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I disagree, 4chan isn't what it once was. Nowadays it's mostly just edgy teenagers.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 11:52 AM
33

If she was openly hitting on other men in front of you, she lost respect for you a while ago. How long did you date her?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 04:57 AM
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I guess all his medical training and education means nothing. I'm not sure how I'm even surprised, you'd think I would have lowered my expectations to 0 by now.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 02:51 AM
7

This is the only real answer. No helping guys like this out.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 12:30 PM
1

I lost my virginity a full year and a half before I had my first kiss.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 03:44 PM
1

No. My definition of ego not at all similar to my definition of confidence or self esteem. I've experienced ego loss many times before, and I can't imagine you'd be doing much of any kind of socialization in a state like that
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 08:20 AM
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I think a loss of ego would be terrible for attracting any kind of girls. A loss of ego doesn't really lead to much social success or respect.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 06:02 PM
8

I've asked myself that a lot these last few months. He's had a hard life and doesn't seem to have many friends, and I told myself he'd never learn better social skills if no ones willing to talk to him. Over the last few months he's gotten a lot better, a lot more self aware and seems to be trying to improve. Beyond that, he's actually a pretty good friend. He can be insanely hard to deal with but he has his moments where I'm glad we hang out. And he speaks Korean which is extremely valuable sin…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 11:52 AM
8

If you're attractive, you'll know.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 12:44 PM
2

Yeah. It is what it is. It ends in unhappiness on all sides to be honest. You get used up whores, poor beta dudes who they end up with but despise, kids raised in broken homes, high divorce rates, women mad that no one wants to fuck them anymore and no one wants to support a chick with someone else's offspring. As a result society as a whole suffers. It's bigger than any of us though. My advice is to not worry about society and use it to your benefit. Go be the cock carousel and don't worry that…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 03:57 PM
3

Uhm... No not necessarily. I don't even think female social dynamics are as simple as alpha or beta. Your best bet is finding someone who has strong morals. You could make the argument that the consequence for them cheating would be that it goes against their morals and even if they don't get caught it would hurt their self image that they built, and that's tough for people to do. Also known as consciousness by more idealistic people. That still isn't ideal though. That's the case with my parent…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 03:46 PM
6

Girls aren't loyal anywhere. Guys aren't loyal anywhere . No one is loyal. Everyone is settling and they will always want better. If better shows up chances are they'll go for it as long as the consequences aren't too bad. You're looking for a fairy tale. What you can do is find somewhere where the consequences greatly outweigh the benefits of trading up, if stoning little girls is something you find enjoyable.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 03:20 PM
1

Yup. Sounds desperate and like you were trying too hard to be charismatic. It practically oozes out in the way you type. Try to be more passive next time, you shouldn't be trying to impress girls and get their attention, they should be trying to impress you and get YOUR attention.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 03:15 PM
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Yeah I don't understand all the hate on Facebook. Reddit is social media too, so it seems backwards that its hated so much on here. I've gotten laid off of Facebook a few times, and its a great way to stay connected. I don't even update the status or add pictures. I just let other people tag me in photos, remove the ones I don't like and use the messenger, which is the most important part of Facebook.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 05:13 AM
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Just talk to them when you can, find a group to hang out with. Even better, put yourself out there and get involved in something. Join a club, volunteer, take a class. Girls are attracted to social status, so go become a part of something.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 09:34 AM
1

Just say no. Only explain yourself if you need to. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP08/06/14 07:09 AM
2

The word you're looking for is sociopathy.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 06:23 AM
22

Elaborate.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 10:26 PM
3

Speak for yourself
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 01:39 PM
1

Because substance. Exploring the world and having new experiences are what build character and wisdom. Confidence comes from going out and doing new stuff
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 07:32 AM
1

Yeah you can't gain much from body weight fitness, but for maintaining you'll be fine as long as you're eating enough.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 07:25 AM
2

Go a month or two without masturbating and then tell me the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 07:10 AM
1

Stop seeking pleasure or comfort. Confidence come from achievement, which will only happen if you step out of your comfort zone. Start with small changes, start telling yourself what you're going to do and then do it. Break whatever pattern of life you have, change it up as much as possible. Lift. Get hobbies and skills. Study a new language. Actions are the way to change yourself, you can't think your personality away, you need to build a new one.
/r/askTRP04/05/14 02:12 PM
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Yeah, you've got the right idea. It's in staying solid to what you say, sticking to your character with unwavering confidence. If you say "I believe x." and then a girl goes "We'll I think y." A lot of peoples knee-jerk reaction is to go "W-well maybe y is right too!" Or question themselves or whatever. A more realistic example, lets say you say something like "I hate cops", and then someone says "My uncle is a cop." Losing frame would be responding "Well I don't hate all cops." Or "sorry I didn…
/r/askTRP04/05/14 02:05 PM
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The ol' natty lickeroo
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 01:54 PM
1

I looked it up. Looks like a pretty basic scam to me.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 08:42 AM
6

Lol fuck that. Life is too short to spend it worrying about everyone you don't even know and their feelings.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 07:05 AM
5

Fuck it. I stuck my dick and crazy and don't really regret it.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 12:11 PM
8

Estrogen water and plastics? Elaborate please.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 01:17 PM
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Unattractive females have it WAAAY worse. I simply won't fuck below a certain threshold, most guys won't. I mean, for a girl who's truly unattractive, heels/makeup/clothes/angles, none of that will work. Aside from surgery, their looks aren't getting better, and that's just that. At least us guys tend to have way more room for improvement.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 10:36 AM
2

I hate how copy-pasted people are in general. This is going to sound angsty as fuck, but I've only ever been able to hold individual friendships and small groups because I don't conform to groups at all. I hate how much shit I get for being "different" like its a bad thing. Why the fuck do you want to be so predictable?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 12:06 PM
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This shit right here. I've NEVER seen any case where it's not true. AWALT. Seriously I try to tell myself "well it's only been 24 hours since I did x, surely she'll remember." Nope. As soon as you've provided, there's a strange case of amnesia. It doesn't mean shit to them, except they'll peg you as a provider in the future. At least most guys I know will take note of things you've done for them. Females take it for granted, even feel obligated to it.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 07:14 AM
2

Jason blaha is a fucking joke.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 11:25 AM
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^^^ A+ advice right here.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 04:37 AM
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Gym. Skatepark. Out drinking. Maybe i'll to Seoul but I'm not sure if I feel like it.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 02:16 AM
8

I noticed that. They definitely know. Like he said earlier in the thread, too many boxes checked. They put a lot of attention to detail too, check out their body language the whole time, like when they're on the couch, Flizzy is leaned back, taking up space and Tom is all arched with his arms in and leaning forward. Also Tom was slouched the entire episode. I love this show.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 02:12 AM
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Damn new workaholics AND new boondocks season? How far in is the workaholics season?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 02:11 AM
5

Kinda purple I guess. He taught me some RP truths, and agrees 100% with its teachings, but I guess he learned a bit too late, when I pointed out the whole beta provider/marriage trap he agreed but seemed really sad. He's sick and just doesn't have the drive anymore. I try to help out when I can. I've encouraged him to go to the gym now and get him to play sports with me occasionally, and for a while his masculine energy seems to come back, it never lasts, and I don't think he has it in him anymo…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 12:15 PM
3

The new season is out?!?! About damn time!
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 11:21 AM
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I really hope they realize this.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 09:47 AM
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Females completely rely on the tribe. If a male is excluded socially, he can probably survive on his own decently. A female being excluded is an almost certain death, especially if she is pregnant. Their survival greatly relied on being able to be socially aware and to actively manipulate to keep themselves safe. That's why they have such an aversion to being excluded, it's a hard-wired and primitive response. What pisses me off is how they scream to be accepted, then immediately complain and tr…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 09:39 AM
1

Yup
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 01:46 PM
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You will NEVER get laid from messaging a girl on Facebook. Here, say it out loud. Repeat it again. Good. Face to face contact is where you will prevail. If you message her on Facebook, you better have a good reason. Only time it's justified is if she messages first or if you're planning out logistics of hanging out or something. Other than that, just stay away from it. As for inviting them over, get creative. Don't start out just saying "lets go to my house." Go out and do something first, get s…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 01:06 PM
1

Wow you have a good eye for details. Can I hire you as my advisor for facial aesthetics or something? Also a huge point I'd like to add is that the attractive picture involves actually doing something. I can't stress enough how important that is if you want to attract females based on pictures. Just posing and staring at the camera should never be used for profile pictures or anything, for a man your picture should involve you doing some sort of activity, even something small like drinking OJ. T…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 12:40 PM
2

Yeah. When I was a massive drug user I pulled ridiculous amounts of girls. I was the ultimate rebel in their mind. Cool guy, no future plans, living in the moment, and held frame for sure. I just didn't care about people.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 02:07 PM
1

What are you doing in life now that you have your GED?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 01:52 PM
2

You can get paid to learn a trade. Look info it, it's the opposite of student loans.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 01:51 PM
1

Look into trades. See if your city as a job corp. You're going to be VERY out of place as a white suburban kid, but that's what one of my friends did and he'll be leaving in a few weeks when his training is done. He already has a company that hired him, and I believe his starting salary is 35-40k a year. Not bad for an 18-19 year old with no student loans or debt.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 01:46 PM
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Wanna be my uncle?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 01:42 PM
1

I don't have a phone right now but for the most part I avoid texting/social media to talk. It's a girls game, there's a lot of ways to fuck up and not a lot of good to come out of it. Just keep it simple and funny.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 01:39 PM
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My theory on this giant feminist push is that it's a luxury. All it'll take is a major conflict or crisis and I imagine we'll see gender roles fall right back into place. It's hard to argue about how we're all 100% equal in every way when men are simply more effective athletically, more likely to react instead of freeze up, more emotionally stable... Etc. We've just gotten too comfortable, but it won't last. Can you really imagine some guy getting away with saying "even though I have a penis, I …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 11:02 PM
3

Did it once. She didn't have the greatest face but damn dude. She turned out to be a super slut though, and made crazy shit up. She told me her ex was following us around one night and planned to get his friends to jump me. Except I knew her "ex" , and his friends, so that was obviously bullshit. I feel bad for him though, she ended up faking being pregnant and getting deported, a bunch of other crazy drama and kept trying to get me involved.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 12:46 PM
3

She knows dude, this is what girls want.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 02:41 AM
2

Marijuana is definitely a drug, don't fool yourself. I think it's the same as any other drug though, in moderation it's cool, or be like me and just get high 2-3 times a day. If you can afford it then who the fuck cares. It's like saying people shouldn't drink coffee in the mornings. I will say that socially, marijuana impairs me because I become too introspective and anxious.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 01:50 AM
1

What a great quote.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 01:35 AM
1

Try to change it up sometimes though, activities are the best. Go play a sport or go hiking or ride roller coasters or something. The more physically involved the better.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 01:31 AM
2

Get hobbies, make friends in multiple social circles. You should never have just one group of friends, have 2 or 3. If you can handle it have even more. This makes you unpredictable and keeps your schedule pretty busy. At least you'll always have something to do somewhere with people who don't know each other. As a result you become more interesting to every one of your different social circles. Not to mention the preselection that comes with it. You start running into people you know all over a…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 01:28 AM
2

Hrrrrrnnng
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 12:50 AM
3

Nah. Just stayed here and playing Xbox and killing time. No big deal I guess, as long as I don't make it a habit.
/r/askTRP18/04/14 12:48 PM
2

Thanks for the tip, she was definitely DTF, it was just a question of if I was. After tactical masturbation and looking at her Facebook pictures, I ended up deciding against it. It wasn't worth my dignity, or having to deal with her getting too attached afterwards.
/r/askTRP18/04/14 11:27 AM
1

Most girls will pretty openly admit this if you're friends.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 08:07 AM
2

This is an outstanding post. Most of TRP theory I already understood when I discovered this subreddit, but briffault's law is something so painfully accurate it astounds me. That anyone could explain that phenomenon so eloquently surprises me.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 07:51 AM
1

Yeah but stability is boring. At 22 no one wants to be bored.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 07:31 AM
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Like in war, once you conquer something, you move on to the next.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 07:23 AM
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There isn't one right now, it 404'd and there's a problem right now so most people can't post.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 05:58 AM
3

I view anyone this fucking pathetic the same way I view an insect. He's a grown ass man, if he has made it 37 years and still didn't get his shit straight, he deserves every little bit of what he gets. She's clearly a manipulative monster and will literally drain this guy for EVERYTHING he's worth, but he doesn't do anything about it. He is too weak and too pussy whipped to take control of his own life. He can suffer like the bitch he is. I'm a bit disgusted, honestly.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 12:53 PM
2

Thanks, and nice progress. We both have the same starting weight and height, except I started at 120lbs. Do you remember your starting lifts? Just so I can get can idea of whats normal for me. My lifts have been going up but today I noticed my OHP is shit.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 02:56 PM
1

Bam. It's just that simple. Depending on the situation you can even skip a bunch of steps
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 08:55 AM
1

So how long should I stick to SS? I'm skinny and definitely don't want to go to skinnyfat, but my lifts are still too low to even think about doing a BB split. Also which split do you recommend?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 06:13 AM
1

That's a huge assumption. I doubt it had anything to do with girls. Maybe he really was just crazy. Maybe no one actively bullied him, but he was socially excluded, and that motivated him.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 07:25 AM
1

If you're thinking this hard about it you've already lost. Go find something else to focus on.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 07:23 AM
1

I lift for strength. I already have abs and that's pretty much all girls care about.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 07:20 AM
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I'm black and it's a really complex situation I think. That doesn't excuse their behavior, but I can at least understand it a bit. Most black girls would love to get a white dude if they could, but they're almost universally the most unappealing group. Even a lot of black guys don't want to fuck with black chicks nowadays. On average, they're: Not very feminine at all. 2.Have over the top reactions to everything. 3.Will shit test you non-stop. 4.Usually have awful or ratchet friends (and family …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 01:15 AM
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I agree with all this, except white knights. Fuck white knights, it doesn't take extensive knowledge on social dynamics for them to realize they are actively attacking or putting down someone else just for a chance at pussy. White knighting is cowardly, and I hate seeing weakness in anyone.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 12:12 AM
5

Well said
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 11:26 AM
7

This is something no one wants to hear. The good news is unless you're deeply unattractive, girls really don't know what's good looking. If you're a 8-10, obviously they'll know, and if you're like a 1-3, it'll be pretty apparent, but for the rest of us, 4-7, it's a lot of factors. Hairstyle, clothing, muscle, facial hair, hygiene. All things you can control. And social status and preselection actually makes girls rationalize that you're good-looking. I have a sister and she has confirmed this. …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 08:54 AM
2

People think being a sociopath is cool, and everyone thinks they're a sociopath. I understand the appeal though. Not being emotionally dependent, being in control, a sense of superiority over others because you're operating at a level above the immediately visible.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 08:21 AM
2

It isn't. Height is huge.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 06:36 AM
9

You joke, but this actually has happened before. Some guy at a bar got charged for rape because he lied about being a celebrity or some shit.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 01:16 PM
3

I agree :3
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 10:17 AM
9

It's funny, because the reason I started lifting was when I realized I never heard anyone swole or on their way to getting swole crying about social anxiety or depression or anything, really. All the biggest losers in life were either overweight, or skeletons like me, and I didn't want to be associated with that, I'm not a loser so I don't want to look like one. In today's society, as a man, there is honestly no excuse to not be in the gym, especially if you're non-active in other parts of life.…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 09:56 PM
4

It boils down to nature vs nurture, and there tons of arguments relating to that, so I doubt anyone can say anything with authority on this. The answer probably lies somewhere in between, both genetics and life experience.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 03:01 PM
0

You can't, there's no such thing.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 01:56 PM
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"I can't stop tripping onto dicks! I was raped, I swear!" You really have to do some serious mental gymnastics for this to make any kind of sense. It's like someone jumping in a lake without knowing how to swim, then once the lifeguard saves them they jump back in and start drowning again. At what point does personal responsibility come in? Oh wait- never, because females have no agency. It's the lifeguards fault.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 01:49 PM
2

What routine did you do? At least at first? I'm doing SS.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 04:44 AM
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It's not far-fetched. Your post history even further adds to your plausibility, what with the posts about Halloween and throwing a party. I believe you.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 10:15 AM
1

Why?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 11:37 AM
1

Funny, I get called "robot" all the time. Idk, I feel pretty healthy emotionally I guess. I'm just not a very attached person in general, I move a lot and I've seen so many friendships fall apart I pretty much am already prepared for it. I can usually even tell you whats going to cause a falling out and how long until it happens, I've been right every time. I think your best bet is find a solid group of best friends. Nothing is more valuable. Your best friends and family are probably the only pe…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 10:30 PM
14

Man I'm living in Asia and I love how much less PC they are with the way they talk. A lot of them are really blunt with what they say, and have completely confirmed TRP. While saying this stuff in the states will piss people off, here it's just said as a simple truth.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 10:42 PM
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Oh man, I don't know. I guess look into body language and maybe read some psychology books. I think there are things like social engineering forums or subreddits that focus on this too. Nothing beats experience though. The more you interact in different social dynamics, the more of a feel you'll get, you'll start recognizing patterns, and start to be able to read people and situations better. Sociopaths are notoriously good at manipulating people, but good luck finding one thats smart and also w…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 12:50 PM
1

If you do it right no one will be sure you did anything at all. Just don't blow your cover and even if they realize you're manipulating, as long as you never explicitly state it, they can never prove it. Just subtly undermine their influence in whatever shared social groups you guys are in. You should know what kind of things you can say to lower others opinion of anyone trying to out you. Then when they call you out, they'll just seem angry, annoying, high-stung, and by being confrontational in…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 12:45 PM
0

South Korea (and Asia in general, really) is significantly more homogenous. Unlike western society, there isn't nearly as much genetic variety. Of course you're going to see people looking similar. I don't see why someone using means available to them to improve their looks is so ostracized. Is makeup bad too? Especially for females, looks are insanely important to their quality of life. Why would they not try and improve them as much as possible? Call it shallow or whatever you want, but I can'…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 12:36 PM
1

N-no homo.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 06:47 AM
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Yeah but not just girls. Just people in general.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 05:39 AM
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Nice post. People are so inanely easy to manipulate. I've even pointed it out to individuals before and broke it down, point by point, and they usually either deny it, or go "Wow you're smart.". I think (almost) everyone is conscious of it on some level, but get too emotionally invested in others to truly realize the full meanings and implications of it. At the most basic level, every social interaction is "manipulation". Just depends how in depth and methodical you want to get with it. We're re…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 03:34 AM
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That was my initial thought until I saw the account age. After reading way more of his post/comment history than I should have... Wow. Definitely not a troll, just a guy who seems to be having a lot of self-esteem and social issues.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 03:26 AM
-7

What's wrong with plastic surgery?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 02:10 AM
1

This is copypasta
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 05:17 AM
2

Used to. I'm in South Korea now.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 02:20 AM
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Yeah, interesting thought that didn't deserve to be downvoted. I guess the circlejerk has begun though. How many new subscribers are there? It's only a matter of time. Then there will be /r/trueredpill. And then /r/redpillcirclejerk. And /r/redpillvideos and /r/redpillmusic and /r/redpillpictures. Or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 09:58 AM
5

The religious part was stupid, but I found myself agreeing with him on everything else. I used to hate Steve Harvey because there was a giant billboard of his face over my apartment, and a bunch of other stuff, but damn he reminds me so much of my dad.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 09:17 AM
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I lost my virginity at 17 by being a virgin. Actually no, I was 16. We were drunk though, but as soon as I told her I was a virgin she said "Are you serious? I'm taking that shit." She was a ho. She probably still is, and once people found out, I got so much shit, but at the end of the day I'm just glad I lost it. In a threesome too, sort of.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 12:46 PM
7

And wow does social proof work. Preselection is probably the easiest and most effective thing ever. I've had times where I'm in a room with a bunch of girls and only a few guys, and being completely ignored. Until I drew the attention of the "alpha" chick or whatever you call them. Suddenly I'm the most interesting person in the room, IOIs, everyone trying to get my attention and talk to me. It's exponential growth, once you're the alpha in the group, you attract more people, which in turn attra…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 12:31 PM
3

Ahahahaahah. That's too perfect.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 02:43 AM
2

Gotcha. Definitely agree with that, I think I understand it now. It's just so hard for me understand that mindset. it's just kind of foreign to me. I guess some people just don't ever think about it, or lack the ability to understand it even if they try.
/r/AlreadyRed07/03/14 12:43 PM
1

I never realized there were words for this. Honestly, is there really that many people who don't understand "powertalk?". Outside of reddit, the only people ive met like this were either autistic, severely lacking in social skills, or a bitter loser simply in denial. Does the "clueless" category really exist? I feel like it's such a small subset of the population it's not worth mentioning. Maybe the willfully ignorant, but no one is truly clueless of this.
/r/AlreadyRed07/03/14 11:34 AM
1

Wow thanks! Message me anytime if you wanna talk or something.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 01:57 AM
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I'm also black. I don't dislike all black chicks, but theres a common archetype that a lot of them go for and its insanely hard to deal with. They have low self esteem and are really insecure, so as a defense mechanism, they have these GOD AWFUL attitudes. It doesn't do you any benefits to be a complete asshole to everyone you know. I have family members and family friends who are the exact same. Bitter, angry, and horrible attitudes. They spend every waking minute just waiting for an excuse to …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 01:41 AM
3

Well I knew a few people who dressed like that. They played yu-gi-oh cards and talked about tesla and all that other typical reddit stuff. They were actually really intelligent down to earth people for the most part, but once it came to the opposite sex or just stuff like the N word, they got surprisingly stupid.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 10:44 AM
1

It's a double edged blade though, because it's easier to get laid on alcohol, but drunk sex sucks, and whiskey dick pretty much puts an end to it quick.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 10:41 AM
38

Resolved = Media stops paying attention.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 10:38 AM
4

I think any woman witnessing this display of pussy worship and just sickening submissiveness would dry up like the Sahara desert.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 10:33 AM
3

I almost vomited after watching this. Please tell me it's just satire. Please. I need to believe this isn't real.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 10:32 AM
14

Dude, no. That coffee wasn't just hot, it was boiling, and I think they didn't put the top on right either. She had like third degree burns.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 10:16 AM
23

I've been in South Korea since September. The lack of obesity is absolutely amazing. Funny how an entire country can have not a single person riding around in a mobility scooter. I guess thyroid problems are an exclusively North American thing. Also, I'm insanely skinny (obviously working on it), and in the states, it was SO hard to find clothes that fit me. Since everyone is overweight, the spectrum of sizes kind of shifted and most stores have very small selection of clothes for thin dudes. Un…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 10:24 AM
1

Wait. What? What was their reasoning, equality?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 10:18 AM
1

All of those rely on making jokes.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 12:07 AM
6

It sickens me because its just a symptom of a really common problem in society right now. People absolutely refuse to take personal responsibility. For anything. Everything is someone else's fault, the governments fault, my genetics, my upbringing, I'm not an asshole it's just a mental illness. We're expected to feel sympathy towards others, but at the end of the day, nothing matters but the output. If we're honest, we all just have needs and wants that we try and get met. No one fucking cares t…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 11:53 PM
14

I love that story
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 02:03 PM
6

I understand that, but there's got to be a reason they just bring that up immediately. There has to be more motivation to it than just simple validation, especially since its almost always the exact same story. I rarely hear "my dog died" or "I had a bad relationship with my parents". Always either: 1. Self harm 2. Attempted suicide 3. Eating disorder (most common by far) 4. Almost raped 5. Raped I'm noticing a pattern and there has to be a reason. And males seek validation too, but I rarely hea…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 01:49 PM
3

That last part is a life-changing quote.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 11:03 AM
1

Can vouch. I lost my virginity (although she was already dtf) by saying I'm a virgin. It works when you're young.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 02:27 PM
5

Because no one usually feels strongly about it, and it's easier to just go with the flow.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 01:48 PM
1

My opinion on this: less is more. The less you talk, the better. Only say what absolutely needs to be said, avoid too many jokes, and use very few, if any of those smiley face emotions. Don't come off as needy or looking for attention, just state what you want, and go with the attitude that if you can't get what you want, you'll get it somewhere else. Don't agree too much with whoever you're talking to. Don't be the one asking all the questions or making all the effort to keep the conversation g…
/r/askTRP17/02/14 11:11 AM
8

Get practice with girls you aren't attracted to. Start moving out of your comfort zone, it'll go bad at first, but eventually you adapt and realize its not that big of a deal. Don't go overboard though, too many rejections will only lower your confidence and do more damage in the long run. Also, I HIGHLY recommend doing some sort of physical activity, and start taking some risks in life. After an intense work out, or game of ball or a hike up a mountain with no support other than yourself, you t…
/r/askTRP17/02/14 11:05 AM
1

I notice this on reddit a lot. Like, I see at least one or two posts a day with some guy bragging about marrying a girl and taking care of her child. They always make sure to throw in some variation of "And the dumb douchebag ex, well his kids call ME Dad now!" Like it's some sort of accomplishment. I've found if I go through their post histories, more often than not they'll have earlier mentioned a lack of sex or some other major relationship problems. It's so consistent. One example from a com…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 10:50 AM
3

You're a guy, your voice should be at least decently deep. Talk with your diaphragm. I used to think the same thing, I never thought my voice was even capable of going below a certain pitch, until a girl pointed out that every time I was high my voice was insanely deep.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 10:44 AM
1

Wow. This one hurt to watch because it applied to me so much. I needed this. It really sucks, i'm a black guy but I have a really "white" voice, it kills me.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 10:32 AM
2

Nothing. From a young age I completely understood most of the information presented in TRP, even if i didnt have specific terms and acronyms for it. I was always very analytical, and I had a lot of social experience due to moving around a lot and living in homes with multiple families. When i discovered the subreddit, I never was offended or surprised, I thought it was basic knowledge, just organized and named. I was never what I would consider beta, I simply realized I lacked the confidence and…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 07:32 AM
2

The documentary "science of sex appeal" has a pretty informative segment on this.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 07:29 AM
2

Yeah, I noticed that.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 07:13 AM
1

Honestly depends. What if she's a landwhale? You're really going to grope back?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 04:50 AM
14

This comment is so insanely hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 04:28 AM
10

Happens in every sub eventually, except maybe ones about doing a specific activity/hobby. Even those will sometimes get run over with endless posts asking the same beginner questions and drown out all the original members. It's just a part of reddit. People upvote what they can relate to, and there's more people at the bottom than the top.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 04:19 AM
3

The comment about going to the gym with him wasn't bad advice. He might have a chance if he does that.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 02:53 AM
10

I'm not so sure man. I'm black, and I lived in Atlanta most of my life. I definitely saw my fair share of landwhales with dudes with high SMV. It always confused me, and also annoyed me, because you had a bunch of hideous 310lb+ girls acting like they're a 8 or 9 because there's a lot of people (black AND Hispanic) who treated them like they were. They also were really arrogant, they'd hit on you relentlessly and just make disgusting lewd sexual comments. I was talking to my dad the other day an…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 02:41 AM
-5

Definitely not how I would go about it.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 02:16 AM
2

No, most of my "friends" ATM are higher SMV. It really sucks, actually. It's my fault I guess, in that its entirely my fault my SMV is so low, but it's pretty lame going places and constantly just being in the background while everyone else is getting hit on non stop. I actually see what it's like to be the designated ugly chick of a group now. Can't imagine living like that all day every day.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 01:22 PM
1

Exactly why I'm MGTOW until I get out of starving African mode.
/r/AlreadyRed14/02/14 10:34 AM
6

This comment is the right idea.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 10:41 PM
9

Fuck! Just wrote a HUUUGE ass response cause I'm on adderall, but reddit ate my comment, so ill just paraphrase. Yes, looks matter, and improving your looks has a huge effect. If you look bad, people will shit test you more and you have to constantly maintain, guys will be more likely to question your dominance or whatever. Girls will approach you, I even get some approaches on a good day and I'm a 5 or 6at best, probably a 4, even. Also if you're looking good, you get less shit tests, less main…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 10:35 AM
10

"The divorce agreement stipulates that Millan pay his ex-wife a single payment of US$400,000, a monthly spousal payment of US$23,000 and US$10,000 for monthly child support, and that the parties respect specific confidentiality terms.In May 2010, after his dog Daddy died in February and his wife filed for divorce in March, Millan attempted suicide." That's so fucked up. How the fuck is this kind of shit acceptable? Everyone involved in that legal decision can burn in hell.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 01:39 AM
1

Why kill the child?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 01:34 AM
4

Video had no point for the most part. Most of that shit had little to do with patriarchy at all, getting attacked or harassed by sketchy people is a problem for both genders, especially if you're hanging out in a fucking alley. The only thing in this video that really made sense was the female cop talking to the male cop about his pants and calling him cutie. That actually does happen in reverse, but other than that, it's all circumstantial things that are either irrelevant to first world countr…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 01:27 AM
3

I laughed
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 12:34 AM
21

That's everywhere dude.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 10:20 AM
1

Yeah this show didn't last long but it was cool while it lasted
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 11:05 PM
7

Except beta men nowadays. I've seen plenty of people complain about how girls only go for "douchebags" and how they can't control how they aren't cool and it's everyone else's fault and anyone confident is an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 09:11 AM
18

I'm black. There's so much wrong with the so called "black community" it's not even funny. I guess all cultures have their negatives, but after dealing with one flavor of bullshit so long I grew tired of it. Really it's all the same at the end of the day, just different niches that get fulfilled.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 09:06 AM
2

This was already posted earlier today
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 12:01 PM
18

There are no rules dude. Do whatever you want.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 10:04 AM
1

I hate how tre was such a little bitch in this movie. It was just so painful to watch. Especially that scene where he starts crying after the cop pulled him over.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 03:00 AM
2

Older women hitting on you probably isn't good.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 02:35 AM
11

It's hilarious how many white knights in the comments are so pissed off or calling the guy a douche and "not all girls are like that!" No one even said they are, they just immediately had to defend their views against any thing thy challenges them to reconsider. Pathetic. My favorite ones are "men would do the same thing it's not just women!" And "I couldn't finish watching because you were being such a douche." Really?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 01:51 AM
3

Yeah, but that leads to a lot of lowered standards. I think most men could go lose their virginity in 7 days if they REALLY wanted too, but no one wants to go fuck unattractive girls. It's not a ego booster like people like to think, it actually does the opposite.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 06:40 AM
1

I've never been a nice guy, as I understood the red pill before I knew the word for it. But it won't be that hard. Just be consistent. Improve yourself and go live life. Easy as that, and the rest will come naturally.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 01:24 AM
1

I'm even skinnier than you. 5'10 also, but only 118lbs, actually about 122lbs now, but I think most of that is fat. Anyways, just be confident and focus on you for now. That's what I've been doing and even though I'm lanky as fuck and dress horribly, I still get a decent amount of approaches. The key is to not care about it. As long as you know your improving, does it matter?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 01:21 AM
1

Agreed. My self esteem used to be purely based on what compliments I'd gotten from the opposite sex. Then one day I realized I'd been called cute all the time but never sexy or hot, and once gorgeous, still not sure what the fuck thats supposed to mean. Not a good thing. You don't want to be cute.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 11:46 AM
2

I feel you. I've always been the "funny guy" because I'm hilarious and really fast at thinking of my feet, but by doing that it kind of naturally put me in a submissive position. I am definitely improving, but every once in a while I lose frame and start reverting to my old ways. I've even found people noticing the change and either consciously or subconsciously they'll keep trying to maneuver things back to me being their personal comedian. It's better to not talk at all then open your mouth ju…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 11:18 AM
2

Ugh. "Preferences don't exist in a vacuum." What the fuck does that even mean? No shit, I could say that about anything, it's an eloquent way of saying a whole lot of nothing. How can your head fit that far up your own ass? Feminism doesn't exist in a vaccum. See? Fucking retarded, isn't it. Using emotions to make an argument is fucking stupid. "This is wrong, not because it hurts someone or anything, just because I don't like it." What kind of self-centered bullshit is this?" "Other people are …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 11:02 AM
0

Wow she's hot
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 11:44 AM
8

Hey. First off, not sure why you're in the subreddit in the first place if you don't like it. That being said, I never want to be in an echo chamber, so I'd love to hear (read) your opinion. What specifically do you have against the post? And why? Being as specific as you feel like. Calling it "the most cancerous piece of filth" you've seen on the site is a pretty strong reaction and I would appreciate it if you elaborate.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 11:20 AM
2

Not important at all, but it'd be positive feedback loop, not negative.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 11:16 AM
3

Fair enough, but we're talking in terms of physical attractiveness I thought, not SMV.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:21 AM
8

I think it's more "hot woman - average woman - hot man - average man - ugly man - ugly woman" Females, even average ones, will see a lot of perks in life until they hit 30-40 and looks start fading, and even then they'll still probably have a pussy fan club the majority of their life. An attractive male will have a bit of an advantage, one being more confidence from a young age, and also more opportunities to mess up. People will be more willing to forgive them, females will approach them more o…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:05 AM
1

Even the most beta people can get sympathy laid. Or the "drunk sex with unattractive women in a dark room with our clothes on". Shit, I've been there, even at my most beta in life, id have random bursts of confidence and alphaness, which is enough for a one night stand with someone who doesn't know you any better.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:01 AM
6

Same story. I saw redditors shitting on /r/theredpill all the time, and I figured anything the main community hates that much is worth checking out. Sure enough, found myself reading and agreeing with everything, and wondering why people were so upset. Then I remembered, this website is filled to the brim with complete betas and losers in denial. The truth hurts, and some people don't want that illusion broken.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 07:20 AM
2

I'm black. I like mudsharks
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 08:38 AM
3

I've done both lsd and mushrooms multiple times. Lsd is definitely easier for beginners. Without going into too much detail, one of the most significant differences is LSD is very clear-headed, your mind feels entirely clear and focused, feels like having complete control over your thoughts and emotions, and is more of a linear experience , coming up, peak, comedown. It's also more euphoric in my experience. Also much easier to socialize on. Feels like the pinnacle of human experience, everythin…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 08:09 AM
1

Amazing advice. How do you get into rock climbing? I've been highly interested in rock climbing/camping/hiking for forever now, but there's no where to really rock climb nearby.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 01:52 AM
2

Amazingly said.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 04:32 AM
2

Yes.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 02:04 PM
0

Read it before but I really needed this again. Thank you for this.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 11:57 AM
1

I know what you mean by that "numbing feeling", I get it multiple times a day, and one mess up can have me feeling like that for hours. Do more physical activity and you'll find that this goes away. Trust me, it works.
/r/seduction17/09/12 12:05 AM
2

You really put your foot in your mouth there
/r/MensRights13/04/12 02:49 AM
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