| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 95 | I noticed where i like to meet women | Lifestyle | HotReality3225 | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 05:27 AM |
| 17 | Confidence is higher but still rejection is high | Field Report | HotReality3225 | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 09:13 PM |
| 6 | I want 2025 to be different | Inner Game | HotReality3225 | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 04:54 PM |
| 0 | Going out with others vs alone | Lifestyle | HotReality3225 | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 12:52 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Do you hit on girls that work in service ?I mean depends on how old you are them for one thing. Imma be real with you. It wouldn’t hurt to try. Worst that can happen you get turned down and laughed at. Boo hoo. You won’t die. Just don’t be weird about it and be respectful since shes at work and probably get hit on alot by dudes who probably come off as creeps. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Going out with others vs aloneTbh i got peer pressured into alot of bs hanging with them and i regret it | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Going out with others vs aloneI do. Just their personality just seemed like they never grown up | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Going out with others vs aloneIm the same way, just feels better because im not in competition with people i came with. Plus they aren’t always prepared anyway and just seem immature to me | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Going out with others vs aloneIt’s easy for me because i am a shy extrovert honestly and sometimes people who go out brings the social side out of me with their energy and i am a guy who just looking for a vibe and if i get rejected who cares. | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 02:31 PM |
| 0 | Going out with others vs aloneThey try to coach me and everything but i don’t see enough good success rate on getting the women i want and they are dating women they don’t even like and always putting me down | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Going out with others vs aloneI got common sense, but yeah you are right. Maybe going out alone is more my thing because the energy im not feeling around them and i stand out more without them regardless of their experience. Also they hesitate alot more than me and make excuses when im tired of same results of sitting around looking bored So i guess i gotta party alone | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 01:31 PM |
| -2 | Going out with others vs aloneWhy even comment if you gonna just post shit that benefits no one | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 01:26 PM |
| 2 | First ever cold approachStop comparing yourself to him and just learn from him | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Confidence is higher but still rejection is highYeah, i do. I am still trying to be less awkward which is my issue and less patient Also i think carrying myself better and working on my health can do wonders for me. In due time the more i do the better i will get. Im focused on improving myself on all areas regardless and even saying anything is better than just sitting there saying “oh she bad asf or she look good” rather tell them and build a connection for now on. Im working on speaking my mind more and be more open | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Confidence is higher but still rejection is highMy conversation need more substance in them | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 03:48 AM |
| 3 | Confidence is higher but still rejection is highBro ngl man. Maybe you are right. Imma have to apply pressure. Most time they don’t remember who numbers they get or give anyway | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Confidence is higher but still rejection is highI noticed me drinking less helped when im out. I taken rejection less personal and just keep it pushing. Fk being negative im only talking good about myself. Im just gonna keep improving in all areas of life | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Confidence is higher but still rejection is highI started to drink less for my confidence and just started to do it I also noticed that i hate approaching women in large groups because someone will cock block in the group | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Confidence is higher but still rejection is highI noticed that actually put myself out there even if im scared or nervous helped me become competent and help me less anxious and walk around with my head chopped off. I also started to not be a pessimistic and a gloomy dude which also helped | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Confidence is higher but still rejection is highBet. Will take noted and not make it obvious that i wanna smash | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Confidence is higher but still rejection is highHell yeah. Im just tired of being a bitch and alone. So i am pushing myself out my comfort zone and stopping bs that won’t help me get where i want in the dating world. Im not a stud but i am a short 5’7 stocky kinda muscular(big arms and bug shoulders and vein coming in)chubby guy that will look alot better if i dropped 60ibs atleast. So the fact that i have these disadvantages i have to be confident and take my shot more and just take more opportunities I had to fix my mindset and just do it. … | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Confidence is higher but still rejection is highMe being socially awkward kinda fks me up sometimes and i try to flirt but i need more practice on it Other than that i try to have a good time and when i have my moments of shooting and getting numbers and potentially more i surprise myself | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 09:28 PM |
| 5 | Confidence is higher but still rejection is highYeah i talk to everyone and anyone who talks to me i talk to them because honestly im just that cool and i wanna be less shy, socially awkward and less anxious. Im that chill guy at the bar that if anyone talk to me i will converse back like you aren’t bothering me Because yeah i be in a good mood majority of the time | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Confidence is higher but still rejection is highI am focusing on making woman comfortable talking to me. It just people are so open with me like at an apple store a woman literally opened up to me about her brain damage and being stuck in 08 with the iPhone | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 09:21 PM |
| 11 | Confidence is higher but still rejection is highImma be honest dude, when im out alone. I get people randomly conversation with me and or talking to me. Idk what it is about me. Like for example i was leaving the bar and a random guy spoke to me and me being a no fucks and cool about it. Just spoke back like nothing was wrong | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Post Rejected | Creep FearsDude she was 18 which is still legal but at the end of the day understand because the principal. I just said my fault to her for even looking at like that as if she was in her 20s The at talking to, but i did nothing wrong and i seeen iit happened at malls and downtown. So it’s a common thing. She just tells u the age and i back off because im 31 thinking she was 21-23 and not into that weird shit. Long story short it could be worse my guy. You only a creep if she rejected you and you keep follo… | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 05:07 PM |
| 1 | I noticed where i like to meet womenIm not shaming choosing signals but to rely on them solely is not my cup of tea. As for them i made a mistake and constantly feel judged and I even get my mannerisms mocked. So i do not understand what the issue is, they say they want me to do better but if I’m getting sick of their behavior and actions. I gotta remove myself without question. Noticed when i put in effort the dude gf is hating saying”he’s still talking to that girl” “she wasn’t even that bad” etc etc. | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 04:30 PM |
| 0 | I noticed where i like to meet womenAlso i prefer meeting people and especially women outside the bar because its more chill, easier to talk to and I don’t wanna talk to a bar regular. I see alot of that and it gets old seeing them | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 12:42 PM |
| 3 | I noticed where i like to meet womenYeah when i am comfortable, not anxious, and happy and having fun Most women say i am charismatic and end up fucking with me because im having fun. And you are right. Not every chick is a one night stand type and or will go home with you the same night I was 29 and a 22 yo who drank more than me. Wanted to hang with me and didn’t care where we went but this was after we met at the bar | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Post Rejected | Creep FearsBro i approach a chick at the corner store coming in cold ass weather with some gym gear on. Made a comment about it and tried to ask for her name and she smiled and said “im 16” my response is “my fault” and went about my day. If you worried about being a damn creep than man i you got me beat because i felt bad talking to her I be anxious about approaching woman who i think are in their 20s that look young and me not continuing means i made a mistake that probably alot of people made and that i… | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 12:34 PM |
| 1 | too cold for me to go outside iI prefer summer because beach and parties is in again | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 12:31 PM |
| 2 | too cold for me to go outside iAmen im on the type of grind. Need a break from partying anyway to work on myself. This is the redemption arc for me | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 12:30 PM |
| 6 | I noticed where i like to meet womenTrue!!! Ngl im 31 and i look younger so even college town bars I sometimes have random people sparkling conversations with me especially if im by myself because i do not give af if im there alpne, dancing alone, and just do me. As long as i have a good vibe with the people around and the music But being alone i get clock block by random dudes who simp and or their friends who look less attractive and come off as jealous. In example i was not able to hear this one cute black chick with curly hair… | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 12:03 PM |
| 1 | I noticed where i like to meet womenNoted: i met these groups of people from WORK. | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 11:59 AM |
| 1 | I noticed where i like to meet womenYes i know man. They call me their friends but they act a certain way and try to act like coaches when their own advice hold me back especially the one i went out with most He use to tell me to wait for choosing signals when im like fuck that. Let me just go talk introduce myself and create a connection This dude does goofy shit like have his phone with a picture that says “if you’re cute give me your number” Im thinking even if you get the number it doesn’t mean shit because they’ll probably fo… | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 11:58 AM |
| 1 | I noticed where i like to meet womenTrust me I could of had some good times with the opportunity i put myself in outside of using liquor and when im just being confident even when nerves kick in Some of the women who gave me numbers were some decent looking women and had shxt going for them especially the ones i met during the day | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 11:50 AM |
| 7 | I noticed where i like to meet womenI am christian regarding me not being the best one lifestyle wise considering i wanna meet hot women and have a rotation but that place i will admit I would date or take them seriously if i know they go there Also while I consider myself an awkward and anxious person. I did take chances and learned about myself Here’s what i learned! I am a one on one person I hate approaching or conversing when a-lot of people is around so i tend to hesitate at crowded bars, crowded malls, crowded places I know… | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 11:48 AM |
| 1 | I noticed where i like to meet womenI noticed i have to do it even when nerves kick in because most women will not give a damn if your nervous and alot of women i approach and i was clearly nervous tried to keep the conversation going and thought me being nervous was cute and didn’t mind it | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 11:42 AM |
| 2 | I noticed where i like to meet womenI have potential because i am not afraid to get turned down it just the social anxiety holds me back when i am around alot of people because most times i approach a woman is when i knew and realize nobody was watching. I get made fun of alot so it messes with me to approach a woman at gyms,clubs crowded places But honestly some women i approach i did a risky move for example. It was 8am and i was planning to go to the store and come back so I wasn’t dressed best and was driving in my neighborhoo… | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 11:40 AM |
| 1 | I noticed where i like to meet womenThey just tell me constantly about my vices and that i get no women in a joking manner and it’s constantly when i hang around them. What makes it hard for me is that i am socially awkward and socially anxious. And social skills is bad | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 11:35 AM |
| 4 | I Met a 40-Year-Old Virgin: Here’s What He Taught Me About Settling in DatingBro trust me do not lose your v card the wrong way and lie about that status in person. People will judge you | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 01:12 PM |
| 1 | I want 2025 to be differentI like streetwear but not too much graphic ts unless it’s a design or something i like | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | I want 2025 to be differentMy fashion is shit atm and I tend to not like too much shit on my shirt unless its a sports brand like nike or adidas or puma | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 10:39 PM |
| 1 | I want 2025 to be differentI need to throw away. I have some clothes i still wear for years and i need to change this | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 10:38 PM |
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