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Yeah ok cupid used to actually get the job done but it was too good at it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:05 AM
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Online dating was better when you could filter for interests. Then you found your prospective partner almost immediately but that wasnt really economic for these companies so now they suck and it takes a year to find what you are looking for. So caveat online dating used to be ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:03 AM
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My husband though is the farthest thing from an asshole. Hes a good man. I adore him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:39 PM
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Them being assholes made me want to find a way out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:37 PM
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No not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:37 PM
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Not generally in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:33 PM
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People usually dont upfront say hey Im an asshole- people try to cover that up as best they can for as long as they can
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:20 PM
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Uh the first I was seventeen and he was twenty four too young to figure that out quickly without a point of comparison, second one i did not know it until too late and then i was not in a good position to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:18 PM
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Mostly positive, two assholes, rest were good guys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:14 PM
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Pretty sure Im more infatuated with my actual nice guy husband than he is me. Hes the only person I think about this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:25 PM
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Nothing you said is your original thought. Its just trite recitation. I do think its funny you think I didnt go to college because I disagree with you. Says something about academic freedom these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:50 AM
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I was raised by academics. My whole extended family are academics, doctors lawyers etc. i went to college. And much of what you get in college these days is ideological over education
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:49 AM
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Not at random, use your reasoning skills
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:30 PM
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The believe all women when it comes to rape, first i dont really agree with but the reason is more because making that accusation is a harrowing experience and it generally goes poorly for the woman doing it- except in the case of celebrities where money could be a factor. So it is more likely that she is telling the truth than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:13 AM
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This right here. Tiresome. It’s the same chewed over brainrot that people think passes for intellectualism. Just drivel. There is no rigor to this. Certainly no passion. Or fun. Just generally unpleasant to listen to ad nauseam. And it’s nothing new either. This was old fifty years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:05 AM
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Im aware
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:00 AM
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Why would I want to decenter men? Men are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:36 AM
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r/womenarenotintomen is missing you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:34 AM
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He knows this by personally being inside a woman’s brain
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:32 AM
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Has nothing to do with “too good” they just prefer being single to their options available
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:05 PM
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No wasnt for mating or at least getting action courtly love had little to do with actual love. And isnt really about marrying either. The sad difference is chivalry was originally in pursuit of having a civilizing effect. Modern day chivalry is transactional (even though it shouldnt be) nor does modern day chivalry have really anything to do with strength, modern day chivalry is about manners
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:08 AM
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Moreover its an ethical code
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:01 AM
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Essentially you are pledging service and loyalty to your boss’s wife
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:01 AM
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Also chivalry had mutual obligations
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:59 AM
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No i was just thinking where chivalry comes from and why it existed. Wasn’t for mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:57 AM
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Chivalry and seduction arent paired.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:51 AM
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You are speaking past each other
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:19 AM
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Doesnt really seem to make sense then to say guys do it for sex and women resources
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:17 AM
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Judging by the deadbedroom sub gonna guess the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:11 AM
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Nope my husband is perfect as is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:08 AM
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What if they both want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:06 AM
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Doubt my husband would let me sacrifice myself for him due to the age difference and being a mother. But I want to protect him it just comes out more as babying him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:04 AM
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But if you have genuine sexual desire why wouldnt you want to lock him down. I so often go wow this guy is incredible I hope I never see him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:41 PM
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No ive known ever since informal logic in college when we required to memorize a vast number of informal fallacies….
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:23 PM
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If she is receptive. Dont ask her out more than once I mean actually go out a few times with her. She probably isnt going home with you on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:19 PM
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Text a lot first. Ask out a few times. Feel each other out. Eventually invite home on some stupid pretense. Not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:27 PM
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Mm not really the same thing that the above is describing but point taken
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:30 PM
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Smart girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:17 AM
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No one was saying otherwise. In fact thats been stated several times in this thread. A good argument should provide evidence for its claims. A logical fallacy is just an argument that is off topic. People who actually argue the claim make a good argument provided the structure is formally sound and the premises are true. A sound argument should be strong evidence of the claim being true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:34 AM
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Ok but have they ever told you how you actually think? Thats bulverism
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:01 AM
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Oh dont even get me started on politics. You dont have debate anyone you have decided is categorically evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:45 AM
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If someone is concerned with truth fallacies should be accounted for because they arent a way to find truth. Accepting a fallacy is accepting a bad argument. You should use good arguments to ascertain truth. So actually very relevant. If you dont like debates why did you enter a thread labeled debate? You could just avoid it…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:41 AM
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Yeah bulverism isnt great. Most people do not commit this fallacy often. Its fairly rare. Which is why it is interesting in this forum. Bulverism was given a definition in the prompt because most people are unfamiliar with it. I still dont think you quite get what the flavor is of what is going on with it and there the fault is mine because my explanation is inadequate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:37 AM
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No I would advise you to read up further on bulverism then. The implication is that that class of people does not see things correctly because they are that thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:34 AM
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You may think its fine to lower standards and maybe in here it is fine. But when the person you are debating has a seething hatred for you that goes out the window. And some people in here are like that. Not most but Ive seen a few. Then you need to be sharp. The people I end up “debating” most of the time want me dead. I do not have the leisure to hold someone’s hand while they are trying to dehumanize me so they can work up an argument as to why I shouldn’t be allowed to exist. I apologize if …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:33 AM
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No one has been shamed. Logic isnt a syntax issue. If you mean to argue with people learning a little about it is generally useful- you dont need college for that at all. You cannot expect people in a place that is open to most all except for those who are banned to argue poorly on behalf of the person who they are arguing with. Thats not how this works. Its labeled debate not let’s figure this out together through teamwork. Theres a label discussion thread for that. Second order observation can…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:20 AM
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See you compare people - grown ass adults to a kindergarten class
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:15 AM
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Where has anyone been shamed? Pointing out a fallacious way of debating is not a shaming procedure. It’s part of debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:15 AM
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Bulverism generally assumes a false concioussness because the argument is you believe x because you are xyz therefore we can dismiss your argument because you cant understand your own circumstances as well as I someone from the outside peering in can. This happens every time some guy (or gal) assumes to know a persons thoughts and why they have them better than the person themselves. You dont understand the “they aren’t wrong” problem is only incidental they have said nothing to evidence the fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:11 AM
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Its not a formatting error. If you are debating you should assume your opponent will look for weak spots in your argument. No, informal fallacies don’t affect truth value but they aren’t a way to evidence its existence. Essentially if someone points out a fallacy at you they are telling you need to find another case to make your argument. Which actually is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:06 AM
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I mean I think you grossly underestimate people. If you are not college grad, you are doing fine in this debate. If you are a college grad Im sorry you feel this way about your fellow man. There are many great thinkers who stay away from institutions. I’m from the midwest your average midwestern folk without college can be extraordinarily clever and resourceful in their argumentation. Never assume just because someone didnt go to college that they need their hand held. I come from a whole family…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:01 AM
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Im going to do what we’re talking about right now. You are a woman and because you are a woman you desire that everyone be on the same page because getting to the correct answer is about cooperation and teamwork. If you were a man you would have a more aggressive tactic and would see a debate as a battlefield because this is the way all men and women think. So you are only saying what you are saying because you are a woman who doesnt understand what debating is really about and therefore we can …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:47 AM
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Why are you assuming your opponent is beneath you intellectually? Also I would never say an informal logical fallacy makes something wrong it makes a weak argument there is a difference. I do not assume the people I am talking to are lacking intellectually but you seem to. Like here. i think you are wrong but I have no reason to believe you are stupid. You are reasoning things out well enough. You also seem unaware that fallacies are not a formatting error. If you want to claim you think x becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:18 AM
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Youd actually have to fill out your argument. The problem is that many of these claims skip a number of premises that might save them. As in you would have to demonstrate that this is something all men think or at least the vast majority. Saying you only think that because you are a man leaves a lot out. You are still making hasty generalizations with this post, which is a different sort of fallacy. Attacking the psychology of the person isnt addressing the argument itself. If you wanted to addr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:44 AM
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There may be a causal link informal logical fallacies are just weak arguments not necessarily wrong. But you still arent arguing the actual comment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:38 AM
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Edit: nevermind misread what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:34 AM
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Man no one is coming in here to defend the fact they do this. Im supposed to be debating here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:30 AM
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Also true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:29 AM
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It effectively ends any argument if you decide the person you are arguing with has a false consciousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:29 AM
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Relevance to topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:08 AM
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Eh this has a more categorically dismissive false consciousness edge to it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:45 PM
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Damn it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:38 PM
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Have also seen that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:31 PM
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If they arent putting effort into texting they probably arent all that interested
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:28 PM
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Yes because using a paper towel and working in a coal mine are the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:39 PM
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Lol men dont complain. Funny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:07 PM
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Im kind of fine with that. But once you get it the people in this sub would still find something to bitch about since the men and women on either side live for their grievances
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:00 PM
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I had an ex who said he didn’t know how to wipe up a spill on the kitchen counter. He may be dumb but not that dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:08 PM
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How did we go from uncomfortable situation to risking lives? At most you just pretend to be her boyfriend and see her safely out or back to her group or whatever. Geez. Good guys? Bad guys? Im trying to figure out if an adult wrote this. Or someone who has ever been clubbing. Or has some social sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:19 AM
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There isnt some sort of limit on attachment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:24 PM
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Perhaps that was put poorly there are more antagonists
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:17 PM
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Who said they arent attached? What exactly is this hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:56 AM
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Aw thats sad though. If you cant trust your partner. Though I dont think being attached necessarily means being faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:16 AM
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Doubtful. If she started attached to him that attachment doesnt vanish over night just because of disfigurement
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:06 AM
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Ive met passport bros wives that seemed legitimately into them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:03 AM
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Ok but i liked dating professors which is high status because they said interesting things. Thats totally using ones high status job to attract a mate but the mate likes it because of the requirements of the job (knowing stuff and what that person has to personally say on it)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:00 AM
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What do the people here mean by it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:24 AM
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Heres a paper that mentions other animals and other studies on the vasopressin and social behavior https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9337272/ a small study on cooperation and avp https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1518825113 journal article on it https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/endocrinology/articles/10.3389/fendo.2023.1127792/full one on social recognition https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3309468/ something about vasopressin and aggression https://www.nature.com/articles/…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:59 AM
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Yeah i already posted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:41 AM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6838998/ https://psychiatryonline.org/doi/10.1176/pn.45.1.psychnews\_45\_1\_028 My father always called it an attachment chemical but hes just a child psychiatrist, you know an md
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:07 AM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6838998/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:05 AM
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Do you understand how little you learn from one high school class trying to be a 101 college class?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:44 AM
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So a high school psych class that doesnt primarily focus on neuroscience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:39 AM
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Oxytocin is an attachment chemical. Its the primary driving chemical of the parent-infant bond. If you ever had a baby you know what it’s like to feel flooded with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:31 AM
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You mean the actual definition lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:29 AM
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Good sex. Really bad sex probably not going to do that so much. The weird feeling of attachment that lasts a couple days that happens after a good dicking we used to call getting dickmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:22 AM
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You have similar issues. I pointed out the self reporting not as a comparative but because you should always take self reports with a grain of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:17 AM
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You can look this up. Its not difficult. I already posted the source. Its a standard academic textbook used in undergrad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:09 AM
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I wasnt trying to establish credibility I was showing my interest in it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:07 AM
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Did I claim to be a neuroscientist? I am however familiar with the basics as the daughter of a psychiatrist who read his library. Clearly take what Im saying with a grain or gallon of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:03 AM
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Unfortunately on this one id want to track down the original studies to see the data used. Taking just undergrads though is already a very small subsection of the general population for example. Id imagine on something like this attitudes change with age. And you are also relying on self reporting here The actual study itself here is about something they are calling passionate love (initial stages) I am referring to longterm stable pair bonded love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:49 PM
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I mean I read this in a neuroscience textbook. https://a.co/d/02IqPCgn And heres an article I havent read that mentions both the voles and human imaging https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10295201/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:35 PM
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This has been extensively studied in both humans and animals. I agree most of the people who use the term make some pretty wild claims about it that are poorly extrapolated from studies they don’t read or understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:28 PM
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I like to study neuroscience for fun. Pair bonding is a very real thing. It is not quite as strong in men due to dopamine (novelty can override the effects of vasopressin and oxytocin) Pair bonding in men also typically looks very different than in women. The vasopressin causes very territorial behavior and protective instincts. Women also have higher spikes of oxytocin from touch increasing pair bonding more than men. Testosterone also acts as an antagonist to pair bonding. So yes women are wir…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:08 PM
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I can agree to a degree, but most standards people have are non-negotiable and there for good reasons for them. However I also took a chance on a guy with just horrible Tinder photos. We’re talking about one photo in a bathroom mirror and one taken with the camera below the chin and pulling his head back so his neck looked super weird. That guy is now my husband and I adore him. So yeah on the superficial stuff don’t necessarily judge a book by its cover.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:42 PM
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How about this, your partner is not entitled to your entire sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:25 AM
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Anyone who goes to a site to see what a prospective partner’s sexual past is isn’t worth dating to begin with. Have at it. Weed yourself out. Please and Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:24 AM
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Sure doesnt seem that way from the commentary in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:05 PM
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There are studies that indicate women tend to move further right once married. Im not sure Id want to base whether I can trust an individual based on larger societal issues. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:30 PM
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That is your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:23 PM
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Like certain tasks will ffall to the woman whether she good at them or not but thats larger gender roles within a community not really something the husband says
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:05 PM
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I mean thats how it generally plays out. Theres just deferment. Roles are more socially enforced.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:04 PM
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Military is strongly hierarchical. The Jewish people have been living this way a very very long time. We have yet to fall apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:49 PM
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Im not sure about that. Again delegation is regularly practiced. You move as one unit. The hierarchy just adds a fluidity to it. Everyone understands their tasks. And conference is the norm. Its just he has final decision when their is a decision where there is an impasse
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:47 PM
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in traditional Judaism the house cleaning is left largely to the woman’s discretion same with childcare. The husband is still deferred to. And he will request certain things within that realm. Medical decisions are likely to involve both parties. Part of this is also framing. The acts may even be identical from this dynamic to the next but theres a sense of hierarchy with the one that doesnt exist in the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:42 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:51 PM
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Im sure you have all the primary sources for this then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:47 AM
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Whatever you say, the men doing the leading were not following red pill doctrine. That is an internet phenomenon with ideology that is very modern.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:27 AM
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I mean why do you care about their personality if you just want in their pants? Unfortunately for you the ball is in the women’s court for the first interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:02 AM
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What exactly do you think men are owed? Domestic violence shelters ok what else?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:00 AM
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Yeah you want to throw a lot of litmus tests at someone whose pants you are trying to get in. Thatll go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:22 AM
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I dont get why anyone would call themselves incel as opposed to just being a virgin with a good attitude. People like that guy. People do not like incels. Former guy affable, maybe even adorable. Probably cougar bait. Latter guy creepy, socially maladjusted. First guy brings out mommy instincts. Second guy raises hackles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:07 AM
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Ok so maybe the outwit part is really more for me and part of my shit testing. If Im handing over decision making power over I want to know the mind doing the decision making isnt acting well below the kind of decision making I could do for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:38 AM
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Well in the case of extreme anxiety the submission part helps with the anxiety. A wise leader delegates roles appropriately.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:34 AM
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In this kind of relationship she counsels and advises him. A wise husband will know where her strengths lie and delegates those tasks to her care. If she is more knowledgable in something and he is smart he listens.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:29 AM
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Not sure on this. I was fairly left when I met my husband. I argued all the feminist points. Definitely wasnt coming from a space where I thought much of masculine authority. Hes not super dominant. Didnt have much of a frame when I met him. The grievance culture goes both ways. Many grievances are legitimate but if you hyper focus on those you are essentially negating the chance of a relationship. Why do you assume its female emotions that are in conflict and not say her thoughts or logic? Its …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:15 AM
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I mean this is good advice to get a partner. To get someone to follow though you need absurd amounts of intimacy and trust- that means also valuing her thoughts and feelings as much as your own. Taking a keen interest in her and her personal psychology. Putting her needs at the same level you do your own. Listening to her. Be the person she shares all her secrets to. Care about her welfare. Spending quality time with her and committing to her. Hopefully she will match that energy and then shell …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:38 AM
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It’s not going to work with a man that is domineering or bossy. The man needs to be pretty gentle, kind, and reasonable to have a woman want to defer to him. The guy who craves someone to submit to him to feed his ego is precisely not the guy the woman is going to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:20 AM
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I dont think Id personally ever follow someone’s lead just because they had a frame. I feel like this misses something pretty fundamental for a lot of women. Having a frame might get you in the door for having a date. There are deeper psychological needs that have to be met and trust established to follow someone’s lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:08 AM
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All the women get scared because theyll lose their looks as they age, but let me tell you how freeing it is once you are there. Just keep pushing through eventually youll get a break. Youll be blessed with invisibility powers and you can just be yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:42 AM
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Its certainly not for everyone- but you shouldnt knock it if it works for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:24 AM
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No one is being domineering though thats sort of the point im trying to make
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:22 AM
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Relationship dynamics are just a touch more complicated than having a pet. Pets arent contingent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:19 AM
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Then you do not understand what is being said
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:13 AM
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No one needs red pill knowledge to lead. The red pill thinks far too much of itself. People have been leading for millennia without the help of TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:11 AM
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I dont have a ton of female friends. I know other moms. We don’t talk about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:04 AM
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Theres a difference between hearing something and actually considering it- the level of thought you are suggesting is not thoughtful consideration that values her input
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:00 AM
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Its called a Ketubah- parts are standardized in Torah and Talmud that need not be directly in the contract. I don’t have a Ketubah personally as I married a Christian man. (This is an illegitimate marriage in Judaism)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:59 PM
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I dont involve myself with feminists too much I believe in equality but the modern feminist doesnt share much of my worldview. I listen to men about men yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:55 PM
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You really arent getting this and it will be difficult for you to get what you want longterm if its something youre after. “The truth of the situation” here is coded what youve decided as a man. You cannot have that attitude. You must understand multiplicities. Yes it is literally written in the contract that her wants needs and desires must be thought about and that her counsel must be taken. That would be a literal breaking of the contract if you do what you want without making her a part of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:47 PM
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Still a trust issue and grievance issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:42 PM
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I cannot get into philosophy here but this is not correct and Descartes summed up the problems of objectivity in epistemology
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:40 PM
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I mean Im Jewish so I dont really have a frame of reference for abuse within traditional Christian relationships. But we would see this as a breach of contract. Women in Judaism are not lesser than men we have different roles. Women are said to be spiritually elevated naturally and a man must work to attain what a woman has naturally through study and prayer. A woman’s role is covered by Eishet Chayil - “ the woman of valor” the men sing this to their partners every Shabbat, serenading her over …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:37 PM
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I mean sometimes but the reasoning also needs to take into account her wants needs and desires. Ignoring those entirely breaks the contract. Ie you cant be pig headed as a leader. Every time you put your foot down or invalidate her you contribute to the breakdown of the relationship. And being emotionally hurt is a legitimate reason to refuse relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:25 PM
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Works slightly differently in religious contexts but many similarities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:18 PM
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Red pill trad bros etc its the same misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:16 PM
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It can be enabling I suppose but it is as much as a close friend trying to break the freeze. I can do the grounding work myself but it isnt as instantaneous. And frankly chronic anxiety is wearing. You get worn down. Being on high alert is physically exhausting. If turning toward my husband is a way to cope with that and its not a truly dysfunctional coping mechanism right now I am ok with that. I think particularly for Jews that are more anxiety prone, they are just looking for ways they can fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:15 PM
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Yes i used obey which is more Christian because I thought people would be more familiar with that than Jewish thought on deference to the husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:03 PM
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Ah glad someone understands what Im referencing. Im not Christian Im Jewish but its a similar deal in Torah - deference to husband (which is less than obey I suppose) and his commitment to her and the family
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:54 PM
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If the man is not taking in the wife’s counsel on things that affect her and isn’t doing what is in the best interest of both parties. Then he is not fulfilling his obligations- and it is a two way contract. Also if you are religious usually there is an imperative that you do not help someone sin even if they are the leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:47 PM
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In this sense the person the person giving imperatives must fulfill their end of the vows. One person fulfills the imperative conditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:43 PM
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Same thing applies to trad bros probably even more so. If they are coming into it with misogyny theyll never really get what they are after
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:39 PM
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So this is primarily for my benefit not his. I think people see someone telling someone to do something and usually assume its for the sake of the person giving an order. usually its simple tasks or some structure into how one is going to manage a set of tasks, although I can very well do this for myself/ for someone who is overwhelmed with fear daily tasks can become monumental, you are essentially frozen in place and moving about doesnt feel safe. Having an authoritative voice give directions,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:34 PM
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Objectivity is not for many issues readily apparent if it exists at all. If you doubt this I invite you to take a philosophy course. People also have a cognitive bias to assume their answer must be the objective one and that their logic is the only way to logic something. So why would he not want to pull the final decision maker card out too often? Because he values and cares about his significant other and recognizing building up resentment will ultimately make the relationship fail. Nothing ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:20 PM
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I wouldnt really call it dominance or submission really but I guess you can if you want. Its a dynamic that structures a relationship of which there are many. Submission tends to feel freeing to those that overthink or are prone to anxiety as it alleviates the need to worry if you have a point of focus and/or direction. I think for those with debilitating anxiety having someone create a safe space for you by just getting you unfrozen and moving by firmly telling you what to do in simple directio…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:00 PM
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The never take advice from women is shooting yourself in the foot. Not being able to listen to women is an instant turn off. Some of us will straight up tell you what works on us and the red pill will still do red pill strategies instead of the thing we are actually telling you we want from you. It’s utterly inane and ridiculous bulverism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:55 PM
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This obedience isnt in any way forced or enforced.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:47 PM
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Why do you think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:46 PM
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I obey my husband. I am Jewish and he is Christian…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:42 PM
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Exactly. You put this much better than I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:38 PM
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Not trying to take this to the point that it undermines agency. But we have more of a process on big decision making where he listens to my wants/needs/advice and instead of bickering back and forth on it if we cant come to a mutual agreement he has the final say but must consider what is best for both parties. He cant pull this final say terribly often because it will build up resentment if things favor him. So there is desire to come to a mutual agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:36 PM
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Yeah im not making some sort of prescriptive. I think there are many many valid forms of relationship dynamics. Its more if this is the kind of relationship you are going for these are the things that need to be in place first and you wont get that following the red pill worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:26 PM
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I only said the outwit part because I am confident in my abilities with logic (formal and informal logic classes were my favorite in college) and the reasons I feel confident in my husband being primary decision maker is because I know his ability to reason exceeds my own
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:23 PM
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Well one Im not terribly indoctrinated- i have been broadly agnostic then more spiritual and religious at various times. My entire family consists of many religions and absence of religion. I guess I said obey since Christians say to honor and obey and for husbands to love their wives the way the way Christ loves the church — this isn’t my religion but succinct about the general dynamic. Theres a paradox in that though that if the husband loves his wife the way Christ loves the Church he would n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:16 PM
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The insinuation that she may have cheated will surely go over well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:16 PM
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I like inexperienced introverted guys thats my type
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:31 AM
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Oh my gosh corny and shy are so cute though. Thats rather irresistible in my book so maybe its not that that is setting women off. I cant even handle that. Complete putty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:43 AM
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Dont be black pilled. Maybe a large percentage of women like certain things but its not all. Im a demographic too and my type is introverted generally inexperienced shy men or men older than me that i click with over usually fairly academic things. My husband kind of hits both these for me because hes much older than me but was also once this 27 year old virgin pastor. Ive seen pictures of him at that age, and i mean he looked like such a boyish nerd which is like my kryptonite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:21 AM
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Yes totally. Ive found I can get really attracted to some very unconventional guys if they hit all the right buttons. I get positively dreamy about men who do that- i do have a type but thats also sort of unconventional. But yeah things other people see as unattractive can absolutely become spellbinding on the right guy. Example I dated a professor who handled himself so elegantly and was so formidable but he was missing half his skull and his eye socket had slipped down from the trauma so uneve…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:47 AM
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Thats so true isnt it…. They do get hotter the more you click/observe characteristics you like, but i would say that bump can be pretty substantial
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:47 AM
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Probably about 30/ 70 for me unless im ovulating in which case 70/30 but this is the same guy just noticing different things about him. He gets unbelievably handsome that time of the month. Like he always looks good, but wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:14 PM
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And i should qualify some men and some women. Healthy people dont do this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:22 PM
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Yes. It reaffirmed both. Women arent the only ones to do this. This is just a people thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:21 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:04 PM
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Exactly what someone missing the point would say
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:57 AM
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No thats in the wrong for her - a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:25 AM
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You are missing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:17 AM
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Dont call people animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:17 AM
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This pretty deep end ma’am
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:12 AM
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Appeal to the ridiculous?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:07 AM
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Not even sure which sex you’re referring to here buddy that applies to both
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:05 AM
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It’s bigoted sure. But for the ones that survived trauma and it’s a generalized trauma response that should be worked out in therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:04 AM
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I had a friend who was very clear she wasn’t interested in a relationship with this guy and he had some serious puppy love for her. They’d hang out as friends and sometimes he’d help out with various things that needed doing. I feel like this is more of a grey area. Shes been quite clear but they are trying to maintain a friendship. Friends sometimes help out (moving etc) It may be his desire that is motivating him but at some point it’s his responsibility to step away if he doesn’t want to be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:19 PM
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Totally not the same thing. Though he has his obscene pet names for me. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:11 PM
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Clearly not in this scenario. Hes married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:51 AM
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Ehh if I tell my husband he’s my snuggle bunny he says it can be emasculating but Im not saying anything about his worth other than he is a worthy snuggler. The reason it’s emasculating is that it neuters him sexually. Again nothing to do with utility or competency.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:15 AM
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Its interesting how this post can stay up but mine saying to knock off the bulverism in this sub by all parties was taken down for not being neutral. When clearly bulverism happens for a fact in this sub all the time demonstrably.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:47 AM
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This isnt even an argument its just a bare assertion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:31 AM
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You cant force something many women find morally abhorrent as their “out”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:11 AM
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Ego protection is valued higher than actual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:04 PM
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Most women are not making out with other women at clubs. Flawed premise. Also women sometimes do that to get the attention of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:39 PM
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But you dont have proof they are something otherwise. Again we just covered that people can try things they don’t like
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:51 PM
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Uh no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:32 PM
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What matters more is if I like said person. This is more just a detail about them figuring out who they are. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:16 AM
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You shouldnt do 50/50. You should do 70/30 where you aim to do 70% of the work and your partner 30% and your partner should have the same goal in mind where they do 70% and you do 30%. Always do more than is necessary. If they take advantage of it then they arent for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:51 PM
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Having a sense of humor isn’t a transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:41 PM
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Thanks for insulting my husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:27 AM
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All the married couples on my block are average, and the block behind me and the block next to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:51 AM
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Thats my type though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:43 AM
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Oh man when they sing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:37 PM
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Ie I am the one struggling not to use broad brushstrokes when having a trauma response to something the majority of a group does. It doesnt really matter what that thing is when talking about the reactive struggle itself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:39 PM
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The issue isnt what they are doing but me generalizing my reaction to what has been traumatic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:29 PM
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Just acknowledging the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:01 PM
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I was being vague on purpose. Id rather not start a flame war
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:56 PM
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Mmm having issue with the and the adult gen z right now. Unfortunately the majority of them do actually do the negative thing in question. But that still isn’t everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:01 AM
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Aw poor guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:06 AM
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This is the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:58 PM
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Met my husband off of Tinder, he did text me for like three weeks before we could meet up but it was totally a one night stand that just failed to end. Hes visually just my type. He takes my breath away. My mind wanders thinking about how beautiful he is. I didnt go into it thinking thered be more even though I did hope. I dont know my brain was totally short circuiting. I couldn’t get over how attracted to him I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:57 PM
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Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:08 PM
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How do you know its an edge case
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:54 AM
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Whats wrong with male nurses
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:20 AM
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Non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:11 PM
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Not everyone is like this. Not all people are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:13 AM
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Eh most women experiment in teenage/young adult years. Doesnt mean they are necessarily into women, in fact they may be figuring out that they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:41 AM
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Hmm im much more lets all stay home and never go out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:16 PM
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If they’re using charisma to hide how awful they are do they really love bad boys or do they just fall for a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:58 PM
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No…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:14 AM
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Would depend on individual taste there is no one size fits all, but if you want to rule of thumb it go by virtues
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:44 AM
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Think smarter to try to find people you have things in common with women dont appreciate the mass swiping right
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:43 AM
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Schopenhauer might not be the guy to quote about women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:35 AM
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Being charismatic isnt the same thing as having a great personality
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:31 AM
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Many women dont have those things as there primary attractors though, they are popular attractors sure but theres a lot of variance and certainly my idea of what is physically attractive is not the same as the next womans
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:09 AM
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You know saying this is not a topic for debate isn’t an argument, its just there to make people think theres no argument to be had, but almost always looks ridiculous as people see right through it and complex systems do have simple parts but its the system that is complex not the part
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:59 PM
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Something a simple mind would assume. Smart people are aware you cant actually know another persons mind
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:03 AM
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The problem with the internet is you can find anyone saying any number of things and 100k people is still statistically irrelevant and you will be shown whatever content draws your attention
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:12 AM
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Just because you can see each other on social media doesnt mean you have any insight to their perspective or interior world
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:32 AM
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I read these and the assumptions that are made about each sex and think do they not know each other at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:30 AM
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Eh the whole fill a role thing is truer for younger people than it is for older- its inexperience
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:53 AM
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Counter point my husband spent weeks texting me and sweet talking me took me out to dinner and I immediately jumped into his bed. I have been gaga about him ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:35 AM
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The kind thing to do imo is to empathize with why someone might generalize threat signals from past encounters and show that this is not you by being kind instead of insulted and hurt- ultimately its not about you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:22 AM
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Unless you are the type to tell victims of trauma to give up the prejudices that may stem from such trauma that play a role in their threat assessment of a situation however illogical they may be. Ie are you the type to tell a for an example that a victim of war should intentionally lower their guard around the people who sought to murder them because its nationalist/racist/sexist what have you or do you let the weird illogical generalizations people do to protect themselves slowly lower as they…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:19 AM
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Also the discomfort among men may technically be misandry but its also a survival mechanism and physical threat generally trumps wounded ego
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:12 AM
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Sir, i mean this in the most loving way possible- stop wrestling pigs youll only get dirty and the pigs like it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:10 AM
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People are still on about mansplaining? This is 2026
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:40 AM
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I apologize. Mea culpa
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:27 AM
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Logically there is youve made arguments based off the studies as if the studies say what your saying when in fact they do not. Much more bare assessment then what youve said
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:57 PM
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You are doing a lot of extrapolating off of this/these study(ies)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:13 PM
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Most guys arent into women being so forward or making the first move in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:18 PM
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Uh yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:13 PM
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The outliers are interesting remark is interesting since it sets anyone you disagree with as being an “outlier” and therefore not worthy of consideration
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:35 AM
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No the argument was men want women more, thats not true just women are more particular about the men in question
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:48 PM
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I mean if you think women cant express themselves or should not be trusted to speak for themselves just say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:44 PM
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I never said that women are into most men I said women are into men. But the ones they narrow in on they find as attractive and want sex with as much as men do with women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:57 PM
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Yeah i guess if you ignore what 50% of the worlds population has to say about it, but you who knows nothing of what it is like to be a woman know best
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:53 PM
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Also sounds like youve never made a woman cum if you think its all performative
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:49 PM
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I guess ill just ignore my own libido then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:48 PM
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Women don’t approach because that usually doesnt go over well. Women nag about marriage. Not living as long single has nothing to do with wanting sex more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:47 PM
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Did you not read the more picky part
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:45 PM
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Naw mate we want you as much as you want us but we have to deal with the consequences of getting knocked up and a far more limited scope for spreading genes which makes women more picky
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:52 PM
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You dont think men (and women) just desire sex for the sake of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:29 PM
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I mean back in the day I always found this kind of ick. Leave the ladies alone, give them some peace unless they are signaling interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:54 PM
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Pretty sure attraction is a bit more complex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:45 AM
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Not possible I married the best man. They are still out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:30 AM
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Well i dont hate men, i think men are pretty awesome. So no I dont think you can justify hating a whole group just because some members are hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:21 AM
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Why would a friend know about her personal sex life are they 20?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:00 AM
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Then you are dating a child. Dump her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:59 AM
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This can all be easily avoided by not talking about the sexual details of past relationships. Not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:11 AM
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This title had me for a second, and ready to cringe. Can’t walk away from this oppressor/oppressed Manichaeism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:48 AM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:55 PM
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Do you think tinder is all men? Or maybe mostly just men looking for a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:48 AM
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Not really sure I see him as an alpha, more like a guy with one very specific set of interests. I’d put him as outsider marching to the beat of his own drum.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:17 AM
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Im not saying that isn’t the case. I’m saying the majority of men on tinder aren’t very coherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:15 AM
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Didn’t read this all the way through but I’m pretty sure the bar on tinder is: can string along a few coherent thoughts together. I mean it is really really low. If you can do that you are doing pretty good for that site.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:06 AM
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I needed to sort decants to match some perfumes being sent out while maintaining the mood of each box going out while trying to be fairly equal about distribution. Halfway through forgets like over 75% of the contents the when i asked it to redistribute to make it more even (since it put like thirty in one box and none in another etc) while still staying close to scent categories- it started adding in things that were never there to begin with and couldnt get those things out of the list - all t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:33 AM
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Eh just asked ai to do a pretty complex task and broke it, failed in every way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:50 AM
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But genuinely terrible for your social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:48 AM
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You get weird effects when you have yes men which is what ai essentially are at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:46 AM
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You aren’t thinking about emotional needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:13 AM
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Hmm if I were to say something like that I am saying something like if I were single Id find you dateable, so it’s not a lie just an impossibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:46 PM
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I don’t resent him at all. He pointed out exactly how vulnerable I was though and scared me a little more than I was already. But it’s not like something he continued to do after realizing the extent of how insidious the fears were.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:21 PM
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Its not in bad faith I just found out my husband kind of did this when we were first dating due to some inebriated admissions. Im not mad about it, bit amused tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:32 PM
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I dont think men are bad. This is stemming from my husband getting pretty blasted the other night and ended up going on and on about how hes going to protect me from something I’m afraid of and I realized when we were first dating he may have played up these fears a bit. I was rather amused by him going “im not going to get on a horse or wear armor or carry a lance though”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:17 PM
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Massive generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:51 PM
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Chalant isnt a word
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:06 AM
1

You can get advice from both
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:00 AM
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There is no hamster wheel
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:05 AM
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My husband has no status or money and hes 63. He was once a 27 year old virgin with treatment resistant depression that more or less kept him in bed 40 years. I find him insanely hot but he is not conventionally so, i am his third wife. I am 23 years younger. What he has is a very sweet personality and makes great conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:04 AM
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Ok but sometimes he does in fact win
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:57 AM
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Cmon man youve never rooted for the underdog which is weirdly in this case like 98% of dudes in this bizarre fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:52 AM
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Responding to another of your assumptions that women dont find men younger than them attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:25 AM
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No both are hot in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:22 AM
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Dont need rescuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:21 AM
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He was fucking hot when he was younger in that virgin seminary student way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:20 AM
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I may be married to a 63 year old but if a 27 version of himself walked through the door ive seen pictures mate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:11 AM
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“Beta” is a total hottie. I will die on this hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:09 AM
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Husband has no status, not really dominant, no resources. Im with him because i like him and hes hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:05 AM
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Oh lol more assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:03 AM
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No mate men age like fine wine. Just because you dont find old men attractive doesnt mean women dont
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:57 AM
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Well everything seems to be in working order…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:54 AM
0

Kafka trap
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:40 AM
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But you wont accept any evidence to the contrary
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:40 AM
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You need to prove what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:39 AM
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What makes you think id is the ultimate truth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:34 AM
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Cause they are hot. Superior to the guys you call alphas in your broken metaphor in every way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:51 AM
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Seriously how old are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:50 AM
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If any age group of women can find a man maybe theres something attractive about them to their partners hmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:50 AM
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Saying something is true is not an actual argument. Please take a logic class
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:45 AM
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Again bare assertions no evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:34 AM
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Why marry me when he could date someone younger and hotter. I mean he could date below the age of his own children do you have any idea how warped that is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:30 AM
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All of this is just bare assertion without evidence. Women like me? Im a screen name to you. All you know is I am 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:28 AM
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What makes you think i dont understand my husband and have no desire to? Are you implying that if hes into me it must be a lie? Dont put yourself in a kafka trap. Essentially all your saying is that is not possible for him to be into me so when presented with evidence to the contrary you call it a lie. Kafka trap. If all evidence to the contrary is evidence of the originally held position you are not a serious person you just make circular arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:13 AM
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40 and madly attracted to my husband hes 63
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:01 AM
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Aside from the fact that he just married me and our sex life is great, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:58 AM
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Also hes not middle aged
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:55 AM
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He JUST married me a year and a half ago
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:54 AM
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Counterpoint from husband: why would i want to fuck a child. People are attracted to more than just looks or youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:08 AM
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I would argue most people dont know enough about the religions they criticize to know if there is hypocrisy or not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:05 AM
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Thats a perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:04 AM
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Criticism fine calling an entire religion hypocritical betrays a certain arrogance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:40 AM
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Mostly because rarely there are places where muslims do practice fgm so i couldnt really say all i could the vast majority. Also Im a Jew ergo feel more comfortable asking about Jews
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:48 AM
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Are you calling all Jews hypocrites?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 01:33 AM
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You are stuck in a kafka trap mind rot self fulfilling prophecy. Circular logic all the way around. Incidentally by the way the guys youd probably peg as having failed the genetic lottery I think some of them are really hot. Dated a number of virgins and guess what- they are just normal dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:08 PM
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Do you know how to spot a conspiracy theory? When all evidence against a thing is part of the conspiracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:07 PM
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Anything that doesnt align with my worldview must be a lie. Brilliant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:04 PM
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If you want to call me blue pilled for being happily married i mean I guess you win there champ, have a fun time making yourself miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:02 PM
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It doesnt look like you have any sort of convincing rebuttal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:59 PM
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Im an old lady what does this mean
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:56 PM
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Is he more attractive? Ive seen pictures of him at 27 man i dont want to say he was more attractive then because its just a different look but he was hot in that kind of geeky pastor 27 year old virgin kind of way. If his 27 year old self approached me I would have lost my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:20 PM
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Im married to a man 23 years my senior. He is not rich. He lost all of his money to his ex wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:15 PM
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True to black pill form.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:51 PM
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The two arent mutually exclusive. Someone can be a provider and you love them for them. Unemployment happens occasionally, not something most leave the marriage for, just part of life. Husband when I met him was unemployed and then again later. It’s stressful but temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:31 PM
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Naw i feel like my husband is that for me and hes not anywhere near .1%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 10:20 PM
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Nor is force the only way to meet these criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:00 PM
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A leader is by nature the dominant person in the room. I would argue dominance does not necessarily imply force. The dictionary has several indicators of what can be considered dominant. Controlling is only one possible avenue.”Dominant describes someone or something that is controlling, prevailing, or more powerful and important than others. Characteristics include leadership, assertiveness, and high visibility. It is used in contexts like social influence, genetics (stronger alleles), and rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:57 PM
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Dominance can also be soft power.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:54 PM
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You still dont understand. I understand thant bdsm can encompass a whole lifestyle. What you dont understand is that dominance exists without bdsm and in a different form
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:43 AM
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Real world dominance is not constrained in the same way that BDSM is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:23 AM
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Im really talking about within dominance the difference between hard and soft power, think here international relations not bedroom antics
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:19 AM
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Well you arent exactly being earnest, but here Im not talking about dominance or submission as they occur related to any sexuality and nothing gamified about it. Im talking about something more structural to our everyday engagements as a social phenomena, as in Winston Churchill had a dominant personality etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:15 AM
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You still have no idea what im talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:03 AM
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BDSM is a simulacrum
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:57 AM
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No thats really not what I mean. This has nothing to do with BDSM. BDSM is playing at dominance. I am talking about the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:53 AM
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Not at all what im talking about. This isnt post isnt about BDSM
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:26 AM
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Not all things are easily defined. Maybe we are just around different sorts of people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:59 AM
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I mean Id say dominant is a little different than assertive. Theres a bit of the patriarchy in it (though could also apply to women) but it isnt domineering
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 03:51 AM
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I feel like millennial could handle online dating better since most of us didnt have any false expectations. We knew the type of person that would be interested in us from before online dating was much of a thing. Also have had some sort of awareness about how cool average humans could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:29 PM
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Really only talking about marriage or long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:52 PM
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Only interested in sex for a marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:42 PM
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If you arent too savvy sure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:23 PM
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If you have introvert, someone who is shy, cautious, etc they will be much more comfortable if the first part is online or on the phone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:22 PM
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I meant now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:20 PM
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Well initial bait is a numbers game. But once you’ve got someone talking to you, you have to figure out how to hold their attention. That takes time and build up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:05 PM
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Is gaming popular with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:03 PM
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Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone you don’t like?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:56 PM
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False at least for me. I wanted the guy who put the effort in and married him. Husband talked me up for like three weeks to a month before we actually went on a date. By the time the date arrived I was already so enamored I went home with him, which I don’t really do. There was another guy at the time who on paper looked ok but ultimately did not choose. I have been enamored with my husband ever since. People here might call that beta behavior but he’s the one that makes me swoon hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:52 PM
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Gaming would fall under massively popular and therefore nothing special
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:44 PM
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I think this may be truer of younger women who aren’t sure what they want or cant quite articulate it. Ask someone with experience what has worked on them. Real world examples
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:42 PM
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Like dont you kids hang out with each other anymore? Gen Z apparently is killing the booze industry because they never go out clubbing or hang out at the bar. I hear you guys dont even party much?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:23 AM
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You genuinely do not have to learn how to hook up. Women tend to find that off putting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:20 AM
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Well if you call communicating with someone simping i dont know what to tell you. Most women feel the need to size up guys before going out with them to minimize any potential threat and spot red flags. Again not sure how this exchange is not sociable- communicating is the definition of sociable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:13 AM
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That is just wild to me. Most my friends growing up were guys, but it was like a healthy mix
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:11 AM
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I would say that depends on how good you are at wooing women. If you are getting laid every other day then it might be a waste of time, but if not and you are having trouble achieving dates not doing this is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:41 AM
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I would say dont game women at all. Its a shallow lifestyle that hardens you to ever actually finding a relationship. But if you want to date women, chatting women up is not a bad place to start
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:53 AM
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Case in point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:14 AM
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The problem with a lot of guys is they ask other guys what will win women over, but if a woman says yeah not that or actually this what I like, they disregard her. Men even tell other men to disregard female advice because women dont know what actually works on them which is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:10 AM
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To learn how to talk to women? Practice with women you’re not actually hitting on. A lot of women are happy to give pointers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:09 AM
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Pick up artists have no intention of actually dating they are just in it to get laid. Nobody likes those guys. Just socialize like normal humans do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:56 AM
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Yes men please practice your social skills but dont be a pua- learn to have witty repartee so many guys are too forward or show no personality on dating apps. Meanwhile many women want to talk men to death while they are sizing them up for a date. Sorry the four sentence verbal exchange is just not going to get you there. You need to put in a few days worth of convo bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:48 AM
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Second option can very easily shift to first and then the whole dynamic changes. I was kind of waiting and seeing what a date would do and I was pretty upfront about this when I met my husband on tinder. First guy wasnt giving me great signals. Husband was patient with this. I was originally a bit cool on him. But he waited it out. Then my whole attention shifted onto him and hes kept my attention ever since. Taking it slow can also indicate that one is taking the relationship more seriously rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:39 AM
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Every person is their own demographic. We arent special snowflakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:56 AM
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I once approached a guy. He gave me a fake number. Never again. That shit hurts. Males are much better equipped to handle that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:24 AM
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Not going to happen. In ten to fifteen years i’ll be taking care of him. Hes 23 years older than me. That whole life being a temporary thing makes every moment special.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:59 AM
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Using them for money is actually the gross part
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:52 AM
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Ok this isnt really towards me since im middle aged but my husband is 23 years my senior. different life stages- great I know someone will be taking care of him at the end, power imbalances only for the very youthful without real world experiences, relatability- we bonded over history, hes plenty attractive at 63 i think hes gorgeous- our sex life is healthy, were both introverts so who cares if we have common friends- not gonna have his babies we both already have our own, yes he will likely di…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:48 AM
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Childish worldview. People are three dimensional beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:37 AM
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All systems are flawed. If you think communism is going to be better than capitalism I have some history you should look into.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:35 AM
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Seriously mate I get enough antisemitism elsewhere the fact that you just jumped to that is tiresome
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:29 AM
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Uh no. Same as in of the same moral character
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:27 AM
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Major stuff yes. Minor things like not telling him I sing to my dog like all the time and not even real songs just like one or two rhymes on a loop. You have to hide that shit until they’ve signed the marriage papers and are living with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:01 AM
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I mean if they are actually nice and not nice as a transaction yeah thats pretty hot. Good men are even hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:55 AM
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Pretty sure that doesnt exist anymore than the person who puts ketchup on oatmeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:40 AM
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Counter. The same people will always find a way to game the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:38 AM
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No as a woman I can be extremely introverted and find someone relatively easily. I can’t imagine pulling that off well as a man. Pretty sure if I were a guy I’d end up celibate given what is celebrated as criteria for dating. As a woman I have never had issues with finding someone willing to love me even though the skills I have aren’t terribly practical, I can only really support myself, I have zero social status- see introvert and Im also short. My interests to most women would be considered u…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:10 AM
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I wouldnt recommend to very young women without life experience, my husband is twenty three years my senior but im also like middle aged when age gaps dont really matter as much except in that you are signing up to take care of someone in their later years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:16 AM
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Disagree, of course my husband has said and disagreed but he also bends over backwards and hes quite disarming.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:53 PM
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Ruthless jerks are not a capitalism thing, they exist across cultures and economics. Some of it is just part of human nature. Which is why idealistic economies are bound to failure, precisely because they don’t account for human nature. Women where status and protection are not primary necessities will tend to date along very different lines. This happens when the basics of the hierarchy of needs are already accounted for. Then they pursue people who “get” them or who are intellectually interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:47 PM
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I dunno require people read Jane Austen as high school reading material? Though seriously being well read is what helps in the banter department, not necessarily fiction though. Know interesting things you can involve someone in a conversation with. Have some depth and breadth
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:26 PM
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Why are we so down with the patriarchy. The patriarchy is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:12 PM
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I mean there is something to being unattainable or hard to get. Husband told me early on hes never marrying anyone again and I said to myself “we’ll see about that” I was first to tell him ‘I love you’ he had a harder time figuring that out even though I had a pretty good idea that I knew he did. It was at least three months later to reciprocate and directly before he asked me to marry him. But at some point you do have to either reciprocate or leave. Leaving someone in a constant state of unreq…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:50 PM
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Which is hijacking the system, not what its there for
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:25 PM
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Doing drugs is solitary
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 05:40 PM
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I’m not pretending anything. People can and do get more loving during sex. Oxytocin is a bonding chemical
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:17 PM
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Not a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:25 PM
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Im not sure that one can feel love through sex means the same thing as always feel love through sex. I imagine the person saying this would also say it depends on the person they are with
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:28 PM
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Married someone who was on the opposite side of the political spectrum from me couldnt be happier
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:20 PM
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I filtered entirely on personality and met my husband. Hes perfect for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:19 PM
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Man i signed up to be my husband’s caretaker because Im crazy about him. We have a great relationship. Those who are in it for marriage know full well what they are getting into and are generally fine with it. The sad part is just losing them early.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:25 AM
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You should specify where the cut off is and where the info comes from. Predictions are only as good as the info given
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:26 AM
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In 2021 about 55% of millennial women already had kids. That number has since, of course, gone up. Is that less than previous generations- yeah- but the majority arent childless
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:07 AM
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If you ask around on different subs if women find their husbands to be the sexiest man youll get a surprising range of answers, its not an uncommon occurence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:33 PM
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Other way around. You marry the guy you have killer chemistry with. There is no one hotter than my husband imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:05 AM
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I didnt know that area was known for its academics? I mean I guess my stepsister is a professor out there. But I take it you mean people place a lot of emphasis on status?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 11:16 PM
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I was for a couple years. Focusing on other things
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:53 PM
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That guy who was brilliant with mathematical logic worked at walmart - if you like smart, you are smart enough to know pedigree matters very little
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:09 AM
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Had a boyfriend tell me Ill never understand what it is truly like to be lonely I would always be loved. He spent ten years celibate so he should know. But one that turned out to be bullshit. Not ten years worth of self inflicted misery but still bullshit nonetheless. Women do have times they arent with anyone. Two you can be with someone and feel completely alone, ask anyone who has been in an abusive or neglectful relationship or was with someone that didnt “get” them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:57 AM
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Yes. But first we must test you for at least two weeks to see if you are meet up material.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:50 AM
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Or conversely they get really bashful and embarrassed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:47 AM
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Which is why i spent my youth dating professors, bookworms, history nerds, and guys who were waay too into symbolic logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:41 AM
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Hmm must have done this wrong i hooked up with him and then decided he was husband material after dating awhile. I know they say never hook up on the first date but then hell never wonder if he is just husband material you are settling for because you already made the choice to be with him knowing it might not lead anywhere. Don’t make it a habit or anything though. Incidentally early on he said he was never getting married again and i said we’ll see about that. Gotta play the long game.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:04 PM
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Helll no Ive always liked men super academic. The more “boring” the better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:24 PM
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Dude spend less time online and go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:35 PM
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Too simplistic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:25 PM
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It also helps if your party just became big tent for antisemitism and you happen to be a Jew. So while hes pulling me in, I also feel pushed out by the party I grew up in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:21 PM
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Doesnt really happen like that. More like you spend the first year constantly debating things and he wins more often than not. It’s a super gradual slide.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:19 PM
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Make an app that pairs people up by common interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 06:44 PM
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Have you considered not everything is transactional?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:01 PM
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A human life has value in and of itself. That value does not translate into things you can get with it. Qualities you have may get you things, but a person has value even if those qualities are stripped away.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:51 PM
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Too many men on tinder showing off their catch to prove they can feed the women folk during the cold winter months.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:37 AM
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I used to be pretty fit now am not, still into the same geeky guys I always was.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:42 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:20 AM
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there is no power imbalance after a certain age, your just that middle aged woman married to someone older
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:18 PM
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Naw love it when my man needs me for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:45 PM
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You must have never worked in retail or waiting tables. Many people are dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:39 AM
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When I was on dating sites I’d look at the profile first for signs of intelligent life. I’d check the picture but kind of as an afterthought. Id then accept or send a message to see if I could get a conversation going. I’d be looking for a wide array of interests, common interests like history or philosophy etc, how academic the person was, for their humor, and potential red flags- then after several days to a week of chatting go out. This is how I met my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:25 AM
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They are not old school republicans
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:48 PM
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There are still old school conservatives but they didnt really vote for Trump
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:37 PM
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Bold of you to assume Trump is conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:14 PM
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And he didnt read compliments only? And the language is loose here clearly im not looking for the best compliment ever any will do because I’m looking for which gender collectively has the nicest thing to say. Not everything is exacting and literal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 01:49 PM
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Ill just take that as you having nothing nice to say
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:57 AM
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Think it has more to do with the dynamic of the app. Men flood women with likes seeing if any of them will stick and women have to look through a thousand messages most of which are pretty low effort. This is because it is a numbers game for men not because men inherently want women more. Evolutionarily as well women have always had to be pickier as they do not have as many chances as men to pass on genetic material and have all the physical risks associated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:49 AM
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I agree with that but this whole sub is usually about making sweeping generalizations so figured it would stand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:42 AM
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Absolute disdain?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 12:34 AM
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From personal experience I met my husband on Tinder. He immediately started having a real conversation with me. We had lots in common (both academically nerdy) He is not a 10 but you couldn’t tell me that. Desire stemmed from conversation and I think he is the sexiest man alive. In turn, I’m pretty average though I was pretty cute in my twenties. But he is in love with me despite that. People just aren’t looking for the right things or going about this in a terribly productive way. Everyone lose…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 12:13 AM
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Seems more like something an outsider would think about conservative and religious men more than that being the case in reality. I’m married to a former pastor and conservative. I have yet to notice any stigma
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:40 PM
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Convince women that having common interests is more important than dating a stud that will turn her over for the next new thing or keep her on rotation. Create an app where you can search by common interests or any other search. Having a deep connection to someone creates desire, when you just hit it off it creates desire. Have profiles be fuller. Require thoughtful responses. The other side of this is that men on these apps are generally looking for something NSA. Just like the average girl get…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:35 PM
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Not at all. There are many reasons a great guy might not get dates. Could just be an introvert or anxious for one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:41 AM
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If you don’t interact with them they’ll eat their own with purity tests and virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:01 AM
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Lets be real most the “feminists” are whiny ass college students who desperately want to feel oppressed. They stay on the margins and never integrate past their bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:53 AM
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Why should attractive people be arbiters of anyone else’s lot in life on a mass scale. They can individually reject people but that isnt placing someone in their “league”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:12 PM
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Who gets to decide who is in what league?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:04 PM
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Population collapse kind of is an issue when people aren’t having kids. However, I’m not sure you can attribute that solely to dating circumstances, a lot of variables there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:49 PM
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Most women will have some sort of unwanted encounter with a man or many. I do not think most women are misandrist, a small but vocal terminally online group of feminists may have you thinking otherwise. Ive had bad encounters with men and I quite like the men folk. Not everyone generalizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 04:15 PM
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Good natured late blooming virgins still have a shot. Thats someone’s kink or challenge for sure. But once a guy starts buying into ideological misogyny and foreclosed upon worldview that shot is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:25 AM
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Always analyze the content of an argument not where it originates as a genetic fallacy. Writing off happily married people for being happy when thats where you want to be is a bit foolish. They might know something you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:54 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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