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I completely agree. Trying to figure out what it is that women want is like a side project out of intellectual curiosity. But thinking about it too much is counterproductive. My point is that being unreactive not only gets you chicks it's makes you respect yourself as a man. And that goes along way in many areas of life. It just so happens women are crazy for it.
/r/seduction28/08/25 02:23 AM
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Let me tell you something super important that's rarely talked about. How the fear of being labeled a creep affects men. It absolutely devastates your confidence. You gotta let it go. Be okay with some girls thinking you're a creep. Every so called "hot guy" who gets tons of pussy is viewed as being a creep by SOME women. You'll never be able perfectly manage your reputation and tying to will destroy you.
/r/seduction28/08/25 01:54 AM
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This is golden advice. So many guys need to hear this. The question is, will they truly get it?
/r/seduction28/08/25 01:52 AM
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No this concept is significantly different.
/r/seduction28/08/25 01:52 AM
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This groundedness. The core of male attractiveness.
/r/seduction28/08/25 01:29 AM
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What you're suggesting is essentially lifestyle suicide. Think about every person you see in the media who's got this stellar image that they need to maintain for their career. They always wind up getting caught doing something they shouldn't be doing or someone digs something up from their past. You can maintain the image only so long before it inevitably collapses. I think you're way better off not sneaking around, being totally forthcoming about your lifestyle, telling everyone who has a prob…
/r/seduction28/08/25 01:20 AM
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Girls are always horny. If you're the right kind of guy that is. I literally never think about "how do I get this girl horny?" I just assume she's horny for me and I make a move and then see what happens. I've never been rejected this way. And no I'm not a natural. The worst I ever got was the girl made out with me and then said she wouldn't have sex because it was the first date. But she was still giggling her ass off and basically wetting her panties as I was caressing her leg and teasing pull…
/r/seduction28/08/25 01:14 AM
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I always use what I call semi-covert communication. The best thing about this is that women don't actually care if what you're saying is logically foolish. They only care about the vibe and if they want to fuck you they will go along with whatever you say as long as you don't make them feel like a whore. So, I'll literally say the dumbest shit like "you wanna walk me home?" Or I'll just say "you wanna go for a quick walk?" And then literally just walk to my house lol. Then you can make the dumbe…
/r/seduction28/08/25 01:07 AM
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I know is weird or a guy, but I have no desire to have causal sex I'm monogamous and only have the desire to have sex with one girl that I actually really like. Like I said there's three other girls just at my job alone that are all over me and I could easily just lead them on and fuck them. I just have no desire to. Not because I'm some sort of morally superior person. If I faked liking them to fuck and them ghosted them and they cried I honestly wouldn't care I'm not even a nice guy like that.…
/r/seduction07/02/25 01:26 AM
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You guys are all misinterpreting all my comments. I AGREE WITH YOU. I'm simply asking how to balance showing interest with being non needy. Because I want a chance to gain this girls interest again So I don't make similar mistakes in the future. The key here is that I'm not a needy, newbie virgin with oneitis (I used to be that guy). The girls have shown interest in me and I have rejected them. It's not that I don't have options it's just that I'm so picky that when a girl comes along that I act…
/r/seduction05/02/25 07:42 AM
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I got drunk and sent her a couple paragraphs that was super dramatic and a put a lot of feelings on the table. Nothing i said was necessarily bad or was just too much too soon in our relationship. I apologized.m for doing that when I sobered up and she seemed to accept my apology but things were just different after that.
/r/seduction05/02/25 07:36 AM
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Girls treat you how you are acting in that moment. So if your acting like a loser for 6 years you'll get treated like one but if you go fuck 10 other women and come back as a badass with game you'll get treated like a badass with game and she'll forget who you were before. Attraction isn't a choice. Kinda like a fat girl losing weight and becoming hot and getting out of the friendzone with a guy. Attraction isn't a choice the guy can just choose to be unattracted to a super hot girl because she …
/r/seduction05/02/25 06:42 AM
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I see your point. But I'm just thinking this girl used to call me cute and tell me she was gonna fight the other girls that liked me to win me. Like I totally had her in the palm of my hand so I think there's a shot I can make some ground since I literally just made one mistake that turned her off.
/r/seduction05/02/25 06:40 AM
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You are totally misunderstanding the situation and making assumptions about me. The reason I'm needy is because I am super picky about personality and so I'm currently ignoring the other physically attractive girls that are interested in me and focus too much energy on this girl because I view her as being rare. I'm not a newbie virgin with oneitis. I can get girls but I'm just so picky that girls that I like come around so rarely that I feel they are more special than they actually are. I'm try…
/r/seduction05/02/25 06:34 AM
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I have options I just am super picky so I only care about this one girl cuz she meets my standards
/r/seduction05/02/25 06:30 AM
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There already 4 other girls at my job that came on to me an I rejected and she is aware of that. She definitely liked me at one point saying she would fight them all for me. I just screwed it up
/r/seduction05/02/25 05:29 AM
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I'm down to do that I'm just wondering how I can balance that with still pursuing her because she's not the kind of girl to make a move on me she wants to be gamed
/r/seduction05/02/25 05:28 AM
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I disagree. Not being able to flip girls who aren't interested is a limiting belief. When I was in my early 20s I flipped a girl after 6 YEARS in the friendzone lol
/r/seduction05/02/25 05:05 AM
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Dude the thing is I'm sooo goddamn picky when it comes to girls so I do tend to overthink when I find a girl I actually wanna be with cuz it's so rare. There was 4 other girls at that job that liked me that I had to reject lol
/r/seduction05/02/25 05:04 AM
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It's not like 100% chance a girl likes you if she stands really close to you, but girls do tend to stand closer to guys they like and feel safe around. It's just one data point which requires several other data points to start to paint a picture.
/r/seduction05/02/25 04:45 AM
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Thanks for giving actual advice. You get it. Tbh I already knew this but needed to hear it. Thanks again.
/r/seduction05/02/25 04:41 AM
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I'm not advanced. You can be a non newbie and still not be perfect and ask questions. It's called intermediate.
/r/seduction05/02/25 04:39 AM
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Not true. Her mind was made up that she WAS interested and then she changed her mind on that lol
/r/seduction05/02/25 04:38 AM
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Read the post. Im trying to find a way to flirt with her without showing too much interest. Btw she didn't cut me off she just didn't respond to my last text asking her when she wanted to get lunch after she had already agreed to get lunch, but she was still super nice to me at work and touches me/ stands very close to me without me initiating it.
/r/seduction05/02/25 04:38 AM
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I agree. And I'm pretty good at doing that already. It doesn't answer my question. I'm not like a newbie virgin with oneitis here. I actually just really like this girl and been rejecting other girls cuz I have my eye on her. But at the same time I won't have an issue moving on if it doesn't work out there's 4 billion women.
/r/seduction05/02/25 04:35 AM
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Well, first thing to understand is that men and women are different. Men are wired to enjoy casual sex and most men actually prefer it. All men want to get to sex as soon as possible and they view sex with someone they aren't compatible with relationship wise as still a good thing. It's not right or wrong it's just how male sexuality evolved. Second thing to note is that most "creepy" men are not actual creeps/predators, they are just desperate, frustrated men trying their best to b attractive a…
/r/seduction03/02/25 08:55 AM
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Making a girl cum with your cock is all about the "experience". Choking, smacking ass, being rough (to the degree that she's comfortable) turns almost all girls on. It's also not as much about the Rick itself but the man that the dick is attached too. A girl is way more likely to cum if she's super attracted to you so inner game helps a lot here. Now making a girl cum from sex can be hard to do. But if you want to guarantee she orgasms just give her head. You can learn to give good head from a Y…
/r/seduction03/02/25 08:51 AM
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Absolutely
/r/seduction15/01/25 09:56 AM
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100% whenever there's a toxic relationship it's 90% of the time caused by the guy. Women match energy. If you stay calm they will eventually calm down. OF COURSE, there are some women that won't calm down and go key your car but that's not most women. Although, it MAY be the women that YOU choose.
/r/seduction08/01/25 09:46 AM
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Ehhh girls often times get curious about guys that other hot girls have already fucked could work in your favor. I wouldn't overthink it
/r/seduction05/01/25 10:03 AM
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It means give her drugs
/r/seduction05/01/25 01:42 AM
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Don't like the sound of that? What do you care what others think anyway? Is she underage or something ?
/r/seduction04/01/25 05:50 PM
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"You look like trouble" has become so cringe. I'm not even saying it doesn't work. If done correctly it often can work but it's so cringe to me I'd actual rather not get laid then allow those words to come out of my mouth. I'd prefer to say something like "You look very robust". It's funny cuz at first they will likely get me because robust is one of those words people think means something but it actually doesn't. Many people think it means "large" or even "fat". But then I just pull out my pho…
/r/seduction04/01/25 08:22 AM
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Develop some narcissism. I know you said healthy but I think a little bit of narcissism is healthy. I've gotten to the point where I know I'm such a good boyfriend that the fact that women are choosing to get mistreated by loser guys just shows their stupidity not my inadequacy. But, I don't go down the road of hating women for being so stupid and depriving me of sex. I happily and shamelessly jerk off to videos of some the hottest 10/10 girls in the world you can find on the internet. Meanwhile…
/r/seduction04/01/25 08:12 AM
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Good men FTW!!!
/r/seduction04/01/25 08:07 AM
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I've had this too. Funny enough I think it's actually a symptom of introversion. At times I feel super lonely and fantasize about a girl I have a crush on. Not even about sex, mind you. But just about hanging out, vibing, flirting, cuddling. I know guys....GAAAAYYYY LOL but the point is at other times I want to be alone and I'm actually so grateful I'm not with her at the moment so I can be by myself/ do my own thing or do guy stuff with maybe one or two other guys.
/r/seduction04/01/25 08:06 AM
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I think about 3 or 4 months ago. But I masturbate everyday.
/r/seduction04/01/25 08:02 AM
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Some girls like it but they are the toxic girls that have daddy issues and like controlling dudes. Mature, secure women don't want you to do nothing exactly, but you can just politely tell the guy she's taken and take her hand and lead her away without it being a dominance competition.
/r/seduction29/12/24 07:32 AM
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Game the girlfriend for sure. Hard to avoid never flirting with other girls subconsciously cuz it just happens so naturally sometimes. But catch it and don't let it get out of hand or broadcast it for the gf or other people to see and embarrass her. Never cheating either. Cold approach? Why would I do that lol I guess maybe to keep the skills up in case it doesn't work out but I would have no desire to. Go through AA and not even have a chance to get anything out of it seems masochistic lol
/r/seduction28/12/24 02:59 PM
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Usually
/r/seduction28/12/24 02:18 PM
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I mean if you're just so down that you can't leave the house then I guess that would have a negative effect. But overall I found girls are attracted to depression as long as you own it don't try to hide it. They just want you to be real, not necessarily enthusiastic.
/r/seduction28/12/24 08:47 AM
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Nah I get that. Silence isn't bad per se but you still need to be able to carry a conversation when the time is right for that or no?
/r/seduction28/12/24 08:44 AM
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I could care less about social validation. I'm not looking for casual sex.
/r/seduction27/12/24 10:55 PM
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I'm not really hard on myself. I know that the tone of the post might come across that way. But really I'm pretty cool being alone the majority of the time. I don't even care about casual sex, just want to get a new gf at some point. I've had 2 gfs, slept with like 10 girls so I'm not a crazy hard case or anything like that, just wanna improve.
/r/seduction27/12/24 10:54 PM
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I'm not sure exactly what you're asking. Women contribute to society and they are autonomous human beings just like men who have their own hopes and dreams and deserve respect and equal treatment. So, I don't think they "solely exist" for me. It's just that as far as I'm concerned, I don't get satisfaction from female friendships. Relationships with other human beings are either romantic/sexual or platonic, when it comes to platonic relationships I find women simply can't compete with the connec…
/r/seduction27/12/24 05:01 PM
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Bro that's completely up to you. I personally have no interest in female friends. But, if you do then do you. There's no right or wrong answer just do what you want.
/r/seduction27/12/24 11:56 AM
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It's all about being smooth. If you're smooth with it, then you can do it pretty much any time. Getting smooth is just about being super confident with it. So like if she gives you a weird look like why are you touching me you have zero reaction except to remove the hand to respect her boundaries and act like it never happened.
/r/seduction26/12/24 08:38 PM
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Just ask her out normally. Acknowledge her friends but focus on her and just do what you normally do if she was alone.
/r/seduction25/12/24 01:57 AM
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I'm struggling to see why you're surprised. You didn't get friend zoned at the last minute. You refused to fuck her for several good dates because you were nervous and YOU waited till the last minute to take her back to your place and then you didn't even try to fuck her while she was there to the point that she eventually said she had to leave and THEN you got friend zoned. But the truth is you haven't even been friendzoned yet necessarily. She said she wants to see you again. So you could pote…
/r/seduction22/12/24 06:25 PM
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Ask her to guess where you're taking her and then take her to the second place she guesses
/r/seduction22/12/24 06:06 PM
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So, you can just ask them or if they have it on their profile then there you go you don't even need to ask. However, it's not as simple as just taking their word for it. So if she's genuinely a sex in relationships only girl, then she will be honest and tell you that. However, if she's into causal sex, then she will lie to make herself not seem like a slut. It's also extremely rare for a girl to put a man into a sex only zone. If she's hanging out with you and fucking you then 99.9% of the time …
/r/seduction22/12/24 05:52 PM
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Agree 100% but it goes both ways an average looking guy who the girl doesn't like at first cannily change her mind if he's confidence charismatic af
/r/seduction21/12/24 12:01 PM
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I've never been cheated on because I have a great personality and my gfs love me to death. And by great personality I don't mean nice. I can be an asshole but I'm also nice. I know when to be an asshole and when to be loving. Girls know when they date me that if I leave them they never gonna find a guy as good as me again so they literally scared to cheat at that point. I will admit though I'm very good looking too but I don't think that's why they love me so much.
/r/seduction21/12/24 10:40 AM
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Actually no. Girls pssy gets wet for personality. Keep telling yourself you have to be Chad tho and you'll be desperate for pssy for the rest of your life. Up to you.
/r/seduction21/12/24 08:53 AM
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Well man as long as you're under the delusion that looks are number 1 I can guarantee you will fail. Looks are number 1 for guys. Meaning they look at a girls physical appearance first to make the script if they like them. Personality is number 1 for girls when they are looking at guys. If you're just gonna resist that and be like nah girls only like Chads with jawlines then there's nothing you can do. You will 100% fail with women.
/r/seduction21/12/24 08:14 AM
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Don't overthink it bro just be like "plenty more where that came from" or something like that. Honestly doesn't really matter she clearly likes you hard to mess it up now
/r/seduction21/12/24 08:04 AM
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So almost all guys are open for anything. The girl will dictate which zone you put her in based on how the date goes. Just the fact that you agreed to the date means she's not in your no go zone which is where you wouldn't even f*** her. If you really like eveything about her you might put her in relationship zone. But even if she just annoys you as long as she's physically attractive you'll still probably take the one night stand out of it. That's just how guys think. It can be tricky to get th…
/r/seduction20/12/24 10:04 AM
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Just be honest that you only want them for sex and only talk to girls that are into that so you can just ghost them and booty call them out of nowhere and they'll be happen to come over and fuck. I'm not opposite being horny doesn't motivate me to talk to a girl at all I'd rather just jerk it than talk to someone who annoys me. I have to actually vibe with the girl and then I'll want to talk to her regardless of whether or not I'm horny.
/r/seduction17/12/24 11:39 AM
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Whichever is true. I don't care about sex I just want to find an amazing girl to be my gf and even once I have a gf sure I'll enjoy fucking her but I'd enjoy spending time with her more. The fact I'm not needy/desperate for sex makes women go crazy. But if I was faking that to be cool then it wouldn't work. It has to be true.
/r/seduction17/12/24 10:53 AM
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What makes you a pussy is that you believe you're a pussy. You'd probably have much more success with women, even if you didn't approach if you simply dropped this belief that you were a pussy and raised your self esteem. Then you can try to learn to approach coming from that place instead of coming from the place of trying to stop being a pussy which will never work.
/r/seduction05/09/24 06:55 PM
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You're biased in your analysis. What you define as "games" is just the normal mating rituals of human beings. A woman for instance sees these "games" as being normal and would see blatantly asking for sex as some kind of weird game. Is the female perspective any less legitimate or is it just different? There are dozens of evolutionary reasons why these covert mating rituals exist and are necessary which I won't go into. But it seems like you're less looking for the actual reasons and more just v…
/r/seduction05/09/24 06:40 PM
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I don't know how to get myself to approach when I'm not drunk. It's like my body won't let me.
/r/seduction07/05/24 03:24 AM
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So, where you headed? (Wait for her to answer) Ok, cool, and what's the exact address?
/r/seduction07/05/24 03:23 AM
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What do you do if you can only approach drunk?
/r/seduction07/05/24 03:10 AM
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Alcohol is better for this than weed. Weed will often just make you worse
/r/seduction19/04/24 09:10 PM
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Never wait to ask a girl out. You should've been flirting with her since even before she broke up (she's obviously willing to entertain men while she's in a relationship). But seriously, you do not want to be in a relationship with a cheater. Put her in the category of sex only.
/r/seduction04/03/24 04:27 AM
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Girls want to have sex too. Just be like "Wanna watch a movie or something?"
/r/seduction30/01/24 10:05 PM
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You're way overthinking it. I just ask if they are down to watch a movie or something. The girl obviously knows you're gonna try to fuck her. It doesn't matter what you say she's gonna know so no point in trying to hide it. If she's comfortable with it she'll come with you.
/r/seduction30/01/24 09:04 PM
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How is it ridiculous? I'm happy to spend money on my girl but a complete stranger? Why would I?
/r/seduction30/01/24 04:27 PM
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Nyc is great for dating but the weather is brutal. Personally I'd rather deal with LA or even Miami girls and have nice weather but that's up to you
/r/seduction30/01/24 02:18 AM
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I'll tell you right now that the day I stopped trying to figure out all this bullshit my life got a whole lot easier. Don't try to figure out the "needy vs aggression" formula. Just experiment and your subconscious will learn as you go.
/r/seduction30/01/24 02:16 AM
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You can't possibly even know if the girl is worth more than chilis until after you've gone on at least one date. I mean I get it if you're well off and just being cheap but that's not always the case
/r/seduction30/01/24 01:57 AM
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Doesn't matter at all. You're overthinking and trying to play mind games which rarely actually work unless you're a psychopath. Just be like "ok sounds chill"
/r/seduction30/01/24 01:47 AM
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I completely disagree. If you have bad table manners that's on you If you can't initiate physicality before or after the dinner then that's on you and your game. The dinner can be one part of the date you can always do other activities before or after Chilis has a 3 for fucking 10 and plus if the girl likes you she will be fine paying for at least herself This is not a bad point. If you aren't good at sniffing out girls who are using you then it can be a good idea to at least suggest something o…
/r/seduction30/01/24 01:17 AM
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Girl: ummm I prefer gir- Me cutting her off: Don't answer that cuz I have both
/r/seduction26/01/24 03:31 AM
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Depends what kind of girl you're looking for. If you want a housewife a college would be a terrible place to look. If you're just looking for a hookup with a hot 20 year old who's living her best life then it's a fantastic place.
/r/seduction26/01/24 01:23 AM
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Lol funny but also serious
/r/seduction26/01/24 01:22 AM
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