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ADVICEHousewife247365/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 05:48 PM
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I can’t speak from personal experience, but I can speak to second hand knowledge of NFP. My very Catholic grandma always preached about the benefits of NFP, and it’s virtues and closeness they had as a couple. But then she also had ten kids so I don’t know about their success rate. She would say that every child is a blessing from God and left it as His plan, not hers. As far as NFP negatively impacting the relationship-not at all. My grandparents were the most loving and devoted couple I’ve eve…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/20 05:05 PM
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You’re right. I would lurk over on MRP and hear stories about men whose wives leaving them was the catalyst for their transformations and couldn’t help but feel sad for their families. If only there had been a way to intervene before it got so far out of hand. Thankfully, neither of us is at the point of no return.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/19 03:25 AM
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Yes, we are only 6 months post pill and I am hopeful. I understand you can’t erase a decade of past experiences overnight.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/19 03:11 AM
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He hasn’t found his group yet since we’ve moved. He has been nose down into his work getting acclimated with a new job.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/19 03:06 AM
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You’re right, he was a safe choice. He was a nice, financially stable guy who was crazy about me. He still is all those things. I don’t want a new guy, I want the best version of my guy.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 03:24 PM
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Honestly, he is out of shape. He’s always been that way though. In the beginning of our relationship he confessed about feeling insecure of his body. I told him that I didn’t fall in love with his six pack (which never existed). But at least he used to try. Today his waist is broader than his shoulders. I never made an issue about his weight. In my preRPW days I thought I could just set a good example. I would mind my diet and exercise and he would see me doing well and become inspired by my tra…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 12:33 AM
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Yes, that was an informative book. My husband read it too.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 11:10 PM
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This is very helpful advice, thank you! I have read Atomic Habits and it makes a lot of sense that I have unwittingly trained my brain. We need to create more positivity between us. Relaxing with a drink was the one thing we had in common. Also, I heard Dr. Drew from Loveline explaining that same bathroom dilemma experienced by guys in the military on deployment. It was the only place they were afforded any privacy and it caused some problems when they got home.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 10:53 PM
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Thank you. I need to figure out those barriers. I wasn’t raised to believe sex is shameful. Up until I quit drinking I thought our marriage and sex life was above average and satisfying.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 10:37 PM
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This is a really interesting perspective, thank you!! I think I may have been building up a fantasy of him. I do think kind thoughts about him when he is away and I reminisce about some of the more memorable sexual experiences. I think the disconnect happens when he is present and reality husband doesn’t match the image I’ve created.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 08:02 PM
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Yes. For the record there isn’t anyone else. I don’t have any secret crushes. It’s just a nameless faceless fantasy. Sometimes I even think about some of our more memorable encounters with my DH.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 07:55 PM
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I think you might be onto something regarding respect. I had respect for him in the beginning of our relationship, but it’s gone missing. I couldn’t say exactly when, but it’s been gone for many years. Having read several books on marriage I saw how my behavior was eroding his confidence. He has always been the type of guy who jumps through hoops to try and make me happy, but that became a kind of apathetic guy who asks me to tell him what I want him to do. It isn’t very attractive. I’ve been wo…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 07:44 PM
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Whew! Take some deep breaths! It’s totally normal to go into marriage full of hope and optimism and high expectations for the life you plan to build. I can remember being a newlywed happily washing the dinner dishes while I admired my husband mowing the lawn through the window and thinking, “So this is what domestic bliss looks like.” I was 22. It’s also totally normal to get into the reality of things, look around at all that is not working the way you thought it should and feel sad. Feeling sa…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/19 04:23 PM
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I disagree. I think the folks who suggested making him believe that your ideas are actually his ideas are being passive aggressive. I’m coming from a place of being supportive of my husband, not being critical or condemning. I used to do that, I was pretty good at it too! I thought that if I corrected his mistakes he could learn to be better and it would have been because I was being helpful. WRONG! I created a guy who felt like he couldn’t do anything right in my eyes so he stopped trying. Have…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 07:25 PM
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My husband is also a socially awkward genius, or at least he used to be. I used to be very embarrassed in social settings by him, so we’d often separate at parties because I didn’t want to have to bear witness to how he was being because it was awkward and embarrassing and my friends and family thought I married an arrogant weirdo. He was at least self aware enough to recognize that he lacked in the social skills department so he participated in the Dale Carnegie course, “How to win friends and …
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/19 06:33 PM
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