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You've just got to the find the right people to reach out for. It's a basic human need. I've only been able to do it with professionals. That's the safest option but do try to get the help you need. Just ask a professional. That help is there it's just that a lot of people are just shit at helping. Go to the right people. Best of luck with all. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 05:45 AM
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So sorry for your loss. This is so true. I lost my partner recently and he never once raised his voice even though he was suffering and very ill. Most of his last words were trying to make sure everyone else was OK. All that's left in the end is the true nature of your character. Accept nothing less than the best lovely Queens. Being ill or in pain is never an excuse. Wishing you and your family all the best OP. Much love and respect for you and your wonderful Granpa. ❤️🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:34 PM
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It's not about how bad alcohol is for you though is it? It's about having your bodily autonomy taken away because you are a woman. Op has every right to be enraged. Do not tell women to calm down about things that oppress them. Ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:30 AM
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Need to add a couple of points about widowers. Having recently lost my partner myself I would say professional therapy or counselling after such a tremendous loss is absolutely essential. If they have not done that they are ridiculously irresponsible at best. Grief groups do not count, men will often use these to try and pick up women even just weeks after the loss. Everyone needs help from a professional person after trauma, if he has not had proper therapy that's huge red flag with run away pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 11:15 PM
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Yes, it's an average. It is not illustrative of the range of answers. If a man is attracted to partners younger than him he is a scrote and its a massive red flag. HVM are not attracted to people much younger than them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:13 PM
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Who you are attracted to changes as you get older regardless of wheter you could have a relationship with. Men more than about 5 years younger than me are just not attractive, I think that's true for most women. Besides, HVM will always be attracted to partners their own age. LVM are looking for someone they can easily exploit (who will tend to be younger) and they are also sick from all the porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:06 PM
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Yeah, it's because they are the same age as you. When I was 20ish the 20ish men were more attractive to me. Now I'm older they look like children, it's not attractive at all. I'm attracted to men very close to my own age, it's shifts as you get older for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:01 PM
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They don't just challenge thier comfort zones. They show that cannot be exploited. That's why it's challenging for predatory people. And that's a great thing! You will know immediately who the predators are. Your boundaries and standards are protective. Your standards keep your space, your body and your mind as safe as they can. If someone doesn't respect them, they don't respect you or your autonomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:12 PM
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Thank you 🙏❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:44 PM
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Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:44 PM
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Hi my eye sight is quite bad. Could someone please tell me what the text on the card says. Thank you x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:36 PM
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Your standards are there for a reason. Your standards are there so you don't waste any of your valuable time on men that don't meet them. It protects your time. So if they don't meet them just block and delete. It's really easy and saves so much time. If you need to give him clues he is not meeting your standards because he requires your emotional labour to meet them. It's not good enough. Just block and delete. Your standards protect you and your time and the women around you. Explaining this t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:15 PM
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This is a great way to reply though. "How did it get so badly injured? You had better see a doctor!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:12 PM
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I think one of the reasons gossip is so stigmatised is because it helps us identify men in the community who are predators or just trash. If women communicate with each other its a threat to them and their fuckery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:52 PM
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I know the case you are talking about. That precedent has not been followed in a lot of cases of violence against women though unfortunately. When I was reading about it that case came to mind for me as well. Read the link seashellsupplier has posted. It's a difficult read but you'll see what's happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:06 AM
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Sounds like a very wise and enlightened position to take. I think also, there is so much incredible value in helping women with therapy. If you are focusing on women the power of the work you put in multiples hard. Because women are in general; capable, self aware and compassionate. The good you put into the women you help will be paid forward and help other women. Sounds like you are exactly where you need to be right now and that's such a blessing. I wish you all the very best going forward ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:03 PM
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That made me feel a bit sick. That's soooo gross. Yack!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:18 PM
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Mine too. I hope you are doing OK. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:32 PM
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Do not correspond with the man at all but for real cash that check. 100 percent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:05 PM
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We have to remember that the whole of society is structally abusive towards women. From the moment we are born we are conditioned, threatened and gaslighed into accepting that abuse. Because of that all women will have made decisions that harm them at some point. It's just the way of it. This is not our fault. It does not speak of our character at all. What does speak of our character is how we break free of that abusive situation with strength, compassion and dignity. This is what we are all do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:59 PM
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I think this is true but I think it's more important to keep a close eye on how he treats women that aren't doing anything for him. It's obviously a massive red flag if he treats his mother poorly but how he treats women that aren't doing anything for him it's an easy reflection of how he views women as a whole. It's easy for a man to be nice to his family or you when you are doing things for him, it's harder to hide any toxicity when he's not getting anything out of the interaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:35 AM
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I ❤️❤️❤️ roasting scrotes. It always cheers me right up. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:07 AM
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Preach!! 🙌🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:31 PM
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That's a brilliant turn of phrase. Thanks for sharing. I'm going to use that one 😂❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:30 PM
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The one that got away always looks better in your head because you didn't get to know him properly. After a few months 95 percent chance he would have turned out to be a scrote anyway. So all things being equal you've only lost 5 percent of a good man anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:36 AM
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They always want credit for something they are meant to be doing. " I take care of my kids! " They are your KIDS you are meant to! "I clean the house!" what do you want a round of applause? For being a basically functional human being? Come off it. Oh my days. I read an article in a British men's magazine once that had an article like "7 amazing reasons for helping with the housework". None of those reasons were because you LIVE there!! Like thats the only reason. The only one. Wanting a gold st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:34 AM
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Brilliant. 🤣🤣🤣 Jaunty hat instead of a personality. I am howling 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:15 AM
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Men with bongos are like that obnoxious guy at a party with an acoustic guitar who thinks he's amazing and he will move people to tears with his awful version of a Jeff Buckley song. It's kind of the same but worse. Men with bongos will just sit passive aggressively drumming away in the corner hoping a women will think " Wow! What amazing drumming! He must be such a sensitive and fascinating character!" and then sleep with him. This will never happen. Instead he feels more and more wounded every…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:11 AM
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Ewwwwww. Men really think sexy just means horny right? The audacity of this man! Oh my days! Also does anyone else get a really creepy feeling when a grown ass man says snuggles or is that just me? Sounds like it's code for moaning inappropriately when I'm shaking your hand in a business meeting. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:00 AM
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Beautiful 💖💖💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:58 PM
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These 2 comments are comedy gold. I am howling 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:35 PM
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Wow. Amazing insight. Thank you for this 👏❤️👏❤️👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:50 PM
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I love the masks too. It's been more than a year since a random scrote has told me to smile now! I'm keeping the mask thing going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 11:25 PM
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Must depend where you go. The far side of the island from the airport is quieter but the coast up and down from Palma is pretty nasty. Anywhere between Magaluf and El Arenal is a bit grim. It's a lot cheaper than Ibiza so those towns particularly are filled with rowdy teenagers throwing up and having public sex everywhere. It's pretty gross. Magaluf is where the English and Irish kids go and down towards El Arenal is mostly German kids. It's all cheap bars, the food is bad and the sales people o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:09 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I am hoping to have a little holiday by myself this year to recover from a bereavement and this sounds absolutely perfect. I will be booking this. Mallorca has had a bit of a bad reputation because of the club 18-30 holidays but the capital Palma is one of the most gorgeous cities I have ever been too and the beaches are lovely. Prices are very reasonable on the island too and there is some great restaurants. So if anyone goes make sure to have a day in Palma 😊👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:05 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:28 PM
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That must have been a horrible experience for you. I really hope you are doing OK and you are able to heal up well from it all. All the best to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:28 PM
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It was wonderful. I'm so happy for it even in this grief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:24 PM
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Thank you. ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:23 PM
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Thank you for the message. He would have been glad that people heard how kind and gentle and strong he was. He set an amazing example and I feet that was important to share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:23 PM
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Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:22 PM
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I think it's the compassion that gives you dignity in the end. You can stay proud and calm because you are treating everyone with kindness. Thanks for the message
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:22 PM
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The memories will always make me smile even when it's really hard. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:20 PM
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♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:19 PM
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Thank you so much for the message. We did have a beautiful life together. We were best friends. He was a wonderful man. ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:19 PM
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He was amazing. Thank you. ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:18 PM
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I'm glad his story can give people something they needed he would be too. Thanks for the message. ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:17 PM
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Thank you for the message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:16 PM
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How gracious he was definitely bought it all home to me. There's never an excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:16 PM
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100 percent. No disrespect ever. 🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:15 PM
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Wishing the best for you. ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:14 PM
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Thanks for the kind words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:13 PM
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It really bought it home to me as well the way he was so composed, gentle and caring at the end. Good standard was set. Thank you for the support. The message is appreciated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:12 PM
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100 percent. 🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:11 PM
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I am very thankful for the time we had together. Thank you for your kind message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:11 PM
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Thank you for the kind message and the hugs :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:10 PM
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Thank you. I'm very glad too. Even though it hurts u can't help but smile every time I think of him. X
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:10 PM
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I'm sorry to hear about your mother. I hope you are doing OK. I'm wishing you the best of all the strength in the world to deal with what your facing. I know how hard it is. When your talking about your Mum I understand what you saying. 100 percent. When my mother or any women in my family are frustrated or in pain and act out of sorts when they are ill I can accept that. It's different. Women just aren't aggressive in the same way for the most part. When men are aggressive it's part of the oppr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:08 PM
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This 🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 12:59 AM
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There's some memes going around at the moment about how watching your boyfriend play video games is a romantic activity. They are not even joking. A lot of them are being posted by women 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ I really feel for young women growing up now when this kind of thing is so normalised, it's just awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:08 PM
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Beautiful. This really made me smile 💖💖💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:56 PM
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Totally agree. Honestly, good morning good night texts early on in a relationship give me creeps a bit. Its like they are trying to creep into your thoughts for the day. It's a bit weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:22 AM
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