HoldenCoughfield Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	LTR Seems... Underperforming		HoldenCoughfield	/r/askTRP	05/11/18 01:31 AM
1	Where do you find socialable, interesting people?		HoldenCoughfield	/r/askTRP	05/10/18 06:46 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Interesting snap shot into mind of woman who cancelled on me. So the underlying lesson here is this looks to be a “type”. Instagram promotion, twitter hyperactivity. You’re going for this girl for looks, makes sense. But the price to pay for the looks of a social media junkie can be heavy. If you got to know her or went on more than one date / one encounter, she likely would have spun something else to give herself the granduer she craves. You found a type to avoid, look no further when you see an indicator of this behavior in the future	/r/seduction	20/07/21 04:17 AM
2	Why are girls so flakey? What the fuck? One possibility that people aren’t mentioning is catfishing. Maybe he's photos weren’t her, maybe her friend had her snap, maybe she put on 40 lbs since her last glamour shots and just when things were about to get real she flaked. If this was the case, part of her probably thought of showing to the date anyway but chickened out.	/r/askTRP	03/01/19 08:50 PM
6	Your favourite hobbies/time investments Play guitar (try to get creative with it), work on 4x4 upgrades or maintenance for my car, read nonfiction, workout/play competitive sports, shoot guns, do a more mindless activity like videogames 1-2 sitdown sessions per week. I really do think I function best when playing videogames or watching TV sparingly rather than not at all. It’s a divergent activity that helps reset my mental energy.	/r/askTRP	12/12/18 04:31 AM
1	LTR Seems... Underperforming I think I’ve heard what you’re saying called ”the oreo” or whatever in the workplace. From what you’re saying, I think I do need to come down a little harder on letting her know. Her mistakes aren’t deal breakers or anything, it is more the magnitude they serve as a conglomerate. To answer your questions, I’m a second-year med student. I’m probably more high maintenance than some but especially given how much school consumes my time, picking up after a girl or her falling short of expectations s…	/r/askTRP	05/11/18 03:10 AM
6	What's the deal with Los Angeles women? I lived in LA for a year and the best decision I made thereafter was getting out of there. Ratios are bad, inundated with losers that are truly not your “competition” but clog your drain of prospects, overpopulation, dirty, truly non-assimilated culture, and some of the worst traffic you’ll experience. Making friends there can be extremely difficult as well. There are other “hub” cities for successful guys your age and younger, including but not limited to Charlotte, Nashville, Charleston, The B…	/r/askTRP	02/11/18 01:04 PM
6	What the fuck is wrong with girls and social media? Good one. Except that doesn’t explain all of the ugly people that share mundane bullshit proliferating social media.	/r/askTRP	08/10/18 12:11 AM
2	Where do you find socialable, interesting people? Not sure what you’re on about	/r/askTRP	05/10/18 09:23 PM
3	Be careful with your interactions with women that you are not interested in Myspace and Match.com combo... Do you mean ”Tagged”?	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/18 02:45 AM
2	What is the right way to handle this situation? I would have probably just said ”we are good”. Even if I didn’t say that, I wouldn’t have thought twice about this interaction after it was over.	/r/askTRP	24/09/18 08:07 AM
20	She has a boyfriend, but my SMV is way higher and she “creeps” me on INSTAGRAM... how to engage in this situation? ”BADASS lusty rock song...” Jesus Christ man.	/r/askTRP	12/09/18 04:30 PM
11	Why are girls conservative in high school but go wild in college? It’s not nearly the same... Maybe your high school	/r/askTRP	11/09/18 10:22 PM
2	Hey red pill, need some advice.. not RP related, but i feel like some people might be helpful here. Why do you want to do so little? What are you trying to fill your time with that is so important, work and your professional development must be so easy? I suggest you work on the importance of self-improvement. Trying to do as little as possible while getting paid well usually comes from working to get there in the first place.	/r/askTRP	09/06/18 05:10 PM
1	Is it a good idea to game girls when they are working? Cool man, so what’s the situation?	/r/askTRP	06/06/18 08:33 AM
1	Is it a good idea to game girls when they are working? Not enough details to this scenario. If you’re a coworker then make sure you play the slow game - you’ll be seeing the girls day in and day out, rushing will kill it all.	/r/askTRP	06/06/18 08:07 AM
3	I can't dance and I'm scared of doing around girls I like. I don’t know your life or anything but this sounds like a deeper issue than simply dancing. The fact of the matter is, especially with the clusterfuck a modern bar or club is, your “dance skills” will come second to most anything else. Perhaps if you want to feel less like a spaz as you’ve put it, get a couple of drinks in you before you make any unnecessary dance-like moves. Be there to have a good time and don’t get caught up in a chase that doesn’t exist,	/r/seduction	05/04/18 02:21 PM
1	[FR] Eye contact!! I see your notion here but I don't know that this would be classified as a random approach. You stated that you had seen her on several occassions amongst mutual friends. The likelihood of developing attractiveness with a female is greatly increased with more exposure - both duration and the number of times. I suspect that this played into her ease and willingness. Nonetheless, eye contact is obviously still important, I just don't know that eye contact was the determinant by any means here.	/r/seduction	10/09/16 09:05 PM