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11

The 15 months is most likely the punishment for tampering with evidence, not for the false allegations.
/r/MensRights07/06/16 10:54 PM
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The single mother Well that isn't surprising. Clearly the kids dad had enough of her psycho bullshit and most likely did it to him too.
/r/MensRights07/06/16 10:42 PM
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Not really post worthy. Here in Australia, its a standard formula that sets the amount based on who's working, their salary and whether they have dependents from another partner. Theres even an online calculator that you can use. I find the idea of child support being set by a judge to be grossly unfair and the amount can vary wildly and difficult to dispute
/r/MensRights31/05/16 04:24 AM
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But she managed to get Depp kicked out of their house. She also tried to keep his car and even applied for an intervention order against Depp for her dog. Not only that but pictures have been released of her out on the town the day after the alleged incident of her partying and no marks. I'm calling this as I see it. The gold digger faked the assault in a bid to control Depp and gain an advantage in the divorce battle.
/r/MensRights28/05/16 02:16 PM
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Women are neither better or worse than men at running companies, at least not so far as we know. Which is what I've also reiterated. There is nothing about MRA discussion here at all, more just about the style of the CEO which can apply across both genders.
/r/MensRights26/05/16 08:50 AM
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Oh I agree completely. This isn't certainly not a gender issue, just a judgement of her actions which are not gender specific at all.
/r/MensRights26/05/16 04:45 AM
3

Marissa was absolutely horrible in her role. Employees reported very low morale and tougher working hours. Meanwhile, Marissa and her executive cohorts enjoyed lavish parties and gifts without ever seeing a boost in the trade value of their shares. For a company that was doing it tough, she sure lived like a queen on its dime. She did the exact opposite of what you do within a failing company (Slash jobs & spending, refocus on the product being sold, etc)
/r/MensRights26/05/16 03:44 AM
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Because that whole year they were married, she was so disadvantaged in her life that she needs it, amirite?!? Sounds like she was a gold-digger right from the start
/r/MensRights26/05/16 03:33 AM
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"Director of the Gold Coast Domestic Violence Prevention Centre Amy Compton-Keen said male perpetrators of domestic violence were known to take out orders against women as a means of control." “It’s about them trying to get in first and, from our experience working with women, if the man has a good story he is more often believed,” she said." Or, you know, the women are just fucking violent. I'm sick of these people with the "women can do no wrong" attitude. If a woman is violent, surely it was …
/r/MensRights18/05/16 06:14 AM
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Those costs don't add up at all. My 2 boys see a private therapist once a week and it costs me $165 each session. Half of that is a copay too
/r/MensRights29/04/16 07:32 AM
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Sources connected with Brooke and Denise tell us, they cannot afford to cover basic bills Time to shop at Walmart and stop eating & drinking all that Artisan bullshit We're told one child is receiving significant psychological help and there are other needs as well among the 4 kids Bullshit. My wife and I make a combined $135k and have 4 kids between us, 2 with autism. We're doing just fine with bills and medical costs
/r/MensRights29/04/16 07:30 AM
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What the fuck? So theoretically, if I was to use a urinal in an "anyone's toilet", a woman can just come in? What's stopping them from violating my privacy while they try and get a perv in? In fact, why are men's toilets being converted at all?!?
/r/MensRights13/04/16 04:43 AM
1

So the reality is that she seems to have been fired for defending actual pedophiles, and not because she was being a misandrist? If not, I'm confused.
/r/MensRights04/04/16 04:42 AM
5

Janet Bloomfield is great. She says all the right things and is spot on in her points and it pisses off feminists to a huge degree. Check out her site too: http://judgybitch.com/
/r/MensRights03/04/16 02:54 AM
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That is how innocent lives are ruined when it is so easy to fabricate a lie based on bullshit statements like that
/r/MensRights03/04/16 02:50 AM
5

Written by a guy on a feminist website. Wow. I am truly lost for words. He wrote it, then clicked submit thinking "I am going to get soooooooo much pussy for this" then gets pissed off when he STILL gets rejected.
/r/MensRights26/03/16 04:39 AM
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While the article is largely satire, it does raise some concerns that are legitimate. Not all that accuse others of rape actually sue, but those that do are all too eager to sue an accused rapist, but will refuse to return money when it turns out she lied. Case in point
/r/MensRights15/03/16 05:55 AM
2

Now, in a fresh blow to the software tycoon, his ex-wife is trying to have him jailed for failing to keep up with maintenance payments. You know when it's nothing but vindictiveness when the ex-wife just wants to keep going even after she's won.
/r/MensRights15/03/16 05:48 AM
11

The 5 accused are named at the start of the article while the woman still remains anonymous. Wonderful. Forever still the victim
/r/MensRights25/02/16 07:39 PM
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Man, a lot of people here seem to have some kind of imaginary check list of things women want while describing themselves as the perfect gentleman. Stop acting like women owe you something just because you believe yourself to have desirable traits. That makes you above and beyond needy.
/r/MensRights15/02/16 08:48 AM
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His right to face his accuser was in court. There is no need to have the right outside of it. As the accusers identity is protected, if the accused was to reveal the name to the media, he would face perjury charges.
/r/MensRights10/02/16 06:42 AM
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The easy fix here is to keep the names of both the accused and accuser anonymous unless the accused is judged guilty. It is that simple.
/r/MensRights10/02/16 06:38 AM
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Well aren't you just the classic pot calling the kettle black?
/r/MensRights17/01/16 11:57 PM
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Are you sure the unborn child is yours? It's like she's trying to get you to claim she is. I would not agree to write anything down without first a paternity test being administered. But before all that, get a lawyer.
/r/MensRights18/11/15 01:05 PM
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Ronda's awesome. Perfect answer to.... why would a journo decide to bring in such a stupid question to a UFC media event? How did she think that was even going to turn out? What an idiot
/r/MensRights31/10/15 06:07 AM
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That same love & respect doesn't mean you are entitled to the exact dollar-for-dollar privilege as a sibling though. EDIT : a lot of down votes. Not many other parents here, it seems.
/r/MensRights28/10/15 12:08 PM
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This is absolutely not true at all
/r/MensRights30/09/15 06:48 PM
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I'm confused. He wasn't charged so what are the cops refusing to "take away" here? It would not be on his criminal record unless he went to court and was convicted. It sucks that your friend is in this situation but there are more holes in the story than a block of Swiss cheese.
/r/MensRights30/09/15 04:04 AM
2

My uncle served in 'Nam. Received a Dear John letter 3 weeks before he was due to head home and was told that she sold their house, contents and even their pets as well as cleaned out their bank account. After he served his time and came home, he was homeless and penniless while his wife was banging some other dude on his dime. And they say that WOMEN are the true victims of war....
/r/MensRights22/09/15 03:25 AM
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'[The property] was supposed to be a forever home, something he could leave our children. People are forgetting all about our little boy who's going through hell. 'I can't believe his own father can't accept that at some point this would really affect him. I've got to try to do the best for my children.' At the cost of the last of this soldier's disability payout and pension. Using kids for greed. What a heartless bitch
/r/MensRights22/09/15 03:20 AM
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I have no problems with Halle Berry wanting to pay less Child Support. If she was a man, we would be supporting her cause. $16k is an obscene amount per month. My problem is how the media portrayed her ex. Mainly, not surprisingly, Gawker. Because guys only ever want custody due to money. My ex had the same argument. That I only have custody of our kids because I didn't want to pay child support. The reality is that she couldn't handle two autistic-boys and I've never asked for a cent from her i…
/r/MensRights06/09/15 03:21 PM
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Doesn't mean he is protected when asking stupid questions
/r/MensRights06/09/15 08:44 AM
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I am considering many options IS one of them obtaining a lawyer? Because it sounds like you went to the hearing without one and, not surprisingly, got royally fucked over because of it thinking that you could do it on your own. If not, then you need to engage one ASAP. Should be your first and, at this moment, only option
/r/MensRights05/09/15 10:27 AM
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Does this mean my wife needs my permission to get her tubes tied as well? Or is it a case of women chanting their mantra of "My body, my choice... unless you're a man, in which case it's Your Body, but still my fucking choice"?
/r/MensRights05/09/15 10:14 AM
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Because I've been through that battle and I won. You can have all the support in the world but if you refuse to take it and keep a blind eye to it all, it won't help you.
/r/MensRights31/08/15 04:54 PM
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I keep telling him to get an attorney but he's just so depressed he can't see through the trees. If he won't help himself, there's nothing you can do. If he refuses to get help, then he has no right to complain about the situation he's in and it's only going to get worse.
/r/MensRights31/08/15 07:59 AM
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"The only movement men should be making is shutting up about their problems and listening to women’s. After all, that’s what the manosphere has to do if it really wants to return to the way things used to be." Is this fucking serious or is it meant to be sarcasm? If men like this mangina believe that the only way to address mens problems is to not address them at all, then he's a seriously fucking idiot. Men have just as much a right to address their problems, issues & concerns as women do. Mayb…
/r/MensRights28/08/15 07:22 AM
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"Pintur says it “promotes rape culture” and “teaches boys that girls exist purely for their sexual use”." I love it when women make such generalised and incorrect assumptions about males. They talk as if men are collectively stupid and need to be led like sheep by women. A very sexist attitude.
/r/MensRights20/08/15 07:12 AM
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Wow, I'm impressed. Aussie media NEVER addresses female-on-male DV. But in the last few weeks, the news has had articles published and videos shown. About time too. I wasn't allowed to speak up. Nobody believed me or they didn't want to know about it. Hopefully people now have the courage to speak up about it. EDIT: I do want to point out that my male friends laughed at me to begin with when I asked for advice on what to do. I must admit that the most supportive were my female friends. They didn…
/r/MensRights15/08/15 09:47 AM
3

Australia's definition of DV is frighteningly generalised. It is considered DV if a partner is made to feel scared, upset or uncomfortable in any way. Don't like that your wife wears her hair in a bun and you telling her upsets her? Congratulations, you are as bad as a woman beater.
/r/MensRights12/08/15 01:13 PM
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Do you know how easy it is to get an AVO in Australia? My own story has been repeated so many times in this sub, I CBF repeating it, but it is obtained without you ever knowing and is granted on the assumption that the person applying it is correct. You are then not allowed any contact with the kids which is completely unfair because you did nothing wrong. Then you attend your final orders hearing 30 days later and even if you are completely innocent, if the ex continues to play the "abuse" card…
/r/MensRights12/08/15 06:18 AM
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Good. You can't form a single cohesive argument. Keep sticking to your vitriolic women hating because arguing anything coherent is way too hard for you.
/r/MensRights05/08/15 02:15 AM
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To complete the rest of your quoted sentence, which you so conveniently left out : and can include offensive remarks about a person’s sex Which guess what? Still doesn't cover a locked toilet door. Keep trying.
/r/MensRights04/08/15 08:26 PM
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Says the one spreading misinformation.... You can't back up a single argument with a shred of proof. You are pathetic.
/r/MensRights04/08/15 07:58 AM
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Well that's fine for Australia but that's an unusual way to define "sexual harassment". It's very strange and really quite unworkable i would say. Stop being so pedantic. Your argument is based off a falacy on the pretense that your definition of sexual harassment is right when in fact you seem to have no idea what it even means. The US Dept. of State's definition is exactly the same. You have yet to provide any evidence to support your claim nor will you be able to. Your definition does not fit…
/r/MensRights04/08/15 02:14 AM
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Sexual harassment is any unwanted or unwelcome sexual behaviour, which makes a person feel offended, humiliated or intimidated There is no sexual behaviour in locking a female toilet and as a result, no sexual harassment.
/r/MensRights03/08/15 01:24 PM
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I'm sure you can explain how a lock on the womens toilet door is harassing you, a male, in a sexual manner.
/r/MensRights02/08/15 09:37 PM
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It creates a hostile work environment by making the women believe they need the lock. Does it? What if the reason is because of a previous incident that occurred in the female toilets? What you are doing is trying to apply a specific definition to a broad term and it won't stick.
/r/MensRights02/08/15 02:50 AM
0

To be clear, this is going in to their Superannuation, which is the Aussie equivalent of a 401K in America. I don't actually mind this since no contributions are made into it while they are taking maternity leave and other parental-associated leave off. They won't be able to access the money until their late 60's anyway
/r/MensRights01/08/15 11:29 PM
2

Are you being affected or compromised because the women's toilets are keylocked?
/r/MensRights01/08/15 11:26 PM
3

Came here to say this. When I rang the Mens Referral Service asking for help back in 2010, they informed me I could not be helped unless I was an offender of violence and they have no resources available to male victims.
/r/MensRights01/08/15 10:18 AM
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You can make a sexual harassment complaint about this if you like. No you cannot. This is neither sexual harassment nor sexual discrimination. Really scraping the bottom of the barrel there
/r/MensRights01/08/15 10:15 AM
2

I don't quite understand the reason for it. Is this a safety thing? Also, I like how women are complaining that this is sexist because the spots are wider too. Rather than appreciate they get these spots, they continue to find another reason to complain about them.
/r/MensRights01/08/15 10:06 AM
2

Like above, my local council offers free accomondation to men if you beat your partner. Ofcourse, nothing for men that are victims or women that are offenders.
/r/MensRights30/07/15 12:52 AM
2

I dont know about America but in Australia, it was only in the last 20 years where dads were allowed in the room with the birth. In all honesty, I see nothing wrong with it. But the second bubs is born, the father should have every right to be there. I was there for my ex for all my kids but I wasn't much help for her beyond being a hand to squeeze and if she had asked me to not be there, I would not have been offended
/r/MensRights08/07/15 07:32 AM
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Yep
/r/MensRights28/06/15 09:19 AM
9

Its 2 months here in Australia
/r/MensRights28/06/15 09:17 AM
9

THe worst part about that link states: Florida criminal law decrees that "a minor's misrepresentation of his or her age... may not be raised as a defense" in statutory rape prosecution. So the onus is on the guy to ensure that the woman he is fucking is of legal age, despite the fact that the woman in question fraudulently presented herself as such.
/r/MensRights20/06/15 03:48 AM
2

A senator can't be impeached EDIT: Should've read the comments first as it was mentioned already. /u/LockNuts is 100% correct
/r/MensRights20/06/15 02:33 AM
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That's some top class bullshit right there. Why is it "manners" to give up a seat for a woman? Is she pregnant? Old? Injured? With a child? None of those? Then STFU. The entitlement she has is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights19/06/15 09:32 AM
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I don't want to get a lawyer Then your life is over and we cannot help you
/r/MensRights12/06/15 04:32 AM
5

No doubt, but one that won't be remembered beyond the physical aspect of it. At 4 or 5 years old? You remember that shit
/r/MensRights21/05/15 01:19 AM
3

It's just an SRS/AMR with a throwaway. Nothing to see here
/r/MensRights21/05/15 01:03 AM
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The boy is 4 years old now. He's old enough that this can be a traumatic experience for him. If he truly was to be circumsized, why wasn't it done at birth? I'm hoping this isn't an act of spite towards the mum. Just something he is forcing to have done to punish the mum
/r/MensRights20/05/15 11:09 PM
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Of note here is that the guy has been jailed on statements only. No evidence at all. Just a bunch of girls working together to collaborate a false story to punish him. That's all it takes. A lie.
/r/MensRights20/05/15 03:45 AM
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If men would spend more time with their children, they'd probably get more gifts from said children Because out working 12+ hours a day working my ass off for my kids & wife makes me less of a parent than my wife, right? You talk as if I have a choice. That I WANT to work and be away from my kids. That's why I opted for equality, which should be the objective of any men's or women's rights organisation. And yet here you are, bashing men for being away from their kids so they can work....
/r/MensRights11/05/15 05:26 AM
3

That's very narcissistic but very common, it seems
/r/MensRights11/05/15 05:22 AM
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I like that if the dad is primary carer, then he has to fill out a fuckload more forms. Why? What purpose does that serve?
/r/MensRights10/05/15 07:50 AM
1

"I think you're wrong but I don't want to explain why. You just are"
/r/MensRights10/05/15 07:13 AM
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Then please explain, smartass
/r/MensRights10/05/15 12:55 AM
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If you surveyed another 621 people, with that amount of users, you would be guaranteed different results. You just can't use such a tiny sample size as a reliable source for a much, much, MUCH larger community as a representative notion of that group.
/r/MensRights09/05/15 08:07 AM
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The sample size is stupid and renders this survey pointless given the sheer number of people using it. 621 people out of how many? Tens of millions? Such a small sample group is not indicative of the overall view on Tinder
/r/MensRights09/05/15 02:53 AM
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It's a typical mother attitude (Having witness both my ex and my wife do the exact same thing). Avoid confrontation, but then blog or post about it online as if they are a social crusader.
/r/MensRights08/05/15 11:46 PM
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An even more interesting article linked within this one: Melbourne men feel under siege It's true too. I live here in Melbourne. There was an event last night all across town where we remember all the women and children killed due to domestic violence. Not the men, mind you. They don't matter. We have a royal enquiry regarding domestic violence against women and children. Not the men, mind you. They don't matter. The state budget was released last week which sectioned of $52 million to invest in…
/r/MensRights08/05/15 02:43 AM
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FFS... my local shopping centre too. Gotta love how the mum immediately thinks the right course of action is to slander the dude online and have him subjected to being called a pedo. The reality is if she just STOPPED TO ASK what he was doing, none of this would have happened.
/r/MensRights08/05/15 02:41 AM
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The catch is that they dont want just smart men, they want smart men that are also 10/10 in looks, 11/10 in wealth. They set their standards so impossibly high, they then complain they can't find anybody. Well no bloody wonder!
/r/MensRights04/05/15 09:15 AM
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What a load of shit. Degrees aren't awarded, they are earned. On that basis, I am not sure what this article is trying to peddle... As both a teacher and sysadmin, I work in two fields that are both one sided gender wise. More women get degrees in IT than men do in teaching. Where's the push for more male teachers?
/r/MensRights13/04/15 09:47 PM
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as well as signing a release that nobody in the club can be held responsible for any pregnancy I've never seen this before. Signing a waiver at a swingers club doesn't remove you from supporting a child you created willingly or not. Family law and child support supersedes any silly waiver with little, if any, any legal backing
/r/MensRights13/04/15 09:26 PM
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Another article which pretty much gets summed up as "the men should have protected you". Surely there were other women there. We are not responsible for your stupidity.
/r/MensRights13/04/15 09:20 PM
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I'm always having a go at fellow dads for saying "I'm babysitting my kids this weekend". No you fucking are not. My wife works nights, from 4PM until midnight so my whole day is usually 5AM, wake up, walk the dog 6:30AM, wake the kids, dress them for school. Give them brekky. Go to work 6PM, come home from work, pick the kids up from family day care 6PM - 8:30PM, look after the kids, feed and bathe them. Clean house, do laundry 12:30AM, wife comes home My wife actually does nothing after droppin…
/r/MensRights31/03/15 03:19 AM
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My advice? Don't Not going to try and convince you, but it is a really stupid idea. Especially when you have no real experience about the gender struggle. Have you been married? Have you had a custody battle? Have you been victimised as a male? How about descriminated against? Have you been falsely accused of rape or domestic violence? Unless you can answer yes to all of the above questions, don't write a book. The problem is I'm an unemployed 21 year old male recent college graduate. We had a 1…
/r/MensRights30/03/15 05:52 AM
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In another article, it states the girl exposed her genitals in the pictures. The mother has produced and distributed child porn involving her own daughter and not only is she kept OFF the sex offenders list, but she avoids further jail time. I hate the term pussy-pass, but this is exactly what this is. A guy in the exact same situation would be on the list for ever and receive a jail term
/r/MensRights24/03/15 09:11 AM
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Life in prison, where she will be just a number until her final days and forgotten about, is far worse a punishment than the death penalty
/r/MensRights09/03/15 12:33 PM
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Australian here. I pushed my ex away from my dog when I caught her beating it. Only a few days earlier, I found out she had been doing this for months when I was at work. No wonder my dog was terrified of her. After I pushed her on the couch, took my dog and left, she called the cops. I was removed from the house, my kids and my money was locked out. Despite her even telling the cops she was beating the dog and I was defending it, she was let go and I was arrested. Unfortunately, unless I see ac…
/r/MensRights09/03/15 01:13 AM
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It doesn't matter what their stance is. The article itself indicates nothing of the kind.
/r/MensRights03/03/15 09:09 AM
7

And how exactly does this fall under Mens Rights?
/r/MensRights03/03/15 08:48 AM
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Implying that a position of power is required to be able to discriminate? What a load of bullshit. This insults both genders.
/r/MensRights03/03/15 08:46 AM
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While I tend to agree, the law in its current state does not.
/r/MensRights21/02/15 11:06 AM
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She distributes child porn and escapes charge while the guys are convicted? That's bullshit
/r/MensRights21/02/15 08:29 AM
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Traci Lords, in case anybody wants to know more
/r/MensRights18/02/15 05:58 AM
2

Unlike the states, Family law is federally governed. The family law act precludes sperm donors as "parents" and The child support assessment act makes them non assessable for child support. This changes when donation is not done via official and legal means. As I'm on my phone I can't link the specific sections until tomorrow
/r/MensRights09/02/15 12:31 PM
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Judge Derwin Hope said her offences had caused a "terrible emotional experience" to her alledged attacker. VICTIM, ffs! This woman learnt at the age of 13 that she could get away with false allegations when caught so used it consistently as a weapon.
/r/MensRights09/02/15 08:40 AM
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Sensationalist title. Australian sperm donors cannot and never will be sued for child support. Australian state governments have mentioned this time and time again.
/r/MensRights09/02/15 08:35 AM
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She abandoned them and the dad moved to New Zealand. As NZ & Armenia have no CS agreement, this will not happen.
/r/MensRights07/02/15 03:42 AM
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"Heh heh... this will surely get me laid!"
/r/MensRights27/01/15 01:17 PM
2

Can you list 4 Australian males that deserved it? Year after year it's bloody sportsmen winning it doing nothing more than the job they are paid to do.
/r/MensRights25/01/15 02:31 PM
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Posted "just now". How do we know you didnt delete it immediately after? You lend yourself no credibility through that.
/r/MensRights08/01/15 02:50 PM
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Why not?
/r/MensRights18/12/14 02:00 AM
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It's a stupid comparison. Just because they are weaker, doesn't mean their strikes don't hurt.
/r/MensRights15/11/14 12:06 AM
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Julie Bishop and Penny Wong (Of whom I'm a VERY strong supporter of) would make great PM's. Neither hide behind the "gender war" that Gillard laid claim to and in the end, became her undoing.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 12:35 PM
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I like how she called you out and you couldn't further the discussion in any way, at any point. This really was a pointless post
/r/MensRights07/09/14 03:04 AM
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"Partially" being the keyword there.
/r/MensRights01/09/14 03:13 AM
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I'm actually not fussed with this, to be honest. Assuming we are taking everything here at face value, she has made herself out to be a highly competent and valuable worker, using sex appeal as a secondary focus. However, as is typical here, we all focus only on that last part, don't we?
/r/MensRights01/09/14 02:52 AM
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Former childcare worker here. Do it if you really love it. There's not much money in it but it can be one of the most rewarding jobs ever. The kids will love you beyond all measure. I never encountered any issues but I live in Australia where the whole rape-culture isn't so heavily pushed. Parents thought it was awesome I was there as did the daycare! That said, like I mentioned before, only do it if it's a passion and money isn't too problematic. It's the reason why I got out and became a prima…
/r/MensRights27/08/14 08:58 AM
1

"Voluntary" Meaning no obligation. Just keep tossing them away. A bit concerned about your exes daughter though. She could try and claim child support from you for her, especially if she can prove you are a constant fatherly presence in her life and treat her as such
/r/MensRights25/08/14 08:01 AM
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"There are cases where men are the homemakers and aren't able to claim alimony because the law says they are not allowed to but they are far and few in between" Meaning the courts don't give two shits about men caught in gender role reversals
/r/MensRights25/08/14 07:49 AM
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I get none from my kids mum, but she's never worked a day in her life and living in Australia, her welfare benefits are protected, which I agree they should be. One day, I might get money from her to help raise our kids... one day. I'm an optimistic man =)
/r/MensRights17/08/14 02:24 PM
1

This reads like those "How to catch a predator" stings. While entertaining, a lot of them were entrapment. The guys would back out but the undercovers would continue it and encourage the meet-ups and would even initiate chats
/r/MensRights16/08/14 05:46 AM
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So these cards are all about "Equality" yet mention acts of chivalry and men paying for their dates? That's a contradiction and a half right there.
/r/MensRights13/08/14 12:54 PM
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Melbourne teacher here. If I am forced to teach this, I will quit teaching. I am all for equality but I will not shame one gender for the benefit of the other.
/r/MensRights11/08/14 10:13 AM
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Deadbeat parents, they say, leave children in crisis as custodial parents struggle to pay the bills. Because sending men and women to jail when they cannot pay child support is a brilliant idea. Remove their ability to work, while at the same time wasting tax payer money to keep them locked up is a double whammy on the stupidity of the system. EDIT: My favourite quote: In his years hearing child-support cases, retired Passaic County Superior Court Judge Michael Diamond said... the best outcome w…
/r/MensRights28/07/14 01:00 PM
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I agree. While I was completing my teaching degree, I was doing work in child care and in the 5 centres I did work for (I floated), there was one other male.
/r/MensRights26/07/14 12:05 AM
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Umm Yes the threat of false accusations is a primary factor in low numbers of male teachers. I don't deny there is a fear there, but I do not have that fear myself. Just like with most things involving sexual abuse, things have escalated beyond the actual problem itself through fearmongering. This being said, I've never actually taken the time to investigate what procedures are in place should an accusation come up. I might bring that up in a casual manner next week out of curiosity and report b…
/r/MensRights23/07/14 10:16 PM
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Not really mensrights issues, is it? That said, the money these cities spend on enforcing against homelessness could be spent to help these people anyway through training, shelters, etc. But it's always quicker just to get rid of them instead and then market it as a success come election time
/r/MensRights23/07/14 12:02 PM
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Look, in all honesty, I think this is a case of fear-mongering. I'm a school teacher. I teach grade 6 but I also teach middle-years levels too (Up to grade 10). Yes, there aren't many male teachers around but it's not because of the fear of false accusation of sexual abuse of a student. It's because teaching is seen as a job that isn't masculine just like nursing. It's that whole caring aspect that men don't seem to like. Yes, 100 years ago, it was almost exclusively males that were teachers but…
/r/MensRights23/07/14 11:15 AM
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Palmer United member so I very much doubt she will. They don't enter that side of politics. I'm very much a fan of Clive Parker in politics.
/r/MensRights22/07/14 04:07 AM
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"Gimme $5500 or I'm having this baby". She spends $1000 on it and pockets the rest May not be the first guy she's done it to, OP
/r/MensRights22/07/14 04:05 AM
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Wait. She has insurance? Why can't her insurance pay for it? Doesn't want mom or dad to find out...
/r/MensRights22/07/14 04:05 AM
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Lewinsky didn't blow the scandal up And yet here she is, 16 years later, doing just that all over again. I just hope at the very least, she is getting a shit load of money from it because she is opening herself up to opinion all over again.
/r/MensRights03/07/14 09:21 AM
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Lewinsky wasn't "innocent" but she's a fuck of a lot more sympathetic in that situation (as would a male staffer be) than Clinton, and people like stories with sympathetic characters. Really? Let's not forget that Monica Lewinsky admitted what she was like as a person at the time. Admitted to cheating with a married professor When she left to start her internship she told friends that she was "going to DC to get her presidential knee pads" In the lengthy official Ken Starr report, she admitted t…
/r/MensRights03/07/14 09:10 AM
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Were you...old enough to remember that scandal? The media did anything but paint her as a victim, she was lambasted as a slut (in more polite terms, of course). Old enough to remember many scandals. This one included. At any rate, it doesn't matter what you think of Lewinsky - people focus on Clinton because he was the fucking president, acted scummy, lied about it, etc. Exactly. Yet since the years after the scandal, guess who still pops up? The would pretty much moved on from the event but ove…
/r/MensRights03/07/14 08:55 AM
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because it doesn't show very good judgement for a President, especially one that knew full well the entire republican party was looking for any excuse to fill his presidency with scandal. Which has nothing to do with Monica Lewinsky being innocent and helpless in the affair Using your position of power to get laid, when you're already married, is pretty morally reprehensible and the person in the position of power and authority is always more culpable than the person they exploited. Not knowing …
/r/MensRights03/07/14 08:43 AM
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Actually, no. If it's two consenting adults, why would I?
/r/MensRights03/07/14 08:31 AM
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I like how the media continues to vilify the only victim in this article by calling him an "Accused Rapist" in the title, like his innocence is still in question
/r/MensRights30/06/14 09:01 AM
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You are an idiot. You post on different MRA forums looking for support in your misogynistic flame war. Not quite sure what you are expecting. Dont like losing? Stop responding. Simple
/r/MensRights28/06/14 05:18 AM
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I love how you make all these wild assumptions about me because I think this funding is a good idea then call me misogynistic. Way to peddle the MRA stereotype! There is no point in logical discussion with you based on how you respond.
/r/MensRights27/06/14 09:04 PM
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Why do you say that? That's inherently what is called objectification. No it isn't You don't want more women because you found a study that said women are better in IT than men. Nope. Instead you support an agenda that is purely sexist. Wow. No. Sexism implies prejudice. Google is merely trying to encourage more women to consider IT as a career. Where's the prejudice when IT is a mostly male career choice? And you think guys like being considered introverted, anti social nerds? Why on earth are …
/r/MensRights27/06/14 01:50 PM
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See I think women are better then slaves to media. Yet all those girl mags beg to differ There is pretty good research that in egalitarian societies women tend to go into careers that are more social or nurturing I fail to see your argument here. Are you suggesting that women wanting equal rights should not get involved in IT? It doesnt matter what any research tells you, nobody should be typecast into any particular career role End of the day, Google spending $50 mil to get more women into IT i…
/r/MensRights27/06/14 01:10 PM
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I am a teacher and theres a massive boost in funding to promote teaching as a mans job too. And girls dont tend to be interested in CS degrees and the like because they buy into the media's idea that programmers are introverted, anti social nerds. This $50 million would help change that through the use of media promotion, scholarships, etc. I have no problems with this. I spent 11 years working in IT before jumping ship to teaching. I could count on my hands the amount of women I worked with dir…
/r/MensRights27/06/14 12:39 PM
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They arent attacking you for being mentally ill, ONE PERSON is pointing out your rediculous views. EDIT : I just finished reading your posts on there. You're an idiot.
/r/MensRights27/06/14 12:28 PM
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Do you have a problem with this?
/r/MensRights27/06/14 12:22 PM
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Abuse in what way? You only seem to focus on direct expenditures. How do you address indirect expenditure? IE, costs not directly related to the raising of the child, but as important to their living such as bills, utilities, groceries, etc. If you do want receipts, you actually want MORE contact with the ex? What if they left you because you were an abusive prick? It becomes just another form of control. Yet if an agency was in charge, you'll probably find they are filed and never looked at.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 02:46 PM
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The sum total of all the receipts to equal or exceed the amount of child support being provided AND be relevant to supporting the child, it's pretty straightforward. There should be no abuse, no pattern of abuse and there should be penalties for abuse. It'll never happen. At the same time, those that dodge child support should then be forced to provide receipts to show that they cannot afford it. If you are asking custodial parents to open their bank accounts for audit, then the same should be a…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 02:19 PM
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Receipts show money spent, which doesn't answer the question I asked. If I go out to a bar while the kids are with you one weekend, how do I demonstrate to you that I didn't spend the child support money, but instead I spent money I had earned? if I give you a receipt, which bars do NOT give, you'll just say "So my child support money when to your drinks, did it?". Because let's face it, that's exactly what you want, even though it isn't true
/r/MensRights16/06/14 02:02 PM
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While I can't address #1 I can say for #2 that those are fine uses of Child Support, what we're prevent is abuse - so if receipts come in from a bar, for plastic surgery (not for the child), for those events when the kids don't have proper clothes and there's no justifiable reason And how do you differentiate when child support is spent and when other funds are spent?
/r/MensRights16/06/14 01:41 PM
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What I find hilarious is how opponents of this sort of thing are quick to imagine ways holding a parent accountable for child support can be exploited to harass and abuse... and yet see no irony that the reason noncustodial parents demand this sort of equal accountability is to detect and prevent exactly that sort of abuse in addition to protecting the interests of the child. The "Interest of the child" goes in-so-far as to ensure they are clothed, fed, educated and looked after. The accountabil…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 07:15 AM
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I actually have no idea what you are arguing about. You get no child support from your wife and you are asking me if it is fair based on my stance on child support? No, it's formed on the basis of your original argument and that I do not get a choice in what is done here. You argue that the non-custodial parent should not be held accountable for any more than half the costs of raising kids. I then introduced you my own situation whereby my ex pays none, but I presented a hypothetical based on th…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 07:07 AM
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You get to raise the children and that is better than any amount of money. Oh OK, so then this should relieve you of any financial responsibility of them. If only my power company accepted payment in the form of JOY! I would gladly PAY to raise my children instead of being forced to pay to be separated from them. Guess what? I do PAY to raise them. I pay their doctor, their therapist, their teacher, the supermarket, I pay the guy who fills up my car every week so I can drive them to their mum's …
/r/MensRights16/06/14 06:28 AM
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That, if anything, is what child support should be for and then only HALF of that should be the burden of each parent. Chances are that no matter how much child support you pay, the other half is most likely contributing more. Case in point, my ex pays 0. I spend approximately $800 a week in therapy for my two boys with autism and that doesn't factor in any thing else. Even if she was assessed to pay $450 a fortnight, that's only 28% of the cost of the therapy. Factor in other costs of say, $150…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 06:08 AM
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If you're not embezzling the child's support... Please. I'm a proponent for child support in the sense of it going directly or indirectly to the kids only, but to audit exactly where's it's going is stupid. What about men and women that aren't paying enough? Should they too be audited? Further to that, there is no "embezzlement" because no theft has occurred. I know a lot of people get riled up about support, but in my case, where I have 3 kids, 2 are autistic and I'm always on my feet dealing w…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 05:56 AM
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(if that's what you really have) any testimony about how weed is "natural" is going to be completely meaningless for the purposes of custody. OP's wording of weed, his description for it and every thing had me concerned when I typed my lengthy reply above. It suggests to me that he is using it for more than just "helping" his bipolar. Especially when he contradicts himself like this: " Because I smoke marijuana. (A few cones a fortnight with friends or when I start feeling suicidal" Then says: "…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 05:18 AM
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This has so much potential to be abused
/r/MensRights16/06/14 03:44 AM
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Aussie dad with custody here. To start with, you need to cut the weed. No state in Australia permits medical use of it, so any use, good or bad, is illegal and frowned upon by the courts. Depending on how close you two live together, 50/50 care is often considered the norm these days. You will need to engage a mediator through something such as Relationships Australia and together, the mediator, the ex and yourself, work out a parenting plan which can then be filed into a court order. The proble…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 03:29 AM
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Too many people here seem to think that CS should go only to some kind of kids slush fund so that they can be bought an endless supply of clothes and toys. This is wrong. I'm a custodial dad, I don't get child support from my ex because she refuses to work and has since remarried. However, if she was to somehow start paying it, the money would go into things such as bills, groceries, their autism-therapy and other living expenses. "Secondary" costs of raising a child. I already have clothes and …
/r/MensRights16/06/14 02:59 AM
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It should be 50%-50% custody and access by default of law, only to be altered when it's proven a parent is a danger to the children. Or when distance is too far for it to be acceptable. Case in point, my ex, my kids mum, lives on the other side of the city, a 90 minute drive away. She insisted for a long time that we have 50/50 care. I refused because they live with me and go to school in my area. In this case, she is granted as much time as I can give her, in-so-far as their schooling isn't aff…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 02:54 AM
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"Are you calling me a bad mother?!" "No, your views on Autism call you that!"
/r/MensRights16/06/14 02:27 AM
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To be clear here, Jenny McCarthy isn't a single mother in the sense she does it on her own. I believe she has a shared custody arrangement with the ex so the dad is still in the picture, yet she likes to play the "woe-is-me" card and pretend like she's a lonely warrior Every thing Terry Crews says, her son's dad no doubt provides. Great words from a man I enjoy watching on TV!
/r/MensRights16/06/14 02:26 AM
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The Weekend Herald was told that the contact between the boy and the woman began about April last year, when the boy was aged 11. The woman's son took a day off school and encouraged his friend to do likewise, spending the day at his home My guess is that this pedophile has indeed been, at the very least, thinking about her son in an inappropriate way too
/r/MensRights15/06/14 02:05 AM
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It's meant to supplement the lifestyle of custodial parents. I do agree. As well as direct costs towards the child (Clothes, sports, etc), it should also cover indirect costs such as bills, housing, food, etc. But $16k a month? It goes from being understandable to just being selfish. Meanwhile, I don't get a cent from my ex and I spend over $1200 a month in therapy for my two boys with autism that I have custody for
/r/MensRights10/06/14 03:05 AM
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He could not have it altered because it was a negotiated settlement And the fact that the ex still chased up the original amount tells you it goes beyond child support and the money, in that situation, was purely for the ex. Fortunately, that is not often the case
/r/MensRights10/06/14 02:16 AM
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From the article: The couple share equal custody of their daughter, according to court documents. This, combined with the fact that the dad seems like a decent model, makes me wonder if such a large sum is necessary. Why does a child need so much money?
/r/MensRights10/06/14 02:15 AM
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I'm a primary school teacher in Australia. Interesting that even though it appears so many female teachers have sex with students, people seem to be more fearful of male teachers
/r/MensRights06/06/14 03:56 AM
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This is the third article in 3 days I've seen of female teachers having sex with students. How many have I seen of male teachers having sex with students in the same time? 0. There seems to be a sharp rise in female teacher's having sex with students lately.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 11:35 PM
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I wonder if they just continued the bail when she was charged for raping another minor? "Morsi was later arrested again over the second affair, cops said. The details were not released.*" I suspect not
/r/MensRights04/06/14 11:52 PM
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Dafuq did I just read? That's some stupid redpill shit, none of which I agree with.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 09:22 AM
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Because it is shit. Literally.
/r/MensRights01/06/14 10:27 AM
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I love this story. I worked in IT for a decade because I was afraid to follow my dreams and teach. After seperating from my ex and receiving custody of my kids, I decided I had enough and started work in child care. The only male in the centre, I was always immediately swarmed. I didn't get any bad looks from parents. They all loved having me and I loved working there. Unfortunately while I loved the work, the kids and the parents, it just didn't feel like what I wanted to do so I went to uni to…
/r/MensRights01/06/14 03:26 AM
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He was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome but refused the medication. What medication do people with Asperger's Syndrome, now identified as High-Functioning Austism, take? Both my boys have the same diagnosis, neither are medicated nor have they been suggested it. The only medication I can think of is Ritalin where one is also hyperactive or violent, of which most with this diagnose are not My point is autism is not to blame here.
/r/MensRights29/05/14 10:46 AM
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Male primary school teacher here. The first things we're taught at uni and in our inductions at school are: Do not touch a child Do not be in a room a lone with a child Do not place yourself in a position that can be construed as inappropriate Do not hug a child Do not hold their hand Stay in full view of other teachers when on yard duty Interestingly, female teachers aren't often subjected to these rules, if at all which is pretty unfair. I love kids. It's why I became a teacher. But when a stu…
/r/MensRights13/05/14 12:06 AM
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When the condoms are being punctured, "ficción publicitaria. No lo intentes en casa" appears at the bottom of the screen. This reads as "Fictional advertising". Do not try this at home" Take from that what you will, but I do not believe this ad to deliberately incite sperm-jacking
/r/MensRights04/05/14 05:00 AM
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A few write back saying it is technically possible for a male to be sexually abused but the number must be so small that they don't matter. Dafuq? That's like saying any crime with a small victim rate doesn't matter. Have you got a copy of any of those letters at all?
/r/MensRights24/04/14 04:39 AM
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There was a guy next to the woman clapping too, just to top it off
/r/MensRights24/04/14 04:37 AM
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The thing is that I have the boy the majority of the time, even though she's the "custodial" parent. Ok, so you take the matter to court with evidence of you being primary carer, and you fight for custody. You then also petition to allow your son and yourself to move away for job reasons, but if your son is already settled with school, friends and family, then you will have a tough time arguing it, and you can't force the ex to move if you fail to win custody. Moving to an every-other weekend si…
/r/MensRights10/02/14 01:17 AM
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The term selfish would be adopted if you thought you could continue the same custody agreement while in a different city. My apologies if my wording sounded like it was otherwise. It all depends on how far away you move. If you're just in the next city over, then you could stil be seeing your son every second weekend. If you move to the other side of the country, then long weekends and school holidays does in fact sound most ideal. Again, how far away you move is the key decider here
/r/MensRights10/02/14 12:51 AM
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The title of this thread insinuates that there is some infamy to the OP here? Or am I missing something?
/r/MensRights10/02/14 12:41 AM
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It's quite simple. As a non-custodial parent, you cannot force your ex and your son to move. As for keeping the same arrangements, do you really want your son on the road for hours on end several times a week or in airports for hours every week or second week? Because to me, that's being selfish You need work, I understand that, but do not burden your son for your convenience. Understand that the move will come with it the change in custody agreement. This is your burden to accept in order to go…
/r/MensRights10/02/14 12:34 AM
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No. Im saying you should pay for all of the child support if you have all of the custody, and the other parent may voluntarily support you. Which, after a horrible and messy divorce, is incredibly hard to have happen Also, deadbeat may not necessarily be an insult, the word is used too much and is basically tautology for "parent who has been denied/doesnt have custody". A deadbeat is defined as somebody whom does not financially support their child. Link Fact of the matter is, you have a child, …
/r/MensRights21/12/13 05:14 AM
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SO you're saying that instead of chasing up someone for child support, because the non-custodial parent is being a deadbeat, that they should really be giving up their child for adoption instead? Am I understanding that correctly? EDIT: Argh, so I'm arguing parental-logic with a 17yo. No wonder you have the views that you do. You have zilch-experience of the matter. I'll end it at that then
/r/MensRights21/12/13 05:02 AM
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Its incredibly selfish for a parent with custody to force the parent without it to pay anything You chose to have a child and chose to accept the financial responsibilities when you and the other parent were together and now that you two aren't, you want to financially disengage all medical, educational and living costs from yourself because you don't have custody. This comes down to "How to get back at the ex" as opposed to "What's best for the kids". My ex pulls that card all the time too.
/r/MensRights21/12/13 03:48 AM
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I disagree. You should be liable for child support all the time. They are your kids, and if the custodial-parent still has to remain home to look after them, then this is moreso. I am a custodial-father who's ex, their mother, never pays a cent in child support and when I'm paying hundreds in therapy costs every month out of my own pocket, every little bit goes a long way. The misconception that mandatory child support is unfair comes from the seemingly uneducated understanding that the child su…
/r/MensRights21/12/13 03:28 AM
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I find the whole American-style "Can't-pay-child-support-go-to-jail" threat and punishment to be absolutely barbaric and stupid. I live in Australia. If you don't work, you don't pay child support. You do not run into arrears, it stops when you are unemployed and just recommences when you find work Sending someone to jail because they do not work and thus, cannot pay child support is beyond stupid, IMO. It's counter-productive. If you don't pay it, you become liable to the decision of your ex. T…
/r/MensRights20/12/13 12:06 AM
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Of course she will be the primary influence, and no doubt when they want to start seeking you out, she'll play the victim. And if/when they do find you, she'll start throwing the whole "If you go to him, you don't love me" or "Why do you need to speak to him? Don't you know that I love you?!?". The whole narcissistic bullshit. This'll only further cement them coming to you for answers and at that point, you need to be willing to give them, albeit not in a way that is laced with poison. Give them…
/r/MensRights08/12/13 01:16 AM
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YOU didn't have to attend court any further. You could have continued to fight the battle with your attorney present. I have been in the exact same position as you. I fought for my kids when they were hidden from me and I won. I persisted. They live with me now I can understand you walking away from them now to spare every one the pain of a continued lengthy battle, but the fact that you will continue to deny your kids even when they are old enough to seek you out? Especially because at that poi…
/r/MensRights08/12/13 12:10 AM
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That's awesome. I wouldn't even bother engaging a lawyer, personally. You have the text. Don't even pay attention to her. Do not see her, do not speak to her. If the police rock up at your door, show them the message she sent. Make sure it clearly displays her name and number. You're well protected from her stupidity because of that text =)
/r/MensRights21/11/13 03:54 AM
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How was this blackmail transmitted? Via email/text/FB? If so, you have your protection right there. Make sure you have friends around whenever she talks to you. She is clearly ready to extort you so back yourself up there
/r/MensRights21/11/13 01:13 AM
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Fuck you dude, making me cry. Those photos are heartbreaking
/r/MensRights21/11/13 01:11 AM
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Patience. If his mother is that much of a douchebag, he'll figure it out. Not only that, but mums like this tend to give up naturally anyway. Mine ended up giving up custody of the kids so she could move in with her boyfriend of 3 weeks. Apparently, moving into a a room with your boyfriend is more important than having your kids. Didn't bother me as I am the one that tucks my kids in at night and have done so for a long time.
/r/MensRights21/11/13 01:03 AM
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Exactly. OP even offered more money to be ruthless and he's still doing jack shit. Family lawyers are known for being nasty, so if this lawyer isn't doing his/her job properly by being a lazy sack of shit, then find someone else who'll want your money!
/r/MensRights21/11/13 01:01 AM
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As one teacher to another, this is a serious breech. Does your school employ a psychologist? Can you call the education department and have them send one? Usually, in my school, they see the school psychologist before being referred to an independent one too
/r/MensRights21/11/13 12:48 AM
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The fuck? Are you victim blaming here? What the student did is illegal. I'm all for Mens Rights but when a 13yo boy whips out his dick and flashes a teacher, some one you'll still need to continue teaching, that is fucked up. Even as a male teacher, that would piss me off.
/r/MensRights21/11/13 12:47 AM
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Also. depending on the state, Alimony isn't considered as taxable and therefore cannot be used as a basis to pay child support.
/r/MensRights17/11/13 11:24 PM
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"Sadly just seven days out from White Ribbon Week, today's incident also highlights the dangers associated with domestic violence and police urge anyone who feels unsafe in their home situation to seek help,'' Mr McKay said. The fuck? Promoting White Ribbon Week, a campaign against violence on women (Stated explicitly on their website), in such a way makes it sound like the woman was an innocent victim in all this. That's some fucked up bullshit right there. EDIT: This has infuriated me so pleas…
/r/MensRights17/11/13 11:03 PM
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not going to lie, both OP's joke and this one made me laugh. I feel bad
/r/MensRights17/11/13 12:36 PM
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OP's ex faces up to five years but that is a maximum sentence and very rarely, if ever, handed out. Most likely, he will receive a fine and community service. This will then make way for a civil suit which the OP of that thread will follow up That said, with all the hysteria of sexing these days, it wouldn't surprise me if someone is given a harsh sentence to set a precedent in the hopes of curbing "revenge" porn. I have no pity for these people to be honest. The OP did what she needed to do and…
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:26 AM
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I like the double standards Mutilate a penis and it's "culture" that's OK because it's been done since ancient times Mutilate a vagina and it's the devils work because it's cruel and barbaric. News flash. Any gender's genital mutilation is cruel and barbaric. Why are people only up in arms about one of them?
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:23 AM
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None of what you said is true. Population growth strains the ecosystem and youth marriage is NOT essential for survival, especially when the median marriage age now is bordering 30
/r/MensRights12/11/13 08:58 PM
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Where does the article say that the guy is arrested for DV? As far as I can tell, he's in court because of the following: John Grant was charged with possession of an electric weapon, and could face a fine of $10,000 and up to six years in prison if convicted. While it continues to say the wife didn't think he'd follow through with it, it looks like any claim of DV was dismissed upon evidence of the bet
/r/MensRights10/11/13 10:51 PM
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You really misquoted there. So badly that I am going to assume it was on purpose. Let's correct that. You said: they highlight the fact that an educated girl is 6 times less likely to get married The website says: Be 6x less likely to be married as children. This means that they become educated enough to understand how to avoid child-weddings. You also said: and have kids as one of the top reasons for this campaign What the website says is: Have 2.2 fewer yet healthier children. They understand …
/r/MensRights10/11/13 10:48 PM
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Sammy and Benji are two vulnerable little boys who have a right to their mother in their lives. And yet if she won custody, she would not have the same opinion towards their father and buggered off back to the UK
/r/MensRights08/11/13 07:36 AM
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Australia too. When you change jobs or no longer work, you can get that fixed within a week or two (You pay nothing if you don't work, but a token amount is taken away if you are on welfare). It's a fair system. EDIT: Also, no alimony is paid in Australia too
/r/MensRights14/10/13 12:22 AM
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Primary School teacher here. NYT have actualy written about shortages of men in primary schools before and I remember referencing them quite a bit in one of my essays.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 01:43 AM
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A dummy/pacifier works too.
/r/MensRights01/10/13 10:53 AM
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Can I get the details? I'll follow it up with my uni tomorrow.
/r/MensRights01/10/13 10:52 AM
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I often notice how long they will persist the lie, sending the man to jail for many years. I could understand that in the heat of the moment, they say something as revenge, and then regret it later. But to lie all through a court case and be responsible for wasting that mans life and continue that deception with no apparent guilt, shows a deliberate intent and coldness. There would be a point most regret it but fear the ramifications of recanting so they just buckle up and keep going on that rid…
/r/MensRights30/09/13 01:10 PM
1

Because a world history professor is aware of the facts behind Patriarchy but still blames women for it, which is false. I do not believe such a historian actually exists
/r/MensRights26/09/13 08:29 AM
1

This is irrelevant. You're missing the point... This isn't a history debate. You've made up an event that occurred and in doing so, tarnish what this group is about.
/r/MensRights25/09/13 10:50 AM
3

The woman hitting Karl Stefanovic clearly meant it as an accident. It is not a mens rights issue. It is a clear misjudgement of strength and reach, not a case of misandry.
/r/MensRights25/09/13 02:44 AM
2

it happens over time with gradual complacency or all at once through force. Exactly. Patriarchy was dominant through most Western ancient empires. Greece, Rome, etc. Interestingly, in places where women were equals and Patriarchy didn't exist such as Ancient Egypt and Ireland, once empires such as Rome took over they enforced their ways on them. Women at the time could only accept it. There were no legal rights mandated to them regarding this, if they rose up, there would be no qualms about slay…
/r/MensRights25/09/13 02:41 AM
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Interesting. I major in history and in the uni I went to, the role of patriarchy in society was a major discussion point throughout the units. So I'm going to call this one out because I don't believe a world history professor would educate about Patriarchy only to then turn around and say that women are responsible for being oppressed when history itself dictates that they didn't "choose" for it to happen.
/r/MensRights25/09/13 02:24 AM
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It looked like a genuine mistake. I've hit people by accident when I've demonstrated Taekwondo technique in class to students. She obviously misjudged how much power to use. What annoys me is the first paragraph in the news article.
/r/MensRights25/09/13 02:20 AM
1

She went to the beach and there was a large man taking photos, mostly of women in bikinis including her How would she know this? Why did nobody contact the police/lifeguards if there was a legitimate concern? When asked why she didn't ask him to delete the photos of her, she said she didn't because she felt scared due to her being small and he being a large cis male. I play basketball and the local newspaper always takes photos of my team. Parents take photos of their kids team that I coach and …
/r/MensRights23/09/13 08:32 AM
2

Why are you giving your ex access to your bank accounts when her dad is the 1%? You think you are doing the right thing but its quicker to clear out your bank account after an argument (With a card you voluntarily gave her!) than it is to cancel her access. As mentioned, cut that out The main concern is that your daughter is 20 months old and most states love to adopt (Though they don't like to claim they still do) the Tender Years Doctrine. Your little girl is too young for 50/50 care on your d…
/r/MensRights18/09/13 09:59 AM
2

Are you implying there is such thing as a productive hate group?
/r/MensRights17/09/13 04:55 AM
2

Primary school means I teach everything :-P But I have a major in History so when I decide to move on to high schools, I'll be a history teacher :-)
/r/MensRights17/09/13 01:36 AM
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Do a post-grad degree. It'll take another year full time but its worth it! :-)
/r/MensRights16/09/13 10:00 PM
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Don't get me wrong, this isn't a "woman hating" thread. The female teachers are absolutely fine and being only a new teacher, they are being nothing short of amazing in easing me in, and I have fond memories of my own female teachers. But male teachers always seem that bit more special. I had 1 male teacher in primary school and I loved him. Everybody did. There was just a different kind of connection. My students love having me as their teacher and when I did parent-teacher conferences last mon…
/r/MensRights16/09/13 01:53 PM
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I actually was a child care assistant between quitting IT and going back to uni. I loved it. I only quit because none here offer part time work that fit in with my uni studies, otherwise I would have kept it up as a job in between having my nose in the books. I didn't have any issues with that, thank god, school has caused more than enough problems for me so far! Did you end up going back into daycare?
/r/MensRights16/09/13 01:49 PM
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The order was issued to her after today's incident. She does it again, she will be in breach.
/r/MensRights16/09/13 01:45 PM
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I'll keep such a resounding obscenity in my head. In front of students and in ear-shot of teachers, that probably isn't the greatest idea =P
/r/MensRights16/09/13 12:22 PM
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She got her one warning previously. Like I stated after her little spat with me, cops were called and she was issued a No Trespass Order which is a school's version of a restraining order.
/r/MensRights16/09/13 12:13 PM
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Aussie male here. I don't believe that male babysitting is a problem here. I've done it many times, paid and unpaid. I love it and I don't think I've ever been judged for it.
/r/MensRights10/09/13 08:52 AM
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You would be unsuccessful in any kind of debate with a 16yo. Regardless of how incorrect they are, and the measure of fact you use in it
/r/MensRights05/09/13 11:35 PM
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Keeping in mind I'm a primary school teacher, so I'm not all that in tune to how I'd react in a secondary setting. That said, as a male teacher, if presented with this argument amongst my students, and if the context was right, I would explain the definition rape and regardless of biologicial differences between the two genders, there are various forms of rape committed on men. Where women can say no when sex has already commenced, and it be considered rape, men can do the same. An erection just…
/r/MensRights05/09/13 11:27 AM
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Definetely. I am a teacher because I am a pedo and have no desire whatsoever to further the creative minds of our future. I only wish to have sex with them /s I have already faced such a claim from a parent that wasn't happy to be told that their student was acting up. No doubt I will be expecting more
/r/MensRights05/09/13 10:01 AM
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Male teacher here. Can confirm. Every one watches us like a hawk
/r/MensRights05/09/13 09:06 AM
2

Usually your dick is out already
/r/MensRights24/08/13 08:12 AM
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I love how her lawyer tells the judge, essentially "They are 15 so it should be OK" and again "It wasn't a one-way street. They replied back so why is she being punished?"
/r/MensRights13/08/13 10:30 AM
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the signed affidavit says he went upstairs to get his gun following a verbal arguement, when he confronted her, she had a knife. he disarmed her,at which point she punched him, then he shot her. Im sorry but if this is true, she was only protecting herself and I have no remorse for the guy
/r/MensRights09/08/13 07:45 PM
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Is it self defence based on a claim? Or evidence?
/r/MensRights09/08/13 09:27 AM
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That's just fucked up. How do the courts expect you to pay child support if you are in prison? Why do mums get the power to decide that? It's counter-productive, especially if you've been fired in this economy
/r/MensRights07/08/13 04:56 PM
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I would love to know what percentage of non-paying fathers go to prison where there excuse is genuine unemployment or illness. I would imagine it is very low. Running overseas gives the ex more fodder to use against you both to the courts and to your kids. EDIT: So I did research and it seems that states like NY do send people to jail routinely for up to 6 months at a time for non-payment of child support even if the reasons are genuine. Fuck that shit. Glad I live in Australia. If you are unemp…
/r/MensRights07/08/13 04:27 PM
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I work closely with family courts. Mother's lose custody/pay child support as well. Lose custody, yes, pay child support? Well despite court orders, I've never seen a cent. Courts won't enforce it and I survive on my own. If I was doing what my ex was, I'd be in jail by now. Judges don't like to arrest or punish mothers, custodial or not. Good ol' Tender Years Doctrine.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 03:12 PM
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That's right, because moving away from your daughter is really the best option, isn't it? /s
/r/MensRights07/08/13 03:02 PM
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The response in question was in regard to my abuse at the time it was occuring, not to the chat. I informed them of my abuse. I asked at the time why were previous incidents I queried never reported. I was told that they did not make reports of all incidents, only those deemed necessary. Yet this live chat indicates the opposite. They then told me to call a hotline yet when I called, they informed me that while they sympathise with my abuse, they were unable to help me, and referred me to a plac…
/r/MensRights07/08/13 04:54 AM
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That wasn't my question. Though it received the answer I would have expected mine to receive anyway As for following it up, I will do so when I am not as enraged so I can think more clearly. I refuse to let this matter go away
/r/MensRights07/08/13 04:50 AM
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How much of a split custody are you asking for? In all honesty, at 8 months, you need to be prepared to understand that you won't get much. If your beautiful daughter's mum is breastfeeding, you will not get any overnights. If she is bottle fed, you may still not get any. Instead, you will get frequent, court-mandated, day visits. Expect them to be supervised. Are you on the birth certificate? How about the split? Was there any abuse? Or claims of abuse? If you are on the birth certificate, you …
/r/MensRights06/08/13 09:41 AM
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You dont need proof for a temporary order. Its just hearsay. My ex took 3 out on me during our battle. She never showed up for final orders because she had nothing to present evidence which didnt exist
/r/MensRights04/08/13 02:58 AM
2

Was she drunk, OP?
/r/MensRights03/08/13 11:26 PM
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"Mum, why can't we see daddy?" "The judge thinks your dad's dangerous, honey. They gave him a piece of paper that said he wasn't allowed to see us" Mum diverts the blame from her to the legal system, even though she initiated it, kids are alienated and believe that if someone else says their dad is bad, then it must be so thus the brainwashing begins.
/r/MensRights03/08/13 04:27 PM
1

Simple really... MRA's are egalitarian. Feminists are not.
/r/MensRights03/08/13 02:41 PM
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Yep, standard procedures of a divorcing mum. When I split from my ex, my lawyer advised me to expect abuse claims in front of the judge and falsified AVO's (Restraining orders in Australia). She was right. This is no different. She doesn't actually have to prove anything happened. Judges err on the side of caution thinking that "nothing probably happened but I don't want to be the one to blame if something actually does". By doing so, she will also use this in the custody battle to extort little…
/r/MensRights03/08/13 02:39 PM
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By the look of the picture, they are paid to think, not to drink
/r/MensRights31/07/13 01:05 AM
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I look forward to when he reflects on this post when such a girl leaves him and prevents him from seeing his child
/r/MensRights30/07/13 01:48 PM
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That is one hell of a harsh sentence. I definetely would imagine a few years but LIFE? Cmon, that's insane. Then a $10k fine as well? How stupid. I can understand feminists having a field day with this and rightfully so. I mean, justice is served here but way too harshly, IMO. Even the judge believed so.
/r/MensRights17/07/13 11:53 PM
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1 in 4 women raped? I remember that article. I think it counted those who had sex and later regretted it as rape thus the high percentage
/r/MensRights14/07/13 05:07 PM
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As a primary school teacher that is seperated with custody, this is very relevant to me, thanks. It scares me that a false claim from a student could see my life ruined, my kids taken away and the whole world against me. Absolutely terrifying.
/r/MensRights12/07/13 07:12 PM
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Shauna Hadden has a Facebook page called "Trapped in Brazil" that she is updating as she waits for the case to be resolved. Quite simple, really. Let dad see her daughter. Is it really that hard?!?
/r/MensRights07/07/13 02:02 PM
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That's the thing that made me post here. The unfairness in it all. I pushed my ex to protect my dog AND myself, yet even when she admitted why I did it to the police, combined with the evidence I had to show her continual abuse, they did not punish her at all even though animal cruelty is a crime that leads to jail time here. The police did not follow it up nor was it ever an issue of concern
/r/MensRights07/07/13 04:40 AM
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I live in Australia. Cops are armed here
/r/MensRights06/07/13 02:57 PM
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Just curious, why did you plead guilty to anything? Why would it have been worse to maintain your innocence? Because I was an idiot. The magistrate that was neutral in the custody battle at the time even said it. I should have gone to court and this wouldn't be an issue. However at the time, for some reason, I found the whole "Plead guilty for a diversion order" to be quick and easy. It was, but I have regretted that mistake as it would have given me a chance in court to make the ex out as the m…
/r/MensRights06/07/13 03:49 AM
1

This article butchers the truth. Let's assume that at the time of the mans arrest, his earning potential was $48,000, he then missed out on $1.15 million yet his payout was $6 million? That would equate to a missed earning potential of $250,000 a year. The wife raised their son by herself, no doubt doing it very hard with an ex in prison, she could not claim child support. Of that $6 million, and knowing the actual events, I would have expected her to get at least a million, at least! $150,000 j…
/r/MensRights28/06/13 07:24 AM
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I know she meant well No she didn't. She wasn't doing it to look out for you, she was spiteful that she lost custody. Then looked for any excuse to throw back at your dad.
/r/MensRights28/06/13 07:15 AM
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As a single dad with custody, I love the looks I get when I have to take my kids to the parents room in a shopping centre. My kids need to pee or I have to change a nappy or soiled clothes. Fuck me, right? I'm not a pedo. I don't care that you are breastfeeding, I have just as much of a right to be there as all the mums. But I can't begin to tell you the many times I've had a security guard come in and ask me to leave. When I've asked where can I change them? It's always "The male toilets". Beca…
/r/MensRights28/06/13 07:10 AM
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I've already had to yell at my mother to back off... 24 years old, she's trying to start playing Mommy/Daddy games for the first time She might have something to hide, and your father might finally be willing to go against her and try and get back into your life. Or she might not and feels insulted that she spent the time raising you most of your life, possibly without any financial assistance from your dad, and she's pissed that he now decides to get involved. It's pretty insulting to her when …
/r/MensRights24/06/13 02:10 AM
2

Look at women's shelters that do not let trans-women stay there. That is such bullshit (The rule, not the claim) Trans-gender women, assuming post-op, ARE women by legal right. Why should they not be afforded the same rights as those born biologically female?
/r/MensRights21/06/13 09:06 AM
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Pretty much what I'm asking is: what is the probability I can get more than 50% custody? What things can I do to show the court that I'm am the better parent for my child to live with? AFAIK, being active-military, you have to sign over legal custody of your child, do you not?
/r/MensRights17/06/13 12:55 AM
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As a teacher, I can assure you that any change of the curriculum puts you in trouble. It's not something that can be done easily, which sucks
/r/MensRights15/06/13 08:22 AM
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She's pretty much saying that come our time to vote in September, "A vote for Tony Abbott is a vote for misogyny". She is one of the worst PM's to come into power, which is a shame because I was so hopeful for her, and is now turning to emasculation and bullying tactics to try and retain power rather than political thought and commitment. Unfortunately I will vote for her because compared to Abbott, she is indeed the lesser of two evils.
/r/MensRights12/06/13 02:16 AM
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Femimism lol
/r/MensRights11/06/13 02:51 AM
2

I have so many nude pics of my kids when they were babies & toddlers that I would be considered a high-level child porn offender, according to this article. Unfortunately, when prosecution is given a case such as this, with vague evidence provided by the cops, they can't dismiss the case unless they want their win-loss record affected and ALOT of prosecutors don't like that touched. So what do they do? They follow through with the case anyway. If they are going down, they decide to go down hard …
/r/MensRights11/06/13 02:34 AM
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Is she really saying that her husband, the boys step-dad has custody of him too? She was even willing to file assault charges against her own son to try and get him out of the car? How the hell does that work? Good Guy Cops. Recognize the rights of the boy And the mum? What an idiot. It's not like she's losing her son. I can understand why she's upset, but the boy's decision should be respected at that age. She just doesn't appreciate losing control over him
/r/MensRights10/06/13 01:19 AM
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Seen at one of those general housekeeping stores. Objectification of men or women is wrong. I'm pretty liberal when it comes to a good joke but when is it OK to mock men for money yet if a sign says "I married my wife for her body, and I left because of it" was made, everyone would be up in arms. For the record, the ONLY signs about women were talking about how great they were. I wouldn't be half as pissed, or at all even, if there were others mocking wives at the same time. Equality and all tha…
/r/MensRights08/06/13 10:52 AM
1

Should there be a muslim room? They exist. They are just labelled "prayer rooms"
/r/MensRights29/05/13 04:36 AM
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Most uni's where I am (Australia) have womens areas. They aren't really "Social" rooms but places you can go to for confidential advice, DV, etc. I tried to petition my university for a mens room but was denied twice in 2 years and gave up. I don't see a problem with a womens space, it's perfectly fine and I'm 100% in support of it. Women do encounter many social issues and do need that support and a place to turn to. That said, I would like to see a mens space where they can turn to for their o…
/r/MensRights29/05/13 04:34 AM
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I don't. We are MRA's, we're not out for blood here. The police were on the guy's side and arrested the criminal. She doesn't need to die, she doesn't need to rot. Hopefully she's learnt her lesson... Hopefully...
/r/MensRights21/05/13 11:35 PM
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Sounds like the girl thought that: A) She was under 18, and thus under the age of consent and; B) The guy was naive and would think he did something illegal Of course the happy ending here is that she was wrong on both counts and HOPEFULLY being caught this young means that she learns her lesson, knows it doesn't work and grows up to be a productive member of society. There are many examples of these things happening where girls use such an extortion as a constant weapon for their own gain. Glad…
/r/MensRights21/05/13 11:33 PM
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Age of consent is set by the state, it is not a federal law. In Victoria, it is 16, in Tasmania it is 17
/r/MensRights21/05/13 09:12 AM
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Then falsely claimed DV once she got sick of it
/r/MensRights01/05/13 10:26 AM
1

Well I live in Australia and I just go to any supermarkets medical section and it costs me a few bucks. Hopefully its the same where you are :-)
/r/MensRights12/04/13 09:53 PM
1

Free speech includes "I have a right to falsely accuse you of rape"?
/r/MensRights12/04/13 10:52 AM
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Tea Tree Oil smells really nice. It's a lice-preventative. You dilute it in water and spray it into the hair when combing and yep, it does help detangle hair too so it's a 2-in-1 =) I've gotten into the habit of just using it every day when I comb my kids hair before school, even when there isn't an outbreak at daycare or school.
/r/MensRights12/04/13 02:38 AM
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No. Lice are not uncommon among kids. CPS wouldn't be involved unless someone brought it up. School teachers wouldn't because it ISN'T a direct sign of neglect. Hell my kids got them all the time until I started brushing their hair with Tea Tree Oil. It was just that common in their school. Unfortunately the only thing I can really recommend is consult a lawyer. You have to. It's the only way Contempt charges can be brought to the courts attention. All the best OP. I went there with my ex and no…
/r/MensRights10/04/13 10:36 AM
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/r/legal ironically =P
/r/MensRights10/04/13 10:35 AM
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What proof do you have that the guy is a pedo? You need to be very careful with such accusations. They get you into more trouble than it's worth unless you have certain proof. Despite that, never give up on your kids. Keep fighting to show them that you care and love them. They will eventually make the right decisions themselves
/r/MensRights23/03/13 11:41 AM
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men's penis size is discussed in a some what classy way Well now, the author of the video and I certainly have different definitions on the word "classy"
/r/MensRights13/02/13 02:12 PM
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/r/mensrights[2] outright hates feminism I can't speak for others here but I absolutely 100% agree with feminism where it concerns equality. That said, most that identify as feminists these days go way beyond that and instead look at attacking males, identifying every guy as a rapist with privilege That is not feminism. That is what I hate
/r/MensRights13/02/13 02:05 PM
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It warmed my heart to see Dad's getting recognition with razing children. razing http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/raze to destroy to the ground : demolish <raze an old building> Sorry, couldn't resist. It's always good when dads AREN'T portrayed as bumbling idiots with no idea on how to raise their own children. We aren't a freakin' comedy act
/r/MensRights09/02/13 09:44 AM
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"Women [sexual abusers] are much more likely to be mentally ill, much more likely to to have something going on in their lives," Wilson added. Oh OK. So let's give them a free pass for breaking the innocence of their children. Blame it on everything BUT the mum being a monster. Because that's what a guy is when they do the exact same thing for the exact same reason, right? They are. Men are monsters who do this shit. But let's not beat around the bush. SO are women. DON'T. FUCKING. JUSTIFY IT!
/r/MensRights08/02/13 12:01 PM
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Well done on that! It's always awesome to do something like that. Feels, great, doesn't it? =) Remember, you live in a society where the male is considered the "bumbling idiot", which is far from the truth. Us men are just as capable of raising our kids as mums are. I have done it all by myself for years now and I am always being told our smart and polite my kids are. It also pisses me off when mums and dads refer to times when dad looks after the kids as "Oh I/he is am/is babysitting the kids t…
/r/MensRights07/02/13 01:08 AM
13

Yes but WHEN did he know his wife was cheating? Before or after the birth of their kids? I suspect after. No reason to put up with that shit before kids, but after it, you do everything you can to keep the family unit together. Don't blame the dad. Victim blaming is stupid here. HIS WIFE LIED TO HIM FOR 16 YEARS
/r/MensRights07/02/13 12:24 AM
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Absolutely LOVE that first screenshot. Bloody brilliant, IMO. Especially for dads like me, single dads with full custody. I cook, clean and care for my kids since they were 2 & 4.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 10:56 PM
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And just like that I don't want to move to Canada anymore. Poor guy for being fooled by his wife for being lied for 16 years, and poor kids for having their world torn apart. Not only that but being so far along, I doubt the mum would know whom her daughters dads are anymore either, forever creating an empty space in the girls minds. What an idiot And fuck the Canadian legal system for coming up with such a stupid-ass law.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 10:48 PM
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The article the author references is here. Some awesome quotes: "... It’s been so freaking long since I have had cock inside me... I think it must be over two weeks now." And my favourite: "Every girl should have a few fuck buddies on speed dial." YAY! Let's objectify men! Sure, it's fine and dandy but if a guy says the exact same thing, the feminists jump on him for treating girls like objects I LOVE the imbalance here
/r/MensRights06/02/13 08:16 AM
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check my privilege Ahh yes, the classic neo-feminist line. Followed by: "Men can't be raped" "Men are scum" "Men deserve it" (Abuse) "Men must pay for dates to show they want me" Heard it all. These idiots aren't about EQUALITY. They are more along the lines of "It's a female's world now. Men have had it for too long". I can assure you that unless her attitude changes, where she accepts equality and drops the elitist "privilege" attitude, you guys are going to be at each others necks. Not worth …
/r/MensRights05/02/13 12:55 PM
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The majority AREN'T feminists though, just like most men aren't MRA. Feminism as it was intended, ended years ago. What we are seeing these days goes beyond that. It's no longer bra-burning to protest against oppression. Equal rights have now been refined and established. I like to refer to feminism today as neo-feminism. It's a new wave. It's no longer about equal rights, but insteads serves to punish for all the centuries of supposed "male privileged". They want leniency where males do not hav…
/r/MensRights05/02/13 05:17 AM
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You say this like the feminazi's are a majority. They are not. Infact most women do share the belief in complete equality. However the minority that do speak up and demand rights beyond equality are the ones that get noticed because hey, it isn't the status quo. That only changes when they become jaded
/r/MensRights05/02/13 04:34 AM
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Thanks for this. Not as practical as I hoped in creating one but it is great advice on how to get it off the ground. Got it printed out for when I've hit that point =)
/r/MensRights05/02/13 03:38 AM
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Yeah, that looked like Sara Gilbert. The only smart one there. Mind you, those shows like The Talk and The View are full of crap like that. Men are lesser equals and it's OK to joke about them but the second they latch on to a woman being made fun of, WATCH OUT!
/r/MensRights04/02/13 12:59 AM
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THis guy has an amazing radio voice. That said I agree with him 100%. I loved how all the women were just laughing too. Fucking idiots
/r/MensRights04/02/13 12:34 AM
1

These have been around for a while now. THere's one down the road from me. The men are generally older (I'm only 27), but they helped teach me how to cook, woodcraft, house and car maintenance. THey were a big part of my support group after I seperated from the ex. They are pretty fantastic =)
/r/MensRights03/02/13 08:06 AM
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Anton will not be required to register as a sex offender. Her lawyer, Michele Marianna Bonsignore, could not be reached for comment today. WHAT. THE. FUCK?!?
/r/MensRights20/01/13 03:26 PM
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On top of a bed of false accusations
/r/MensRights19/01/13 02:37 PM
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We do have a rich history of emigration of the Scots and Irish to Australia back in the 1800's (Particularily the Gold Rush) so some of that snuck into our own English over a hundred years ago, not necessarily because of the massive influx of teachers coming over here =)
/r/MensRights17/01/13 05:05 AM
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Nothing wrong with it. The comment clearly shows no malice. However I can see how people could get the wrong impression, thus the downvotes
/r/MensRights17/01/13 04:52 AM
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You seem to be justifying abuse. Your downvotes seem relevant. Despite what happened to me, I do not, nor will never, advocate abuse. I wouldn't have done it before it was made illegal, I wouldn't do it now
/r/MensRights12/01/13 06:25 AM
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yes as I said, there isnt funding for F2M abuse beyond recognition. Not one of the people I spoke to insulted me or didnt believe me, they just couldnt help me. The problem came down to funding.
/r/MensRights12/01/13 05:09 AM
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This is not surprising. When I was abused, I called a DV line only to be provided with a number for men. I called it and they were for abuser's who recognized they had a problem. They were unable to help me. I had nowhere to turn and no way to get assistance (Emergency housing, funding, etc). Because of all the issues of being abused and not being able to get help, I became severely depressed, diagnosed with depression and anxiety. I have major trust issues as well and while I have a fantastic p…
/r/MensRights12/01/13 03:03 AM
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So yes, pre-op I love... Her?... His? Double standards. I would respect a person's desire to be called by what gender they identify as but when you are selective of the traits you want to inherit, then you'll be called what I see you as. At that point, respect goes out the window, at least to me.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 02:35 PM
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Ahh the Dutch. Gotta love them. They are a great example of national equality
/r/MensRights11/01/13 09:39 AM
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You know what's funny? When I heard people say that while I was with the ex, I never believed it to be common in broken relationships between parents. Then when I seperated from my ex (mum to my 3 kids), I have been served with restraining orders, my daughter being hidden from me (Haven't seen her in 7 months, I have custody of my two sons) and so many claims of abuse of both her and my daughter. So my advice to OP is exactly like yours: Your friend better be prepared for a shitstorm. Women know…
/r/MensRights11/01/13 09:16 AM
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Sorry OP, still slightly confused. So she's a pre-op FTM?
/r/MensRights11/01/13 09:11 AM
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It is. Thanks for the clarification. Obviously not having any involvement with them yet, I didn't know :-P
/r/MensRights21/08/12 02:41 AM
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The first part is finding a good lawyer, which is easier said than done Again, being a stay at home dad raising our 2 sons by myself, I don't have the funds for a lawyer, and given that there is an AVO on a famioly member, Legal Aid in my state will not help. She gets de facto custody I hope not. This isn't a custody hearing. It's an Apprehended Violence Order hearing. Basically, the ex made a claim I abused our daughter, and while there's the saying "Innocent until proven guilty", I now need to…
/r/MensRights21/08/12 01:34 AM
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Holy shit. Yup, I deserved to get hit, geeze I wish I was a better person. Fucking cunt. My ex said exactly the same thing. Physically abused me for 5 years, said I deserved it. When I finally stuck up for myself, grabbed her by the wrists and put her on the couch then left the house, 15 minutes later the cops come at me with guns raised. I was charged with assault. When I told the cops I defended myself from the physical abuse for the first time in 5 years, they didn't believe me and told me I …
/r/MensRights28/03/12 07:47 AM
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