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Arguing with a fool proves there are two.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 02:40 PM
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Lots of good advice above. If in doubt, ask questions, but don't fire them off like a machine gun. I imagine I'm in a chat show, and whoever's across from me is a local celebrity. Consider what people say but keep it light. You don't have to be the life of the party. If you're the quiet, stable guy, be quiet + stable... just talk a little + ask more questions. And be honest that it's your first time and you're a little out of your element, but don't lean on or cling to anyone. My game at parties…
/r/askTRP26/05/18 02:20 AM
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It costs some guys 20 years of marriage and a $250,000 dollar divorce to swallow the red pill. You got off light. If it wasn't for hypergamy, I doubt any guy would even tidy his room.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 05:24 PM
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Questions are the easiest way to start a conversation, OP. Just become interested in other people. It's normal for younger people to feel awkward in conversation. It gets better as you get older... A lot of this is googleable. "How to start a conversation" etc. It may feel dumb googling this stuff but there's tons of advice out there.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 09:41 PM
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The reason is might want to come back is because the new guy didn't work out. That happens a lot. Girls get shiny object syndrome, two weeks later the new guy turns out a dud for one of many reasons. They come back talking sweet again, lol. Make sure she stays at arms length in future. I will damage her emotionally and leave what's left for the vultures of life This sounds bitter and vengeful. Chill.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:13 PM
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Don't hang out with people like that in the first place. Find other friends. https://www.meetup.com/
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:04 PM
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That's a whole post in itself. I will give an in-depth answer in my next post. Cheers. From where I sit, if you want a good OLTR, at least 50% of the emotions should be stability + happiness. If its a total rollercoaster she might wise up and find another guy. I also don't want to spend all day treating them mean to keep them interested. There must be more sophisticated ways of cycling through emotions, like telling a story, disagreeing with them, going silent listening to intense music, going t…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 02:36 AM
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Can you go into the rollercoaster of emotions in a more psychological way? I think I do it naturally, but I never saw a good post or article on it.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 12:55 AM
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You're right OP, waiting til the second date to escalate is worth it. Lets the girtl feel she's 'not a slut'. Dread should not be verbalized. The girl needs to calculate, on her own, that a guy is high-SMV. I nearly lost my main gf in February after over-playing dread. She didn't see me for 2-3 weeks, saying she "didn't want to be a tire". I left her alone for a while. I stiill refuse to commit to her, but I give her a lot of comfort and stability because she's worth my time. A mixture of not-co…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 10:16 PM
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I noticed how 9s can be easier than 7s sometimes too, cos they have been gamed less. Confidence is key, I agree. Whatever, the best strategy is to lift as much as I can to increase my SMV. It's working for me right now.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 08:39 AM
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Reading comprehension, is important. You wrote a good post. People are adding to your message, and giving their take. You are shutting them down and being defensive. Getting to the top 20%, 1 out of 5 men, is easier for me to understand and shoot for. The top 20% can sometimes get 8s and 9s. But to keep them, you need to be closer to the top 5-10%. I've been in and out of the top 20% most of my life. I had a 9 really into me in September. A few weeks later, she met a bodybuilder, who was in the …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 12:22 AM
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Reading this thread, there are tons of generalisations being thrown around. I'd take everything with a grain of salt because we don't know who's typing. I've dated women from most of the nationalities mentioned. I never paid any money for anyone. All women can be bratty, spoiled, immature, gold-digging etc... >>>>IF you let them get away with it.<<<< Some women got the better of me. But since I started employing basic red pill tricks to manage my relationships, 90% of bratty, spoiled behaviour h…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 09:48 PM
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With music or do you mean with girls I mean playing music to get girls. Scene poseur girls will care less if you play guitar, unless its really good. But people-who-listen-to-bands is a small group... outside of those circles they are more interested. Like VZ says, sending a soundcloud or youtube has got me to the front of the queue on social media DMs sometimes. Works for me.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 11:28 PM
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I’m just talking about my close friends who are in much bigger bands than me and starting to do very well. They Fuck up in all the ways I just described. They’re all still factors. One has a medically fucked face and it’s just a Fucking turn off for anyone above a 4. One is a lanky vegan soyboy. Ones a natural but stuck in a blue pill mindset. The one who does the best is a short singer and has Fuck tons of charisma (due to excessive drugs). And he’s got his own troubles with all of it still. Ye…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 10:42 PM
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Would this community be interested in a thread or sub that helps us look for other red pillers in the area? Good idea.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 10:21 PM
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I was in a similar situation last year. Worked from home building software. Let most of my friendships hang. Relationship ended, Realized I didn't know too many people. Have built a social circle from scratch these past 9 months. Facebook groups changed everything. There are dozens for my city, including 'language exchange' groups, where you teach each other a foreign language. Working from home, I built an app in one window, and arranged meetings with girls in the other. I went out 3-4 times a …
/r/askTRP10/05/18 10:00 PM
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Why go to places like that? If she wants to go there, it's because she enjoys the attention and drama. I'd walk along the beach, go to a coffee shop or drink beers on the beach if that's legal where you are.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:53 AM
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I never take girls to dinner if I haven't slept with them. Even then, the man should rarely pay for both. Dinner is boring and expensive. Eating together is for after... Tell her to eat before, walk around, sleep with her if you can, and get a late night pizza when you are both chilled.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:18 AM
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I'm sure this is good but its kind of arrogant to start off saying 90% of sex guides are rubbish. Makes the guy come off smug. I've never read an article on sex where I didn't learn something.
/r/seduction09/05/18 02:39 AM
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Sounds pretty specialized. Looks like you'll have a good job when you graduate. Unity uses C# so you could get into that:https://unity3d.com/learn/tutorials/topics/scripting/coding-unity-absolute-beginner Good luck, it's an interesting journey.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:55 AM
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I'd just focus on getting another date like everyone advises. Send one text which shows warmth + focused-on-your-mission at the same time. "Hey (name), last night was fun... busy with work + study. Lets go to X on Friday night."... Never become a texting buddy. Texts should be delayed, warrm, minimal, and casually focused on the next date. Any small talk questions, the answer is: "We'll talk on Friday...:)"
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:39 AM
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What language are you learning? Sometimes coding schools over-hype how easy it is to get a job after bootcamp. In your shoes I'd spend extra time learning programming and start building an app. You don't need to monetize, it's just good to show employers. Design is critical if you want to raise money, so CSS or iOS/Android design might help. Maximising programming skills might not pay off short term, but long term it could be a good bet.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:22 AM
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FB groups changed my life. There are hundreds for some cities. meetup.com is good too.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:32 PM
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These 'high status' groups mean nothing after high school so don't sweat it. But I get you want people to hang with this summer. Bring something useful: Music + portable speakers, a guitar, a bass, a cooler full of ice, tequila and watermelon, exercise equipment like ropes + chains, pugil sticks, a unicycle..lol... something fun to fight with. Don't let them use you for material gain, but bring something useful + fun. don't wanna lower myself to be with a low status group. Don't be arrogant. Tho…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:06 PM
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They're not stopping you from working out. OK, I just read that they are trying, but you can ignore them. They're (probably) not stopping you from eating well They're not stopping you from studying psychology, learning a language or playing guitar. Develop in secret. Wear a cloak of beta weakness and study in private or outside. No need to fight, convert them, or ask for validation about your new lifestyle. Amused mastery; be diplomatic and relaxed. Dont' fight like a teenager. Be cool and court…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:02 PM
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Her best friend who also lives with us swears to me that LTR wouldn't cheat if she's with me. Women cover for each other. I've even seen them ganging up to shame a guy out of making his fiancee sign a pre-nup. Her best friends testimony is worthless. They'll back each other up come hell or high water. That's why they're best friends. This LTR business is hard work... Think I'll stick to plates. Life was way easier with just plates. Women will cheat, that's the way it is. The only real evil is gi…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:24 PM
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It's understandable how you feel. Every guy is similar. But if you don't LTR this girl...How do you know a girl you meet who claims a low n-count is telling the truth? Women lie about this, even to prospective husbands. Wait. Especially to prospective husbands. Nerd and study groups have the highest percentages of near unicorns. Learning a foreign language helps.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:12 AM
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It's because of those blessed little traits nature gave men called: Honor & Morals. That's what I was thinking. OP is ex-military. He's bringing a soldier's honour and honesty into a relationship with a woman and expecting to be treated in kind. Hypergamy doesn't work that way. A lot of men have zero conception of honour either. Four years of Married Red Pill study culminated in his wife publicly going after another man. It's time to cut the cord and gtfo.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 12:22 PM
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Sounds like you should divorce her if you are the catch you say you are. Would that cost a house and 40% of your income for life? She might be trying to force a divorce from you. You are still at the age where it's easy to get early/mid twenties women. If finance is not a problem, why waste another day with this woman? Quit trying to save the marriage and get out of there.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 09:56 AM
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Now, it increased by almost 1000 in a week. Which shows the unplugging is increasing at a godly rate. I hope more people unplug, but that is 1000 out of a combined population of close to half a billion.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:51 AM
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Don't take them to bars, restaurants or gyms. Go hiking, to nature spots, art galleries, concerts, hot springs, health places, jazz clubs. People there are maybe slightly less likely to steal your girl behind your back. Bars are alright sometimes but there's a high percentage of sleazeballs in some places. There will always be Some Other Guy, always. I must've walked past 50 muscle men last night with my new prospective plate. I'm 184cm. Every time I saw a guy taller than me, I said: *"Hey, he's…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:44 AM
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What would you suggest if she doesn’t blow up my phone in the next 7 days? I already have an idea of what I’ll do but curious what your take is. Be so busy with lifting, eating, studying, seeing friends and finding a mission that you don't even care. Find new women. If she contacts again, book her for 11pm one night, and see another girl at 7pm. If it goes well with the 7pm girl, cancel with the 11pm. Double book her forever.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 09:04 AM
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Update: I haven’t responded but she just sent me a sad face emoji like a little over an hour after her last text. Guessing that’s just fishing for a response to make her feel less “guilty”? The soft next is working already... don't talk to her for 3-7 days. See if she blows up your phone. She's using you as a placeholder/backup date. I had a girl who flaked 2-3 times to me this winter. Call her Mary. I always double-book her now. I'll schedule with another girl and Mary on the same night. If the…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 07:21 AM
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"Says who?" "Says your Boss." Come over at 8 friday we'll go to [insert fun place]. Tell me by y/n midnight tonight. :) She probably still likes you cos she's acting feisty. Send a txt then plan a good backup for the night. Seeing friends or something.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:50 AM
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My parents bought, renovated and sold houses for the last 30 years. Buy one, live in it a few years and do it up, then sell it for a lot more. They never became millionaires but they did alright. Their investments outperformed the stock market by a long long way. My Dad never trusted the stock market. He always said "If house prices crash, you've still got bricks and a roof over your head." Apart from that, $500 might be best spent on yourself in this uncertain climate. I saw too many funds cras…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:27 AM
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If I've been watching too much Game of Thrones I grow a 2-3 day stubble goatee or chinstrap. I read chinstraps are supposed to be for kids and nu-metal bands but they work for me. A beard has to be well-groomed or it'll repel women. I shave my neck twice and make sure there are no stray hairs anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 02:44 AM
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Yeah I was just gonna say "money". How do you explain guy in their late 30s screwing early twenties where money is not a factor? No meals, no gifts, no taxis, no iphones, no new shoes, no visa, no green cards. Nothing. Just younger girls who want to hang out with an older guy and pay their own way.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 02:30 AM
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Fair point. Men are more likely to honour monogamous agreements.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 01:17 AM
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We can't get mad at storms or bulls. They just do what they do. Same with women. The only really evil thing women do is pretend to be monogamous, and go looking for other men on the side. This can rob an honorable guy of months or years of his life. Red Pill has an answer for women's false commitment: Until you prove yourself... FwB or gtfo. Are men any better? Would you stick with a girl if you knew there was someone else better around? Back-stabbers and beta behaviour are everywhere: The plus …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 09:18 AM
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But it’s a different love than what men have. Men are loyal to love, while women are loyal to immediate circumstances. Her feelings can be strong and powerful, and she will be honest when she says she wants to be with you forever. Translated to man speak it means “Right now I feel like I want to be with you forever”. https://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/ Prepend "right now I feel like..." to everything a woman says, or append "...while you are the strongest man in my life."
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:27 AM
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Fix a schedule for cooking, cleaning and taking out the trash. The rest is not your problem. Only give info when asked. I bet there are tons of interesting people in Houston. Meetup.com is good. I bet there are hundreds of FB groups too.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:13 AM
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90% have been fine for me too. Different strokes for different folks. Great talking with you Kirth!
/r/askTRP03/05/18 02:07 AM
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her using that same talk and shit on every dude she meets, and just strings people along. Be happy you've seen the true face of hypergamy while you're young. Most women do this; lock down one guy with fake promises, and go looking for another one. That's the game from their perspective. They are biologically programmed to secure the strongest male they can, and socially programmed to hide their strategy. Our goal is to be as high SMV as possible to maximise options + retention. ABTTFW: Always Be…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:23 AM
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I eat a lot of vegan food. Your diet sounds delicous. I found wheatgerm was very high in proten. Tastes good too.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 11:02 PM
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She's probably out screwing other guys who 'don't mean anything' right now. Which is why the whole 'make him wait' routine is so dumb. and hypocritical. I would withdraw attention, like VZ says. Go with other women and take extra time to respond to messages.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 10:45 PM
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If a girl eats pork, beef, eggs, chicken, onions and dairy that will come out in her juices and she won't smell good. No amount of soap will hide a bad diet. Add to that a high n-count, beer, cigarettes, STDs, a sedentary lifestyle and sugary drinks, you have a sexual health disaster in some modern coutries. It's not normal for a girl to smell or taste gross. A little musky, OK. But not gross. Vegetarian girls and nerd girls will often be a lot healthier. I ask my gfs to not eat meat for 24 hour…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:19 PM
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Check your diet carefully, especially what you drink. A lot of soft drinks contains additives that can cause anxiety. So can bread. https://thyroidnation.com/bromine-in-soda-drinks-adversely-affects-your-thyroid-gland/ Everyone feels rough sometimes. Lifting regularly can increase confidence and stability. Cold showers help a lot.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:05 PM
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Fit matters a lot. I wore blue jeans and a bomber jacket all winter. Helped a lot with women because the jacket made me look bigger. I'm lifting but still slim. I've got T-Shirts that make me look scrawny, and others that make me look muscular, its weird.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 03:41 PM
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This just sounds like a "how come she won't fuck me" post. Yeah, lots of 'alphas' come through here, wondering why the girl they like got with a 'beta'. The couple might break up in a few weeks, but the guy could be funny, good at guitar, skilled in bed or hung like a pack mule. Working out is the core of RP, but not every skinny guy is a beta. Learning how to mix alpha and beta traits is a key to sustaining FWBs long term.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 03:37 AM
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One thing a man can't do for them is exercise and keep them in good health. I think we can. I tell all my FWB if they ever get fat I will put a chain around their neck and drag them to the exercise bike. They tell me I'm a jerk but I know they like it. They fear getting old and fat and are looking for a man who can lend them the discipline they need to look good as they age, even in a short term relationship. With junk food, "it makes you unhealthy" is a weak argument. But telling them it makes …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 02:24 AM
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Men hit the wall when they stop trying.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 06:09 PM
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Why do women dislike it when they see former low-SMV men become successful? Cos you went off script, Truman. (True-man)
/r/askTRP30/04/18 06:05 PM
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Soft next might be better. Stop talking to her for 3-7 days, or until OP wants to deal with her again. If she messages him, he still has value for her. If she doesn't, she's not worth the effort. but leave the door open. OP should jelq too. Pegym has a lot of info.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:49 PM
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Google Gert Louw :)
/r/seduction29/04/18 12:54 AM
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You're not a beta, you're a blue-pilled sigma going through a trial by fire. lol. Discipline is the only way out of any abyss. Your SMV is near zero now and no amount of game will change it. OK enough... good luck,.. Edit: Don't be so arrogant about nerds. In 5-10 years they could be lifting, working in finance, and laying dozens of women.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 11:37 PM
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One thing all music greats have in common: They were all laughed off stage at some point in their career. Start playing the drums or another instrument. I guess you're a drummer. Learn for a year. Your SMV will skyrocket if you lift too. Learn to build apps as well. Android, iOS, webdev, etc. Nothing but Muscles, music and machine skills works in dating. Game and words are only a thin layer on top of eternal fundamentals. This is happening to you cos life is pushing you into the woodshed to lear…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 11:34 PM
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While you are the strongest male in their life, the commitment stands. If they find someone else stronger, the agreement is invalid. That's the game. Ideally plan 3-7 days in advance. Even 7 days is a stretch. Double book them.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 05:22 PM
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That sounds good. I'll read them. "Hey, nice shoes" or something "Do you work in the city?" would work fine too. Indirect, simple but open. Cheers.
/r/seduction27/04/18 01:48 AM
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Yes it does. But only if you work out and deal with the 4 Horsemen: hair loss, bad teeth, muscle decline, impotence. Those are pretty much the only things that put off younger women. If you can hold physical decline off, your SMV will increase dramatically in your 30s, at least for 50% of women. There are so many good things about getting older. I can manage relationships so much better now I'm in my 30s. Physical decline is the only downer... That can be offset by discipline and study. Im in my…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 12:43 AM
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At least these girls are being honest. You could spend 2-3 months reading guides on how to screw better. Become more dominant. I always learn something when I read an article. I'd soft/hard next the girl who said she's "had better dick". It's a dumb comment and she needs to learn. You can also ask them what they like and how to improve, as long as you do it in a non-needy way. These girls are trying to turn you beta and own you. It's what women do.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:48 PM
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I had the same experience. I stopped using dating apps 2-3 months ago cos I'm over 35 and the algorithm has decided to only show me ugly women. If I don't swipe I get matches with women I'm not interested in. If I grind through a few hundred likes I can get a date with a hot girl, and normally close... but f**k, who has time to go through 100s of likes? It's dull as hell. I was thinking of hiring an India virtual assistant to auto-like for me. lol. For 5USD he could swipe for an hour + send out …
/r/askTRP26/04/18 11:28 PM
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