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I train a few horses and give riding lessons for a little extra fun money. I was doing it more full time but now I'm just doing it for pleasure.
/r/RedPillWives14/02/24 09:12 PM
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Eh. Divorces happen all the time because people DONT change. You can't force a man to change or anyone else. Somehow you've managed some reluctant change on his part but now he's not his happy old self.
/r/RedPillWives27/01/24 04:52 AM
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That's modern day feminists agreeing with you. You're in a RPW, group. If this situation was flipped and you were your boyfriend and he you, so many women would be calling the man an asshole for opening up the relationship, leaving for another woman, come crawling back to her because she's safe and familiar. It's your selfishness for coming back and staying. You are too afraid to leave but you are unhappy if you stay because you're just settling. You'll forever hold that against him subconscious…
/r/RedPillWives27/01/24 04:49 AM
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This is such a toxic relationship. It sounds like you both are codependent. Of you love him, let him go. You need to fix yourself in order for you to get the man that you think you deserve. Stop playing with this guy's heart, whom you love so much, get therapy for yourself. Stay humble.
/r/RedPillWives27/01/24 03:11 AM
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The fact that you don't realize you're a narcissist by everything you've written is a typical narcissist.
/r/RedPillWives27/01/24 03:03 AM
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I feel you. I could have written those exact words myself.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 02:48 AM
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This is not healthy or safe. You are in an unsafe situation. The first step is to find a safe location for you and your children, be sure it's somewhere he doesn't have access to. Next, you set your boundaries, hire a lawyer and get therapy and as much help from friends and family as possible. He needs help and guidance and he's not willing to listen and be a partner. Read up on a book like fascinating womanhood but do this in the safety of another home. I will say it again, you are not in a saf…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/22 07:46 PM
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Your behavior doesn't sound red pill. Your end goals do but if you want a man as you wish, I'd take a look at yourself and see what feminism has done for you. You may want to start changing your behaviors into something more feminine. Then you'll attract a more masculine man. That man may not be him or he may change. Be prepared for him to not change but you must change first with no expectations of him. Work on yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/22 01:42 AM
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Came here to say the same. Run as fast as you can and get help from a trusted adult. This is unhealthy, I was groomed, not by as old of a man but please know this is not healthy and it is inappropriate. Do not let him convince you otherwise, he will probably try. This is much much easier said than done but it is the right thing. When you break it off please seek professional help or now. Seek a therapist or psychologist NOW. You will need support. Please seek help from trusting and truly loving …
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/22 12:44 AM
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This this hard for me as I too am the one with a higher sex drive. Things my husband recommends is confidence as the sexiest trait. Perhaps read the room, coming home from work and him being tired probably isn't the best time. Morning, men tend to have higher testosterone in their bodies from sleeping so that's a good time to initiate if there's time. Does he have a kink you guys haven't tried? I'm terrible with this but I sympathize, I end up coming off desperate sometimes so, don't do that lol…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/22 04:24 PM
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I wouldn't be comfortable. I would talk to him about your worries and ask why you couldn't join. Ask him why he wants to go, still. In my opinionand experience my man would respect my concerns, as long as they are reasonable, and make an effort to make me feel better. Perhaps you can come along? If other women are allowed, I'd think you could, too. Good luck. Definitely an awkward situation.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/22 07:57 PM
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An excellent explanation. It is easy to be submissive when everything is going smooth, as anticipated, and in sync. Submission is so hard when it's the opposite of what we feel is safe and right. I'm currently struggling with this with my husband but I find when I go against my hesitation, it matters most. He flourishes, grows, and loves and adores me more. I wish I could take back all those times I threw tantrums when I thought his ideas were risky, silly and wrong. Because when I didn't submit…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/22 04:31 AM
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My nagging rule is a challenge for me
/r/RedPillWives16/08/22 09:36 PM
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I'd like to practice the no nagging rule. Make it a priority not to nag.
/r/RedPillWives13/08/22 02:25 AM
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I definitely prefer the vintage edition over timeless. It was more of a workbook style and easier for me to remember concepts. It's just my way of learning. I do like both and found both helpful. I, too, am curious what what makes it not rpw.
/r/RedPillWives04/08/22 03:54 PM
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I don't think that your questions are red pill related, I could be wrong. To reconnect typically means finding things to do within the relationship to excite each other. You can work on your physical and mental health. But to reconnect with someone, it means the two of you need to do something together.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/22 01:24 AM
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My husband is in the kitchen decorating my birthday cake. He's been in there for almost 2 hours. He also surprised me with flowers when I needed butter from the grocery. I'm very excited to see my cake and celebrate with him.
/r/RedPillWives23/06/22 03:23 AM
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Live minimalist and sacrifice wants. My husband makes a fair wage but I don't work. We own all our vehicles and they are older. I make all meals and he brings lunch to work, rarely eats out. We sacrifice new clothing, trips, I'm making it a goal this year to not purchase any new clothing. Juß repair what I have now. He sacrifices wants so I can stay home. We live simply but the sacrifices out weigh the things. I also train horses part time for a little extra cash.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 04:13 AM
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I did not ask if your men watched porn. I asked about people's thoughts on it and how it could be right or wrong and other opinions on similar the topic
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/22 08:08 PM
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I really appreciate your response and taking the time for this. Insightful and honest. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/22 07:30 PM
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Please forgive me, but I feel all the women saying their men don't watch porn are being niave or you are the few and far between lucky ones.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/22 04:38 PM
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Thank you for your honest response and sharing me your personal experience.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/22 01:22 AM
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I believe your situation must be quite rare. Perhaps, I'm wrong and it's more common than I think.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/22 01:13 AM
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I like the follow his lead suggestion. I would simply order water with extra lemon on the side and create your lemonade to some degree. That's my thought. First dates I'm always super thoughtful about my meal and drink choices.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/22 02:08 AM
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Specifically for what? You may want to be more specific.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/22 04:01 PM
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Ditto ❤️
/r/RedPillWives29/05/22 04:40 AM
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High value men is in the eyes of the beholder in my opinion, everyone has different ideas of what's valuable. If my man is too busy to call me and spend time with me, and loses interest, I'll find someone else. I understand there are hobbies and other friends and work etc. that play a part. Who claims chasing is a low value trait (genuine curiosity)? I think you're thinking of the actual chasing game where the woman literally is being immature, as well. I'm referring to a man interested in a wom…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/22 01:52 AM
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I just feel I've been seeing so many posts about boyfriends who are acting so childish and I blame the woman at some point for accepting the behavior. You don't have to accept poor behavior from boyfriends!
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/22 10:53 PM
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Could someone help me understand what domestic discipline means?
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 10:45 PM
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I find this is a journey and not about being perfect. Our men unknowingly complement us and when our behaviors are feminine, they fall into their masculine roles. Just our small efforts result in positive relationship improvements. Happy for you.
/r/RedPillWives22/05/22 06:58 PM
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I will always be a wife and homemaker as my "career". I also train horses and give riding lessons less than part time because it's my passion. But, homemaker/housewife is my most important and favorite title. It's an honor to be home and be a housewife, we don't have children.
/r/RedPillWives21/05/22 02:08 AM
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I'm cutting meats, too. We've mostly been eating chicken anyway but now I'm cutting meat out a couple days a week. I also began working on the side. I was a horse trainer before I met my husband but now I'm picking up a few clients to offset costs. It's not easy but we're managing. I drive my little car more instead of my truck, too. We're doing more things at home and going out less. We're visiting family less, as well, they are out of town. I also am mending my own clothes and I'm making a goa…
/r/RedPillWives19/05/22 02:23 PM
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I may be interested.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/22 10:36 PM
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I am quite familiar with this experience you're describing in more of an anxious side but in any case, I'm unable to regulate emotions well. The best I can suggest is therapy and actually walking away. You may not be able to stop what you're saying but walking away is a start. Say I am angry but I time. That's it. No further explanation needed. And then walk away as far from him as you can and distract yourself. Play on your phone, nap, deep breaths, call or text a friend, scream into a pillow, …
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/22 10:37 PM
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It works. It's not a game, men need x and women need y. If we do what nature intended and not fight against it, it's actually quite happy. It's changing what women and men are taught now at a young age and undoing years of the girl power mentality. Men need real women and women need real men.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 03:18 PM
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I am doing my best practicing FW. I read it about 8 years ago and I continue to practice and live it. I am considering a class this year.
/r/RedPillWives11/05/22 02:20 PM
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It's easier to ask for forgiveness. Ps, I typically would submit to and respect my husband on many levels; however, it being a child and antibiotics. Please help your child. Antibiotics will not cause harm to your child and more harm could come from not getting proper treatment. As a parent, you too are responsible for your child's well-being. And putting your child in danger is not ok.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/22 04:36 AM
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I liked The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands. It is a good intro for people who need a reality check. And years ago, I needed it. Now, I'm just like you and LOVE Fascinating Womanhood and I always recommend it to friends and family. I do like the older book more than the modern one but I learned from the older book first. I like how it's set up as more of a course. I'm considering taking a course from a certified teacher but it is a bit pricey. Have you done a course? What book version did yo…
/r/RedPillWives05/05/22 08:34 PM
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It is really sad how common it is to say well, if you're unhappy, go find happiness. Instead, I feel it should be more if you're unhappy, work at finding inner happiness. That can be therapy, exercise, find a new hobby, work hard at your marriage, work hard at changing YOURSELF and then you will find happiness. However, abuse is a different story but it's hard to determine by just one post from someone to say they are in an abusive relationship unless it's very clear. We don't know the whole sto…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/22 08:29 PM
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Out of respect for my husband, I ask him how he'd like my hair to be. I'm not one to really care and he says he loves my long hair. I would ask your husband what he thinks, explain how you currently style it day to day, and ask what you should do. I'm sorry if this is unpopular opinion, just my experience. My husband appreciates that I listen to his thoughts.
/r/RedPillWives23/04/22 09:52 PM
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