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Nope next
/r/seduction20/04/22 01:29 PM
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Yeah especially climbing. Be sure to spot her, it might be a bit silly but it's better to spot her (ask before ofc) and maybe touch some inappropriate places inadvertently than her getting injured because of a fall ! And it definitely break the touch barrier ;)
/r/seduction16/04/22 03:06 PM
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My first bouldering date with a girl, I was younger (just 18?). The girl was older, like 24 or 25 iirc. She fell on her neck and broke a vertebra. She went to the hospital (didn't want me to come) and then we never met again. But well I'm a climber and met my last ex at the climbing gym so I guess it's not that bad.
/r/seduction16/04/22 02:53 PM
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Wait for the divorces and reap the harvest
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:08 AM
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Bro there is no magic trick or things like this. I don't have advice as to how to "work on yourself" and this bullshit that is trendy right now. I suggest you to try new things, new sports, new cities, new activities. Try traveling alone somewhere you don't know, discovering new cultures, new people... and we'll all make it brah
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:39 PM
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Look at r/bodyweightfitness for good advice. I do bodyweight fitness since a long time and while I'm not looking like David Laid, many times I've heard that I'm jacked / good looking body. For your body hair, can't do much about it. Many girls are loving body hair as well, don't sweat over it and seek someone accepting it and not judging you for it.
/r/seduction30/12/21 01:27 PM
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Distinguishing between obesity and a huge dress or something like this sounds really hardcore in machine learning. I don't really know what feature can be used to make the distinction... Because even skin color can be problematic if you want to make distinction. So maybe first detecting obesity in pictures where girls are in swimsuit, by having a pattern of pixels to detect a big belly or something. Looks freaking hard and not worth the pain to be honest.
/r/seduction10/12/21 12:29 PM
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Good luck bro !
/r/seduction08/12/21 08:48 PM
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Impressive
/r/seduction30/11/21 11:07 AM
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How often does this happen ? Do you speak korean ? Is it possible for you to respond in a formal way in korean that you understand them ? But honestly man, this sounds really shitty.
/r/seduction12/10/21 07:24 PM
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Man it sounds like rape ???
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:56 PM
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22M. My last GF was manipulative and cheated on me. It was years ago but after that, between having to cram for 2 years and this, I preferred to work on myself first, in order to be happy alone. Because for me, there's no point in trying to be happy in a couple if you cannot be happy alone. So now that I'm happy alone, I'm ready to date again. But I still need to find a worthy girl. I thought I found one but after a few dates, it didn't work out so I'm still searching. Even though I have quite a…
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:55 PM
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Good luck sister ! Be happy :)
/r/seduction16/09/21 02:34 PM
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Well I'm not a woman so I can't say for sure, but I met a girl on Tinder, who wasn't the most beautiful girl I've seen tbh. However, as soon as we met, I was really impressed by her personnality / intelligence / knowledge. Which made me hold her really high in my esteem. So much that I'd really consider seing her more, despite our differences. So I'd say, if you are looking for a LTR, don't only work on your appearance as you'll only have shallow relationships. Work on your brain too. But once a…
/r/seduction16/09/21 02:25 PM
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That was smooth af bro. Good luck with her tonight !
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:15 PM
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Thank you bro! However I struggle to understand something. What do you mean by having less power ? I don't want to have more power than her, I only seek a balanced relationship.
/r/seduction16/09/21 11:55 AM
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Ok thanks !
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:18 AM
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Thank you for sharing your experience. I don't spend time on my phone so we don't text much. I'm very busy at this moment with my studies, so we can't meet that much. But yeah, my emotions are truly really easy to activate, I need to keep them in check not to fuck it up.
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:18 AM
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This is some solide advice here, thank you very much for this ! I'll come back to this post to read it again to process everything.
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:15 AM
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I see, thank you ! When I see someone I like, I'm thinking about stopping searching other options. But I shouldn't, and just wait for her to bring exclusivity.
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:13 AM
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Alright, thank you!
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:11 AM
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Thank you for sharing your experience bro ! I hope you succeeded afterwards.
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:11 AM
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I understand, thank you!
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:10 AM
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Thank you very much for this, that's exactly what I needed to hear. I'll take my time, continue to see her and see if we're compatible in a deeper level ! Have a nice day, and best of luck to you too !
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:10 AM
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Yep, I was in several dates but I never was satisfied with the other person. This is the first time ! And first time dating another girl in my "adult" life as well.
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:00 AM
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I see, thank you for sharing your experience!
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:59 AM
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I get it, thank you!
/r/seduction15/09/21 08:22 PM
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You have a point, thank you very much dude !
/r/seduction15/09/21 08:15 PM
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I see, thank you !
/r/seduction15/09/21 08:14 PM
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No, I didn't use the right formulation. I don't want casual sex, but a serious relationship. Not necessarily with her, my question was more like : what are the next steps should I want to build a serious relationship with a girl. I don't see any red flags as i don't want to already be serious with her, but I was just thinking about how to be in a serious relationship with A girl, not with this one in particular. But yeah, I get what you say. Thanks
/r/seduction15/09/21 08:13 PM
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I wasn't clear enough, my bad. I don't want to be serious with her RIGHT NOW, but I don't seek a casual fling. But yeah, I'll spend some time with her and see what'll happen. Thank you for you message ,have a nice day !
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:30 PM
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That's what I plan to do, thank you for your advice !
/r/seduction15/09/21 04:47 PM
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Well I may be weird but yes, I was truly waiting to see if I really wanted to. I guess for me a kiss is something more meaningful than just a kiss. But well I may be a bit too old fashioned here. But yeah, I'll definitely go for it. Nothing to lose right ?
/r/seduction15/09/21 04:46 PM
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Thanks bro, have a nice day.
/r/seduction15/09/21 03:07 PM
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That's what I'll do, thank you very much bro !
/r/seduction15/09/21 03:06 PM
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It may be working really well. But I think I need to be more experienced to try this. Because I will surely look like just a friend if I do this... it has happened to me once, and I deeply regretted it
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:42 PM
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Thank you very much for this, i hope you'll have success as well ! Have a nice day.
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:30 PM
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Man this hits me hard. Yeah, you're right. Well we had great eyes contacts, touch each others and all but yeah, I should have gone for it. She even was thinking about all the activities we could do together. Thankfully we meet sunday. I'll definitely not miss my chance then, because if I do, I'll most likely fail after that.
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:26 PM
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I'm thinking the same as you. But I should still kiss or next time or escalate a bit more, not to fall in the friendzone. Right ?
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:14 PM
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I don't know man, I don't want to rush things and I want to take my time. Maybe she wanted it, but is it not better to finish your meal while still being hungry and looking forward to the next meal ?
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:13 PM
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Yes you have a point. Thank you very much dude, I don't know what I'd do without you all !
/r/seduction15/09/21 01:54 PM
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Thank you for your input. Well I stopped dating at 15-16 so yeah, you can say I'm not very experienced. So a kiss but no talk about relationship right? But what so I say after kissing her ? "Nice lips" ?
/r/seduction15/09/21 01:49 PM
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Thank you for your time dude, have a nice day
/r/seduction15/09/21 12:19 PM
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She is not my only option, but her intelligence gobsmacked me. Here's why I'd like to be serious with her. But I think I'll keep seeing her for a few dates, escalate things and see if the relationship blossoms, as I was suggested. I'll wait for her to talk about this topic first.
/r/seduction15/09/21 12:03 PM
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You're right. Thank you very much for this advice, I'm not used to this anymore!
/r/seduction15/09/21 11:57 AM
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Well you do have a point, thank you for ringing the bell. However I'm not attached yet, I just don't want some casual sex and be done with it. So what do you suggest ?
/r/seduction15/09/21 11:48 AM
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Oh sorry I didn't know we could report trolls. I just blocked her but yeah I should have done that. I apologize. Have a nice day :)
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:35 AM
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Good luck brother! I wish you the best
/r/seduction13/09/21 08:22 PM
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You do you. But at lest you'll have tried and give up on her. This self pitying attitude isn't going to help you in your life. Grow some balls man stop whining about your situation and act.
/r/seduction13/09/21 08:09 PM
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Bro you have nothing to lose right now right ? Go for it and you'll know for sure if she liked you or not
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:53 PM
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Go for it
/r/seduction13/09/21 12:26 PM
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Hahahaha you bastard, well you got a point
/r/seduction11/09/21 10:34 AM
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5.4 here, or 165cm. The only time I've heard height was a problem was by guys talking about me. Like "you're cute you shouldn't have any problem with women, your biggest flaw is being small". However, never have I ever had a girl telling me :"you're too small I don't like you". Because if a girl is shallow enough to think this, I don't need her in my life. She is not the one selecting me out of all guys, we both are doing a screening.
/r/seduction10/09/21 08:46 PM
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At the end of the day, they are still humans that poop. So they aren't better than you in any way. Sure they are beautiful, so what? How does that make them more worth it than you? You have passions, things that make you incredible as well. Keep that in mind. Know your worth. If there is only a beautiful shell but nothing inside, I'll pass. Not for me. I'd rather be with a less beautiful woman with whom I can have really deep conversations and intellectually connect, than a beautiful woman who o…
/r/seduction09/09/21 11:01 AM
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Well I can send you my profil in PM if you want
/r/seduction08/09/21 06:03 PM
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I bet hahaha. Well I have quite a lot of success on Tinder rn, I downloaded the app 2 days ago and now I have 5 matches. So quite a confidence booster as well, even though I don't think I'm really attractive. But you don't need to be the most beautiful guy on the earth to get laid, so let's do our best and we'll succeed.
/r/seduction08/09/21 05:57 PM
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Same, I'm 100% straight but got hit on by a lot of gay guys, even if, according to them, I don't "emit gay vibes". Well we can take it as compliment, I guess ?
/r/seduction08/09/21 10:53 AM
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5'5 here, never had a problem. Play with your strengths, grow some balls and stop pitying yourself. Man, okay you small. So what ? Do you want me to come in the US to break your legs again and again for you to grow 1 inch taller ? We all have issues, nobody's perfect. Even the tallest guy in the room has some many issues. But so what? Now stop this whining and start improving yourself, nobody is going to do it for you.
/r/seduction29/08/21 06:51 AM
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Wtf man if she doesn't give you the right number it's her loss, but why are you putting her in such an embarrassing situation ?
/r/seduction25/08/21 10:39 AM
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Yeah it looks like a waste of money to me. You should invest this money into traveling and meeting new ppl, it's way more effective haha
/r/seduction16/08/21 06:07 PM
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A program ???? What is he going to tell you? Approach this many girls a day ? Do push ups , pull ups? Bro, just go out and socialize
/r/seduction16/08/21 10:00 AM
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Can't agree more, it shapes you ! I'm currently having some problems in Romania, need to sleep in some weird place, but even knowing this I would still do what I did
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:53 PM
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Bro, you Brazilian guys are dope af, I got hosted by some of you in Europe and you are so nice !! I felt like sharing my story because in this sub, we highly focus on working out, reading books and cold approaches, as if they are the only way to grow up as a person
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:51 PM
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Oh yeah, you are totally right ! And it makes you more prepared for the future shit you'll live, because you'll have lived worse before. So many benefits, I really think that travelling is hugely underrated.
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:35 AM
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Well it depends on how you are traveling, if you discovered some hobbies there, met some nice people that expanded your thinking... so not really ?
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:24 AM
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Go out, travel alone, pick a destination randomly and go without to much preparation, meet new people because you don't have a choice if you don't want to end up alone and I guarantee you that you'll grow up a lot from this
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:17 AM
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Travel to experience the world, you'll live plenty of amazing things, plenty of bad ones but you'll always have a lot to talk about. And you'll meet so many new people
/r/seduction15/08/21 05:48 AM
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So what? No one has ever dated before their first date
/r/seduction08/07/21 10:09 AM
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Don't say that you never had any woman attracted to you bro, you don't know this. What you can say is that you haven't found a woman you felt connected to, or that you didn't have time to invest in seeking a relationship. Don't put yourself in a victim shoes, that's not the right mindset
/r/seduction08/07/21 10:08 AM
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In any case my dude you'll succeed, I'm sure of it !
/r/seduction02/07/21 09:51 PM
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Not falling in the sexism, but as a lot of men do the first step, statistically, if a man is simply waiting while doing nothing, it is way harder for him to find a partner than for a woman doing the same thing. But that wasn't what you intended right? You said that he should work on himself and that may take a long time, hence the "be patient" ?
/r/seduction02/07/21 09:04 AM
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Just a naive question but why not just saying that you didn't have the luck to find someone you felt connected to? Lying isn't a good idea in my opinion, you should just accept who you are and if this is a worthy girl she will accept it as well. If not, you've dodged a bullet, in my opinion.
/r/seduction02/07/21 08:58 AM
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Wow that's really a quality advice, thank you very much mate ! I'll definitely do this ! Have a nice day.
/r/seduction30/06/21 04:36 PM
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Thank you for your input ! That's what I've noticed as well. Confidence is not a problem, so should i just approach girls I find attractive and start talking to them? But then again, I don't know what to say to them! Just starting by complimenting them and starting a discussion ?
/r/seduction30/06/21 04:27 PM
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Hi. I always struggle to approach girls I just saw in the street, without a pretext and/or having locked eyes for some times. Some men do this ? But well, I don't see a lot of women locking eyes with me, or can't always have a pretext. Hence, I sometimes go out without even talking to a girl, because I haven't found the right situation. Should I keep doing this or perhaps approach a bit more without having at least locked eyes ?
/r/seduction30/06/21 04:02 PM
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Of course ! If you have any questions don't hesitate, send me a PM I'll try my best to help you. Have a nice day !
/r/seduction29/06/21 04:03 PM
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No, sorry I wasn't clear enough. English is not my first language, so please excuse me for the mistakes I make. I mean that I don't train my legs with bodyweight exercises, but I use weights because I fell in love with heavy deadlift/squats ! Do whatever you want, if you want to skip your legs training then do it. But I don't recommend it, because it is a really fun training, you'll build strong legs and not look like a chicken, and if you don't reinforce your legs, it'll lead to injuries in the…
/r/seduction29/06/21 03:59 PM
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The wiki of r/fitness looks like a goldmine. You should explore it !
/r/seduction29/06/21 03:53 PM
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Oh shit you have a whole home gym! I mostly do bodyweight workout, except for the legs so I won't be able to help you much in the regard of weight training. You should check the sub r/fitness, it surely has many responses to your interrogations. I believe that in this sub, there are a lot of routines. But a full body routine 3 times a week for a few weeks/months may be a good start. But if you want to stick to an upper/lower routine, that's really good as well.
/r/seduction29/06/21 03:52 PM
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Do you have multiple weights to increase the load ? You have a squat rack but not a bar ?
/r/seduction29/06/21 03:47 PM
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Well you'll see results. However, with a healthy diet (with enough protein / with the right amount of calories) you'll see better results, and faster. Look for maintenance/cutting like 200kcal a day. But you don't have to change everything right now, you can do it gradually : cutting sodas, sugar and so forth. Good luck bro
/r/seduction29/06/21 02:42 PM
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Good luck with your life bro !
/r/seduction29/06/21 08:58 AM
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Nah bro she said no 1 time; don't force it and be that insistent asshole. Don't force her to say no a 2nd time. It's your loss, accept it and move on. If she was interested she would have straight said so. Don't try to build up some trust right after rejection. If you want to build trust, do it before. But if she rejects you one time, that's it, game over. Perhaps then will she give you her number because she fear your reaction, but is that what you really want ? What's the next step then? Forci…
/r/seduction28/06/21 07:15 PM
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You'll lose fat and gaining muscle in the same time while starting working out don't worry
/r/seduction28/06/21 01:01 PM
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Don't cut them bulk, just start working out and using the cheat code named Newbie Gains, it'll be enough, and after 1y or 2, you'll know whethe cutting or bulking
/r/seduction28/06/21 12:57 PM
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No we don't enjoy it.
/r/seduction25/06/21 08:56 PM
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Well I'm still building myself up and I don't have a lot of experiences in seeing girls, only a few. But, if you get friendzoned, so what? It just mean that he isn't attracted to you, so switch to another target! Or it can very well mean that you took too much time to show your interest so his has already dwindled. Perhaps if you are friendzoned, you can ask him a feedback, for instance, "at first, did you see me as a potential romantic partner? If yes, what made you stop seeing me like this?". …
/r/seduction25/06/21 09:46 AM
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To be honest, I believe that there is not so much differences between men and women in this regard. But well, if you want advice on how to seduce men, you shouldn't ask men but women who are used to seduce them. Anyway here's my 2 cents : Work out, eat healthy and take care of your skin, wear good clothes, Improve your intelligence by reading books, by learning whatever you want, find a passion... Once you see a guy you find attractive go see him and ask something random, and see where it goes. …
/r/seduction25/06/21 09:07 AM
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That's because it is a cultural thing to have the man seducing the woman, even if some women approach guys, it is not the majority at all. But go create this sub, I'm sure a lot of us guys will be more than happy to see some developments in the way approaching is done, by being bilateral !
/r/seduction25/06/21 08:31 AM
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Well, to learn fishing you ask the fisherman, not the fish. Men here won't help you that much, as women won't help much if a man ask them how to seduce a woman.
/r/seduction25/06/21 08:25 AM
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Thank you sir ! I get it, I'll keep training outside then.
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:59 AM
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Well I'm a french guy so I don't really know whether I'll look like a foreigner, but I'll definitely start by asking direction / recommendations. Thank you for your input.
/r/seduction16/06/21 07:54 AM
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Thanks I'll look into this !
/r/seduction16/06/21 07:52 AM
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Well you can't force someone into loving you, if there's no spark you can't blame yourself. It sure hurts but you have to deal with it and try again until you succeed.
/r/seduction19/04/21 09:19 AM
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That's what we say for American girls as well, in France. So I guess the grass seems always greener in the neighbors yard.
/r/seduction14/04/21 07:31 AM
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