Okay so before I started looking at these subs I've had some dates with a few various girls, all of which I was interested in. They were all probably average-ish, like around 5-6/10 on the scale, and I guess I'd say I'm probably average as well, but when I showed my friends their pictures they always said I could do better. Anyways, these girls all shared something in common, we'd text a lot, they'd really dig me in the text conversations, but when they met me they suddenly acted distant and said the whole "sorry, but there's not a connection" type stuff. I'm thinking it has to be me; I know you always want to blame the other person but it has to be me. Do you think by texting them a lot before the date they kind of build up a Prince Charming version of me in their heads to the point where they're disappointed when they meet the real me? I pretty much texted these girls pretty extensively before meeting them, and I'd say I act the same in person as I do in text.