meanwhile in reality, testosterone is among the most neuroprotective & rehabilitative agents known. Source: limited but well versed medical background. In a race between telomeric shortening (cancer),…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 07:26 PM
1

Why would you like to live like girls don't matter? They don't, but to you they do, so the why is important.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 08:26 PM
1

"Drinks."
/r/askTRP22/11/16 08:25 PM
1

One from my wife saying "don't bother coming home, Walk into your home with a pack of beer and do your thing. Tell her to get the fuck out instead if she doesn't like it. But also ...you done fucked up. Probably go along with /u/ItsTheHomeWrecker 's advice.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 07:29 PM
-1

It is literally impossible to misinterpret this from your OP: know what I never have seen addressed in any RP discussions? STDs. As in sexually transmitted diseases. Condoms only give you a small margin of protection. They are mostly designed to ward against unwanted pregnancy. Unfuck yourself, your English, or don't post here again - your choice.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 07:13 PM
1

Condoms only give you a small margin of protection.... mostly designed to ward against unwanted pregnancy. If you actually believe this, unfuck yourself before you get HIV and ten antibiotic-resistant STDs on top of it. Is it worth the risks to you just to get your dicks wet? Honest inquiry here. Actually, no. I still hook up with a couple girls a week but if she looks too slutty I'm staying the fuck away. Get tested AT LEAST every three months unless you haven't fucked anyone in that time, even…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 04:48 AM
1

If you try to decipher the meaning behind women being women, you're gonna have a bad time. There's an explanation for this, but a lot more questions about your situation would have to be asked, this falls under "don't worry about it".
/r/askTRP19/11/16 09:47 PM
6

I do not understand what I am doing wrong. Maybe these fickle bitches are like that with everyone. I can pick up numbers all day but this doesn't mean shit as girls give them out like candy. Sounds like you talk to fifteen chicks for five minutes each, get their number and fade - which is retarded. Pick a chick you like, flirt / dance with her for an hour or two and take her home to fuck. Talk to chicks only when you wanna fuck them - I'm talking about real-time. Other than that, get digits only…
/r/askTRP17/11/16 12:45 AM
3

I'm saying that we have no idea how often this happens because the majority of it is hidden. The "I have a vagina & am pretty" advantage easily nets women 100K/yr+ in big cities - from nightlife alone in the more expensive ones.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 08:13 PM
5

What gave you the notion that they aren't? Simply because it's not in the public eye does not mean it isn't so.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 07:42 PM
3

I mean, we ARE having two separate conversations. I'm putting forward that whether an action was intentional or not, in regards to women, is completely, fully irrelevant. The action was done, we decide what to do about it, and move on. Because finding out whether it was intentional or not is NEVER worth the trouble, and they know it. There is no jury to judge human females anyways, since they are a biologically protected class. When their bullshit exceeds their use: next, and think about more im…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 01:55 AM
2

I am not pulling your leg. I'm not sure how you can say what is intentional and what is not when I'd bet my right nut that 99% of women don't know what they're aware of, what they're not aware of, what was intentional & what wasn't. No, not every chick is consciously, intentionally out to screw you. Yes, every chick's biology is dialed in to get HER the best children - not YOU, and if fucking you is part of that process (as it always is), you've a high chance to get fucked. Furthermore, intentio…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 01:48 AM
7

I don't disagree, alas you misunderstand - that's the best part. It's often not intentional. Itjusthappens
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 01:34 AM
26

you dont have to hardnext everybody who makes a mistake once. This isn't a mistake, it's a process - to pacify her man so she can safely get side dick. Women try to pacify any dick they're on, and should they succeed they will move onto the next one. The real pussy tax is becoming beta/passive.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:04 PM
2

If this guy's interwoven in your main social circle, go get your fucking money back. Otherwise - who cares?
/r/askTRP13/11/16 01:37 AM
3

or just send an addesss to a cheap hotel and not tell her until she gets there Lmao, don't do this. (1) creepy as fuck, (2) what if you rent a room and she's not down? Meet her in public, if things heat up just tell her you don't have a pad but can do a hotel. Don't pussyfoot around your situation, she might think you're married with ten kids & trying to cheat: that'd fuck up your chances WAY more than not having your own pad. Also ...public family restrooms are your spots. Bring a fucking bread…
/r/askTRP13/11/16 01:32 AM
9

put him in his place by busting his balls with stuff like his ex, his intelligence, the fact he lives with his mom, etc. Bro ...these are all huge dick moves. Odds are this guy is just giving you shit, not trying to crawl under your skin. He suddenly becomes serious and annoyed and girls kind of feel bad for him... why is that? Because you're socially tone deaf and tear into the poor guy when he's just fucking around. I might be wrong, but doubt it. You got examples of the shit he says to you or…
/r/askTRP13/11/16 01:29 AM
1

afraid me initiating touch would be inappropriate/harassment. Only if you're unattractive, which this sure makes it sound like is the case. Not being a dick, it's just reality. How would you initiate touch and when you should let go? However the fuck you want, and let go whenever the fuck you want. The easiest way to see what's OK and what isn't is to get REALLY close into someone's private space & pay attention to their reaction - it'll give you the truth 9/10 times.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 07:07 PM
8

What is this old plate looking for? (self.asktrp) Doesn't fucking matter, what are YOU looking for with her? Sex? Then try to hit it. No? Next. Das bout it mayne.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 06:52 PM
3

Is there a question I missed somewhere in this?
/r/askTRP12/11/16 06:49 PM
-1

Each cycle of roids you do reduces the ability of your hpta to produce testosterone naturally. This is blatantly false, please shut the fuck up and do not post about the subject ever again.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 09:14 AM
1

Exogenous test at 16 would fucking wreck your HPTA, possibly for life, and chance inducing unknown developmental anomalies. This is a very bad idea, but if you're absolutely hellbent on doing something your lowest hanging fruit is exogenous HGH. It's expensive, but if you can afford it before your growth plates are closed, it's literally height in a bottle ...along with bigger organs and a myriad of possible complications, bringing me back to: this is a bad idea. Because at your age you could ge…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 08:58 AM
19

think that 70% of the red pill is BS about how all women are gold-diggers Yeah, about that, rule one: you don't make $20K per month. You freelance online, to "barely get by". This is the story for EVERYONE, including your parents, grandparents, other family, and especially friends and females. If what you say is actually true, the first thing you should do is get a good CPA on retainer to make sure your taxes are squared away. After that, the world is yours little man. Assuming what you wrote is…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 03:27 AM
2

Well, fist off, know that an unplanned pregnancy and/or abortion can fuck women up pretty bad psychologically. Still: She issued a 'take it or keave it' ultimatum. No sex or no relationship, because if I really want sex that much, apparently it means that sex matters more to me than she does. I am genuinely confused right now. This shit is jokes. Hear that? That's the fog trail from you buggin outta there at Mach 69, circa yesterday. The most grace you owe her, if she's been great, is a few week…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 12:21 AM
3

so I'm not new to this world. My real concern lately has been the actual talking part I'm going to leave this quote here and let you think about it. . .. ... Ok, moving on: Due to some traumas and harsh experiences with close friends and relationships in the past hamstering I have become a very closed off person, not the most social and was raised with a very blue pill father as a role model. When it comes to talking to women in attractive ways placed myself in a prison of my own making This is …
/r/askTRP11/11/16 12:13 AM
2

You are attempting to correlate faith, or lack thereof, with logic, or lack thereof, and alpha or beta traits. There is no correlation, nor do I see a question anywhere besides the false presupposition in the title. Your post makes no sense.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 12:06 AM
4

If getting your dick wet is more important to you than networking and building goodwill, even on a business trip, go out and look at chicks you like. They look back, smile and / or don't look away? Talk to 'em and put your dick in 'em.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 12:03 AM
3

It's not shit, per se, it's just not original content. There are very few original works, and most books are re-hashes or meta-summaries of previous ones: Models is one of these books - if you haven't read before at all, it has no shortage of useful content, alas if you've read the books it rehashes, the whole thing's just a plain insult to the original works.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 09:41 PM
49

Remember that how long you linger in your current state and when you snap out of it and move the fuck on is entirely up to you. Should probably get to lifting weights (best antidepressant), eating well, sleeping and trying to fuck bitches tomorrow, if not today. Oh & when she eventually does message you (they always do), ignore it. Don't doubt yourself. You didn't lose access to a single chick, you just gained it to 4.5 billion of them.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 08:23 PM
1

Bully yourself into greatness. Stay on your own ass, not in a self-detrimental or toxic way. You're a work in progress so don't judge yourself as if you are the end product - you'll stay a work in progress until you die. If you put in the work, you will definitely see the progress. Your books are: The Mind Illuminated, Psycho-Cybernetics, Mastery. In that order. As for social endeavors, Models by Manson is popular here, personally I think it's shit, alas it might be good for you. I suggest readi…
/r/askTRP10/11/16 08:06 PM
1

A pull-up bar, (heavy) resistance bands and your body weight are all you need. Buy the first two for under $40 total, and if you invest into some decent food (rice, lots of drumsticks) you'll have no issues adding good mass to the third. I'm looking for stuff that will be efficient time wise, About this, study or do homework while you rest between sets. A great workout at home won't take more than 20 minutes as long as you don't count the rest time between your sets. I guarantee you waste more t…
/r/askTRP10/11/16 08:00 PM
3

went better than expected despite some mistakes, should I plate? Didn't read the entire thing, not to be rude, but that's way too fucking long. 90% of the time, this decision isn't up to you. Work on improving yourself, and let those who want to stick around do so for as long as they continue to feel that way. And when they no longer feel this way - this is the important part - YOU LET THEM GO / move on, nice and easy.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 05:11 PM
1

someone to knock some sense into me and help me figure out what is wrong with my head. Could be more literal than you think ....tagging /u/throwawayughclearly - I am not a full on doctor but do have fairly extensive training / experience in relevant medical fields. Something ya'll might want to research & come to your own conclusions about, as far as situations like this go, is intranasal oxytocin (warning: ONLY safely usable if you're on BC)
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/16 06:20 AM
1

if trump wins the election i'm moving out of Canada and into Texas! Mah nigga. Austin, Houston, and Dallas are all pretty good for tourism.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 06:09 AM
1

Hey, it's your choice between whether you wanna fuck or reply to the advice on how to do it with bullshit excuses.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 04:08 AM
1

Car, public restrooms, bushes, gym locker room, showers, anywhere behind a house or back alley, etc.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 08:04 PM
1

Monk mode is an extreme for people who can't pace/control themselves without it ...not really required. Your focus should always be on yourself and your future, but when a chick's around who's hot & just asking for it, go fuck her.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 04:30 PM
10

Workplace affairs in a nutshell.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 04:28 PM
1

"Friends with benefits."
/r/askTRP03/11/16 10:29 PM
19

Every morning - a good breakfast followed by a motorcycle ride.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 08:25 PM
13

The current culture lets them.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 08:23 PM
1

Women are (1) Interested / fucking you, (2) Undecided / meeting up or (3) Not Interested. Any smooth ways to bust through this one? The only thing you need to bust through is the self-delusion your ego has inflicted upon you.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 07:43 PM
2

Likely varies too much to describe. What motivates guys to join a frat? Also varies, but generally not STEM Pretty women don't need a career. Really, really ridiculously easy. They're easy on the eyes. It's a big world man. Some are sluts that peak in HS/College and go nowhere, other girls work as a server or in bars until they cuff a stupid rich guy, other more high end ones go into Real Estate / Recruiting, and the top shelf chicks with a pedigree usually model / self-brand, or go on to become…
/r/askTRP03/11/16 07:39 PM
5

does a rp man drink a lot? The man you envision doesn't exist. I'm sure some live from a bottle, while others haven't drank in decades.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 07:34 PM
7

Keep smashing while the bullshit's sparse and the happy times are plenty. Could be a week, could be a decade. But with "no kids" in the mix the dumbest things you could do are marry, move in ...or trust her to be on birth control.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 03:05 AM
8

Virgins and chicks that gag hundreds of dicks are just the extremes, it's ten billion shades of grey in between - and not the romantic kind where anyone feels good about or gets off of it either. Unless you're trying to start a family right now, this chick sounds good enough. If you like fucking her / vice versa & the company's good, proceed. If not, next.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 03:01 AM
4

not particularly attractive or intelligent ... I don't want to hang out with her, like in the past 2 weeks. was fun when I was bored and had free time ... how I can let her off without hurting her feelings The least you can do is reply with a straightforward "Yeah". You're not really trying to spare her feelings, she'll have to make up reasons to hate you to get over you anyways - you're trying to spare your feelings, which is a huge cop out. Sounds like you do not give a fuck about this person,…
/r/askTRP03/11/16 02:52 AM
1

And I can't actually do these because there are things The trick is: you can do anything, but there are consequences. Go to the nearest UFC gym or start a business
/r/askTRP03/11/16 01:12 AM
1

but it seems I can't control my desire to fuck someone if I'm already attracted to her. Is this how it works? Yes, for both genders. This + women (mostly) holding the access to sex = how the modern world spins.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 01:08 AM
2

If you're working for a dumb-ass who would say something like that off the cuff, you have every reason to worry. Yes, document it, but make sure you tell your rep that you do not want this actioned without your go-ahead before you do. Most of your gain or loss will be contingent on how you handle things if you do get terminated. There isn't too much to do at this point, so I wouldn't overthink it too much. Definitely look for work elsewhere, preferably a full time desk job.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 01:04 AM
3

? imagine I'll need like 300$ in cash That estimate's missing a zero, I doubt $300 would even get you a clean back alley hooker in Manhattan ....if you're ripped, post a headless pic for date + smash for $300 on craigslist and see if anyone hot replies. You'd be surprised. Or arrested. Anyways, you're SOL with $300 in NYC - although that cash would go a long way in a place like Mexico.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 12:58 AM
4

This is just banter, it means fucking nothing. Keep doing it, put your dick in her. Off you go
/r/askTRP03/11/16 12:56 AM
11

Do you still enjoy fucking her? If not, end it. If you do, no need to throw out the baby with the bathwater. I've already implied that you should rightfully begin withdrawing affection & commitment, but remember that displaying affection carries no cost for you. Besides, if you are seeing a woman on the basis that she is seeing YOU and ONLY YOU, you're setting yourself up for a really bad fucking time in most LTRs. See them as long as they're fun, stop when they ain't. Coincidentally, you'll fin…
/r/askTRP03/11/16 12:52 AM
9

First off, I don't have kids. But then ...you gauge her by the measuring stick of an adult. Big fucking mistake. Think back to what kind of human you were (were you even?) at the age of 12, and all the stupid shit you did. Before you can teach her anything, she has to like you, respect you, and want to learn / follow you by example. A mix of books about dog training & high end leadership / people management have the best material on how to optimally parent.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 12:49 AM
7

Like I said, no need to mention anything or change behavior ...keep fucking her, no need to throw away good pussy, but she's not your GF anymore - hit on chicks and look for an upgrade, because rest assured she's doing the same.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 12:43 AM
9

not really sure if I want to nuke the relationship over a gut feeling with really no evidence Biggest mistake you'll ever make, right here. Get sure, and be fucking quick about it. Trust your gut. Start hitting on chicks and looking for a new GF. No need to mention anything or change behavior, just drop her once you find better.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 12:38 AM
3

like a mature relationship with someone my own age. (I'm 20) Someone to cuddle with Get your T checked, or just hop straight on 500mg/wk and become a living god.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 10:08 PM
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Why are you preparing to get rejected? These are not the questions you should be asking yourself unless you WANT to mentally set yourself up for failure and ensure it before you begin - with this shit in your head, you'll spend the entire interaction looking for rejections / trying to address them, or eject, when they might've been imaginary to begin with.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 10:04 PM
1

Vitamin Injections, Epitalon, HGH, juice / drink insane amounts of carrots and oranges.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 01:32 AM
3

Don't tell her shit, because you aren't interested. When you are, you won't need a wall of text to confirm. Might want to find chicks you want to fuck and put your dick in them, though. You ain't getting younger.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 06:53 PM
3

Ignore it - this is a textbook example of how, and why, taking shit women say seriously is a bad idea.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 07:57 PM
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anyway to pick up a girl over social media without seeming beta as fuck? Have hundreds of likes on every picture & thousands of followers - if you don't, your time's best spent out and about.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 11:42 PM
3

Don't chase, let her cool off. If she doesn't warm back up, find a new GF.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 11:39 PM
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love her very much and nexting isnt an option Bicep curls and rowing mean more to me then having the wife wrinkle my dinkle. Ultimately, you're going to have to pick one. This is your wife. If you don't fuck her, someone else will. And you know this sub would be up in fucking arms if the roles were reversed, if you wanted to fuck and she was cold as fucking ice. Low dose Caber E3-6D might be your best solution, otherwise you have a very serious decision to make.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 08:50 PM
1

She's a plate, who cares? Unless she's mainlining heroin her side dick drug dealer drops off at your door, you're good.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 08:48 PM
3

What the fuck good are friends you can't hang out with? People will fade in and out of your life, when the people you usually hang out with are busy and / or blowing you off and / or being bitches, find new people: platonic or otherwise. But don't keep score because you realistically have zero way of knowing if it's personal or not, so let people fade. And if they want to reappear in your life, let them do that too. (For guys, at least. Women ...personally, nah). Over the years, I go months (som…
/r/askTRP28/10/16 07:52 PM
1

Expose yourself to everything and study everyone, some of the things you'll learn will come naturally: focus on those. In the next 0-5 years of your life, you've a golden window in which it's very easy to make friends (HS/College), don't waste this opportunity. Network well, without ulterior motives, and often - so you have a huge social circle before 21.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 10:19 PM
1

Escort, married and you're side dick so of course she has no friends ...to introduce you to, shitty person - or all three. More importantly, who gives a fuck about why? A red flag's a red flag. Smash while it's good & ghost once you must.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 08:11 PM
1

The fuck? Chick shows up in YOUR gym and somehow YOU start going to a different one?
/r/askTRP26/10/16 12:11 AM
3

This is tricky, since her staying in just because you're out of town would be retarded, but so is her going with some other guy who isn't even your friend. The smart thing to do would be to rely on friends for info about what does - or doesn't - happen. Your second best option would be to suggest she go with one of your friends, who you know has your back: her reaction to such an offer will pretty much tell you everything you need to know, and then some.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 09:23 PM
1

Go out with your S.O., find a third both of you like and vibe with, invite her to your place. It's a social thing.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 08:09 PM
0

What can I do right now in my 20s to make the lifestyle a reality in my 30s? All I read was "how can I sacrifice my enjoyment of the present in hopes of an unknown future" - don't do this. First off, unless you're genetically disposed to function well on a basically permanent diet of alcohol (there is such a thing), don't fucking do this, it's poison to most people. If you wanna fuck sluts and party hard, the time to do that is now.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 08:01 PM
2

Yeah well just be sure you aren't lying to yourself about how things really are. And don't waste away too much of the present in hopes of a better future.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 07:53 PM
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Hell, if I could without ruining my life, I'd already be married with kids. The only difference between men and women in this regard is that it is men who get fucked culturally, legally, economically and socially for trying to have a family.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 07:48 PM
2

What I mean by league is that someone is either into you, or they aren't. Your feelings are unfortunately only half of the equation, it would be futile try more/harder when someone simply has no part of them that they can give to you. The general scale of attractiveness matching we use for examples / comparison would be retarded if actualized.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 07:43 PM
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Tell him you're hurt and even more upset by the consequent handling of the situation, see how he reacts. You aren't being unreasonable. If it turns out that he doesn't give a fuck about you (hope not), there's only one thing left to do.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 07:35 PM
1

Not all expectations are worthy of meeting, or even sane. Focus on yours, and those of your SO: fuck everyone else.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 06:26 PM
2

TRP overall, discourages marriage/LTRs in general This is news to me. TRP makes sure men know their worth, plus how much of a shitty deal the average modern strong independent wymmyn is, which, I suppose, indirectly discourages LTRs. What our readers make of this is up to them. sounds like the goals of OP and the man she is dating are incompatible, No doubt, when I read the guy cancelling without notice, it just tells me that OP's date doesn't give many fucks about her, making me think that she'…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 06:15 PM
1

Eh, YMMV. Going out, and knowing people is fun - so is fucking chicks that can't ruin it since they don't know anyone.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 05:28 PM
1

You could be good looking, confident, and dress decent, but still won't be even be considered Status establishes itself, assuming one has any, within minutes of walking into a bar or club. Social circle smashes are extra pussy at the cost of ulterior motives. You don't get shit for free, it's either you doing slightly more when solo or risking massive amounts of drama around your friends. I'd rather take the risk up front.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 05:18 PM
2

She's been bringing up the "50/50" garbage lately 50/50? Does she pay 50% of all your shared bills, rent and food expenses? How about transportation and going out? she tried giving me a list of chores to do while she was out, under the guise of "asking" for help. Unless the answer to above was "Yes", what's stopping her from doing them? I ask this of you, as you should of her. Assuming, of course, her list isn't "fix leaking sink, repair bedroom windows, change car oil" - because that's all you.…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 04:20 PM
1

LTR was hysterical, crying, said she felt cheated on, the usual. Oh, she felt cheated on because you sent out a message? Now why in the world would she think that? relationship status ... on Facebook, ... was hidden after she did the same (a passive aggressive play Sure, it was tootally just a passive aggressive play. You're in an LTR with her, but she's not in one with you. told her it now stays hidden and I won't be negotiating it further. The subtext to this was that you're onto her shit, whi…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 03:59 PM
1

I will just do one cycle and then stop. The likelihood of you actually stopping after one cycle is ...low. You need HGH to grow, and unless your growth plates are still open, you won't be growing vertically. If you're young enough for your growth plates to still be open, AAS will fucking annihilate your endocrine system - you'd be far, far better off with sticking to just HGH. Also, even if you have access to pharma HGH, it is expensive. So if you are young enough for it, do you have the money? …
/r/askTRP24/10/16 04:57 PM
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As someone who does well even in LA, going anywhere else is pretty much about trying to not get STDs. The danger zone nobody tells you about is once you can smash pretty much whoever, the question becomes: when should you?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 08:01 PM
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but it's not enough in my case. I'm going to start roids soon. The issue here is that I am short and can't hook up with girls Warning you now - using steroids to compensate for psychological issues will fuck you over unless you're prepared to B&C for life. Even if you do keep the gains off-cycle, your psych issues will come back order of magnitudes stronger. I'm being patient and just trying to earn a good salary. Chicks should never know how much you make anyways. This invites incentives which …
/r/askTRP22/10/16 11:51 PM
1

There isn't enough information to tell. Would need to know your medical (and otherwise) history, some basic genetic tests, a psych eval and a full set of bloods to give you an answer that isn't a crock of shit. And since giving out all that information in a place like this would be beyond bat-shit insane, this is obviously not the best place for your question.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 11:41 PM
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2/3rds of people come from broken homes, the remaining women will find victim cards anyways because even spoiled worthless brats want the same (they think) pity and attention points as people who've actually had it rough. In other breaking news, the sky is blue. Meanwhile in reality, people who've actually had fucked up lives seldom talk about it.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 06:21 PM
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Tell her to ask the CEO for the official title and compensation of the individual who quit, and come prepared with a two week notice. The second the CEO says no, which he no doubt at first will, put the letter on his desk, say "your choice", file a copy with HR & resume regular work duties. This guy probably can't afford her leaving at such a sensitive time.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 06:15 PM
1

Are you sure this question isn't a figment of your mind, born of cognitive bias?
/r/askTRP19/10/16 05:14 PM
1

I don't fuck married women. If she's open for dick, it will be yours or someone else's, and if she isn't, you can try all you want. It's gotta be to keep guys from hitting on her or just for attention If you believed this, you wouldn't need to ask, now would you? So what's the fucking point?
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:47 AM
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A subterranean land-whale, duh. Basically, 78% of Americans are Overweight or Obese. The bar is set really, really, ridiculously low. Like, below the bar itself low for women in America. As in, if you touch a barbell, you'll be above it.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:44 AM
2

difficult than it has to be to meet up in person. Why do they do this but continue to insist on hanging out? | but when it comes time to do so or to set a date they are always busy on that day or some bullshit. For the ten billionth time, ignore what they say, watch what they do. There's no such thing as "busy". If execs and mid-20s PhDs with 70-100 hour work weeks can make time for good dick, rest assured: whatever useless hoes you're talking to on Tinder aren't that busy. They're either intere…
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:35 AM
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Lift, cardio, eat clean, rest. Your face is average, your body can be hot as fuck if you exercise & treat it well. Next thing you know, you're wearing a slim dress & are far above average - because average is a landwhale. Stressing out over shit you can't change is pointless (unless you're willing to have plastic surgery - don't).
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:30 AM
2

ask her this next class if she's married, Don't do this, just try to put your dick in her - asking if they're married, dating or have a BF is pointless
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:28 AM
2

What would you do? Don't say to ghost or just start over Tell me what I want to hear. Fixed that so it's obvious to everyone. And okay OP, I can tell you what you want to hear: Pretend like nothing happened and stay the course. Maybe it will blow over, maybe not.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 09:27 PM
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tell if the fear of not wanting her to move on is stopping myself from making a decision You either like her or don't, she's either good to you or not - these should be your only criteria for deciding. to break off this LTR. Furthermore, for what reasons in the past have you broken up with previous girlfriends? Bored with and/or no longer attracted to them and/or found someone better; same reasons everyone breaks up.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 09:24 PM
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is I should just drop this and let it go, Yes. or tell her that I never done it before? No.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 09:22 PM
6

three scary looking bearded muslim dudes came to my house to tell me Shootin towelheals without even having to leave my property, let alone country - sounds like my wet dream. I realize this is a an off-topic rant, but anyone thinking Islam or Muslims are compatible with civilization ...un-fuck yourselves. Muslims are a giant shit test to civilization in general, not just OP.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 03:06 PM
5

Lmao, OP, ISHYGDDT.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 01:59 AM
1

What would you consider shitty behaviors and tendencies that fuck things up? Well, I was hoping you'd research to see what sticks out to you specifically, when I mentioned: these tendencies are called "Turnings Of The Mind" Here's a quick, generally universally-applicable, summary - there are five main Hindrances (src: TMI) Desire, the mental wake left by struggling against the material world: gain-loss, pleasure-pain, fame-obscurity. Aversion: e.g. judgement, rejection, denial, resentment, ange…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:57 PM
1

You don't learn to have fun, you know how to have fun. You've always known, since you were a kid. You just learned a bunch of shitty behaviors and tendencies that fuck it up - so unlearn those. Your adult brain is what fucks you out of enjoying things. In the original Vedanta texts & their derivatives, these tendencies are called "Turnings Of The Mind"
/r/askTRP13/10/16 03:59 AM
5

Wish I could tell you, I don't feel shit anymore. Would be willing to buy your excess feelings, actually.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 03:51 AM
1

I don't know if I would remember to even do that or have the time to make sure I show up late or whatever. That'd be so autistic if you were actually late, on purpose, by some amount of time. And petty as shit. Let them have a taste = if someone is disrespecting your time, they slide lower on its priority list.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 12:51 AM
1

Okay, so you can't tell them that they're wrong. You don't have to tell them that you're wrong either.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 12:49 AM
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I'm not able to just brush it off thinking it doesn't matter. And it's fucking driving me nuts. This is because instead of pausing & resolving the conflict in real time during that conversation, you acquiesced. You had a choice: external conflict at the time of that conversation, or internal conflict for a long time after it. This is a choice you'll face often: all you need to do is recognize that this is a choice in real-time.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 08:39 PM
16

TL;DR you are your worst enemy here. None of that shit sounds unreasonable. 6 scoops of ice cream cause YOLO. And she said "you're trying to get fatter than this ?" If you don't respect yourself (6 scoops says you don't), how the fuck do you expect others to respect you? There's also other cases like being late (like 5-10 mins) and if she's more than 2 minutes late I just left People are gonna be late, it's 2016. Occupy yourself with setting up other dates on your phone in the meantime. girls tr…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 08:29 PM
2

considering she's not gonna expect me to man up and try to hit it. The assumption that she has the same out-dated model of you as you yourself do is likely incorrect. She knew me a couple years ago, when I had zero game and was a fat fuck. To you, your past is your whole world - you remember. But her? Nowhere near as well, if at all. How many people can you vividly recall circa 2-3 year ago? In a strange, self-delusional (this is not a knock on you, the mind is just REALLY, REALLY good at self-d…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 06:45 PM
3

Your career/school/life decisions should never be dictated by your social circle. Decide what you think is best for your future - and proceed wholeheartedly. Learn to network and make friends without the work, school or booze crutches.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 12:33 AM
9

She argues a lot more with me now and digging her heels in the ground trying to revert my progress. No shit, a beta bitch is a safe bitch, and you're her safety - the point of safety is ...safety. Not attraction. Not fun. Not enjoyability. Not love. No, it's safety: that's where you are. says to me "you are changing." ... catch was that she doesn't like it. Of course she says she doesn't like it, see above. She will try and get me to eat food that goes against my diet. Fuck this, eat clean, get …
/r/askTRP12/10/16 12:23 AM
1

Slow or fast is irrelevant, this is about purpose. Moving fast keeps the mind busy & slowing down is an anxiety-filled experience because when they can think clearly, they sense that their lives have zero meaning, direction or purpose.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 04:31 PM
9

What the fuck is going on? I don't think i've met someone yet who fits into this box, but i don't believe in unicorns. You're doing what you're supposed to and she's reacting, hopefully things keep going this way. Until you slip up or she slips onto another dick for no reason, whichever comes first. Ayy
/r/askTRP08/10/16 06:19 AM
3

What you recommend I do? Expose yourself to as many things as you can for they will help you discover who you truly are based on how you react to them. This means take crafts classes, work with cars, plumbing, electricity, give a basic programming class a shot: while you're doing this, try to make money with it. Offer your help for free in exchange for knowledge / mentor-ship. Life-wise, a delayed planning strategy will work best: make sure that what you're doing now is going to benefit your fut…
/r/askTRP07/10/16 05:57 PM
2

Dating (in a big city, at least) isn't normal in any sense whatsoever. You can't take your time because, most of the time, if you don't fuck them, everything can go well between you two but someone else will fuck them & things die down for everyone except whoever gave her good D first - since when people make time for dating, it's open season.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 05:49 PM
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YOU think the first date goes well - if it actually went well, you wouldn't need to do any convincing for a 2nd. what I'm doing wrong ... seemed obviously interested ... a couple days later there's no interest at all. Welcome to the world of women and fee fees - where feeling good now causes them to say all sorts of shit about the past and future ("we should go out again!") and feeling bad now causes them to, once again, say all sorts of shit about the past and future (think back to any time you…
/r/askTRP07/10/16 05:07 PM
1

I like how you think there's any reason or rationale to this besides her current fee fees, because there isn't. She keeps talking to/meeting up with you & the bullshit's worth the vagina? Keep fucking her. Let her call it whatever she wants.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:39 PM
1

trying to "seduce" women i'm interested in(with no cold approaching involved). Read this comment and this one on that front.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:37 PM
1

Any tips for not screwing up hard? #1: don't cold approach. 2000 people you're stuck with for the next 4 years isn't the place to learn it. Also: Give it time. Observe people. Learn who's friends with who, who likes what, be friendly, outgoing and fun.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:22 PM
4

been there for about a week now, my bachelor ends in 4 years. Yeah, right now, cold approaching is a HORRIFIC idea for you. If shit gets weird or blows out with one girl you might not even like, in front of others, or word gets around, you'd be paying the social price for the next 4 yrs. People talk. involved myself in many groups, classes etc. Give it time. Observe people. Learn who's friends with who, who likes what, be friendly, outgoing and fun. If you're doing it right, in the next month or…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:23 PM
4

2000 People is a very small community. How good of an idea cold approaching chicks in it is will depend on how long you plan to stay in it & how long you've already been in it ...it's easy to develop a bad rep on tightly knit campuses.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:16 PM
9

she says I am controlling because I am not considerate and just assume she can figure it out, causing her to show up unprepared and in a situation she doesn't like. How am I controlling? If someone's keeping a "greatest hamster hits" Top 40 somewhere, this needs to be on it. Look, this isn't a rational discussion. She gets bad fee fees because of god knows what & it's automatically your fault. It might have a rational solution on your part, but odds are she'll gradually find something else to be…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:12 PM
1

No AAS = no steroids. Not wanting to die kept me on track after the noob gains. No diet alternations, this is pretty much year-round condition. I don't really care about being any bigger or leaner temporarily, just the performance. I'm 6'1 and 195Lbs... struggling to make long-term gains Are you accurately tracking what you eat on a daily basis?
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:04 PM
2

Yeeeah but be smooth about it. Never sink down to her level because remember, you were NEVER on her level, you didn't even want to fuck her. You don't have anything to prove here, just put her bullshit in line & chill with friends.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 12:20 AM
2

If you DO do this, don't be an idiot and do it yourself. The amount of "research" you've already done, as a civilian, is abnormal. You're locked, loaded and ready to do. You make that decision yourself and you fucking live with it. He put his hands on your little brother? Why not get the cops involved? Don't do this purely for the sake of self-gratification. This kind of shit is how you get shot or stabbed later, might be a week, might be a decade.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 12:06 AM
2

How would you go about figuring out she's undermining you Is she a woman? Check. Did you reject her? Check. Is she trying to exclude you from social shit? Check. Let me get my supercomputer to do the math on this, one sec. . .. ... An abacus turned out to be enough, she's undermining you.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 12:00 AM
5

Sounds like this was it. This time, take my advice. Should I: A) ignore girl, keep drinking with friends, avoid drama or B) completely ditch that social circle C) excommunicate her from the social circle. Be in the same place, at the same time, and be cool about it. Don't be openly aggressive or unseemly, but know that this chick's actions will draw lines between virtually everyone both of you know - and it will be because of her; you'll be dragged into it regardless. If things come down to it, …
/r/askTRP05/10/16 10:00 PM
4

Don't pick an irresponsible major. Work satisfaction is largely a matter of internal mental and emotional discipline. You've no guarantee that one job will make you happy, or that another will make you unhappy. With that being an unknown, you might as well opt to find out if you will be happy or unhappy while having money rather than debt.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 09:54 PM
3

I hate to be the "source" guy, but do you have any more concrete information on this? I'm curious about it.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 09:51 PM
-1

confidence/self esteem issue (which I feel that I've fixed smiling at me the entire time, didn't FUCKING act on it though Even in your own writing, reality disagrees with your self-image. I mean a bar, or a club... you drink, that's a massive part of it. I do love a good whiskey, but you don't need booze to get laid in nightlife. Start here: never asked a girl out, approached girls or anything.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 09:50 PM
1

It ain't like I'm trying to put words in your mouth. Personally, that's exactly what I do. By the time I see the resume of a Lead or Senior Engineer or Architect, the amount of shit they've had to put up with to get that if they're not only a male but also not a minority has led them to perform at a substantially higher level than their token counterparts. Sure, in-group favoritism is real, but at this point it's just statistics. When a whole gender is protected & so are most minorities, the onl…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 07:44 PM
0

You'll have to decide that one yourself, keep in mind I'm just sharing what I've decided for myself rather than reciting some abstract TRP gospel that will make all vagina on earth so wet for you that the ocean levels measurably rise. Girls are fickle, but so are most men - in fact, I think most people agree on the fact that they are now "dating" or are "in an LTR" without even discussing exactly what those things mean to each of them, and perhaps therein lies the real issue.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 07:40 PM
1

I'm sure this isn't the case in more conservative cultures and / or smaller rural towns, I did say: steady "I'm single" diet in most large cities Toronto is ...not good for men. But it is VERY good for women. I'd keep that in mind. Most girls that I've known around here have all been under 10, Known how? You asked? You see where I'm going with this. To be more helpful to you, change what you view LTR to mean. It's not a promise of future commitment, it's just an agreement to stick around for as …
/r/askTRP05/10/16 07:27 PM
2

You can't seal the deal because you're trying to, which makes things not fun. Keep enjoying yourself, if she's also enjoying herself, and wants to continue doing so after last call, she'll just go with you - women are smart like that. People are loss-averse. If you're having a great time, she has an incentive to go with you, to not miss out on a great time. If you're trying to convince her to do something, it's automatically not a great time & she has nothing to lose.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 07:11 PM
7

You're a valid human. Trust your judgement. Give what you think is right, weighted between what they earn & how you feel about them. Talk to them as much as you think is appropriate, as weighted by a scale of your own choosing. If things don't turn out as you want, fuck it, learn from your actions (these are actions, not mistakes. A mistake is when you should've known better. This is very, VERY important to keep in mind) and adjust for future reference. Trust yourself or you'll be trapped in ina…
/r/askTRP05/10/16 07:04 PM
3

If you think 20 is high for a 25 year old girl, I don't know where you've been living. Most (really hot) chicks fuck dozens of dudes before even finishing high school. Gender-neutral, 3-8 hookups a month is pretty much the steady "I'm single" diet in most large cities for any attractive, not socially retarded, guy or girl around 20 - 30 years old. If that number is honest (doubt it), it'd be a very low one for an attractive 25 year old chick. 30 hookups a year is only about twice a month, which …
/r/askTRP05/10/16 06:50 PM
3

YOU need advice on whether or not YOU want to fuck a chick? Bruh...
/r/askTRP05/10/16 06:48 PM
2

It feels great to see someone knowing there's no motives outside of who they are, and who you are - and that this is good enough for everyone involved. Easily the least bullshit romantic arrangement of over a year that I've ever had.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 06:11 PM
2

Actually yes. Hooked up and went out with, on and off, for two years. I had the feeling that asking her to date me would just result in her fading like the flying dutchman so I enjoyed it for what it was, for as long as it lasted. Cute girl, pleasant, pretty, tall, but even being relatively well off, we split everything and I just fucked her good / dressed well enough to not embarrass her. At the end of the day, white tie events 3 times a week could never be my life.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 06:07 PM
1

As always, try to leverage what you already know. Perhaps position yourself to be in a good spot for semi service and repair? What other services do trucks / truckers need that you can provide with less investment required than 45k?
/r/askTRP05/10/16 06:01 PM
7

1) Yes, apply immediately. Go today, and search for work right after. 2) As much as we preach lifting, this is NOT the time. Focus entirely on #1. 3) "The Power Of Now" + "Switch: How To Make Change When Change Is Hard" 4) Yes. I'm actually 6'3 too. 230-240Lbs, single digit body fat, no AAS usage. 5) Again, focus on #1. Don't try to borrow money, acquire positive net worth. My other advice to you, based on this: Spend most days gaming, smoking weed and jerking off Would be to meditate. Start lif…
/r/askTRP05/10/16 05:41 PM
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so when I have enough trucks and drivers to make a profit big enough so I don't have to work anymore. I want you to be aware of the fact that the Trucking industry is likely to be eliminated by driver automation. Volvo and most other major truck manufacturers are already in a (currently) hidden race to partner with companies like Google and release specialized software capable of self-driving trucks. When it happens, you can be assured of two things: The profitability will quickly outpace smalle…
/r/askTRP05/10/16 05:33 PM
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Why would anyone even click on that? Could easily be a waterhole attempt to Dox our users. I'm not proud of saying this without visiting the link, but it should probably be removed.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 05:26 PM
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Of course, white men are the only group that doesn't help each other, Not quite so. All female startups? Mostly minorities? Mixed gender? You've probably never heard of them. Two white guys in a garage resulted in Google. Twelve white guys in a room resulted in the United States of America. White men have relatively abnormal capacity for altruism as an evolved trait - when this isn't checked by mixing their group with minorities or women, the amount of momentum & force for achievement that quick…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 04:48 PM
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Gender-neutral, if someone thinks / perceives / believes they have higher status or social power than you in a given circumstance, they will of course believe it's your job to get out of their way. And no, this literally never happens.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 08:56 PM
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I'm 26- i'm set to make about 80k this year, own a primary house and a duplex that i rent out, live in California? Sorry, I chuckled. Real estate ownership in California, in your 20s, on under 6 digits a year, is ...a funny proposition.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 07:05 PM
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"Whoever this ass-clown is here with needs to check and get him out of here, before I do". Also, take his shirt since he fucked up yours. If this kind of shit happens to you - even by a drunk person who isn't himself at the time - you likely have zero fucking presence so no matter what smooth lines or moves you read about, I doubt you could make them. I can fuck you up" and "You won't do shit" ... but he definitely stepped over the line. No, he stepped over you. It was a gamble or he was drunk, …
/r/askTRP04/10/16 07:51 AM
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"Which ex?" She obviously knew which one. Yeah, obviously ...right? There's something you need to understand about disclosure in relationships - the manner and reasons for which things are disclosed often matter far more whether they are disclosed or not, or if a lie is being told. I explain about the phone and how I saw the text. Don't do this, there's no need to tell women, or people in general, what you already know. On the contrary, refraining from doing so will give you a large amount of in…
/r/askTRP04/10/16 07:42 AM
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You're asking about what a "good move" is ...in regards to your EX? Think about why you are asking this.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 07:37 AM
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Lawyer => Contracted IVF Surrogate. Raising a child without a mother is going to fuck them up very badly. During the first 6 years of their lives, they become emotionally/psychologically imprinted with what goes on around them. Women are vastly superior to men as far as raising and caring for infants and the very young: if you want your child to have a good life, you can't ignore this fact. A proper household model is ideal for them to learn healthy inter-gender relations by example and grow up …
/r/askTRP03/10/16 10:03 PM
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I know he still loves me and I know we can work past this Your desires are blinding you from reality. You two sound the kinds of broken that aggravate each other's problems instead of meshing well to filling in the gaps in each others' shortcomings. Plus, put yourself in his shoes and imagine what it's like to get a random breakup text after the past that he's had, from someone he'd been seeing for 8 months. I texted him last night telling him I'd love it if we could meet up and talk Stop. You'l…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 07:51 AM
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But if you don't catch yourself tensing up/frowning etc. Like I said: the catch was coming out of a lapse in awareness, The solution is constant awareness of your breath, posture & most body muscles as well as what emotions / thoughts you are having on a meta-cognitive level. To an untrained individual this must seem batshit crazy proposition since most people, even smart ones, can't pay attention to their breath for 30 minutes while sitting down & doing nothing, but if you work on it, you can f…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 01:06 AM
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Go out to bars, clubs, group activities / meetups or networking events, talk to people, get their contact info. This isn't rocket science. If you want 1k followers you've actually met, you need to go meet 1,000 people.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 01:01 AM
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I'm not sure what resting muscle control is.. In a nutshell, expanded bodily awareness. If you ever catch yourself frowning or tensing up muscles that you don't need to use at that time (arms, legs, quads, neck muscles, etc), the catch was coming out of a lapse in awareness, meaning you have poor resting muscle control. Being "in tune" with your body, or mindful of it, helps a shit ton. The thing about opportunities is that if you were the life of the party people would bend over backwards to ge…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 12:57 AM
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Both. I research what I need my body to do, how to do it, find what achieves that, try it and keep detailed logs.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 12:52 AM
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Yeah, I have, but doing Coke while prone to depression is like doing steroids when you eat and sleep like shit. It'll still do you a lot of good, but nowhere near as much as if you figured out your other stuff first. What's your progress with, say, Mindfulness? How about breathing? Posture? Resting muscle control? Those are often the lowest hanging fruits.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 12:48 AM
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There are many ways to modulate neurotransmitters, alas I do suggest treating your body & brain as machines which rely on each other & are open to change through nutrition, supplementation and default mode network control habits. Research how you can modulate Dopamine and Serotonin without Cocaine - there are many ways. Stuff as simple & dumb as Magnesium (not very powerful) to more effective combinations like 5-HTP + Tryptophan. Cocaine has a bad reputation, alas it's just one of many ways to i…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 12:41 AM
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What do you mean by "people like you"? Intellectually gifted, low confidence / social skill individuals tend to have similar neurochemical archetypes. Before you ask for studies and sources to the science of it - which is a valid question - let me say that I'm not typing out a novel. Why coke? What will it do to "people like him"? First, let's start with: why not alcohol? It directly acts on ACh, serotonin, GABA and NMDA, and - what we really want - its effect on Serotonin, is indirect, it's bel…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 12:25 AM
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and 2h a day working out, 6/7 days a week. This kind of volume is only realistic on-cycle, you'd just flood your system with Cortisol if you're not on AAS. You want to lose fat - not muscle / strength. I can help you whip up some basic instructions. What's your height, age & weight?
/r/askTRP03/10/16 12:02 AM
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Your problem isn't lack of size, it's excess fat. Whatever you are doing in the gym is good for size, and whatever you're doing in the kitchen as well as bedroom (sleep-wise) is not helping your situation. Keep lifting, fix your diet & lifestyle. Put in 8 hours of sleep and 40 minutes in the kitchen for every 40 minutes you put in at the gym.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 11:17 PM
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the social media account of a higher SMV guy (not exactly a celeb or anything) in his 30s generally look like? For starters, it likely doesn't exist unless they have a reason to keep social media - e.g. keep their friends posted, to pull bitches, for their job / company / endeavour, or other reasons ...in which case it's catered to serve that purpose. Alas, I digress on the pedantic front. It looks fun, which looks like good looking people doing enjoyable things.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 11:09 PM
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Did I handle a confrontation correctly? (self.asktrp) Well, it depends - have you stopped to think about what your optimal / desired outcome was? If you achieved it, yes. Your post is a prime example of why nothing can help if you have no confidence. Objectively, that guy's a sack of shit, and he wronged you. But instead of reminding him of his place in the world on the spot & making HIM mentally fuck himself over it for days, you mentally fucked yourself over it for days, and in the end went an…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 10:53 PM
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First off, most guys dupe themselves into perpetual unhappiness by chasing after the media-portrayed ideal of a good life. 90% of having an amazing social life lies in being okay with what you have. Personally, I've good friends to shoot, fight and go out, perhaps drink, with and fuck as many girls as I'd like, who are as hot as I'd like, as often as I'd like. Most of my days are spent in solitude, by choice. Being where you are, and being okay with where you are, rather than being off somewhere…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 10:42 PM
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Bro, welcome to the club of every man on the planet. Frank fucking Sinatra was married 4+ times. Will Arnett, Bruce Willis, Cary Hart, Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise are all divorced. There's someone better than everyone, made possible by the fact that there are three "betters" - one is in the eyes of the beholder and has nothing to do with you. The second is your self-esteem: it's the only thing you control. The third is some theoretical, absolute imaginary "true" value. That third "true" value does not…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 10:28 PM
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So... what DID you do this weekend?
/r/askTRP02/10/16 10:17 PM
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You're complaining about an uninhabitable apartment after laying down a single foundation brick. You're a work in progress, comparing your 5 days of trying XYZ to someone's 5 years is slanted. Remember, you see the results - never the hard work and struggle others put in to get there.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 08:33 PM
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Who said you need it? Why? Was there context? How about an angle? You'll have to provide details if you want an answer better than this one
/r/askTRP02/10/16 08:29 PM
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grad school in engineering. I have always had very low self esteem mythical confidence boost that comes with it, never did. I need to get laid, pronto. How does one go about getting a social life I'm probably going to get down-voted to hell for this but people like you don't really need alcohol, and no amount of it will help. When you wanna party, do coke once or twice a month and level out with weed. It'll make you a living god. Do NOT use it more often. It's a tool that most don't need, you wi…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 07:53 PM
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It sounds like you're uncertain. We can't really help you decide what to do with your life - only you can do that. TRP's tangible benefits to you will be much greater after you decide on a preference for plates or LTRs. Do NOT live your life under the assumption that you know who you'll be and what you'll want 3+ years from the present.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 07:22 PM
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You're looking for gamification - here's an article covering it and here's one of the popular tools.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 07:20 PM
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Fuck hotter chicks until you forget she exists, and when you crush on one of them, fuck ten equally hot ones and you'll be over it. Love is a pyramid scheme. Once you get started the main way to stay afloat is to go harder & harder. Until one day something clicks, perhaps a stint of maturity, and you become at peace, whether by yourself or with someone
/r/askTRP02/10/16 06:52 PM
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Release content independently, hope something sticks. Perhaps try your hand at live speaking or comedy. If you don't have anything lined up I would suggest against moving to LA ...if you know people in the right areas (monica, WeHo, ventura, bel air, palos verdes) the city is a great experience, but if you don't have a social network, good fucking luck. Moving to LA without a network is only possible as an established professional, really. Everything else is room-mates and living in areas you do…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 06:45 PM
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flashy high SMV life on social media outside of maybe the male celebs, What made you think he ISN'T a male celebrity? Anyone with a bit of money can use it wisely to gain fame.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 06:39 PM
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but don't know how to fight, that's why they caught me in a state of insecurity. There's a skill you're missing here, one fighting will teach you that will benefit you in all areas of your life - learning to keep your head cool & think while your amygdala is pumping your body full of fight or flight hormones. Ironically, once you spar & fight enough to get used to operating with your body like that, you won't feel like you've to fight someone unless they actually throw a punch at you, leaving yo…
/r/askTRP01/10/16 06:31 PM
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TL;DR distance if necessary, but try to not drop people from your early childhood. You'll never bond like that again. having a really difficult time with the concept of dropping and completely moving on from my best (male) friends that I have known since elementary school and high school. Don't do it. The friends you make before turning 18 are the likeliest unconditionally life-long connections you'll have. Hold onto them. If they're fuck-ups, distance yourself from them for a few years, you wil…
/r/askTRP01/10/16 06:23 PM
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Anything that isn't (Self-) esteem or actualization. Safety needs (personal, medical, financial, psychological security), and physiological needs (required for survival on a physical level). Ballparking a person's intellectual, psychological & hierarchical standing is going to tell you a lot more about their motives than even whether they're male or female. Most people are realistically never going to make it to Self-Esteem and Actualization.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 05:59 PM
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Big ass red flag ? Probably. You can be certain there's damn good reasons for why (assuming she doesn't) she doesn't have any online presence, they might not necessarily be sinister or detrimental to dating but she likely won't tell you the real reason. Don't automatically assume the worst - proceed - just cautiously. If she doesn't want you to know, that basically tells you everything you need to know regardless of what the specific details of her situation or past might be. Trust your gut. If …
/r/askTRP01/10/16 06:03 AM
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Live, shit & breathe The Power of Now, Emotional Intelligence, and The Illuminated Mind (books) Read and record yourself. Listen to it. Practice ironing out the tiny idiosyncrasies in your speech. Once you get your speech OK, add video. Pretend you're presenting. Same record / review cycle. Got bars around you? Go there. Go sober. Talk to people. For no purpose other than to have fun. If you want to improve, I mean really want it, you have virtually unlimited resources for doing so.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 03:50 AM
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My issue is a lot of people (not just girls, some dudes too) that I end up making plans with seem to flake off or end up taking forever to meet up and it ends up being like an hour+ from the time we planned to hang or something. They're doing something fun (or funner than hanging out with you) & you aren't. You are more available to hang out with them than they are with you. Because you find hanging out with them more rewarding than they find hanging out with you. Because they're happier/their s…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 11:36 PM
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frustrating to see read all these redpill articles about game, pickup, getting laid... I honestly can't relate This is something you spend time on, but if you don't care about getting laid, why do it? Is there even a purpose? Or is spinning up reddit to get your emotional fix just a fruitless habit? Or do you, deep down, want to fuck hot bitches? Food for thought.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 11:26 PM
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"increasing men's sexual power and options". So if you aren't in it for that Understanding a market, even if you don't wish to buy, increases your position in it - and in this particular market, the desire to buy is the only leverage women have against men, so those not looking for sex have ridiculously more power.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 11:19 PM
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She doesn't give a fuck about you, or your skin, or your existence. She's doing what's fun. Trying to fuck with people is fun, because she never gets put in her place for it. If she thinks going out with you will be fun, she'll probably do it. Women seek funsies and instant gratification, just like toddlers - it is nothing personal. Guys fuck up because they think fucking is fun, because they're thirsty. No. Fucking fun people is fun. Fucking people who aren't fun, isn't fun. So go out, and have…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 08:52 PM
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best way to respond if she calls my bluff and shows up Sunday with sweatpants and flip flops? So fucking what? "Ready to go to my place already?" Women will throw 10,000 random, equally ridiculous things at you just to see what upsets you and then leverage those things. Nothing they say matters, and almost nothing they do matters. Have fun, enjoy yourself & try to put your dick in her - always, ALWAYS in that exact order of priorities. Reply with "Wearing a suit, we'll turn heads one way or anot…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 08:41 PM
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If you're serious about your own business, the best thing you can do is go into salaried / career work for 3-6 years with the explicit purposes of (1) gaining mentorship, (2) building a strong network, (3) learning skills you need to succeed in the business you want to make in the context of a "live" and (4) saving up the capital you'll need to start your own. If your ethics allow it, jump-start your business on someone else's dime. Work on your shit while you're at work. Do whatever it takes to…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 06:53 PM
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You want men to be on the same standard as women, irresponsible single women at that. Those are your words, not mine. I'm merely pointing out that you exhibit a disproportionate amount of scorn to the exact same thing when a woman does it, versus when a man does. This limbic behavior is part of why it's hard for men to live. Because other men think it's zero camaraderie & all competition, just like you do. Fuck your mindset. Wake up. Tigers don't eat us anymore, there are relatively no wars or f…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 06:36 PM
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You likely connect your brain with theirs, but not your heart with theirs. Emotion, man. Make sure your conversation is charged and full of it.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 05:26 PM
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Read my other comment, there's no difference between what he wants to do and what most women already do. Or is it suddenly offensive when coming from someone with a penis strapped onto their body, just like yours? Probably time to reflect deeply on the double standards you carry.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 05:23 PM
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Irresponsible. You'll be creating children who'd have no means to fend for themselves. Might as well sell them into slavery yourself. Fuck your race/class/firstworld privilege. Oh shut the fuck up, every stupid slut in the world does this, raises them and gets praised for the struggles of single motherhood when in reality she should've been a victim of natural selection. God forbid a guy wants to do the same. All this would do is put him on par with single moms - let that sink in for a second. @…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 05:15 PM
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I'm prepared to sever ties but i'd prefer to salvage anything salvage-able. (self.asktrp) I'd start by recognizing that these two are mutually exclusive, ergo you have to pick one.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 05:11 PM
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You've no incentive to do anything, ignore her communication. This is her excuse to start shit with you for whatever dumb reason her female mind has conjured up in the midst of her latest hormonal storm. Don't reply. Any response / interaction from you will fuel the fire, even returning it - make sure you stay dead to EXs.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 04:51 PM
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culture here in Pacific NW values everyone except brown men. Roll with the stereotypes like you would punches, then separate yourself by wearing a suit that actually fits you.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 04:48 PM
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I've made a rule which is if she acts like a slut the relationship is over Translation: I gave her a heads up to be lowkey about slutting it up. She hasn't touched alcohol or partied since we got together You sure about that? sending her to a venue where guys dress up and girls slut out creates issues. Correct. Would it be hypocritical of me to invite her to a night out? It's mainly for her, Yes. I've no idea if she's unfaithful, alas basing your actions on the assumption that she isn't will bac…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 10:37 PM
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Your ego's stopping you from seeing reality. just not expressing my intent enough. That was two weeks ago No such thing, she's just not interested - they know you wanna fuck them.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 10:27 PM
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Women are volume priced, sans the volume. Paging /u/Redhotpengy for this tangent discussion. If your SMV is enough for zero, it's 'if you have to ask, you can't afford it' territory. If your SMV is enough for 1-10, it's "hefty and tangible hit to the wallet" for each. If your SMV is enough for bulk pricing, it's one unit for $0.07 & you can pay later.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 09:08 PM
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Honestly, I can't even imagine what that must be like. Was busy getting my ass beat and stabbed on the street before signing up to put peoples guts back inside them under live gunfire in third world shitholes. But, I'd wager that having a relatively low happiness baseline in youth has led me to be much happier now since the mind is a relative machine.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 05:47 PM
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define "actual work" Anything that 80% of men don't do, or don't do as hard, or don't do as well - lift, dress, socialize, vibe. Also, avoiding anything that 80% do, which detracts - porn, video games, excessive booze, TV, etc. Anything that everyone else in your area does, doesn't count. You work 40 hours a week, go to the gym 3-4 times a week but so does everyone else - making that the male "baseline", aka 60 hours a week spent on being average. It's hard to do more, because your incentive for…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 01:24 AM
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said something like "i don't think I can go, I am so sorry!" "Yeah you can. Tell them you have plans." If a chick tries to flake, you have nothing to lose unless your self esteem is low enough to keep trying after getting flaked on, so burn it down. Most chicks' schedules are driven by peer pressure - over half of first date flakes usually backpeddle on flaking and show up if you just press the matter.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 01:25 PM
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TL;DR: even at 35 she's still got it easier than 99.9% of men. 50 is when the roles reverse Meanwhile, back in reality, by pretty much 38, women, on average, have no choice at all. That data might look not too significant on paper but then you realize that most 30+ guys are fucking chicks under 35, and the further up the age ladder one climbs, the less total population (not to mention the eligible singles pool): women are fucked after 35. The way you write makes it sound like it's bad to be a ma…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 01:09 PM
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From the article: There was something there, and we both knew it, which is why were attempting to hash things out over the phone at some ungodly hour. Because at our age, we’re adults, and things matter more. The mistakes leave marks. This is female scarcity. It's just like male scarcity. 10 years ago she would flake or go out and never call back if they didn't fuck or it wasn't amazing, because she didn't give a shit - because she had 100 dudes just like him lined up. The pain, plight and rejec…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 08:12 PM
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If you're studying CIS, fuck sales. You'll make bank. Want to be more social? Pick up a part-time night job at a bar. If you play it well, you'll eventually have a shot at bartending - which is a gig / skillset that just keeps on giving.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 06:28 PM
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Looks at what actors and public personalities like Nick Wooster wear. The best thing a guy can do for himself style-wise is take care of his skin, hair & grooming - followed by getting a decent Brioni, Kiton or Isaia if you're on a budget, suit. It it doesn't have a collar, it's for being worn at home or in the gym. Grocery shopping? Great, put on a henley. This is your most casual "shirt". Get a few casual dress shirts for daily wear & going out and about. All your clothing should be adjusted b…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 06:19 PM
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feeling like I'm in a good situation to ask the girl for her number, FYI, this is being done to you by her friends / people on purpose. wondering if anyone had advice on how to properly number close a girl Talk to her, get her alone, talk some more, try to smash or get the #.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 06:13 PM
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no girl would ever go for a "badboy" type of guy. Every "badboy" ever has been very high SMV, just not good for an LTR. in practical terms, the SMV becomes a self imposed limit that serves no beneficial purpose. I think you're missin the point. Realizing that someone is out of your league & acting accordingly (not like a pushover or a suck-up but rather taking the extra effort to know them and not being rude) keeps a guy in the interaction long enough to maybe find common ground or let some "he'…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 06:07 PM
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do you approach and open? There's no reason not to. If it goes anywhere, the possibilities are endless; one more friend, maybe she introduces him to girls he hits it off with in a one on one setting, maybe they go out. But if it doesn't, he's in the same position as if he never talked to her. What I'm really trying to glue together here is that this perspective only works if women are approached in a socially savvy way (most of what's advertised as "game" here is quite effective on the average m…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 10:07 AM
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Better question there would be why a 6/10 guy is in a bar instead of working on himself, but I digress - let's consider: Do you approach and open, knowing that she's way above your league and that you do not "deserve her" ? Precisely - it's that or the guy's delusional. Nothing will get a 6/10 dude blown out with a 10 quicker than trying to pretend that he's actually attractive with negs and all this other stupid bullshit fuckers here think qualifies as "game". What else would you do? Ignore the…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 09:52 AM
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Consider that, perhaps, she's no longer (or was never) attracted to you and is doing this to save her ego. If you keep turning her down, eventually she will likely ostracize you from her social circle anyways so you might as well fuck her. Your choices are: her pussy and perhaps more of her friends, or no pussy at all. Keep in mind that women can't keep their mouths shut & they aren't real friends with other women. Her "friends" will fuck you even if you're fucking her. But not if you're not fuc…
/r/askTRP23/09/16 10:42 PM
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If you "overtrain", you'll injure yourself emotionally / psychologically, just as you would tear a muscle in the gym. It's the same thing. Doing too much will fuck up your interactions, kill your learning & induce destructive tendencies. The amount of research into social rejection is huge: you don't want the effects of it. Too much & your brain literally blunts your ability to perceive other's (and even your own) emotions as a way to cope with excessive rejection. Plus anxiety. Picking up chick…
/r/askTRP23/09/16 10:34 PM
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This. OP, it's because when you see chicks you get fucking weird and suppress your personality. The one you have out around your best friends, the real you - the you people love. Learning to channel that in front of strangers and women you like is a huge part of becoming a "people person". The key is suppressing your outdated, antisocial, fear instincts. Most people will feel what others around them feel. You need to be aware of what they're feeling & considerate of it, but also unaffected by it…
/r/askTRP23/09/16 10:28 PM
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here's the catch, I'm not being anywhere near myself and really want a relationship. It's pretentious for anyone to attempt dictating your desires, alas this limbic tendency demonstrates that while you may have read & memorized TRP, you haven't internalized it. You don't FEEL it. Once you do, the rosy glasses come off and you realize that almost all relationships you have with women will be detrimental or barely even in terms of benefiting your life - which is how you'll know when you're ready t…
/r/askTRP23/09/16 10:19 PM
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In other words how do you apply them in your life? Primarily as a deterrent. I have a strong moral compass for those I deem upright and those who've done well by me. Screwing people over is a petty and short-sighted approach, alas sometimes it needs to be done. When you become the target of subterfuge, you must know it to recognize what's being done to you & devise timely countermeasures. If people know that trying to fuck you over comes with a heavy price, 99% of them won't try: this applies to…
/r/askTRP23/09/16 10:08 PM
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You're assuming that today's women (1) don't know and (2) want to stay married. Wrong. (1) They know and (2) they don't want marriage - they want the money. Today's women, and to be fair men, are about low risk / commitment / obligation & high reward. Of course, here we realize that things don't work that way - but to the average individual, this is just a far thought with no impact on the animalistic fashion in which they live, driven by instant gratification, giving little to no weight to thei…
/r/askTRP23/09/16 09:38 PM
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game is fake confidende and trickery" is an extension of "you gotta deserve a hot girl". Because you do. An average man doesn't deserve a 9/10 woman any more than an average woman deserves a 9/10 man. Women's resource is sex, men's is commitment. Just like a 6/10 broad will put out on the first night to try and keep a 9/10 guy around only to have him eventually leave, a 6/10 dude is going to spend WAY too much money and energy (or "game") to ultimately blow out with a 9/10 chick. Are you really …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 08:23 PM
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You've written this as if it's a bad thing. It's not. Allow me to explain. Trying to pretend your SMV is higher because you want hot chicks is like a D3 athlete cheating to get into a D1 team. They'll spend more time pretending & less time improving, stress levels will be unsustainable and the skill gap will be far too wide for them to even learn anything from their mistakes. Dating advice can be interpreted in one of 3 ways: "So that's why that date tanked. Next time, I'll just NOT do the retar…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 05:31 PM
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If you have 2 hands and 2 legs and 2 eyes you can drive a car, so why bother with driving lessons? One would have to keep attempting to drive cars and being very bad at it to need this, wouldn't they? Do you know how few guys who have the balls to approach/talk to women regularly stay inept at doing so for long? Close to zero. Who needs these lessons? The fuckers afraid to get into the car? Theory won't save them. And by the time they grow the balls to practice driving, they'll figure it out bef…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 06:55 PM
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But you do approach? You do open? You do ask for logistics? Having the slightest amount of balls / testosterone / common sense is NOT game. You do pass shit tests? You plow through ASD and LMR? Realizing women are retarded isn't exactly "game" either (I fucking hate that word). You don't need game, but you do. Only if you try fucking the chicks EVERYONE else is trying to fuck. Most attractive women, through circumstance, are already satisfied when a guy who isn't a spineless caricature enters th…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 04:19 PM
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by the time you're in your 30s, just sitting down alone and having money is going to be enough You won't even care to fuck a 10, you'll be more than happy with a 6. when you're older you're likely going to get better at dealing with hell and disappointment. This is isn't the price for turning 30 or 40 - it's the price paid for living in a cage of your own making, not having the balls to do shit, not realizing a single dream. I hope the pain of your regrets exceeds the pain of your insecurities b…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 04:10 PM
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"Why don't you have a girlfriend?" "Why did you assume I want one?" /thread
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 12:00 AM
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swan in and buy a wife from a poor country AND have a successful relationship by doing so. The trick lies in having a vasectomy, never marrying & staying in whichever poor country you want to slay in. Plenty of expats do this by owning a vacation home in another country & renting out most of it while living normally in the U.S. Real estate is real estate, and if you have a bunch of self-maintaining $15-$45K USD properties all over, that tends to be a much better start than saving up a $150K (dow…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 11:56 PM
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Why is there such strong opposition on TRP towards partying, drinking, and having a social life as you get older? This is a false statement based on your misunderstanding of what TRP says, which is simple: you are #1. Always. Not the current you - the future you. "Partying, drinking and a social life" aren't bad, but 95% of the people living that life do so with no savings, no savings plan, and no plan for their future. They are unwittingly sacrificing their own future.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 08:06 PM
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Unless you've a closed road or a racetrack, forget motorcycles - using bikes to face your fears is retarded: you might actually kill yourself, or someone else. Riding at your instincts' limit will definitely get the job done in a controlled environment, but bike upkeep / repairs are a very expensive way to do it. If anything, motorcycles are meditative. Fighting will suit you best, it will teach you self-control in a realistic, adversarial (not "slow down when you want" like climbing or motorcyc…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 06:12 PM
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If people are trying to decide their potential relationship with someone based on how much that person would care if they walked away, they're mentally, spiritually & functionally retarded. You sure you want anything to do with this? She doesn't even have the self-awareness to realize that if she likes you more than you like her, it's HER job to fix the situation by being better, doing more or playing some last ditch gamble by fading on you - it's NOT your job to fix it. Relationships with peopl…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 08:25 PM
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If I had to pull numbers out of my ass, for the average guy, how people react to (not just approaches) you is: 50% What external state/mindset they're in before you say hi (it's up to you to discern this before opening) 30% Preconceptions about your/the situations stereotype and their internal state (fuck all to do with you) 20% What you say (with your mouth or body), how you make them feel, etc - this is what people focus on. This isn't an internal narrative, it's reality. It will help you not …
/r/askTRP14/09/16 08:15 PM
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This is why we advocate lifting & martial arts for everyone. Social confidence is ultimately underlined by the premise that should things fall through to their lowest level - violence - you'll be able to hold your own and back your shit up. It's a matter of social order that those getting dethroned / one-upped will become bitter & malicious. Kind of hard to get good at if you're (rightfully) cautious of getting your ass whooped up and down the block.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 06:15 PM
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I'm a rich bastard and I read on. You stay rich by spending less. And this, folks, is the difference between rich and wealthy. Take notes
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 05:45 PM
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Give her the magic flying dutchman johnson. Fade slow, fade smooth. Some corny shit like "I'm not comfortable with the situation so let's stop seeing each other, but I don't want to just disappear from your life. If you ever need a hand, you're welcomed to reach out!" ...become unattractive without invoking scorn. Your foot is on a landmine big enough to blow up 18 years of your life so be real fucking careful how you navigate out of this situation. Needless to say, you won't be making good on t…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:27 PM
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TL;DR nothing is wrong with you morally/ethically/ideologically, but if you eventually want an LTR, start practicing. if i find a woman who's less trouble and want to settle down, my inexperience might make it hard for me You are correct. Unless you grew up seeing real shit (death, walking to school while live gunfire is in the streets, half of your class dead before graduation, non-war gang violence), you won't have the emotional resilience needed to properly handle women and will ergo need pre…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:19 PM
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Her: You think you'll get the privilege? "Obvi, coffee tmrw?". Sounds like she's warmed up so (or just yanking your chain, either way) I'd say this is one of those times you're better off not pussying around the subject. Set up the "date", keep smashing if it's good. The end. Patience is good ...usually, but not with convos like these. If you wait she'll fuck someone else & it'll fizzle out.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:10 PM
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I'm 21, with a hardcore feminist background that has left me unsatisfied ... been Alpha Widowed This makes you and over 50% of the college aged female population. You're not as poorly off as you think. my behaviroal patterns, hamstering, and princessy entitlement led my past relationships to fail This level of awareness will propel you into the "upper echelons" of competition - but only if you sustain / act on it. SMV is peaking physically, how long should I stay in Monk Mode? I was thinking a m…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:42 PM
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To be fair, if that is what his heart for some reason desires, he'd literally be better off getting an extra job to afford gear. It's not that much if you know what the fuck you're doing, MAYBE $150-$200 a month unless you're doing batshit insane cycles (or HGH) - things that are (1) unsustainable and (2) only done by IFBB pros and rich panini. P.S. Don't PM me for sources. I'm AFSOC so virtually everyone I know uses, hence how I know so much about it.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 02:48 AM
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Might want to change your name, give it another year or two and move to a huge city. Bullshit like that has a remarkably unfortunate way of being stickier than it should & 95% of society will automatically exile you for it.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 02:46 AM
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Public places with lots of people and a laid back, daytime environment. The Beach. Parks. Malls. You know how many chicks with bodies better than club sluts are out on the beach and popular hiking trails with their stupid dogs hoping they'll get talked to? Better yet, those girls are there working to be in shape because they want a man (or have one), but that's also a factor in clubs, which also tend to attract a specific type of girl - the club regulars - chicks that get their kicks by social m…
/r/askTRP13/09/16 02:42 AM
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No but they make it a hell of a lot easier, thus more likely - and even then, those people have to put in hard work. The shittier your genetics, the less likely you are to be able to do this. Plus, even for people with top tier genetics, it's their FULL-TIME JOB. If it takes THEM that long, you do the math on the odds of an average 9-5 desk jockey pulling it off. Yes, technically you're right, I'm sure its possible if the average Joe had infinite willpower. But had that been the case, he wouldn'…
/r/askTRP13/09/16 02:39 AM
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If you chat up women who seem receptive while out and going about your daily errands like grocery / clothes / supply shopping, you shouldn't be needing to go to clubs to find chicks. Meeting people is easy. Don't waste your time, liver and sleep on clubs and bars unless you genuinely enjoy the environment because the perception that you need to go to those places to meet and fuck women is a carefully curated business model - which you've fallen prey for. The real secret is to always keep your ey…
/r/askTRP13/09/16 02:29 AM
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I'm gonna say bullshit. Anyone can be the 2nd pic Speaking of bullshit, how many people do you actually possess the discipline, willpower & dedication for: 3 years of eating right, working hard 5+ days a week ... not skipping workouts or getting hammered That's like saying "anyone can do XYZ feat of willpower that less than 1% of people actually achieve". No. They fucking can't. That is the very reason such achievements are so rare, desirable and valued.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 02:21 AM
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So give them 3 rules: Straight posture, strong eye contact and no compliments. This'd be an okay start. More importantly, OP /u/RedPillQuickie - these guys are the thinking types. That's their problem. Don't go filling up their head with too much shit or they'll be thinking while talking to people and fuck everything up even more. Remember, for people like these, thinking isn't the solution: it's the problem.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 09:56 PM
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Don't ask dumb questions. By the time you learn enough to use without fucking up your health forever you will know where to get them. Do not even fucking THINK about it until you've understood, memorized and internalized the wide breadth of medical knowledge required for safe usage - this includes knowing everything that can go wrong and what to do about it, as well as what materials to have ahead of time. This is a life-changing, big boy decision. Don't rush it.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 09:52 PM
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Np, you replied while I was still editing. Re-read just in case
/r/askTRP12/09/16 09:49 PM
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Boredom. Entertainment. Leading you on in case she might need something. Other Reasons. All of the above. Stop trying to ascribe logic to where there's likely none and don't avoid straight talk, work on your game so you can find people who are on your level & when they're not, find new ones who are. Don't waste time learning "game" reliant on "making things work" - you'll be infinitely better off knowing how to fuck new chicks instead of keeping the old ones. Ultimately, a balance of both is req…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 09:47 PM
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she wrote to me saying openly that she misses me every single day Women will (almost) never say something like this if it's true, they know not to give away their power. This is a play to gain power, the statement is likely false, meant to endear you psychologically to her by making you believe you can let yourself feel this way because you think she also feels the same. As for what purpose, could be boredom, could be her long shot. You must understand, women lose nothing with gambles like these…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 09:03 PM
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Yes, but probably not for you. Not because of lack of dedication, but a few factors have to be perfect - one, genetics, two, for them, even with top tier genetics, it's their full time job. Can you spend 8 hours a day on working out, eating right, stretching, swimming, ART and all the shit that goes into a physique like that while natural? Didn't think so. Keep it simple. Lift as much as you can & your body lets you, eat as well as you can, sleep as well as you can. Because realistically, that's…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 08:58 PM
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1) Don't text her unless she texts you, 2) When she does: "Why you still textin me" Inb4 armchair experts say "but thats butthurt, AFPJ!" - fuck off. Nip her bullshit in the bud. 90% she will never reply or have a negative reaction, which is exactly what you want - for her to meet up and fuck or disappear from your life. Focus your energy on the 3.5 billion other chicks out there.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 08:54 PM
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He wasn't being toxic, he's just more skilled than you (and the women flocking to him) at working with emotion. Imagine how something is light jokes & fun to you but some fucking nerd is getting butthurt over it. That nerd is you. I literally just wrote a novel length response about this hoping it'll help someone, so go read it: /r/asktrp/comments/52fhmd/how_to_defeat_gaslighting_and_guilt_tricking/d7jssby
/r/askTRP12/09/16 06:10 PM
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what is an "alphafemale" An apocryphal oxymoron.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 06:01 PM
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Some situations specially with women make me feel guilty These aren't one-off issues: you're seeing the forest for the trees, they're all part of the same problem - guys who are bad with women are guys who are easily emotionally disturbed. Most men grow up in a sheltered world where nothing jolts our (male) amygdala into action - except women - ergo, they're not used to handling states in which it is active. Women, by their biological nature, exist in the midst of a constant emotional shitstorm,…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 05:33 PM
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Use for sex/fwb or dump her if you want more. Don't treat her like shit because of this. OP, this. This is the mature/correct way to go about your situation. If you feel yourself becoming emotionally unstable / jealous, end it - for your sake. As long as you can hang there's nothing wrong with great pussy, even if occasional. /u/spikey__1 so you see this
/r/askTRP12/09/16 05:22 PM
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We have sex but she doesn't see me as her #1 choice. Is this only a problem if I am not having sex with her? If the sex happens often / is good, she doesn't bail on plans or blow you off & there's no drama, there's no problem.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 02:50 AM
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I wasn't questioning the authenticity of his illness but rather his real motive for reaching out to you.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 02:49 AM
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wanted my ma to abort me. That she did vodoo and this other nonsense when she took him to the cleaners Your mother was probably a huge cunt, alas your father still lacks the emotional maturity to not hold that against you. got a call from my estranged father that he has stage 4 skin cancer. He really hasn't been there at all This could've been due to your mothers' interference, or it could be your father is looking to use you for something. Welcome to the fucked up desert of the real. If you wer…
/r/askTRP12/09/16 02:17 AM
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Someone was dumb enough to ask me if I knew/heard about it. At the time, I hadn't - since then, it's been good entertainment & a great place to share ideas: welcome to the good life of a mysogynistic shitlord. Enjoy your stay.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 02:14 AM
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Then she's got so many abandonment issues that she dates below her level on purpose to twist other people: there's no shortage of variety in the amalgams of emotional ugliness, negativity & unconsciousness. If you are even a slightly intelligent and decent person, finding dating partners is almost impossible nowadays. Always easy to smash, though.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 02:09 AM
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They learn to fuck from guys so far out of their league that all they get is pumped and dumped. Today's independent wymmyn value 3-5 good dicks this week more than the prospect of a relationship ...until they can't get the good dick. Then it's time to exact the same hedonistic "I want shit now, fuck the future" tendencies on Betas by runnin em dry.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 11:47 PM
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TL;DR My LTR gal seems to want all my plans outlined for her. to control me Fixed. In other breaking news, women find men they can control repulsive and the sky is blue.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 11:33 PM
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Whoever did this has officially transcended their shitlord shackles, evolving into a full fledged shitgod. Bravo
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 09:56 PM
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He just looked at me funny and continued walking the other direction. Mis-interpretation of peoples' reactions fucks up a lot of new guys trying to learn the social skills they were deprived of in childhood from neglect, abuse, too many electronics, or a broken / single parent / no parent household. Most people miss a crucial factor in social interaction - the reaction you get from people is determined by, at best, half of what you do. The other 50%, usually more, depends on their mood and menta…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 09:05 PM
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Moving money around is a lot easier than moving bodies IMHO. Move enough money & you can afford to outsource moving bodies. Seriously though, what an eloquent statement. God bless America
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 08:51 PM
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You approach directly, with eye contact and preferably in a way where you have to gently push other members of the group out of the way to get to her. ... "How long are you girls staying here?" "Me and my friends need a female opinion on something, we've just been looking around and have all decided who the three most attractive girls are in here, in order, and want to know whether you agree with us?" something about buying drinks ...my eyes glossed over. If you've the grace / SMV to pull off so…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 04:01 PM
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I love how this is being analyzed as if there is any truth to any of it. Sometimes things are just bullshit. Likes and shareability relates to the polarizing emotional content of something rather than the amount of truth, if any, in it.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 04:37 PM
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That ain't harsh, you're just unbearably soft in comparison to the real world. Im doing the very thing that i hated to see other guys do. Im not that great guy anymore... This ain't about you being bad or good. This is ego investment in your past self attempting self-preservation. Its a simple blowjob, but eventually ill have to shut this clingy girl who constantly says she loves me Fuck this girl already. You're not getting what you want and you're denying her what she wants - the dick. Female …
/r/askTRP02/09/16 09:54 PM
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Where did I state that. You're right, you didn't. Apologies. Alas my point is, even if it isn't showing up as murder rates (yet), when you begin to import a culture that sticks together very tightly to the point of groups of muslims roaming around together, it changes the "mood" of walking out and about near refugee heavy zones, which has a cascading effect that resonates into almost every aspect of a society. It's slow to uptake, as I'm sure you know, but the end result is devastating.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 09:39 PM
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I am part of the reason Germany is fucked and that is bullshit. Fixed that for you. I get it, you're a fellow E.C. here, due respect given, but you're fucking abysmally clueless if you've actually been in Germany for more than a week in the last year, stepped outside & did not notice signs of social decay.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 05:04 PM
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I know life can be difficult and confusing sometimes, so let me help you: If both of your parents are German, you are entirely German. One of your parents is German: you are 50% German. (1/2) One of your grandparents: you are 25% German (1/4th) A great grandparent - you're 1/8th German. Sometimes great grandparents will have kids - more than one kid, and their kids have kids. These people, while not your ancestors, are still family. Here are materials to print out, color & doodle on while you're…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 05:00 PM
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Checking in. Not generally one for "sharing". Peachy family life aside - homeless, in multiple fights (with knives and other weapons) by 14. Had I not gone to school on my own and enrolled in the military I'd be another whimsical black on white murder stat, which isn't good for perpetuating any agenda, so I doubt it'd even be in local news or papers.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 06:03 PM
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because most people are blueepill. The people at the top aren't - they are the "sourcers" and producers of most content people consume. You ever notice how in Corporations, Tribes and military command, with enough time, people will begin embodying and agreeing with the ideals of those at the top? Who owns the media? Why do you think the same doesn't happen on a national scale?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 05:53 PM
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blue pill indoctrination as a result of feminism seems to be more a coincidence Sure, it was originally a coincidence in the sea of many amongst rapidly exploding/evolving culture & technology. Was. Ever notice how the news, media & schools have a selective way of latching onto coincidences? I hope so.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 04:53 PM
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1/8th German here, visited family a decade ago and then very recently. You need guns.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 04:49 PM
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Step (1) move to France. Step (2) stay single and fuck around. Step (3) Profit. Or it would be, if France wasn't basically the new fucking Nigeria / Jamaica.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 04:47 PM
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Ex trying to get my attention or not? (self.asktrp) It doesn't matter. Delete her on Snapchat and Facebook.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 04:18 PM
1

It sounds like you have a desk job?
/r/askTRP30/08/16 02:07 AM
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Half a second is a long time in close quarters, friend. You can see civvie plebs winding shit up from a mile away too It always starts with that retarded eye/cheek twitch on the side they plan to do anything with, traveling to the traps, then the shoulders & about half a year later there's a chance they're going to actually achieve anything with all that.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 02:02 AM
1

Anyway, do you think I should pay for massages on top of my own myofascial release? Depends on how bad your bodily issues are and how much money you have. What issues are you experiencing that you believe you need help with?
/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:56 AM
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Very interested to hear any thoughts on this .... It'd be extremely difficult for someone as clumsy and inept as the average woman to actually throw a drink in your face before you can notice & do something about it unless you are absolutely not paying any attention whatsoever.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:54 AM
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This is the kind of shit you need a real (with a doctorate degree - not a 24hr personal ass clown) professional to look over your body for and get exercises that are appropriate for fixing your specific posture and muscle shortcomings. You'll need money. Unless you're over 30, chiropractors are mostly excess. Regular massages / other ART also helps. If you're broke (even if you aren't), your body's smart. The combination of swimming and yoga will go a long way.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:47 AM
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"mental illness", instead of female manipulation. To be fair, even the legal system recognizes they are one and the same. Checkmate
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 12:41 AM
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I'd weigh the pros and cons of potentially losing your entire group of friends and making some enemies too. What do you stand to gain by becoming the "leader" of the group? Is it worth the risk of excommunication? Food for thought.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 09:23 PM
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If you genuinely believe you'd be a better alternative, dethrone him. It's that simple. There will be no graceful way to go about this.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 08:52 PM
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Don't say anything specific enough to reveal your identity, but do you live in a city that's even conducive to partying? If it's some small college town of under 100,000 people, you're probably in the wrong place. Most cities of 3+ million usually have a neighborhood or 2 that's great for that stuff. "Too old" is bullshit. Plenty of guys in their 40s killing it.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 08:48 PM
1

how does one lead? It's not a privilege, its a necessity. If your group will benefit the most from you making decisions, you'll gravitate into such a role naturally. If not, it isn't your place to lead (yet?) and you'd be fucking your friends over by trying to do so.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 08:45 PM
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turning down sex with a woman (I know, that sounds so beta). No it's not, get that shit out of your head. 9/10 chicks who come at me get a pleasant conversation and graceful let-down ...no need to hurt peoples' feelings, alas there is nothing wrong (or "beta") about not being into a specific girl.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 08:42 PM
1

I know guys of average or slightly below so height that don't look as good as this guy (similar ethnic background) but still do very well for themselves - specifically in Los Angeles - which I'd like to think is a fairly high competition area.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 05:54 PM
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Answer based on appearance only. You're asking for a retarded, non real world answer on purpose? If he's a savage, he'd do great. If he's a bitch, 5'8 + those looks won't save it (almost nothing would, except significant fame).
/r/askTRP29/08/16 05:42 PM
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with my history I have to blow through my innate oneitis, You could do this by dating multiple chicks. Or you could date one & exercise mental discipline. Up to you. Personally, as long as I nut often enough to stay sane I don't much care for interacting with women - there are exceptions where I actually enjoy their company because we can do fun shit & talk about non-trivial things but those are extremely rare. I have to say, at least once, "I think you rock but I'm not going to be exclusive wit…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 05:34 PM
1

Do you empower your friends? Your friends should already inspire you to do better and vice versa - if not, you have shitty friends. If you know someone for a month & can't identify qualities you admire and would like to absorb from them, that's not good.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 05:26 PM
1

Does this shit get any easier with age? (self.asktrp) ...17 here. 17 is tadpole status bruh, 99% of guys your age are literally invisible to women. If you keep working on yourself you'll kill it. You answered as much yourself: they usually just get a version of me that's 3-4 years older. Now, about this... it gets to me after being endlessly treated as a toy for female amusement. You don't get treated as anything. You allow yourself to be treated like that. Let that sink in. But how hard does ag…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 05:23 PM
2

Don't feel like you have to date multiple women. We advise doing so because it helps you lock onto the mindset you should have whether you're dating zero, one or five at any given time since it isn't possible to explain with words. Lack of experience is 99% of peoples' issues with women. If you've only ridden a motorcycle 1-5 times, for example, you're going to have a hard time doing it, there will be mental anguish, anxiety, you'll be thinking too much, etc. But after 20-30 times, it won't be a…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 05:13 PM
3

You used to call me on my cellphone, late night when you need my love. Gtfo
/r/askTRP29/08/16 04:42 PM
2

So, mate guarding comes natural, is as evolutionarily ingrained as the desire to fuck in the first place, takes a huge amount of effort, and doesn't even fucking work. What next? Mate guarding is an instinct from when humans lived in tribes of 80-140 people where you knew everyone. In modern cities comprised of millions, things like "mate guarding" and "approach anxiety" are useless. Are there some cognitive techniques? It's just like anything else that requires you to override your instincts ..…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 04:38 PM
1

Unless you are white heavy built and super nice vibe That shit non white people use as an excuse.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 04:32 PM
5

Always good to see someone dropping thought bombs on the regular.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 02:27 AM
4

how are y'all putting yourself in the position to get lays. Go to bar. Chill with friends. See a chick looking at you? Look back. She doesn't look away? Smash.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 06:30 PM
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What would be an example of such motive? She could want you at her beck & call just because, or she could've said it on a whim. You're the one who knows this chick, not the people posting here - think on it. Most importantly, you should always know what people want.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 05:37 PM
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don't like when you're talking to other women and I want you for myself Unless she's been asking you to hang out & you blew her off, you seeing other girls doesn't impact your interaction with her - making this an impure motive on her part. You would benefit a lot from finding out why she's asking this.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 04:51 PM
4

I'm a freak when it comes to stuff like this and I have no shame. This. You're probably good to go.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 04:49 PM
6

What do I do when she texts me "where have you been, I miss talking to you!" "I got [beer/wine/liquor/whatever] at my place. Come thru tonight or tmrw" Her response will expediently reveal whether she's about that bullshit.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 09:22 PM
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Her dad being a cop is a huge advantage for you, appearances are paramount and in court, that ain't a good one. Besides that, like everyone else said, if you get contacted / arrested, don't say anything. Hope and pray this random slut doesn't succeed in ruining your life with zero proof because they usually do. Welcome to the U.S. Justice System. You will pay state & federal taxes to facilitate such events befalling other innocent men (or boys, for fuck's sake - it's almost happened to an 18y/o …
/r/askTRP25/08/16 09:15 PM
3

Thanks for any advice! Fuck someone hotter than your ex.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 09:11 PM
3

I am not qualified to speak on the subject, I'm not a fucking historian or social scientist - alas, my best guess is that our future is uncertain, with a 80%+ chance of dissolution, revolution or displacement by other races. USA is only 300-400 years old, which in historic terms means fuck all: our civilization has existed for a shorter time-span than even the united roman empire (~400 years), before it broke up into the Western and Eastern roman empires. We are following the precise historic te…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:54 PM
2

My macros are 65 g of fat a day, 30 g of carb (keto) and 113 g of protein while eating ~1350 calories a day. Is your body fully keto-adjusted? (Aka, have you been in keto, confirmed by piss sticks, for over two months?) Generally, you should treat cutting as a mild form of contest prep - this is the only resource you need for that. Some things I notice obviously off: Keto is dicey Unless you are a pro, cutting at more than -20% TDEE isn't cutting, its starvation. At a 20% below TDEE , you need 2…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:47 PM
5

Why don't men have the right to opt out prior to the birth of the child? Women have rights. Men have obligations. How things are is why our society will fall or be conquered by a patriarchal one (historically) soon. Nobody cares about an unsustainable, dysgenic cake as long as they get to eat it RIGHT NOW. And this is a difficult thing to change because attempting to do so instantly places one at a disadvantage in life.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:32 PM
3

This ...OP you're trying to force someone who's never been in a gym to squat 3 plates. There will be injuries - and resentment - unless you ease the fuck up and slow into it. if your advice is to chuck this girl and quit with this relationship bullshit If you just took this girl's virginity, maybe ride it out for at least a month or two. You've made no mention of her being cunty or a bitch so mold her as you wish.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 04:17 PM
3

If you'd possessed the capacity for calm, unbiased, real-time analysis all of this could've been avoided - and not just this situation, I'm sure you can think of many times where, in hind-sight, you feel you should have acted differently. Work on self-awareness. Truthfully, at 19, it's an exceedingly rare, nearly prodigious, quality, so your OP is par for the course. The earlier and more relentlessly you cultivate self-awareness, the more you'll pull ahead in all aspects of life.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 04:11 PM
3

Seems like it comes up all the time. Seems like you're around the wrong people. First/second/third meetings aren't the time for comparing notes on ideals and world-views unless you are completely socially retarded (unless you did your research and already know that what you're gonna say matches their views). In your case, politely avoid the question & cease further association with them.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 04:05 PM
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she eventually tries to get me in her bed. I decline, say she's drunk, Whu? Strike one, should've smashed. 8:30. It's her, wanting me to come over so I can unlock her parents bedroom By noon I tell her I'm headed out, but she suggests we get together later. Strike two, should've smashed. had to leave at 10:30 so ... tell her it was 10:45 ... me still inside her. Strike three. Do you have ANY idea how insulting this is to a woman? Now, I was getting the vibe that she was being short, and that may…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:59 PM
3

utilize the attraction of women i dont want that would otherwise be wasted. Turn it into infinitely more worthwhile social capital by throwing them at nerdy / shy guys who'd pounce on it. They'll remember the favor.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 10:28 PM
3

Stop trying to save your ego, go for women you want to fuck and try to fuck them - pretty simple.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 10:16 PM
3

You strike a balance between genuinely caring about people and not letting that derail your life. Followers are gained one at a time by doing things that cost you little and mean the world to them, for example introducing a nerdy BB dude in college to a chick that's ready to hop off of the carousel. Win-win, or so they think, and nobody's the wiser.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 10:06 PM
7

Can what we term as a "slut" ever be a mentally stable woman? Women can be many wonderful things, but you lost me on this one; it's possible - I've only seen it post-menopause. Women are designed to get the best dick they can and the best resources to raise it's spawn - together or separately. They have a relatively limited amount of time to achieve this, so neurosis/psychopathy is virtually a design guideline.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 09:59 PM
1

You can message me if you need input, as long as you don't send me (or ask of me) anything that breaks anonymity.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 08:52 PM
6

Get it over Reddit, without sacrificing your anonymity or asking others to risk theirs. This stinks of a doxxing attempt.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 08:40 PM
13

This ...is actually genius.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:45 PM
7

Any other advise on how to minimize possible problems from occurring? Be grumpy, be silent - except when something must be said, do your work.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:43 PM
4

They'll be hired under quotas into big companies where they'll use sexual favors / appeal to survive in the hierarchy due to their woeful lack of capability only to never break the "glass ceiling" (a point above which you must actually posses merit and capability) and return back to the feminist cesspool, mid 30s, single, proclaiming to be a victim. The few women with actual discipline & capability will be sneak recruited by startups and small businesses because who wouldn't want a diversity / e…
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:39 PM
5

Right in the fucking post history feels, this is so true it hurts.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:38 PM
1

As per your questions: Do I have a heart to heart and tell him the manager I've had has been difficult No, because he most likely already knows & appreciates your restraint in not spelling it out. Do I mention I've done this at a salary sacrifice No, because this makes you look like a bitch. That was YOUR choice. Your consequences. Or do I play the oblivious card here that I will work on myself etc etc done this at a salary of less than market value. Don't do this either. Look, just ask your men…
/r/askTRP24/08/16 12:54 AM
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Do I have a heart to heart and tell him the manager I've had has been difficult and my career aspirations have not been met? Do I mention I've done this at a salary sacrifice Or do I play the oblivious card here that I will work on myself etc etc Ideally no - the senior manager guy is likely well aware of this already. If you must, do so indirectly from a learning perspective, as such: "Say you are an employee who feels he's been wronged and kept down by his manager despite doing his best to be …
/r/askTRP23/08/16 11:07 PM
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How do you deal with normal SMV men in a social setting? They don't even exist. Do that, aka keep doing your thing.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 11:04 PM
2

Is there anything I can say/do to delay sex without coming off as Beta? Borrow tricks from the best: trickle truth. "got drunk & had a scare recently ...waiting for a bit till I get checked."
/r/askTRP23/08/16 11:00 PM
2

I'm not going to bother asking about these logistical reasons because you're clearly ambiguous on purpose, but if you're locked out of drinking / bars / nightlife, your best bet is probably to go with /u/corsega suggestion and get Tinder, followed by hitting up casual socialization places like live music and indoor/outdoor group sports & classes.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:55 PM
3

I am 6'6 in height, black, well dressed and considered good looking Yes, you'll drown in pussy ...go to day-drinking bars, introduce yourself as visiting briefly from the UK. Done! The only key points are to dress at least somewhat casually + find out the right bars to be in for your city.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:03 PM
1

Keep in touch, play it by ear, smash when there's opportunity. Just like every other chick
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:01 PM
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I meet 2 girls, want to fuck the hot one ... Advice? Neither fortune nor respect favor the timid. Advice: Try to fuck the hot one. fuck the HB7.5 (I kind of see it is a test for myself) Don't do this. Sex is primal, it's raw. You don't "think" yourself into it. If you're with her, she's staring at you & your dick gets hard, take her somewhere private and fuck her brains out. And if that doesn't happen, don't try to force it.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 06:41 PM
1

She should be having wet dreams about her new bf in this stage, not eye-fucking his friend. Chasing an image of an ideal / perfectionism causes real losses. OP has a chick he's fucking. He can: Hurt / make a fool of himself by pretending it's something it's not (a "faithful LTR") Lose a chick that's probably fun to fuck by trying to make it into something it's not Enjoy it for what it is. Recap /u/absolutesofa - don't pretend it's (or try to make it into) something it's not, enjoy it for what it…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 06:20 PM
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why is it okay to plate a girl who will fuck other girls with you, but not other guys? It's okay to plate any girl who fucks you with minimal bullshit or drama, regardless of who else she is seeing or says she's seeing. Any time a chick is messing around with or seeing other guys, I breathe a sigh of relief knowing they're being her bullshit / emotional tampons so I can keep putting my dick in her without having to deal with any of that.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:15 PM
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To stuff like what /u/Envek1 and /u/dragonpants6 are saying ...I don't know. First, OP, this isn't something to undo or worry about, you're going to have to deal with the fact that there's other people both of you would rather be fucking if you could ...but you can't and that's why you're together. You've "chosen" each other (out of the choices you two had) All of em are like that, this one just says it outright. Drop hints about who you think is cute and see how she reacts. How much you two are…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:06 PM
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seems like the only way to meet more girls or guys out of Greek life would be to walk up to a group of them in the dining hall and ask to sit with them or go sit next to a girl in class, both of which sound awkward. Until you get to a certain point of social proficiency most people never reach, meeting new people will almost always be awkward unless lubricated by various layers of "socially dumb shit" like alcohol, shared interests / hobbies, etc. The obstacle isn't something to avoid, it's the …
/r/askTRP23/08/16 03:37 PM
5

"Men love women, women love [their] children, children love puppies."
/r/askTRP22/08/16 02:46 PM
3

Then modmsg on your main like a sane individual.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 02:42 PM
1

My mom, and recently grandma, have specifically pointed out that my face is feminine. I've seen dudes that look like serial killers until you see them walk/talk & it's obvious they're a pushover. Good news, the inverse can be true too: you are likely acting like a bitch which is what really brought on the femface comments. Been working out for a few months, hoping that once I get ripped it will balance me out a bit. Good man. Yes, it will.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 02:04 PM
3

The conversation you think you're having isn't the conversation you're actually having. They're not actually asking how old you are.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 02:01 PM
3

must be one of us. one of us. "us." Nice try. Gbtfo
/r/askTRP22/08/16 01:59 PM
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Say yes, arrange a time, put her shit in a box and leave it out front. Do not be in the house during this time.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 07:32 PM
3

Please help me become a a man that's part of the 20% The only person that can help you do that is you. Have initiative. Search the main sub, implement, repeat. Nothing worth having or being will be handed to you with little work; else everyone would have/be it and it'd be worthless. If ya want to be or have shit others don't, you gotta do what they won't.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 07:30 PM
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been here for a year ... am emotionally capable of getting rejected and not feeling butthurt or worthless You're not "slow". 90% of all men never achieve this, and likely over half of TRP subscribers don't either. I'm ten years behind that ball. How much time do I really have to catch up? You're like the chicks that only see the hottest guys; you only register the minority of men above you. 28-35 is prime time, you're at the start of it. Yeah, you're behind the Top 1-10%, but you're ahead of mos…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 06:39 PM
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This is probably the weirdest AskTRP post of the day. I'm not sure where to even start
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:41 PM
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Photo protips: get snapchat, have friends who snapchat. Save everything, post 1-2 of the best ones every day to your IG and let that trickle over by having IG also post to your FB. For the younger attractive crowd, pretty much all forms of social media except Snapchat are dead. Maybe texting if you met someone at a bar & just want logistics. Treat IG like your public Snapchat hall of fame and use Facebook for scheduling / attending / finding out where the party's at. Use social media with a purp…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 06:52 PM
1

If that's your life, cool - I speak based on mine so let's agree to disagree on this. Women get played like balalaikas all the time and they fucking love it.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 05:36 PM
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What exactly is your advice here? That women value very different things than men, and until one is aware of what those things are (and good at them), relationships with women will seem like "a lot of effort" and a net loss. Women crave things that take little time and no money, yet are among the rarest in men: amazing sex, an emotional ride, exciting experiences and "FEELING SAFE". They will gladly do things YOU value - like cook, run errands, split bills for you, so far so on - in exchange. Pe…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:59 AM
1

standard in place where I don't want sex to impact quality of life and study. This is good stuff but don't take it too far, ya know? Even if a girl's a booty call, you have to be somewhat reliable or she'll go looking for dick she can have when she wants it, even if it's not as good as yours. Definitely keep your life in check but everything should be balanced ...for example, no need to pass up sex if you want it for an hour of studying. If you're doing this every day, yeah it's a problem, but a…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:46 AM
2

You were talking about how you need to "dick women" into submission, how they're little toys to have fun with and nothing more, and how fun it is to fuck another man's girlfriend in a bathroom. Let's backtrack, I crossed out everything you assumed (above) and left in what was actually said: you need to "dick women" Yeah, you do. Because if you don't fuck her good, she'll find someone who will. Because that's the point. fun it is to fuck another man's girlfriend in a bathroom. This is how you int…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:37 AM
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Our sex is getting weird, though, The rest of your post tells me shes just into BDSM. Choke her a lil bit & she'll get so wet you won't feel shit. Nothing wrong with passing up some shit to fuck when you just feel like fucking, it's a human thing.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:33 AM
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Are you on drugs or something? We're seriously not having the same conversation.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:30 AM
2

Vapid? Immoral? Men by definition invest? Whose definition? As for your personal opinion of me based on one reply, I'm not sure where to (or whether I even should) start ...you're not ready. Not for real talk, not for what TRP offers. Come back if you don't kill yourself from being an incel or after you get divorce raped/baby trapped. I'm not giddy in saying that either, nor do I say it with spite; those are your likely trajectories unless you manage to un-fuck yourself To your other reply - the…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:24 AM
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Women are like hobbies: a seeming waste of time/money, unless you're good enough for it to be a surplus instead So what exactly is the point of a relationship? Dick a girl down good that you'd fuck anyways and watch her cook for you / set up dates / etc just to be kept around. It makes your life easier, she'll help you run errands, go out of her way to do all kinds of shit for you and your friends. Plus, if watching rich losers grovel for chicks you smash in the bathroom 10min after saying hi is…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:05 AM
1

playing a dead snake only to attack with venom if necessary? wolf in sheeps clothing? Somewhat, what I'm getting at is that your behavior should be (to a certain point) dictated by cost : benefit analysis. I don't see any benefit from having a bad standing with these chumps, while there is a possible hidden cost (less tips, not getting the more lucrative shifts, your manager or someone overhearing them talking shit about you because they don't like you, etc). Good standing, on the other hand, wi…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:13 AM
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let them fall under the illusion that I "submit" to them and continue being friendly This is it. Ego's good, it drives one to achieve the maximum social standing they can. The only thing better for one's social standing is knowing when to suppress it: based on the information in OP, this is definitely one of those times. As with most things, you're likely to be far more effective when underestimated by those "not on your team".
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:51 PM
1

Revealing your actual identity to anyone you initially come into contact with on TRP is the most retarded thing you could ever do. Making friends has nothing to do with what you've in common, it's about how well you vibe in person.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:47 PM
1

hooked up a few times ... texting a lot ... she goes no contact and seems disinterested. The fuck is going on? What happened? Nothing ...between you and her - she just found a better / newer / more available dick than yours. Is there any way to salvage this? I don't want anything serious but I enjoyed hooking up. Yeah, move the fuck on, she might hit you up later if you aren't desperate about things now. Feel so angry and hurt and hate that I care. Fuck other chicks, forget this one exists (if /…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:41 PM
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anywhere else I wouldn't even pity them by acknowledging their existence, but since this is work I have to be polite They're probably too retarded to realize why you make them uncomfortable, but I'm betting it's this attitude. Even if your attitude's justified, it's not doing you any favors: social retards have gut feelings too (not that they consciously recognize it) ...all their brain registers is that something about you / being around you makes them uncomfortable. until then, what should I d…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:32 PM
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As long as your GPA is above 3.5 (high enough to get you your first job), nobody will give a fuck about whether it was 3.0 or 4.0 after you get your first job. Maintain your GPA at reasonably passable and focus the rest of your energy on building a wide social network. Nap lots to handle the best of both worlds: go to classes, DONT PROCRASTINATE on your schoolwork, do work for one class others, lectures are meant for the lowest common denominator - unless you have a room temperature IQ, 70% of t…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:25 PM
2

a hotel me and my ex stayed on our first week away from home almost 4 years ago on this same week we took pictures at--pictures I still have in a flash drive somewhere--I started getting a knot in my throat It's been 2 years since the break-up and it still feels fresh, especially after yesterday afternoon. And unless you fuck hotter, wetter, wilder, better pussy, odds are you'll still feel this a decade from now. Think about how fucking pathetic that would be, smack yourself, drink, do coke or w…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:23 PM
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When chicks say "I don't know" and similar things, it's not because they're considerate, it's because they're selfish & when you're happy and excited doing what you want, it makes them feel those things too which is what THEY want. So do what you want; women who consider you worthwhile rather than date you out of boredom like seeing you alive, animated and "in your element" over whatever is going on externally. Externals stimulate you & you stimulate them.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:06 PM
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how the guys here handle being jealous of their friends and peers. It's hard to imagine the past that'd lead one to be experiencing these emotions ...whenever I see someone killing it in life / with women, my first thought is "mah nigga, doin the lords work" regardless of whether its a friend or a stranger. Jealousy often stems from comparing yourself to others in a level that's far, FAR too granular (aka unrealistic); some comparison is necessary for self-reflection, while too much of it is tox…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 06:24 AM
3

This would be true if current society was harsh enough to force everyone to maximize or even push their genetic potential in any meaningful, directly comparable way such as combat, hunting and other competitive arts of old. Today, 95% of all people squander their potential by being led into anesthetized complacency. So if you actually try, you're very likely going to make it into the top 5% by default.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 08:07 PM
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nothing left to fix and just ride the wave This. Assuming most things are comfort tests in scenarios like these also helps.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:28 PM
1

conversing and carry on a conversation, but it just feels like there's never really a connection. Everyone you interact with is of two minds, two halves. You always have two interactions - a conscious one and one on an animal level, which underpins and guides the conscious interaction while being outside of most peoples' awareness. Conversation is thinking, connection is feeling. To know what you're feeling you need to be relaxed because being in your head often translates to tenseness, suspicio…
/r/askTRP06/08/16 06:49 PM
3

TL;DR don't be captn save-a-hoe, she does it because the ups & downs give her meaning, she don't wanna be saved. If the dick's bomb, they'll hamster something up to justify catching feelings, if it's not they keep hopping on different ones until finding one that is ...it's a genetically encoded addiction & has nothing to do with you. Sometimes it'll take a long time to come out, but it always does (or they find a better dick and move on). The only thing you can do is, if it starts seriously fuck…
/r/askTRP06/08/16 06:43 PM
1

I'd love to just throw everything up in the air and bro it out ... However, I desire to be rich one day don't have time to nor do I care to double dip with these bros at the potato chip bar, feel me? I understand what you are saying and am putting forward that you never know who's who or who might know who, and that if your top goal is yourself (and not a rich social life), these things are worth knowing all the more. If your goal was a rich social life, then yes, fuck acquaintances - you want t…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 06:06 PM
1

they're just passing by and my goal isn't to win them, they should win me. I sincerely hope you don't believe this; such a mentality guarantees you to be your own worst enemy. 4/5ths of people want to meet others but are shy & socially unskilled, the other fifth keep themselves down by thinking just as you do. The remainder become first-generation 1%ers. Until you have obvious, widely known status to where many people have heard of you and will speak to you first, the best way to elevate your li…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 03:38 AM
2

I know it probably sounds douchey as fuck but if I had a son your age this is exactly what I'd tell him.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 03:25 AM
2

Didn't even read the post - answer is no. Okay, went ahead and read your post. 1) You have no way of knowing what really happened in the past, you think you do, but you don't. 2) Nobody is wife material in the US because marriage is fucked by our culture and legal system. You're 21, your life is ahead of you & so are your earnings as well as getting to keep them ...unless you marry. The future is unknowable, alas statistically speaking your odds with women in the long run once you're 28-35 are b…
/r/askTRP06/08/16 02:17 AM
1

Good post; this info and more is found in How To Make Friends and Influence People ...mandatory reading.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 02:08 AM
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Then just say some shit like "Todays nuts so idk yet but you'll know as soon as I find out"; if you're holding someone's itinerary up for your tentative plans, you're being rude to them so sprinkle some basic consideration onto your replies.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 05:00 PM
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why do men prefer dimwitted breeders over women who, say, save up to buy their own houses men prefer women who fret over arranging dinner tables over social engineering Smart women who fully own real estate and prefer hosting parties / building their own social network are so rare as to be nonexistent. I can't speak for others, but I don't mind women like this, it's just that all that shit offers me nothing It's like a poor man with a small frame and soft attitude offering women feminine things …
/r/askTRP05/08/16 04:54 PM
8

I just want you to understand that, to her, you communicated you aren't interested, after she asked you TWICE: Her: So are you gonna be able to make it? Her: A pervert touched my arm today and showed me his penis.... Translation: bump, can you make it? Me: Did he let you touch it? Translation: I don't wanna respond, aka "No". ...More Conversation Ensues and she asks you AGAIN: Her: So are you coming or should I let the rapist do the job? I'm gonna stop responding after that, logistics only yadda…
/r/askTRP05/08/16 04:47 PM
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There's no reason to do anything about the present when you're stuck in the past, fix that first. Then you'll realize that your life is shit and will probably do something about it.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 11:53 PM
3

Where are the other fat losers?? Why does every guy look decent and every chick fat? You don't look at dudes enough, not that there's anything wrong with that. Related: the misandry bubble
/r/askTRP04/08/16 11:50 PM
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You don't learn a language by going and trying it out. You don't learn to play guitar by going and trying it out. You don't learn to skateboard (at least, not well) by going and trying it out. That's exactly how you learn to do those things. You learn by watching people that are better than you. You learn by reading from people with experience. Then you try it out and apply what you learned. ....And then doing those things, which is when you actually learn to do them. Background info pales in co…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 11:45 PM
3

Sosuave, rsd, puaforum, some pua sub on Reddit Trash, trash, trash, trash, probably more trash. You can't mindfuck women, don't even try. Mindfuck yourself until you permanently change who / what you are at your core; the results of it will propagate & speak for themselves to others. As a complete newbie, where is the best place to go and just binge read If you want to be rich, you don't read about it - you get money and maybe read 5-15% of the time. If you want to squat a lot, you don't read ab…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 08:06 PM
2

It's important to not give a fuck about things (especially people) if/when your investment can be used against you to manipulate you or cause you harm ...and in general if you have real problems in life, you simply will not care about 99% of the artificial self-pity people call "problems". This is not to say that anyone needs to "IDGAF just because". If you've good shit going on in your life, you won't give a fuck about anything that isn't ...that doesn't mean you can DEGAF to attract good shit …
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:18 PM
12

You're on a fool's errand. Give the D, let them figure out the rest
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:16 PM
3

Lift for a decade with flawless conditioning or do roids. Jokes aside, being lean naturally requires huge lifestyle constraints and sacrifices ...so think about your lifestyle. Don't go for aesthetic goals that are incompatible with it. If you drink and party a lot, go for big and IF (or just fast) on the days you're not destroying your liver. You can stay at 10-14%BF which is attractive as long as you also have good size on you, while partying - it just takes eating / recovering right and going…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:39 AM
1

was this girl just presumptuous or am I giving off some sort of impression Probably a bit of both, impossible to tell which one ...but tell ya what, the first one doesn't matter because you can't change it anyways so just examine yourself without beating yourself up and improve what you can - which is what you should be doing anyways, regardless of whether shit like this regularly happens to you or not. Read, practice, hustle.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:37 AM
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It depends, if you're naked / live in a warm climate, many women will find the first one more attractive. If you're in a cold, northern climate where clothes are virtually never taken off, the second will benefit you more. Also, you just ran into every natural bodybuilder's perpetual dilemma: you can either look good with a shirt on, or without. Your choices to get the best of both worlds (which IS possible) are limited ...lift for a decade with flawless conditioning or do roids.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:31 AM
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You need not always ask in order to know. Observe her behavior, pair bonding, mannerisms, social life, etc - the one who does the thinking is the one who benefits; if you ask her, she'll think & tell you what is in her best interest. Observe her and YOU will think, eventually finding out what it is that you wish to know, in your own best interest.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:24 AM
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I'm in my 30s, I'll hit the gym with my friends, come back to one of our houses to cook and eat together. From there, some break off to nap/join up with us later and most stay to shoot the shit, wrestle or box and sometimes drink a bit. 2-4 times a week this turns into a pre-party, we go out from 11 to 1 to meet people & throw out invites to the after-party or take them home. Pre-party with the good shit so you don't have to drink the trash they pour in bars / clubs. Weekends revolve around loca…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 12:01 AM
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No disadvantages ...unless you're weak. We don't have the option of victim-hood. Equal opportunity, diversity + other employment welfare and "enrichment" as well as the current cultural and political climate relaxes selection/competition pressure for anyone who isn't a white male and intensifies it for those of us who are, which is a huge net benefit to us.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 07:14 PM
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Anyone giving you a definitive answer is full of shit but my best guess is (steadily) declining testosterone.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 05:31 PM
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You're unwittingly screening FOR shitty women/people
/r/askTRP03/08/16 12:37 AM
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Up to the "Cool. I'm an only child" part, the conversation was tolerable - should've just asked her out. Don't play Mr. hooky I'm too hot shit for you, people match to go out & have fun ...not trade insults.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 11:33 PM
2

What advice? You already put your foot down and laid out your law, too late to second guess yourself. Does anyone have advice on dread to pull? Dread is an implicit ultimatum to one degree or another, your situation doesn't warrant it. Do your own thing, don't rub it in her face. If you don't find someone better by the time she's back, pick things up as if you were strangers.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 11:29 PM
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We need context (ie., at least a few texts before this one, the more the better) to give proper input. If you said something dumb to elicit this response, don't post it on its own; context means a ton.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 06:46 PM
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This reply isn't about what to do about her behavior - decide that later: this is about YOUR behavior. I said she either was home tonight or I was gone Don't do shit like this again. Never, EVER react to something like this. If you know you are losing your cool, just say "I gotta take care of something real quick, call you back in a bit" and don't call until you've CALMED THE FUCK DOWN. Need advice on how to handle when she gets home. See above. You're with a career-driven person; if you fuck wi…
/r/askTRP02/08/16 06:24 PM
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"Switch: How To Change Things When Change is Hard" and "The Willpower Instinct" are the books you're looking for. I suggested getting them on Audible and re-listening to them at your leisure until you internalize them. The gist of it is if you want to change habits (instill, change or erase), you need a surplus of willpower - and you need to structure your life conducively to doing so. There's no TL;DR beyond that since both of those books are already condensed info
/r/askTRP02/08/16 07:54 AM
5

How do you use hypergamy to your advantage? Become the man it favors. That's all there is to it.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:21 AM
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You are now experiencing hamstering - you already now it's the right thing to do, but here's why: Because when you don't watch porn, you see a hot girl, your cock gets hard on the fucking spot so by the time you're walking over to talk to her its obvious that your giant balls and rock hard dick are making it hard for you to even walk. So by the time you say anything, you know why you're there - and so does she.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:20 AM
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Now here's the weird part. She then invites me to come out for a cigarette and seems really animated You + emotion = you are emotion = you are attractive. This isn't weird. She felt alive around you. What could I do better next time. The fuck you mean, next time? Slide inside daddy issues, post an FR on the main sub about it.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:15 AM
1

Sounds like you might suck in person. Do you actually want to fuck these girls you're meeting up with? Because if not, no amount of "game" or "tee arr pee taktikz" are going to help you. If your dick doesn't get hard then and there when you're saying hi to these chicks, they're either not attractive or you just jacked off to 10 billion porn videos beforehand
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:01 AM
0

There's no general answer: it depends on what muscle group, your strength, endurance, conditioning and goals.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 02:29 AM
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Get her out and doing things that are fun but where her body has to keep up - couples type stuff. Hiking, eventually rock climbing, swimming, any kind of group / relay type mixed gender activity.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 08:30 PM
2

You ask for suggestions as a form of procrastinating on what you already know must be done because you identify so much with feeling sorry for yourself / "poor me" mentality that you're subconsciously afraid of letting it go since it'd feel like you would be no longer yourself. Until you realize this fact and move past it, no other advice can help you.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 07:29 PM
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AMALT
/r/askTRP31/07/16 01:23 PM
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Personally, it's a balancing act between keeping my heart light / pure & doing what's best for myself in the long run. Dark triad / Machiavellian / etc shit is good, 100% must-know, alas as with all power (which knowledge is a form of) - a proportional amount of wisdom, restraint & moderation in exercising it is required to not end up damaging yourself. Hope that helps as a guideline on how far to take the concepts you come across here
/r/askTRP31/07/16 11:38 AM
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Personally, it's a balancing act between keeping my heart light/pure & doing what's best for myself in the long run. The dark triad / Machiavellian shit / etc is good, definitely must-know, but as with all power (which knowledge is undeniably a form of), a proportional amount of wisdom and moderation in exercising it is required to not end up damaging yourself.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 11:38 AM
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Love is a biological mechanism meant blind you from logic, reason & all that so you fuck and make babies: it's literally identical to alcohol in that if you are a good drinker, you'll indulge just enough to be in the zone without over-drinking to the point where it's bad for you, you black out & end up facing negative consequences from it further down the line Act out your emotions unabashedly and without restraint while they're fresh. It's okay to be human and indulge in it, for fuck's sake. Ju…
/r/askTRP31/07/16 11:24 AM
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Nice copy-pasta reply... anyways, read everything, adopt what you are comfortable with, discard what you aren't.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 11:22 AM
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If you're not attractive enough to get "constant casual sex" (as you say), not putting much effort into seducing women is more "RP" than wasting all your time chasing tail ...just be very, very careful to make sure this isn't you hamstering ways to avoid anxiety from talking to women or "approaching" (I fucking hate shit that sounds PUA-ey) them to flirt. A certain baseline of talking to / meeting new women is definitely healthy in this day & age, whether it goes anywhere or not. If sex really i…
/r/askTRP31/07/16 11:18 AM
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I know I can't FORCE her to be ok with it, but I feel I should try. Failure to balance your desires with the concerns of others sours relationships - casual, LTR & friendships. It is not in your best interest, in the long run, to make anyone do anything they don't want to do (the experience isn't worth it unless everyone involved is genuinely having fun) Make her want it - if you can't, drop it since it'd backfire anyways.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 11:05 AM
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Say sure, live like you're single; she forfeited her right to any degree of honor/courtesy by being disingenuous.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 10:53 AM
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There is likely something about how you behave or look that attracts people who think they can fuck around with you ...preventive medicine is always the best. Furthermore, don't take shit personally when you're around drunk people. What I'm concerned about is that sure, people randomly poking your chest could be construed as hostile / belittling but is that really the case? Or are they just drunk and this is your initial reaction to it because of your own mental shortcomings? I don't mean to bel…
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:52 AM
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Having a mental backbone and some muscle isn't going to compensate for lack of CQC experience. I'm not trying to argue with you, this is your decision & none of my business. I'm telling you that if you do the shit this guy suggested with the mentality you're writing out, you're going to end up in a hospital ...hopefully; beats getting found in a ditch.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:39 AM
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Sounds like advice from someone used to fights ...just be aware that those things will probably start one.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:31 AM
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The military is a great place for personal & financial growth ...you just have to be disciplined & not an idiot about it.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:19 AM
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due to pains that women can get when they are pregnant (sore tits etc.) she took a pregnancy test while i was away that came back negative Dude this has fuck all to do with you, she got scared, took a test to make sure and shared her relief with you. Now you're over here asking how to proceed as if she wronged you ...she hasn't. "Whew! Thanks for making sure."
/r/askTRP30/07/16 09:50 PM
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retail assistant, security guard and waiter What skills should I get in order to get a relatively well payed job People skills. Talk to customers / people / dine-ins, get to know them, their names, their tastes, etc. When you're the guy people come to see at their establishment(s), you have leverage. Being good with people will benefit you greatly.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 08:28 PM
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Not enough calories = cortisol skyrockets, metabolism tanks, you start losing muscle, gaining fat despite eating less. Treat cutting as a mild form of contest prep - this is the one and only resource you need for info on it. It's long, but worth reading. Treat it as a great guide in how to stay reasonably lean year-round.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 08:58 PM
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Good stuff, also there is great reason for mindfucking yourself into things you logically know to be false: the validity of a belief has little to do with it's functional advantage, which viewpoint you take (you are already happy and don't know it vs there is no happiness, don't look for it) is up to you ...the "truth" is so subjective that it is rendered unknowable. With that in mind, people are drawn to fun, positive, entertaining things & there's no shortage of research that happy people perf…
/r/askTRP29/07/16 06:40 PM
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The goal of this is threefold : You're contemplating little man actions with no upside and unlimited downside for the sake of your ego. Stop it
/r/askTRP29/07/16 06:37 PM
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Im going to make it very clear to her tonight, and next her next time. You'll just let her know that you're not a total fool and she should hide even this seemingly tame behavior from you going forward ...without ever addressing or thinking about why she did it in the first place. You'll gain nothing from "making it clear" to her tonight, or to women ever. All that does is move frustration and bad energy from you to her. You can guess what effect that's likely to have.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 06:29 PM
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If it's bugging you, your brain did the math and something's going on. Whether doing anything about it would have the desired effect is the question here and the answer is usually "No" - it tends to accelerate whatever's happening. When dating/LTR/"whatever" is going south, don't try to salvage it: start looking for a replacement.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 05:45 PM
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It seems that women separate love from sex, They do actually, alas it's power talk. Sex is pure, unrestrained love and lust. "Love" is code for what's in their head - what they can get out of betas. Put it to you like this, just as you can say a bunch of shit to make people feel good or cheer them up, or endear them to you, what's important is who you want to fuck and you have no control over that. Girls are no different, except they use faux / artificial (they lie to themselves first, for a bit…
/r/askTRP29/07/16 05:32 PM
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she gives me her phone number. I didn't ask, she just wrote it down on a napkin and handed it to me. telling me that she "misses me" and sends me pictures of her ass and tits unwarranted Contrary to what the other guy said, fuck everyone else. This isn't about you, or "30s-40s-50s something who tip big and hit on her", or anyone else - it's about her. And it sounds like she's been in no way vague about being into YOU. So, any advice? Have you ever fucked a girl who is engaged? Is it worth it? Sl…
/r/askTRP29/07/16 05:20 PM
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The external, factual stuff you write about is to try and fill your internal, vague but unfillable, void. About self-worth, validation, women, sex and seeking in general (copy/pasting my earlier comment): a question that every human being for the last five thousand years (or longer) has asked. How to find fulfilment. And in a schadenfreude yet ultimately senseless manner, you've already fallen prey to the trap: asking this question makes us unfulfilled. Most already have all they need and allow …
/r/askTRP29/07/16 05:16 PM
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vtec conditioning kicks in and I instantly think "Oh shit I misbehaved" Bruh, you're not a Honda. You think an adult crying because YOU misbehaved is normal / not funny? Alrighty then.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 07:38 PM
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She's probably just bored / toying with you. Ask her to carry your 50Lbs ruck on a hike next time.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 04:39 PM
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"You're the best boyfriend ever." "I feel so lucky to be your girlfriend." Keep it simple. "Can I be your girlfriend?" ...it's a question. It's not set in stone, so don't pretend, especially when it will only shift the discomfort away from yourself & onto him during this conversation as a result. Those lines are the "what are we" equivalent, but elevated to unseen heights of passive-aggressiveness, indirectness, presumptiveness and everything else you can do to make any half-sane guys skin crawl…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/16 04:23 PM
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No.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 01:20 PM
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This is the perfect opportunity for you to learn some Zen shit. I'm not suggesting a full reality disconnect here, few can pull that off and (personally) I wouldn't want to, but learning to be at peace with most semi-normal realities is a skill that will provide the immediate relief / quality of life you crave as well as pay dividends for the rest of your life. I find myself making this recommendation very often lately, read The Power Of Now. Audiobook it if you don't like reading. Listen to it …
/r/askTRP28/07/16 06:41 AM
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How can I do it without fucking anything up and staying friends at work? You ...can't. First time sex is pair bonding at it's rawest, even as a guy. Random drunken hookup whose number you don't have, fine - but a chick you actually know & talk to? Run, run like hell. You're self-aware enough to realize this now, which is great, but the only way to avoid this being a train-wreck is to get a different job. Even for people who didn't lose their virginity, there's a good reason "don't shit where you…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 06:34 AM
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I suggest this because knowing the info you want will change what you observe via observer bias, confirmation bias and many other side effects that'll help your mind distort reality to closer match your ego-vested assumptions of it. It's shitty, but that's what the mind does. To get the truth, account for it even if you go another route entirely. Cheers!
/r/askTRP28/07/16 05:43 AM
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This will sound autistic but if that's what you'd like to do, make it a fun game. Tell your SO about it and have both of you keep separate journals for three months - without telling each other what you're writing. Record what you think you perceive (in girl-friendly language), tell her to write what she's perceiving too, plus when she goes on her period. Then compare notes: it's the best way for you to confirm or refute your assumptions in regards to the matter. Both of you will gain insight in…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 05:37 AM
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It's definitely a red flag, whether it merits dropping the girl entirely is a different question ...perhaps for you it'd be useful to stick with it. Women are excellent people skills practice. It can be hard to tell if someone's actions towards you stem from their opinion/feelings towards you or are simply a part of who they are and how they treat everyone. Observing how she interacts with others (via text and in person) would be your best bet if you want to find out. As a rule, assume that what…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 05:32 AM
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I'm assuming you want to know for sex reasons, correct me if this isn't the case. Don't try to mentally understand what your hind-brain already evolved to do. It's as impossible as it is unnecessary - pay attention to when she's extra vivacious - energetic, loud, outgoing, overly touchy, has oily skin, owl-like pupils, etc. Just listen to your instincts.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 05:28 AM
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What kind of input are you looking for? You're the best person to decide if the pussy's worth the trouble. Is this about the respect thing? If so, yeah, it's disrespectful as fuck: she probably does it to everyone, though, so don't feel special.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 05:23 AM
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I can't decide whether casual kissing is a true alpha trait. You can't decide because it's a malformed question. There are betas who casually kiss & don't, there are alphas who casually kiss/don't because it has nothing to do with "Beta" or "Alpha" ...it's a cultural thing: if you're in the US, I'd suggest against it mostly because your chances of gaining favor are much lower than those of offending someone.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 05:20 AM
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her: we can't hang tomorrow me: ok I have to be somewhere after class her: me too (5 min later) her: I'm here her: my bad text not for you What happened in this conversation? She showed up unannounced? Either way, accept people as they are - if you're fine with putting up with this, know that you'll continue having to put up with it. If it hurts your fee fees, move on.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 05:15 AM
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The hotter women are more hesitant to hangout with me it seems. But it seems like the hotter women see me with other women and think fuck that Because they see you as a potential orbiter (or perhaps beta bux) rather than hot enough to fuck non-exclusively but know you won't chase or commit because you know better since you have a bunch of other women surrounding you. You're dead to women who'd like to use you because they know they can't. Keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 05:06 AM
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With that logic you are justifying ever yretarded thing ever written on askwomen or twoxchromosomes Women are praised for being weak and outing their problems, men are condemned. Quite the nuance you've missed when women get what they want (validation) for doing the same thing that costs men a heavy price (loss of respect) How will he ever improve if he just "nexts" every single time any quibble comes up? This was already mentioned as I wrote to learn from it post-facto when your head is once ag…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 05:00 AM
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This is a wall of text - I wrote it for you because you seem convinced in what you say, so please read it with your ego aside because the few times I explain why I give certain advice are rare and far in between ..."why" is very overrated. "I told you I'm done playing with you. Why ? Because I'm being used by you just for sex. That's how I see it. Not starting anything with you! Just saying. You come over smile up in my face all day. Talk about whatever. Always want to grab my ass. Sex me. Cuddl…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 04:37 AM
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This is true alas unwittingly disingenuous; advising people to not dive into powerful knowledge due to risks of possible misuse wholly ignores the fact that people learn to properly learn & use new information by gravely misusing it at first There are many things people can learn from others' mistakes, unfortunately how to learn is not one of them.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 07:23 PM
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TL;DR if you did roids, get medical help - if not, you're just clueless. I'm not a doctor alas most of my peers use so T measurements are common - I've never seen T displayed as "ng/L". The only common per-liter measurement is nanomolar/L, or "nmol/L" - 20.9 of which would put you at ~600ng/dl. Second, unless you're a former pro BB / athlete coming out of surgery with a deathly low BMI, nobody puts on 25Lbs of muscle in 5 months without insane amounts of gear unless you're like fucking 6'8" and …
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:58 PM
1

I don't suggest 48 Laws of power, it's a very toxic mindset It is indeed a very toxic mindset, nonetheless, know thy enemy. That book must be read by everyone hoping to be anyone simply so that they know what is being done to them as well as appropriate counter-moves when necessary. The entry echelons of almost every senior/upper management tier at big companies consist solely of these types.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:49 PM
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The Power Of Now can (will, if you apply it) get rid of most of your "needs".
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:12 PM
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Sure does, but not with CEOs: with the president and elected government officials. When a new guy comes up every 4/8 years & blames everything on the last guy, nobody asks who's actually running the country for the past 20+ yrs
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 05:23 PM
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Instead of trying to improve your weaknesses, cater to your strengths. People are a great hobby, perhaps one of the best and most useful hobbies too. Throw BBQs, arrange meet ups, people whom you help meet others will be indebted to you - they are often the people who are extraordinarily gifted in solitary pursuits such as engineering, medicine, etc
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:54 PM
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Lmfao we should make a bot that autodeletes posts without a question mark in them.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:51 PM
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"I told you I'm done playing with you. Why ? Because I'm being used by you just for sex. That's how I see it. Not starting anything with you! Just saying. You come over smile up in my face all day. Talk about whatever. Always want to grab my ass. Sex me. Cuddle and bounce." Translation: "having sex for the sake of enjoying it is not why I fuck you"; psychologically violent manipulation. What can I do to get her to drop this foolish belief? This is what happens when a woman no longer finds fuckin…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:34 PM
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A good story tells itself, alas if your speaking / social skills are on good, almost any story will be a good one.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 05:45 PM
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She's of good pedigree, fast tracking through life, currently good to you because fee fees despite already showing that she has zero consideration for you by making you pay, implying you'll relocate based on her choice and being overall selfish. You think this is a good LTR? Stop paying for her shit & pandering to her for 2 weeks and find out. I'm not suggesting you be a dick but make sure you're also getting your time's worth. It's not terrible, it just doesn't sound right - when you speak of y…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 05:32 PM
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I'm looking for some strategies to deal with not fitting in with the hivemind. What you're (unknowingly) looking for is a way to cause problems for yourself and be passed up on promotions / raises because you do good work but don't fit in. Law 38: Think as you like, behave like others. There are no other strategies. Read The Power Of Now or your favorite book of choice on Zen and always be calm / self-aware at work. Read How To Win Friends And Influence People, more importantly, INTERNALIZE IT A…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 07:07 PM
3

I have a lot of good friends in my old high school I haven't seen since 2014 If you've done some significant self-improvement your "friends" might not be as thrilled as you are. Go into it as if you were starting at a school where you know nobody & let them warm up to you, the new you, if they want to - be polite, acknowledge them, but start by making a new social circle. Parts of your old one might resurface, just filter those who can't accept the changes you've made by letting them come to you…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 07:00 PM
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Most people are suckers. In other breaking news, the sky is blue.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 05:38 PM
1

I suppose what I'm asking here is what is the essence of RP. TRP is closer to a set of tenets of praxeology than those of an ideology, it requires conscious interpretation. Just as food becomes usable energy after being broken down, digested and passing through multiple processes in our body despite being lethal if injected directly into our veins, the shit here is true but absolutely can't be taken literally It boils down to "be aware of reality, respect and hold yourself to a higher standard w…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 05:15 PM
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focused on what you can do for them and have little in the way of consideration for how they can keep you This isn't just women, most people are like this - best left alone. is there such a thing as a Good Woman Dudes go beta all the time just like "good" women go bad - it's a two way street, don't look for permanence. If you follow the "no marriage or cohabitation" deal (suggested), a good chick is one you can bring to social functions, who'll split the bill (or at least contribute), can hold a…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 04:38 PM
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bursted out laughing because it reminded me of several Virgin conquests I endured. Fucking a chick you know will catch feelings while also knowing beforehand that you'll likely never talk to her again is immature and petty as fuck, get a shrink if you think hurting people who never did anything to you is "cool" or funny.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 04:27 PM
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Freudian slip read that as "how long should I wait after the first date to next her?" - it doesn't matter. If you're busy text when you can set up another date, if you're not text her the day after, whatever. Just don't be awkward about it If a chick's not on your level about something as petty as text / second date timing, fuck her (and I don't mean sex)
/r/askTRP25/07/16 04:21 PM
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Trying this next time, will write FR guise.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 04:19 PM
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texting her a bit before the date and said something that was so unimportant I can't remember what it was Soo if you were texting, you can just look at what you said. What was it? I don't see a question here.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 04:11 PM
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Parents, sisters, brothers, whatever. If they're a shit person you need to distance yourself. Trust me, I wish I wasn't speaking from experience in the "fucked up family" department.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 03:33 PM
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women who are constantly shit testing, who can't seem to stop the put downs and manipulations That's just a toxic person. Fuck them. Get them out of your life and don't think about it.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 01:26 PM
1

As often as we want. Sometimes that's zero times in a month since I'm focused on work and have nothing left in me for anything else because people I care about are counting on me, other times it's over two dozen in about 2 weeks. Consistency doesn't matter, do whatever the fuck you want. Fuck when you want to, otherwise focus on your life. But, there is something important about "fuck when you want to" - if you're feeling it but nobody around you feels the same, realize that and scout until you …
/r/askTRP25/07/16 10:48 AM
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Why am I asking this? Females are fucking crazy as dog shit. You're also fucking crazy as dog shit. Be comfortable with who you are and where you are in life before dating. Omission is a grey area, if a girl plays it dirty, fine, you can too, but straight up lying is a sack of shit move.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 10:42 AM
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Be polite, be courteous, be infallible. It is a court of law but ultimately a human is the arbiter, remember that.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 10:40 AM
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I want full ownership, loyalty, and to be comfortable knowing she is fully committed to me You inflict unhappiness on yourself by desiring the impossible. What you want is not reality in this world. Assume she's fucking others and be at peace with it - if you can't, remove yourself from the situation. If you care who else your women might be seeing, odds are there is a far more scarcity involved than is ideal. The other part lies in a realistic approach to life - let people expire in due time, t…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 10:35 AM
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There is no conflict to be reconciled - think when it's necessary, which is rare, and otherwise don't.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 10:29 AM
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Don't leave the house. It's standard wife tactics, likely suggested by her lawyer. DO NOT LEAVE YOUR HOUSE. Talk to a real lawyer so he can confirm this. Don't leave your house or do anything else until your divorce.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 09:37 PM
1

Username checks out. /thread
/r/askTRP24/07/16 09:03 PM
0

This is pointless, why do people come here to "ask questions" (read: defend their pre-existing notions)? Stop.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 09:01 PM
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from what I gathered, facial structure is pure genetics Look at any pro bodybuilder's / atheletes before and after they suddenly got new "genetics" in their mid 20s. Prenatal T is a good predictor of T which has an extremely significant influence on your facial structure. Buncha more really obvious shit but you can find this by googling, no need for AskTRP on it
/r/askTRP24/07/16 08:43 PM
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Context, context, context. Need more of it.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 06:40 PM
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Yes, it does. There's really no more to be said on the subject, do your own research if you're still curious.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 06:39 PM
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What can I do improve myself and get GF/Wife ? I am dentist by profession. Don't say what you do, guys like you that get taken in by a hoe all too easily - no offense. What country do you live in?
/r/askTRP24/07/16 06:38 PM
1

nearly as long or hard as many women do so I luckily don't have any issues with pair bonding, With all due respect, this is false - made much more obviously so by your post, but that's in the past. What's crucial is understanding that you'll find it harder to stay with your man and remain a civil, decent human being as you are now, not to mention increased, how to say this, "appetites"? Good news is you're still far better off than most of your peers. You'll be paying the price by having to wres…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 06:24 PM
19

a question that every human being for the last five thousand years (or longer) has asked. How to find fulfilment. And in a schadenfreude yet ultimately senseless manner, you've already fallen prey to the trap: asking this question makes us unfulfilled. Most already have all they need and allow their mind or peers to make them believe otherwise. Unhappiness is a side effect of excessive rumination of the past or fears of the future. It's a continuous, self-inflicted change people enforce onto the…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 05:19 PM
3

met some nuts hot russian chick the other night .... turns out she's got a kid, is married I don't know about the date but if you see a guy in a track suit, probably best start running yourself. Not worth it
/r/askTRP24/07/16 04:57 PM
7

7:15pm - Me: "whats your address, I'll pick you up in an Uber at 7:45" 7:35pm - Her- "Nope. I just got out of the shower. I'll be ready like 8:15. Keep ya posted" back to the drawing board on understanding what I did wrong. What you did wrong was not immediately cancel the date & shit can her after that 7:35pm response. Third date: She doesn't even reply with her address No "sorry" in sight Doesn't give you a solid time Plus, that attitude. "Nope". Any one of those those things should have been …
/r/askTRP24/07/16 04:50 PM
4

going out feels lame with these guys. How can we make going out a better experience? How do you go out with friends? Be ridiculous and loud, not because you're trying to be clowns but because you're having so much fun you don't care. If you're not having fun with your friends when you go out, learn how to get them out of their shells or find someone who gets you out of yours. Going out to drink, stand around & NOT have fun is a waste of time so why do you do it? Just because other people do it? …
/r/askTRP24/07/16 04:45 PM
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As many as I have time for, sometimes 0-2 if I'm busy with work / being sent out and 30+ if I'm on R&R. Zero "approaches". Girls who are interested make themselves known, from there you just seal the deal ....the trick isn't some super secret game recipe, it's to not be a social retard so you notice when people are interested in you.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 08:15 PM
2

Frame gets itself across - just like confidence. ...If you're asking how to communicate it, you don't have it.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 08:13 PM
1

Me: I understand. I apologize for my behavior, it was out of line. Don't worry, no hard feelings. This isn't so bad. Just say hi, small talk, be relaxed / friendly as usual and she'll become at ease again too. It's not doing these that lets shit spin out of control ..booze got the best of ya, it happens to almost everyone on occasion.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 07:09 PM
2

She was isn't anymore attracted to me. Yeah, that's what I'm reading. We were fucking on the regular until work got too much Hey man, you wanna be one of the 10,000 posters who come here thinking they're asking for advice just end up hamstering? Cool, no skin off my back - it's your life that's going to get wrecked. We're not here to convince you.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 03:19 PM
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We're both 26. Got married in April. Short marriage, easy divorce. Get on it. Doesn't (okay, it does, but less impact in short marriages) matter how much better a lawyer she can pay. You've been married less than half a year, start the divorce proceedings immediately. She's not applying "red pill tactics", she just doesn't give a fuck about you & isn't attracted to you.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 05:56 AM
4

He's 20. If there is ever a time for risk, it's now.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 09:41 PM
6

No need to throw out what you already know, are ahead in and good at to get what you (think) you want at this time in life. Combine your desire to interact & use social skills with your technical expertise by starting your own business. The mental aspect can't be understated. Get your mind right and you can be happy doing almost anything ...remain as you are and the inverse is true, you won't be happy or fulfilled doing anything. Stick with what you're good at, you will have plenty of time to me…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 09:33 PM
4

half the time, the girls i text always say stuff like 'yeah, i'll text you later, i've just been so busy' Your "text game pride" is blinding you from recognizing that 50/50 or more often, girls aren't interested regardless of how good your game is - it has nothing to do with you. Above is such an example. Move onto girls that are interested. My time is extremely valuable, and i make no effort to try and hide it. if they don't make some kind of effort to try and talk to me, i usually just end up …
/r/askTRP19/07/16 07:08 PM
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Don't worry or think about it, tease her if she brings it up - it's more about her self-image consequences of dating someone younger than anything to do with you. If you're in a country where bars are 21+, though, get a fake ID so you can partake in the adult life fully (or it will be a real issue down the road if she wants to go out and you can't).
/r/askTRP19/07/16 07:04 PM
6

these things make me feel so bad. even if I become a doctor I could never afford to give her the comfort she has now Stick with it, don't focus on the negatives of yourself; she already has all the comfort she needs from money - she doesn't need more; not from you, not from others. Be dignified in your own virtues, which are unlikely to include money in your current relationship. Smart, reliable, funny, self-aware, strong (lift). You do need to increase your earning potential and career but this…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 06:56 PM
3

Why would you randomly be this sexual? Just say "alright alright, relax Ms. anything". And move on with whatever plain adult conversation you were having. You can tease her about it later, but don't be so easy to bait or it's boring.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 06:52 PM
4

Their words have nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. Treat it appropriately and tease the shit out of them about it.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 05:19 PM
6

Man, you've got to learn to silently ignore / write off people if they're being shitty to you. Do nothing, move on
/r/askTRP19/07/16 03:00 AM
2

sex once in my life with an escort. You're blessed with natural abstinence from the social charade of mating, are you sure you want to "fix" that? No erections sounds like something is up with your prostate or prolactin levels ...possibly T3/FSH/LH. Tried Caber?
/r/askTRP19/07/16 02:54 AM
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Would you unfriend? No need, just un-follow so you don't see the posts. FB is social validation cancer but viable if you un-follow 95% of your 3000+ friends & always click "never show this notification/invite/etc again" for 99% of the bullshit notifications FB isn't for looking at pointless shit, it's for you to see what you care about and for others to see what you're up to.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 02:49 AM
2

Prime NOW (Amazon), Checky (keeps phone usage tight), Audible + AnkiDroid (for learning), Squid (notes), Uber. Your preferred stock/asset app, workout tracker & online dating if you do that. That said, I fucking hate smartphones, they're one of those pieces of technology borne of pointless complexity that exist merely to support other, mostly pointless, technological complexity. Call/text plus your other needs but don't waste time by sitting on your phone.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 02:42 AM
10

Is this fiction?
/r/askTRP19/07/16 02:40 AM
9

Hoe's on time when she needs something, but not for you? Then she doesn't need you. Fade. Next. Move on.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 02:38 AM
1

Are you also against kids in general? No, I'd like to be a father and husband very much, but I won't throw away my life for it. Currently, men get punished for these desires, to be good fathers & husbands, only to end up chewed up and spit out by the abomination we call the Family Court System. I'd give my left nut to change things to be more favorable, but it's impossible right now. I see from some of your other posts that you advise against marriage/cohabitation. I advise this because it's pla…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 02:24 AM
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Don't look forward to staying caged, it warps your psyche and changes you with time in a way that is damaging to yourself and your partner. Improve yourself & look onward with no preconceptions about whether it will be with this girl or someone else ...there's only one person you know will be in your future and that's you. Improve, keep doing you, if she stays, great, if not, trust that you'll do just fine. Focus on yourself for a healthy, sustainable LTR.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 01:07 AM
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Could've been random wind coming out of her mouth, don't make it a point to overly focus on words. But, if I had to guess, "if you were nicer" has nothing to do with "Alpha" or "Beta" here - read it as "if you had better social skills".
/r/askTRP18/07/16 08:39 PM
1

I thought the world was perfect place where you can find a loved Reap what you now know instead of beating up your present self over the deeds of the past. Women are there for fucking. You can date too, hell, you can be friends and fuck buddies without dating, whatever ...but the point is to slide in and do damage. More importantly, did I (or you) miss a question somewhere? What exactly are you asking?
/r/askTRP18/07/16 07:44 PM
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Plate has no idea. anticipating the question: "why didn't you tell/ask/consult me?" Are you sure you know what "plate" means? An S.O. on the serious side MIGHT have a right to ask something like this (personally, I wouldn't say shit. Ever. Keep your cards close) but a girl I'm casually seeing? Not a chance in hell. If the topic was found out and pressed for some reason I'd probably dish out an ice cold response to any attempts at prying.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 07:38 PM
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things/places you ask them to come along for? (If she doesn't drink? Lounge with tables to sit, a good kitchen and a dance floor. Coffee shops with something to do after if you hit it off. Smoothie / yogurt places can work, so can book stores, even mall dates (rapidly taking the descent into ratchetville). Bars with arcades, pool, corn-hole, darts & such also tend to be fair game. Gaming arcades fare pretty well. It really depends on what's available in your current location and what's closest t…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 06:21 PM
4

Eventually she had to ditch them and feminism. Yeah, because for most sane women, a loving, lasting LTR eventually outweighs peer approval. Because that's the age we live in, a time where being fit for / wanting an LTR is social taboo.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/16 05:38 PM
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allow me to present a hyperbolic view: in the military, women who fight on the front lines are disproportionately likely to indirectly kill their fellow service-people. No part of the female being - body, psyche or otherwise - is built for war / combat. it's one thing to type about it via keyboard, but everything becomes much clearer when you're sent out for yet another extraction where personnel is dead, wounded or in deep shit not because they were out-maneuvered by the enemy but because one o…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/16 01:40 PM
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So, basically, if she did it and never ever tells you and you are ok with her overall behavior, i.e. what she has done won't start leaking into the relationship - then it's ok? This is like "if we're all dead right now, dicussing this, then it's ok?": you're asking a malformed / impossible question. We don't know if she did it and tells or doesn't, this is a simple fact. Ergo "what she has done won't start leaking into the relationship" is an illusion, because we don't know what she's done, we n…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 01:09 PM
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here's my question: How the f* to tell whether she has sold herself at some point in the past? She just turned 18. Just kidding, even that's not a guarantee of much these days. The trick isn't to try and know the unknowable, the trick is to be ready for a quick exit if (when) you find out/things go bad: don't move in, don't marry. For everything else, there's time - spend enough of it with someone and their tightest secrets will start leaking out.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 12:47 PM
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Advice on working at all female workplace? (self.asktrp) Find a new workplace. Seriously. What can I do to make this as good an experience as possible? Interact with them as little as possible in a personal capacity. Professional is obviously required, but nothing more. This is you: "How's your day/week/etc, /u/SeekingAdviceAgaint?" "Good" / "Busy Busy" -> "You"? Don't go into any detail. "How was your weekend, /u/SeekingAdviceAgain ?" "Just relaxed and caught up with friends and family" "Like w…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 12:41 PM
3

They're fucking barbaric - this is from first hand experience. These "people" are ruled by dogmatic fear and engage in watch-hunts targeting even their own regularly. They'll rape a girl, stone hear to death, cut off the hands of someone just because they do not share their faith & then have the gall to beg for their lives believing they are the righteous. Long story short, true traits of any people are multiplied exponentially & laid bare for all to see in places filled only by their kind - thi…
/r/askTRP17/07/16 05:30 PM
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"So if we do this again and lose you're paying double right?"
/r/askTRP16/07/16 09:44 PM
3

one of the bitches turns to me and says you cant talk just before i was gonna say something "Right. Anyways, [what you were going to say]" if you're new, if you are not it should be standard practice for you to continue talking and let whoever tried to interject wind themselves out. Don't bother taking shit so personally either.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 09:40 PM
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Overheard my sister talking Don't bother wasting your time thinking about some shit a woman (related to you or otherwise) said. What they say is useless because they don't lie to you. They lie to themselves first and then tell you what they now believe is the truth.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 09:34 PM
1

/u/TomFoo did you a solid with his advice which you for some reason chose to ignore. Your grandma has nothing to do with this, you continue to willingly subject yourself to her - this shit's 100% on you, none of it is on her. Want to start your life? Then learn how to find your own fucking answers. You don't want it bad enough. The fear of change and the unknown is greater to you than the known, steady abuse you're suffering. If it wasn't, you'd have Visited private, low-end construction sites o…
/r/askTRP16/07/16 08:23 PM
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Depends on your definition of LTR, ~60% of LTRs shouldn't have even started to begin with, the other 40% can be called "good" LTRs if they are ended in a timely fashion (ie. when shit starts to go south: 99% between 1mo & 5yrs) If you know what to look for + when to end things, you can have mostly positive LTRs even in this day and age. But that's only possible when you realize that "forever" is an illusion that, in reality, just fucks things up - this is why we advise against marriage & cohabit…
/r/askTRP16/07/16 08:14 PM
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You're a fucking idiot. Always, ALWAYS turn people down as gracefully as possible and help them save face. You never know who you're dealing with or how those people might resurface around your friends / future.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 11:22 PM
1

Who did you look at differently after taking the pill? Nobody. A good friend of mine in asked me if I knew about TRP so I made an account and started participating. Next thing you know people made me an EC here lol. Chalk it up to a fucked up childhood and shitstorm after shitstorm in my 20s. The different perspectives / approaches to fundamental life issues are always a refreshing read here, though.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 11:19 PM
1

and just express myself just as if there isn't anyone "superior" than me. It's alarming that you want to pretend to be superior rather than actually become: a shitty short term approach much more in line with what PUA does (pretend) than what TRP suggests (change who you are. gradual but permanent). My advice? Don't pretend. If you do, you will eventually run into the wrong person who sees right through your bullshit.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 11:07 PM
1

You're experiencing a survival mechanism that used to stop you from pissing off the wrong person and getting your head bashed in back in the caveman days. Lift (if you are, more), take martial arts classes. Knowing and participating in a full contact combat sport will ease your mind in situations like this, day to day interactions and life in general.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 10:41 PM
4

If you're mentally (thinking) deciding about what emotion to display, odds are you look autistic as fuck doing it. Be yourself, stay relaxed, do whatever you want/feel like doing. A natural smile beats a forced straight face & vice versa. This isn't to say you shouldn't change or improve but the thing in shortest supply is always authenticity.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 09:08 PM
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The more I hear about it the more I become convinced you're fighting a losing battle. Cut her loose. The most likely reason you haven't is because you're not sure you can find someone better, but you can - trust in that. There are plenty of girls who want to date or have something on-going who don't come with mental issues & bad influences. Focus on yourself but keep your social game right / expose yourself to people and you'll find them.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 09:07 PM
2

like /u/Levicticus59 said, trusts and asset management is a subject far too complex to be broken down in a brief reddit Q & A exchange - and it is great for them to stay that way, high complexity / investment barrier to entry keeps them from being significant enough targets for the family court system to go after because they are so rarely used properly. Research, then pay a professional to confirm what you find or fix your mistakes and get you started.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 09:04 PM
14

Sounds like this chick has mental issues are you sure you should be dating her to begin with? Find a girl who you can have a consistent, non-dysfunctional, non-passive aggressive LTR with if that's what you want for this part of your life. To the old married dude advice: he's right, but times are different. You also need something worth working with and keeping to make going through the lows worthwhile ...which does not sound like the chick you're seeing. It'll only get worse as more "counselors…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 08:58 PM
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by replying to the sex one saying let's try it for a bit (a week or so). That's fine, but you've really agreed to being single for a week. Don't text her back fast or often, do your own thing, even date around a bit - because if you're not fucking, she's looking around & you should be doing the same thing. If I hit her with the lets take a break If you do this, be aware that you're pretty much breaking up (as you should be). Are you in HS or college?
/r/askTRP14/07/16 08:47 PM
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hits me with "we shouldn't have sex next school year. Our relationship ship is based on sex". hits me with the "cook me something tomorrow. I need to see you care about me" keep the reigns and not fall for this obvious trap? Without having to nuke the relationship hopefully, You're already in the trap. Ask her on a date - if you get any bullshit about scheduling or she doesn't want to come to yours & fuck after (don't text about this ...just do it after the date)? "We should take a break". Move …
/r/askTRP14/07/16 08:39 PM
3

If it's legally yours, it can be taken via divorce. Irrevocable trusts, foreign assets managed by ancestors (trustworthy ancestors, think father, grandfather, etc) without a direct inheritance clause (implicit via local laws/provisions), etc. Your best bet is to pay a professional $200-$500 for 30min of their time as far as this goes. It's 100% worth it.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 08:23 PM
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Decide to be exclusive with plate. You wuh cuz? That was never your decision to make to begin with. Joke's on you. My question: how do I tell her that sex with other people is off limits, without being needy or beta? You don't. Let her fuck who she wants, fuck her as long as you're one of those people, also fuck other chicks. A girl will ask for / offer her to you exclusively if she wants more of your life and time. If she doesn't, there's nothing you can do.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 08:05 PM
5

This isn't about being shirtless, or the HB9, or "day-game" - these problems arise from you being uncomfortable in your own skin. Do some crazy shit. Have fun. Forget about yourself, focus on things around you/outside of yourself.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 07:28 PM
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Lol at all these people's bad advice. Option 5 is your worst choice - you'll gain no new plates and could lose all 3 if shit goes south. When you're in a small town, it's different: it's not about how good you are /game, it's about playing conservatively so you don't run out of people to fuck. If you're feeling good about this, #3 (taking out Beth) should be your go-to here, might even help with Lisa/Ellen being sketchy on-off drama queens - if you fuck them less than once per week, they shouldn…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 06:52 PM
2

She's probably speaking 90% bullshit but perhaps has a thing for low bodyfat guys (no denying it's attractive). If I was you I'd say fuck what she says but since you're you, go on a 150-300 TDEE excess slow bulk so you stay low fat.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 04:57 PM
3

EXs tend to be overwhelmingly scornful as fuck (unless you actually dated a decent person, unlikely), the second she knows she has any leverage over you she will use it to make your life as shitty as possible. If I was you, write off both. Take it as a super expensive and shitty lesson for the future - don't put yourself in a position like this again.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 07:51 PM
13

Don't know / don't care, why are you so obsessed with TwoX? AskTRP is for men to ask about male problems.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 07:48 PM
1

When you write stuff, imagine you're having a conversation (minus the non verbal cues). 90% of the dumb stuff guys write online stems from them not realizing it's a conversation. They "write" instead of put down what they'd say. How would you talk to a woman in person? Just do that. No need to mention you wanna fuck her, you said hi, she knows.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 07:45 PM
1

gap between the "winners" and "losers" in life gets bigger and bigger as time goes on? Sometimes the Chad who'd normally peak in HS or College marries a chick (late in college) who's about to be a Doctor and is from a rich family and has a great life. Some winners turn into losers, some vice versa. The overall tendency is true, just don't use it as an excuse for enduring a shitty present in hopes of a better future you might not live to see. Point is, the headspace you'd have to be in to ask suc…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 07:00 PM
1

Chinese/Japanese carry heavier academics/achievement focus but much less sexual repression, most Latino cultures are fairly sexually free, but if you're trying to tell me that you haven't seen ANY Latino guys act creepy, visit Italy. Why are such large-scale stereotypes of concern to you?
/r/askTRP13/07/16 06:47 PM
3

Just to be clear, by social worker you mean a sex worker or stripper? Steer clear my friend.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 06:44 PM
3

It's a cultural factor, many things that are normal in their culture are overbearing/creepy in most other cultures. Furthermore, like you said, sexual repression and focus on academics further exacerbates these tendencies.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 06:35 PM
2

Are you trying to flirt with and fuck a women or compare yourself to their boyfriends? Pick one.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 06:29 PM
2

Notes, advice, forum posts, videos, songs, memes, etc. Anything and everything, GO. All that shit is going to make you think - now & in the moment - which is the last thing you want. Everything you need to know about kino, escalating and kissing: stop thinking, pay attention to what feels right, do it. Do the things she makes you want to do. If you feel anxious, something's not right so just chill & sit back for a bit but keep talking.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 06:27 PM
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I cannot clearly see an end goal here Do what others can't to gain what they won't. Unless you're going to a truly upper class event, most people will have some fear of introducing themselves. Introduce yourself to many, remember details about them and later introduce them to each other when you might think there is a good fit, they'd like each other or have a fun talk. You just gave people that don't know you something they value very much - like life-long friendships or romance - by overcoming…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 06:06 PM
2

Me: I'm gonna go with 10 minutes. (Never give a direct answer) This is dumb as fuck. So are the rest of your messages. Be direct with your interest, not coy. Girls are coy. When you try to be coy it's a "one size fits all" stratagem that, in reality, is a lot more like "one size fits none im fappin at home" Be direct. If you're interested in a girl, talk to her, if she isn't interested in you, talk to the next one. A large portion of whether someone likes you or not has nothing to do with you - …
/r/askTRP13/07/16 05:56 PM
3

why is the beta fucking the girl i jack off to? I'm not Ryan Reynolds looking, but better looking than the beta i saw on the subway today with a beer belly, unkept beard and sausage fingers and still with a 7,5/8 GF. I already answered this in a fairly direct manner: you have focused on external qualities while disregarding internal qualities mindset, conversational skills, the mood you instill in people, etc. Are you fun to be around? So let me be more direct. You have focused too much on exter…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 05:37 PM
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Ow c'mon, some people reek betaness. So you say, yet he's fucking the chick you whack off to - you're mis-perceiving or failing to perceive some reality. My best guess is that you have focused on external qualities while disregarding internal qualities such as your mindset, conversational skills, the mood you instill in people, etc. Are you fun to be around? Do people feel good around you? Because if not, doesn't much fucking matter what you look like, what you eat or what you read. People want …
/r/askTRP13/07/16 12:13 AM
4

So how come? Why do you care? It has nothing to do with you.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 11:57 PM
5

They basically ignore him and almost never laugh if he's being insulting, but he does it anyway. Good, this means they have your back and are just waiting for you to set the record straight. my only conclusion is that I have to shit on him the same way or he will never stop. You could, or you could call him out in the middle of the fucking room for it like all your friends have been waiting on you to do for probably a long fucking time now, just be ready to swing if he doesn't fall in line / und…
/r/askTRP12/07/16 09:56 PM
1

he doesn't joke with me, he ignores me and says this to the others when I'm in the room Interrupt him mid-sentence to build on the joke or talk about something else you just realized was funny. If you feel the guy's being a dick to you in front of your friends (are they your friends or his?) just cut his shit off mid-sentence
/r/askTRP12/07/16 09:04 PM
3

What are the pros and cons of marrying a "career woman"? (self.asktrp) Oh man, good one. This has been asked too many times, though. Search on the main sub!
/r/askTRP12/07/16 07:56 PM
2

They complain to you about it being hot? Pick a place with AC. You benefit, they benefit, they'll remember it. When you're in a bad mood, excusing yourself from the situation is usually better than fucking up everyone else's mood. You also seem to've missed the nuance that studying together is a social activity as much as it is an academic one.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 07:47 PM
2

I take what suits me / feels right and discard what doesn't from multiple sources - Eckhart and Watts are great modern interpretations, some of my origins go back to Buddhism / Hinduism and their root Vedanta scriptures. Seneca, Aurelius & many other (as close to as possible) original Greek and Roman texts also resonate with me. Like anything in life, expose yourself to everything until you find your thing - you'll know it when you see it.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 07:37 PM
1

No tips besides the fact that asking "how to make friends" is just a vicious circle of your own mind where since you are anxious about the prospect of doing so, you procrastinate on the event by asking questions about it. Go out and do it.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 07:32 PM
3

You didn't even kiss, she's not into you, likely because you were too wrapped up inside your own bubble of what YOU want, what YOU think & other things/thoughts of your perspective to notice what she was feeling beforehand as well.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 07:26 PM
1

I would surely like to be in a population that has a better attractiveness to me on average. This is like a kid who's never flown a plane asking to be in a place full of only cutting edge jet fighters because their dream is to fly jet fighters. No thought as to whether anyone will let you fly one, or even whether you can pull it off and here you are, obsessing over the specs of the planes and statistics and such. Stop your brain & start your heart
/r/askTRP12/07/16 07:07 PM
2

How can I transition her into a fuckbuddy without having to give her too much attention outside of sex? Don't do it. She's either playing around or you'd seriously fuck this girl's head up just to smash. There's a reason EXs are EXs and, even if you two have changed, the level of awareness required to overcome past baggage with a person that'd be required for both of you is beyond either of you at this time if you actually recently broke up due to stress
/r/askTRP12/07/16 06:52 PM
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I feel like too many guys reading this might think of dread as a mechanism to retain your current partner, which is a bad mindset to be in. It's you, on your way out, giving them a courtesy chance to change your mind. Shit tests are one thing, it's like hey do you have a backbone, but this is on a whole different level - she has zero respect for him. Too many guys come here and post a dead relationship that either should've been over way before it got to the point where they're posting or there …
/r/askTRP12/07/16 06:46 PM
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He's just giving you shit, it's your job to dish it back but you didn't so what is usually natural / friendly / harmless jousting banter ended up putting you on tilt, ergo impacting your status and mindset - which says a lot about you. EDIT: what I want is not to feel like this, learn a way to deal with both how I feel and this guy. This has nothing to do with "this guy". You've gotta learn to banter, talk shit and roll with the punches.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 05:13 PM
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She says she finds me attractive but she doesn't show her desire like she used to. Strikethrough 1: Ignore what they say. Bold 2 - Always focus on what they do. Strikethrough 3: The past is irrelevant. She doesn't "show" desire because she no longer has any desire for you - the "why", "how", past, future or "what ifs" don't matter. The only thing that matters is what is happening right now: her not wanting / having sex with you. and so would you just suggest following normal Red Pill rules? Repl…
/r/askTRP12/07/16 04:45 PM
1

TL;DR you can't "encourage" fatherhood; improve and/or find someone who wants it with you, whom you also want. Healthy LTRs do involve compromise but children are too big of a decision for compromise. That'd be like going online to find/buy a plane ticket because you need to be somewhere tomorrow & settling for a 3-month cruise to that place. s there a RP approved way to encourage a quality man to want a family? There are no "what ifs" or "should've beens": what is, is what should be. You should…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/16 10:30 PM
5

It is an irreversible procedure False. Vasectomy is covered by insurance, reversal is self-pay but even after 20+ years has an 80%+ success rate. We're happy about vasectomy because if / when a chick comes around with the good old "I'm pregnant", we don't have to sweat bullets and worry about our life becoming a living hell for the next 18 years. Call it peace of mind.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 07:11 PM
1

feel wired to bang more innocent and feminine women but looks like the window is closing for that period of my life and I don't know When you feel one thing and think or "don't know another", your gut's usually right. Go bang chicks. I don't feel anything for most people. I'm better than them. You think too much and feel too little. Focus on people who look like fun, that's all there is to it - who you are better than or who's better than you doesn't matter, only finding people you can spend mut…
/r/askTRP11/07/16 06:45 PM
1

Don't waste time on girls who aren't hot - they're more insecure, play more games & are less fun (all side effects of not having as many positive interactions with the other gender as the hottest chicks) ...oh yeah and they're not hot.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 04:08 AM
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The vast majority of women of all ages are up for casual sex. That blazing hot, tall, 33 year old blonde doctor who looks like she's 20 and has three kids, a white picket fence and a picture perfect marriage is down to get railed by someone she met 3 hours ago. Conversely, someone much lower status, single & unattractive might not be down to fuck at all. It all depends on how well / tightly individuals choose to - and are able to - restrain their animal side. The hotter the chick, the more excit…
/r/askTRP09/07/16 04:01 AM
2

as a culture reward female outliers? (self.asktrp) females are encouraged to do "boy stuff" That's not a reward, it's a trojan instant gratification horse chalk full of cyanide. more logical then not to reward female outliers and to encourage girls to make feminine life choices This is already the case, here's what you are missing: "you-go-girl! IG likes! career! yeah!" = Short-term instant gratification dopamine bursts "find a guy with a good head on his shoulders, stay by his side" = Long-term…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 07:58 PM
4

Women are going to know what's best for women My sides have just left the stratosphere, thanks for that. I post in PRW semi-regularly for the same reason I post here and comment in the main TRP sub: I enjoy writing as a form of refining my own thoughts and it seems to help others.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 05:59 PM
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Flirt with her, you lose nothing - just don't get pulled in for nothing. As always, vagina around you two will take note and if nothing else you'll probably end up smashing other chicks because of it - and likely this one too if you're good.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 05:57 PM
2

Bruh... no. Just no.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 06:53 AM
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Tl dr. Girl has bf, decides shes unhappy, cheats, boyfriend is BP to the core, gets gaslighted daily, doesnt know what to do. Should i end his misery and let him know? No, this ain't any of your fucking business. Keep doing you. Also, this is AskTRP not UlyssesTRP; shorten it up!
/r/askTRP08/07/16 06:21 AM
3

I didn't go off on her. I kept my cool and told her she frustrated me and she stopped me from getting my goal, and then she drives off all upset. You told her that she screwed you over when she was just trying to help. Put yourself in her shoes. You have a good friend or person who you care about. They ask you for a favor you can do, you do it. Something goes south and they tell you that because they asked you to do this and you didn't, or it went wrong, that you screwed them over. Any sane pers…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 06:51 PM
1

It's not a sign of anything, where a person looks is one of hundreds/thousands of factors your hind-brain evaluates to find out what someone feels, what they are open to and if it's in your best interest to try having anything to do with them: the result comes out as what YOU feel when you look at her. If you feel like you should, go for it. If not, don't.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 06:15 PM
6

/r/RedPillWomen is the place you want. Why do you want to be a "red pill" woman, as you say? What do you want to do in your life? Find a good man for DINK? Start a family? Or take life one step at a time and find a good boyfriend?
/r/askTRP07/07/16 06:06 PM
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Not enough information to even tell if it's about her or about you, this is a poor question.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 06:05 PM
1

Own your shit, text her, tell her you weren't thinking straight, because you fucking weren't. Something like "My bad for going off on you when you were just trying to help. [logistics]?" The notion here is that you're suggesting a dinner / date / get together to make up for it, and you kind of are. But also fuck her silly, she'll be dripping. Get em tiger
/r/askTRP07/07/16 05:52 PM
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If you fuck a girl who's super into you AND inexperienced when you're not that into her ...man, get pussy elsewhere. These chicks want and basically almost need someone that will date them after fucking them or they're going to get mentally fucked up beyond repair in no time. Or at least see/date them for a bit and let it fizzle. I know this is "soft" advice but we're here to fuck women, not ruin people. If they feel guilty then & there, cuddle for a hot minute & say some shit like "I do wanna s…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 05:05 PM
1

Learned from some pretty cool guys, if you pick the right vendors, services & intermediaries to stitch together into a business model you won't be doing much yourself. The right buyer & a combination of vendors / processors / services to satisfy them is all you need. All I do is log in remotely, make sure things are going smoothly, (mostly check emails and production schedules / shipping) and purge/refund the customer & still deliver if they aren't (because I don't give a shit about the money, j…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 04:16 PM
1

Your life is more than good enough and, like most issues, it's just in your head man. Read the Power Of Now (or listen to it as an Audiobook a few times) and see where that takes you. This isn't a quick fix but it's probably the best one
/r/askTRP07/07/16 05:24 AM
3

I am a bit upset that she would This is it right here. You already feel all you need to know, act on it - whatever that looks like - until you're no longer upset. It will include cutting this chick loose and sliding through a few others - the order of operations is up to you.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 11:06 PM
3

Just like in business, the power to walk away is the ultimate M.A.D. deterrent. Marriage takes this away from you, as a guy, so you're left with no power and the relationship becomes unhealthy because of it. Furthermore, men & women break up all the time - it's an animal thing. You should have the option to let go easily if/when that time comes. Here's a better question: aside from "everyone's doing it", why do YOU think marriage is a good idea?
/r/askTRP06/07/16 10:01 PM
1

if you internalize the idea that cheating doesn't matter then you can totally do whatever you want & you won't feel any pain. But you'd also be a cuck TIL I'm a cuck. People are promiscuous, we evolved this way. There's no point in denying nature, it always catches up don't want to commit to an idea of self-deluding myself into thinking that all women are up to no good. This is where we differ. I don't believe cheating is bad, just a fact of life. Saying one thing and doing another is "bad" but …
/r/askTRP06/07/16 07:28 AM
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your comment had some great points, I just think that we need to acknowledge that OP's girlfriend is a cunt On paper both are true (thanks by the way, appreciate it!) but sometimes a balanced truth isn't what you need in your head to get over some shit and act in your own best interest. Everyone has to distort the world somehow to function in it with themselves as a true/good person who they pretend matters in the large scheme of things and nothing is better at inducing rapid, permanent change t…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:39 AM
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I don't understand how she could tell me she cares about me so much all those times, Copy/pasting my earlier rant which turned out to be unexpectedly popular to answer this: IT IS HARMLESS FUN when you have abundance and choice of partners, it'd be harmless fun for you too if you could fuck most chicks you wanted to on sight ....but you can't, so it's "serious" You're that person who's anxious as fuck because they're flying on an airplane for the first time when they sit down next to a guy who f…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:32 AM
2

It is 100% his own fault and that's OK; the majority of peoples' pain and problems are self inflicted. This isn't a "shits your fault so beat yourself up over it and further perpetuate your bullshit cycle of self-pity", this is a "you done fucked up, here is how to not do it again" ...excessive context moots the point. We can talk about 10 billion tangents like "he wasn't told about this, its wrong, dishonorable, he was deceived in life" etc but that's loser thinking of people who fail at life .…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:18 AM
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No problem, I do hope it helps. The first few days you'll have to keep your mind on nothing but observing yourself and it will be hard to do everyday stuff but it will quickly become a habit and the benefits are legit life-changing. Cheers
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:01 AM
1

Depends, major groups are best at 8-15 and minor ones at 12-20, depending on your workout routine, frequency, age, genetics, nutrition, sleep, stress & more. Keeping a log / experimenting is the only way to find your optimal
/r/askTRP05/07/16 11:14 PM
2

No need to stop fucking new chicks when you run into one you don't mind sticking around
/r/askTRP05/07/16 11:10 PM
2

This comment thread is what you need to read, all the way to the end.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 11:08 PM
2

Is Escalating the only way? (self.asktrp) No but it's the best way. Since you're asking this your #1 priority should be getting comfortable with fucking chicks
/r/askTRP05/07/16 11:06 PM
4

You're indirectly asking whether it looks like you're cool ("guy who is surrounded by women he's not gaming") or not ("beta orbiter") - which in itself is toxic. Stop giving a fuck what people think so you can focus on what's fun for you.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 10:57 PM
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You have no idea why you lost this plate or any other; it was because you stopped being fun - shit's that simple. It's not about negs, or SMV, or even about you at all ....it's about them no longer having fun when they're around you. When people are having fun by being around you, they ignore bad things about you. When they don't, all the good things in the world about you won't matter.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 10:28 PM
2

Sounds like your biggest problem is that you think too much - you can't fix that with more reading or thinking. You don't need to learn or read or think, you need to unlearn so you can let loose and let yourself do your animal thing.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 09:59 PM
1

Yeah kind of. Consciously make an effort to perceive, observe and not react to the things happening inside you.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 09:55 PM
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my girlfriend the love of my fucking life who I've wasted countless hours and money You think that's your girlfriend? You're her girlfriend. I feel like a part of my manhood has been stripped from me. No worries, there's nothing left to strip. How the fuck can these women rastionalise this actions as harmless fun? BECAUSE IT IS HARMLESS FUN when you have abundance and choice of partners, it'd be harmless fun for you too if you could fuck most chicks you wanted to on sight ....but you can't, so i…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 09:43 PM
3

Is it more likely that she was attracted to me, Likely? A chick made out with you on sight and you think it's LIKELY she was attracted to you? What a time to be alive. Next time, grab her hand on the spot and ask her where she's going. If you two can't leave together then and there, get her number and text her right away / talk until you two find an excuse to meet up somewhere and fuck.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 09:37 PM
2

How am I suppose to stop this cycle if i'm ALWAYS going to feel bad in these situations? By realizing that it's not the situation that makes you feel bad, it the part of you that lies outside of your awareness that makes you feel bad. What I'm saying is difficult to understand because it does not make logical sense, it makes emotional sense. You unwillingly perpetuate your racing thoughts, emotions (which are thoughts of your animal self) and bodily tensions by being unaware of them to begin wit…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 09:28 PM
2

You chain yourself out of the present with doubts from the past or fears of the future ...don't do that. Don't think so much. If you were there and didn't feel like dancing, cool, just don't dance. You were anxious because you were there in body, where it was a good time, but your mind and soul were off in a negative experience of the past or shrouded in doubt of what will happen in the near/far future. If you stop doing that shit, most of your problems will go away. Like all this peripheral con…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 09:18 PM
1

Something felt off with me, not her. It's difficult if not impossible to tell whether something feels off with you because of you, or because of the other person ...and it shouldn't matter. If something feels off, it's just not right. Those are the facts. Evaluating too much context around them moots the simple point of: You didn't fuck her because you didn't feel right about it You're in a vicious circle - fucking up with women because of thoughts of past fuck-ups with women. Even if you've fix…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 09:12 PM
1

No, it was right, I just didn't do it. you fuck it up by being too much of a bitch to escalate. Pick one. You were "too much of a bitch", in your own words, because something felt off. You literally just wrote so yourself in your own post. Have some fucking self-awareness.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 08:12 PM
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My homie's friend and his gf will be there too, so I wont be the only girl. Its a psychadelic trance festival so there will be substances. You're going to an event where your friends are a date, with an extra. Implies you're the +1 for "old friend". You'll use things that deprive you of self-control. It's your birthday: who you spend it with shows who is important. All that plus you being in an LDR which is already a bad idea, is a recipe for disaster: your take on all this is just the cherry on…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/16 08:06 PM
1

you fuck it up by being too much of a bitch to escalate If you were anxious about escalating, something wasn't right and your instincts recognized that. When it's a "sure thing", you get excited & feel good about the prospect of kissing/touching a woman and taking her home to fuck. How do you feel after messing up opportunities like that, especially when the girl is hot? See above. If you are anxious about escalating, it's not right. Shit's that simple. When it's right, you get excited, loose an…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 07:55 PM
1

Own businesses, I work but its relationship management with clients - the social game. Pays a lot more than 150 too
/r/askTRP05/07/16 07:51 PM
3

As you improve in life relatively to others, your tolerance for incompetence will plummet and you'll lead begrudgingly if you want anyone to get anything done because everyone else is a fucking idiot & you leading them will benefit both yourself and others more than other outcomes. Don't try to lead because "it's manly and what men do" because if you lead without being the best person to do so, you fuck over those around you (and you instinctively feel that this would happen, verbalizing it as y…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 07:11 PM
1

with girl 'friends' (self.asktrp) Pick one. Someone's either a girl or a friend: both is very rare and if this was it, you wouldn't be posting about how to maintain frame, but you are, because something feels off since someone's trying to fuck someone without knowing it.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 11:16 PM
8

Odds are you might've struck out because you focused on the words too much, just like you are now
/r/askTRP02/07/16 09:19 PM
3

banged the one without as much as a few sentences the whole night. The drama chick started audibly crying Worth. Tbh if a chick invites you with her friends, 99% of the time your only real choice is to fuck her friends.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 12:12 PM
1

If you get into a company with good employee retention in Silicon Valley (while you live in SF) and work the slightest bit of social magic it is not uncommon to be able to transition to being a full remote employee without salary / benefit changes. It takes work, but if the people above you know you are valuable you will definitely have the leverage for it.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 12:10 PM
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You don't owe this chick shit but you DO have her shit, text her something like "last chance to pick up your stuff. [my place on time/day A, time/day B or time/day C". Give her three options - if that's not enough, fuck her & her bullshit.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 03:04 AM
1

Does the 'chase money not women' rule apply in Silicon Valley? (self.asktrp) It applies everywhere and the relatively higher your local economy, the more it applies. The happiest of my ex SF acquaintances are those who hustle, buy one or two vacation homes, usually one in Mexico & one in a small college town with good scenery (less than $200K total) and retire or move onto remote work at around 30-35. This presents a tough choice: 1. Take a pay cut in exchange for much better opportunities with …
/r/askTRP01/07/16 02:54 AM
2

Should I continue not texting, and use only for logistics Eh, depends on if she's starting to feel like she's being used for sex. I like her, and I want to show her that I am not loosing interest by at least messaging sometimes. Don't do it by texting, do it by also doing something cool when you two are together in person. I would be more comfortable if she initiated, so I could reply, but she almost never initiates. Gotta get over this - who starts texts are sometimes valid signs but mostly irr…
/r/askTRP30/06/16 05:40 PM
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This morning, my gut tells me it's a setup to buy her friends drinks. want to fuck this girl, but it doesn't feel right... 99% of the time, if it doesn't feel right, it's not. But you never know, she could be under pressure to show up with a date and end up liking you (and, of course, I could win the fucking lottery). You wouldn't lose much by showing up. Any advice strategy would be great. If you're really desperate and want to give it a shot: Assume nothing, show up, be good company. If she as…
/r/askTRP30/06/16 04:13 PM
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Don't make it a habit to deny your own feelings is all I'm saying, shit's toxic - especially in the long run. The only thing worse than ignoring your feelings is taking action on them "in the heat of the moment" ...realize that what you're feeling is acceptable & normal by the mere virtue of you feeling it, calmly decide what to do about it and do that thing. I know it sounds like no-brainer advice but the trick is to keep cool & do this in real-time, all the time.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 03:18 PM
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are there any pitfalls I should avoid? Yeah, the one you're in right now where you think it somehow changes things or you have pitfalls to avoid. Girls are girls, make them feel good and they'll keep coming back for more: it's that simple. Don't start thinking she's special
/r/askTRP30/06/16 03:15 PM
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That's not a plate, it's a girl you have feelings for: yeah you're soft but that's the situation. This isn't where you lie to yourself about how "you shouldn't feel jealous" when you do and try to mindfuck yourself. This is where you find other girls so you really stop feeling jealousy or, if you can't, break it off because if you don't, she'll sense it & do it for you.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 03:10 PM
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pursuing every woman you find attractive is helping or hurting me. If you have to ask, it's probably hurting. Likely because you don't know yourself well enough to know when you're feeling the "right" kind of attraction from having been emotionally desensitized and mentally fucked up by public education and the whole "induction into society" process as you were / are growing up (lasts until you're 30ish). When you look at a woman and THINK she's hot, that's just you thinking random shit. When yo…
/r/askTRP30/06/16 03:04 PM
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My issue is speaking my mind, directly, without hesitation. Stop thinking. That three second rule? Just another way you incite anxiousness inside your own mind. What's your approach and technique? Do you just go out to the park, sit next to a girl and talk? No approach, no technique. Do shit you like and you'll meet people you like. Do you go about your errands and approach as you see an opportunity? You're compatible with a very small percentage of people even if you have your social shit sorte…
/r/askTRP30/06/16 02:59 PM
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You can't change people. You can inspire (or its negative opposite, "dread") someone to change but it's unlikely. Only when they want to change can you help them with the how, some details & support. Telling your S.O. about Red Pill anything will likely have a negative impact on your relationship & could even fuck up your social life - it's a bad idea. And when I say they want to change, I mean they want that shit bad. More than they want to be lazy.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 02:51 PM
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Women today get rewarded for slutting it up or for masculinizing themselves. Your perception is clouded by short-term thinking and the culture of instant gratification. I see no clear external reward (other than intact self-respect and my own peace of mind) for restraining myself. Self-respect and peace of mind are the only things that'd let you wake up in the morning and feel good about yourself. If they aren't, or you for some reason don't realize it / forgot it, you need to unfuck yourself ..…
/r/askTRP30/06/16 02:40 PM
1

Bruh.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 09:24 PM
1

I didn't ask how I could improve. Then why did you post here? What even brought you here?
/r/askTRP24/06/16 09:09 PM
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Stop mindfucking yourself into thinking you're doing yourself a favor by talking to people who don't give a fuck about you, as is obviously the case here. You writing this, thinking so much - in return for nothing - is bad for your health. So is this considered breaking frame? It's a mindset, that's all. The part of it you should practice here and now is not disrespecting yourself. People who want nothing from or with you have absolute power over you if you want something from or with them. It's…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 08:19 PM
1

that's why we ask these questions, or am I wrong? You're not wrong - not in the conversation you're having. But we're having different conversations because your perception of what I wrote is divorced from what was actually written and misinterpreted as a personal affront. Your ego does not matter. At all. You deprive yourself of an answer by asking the wrong question. The right question is "what changes do I make to be more fuckable / in demand" and to answer that you will need to look at yours…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 07:52 PM
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Do you think women are more attracted to guys with or without a strong ego? (self.asktrp) Women are most attracted to guys they want to fuck. (Oh shit guise, that's a twerp truf. Write dat down. Genius) And ego - just like your skin tone, origins, accent and almost everything else you think matters - actually doesn't. Focusing on individual aspects of a person (ex. ego) is like looking at the fucking Mona Lisa one brush stroke at a time. You'll never understand anything, improve anything or make…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 07:37 PM
1

Social Circle is best because I don't have to do anything, followed by talking to people as I'm out and about.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 05:36 PM
1

Where someone is in life is measured by the time they actively spend to get there, and someone having wasted away a decade more than you on this earth means nothing if you put in more hard work in your relatively shorter time here. People who work hard AND have been doing so for much longer than you? You've no chance. Alas that's a VERY small percentage of people, you've nothing to fear from most guys. But, back to you - you're insecure and unsure of yourself. Fix it
/r/askTRP23/06/16 03:44 PM
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It was edited since my response dummy
/r/askTRP22/06/16 07:49 PM
3

You've asked the million dollar question. If anyone finds a good answer, I'd like to know.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 06:50 PM
1

How do I tell her I want her to be exclusive with me? (self.asktrp) Like I just wrote in the AskTRP post right before yours, you don't tell her that - because it's not up to you. It's up to her. Keep doing you until she asks (or doesn't - nothing you can do about it). Asking a woman to be exclusive is like locking yourself into a ticket for train that has a high chance of wrecking & isn't even guaranteed to leave the station.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 06:34 PM
2

Just feel like I do not fit in to her lifestyle. You're not there to fit into her lifestyle, you're there to fit inside her - don't complicate it.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 06:27 PM
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I'm going to LTR spook her or I'll have to end it now. Fixed. Don't fool yourself, if an LTR ever materializes with this chick it will not be because you asked. What would you do if you were me? Keep smashing, being fun and entertaining. If she wants more I'm sure she'll make it clear. More importantly sounds like this chick has a decade left at most, feel free to call it what you want - just remember you like sex, not bullshit. If she has more money than you, she's fucking you because she wants…
/r/askTRP22/06/16 06:06 PM
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by thaat time I feel like attraction is slipping This means it was never there: if a girl likes you, she'll be accommodating - it's that simple.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 06:04 PM
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All this advice based on the words - fuck that. Play the word game, but remember to ignore it because it doesn't fucking matter. Escalate repeatedly and watch what she does. Keep smashing while humoring her verbal vomit because it's up to you to ease the dissonance between what she wants inside her and the words that come out of her.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 05:52 PM
1

Eh your instincts aren't easy to override, it's just like learning to race motorcycles. Takes a lot of balls
/r/askTRP22/06/16 05:29 PM
1

Because your hind-brain says some other male might come bash your fucking brains in for trying to smash.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 04:31 PM
1

Birth control rendered sex worthless. Your instincts haven't adjusted so you FEEL that it's important (because your hind-brain thinks it'll lead to reproduction). It's good for you emotionally and physically: so is intimacy in general. But so is gym. Welcome to 2016, where people work bullshit jobs in a bullshit economy so they can do a bullshit activity.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 04:13 PM
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I believe in equality This isn't a place where you need to write this kind of bullshit. when I treat a woman like I would a man she might feel like I have no desire to fuck her More than likely she has no desire to fuck you. no intention of being amicable with you other that for the purpose of sex. I'm not sure what you think "I'm a man, you're a woman" means - if you want to fuck, treat them like kids or bratty teenagers. They lie just to see what they can get away with, cheat just to see if th…
/r/askTRP22/06/16 04:04 PM
1

So how would TRP handle this issue? Growing up isn't an issue to be handled. It won't get easier, it'll get better. Don't try to look back or turn back the clock, you'll just trap yourself.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 03:59 PM
1

what are some ways I can get her more interested/engaged? Fuck her, you don't need "comfort" - sounds like you think too much: relax and do what you were born to do.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 03:55 PM
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get quite a few matches on Tinder rarely, but sometime do live approach This is your problem. Turn off Tinder and learn to meet people face to face. As long as you keep at it, your results will skyrocket before you know it.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 04:37 AM
1

My girlfriend is trustworthy (as far as women go) Aka, she isn't. and I'm not concerned of her actually doing anything Yes you are. That's why you made this post. or if I should've vetoed the whole thing. Her going to a baseball game with a friend and his family does not seem problematic. If you're not going to stop her (you didn't), don't flaunt your insecurities on the matter.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 09:35 PM
2

looking to switch to a new program for getting toned, and burning off the fat "Toned" is mostly code for re-composition, which CKD excels at. TL;DR it works. Adjust food intake / amounts to a level appropriate for your height and weight. Food: 30-Hour Carb Up: Friday 10AM to Saturday 4PM - 3400 Calories, at least 35g fiber. - - 175g Protein (700Cal) - - 525g Carbs (2100Cal) - - Approx 70g Fat (600Cal) Sun-Thurs, eat 3x ONLY between 10AM and 4PM - 3000 Calories with at least 30g of fiber - Suffic…
/r/askTRP14/06/16 08:04 PM
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feels she deserves better but can't get it This is a popular lie people tell themselves, guys too I'm sure. "Deserve" is code for delusion. There's no such thing. You have what you get, the rest is hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 07:41 PM
1

If you like medicine and making a difference I'd say apply for para-rescue but you are too old as a civilian. Your choice, man. I don't think it's bad if you're sure you will see it through, alas I do believe you've better alternatives to consider
/r/askTRP13/06/16 07:12 PM
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she obviously knows how it works as she has been loyal to a guy who has been away for 2 years. Do you actually believe this? that she had no dick for TWO YEARS? Considering in your OP, it's written that: he was the one who broke up anyways and they were in a long distance relationship for 2 years. I'd bet my right nut she was getting plowed long before she broke up with him. Say yes to Skype and sweet talk her if you really feel it necessary, but once she's gone you do your own thing and it'll s…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 07:03 PM
2

If you get a girl at your house with the implication of sex and it doesn't happen you can pretty much move on. You shit-canned yourself in her books, the amount of work required to change that perception isn't worth it. And this: I've cut contact with other girls simply because she seems LTR-worthy and I'm willing to give it a try. The second I read it, I knew how your post was going to end - you mindfucked yourself out of her league. This is a lesson to be learned as you move on, not a girl to …
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:57 PM
0

we should take a break for a month till she os not with me. This is a solid move. Just tell her you'll pick things up when she's back and to not worry about it while she's away. Naturally, you do the same. It's pointless what either of you say now - just wait and see how it is when she's back. Again, remember that whether you like it or not you simply have no control over her emotions / feelings for you.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:54 PM
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Simple sundresses, appropriate skirts, etc. Look at how popular women at high end social events - their wardrobe is generally impeccable in terms of selection. No need to emulate brands and colors - just the article & the general fit. Needless to say don't go formal in a casual setting: the idea is to get your sights on what's tastefully appropriate. Sounds like you're doing this with the intent to find someone to date (correct me if I'm wrong). If that's the case, where you are & what you're do…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/16 06:50 PM
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afraid he'll lose interest if I delay having sex with him. I think I can still be charming and feminine without playing hard-to-get, but I don't know what the best move is. If you get the feeling that a guy will walk unless you have sex with him ASAP and you do it, he'll still probably walk. Your intuition is usually correct. If you want to date, show him you're good for it. Suggest a picnic where you make a meal for it, the message will be received loud & clear - it's also reasonably impossible…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/16 06:44 PM
1

Conformity is as important as femininity, are you in a big city or a small town & on which coast? Needless to say, do keep things vague for your own anonymity but details on locale / culture are necessary to provide good advice here.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/16 06:38 PM
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Dude, I'm not going to go into details but even as a shredded 6'3 guy with a hell of a life and career I had no luck in small towns whereas I slay pretty much anyone I want in most big cities. Don't underestimate the difficulty (and sheer futility) of trying to find something in a place that might simply not have any of what you are looking for. This obviously isn't an answer you like - that doesn't make it the wrong one.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:33 PM
1

If you've got a chick telling everyone how you're Mr. Asshole Break-Her-Heart, your title should've been "My not even ex is unknowingly helping me get laid" - NOT "Question on bad reputation and rumors". Stay cool, this is favorable to you in the long run because the more chicks hear about it, the easier it'll be for you to lowkey smash random chicks.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:29 PM
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That's a tiny town, college-sized basically. In a town of that size there's few sluts since it's a tight ecosystem. Your only ways to date are to be the best at everything or have very strong social connections and keep great company. My advice? Move to a big city. Millions of people big. Let it chew you up and spit you out and your troubles with the ladies will cease after a year or 2. Small towns are for living cheaply while you build your empire or raising a family. They're living hell if you…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:23 PM
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She was the one who broke up anyways and they were in a long distance relationship for 2 years. Dude's a loser, through and through. No body will help him salvage his mind. gf will be going over to her town over summer and i wont be there with her for a month. A month? Probably. I highly doubt it'll be with the sack of shit she herself dumped, though - UNLESS: What can i do? She told me that she wouldnt even meet the guy if it makes me feel bad. Your jealousy is the quickest way to drive a woman…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:19 PM
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Stop spending time with her friends & orbiters. If she's like that in public, don't spend time with her in public. Some people do enjoy privately dating & being their own "single" person in public. It's not dating in the sense that you can expect anything serious out of someone like that - but you two can still fuck and enjoy each other's company maybe.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:13 PM
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kind of wanted a gf but I guess it's never gonna happen since I'm too insecure. First things first, how old are you? Do you live in a big city or a small town?
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:12 PM
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Perhaps a career change is not what you're looking for? There's only so much "purpose" to fit into a life, I should say. I spend mine risking it to save my brothers. It can come from why you work, it can also come from what you work for. If you had a family, or something of your own after-hours, or your own business, I'm sure that would satisfy your needs. Point is, it's in your head. There are less expensive (and less risky time-wise) methods to attempt fixing it since you've no way of guarante…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:02 PM
1

Honestly not of that concerns me, at all. Since you're thinking of quitting your current, perfectly good job because it's soul-leeching, it fucking should. It's just the financial aspects, debt, time investment... Using this, your current job would be the logical choice. Be honest with yourself about what'd make you fulfilled. discontent. For pride, purpose, reputation, happiness, but... also debt, instability, and stress. Trading inward peace for outward status is a mistake you don't need to sp…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 03:36 PM
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How crazy am I? If you want a fulfilling and well paying job, Doctor is one of the few paths available since most jobs pay proportionally to how soul-leeching they are. Look for a community of late-stagers nearing the end of their residencies, actual doctors or the like and ask this question there: those are the places to get some realistic feedback. MDs have to deal with their hospitals, insurance and a lot of other red tape on a regular basis. It's not all glory work / making people's lives be…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 03:25 PM
2

This is partly why "Captain" analogies are used so often on here. It just fits a bit too well.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 02:19 PM
2

Anyways, the food got boring. What do you guys usually eat to get big but not get fat? What you eat doesn't matter as much as how much of it you eat & how quickly you do so. Before a bunch of armchair champions swarm down on this, as someone with a 1550+ Lbs big three, 12 mile ruck times just over two hours and running / swimming performance better than yours, trust me. Listen to your body, these are my two tips for eating: (1) Stay hydrated. Make sure you don't confuse the impulse of thirst wit…
/r/askTRP10/06/16 08:49 PM
2

Your IG "SMV" only matters for internet pussy: while great, it'll always be shit compared to going out and talking to people you don't know. If you used the time and effort you plan to dedicate to "improving your IG smv" on going out and talking to people instead, you'd bang way more - and much hotter - women as well as make a bunch of friends. Don't be a social media pretender - it should be the (lesser) windfall of your actual life, not something hyping it up.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 08:36 PM
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in her defense, my GF has just lost the only thing resembling a father she ever had In your hamstering, you mean. Would losing a loved one cause you to be cruel / shitty to a living loved one? No. she says that ... decided to stay home. He thought Mr. Aggressive was intimidating." Your (not really, but let's pretend) first mistake was: I asked her to explain herself and she got mad and refused to discuss it. And then, again: days passed and it was still pissing me off so I asked to talk about it…
/r/askTRP10/06/16 08:26 PM
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I'd rather not facilitate a bad decision. If you want to go into debt, do it for a profession that absolutely requires a college degree (Doctor, Lawyer, Chemist, etc) and be damn sure you're going to see it through to the end. In your original post you said two-year college: nothing requires a two-year college degree so I think it's a waste of money. If you're craving a sure thing, apprenticeship or trade school are your best bets because you pay by working on-site and the professions they lead …
/r/askTRP10/06/16 06:52 AM
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You just don't understand how fucked up CorporateLand is. This is what happened: project starts going to shit, three people have a say in it. Two are hapless idiots but agree with and like each other while one knows what he's doing but is the odd man out. When the paper trails & red tape start flying, sheep mentality shits on the odd one out. You were operating under the delusion of being in a meritocracy and paid the price. How few can speak poorly of you, how many like you and how you're seen …
/r/askTRP10/06/16 06:40 AM
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Programming is one of the few things you don't need college to get a baller job in so if you ARE thinking about doing it, don't go to college. Self-study, make a portfolio, freelance while you fight tooth & nail to land the first job: once you've been there for a year nobody will give a flying fuck about your background or previous history. You're basically choosing between: Two years of hard work, savings in the bank and - although not promised - a near certain future career. Two years of slack…
/r/askTRP10/06/16 06:32 AM
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Neither. People overestimate how much about (situationally) "Alpha" guys is set in stone - name a trait you think is "Alpha" and I can name someone who runs shit & is the polar opposite. Sexual preferences are even more subjective. "Would the alpha fuck everyone or select carefully?" = "Would the human prefer blue or green" It depends on the individual.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 06:29 AM
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OP, this is it. What TRP is all about. /thread
/r/askTRP10/06/16 06:24 AM
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Trump, no cuck shit for me. Only poor people, minorities, under-performers, clueless youth (and adults) vote Democrat. More importantly, there's as little difference as the president has power: it's the same either way.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 06:21 AM
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"I'll be there with friends, show up if you like" "I'll be at X from Y to Z tmrw. come by" or does she think you'll be there specifically to meet her? Optional and friends are both implied If she doesn't show, do you next her immediately, or ask why and try again? I only next if she doesn't show AND doesn't reply AND doesn't counter-offer. Also if the reply is some sort of cunty, angsty third rate attempt at games. Not showing doesn't matter to me. Ask why? I don't care. Try again? No.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 06:15 AM
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Exactly at the same time, or in the order of hotness? Same time. How many usually show up? Zero, it's tinder - neither I nor they care in the slightest. Half the time one will show, sometimes two. Do you tell them you are triple-booking them? No, because it's not a date. You don't date on tinder. You meet up with friends and then maybe fuck.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 01:15 AM
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No, I don't care. First date is always me telling 3+ tinderellas to meet me at a place I'll be with friends anyways
/r/askTRP10/06/16 01:00 AM
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I don't get rejected on looks or attitude, the only rejection I've faced so far is the "I have a boyfriend". One of two things is happening: You are getting rejected on looks or attitude or neediness, it's just showing as "I have a boyfriend" You are not being rejected at all and "I have a boyfriend" is just a cop-out, alas THIS IS UNLIKELY. "I have a boyfriend" is not a shit test, it's a snub. It is a "I'm not fucking interested in you" - because you asked too soon or something about you seems …
/r/askTRP08/06/16 07:31 PM
1

Should I keep the comments for social proof or delete them? (self.asktrp) Keep, unless you're trying to smash chicks so much better than those on your IG that it'd be a turn-off for them.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 07:28 PM
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Personally, I’m not sure purposely double booking yourself is a manly thing to do. I don’t expect a woman to stick to her word anymore, and especially not women below 25. However, I feel it’s a mark of a man that I stick to my word, irrespective of whether they do or not? You play, fight & do business fairly with people who do it fairly, which makes very few of your fellow men and zero women. Doing otherwise isn't setting an example or holding up any kind of standard, it's just getting fucked ov…
/r/askTRP08/06/16 10:16 AM
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I think her knowing about TRP hinders me. I've tried asking her about it Yeah you fucked this one up, move on. And I mean it. Don't ever do that again.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 10:14 AM
1

The fuck you mean? A bum walks into the room, what do you do? Whatever you were doing. Why is this a question
/r/askTRP08/06/16 10:12 AM
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This. There was a guide on psycho-proofing (as much as possible) your apartment and phone by recording evidence.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 10:02 AM
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Doesn't matter, because YOU had no idea what it was. And she was just talking nonsense and being a weirdo. Of course, it sounds like you royally fucked that one up because you got caught off guard. The price for this is: next.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 10:00 AM
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then I fucked up (or at least I think I did). The ex starts popping off irate texts at the cyclic rate. No you didn't. I unmatched with the Ex's friend even though I think it's none of the Ex's business. You're right, it wasn't your ex's business. THIS is where you fucked up - strike one. I told the Ex it was none of her business and stopped texting back. Strike two: you replied. I just want the Ex to stop texting me. Strike three: you were affected. Don't be. She's irrelevant. Enjoy the texts. …
/r/askTRP08/06/16 09:53 AM
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She's the weird one for bringing it up, not sure why you'd need advice.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 09:48 AM
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Most new guys reading this would probably benefit from some simple mix & match type logic: Fuck Now, Commitment Later = Where you want to be Fuck Now, Commitment Now = Still favored, you can retract it later. Fuck Later, Commitment Later = Friendzone / Nothing / Gambler land. Fuck Later, Commitment Now = Pushover / Doormat / Born yesterday.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 05:31 PM
1

"wyd tonight" -> free = my place, anything else = ignore. don't give so much time and thought to this
/r/askTRP07/06/16 05:24 PM
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How early on are you supposed to have sex? I understand the importance of group mentality and the input of others alas you need to realize that asking this of someone else is just a way to absolve yourself of the agency (and responsibility) of said choice. Only you can decide how early YOU are supposed to have sex. What does that even mean? It's attraction: you either want to or you don't. I've saved myself for someone I can completely give myself to ... weird to just sleep with him not knowing …
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/16 05:00 PM
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Sometimes I still wonder if sex is all he's after You won't know until after the fact. because why would a 38 year old want to date someone my age? Any sane man would date a 23 year old over a 38 year old simply because: sex is a topic so much it makes me wonder if he thinks there's anything more to me at all. The answer for most women is "No". You can change this, but it takes work. Do I worry too much? There isn't enough information to know. You could be a diamond in the dirt with a bright fut…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/16 04:40 PM
1

We have a problem on the redpill. We're not popular. This isn't our problem, it's our strength. Just like a society 100% full of "my way or the high way" men would collapse on itself, we don't want to "pierce social media in America", that'd change all of this knowledge as well as practicing it from an advantage to simply average. At the top are always those who value individual thought over social cohesion.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 08:40 PM
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The 1800s are starting to look good. The effect that permitting such behavior - let alone rewarding it with separation money & property as well as offspring - has on society is beyond devastating. It's the ultimate form of degeneracy. Humanity, humility and loyalty is literally being selected out rather then selected for.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 07:43 PM
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Yes, but you can't change your race unless you go full MJ so why worry about something you can't improve?
/r/askTRP04/06/16 07:07 PM
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People aren't genetically predetermined to be alpha or beta. My whole point is that in societies past where most people had to reach their full potential or perish, alphas and betas were exactly that - genetically predetermined. But in today's cozy world where everyone wastes 95% of their potential, it's the people who are willing to do slightly more work than their fellow lazy fucks that come out looking like "Alphas".
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 07:05 PM
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No matter how smooth you are, if your livelihood depends on your bosses' whim, you're their bitch.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 05:14 AM
2

No catch as long as it's not someone you know or someone gay that you don't know trying to punk you.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 10:42 PM
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You have nothing to gain and everything to lose by replying ...so don't.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 10:40 PM
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Being a man is having control over yourself. The Beta is a slave to others. No, having control over yourself is the difference between being a man and being a male. Back when people didn't waste their time on hedonism and escapism those who would now be considered legendary men gladly followed the men they looked up to. There's no shame in following someone, as long as they're truly worthy of your loyalty. When 99% do not strive for their potential, the genetic difference becomes much less clear…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 08:14 PM
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While not exclusive to women (congrats on being an entryism trolling expert) it is overwhelmingly prevalent in women because men rarely get away with it, since they're actually held accountable to their social contract in today's world. Women aren't. Sluts suck fifty dicks, lie to a chump that he's her first, cuck him, cheat on him twelve times, divorce rape him, take half, then play the victim and alienate him from all his friends and even make his own kids hate him while having big daddy gover…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 05:58 PM
2

I have no objective evidence of this phenomena, but I do have my feelings ^ How you sound That's rich, coming from: To be fair, if a woman thinks she doesn't want kids, why would she ...>implying If Stacy thinks she doesn't want kids, why would she ... >implying What can a low value man provide her that she or the state (usually the state) >implying Can we do negatives here? What's below 0/10? And no, two negatives won't make a positive.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 04:16 PM
1

What a curiously convenient, unusually high standard for information integrity. Have you applied it to all the views you've thus far expressed in our exchange?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 04:01 PM
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Female behavior is illogical, but rational in a way that can be predicted You seem to understand this much. What can a low value man provide her that she or the state (usually the state) can't provide her with? Yet you still viscerally underestimate how fucked up women can be - most of the time women date someone "below" them just to see how much they can twist a man's mind and make him into her miserable little plaything. For fun. If your SMV is below hers, you aren't a human with a soul or fee…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 03:56 PM
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All I'm reading is the attempted application of logic to the female decision making process. You must be new here But hey, I'm all about humoring on this chipper Friday fucking morning. Even if she wanted kids, she'd likely cuck & that's OK because if I could punk a chick into birthing and raising a kid who's half mine, half supermodel ...I'd do it
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 03:50 PM
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I'd consider it if the notion of working for someone didn't make my sides spontaneously enter geosynchronous orbit. I don't care how much you could get paid. Having to take someone's shit - no matter who it is - without being able to tell them to go fuck themselves if they cross a line is profoundly degrading/dehumanizing in the most hilarious ways.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 03:45 PM
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First off, wrong sub. This isn't askTRP. Onto your question: Why is it that women feel fine without men compared to vice versa? (self.TheRedPill) They don't, this is a misconception. Any man that isn't close to the best one to ever put his penis inside them doesn't even register on their radar as a potential suitor. If a chick's taken the dick of a 6'5 shredded millionaire, she's pretty much destined to be alone or in a relationship where she thinks she deserves better for the rest of her misera…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 03:40 PM
3

You probably just legit sold this guy on his own future career and you don't even get commission. 10/10
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 02:04 PM
1

If your friends want to fuck your ex, it's none of your concern. Don't pull that female "if we're friends you SURELY shouldn't spend time with X" bullshit. You control who you're friends with - NOT who your friends are friends with. That's basics 101. Anyone remotely clued into life would fade on you faster than the flying fucking dutchman the second they sensed you trying to interfere in their personal lives because of your own interests or petty drama.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 01:42 PM
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This is just sad. It's probably the most hollow, soul-crushing feeling for a woman to realize that she'll never become a mother. Imagine if some time between 35 & 45 (being generous here), your balls were cut off by nature, making you lose your gender-specific usefulness on a hormonal and physiological level shortly followed by society discarding you. There's little room for schadenfreude when women destroy potential families for men as well as themselves. This is like laughing at a suicide bomb…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 01:28 PM
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I don't see anyone picking up girls in public, during the day, in big city in UK. No, you don't. Because you have no idea what that even looks like & probably think its acquaintances talking to each other or just a brief, friendly exchange between strangers. Because that's the whole point: to not stand out in public.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 08:52 PM
2

We have time to get it right, and it is vital that we do get it right. I agree there is some time, alas what I'm bringing forward is that inaction can be a fatal and irreversible mistake. Kids are expensive - with or without a woman. 80-120K for a surrogate, plus eggs and hospital costs, plus raising the kid costs are quite hefty - it's going to be at least, AT THE VERY LEAST, 250K over 18 years and that's if family and friends help out. Unless you expect net worth increases in excess of 3K/mo, …
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 03:57 PM
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If you're new and/or not good with women, for fuck's sake don't start in bars or nightclubs. The flip-side of "those are places for meeting people" is that (1) those are places for meeting people, which means "it takes less balls" and "you have an excuse" plus their bitch shields and cunt thrusters are at maximum military output in nightlife. Inside a store at the mall? If they don't look like they're in a rush, go. Grocery shopping? Fuck it, go. Etc. Don't change your routine. Do what you alway…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 03:51 PM
2

Civilization is sustained by channeling the impulses of men to benefit the collective. Our present civilization was built on the promise of "get a job / career & you'll get a woman who wants to take your dick and raise your kids in return": a social contract where a man benefits the society which in return gives him a woman to fulfill his goal of procreation. Unraveling this social contract results in very dark times for everyone formerly involved. Yeah, you'll be fine, for a bit ...but your soc…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 03:19 PM
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You guys have no idea how common this shit is either. Many ex-military become cops & it's always the civvies who turn out to be retarded white knights who let things like this get to court - like a judge, the first few cops involved sadly (or gladly) make as much of a difference as to what's going to happen and where things will go. Stay vigilant.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 03:08 PM
1

male birth control could have been a thing a long time ago Basically the only reason why Trestolone never took off: ..."Trestolone is an experimental contraceptive treatment and is not yet available commercially"... ...Shit's been around since the 60s, no doubts about efficacy as BC, alas side effects include manhood gains. So nope, can't have that. "not yet available". Lmao. A huge bonus though is that unlike most AAS it is unscheduled & ergo not (yet) illegal.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 02:50 PM
1

Condoms being a turn-off are more of a fact than a health issue. What exactly are you asking here?
/r/askTRP01/06/16 12:32 AM
2

While sounding ridiculous, random conversations while grocery shopping can net you all the pussy you need.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 05:18 AM
4

I bet all you fuckers will encourage me saying "do it you beta faggot." This isn't 4Chan - post there if you actually want to be convinced about offing yourself. for being born autistic and forever a virgin. You're not a woman, how you were born isn't how your life is - forge that shit yourself.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 05:16 AM
1

What the fuck am I reading? What is a metaphor in your post and what is literal? Like, did he literally get almost drowned in a toilet by a woman who came at him with a knife and threw chairs? Because that's next level psycho.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 05:13 AM
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Do you want drama and pettiness? Post it on your Facebook. But if you're an actual adult just ignore it.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 05:12 AM
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Bros before hoes? (self.asktrp) | What's the consensus here? Men that aren't idiots about life and women are #1, women are second & clueless men / fatties are irrelevant. Before you plan to have someone's back, make sure that (1) they would do the same for you & (2) they know how life works.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 05:09 AM
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TL;DR You're in an imaginary cage of your own making. She's irrelevant - so are her opinions. She refuses to open the relationship Most states are no-fault now, it's probably not up to her: it's up to you. she always makes herself the victim. She’s selfish as fuck. I’m just sick of it. Fuck other chicks, rub it in her face. Remind her she's useless & can't even keep you satisfied or fuck you right. This chick's a classic cunt and has been mentally violent to you for years it sounds like - the on…
/r/askTRP27/05/16 11:07 PM
10

Learn to listen to listen to your instincts and trust them over your thoughts.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 07:16 PM
1

When you put it like that, it does make sense alas they'd qualify as a business owner per my earlier stance of: Borders should stay closed, it's why they're called "borders". Select programs to pluck the wealthy (see Finland's net $$$ requirements) or PhD educated are a competitive advantage. Anything beyond that is willful suicide People who want to own / run shit should be welcomed - I wasn't claiming otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 06:54 AM
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It's obvious she is insecure and it's all a front. Let the woman try to eat the cake she thinks she has. How can I 'win' against her? What would you gain by doing so? Sounds like nothing but a bitter chick out to get you. That's not worth it to come out conversationally on top. Don't even be in the conversation. bothers me that her doing this might affect my standing with the rest of the people in my team. Unless the conversation is about work, make it obvious that you're physically there & ment…
/r/askTRP25/05/16 07:10 PM
1

Thanks for the laugh. We might need to add a Satire or Comedy flair.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 07:06 PM
5

We do strive for the best, and how to deal with your exs is the absolute last priority on that list. Because doing what's best for your future generally involves getting over & moving on from your past - how that's done is 100% irrelevant. Burn a candle stick and do the rain dance if you want. They're your ex. It doesn't matter. At All. It just doesn't
/r/askTRP25/05/16 04:15 PM
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TL;DR "I don't care about this person so I'm wondering how to show them that I don't care" ...GTFO You care about what they think, because you want them to FEEL BAD, because they're still important to you & hurt you. Stop. Delete them & laugh at yourself, out loud, in public, for how dumb you are every time you think of them.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 04:03 PM
1

What? Are you serious? Japan has imported more ideas from the West than any other country has. The West kicked their ass until they started doing so. Lesson learned. You're talking about importing ideas, I'm talking about not importing people - the two are unrelated in today's world.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 11:29 PM
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It's not about whiteness, it's about homogeneity of cultural identity, and cooperative habits. You say that but look at ethnically and culturally homogeneous Muslim/African countries and compare them to Nordic and Scandinavian ones. Nobody's culturally enriching Zimbabwe, Turkey or other shit holes because they are neither a threat to the globalist agenda since they can't stand on their own two feet nor would anyone sane ever move there. It can allow few to no external influences or immigration.…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 01:28 AM
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Being proud of who you are is okay for anyone except white males because it will inevitably lead to instinctual ethno-centric group formation - a collective where trust, collaboration, efficiency and achievement go through the roof. The "us or them" mentality kicks in. You wake up and realize you're at war. That it is in fact your group vs everyone else. Whites are not superior individually, but when in a collective the combined tendency for goodwill, easy outward trust and an inclination to wel…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 06:13 PM
0

How can I rectify the situation? You can't. The best you can do is reply with "lmfao trolled" or something to try & pretend you were kidding and stop.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 09:03 PM
12

I most likely won't see her the day of her birthday, Text her something like "happy b-day, we'll celebrate on [date/time]" and don't give her a material gift, take her to do or see something (inexpensive) that you two don't usually do. Experiences always have more emotional value.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 05:37 PM
2

Perhaps the wrong question. Focus on why rather than what you're doing. You'll make better use of your time if you go up to women thinking "she's cute, let me try to smash" and doing different, unplanned things each time until you notice something working a lot & do it more rather than trying to talk to women with "im trying XYZ" in mind. People just don't work like that and such an approach would introduce a lot of unnecessary awkwardness as well as setbacks. Think of it like this, you have not…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 05:31 PM
2

but doing same thing every time or doing more and more "extreme" stuff later? I'm not sure what you're asking ..what's more and more "extreme" stuff?
/r/askTRP20/05/16 05:07 PM
8

clearly has interest in me, however does not let me develop it into anything She values playing games over fucking you - that's all you need to know. Next
/r/askTRP20/05/16 04:51 PM
2

There's a lot of ways to do things "better" with knowledge but past a certain point you just have to do hard/scary shit. I would imagine that for you, talking to women is just one of those things until you do it enough to get used to it.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 04:49 PM
2

Communication isn't just what you do or say. Some of the most important shit is what you DON'T say (or do) - and "demoting to plate" is a prime example: reply slower, hang out less. The rest is implicit and they will get the point.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 04:42 PM
0

Tren. /thread
/r/askTRP20/05/16 04:39 PM
1

i can ignore her completly (i guess eventually she'll stop initiating texts). or.. is there some miraculous way to awaken her slut instinct again? Just tell her.. LTR'd = not (as) desperate for attention / a false sense of security women crave from orbiters. Any not completely autistic variation of "I don't mind talking but im not your BF so chill unless you wanna fuck" will work.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 04:35 PM
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You let her know she got to you, there's probably going to be a whole lot of shit coming your way as a result. How the fuck do I deal with this BS? Send her pictures of hotter chicks you smashed doing shit for you with "Why aren't you this sweet" lmao Two months is literally nothing. If her bullshit isn't worth her pussy just move the fuck on.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 07:41 PM
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Paging /u/Manducor so you read /u/OwlsExterminator's post - it's spot on information. Self-quote: In your early 20s, "normal" is 800+ and anything <600 likely means you have a shitty lifestyle or health problems. His post: in my 30's and around 600 which is right in the middle of normal for my age below 408 you're in the bottom 5% of all men. Your mean total testosterone should be around 692 In 1987 the average 45 year old man was around 540 ng/dL. In 1995 the average 45 year old man was around …
/r/askTRP19/05/16 07:30 PM
2

Apparently the normal range is supposed to be somewhere between 241 and 827 First of all, what is the measurement - ng/dl? This is a low range in and of itself because normal ranges, in modern medical nomenclature, are calculated based on an average of recent population-wide test averages (low test chumps). In your early 20s, "normal" is 800+ and anything <600 likely means you have a shitty lifestyle or health problems.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 05:36 PM
2

How important is it to you that your LTR understands the principles of TRP/the biology that it's based on? How important is it to you that you understand how every part of the airplane you get on works? How important is it to you that you understand every chemical process in the body you live in? Etc. Things work & take their course regardless of someone's awareness or understanding of them.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 01:18 PM
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For instance, if you're in a club and a dude walks up to your girl, slaps her ass, and puts his arm around her, A stiff shove ...at the very least. When people overstep physical bounds, you physically notify them. What is the consensus for stuff like this? Unless - and this is important - "your" girl is enjoying it. In which case, that's not your girl - just a hoe you arrived at the club with. Make out and leave with a different one (or, if you can't, go to a different club by yourself) & move o…
/r/askTRP19/05/16 04:51 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/askTRP19/05/16 04:49 AM
1

Cut/recomposition with a 300 TDI deficit IIFYM - your target weight should be 165-175Lbs (go lift). 155 is Skeletor tier, you can be lean as fuck (naturally) at up to 180Lb as 5'8" if you diet right.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 03:37 AM
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How tall are you? It's extremely difficult to go for both a weight and a %BF at the same time. Like, you need a coach and team of people telling you what to do difficult since it's full body recomp - pick a weight OR a BF% as your goal.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 03:22 AM
1

IIFYM gets made fun of a lot but it's your best bet unless you can do a strict meal plan / meal prep. Some guy suggested Keto below but before we get to that - what's your current BF% and your goal?
/r/askTRP19/05/16 03:14 AM
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I was considering ignoring her. Good man - do this. Silence is a valid response and often conveys what words couldn't. In this case, she's not dumb - she knows she's about that bullshit: give her a time out to key her in that you're aware she's about that bullshit too. And then hit her up another day when you want to meet up. If she's STILL about bullshit by then, give her a week long timeout if you feel really, really generous - but by all sane measures you should just never speak to her again.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 02:48 AM
0

she replied: " I'll take that as a no" >baiting intensifies Np. Don't reply to her garbage, hit her up another day when you want to meet up.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 02:38 AM
12

"Is this where we pretend you like me for my personality?" pressure flip the basic shit and carry on
/r/askTRP19/05/16 02:23 AM
2

Display the fact that you're listening with body language instead of "yeah", "sure" and "of course". If they want to hear themselves and not you, let them talk. Welcome to CorporateLandtm
/r/askTRP18/05/16 11:54 PM
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There isn't much you can do. Be courteous, reply to her ...in due time. Reach out 2/3rd as much as she does without being overly mechanical about it and hope her fee fees are still in the right place when the time comes. Best thing you can do is post pictures of you doing fun shit in fun places with fun people on social media where she's going to see it.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:49 PM
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Not going to ask why you're going for a 50s lady, but just know she's there ready to fuck on the first date. I'm not good at dating (ie touching, escalting etc) but of course looking to practice. Enjoy yourself, it's contagious. Tease the shit out of them just like you did when you were a kid. Put your dick in.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:44 PM
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Sexual tension is built to fuck a woman, which you've stated is "impossible" on the first date. Yet you ask how to build sexual tension ...on the first date. It happens all the time, alas asking for advice on how to make something (you believe is impossible) happen is counter-productive for more reasons than I can express.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:40 PM
1

Snapchat her some fun shit so she's thinking about you while the beta's boring her to death, go from there.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:31 PM
3

What do you do to build sexual tension? What do you do to make a girl want to see you again? You pegged yourself as a beta set up for failure before even going on the date: Most bitches don't fuck on the first date, I don't want to hear that nonsense. I've never seen it, and never will. Let's be realistic here, As long as you believe this, "sexual tension" advice is a waste of time for you. Unfuck yourself mentally before asking for advice your worldview can't accommodate.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:22 PM
1

People will try to keep you where you were when they met you (whether this means keeping you up or down). Roll with the punches. If you're substantially improving yourself you WILL outgrow most "friends" you have now. Also, don't take this shit so seriously - guys give each other shit all the time. Brush it off, move on. It's what guys do.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:19 PM
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ITT: another thread where OP disregards all advice given and fucks himself over. Don't LTR this hoe. Plate her
/r/askTRP18/05/16 05:15 PM
3

For the fifth time: No.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 05:13 PM
1

Being "worth something" in today's society often is about attention whoring on Instagram and Youtube ...learning something traditionally productive is of little value because there are hordes of other men Not sure if trolling or literally destined to remain a bottom-feeder for all eternity
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 02:59 PM
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Because waiting to have sex until your 30's kind of sucks. As much as begging to have it - or the commitment you'd desire as a woman - for the rest of your life after you turn 28, or maybe 32 if you're really lucky? Didn't think so. Be glad you have a dick and a set of balls to go along with it. Naturally, a greater SMV potential is accompanied by more potential pitfalls. If it wasn't, everyone would reach it and it'd become the new, meaningless normal. Stop wishing for culture to grant you a mo…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 07:38 PM
4

Jesus christ, just fuck this girl already and see where things go - or don't - from there.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 05:19 PM
1

Men forget that women are playing the game and it's about moves and counter-moves. Women hear that men think "good women" exercise? They suddenly show up in places for exercise. Women hear that men think "good women" go to church? They show up at church. Nothing better for attracting sharks than the blood of a loaded, clueless chump. Rich guy who marries ASAP "out of love" is a popular theme because it's the female jackpot.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 05:10 PM
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Live Large. Die Large. Leave A Giant Coffin. The only thing better than Big or Shredded is Big and Shredded. But you can't get to that point with whey protein and creatine unless you're a straight up genetic miracle.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 04:57 PM
2

This is why Western men are powerless. No, this is why anyone with low SMV is powerless in a world of no-fault & common law. We wouldn't buy a stock high and sell it low, so I've no idea why so many suckers jump into the market at a time when their value is next to zero. The cheating train swings both ways, instead of complaining that it swings our way take advantage when it doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 04:39 PM
1

There are exceptions to every rule, this doesn't mean treating it as an absolute isn't in your best interest.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 07:00 AM
1

A coin lands tails 70-99% of the time: over thousands of flips, some have landed heads. okay so explain this (self.asktrp)
/r/askTRP17/05/16 06:55 AM
1

Sounds like a personal decision you need to make yourself - I've only this to say: if you have a job you do remotely or a business in the U.S. for autonomous income and you can stay in the other country with the woman and children, it might work. If you plan on bringing them to America, it'll take less than a decade for the culture to seep in: by then she'll be no better than a woman who grew up in America and she will understand that she'll get more by divorcing. Women are the same everywhere. …
/r/askTRP17/05/16 06:50 AM
1

Depends on how many offers you get. One? Ask them for 5-15% more and take it regardless. The later in the process you ask for a bump, the more likely you are to get it - basically, don't think about it until you receive an offer letter. Two offers: pick your favored and do with it as you would with one, but tell your second offer that you've been offered "X" elsewhere (high but reasonable amount) but are in if they can top it by 5K. If it's 3+, you again do as you would with one for your 1st pic…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 06:27 AM
1

How can I move past this? How about by being real? You're obviously sick of hearing about this shit, and probably increasingly tempted to pick up where you left off with that other chick every time this "Amy" character reminds you about it. Let her know that.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 04:31 AM
2

Sure it's not your bias speaking? I've yet to see any of this shit you imply to be commonplace: there are guides out there for getting hot Asian girls and hot latinas, Like why is it if some guy asks how to game latinas, it's all good. But if some guy asks how to get hot blondes, the entire TRP erupts For the sake of argument, let's pretend you have a point & what's quoted above is true, I'll humor you: Like why is it if some guy asks how to get hot Hondas & Lexuses, it's all good. But if he ask…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 04:27 AM
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TL;DR there are no secrets or shortcuts. Perform basic rest, nutrition, exercise & recovery religiously. Squats / Deadlifts for the lower body, Leg Press if you want to bring the Quads out & Bicycling for calves. As long as you do dead-lifts and cardio on land: landmines, crunches and swimming will round out core. Inb4 armchair fitness experts ">still training abs with spinal flexion" fuck off and go back to crossfit. Food-wise, no need for non-GMO gluten free organic mineral water shit - your r…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 04:07 AM
5

Are online dating approaching and Tinder talking to people an option if you aren't white Brown? Hopefully you can now see how ridiculous this question is, mybrownthrowaway. Whites do have a real (albeit slight) advantage in the West, it only becomes a an exponentially bigger advantage when minorities hamster their failures with such vigor that the line between "shit I can improve" & "it was cuz im not white" gets too blurred to function. You practically fucked yourself over before even trying.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 03:20 AM
3

Social things work in mysterious ways, alas I hope this will help highlight your contradiction: I want to be relaxed around them instead of feeling anxious waiting for this guy fact of not being able to relax inside a group of people because one asshole tries The above two statements make it sound like this is you trying to reassure yourself more than anything: performance and, work-wise, this isn't a problem, he's below me actually. The guy's in your head for more time than he should be, do som…
/r/askTRP15/05/16 06:56 PM
3

Any and all advice would be appreciated. Thanks in advance. Get a lawyer & break everything down for him before you do ANYTHING. It doesn't matter what people said or what you googled, this is possibly the rest of your life at stake - better safe than sorry. Play it cool until you do.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 01:18 AM
1

Ignore it and laugh if others bring it up - they'll conclude it's no big deal as long as they don't see you sweat over it.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 09:23 PM
10

why are dark triad traits good in men, but bad in women? Because people discussing this are mostly men. They're good for the practitioner and bad for the recipients. Over the first two decades of life, men are conditioned to be honest & clueless while women have zero accountability & are free to practice these skills as much as they see fit / are entertained by. By the time people turn 20, the gap is immense. There is, however, a better reason: because these traits tend to bestow power & status …
/r/askTRP14/05/16 09:18 PM
4

"I'd love to see you try". Don't read too much into mundane shit.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 09:12 PM
1

That's how it goes.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 09:11 PM
2

How can I get rid of onenitis Fuck someone hotter - you'll know when the new chick makes you forget about the old one. /thread
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:30 PM
1

If you've got a quicker tongue than them, clown on 'em and be ready for a fight. If not, tell 'em loud and clear when the whole group is around to hear it that if they think you're friends, you're not - and to keep your name out of their mouth. These dicks are a dime a dozen & when social mastery fails they tend to resort to violence so be ready for it.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:24 PM
5

Plate: I'm just saying I wish you'd put your foot down sometimes You're drinking / being seen around friends together, doesn't sound like a plate. "for all I know you could be dating him" pressure flip the pettiness and move on
/r/askTRP13/05/16 06:42 PM
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For the record, "I'm greedy. Both" What's past is past - your reply (could've been better, not terrible) has nowhere near as much to do with the outcome as the presence of other dick in her life & how good yours was in comparison. Use words to make her feel less like a slut even when you're treating them like one.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 06:39 PM
1

Go for something like this - blazer like this one to dress up, shirts like this to dress down. Tom Ford's casual picks are okay, Nick Wooster is good as long as you don't borrow anything too ridiculous for your age or social status from him. Don't focus on the whole 'bad boy' thing too much. Look good, dress well, take care of the rest yourself.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 06:27 PM
1

So many different people at university so cliques don't really exist as much anymore. For now, I'm still on campus to recruit occasionally & they do - just towards the senior / post-grad end. I edited to add more questions, reply to them if you can. They'll help find people you can model after.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 06:11 PM
1

What kind of people are you around? What kind of people do you want to be around? Do you have a square or round face? How skinny are you? How tall are you?
/r/askTRP13/05/16 06:09 PM
3

Generic cookie-cutter "bad boy" shit isn't useful, you need something that's good, but also your own. Adopt an effective archetype in your culture - find celebrities or other powerful and socially envied people with a similar face/hair/stature as yourself and look at what they do. Take the parts of it that you feel comfortable with. Keep your age in mind when you choose how to dress yourself, especially if you're young.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 06:06 PM
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Ignore her, don't DM, repost it on your own IG captioned "first fanclub member @herig" Why should you do that? Here's something important about women in a known social environment: What is said to them in "secret" or one on one will be publicized how they want, to their gain. What is said to them - or about them - in public will be publicized how you want, to your gain. Unless you're convinced that you'll fuck then & there, one on one time is not in your best interest.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:55 PM
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This girl is pretty sheltered. I'm not worried [blah blah long ass post "but if the tingles fade" IM NOT WORRIED] Every fuckin' time. Listen, you're young & that's cool - but don't play it cool when you ask for advice, or you're going to get some rather shitty advice. Want shitty advice? Ditch your parents, get a ride from a friend & hope they don't show up and make a scene, spin it if they do. Or you could not worry about it. Realistically, those are your choices. If you do ditch them, ensure y…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:47 PM
1

Isn't "giving her a chance" just giving a chance to let the gerbils do their things? Isn't it the case to just drop it? People believe what they want to believe. A plate smashing harder/doing more for you while still being a plate because she thinks that she's no longer a plate (in her head), or that she has a chance at locking you down, is a great bargain. Is there a way to "comfort" a woman into a plate or FWB arrangement when she is seeking the upgrade? This is a case of preventive medicine, …
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:36 PM
5

I love women. Instead of trying to earn shit they ask for it, or better yet, complain about it not being handed to them. only problem is she is 25 and wants commitment Yeah and in other shocking news, the sky is blue. she isn't LTR material. Apparently I haven't made her comfortable enough Sounds like she's done nothing to show you she's worth dating and is now trying to gas-light you over it. she can't just keep having casual sex and that she can't be intimate without catching feelings While th…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 04:24 PM
0

on how to improve body language and talking more aggresively to command people and take control of a conversation. Moreso for being the leader in a group of friends or with coworkers rather than girls. You get to be a leader by fighting for things others want harder than they can, thus earning their support. The fuck reason do you have to be a leader? Your ego? Nobody will stand behind you for such a petty cause. Don't start me with this "Alpha" shit either, because it has nothing to do with act…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 04:04 PM
4

Do I fuck Only if you have a vasectomy. Chick's too psycho to trust in condoms if you ask me. And you did ask me.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 03:43 PM
2

Since when are looks and confidence related? Lift and practice MMA, spar a lot. You'll get it.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 03:42 PM
33

"Why, thinking about marrying me?" Don't answer garbage tier shit like this. She's not even trying.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 03:40 PM
2

Look, I don't know your situation, but this chick is not even worth your time. Based on your OP and comments she's childish as fuck, drop her & let someone else deal with her princess bullshit. If you're gonna date, find a decent girl.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 03:36 PM
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Get this bullshit out of your head where you listen to women's reasons for leaving (or anything else). She didn't leave because you didn't care. It can happen, but this wasn't it. A woman will leave you because she isn't attracted to you.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 02:30 PM
2

Disappointment & emptiness are the natural outcome of achieving close-ended goals, set open-ended ones.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 02:25 PM
5

not sure how to go about gaming a girl into doing this? LTR, I have to (more want to) consider her comfort level with all of this With your girl's help, go somewhere, observe who she talks to (or looks at if she's timid). You just gotta talk to em, mayne. For a (decent) threesome it's kinda crucial that the chicks are (or at least think they are) into each other.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 09:39 PM
1

Fuck hotter bitches or let it shatter and move onto important things.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 09:21 PM
5

You're 22 & fulfilled the goal of procreation. Don't mistake me, I empathize with you - to say the shit that happened to you sucks would be understatement of the year. Alas, better now than in 10 or 20 years, when you have assets to lose - and not most of your adult life ahead of you to build an empire you'll know better than to be scammed out of.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 01:55 AM
1

Get your priorities straight, even if you make the hoe a housewife, don't bring her to the temple.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 09:57 PM
5

started off with her texting me a few nights ago out-of-the-blue saying she was lonely. There's a reason, you just don't know it. Like in poker, if you don't know who the fish is, you are. The least you can do is get the fuck out the water before it starts boiling, my friend. I was worried that I'd feel some weird emotional/attachment issues, Implying you don't? Think again, RPHamsterConduit: To be honest, for the sake of my kids, I may be willing SOMEDAY to give her another chance, You don't ta…
/r/askTRP10/05/16 06:28 PM
3

TL;DR this isn't "damage control" time, this is fight tooth & nail at every step of the process time. awaiting potential conviction for a crime Felony? Misdemeanor? Don't tell us the crime, just the severity. Also, the key word here is "potential". I have to ask though, what are ways I can improve on my discipline throughout this process? How can I present myself in reality when I feel marked? How can I escape the past when I feel it weighting me down? These are emotional inquiries for comfort a…
/r/askTRP10/05/16 06:24 PM
7

Your in a class full of feminists chicks, to fuck these cute feminists chicks, would you .. Feminism is an (albeit cancerous) ideology, just like Agnosticism or Christianity or Catholicism. It doesn't matter. behave like them or keep frame and hit them with logic? Implicit fallacy. Keep frame, yes, but "hit them with logic"? I doubt that's ever helped anyone fuck a chick.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 06:06 PM
7

What did I do wrong? What should I have done? When shit like this happens: before I know it she's grinding her sexy little ass all over my cock and balls for a good two hours. You don't get her number, you go fuck her. (this is where I believe I fucked up). I let her go and leave the bar on her own Good news is you at least suspected it so here you go, we confirmed it for you. /thread Want to fuck chicks in clubs? Drill this into your head: you have no business asking chicks you haven't fucked f…
/r/askTRP07/05/16 06:40 AM
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most conversations ... safely assume he ultimately does this to improve his 'SMV' and to get women. Sounds like you say that PUA & TRP are the same because TRP's goal is to get women (correct me if I'm wrong). It's not - TRP's goal is to deal with women. If you look on the main sub, VERY few posts are geared primarily at getting to sex - which is what PUA is about. Most of them are about how to keep yourself safe after you fuck, as well as how to not get screwed in general, and how to improve yo…
/r/askTRP07/05/16 06:24 AM
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You lost me. From my perspective, this is about TRP not being PUA & male SMV being malleable. From your perspective, what point(s) are you making and/or arguing. 1-2 sentences, no quotes.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 05:58 AM
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