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Red Pill TheoryI3luee/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:02 PM
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MetaI3luee/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 12:35 PM
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Red Pill TheoryI3luee/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 10:11 AM
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Red Pill TheoryI3luee/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 01:31 PM
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Field ReportI3luee/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 06:06 AM
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Red Pill TheoryI3luee/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 09:10 AM
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Red Pill TheoryI3luee/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:07 PM
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I3luee/r/askTRP23/10/14 12:21 PM
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Red Pill TheoryI3luee/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 09:47 AM
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Ask Red PillI3luee/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 03:45 PM
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I3luee/r/askTRP29/09/14 09:38 AM
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I3luee/r/askTRP24/06/14 01:07 PM
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I3luee/r/askTRP24/10/14 11:18 AM
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Red Pill TheoryI3luee/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 06:18 AM
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Field ReportI3luee/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 07:53 AM
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Field ReportI3luee/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 05:35 AM
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Red Pill TheoryI3luee/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 12:34 PM
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I3luee/r/askTRP17/12/14 09:45 AM
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I3luee/r/seduction05/03/14 08:14 AM
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Field ReportI3luee/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 12:33 PM
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Rant/VentingI3luee/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 03:32 PM
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I got a waterproof phone because in the past I ruined 2 phones with water. I submerged it into water a few times (with caution because I don't wanna actually ruin it) to see it pass the test. This was in the first month of usage. Since then I don't wanna submerge it because I know that this world is imperfect and that EVERYTHING breaks eventually. Time; handling and general under the weather wear and tear will weaken anything. The sensation of "let's see if it's still unbreakable" I've had when …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 02:47 PM
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Honestly? Yes; I'd admit to everything when faced with it. "I3lue; your eye is swollen and your classmate over there seems bruised; you're both sweating. Did you guys fight?" Me: "Yes ma'am; we had some issues." Teacher proceeds to beat us both over the fingers with a ruler. Pouring water on girls; skipping class; you name it! Me and a few did it and even though I felt the urge to lie, the need to tell the truth and be righteous prevailed. Because I was honest and admitted to the shit I've done,…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 02:04 PM
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Will have to investigate this one.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 04:02 PM
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Will check it out thank you. I usually go by ear and have no real science behind.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 04:02 PM
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I agree and I don't with you on this one. Isn't TRP supposed to be our "playground" where we can be who we want to be and help eachother out in the meantime? In case you want to be something stupid; the others in the playground help you "play nicely". Also since this place is like a small society -> specific language develops (the acronyms and so on). But I do agree with you that it's never good to go too deep in the rabbit hole.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 04:00 PM
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An ectomorph can become a mesomorph or even an endomorph. You need more dedication to it. When it comes to building muscle: if you can do 10 reps (or more) on a single go with X given weight then you're not building muscle; you're conditioning your body/ doing cardio. From what I heard you must keep your set at around 5-6; where you literally can't reach eight without risking dropping the weight/ muscle tear. EDIT: wanted to compliment you on the great post and for actually mixing science with f…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 10:07 AM
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Here I'll have to correct you a bit and try and rephrase what /u/IllimitableMan said. What he meant was that if you see one (or more) red flags then that's not a sign of a major problem that needs correcting; that's the sign of a major problem that might be the cause of your relationship's downfall. Usually girls with big red flags require vast amounts of effort to patch up/ fix/ improve the relationship that it's not worth it. It's kind of like trying to bed an HB 8 that knows she's special and…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 01:03 PM
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Remember in this life, it's about 30% merit, 70% politics if you want to get anywhere. I'm being generous with that 30 too. Care to elaborate on this one? Some points with quick succinct examples? Cues to look for? Points to follow for short/ long term? Thanks in advance.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 11:24 AM
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Epic fucking story! I can imagine it in the script of a movie! You rock bro! Congratulations for I think you have achieved something that many of us here (including myself) haven't: true abundance mentality. You are at the next level mate! Keep those FR coming cuz I'm starving for more!
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 01:08 PM
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Dude I live in Europe in a 3rd world country. Here people go out 2-3 times a week and each time spend around 2-3$/ night. When I go out with my friend I spend 30-60$ a night -> I try to avoid it since the amount is huge. He can afford it since he buys virtually nothing except for his food, his rent, and occasional foreign country trips once a year during a holiday. If he decides to buy a laptop (let's say), that will cost him ~ 1100$ which he will pay with a 2 year bank loan. Our prices for stuf…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 10:41 AM
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I'll do the crazy adventurous stuff step by step. I'd prefer to buy a new fridge and bettering my career before I start spending my money on a sumptuous holiday in an exotic country. (I find this to be common sense) Also see my answer to /u/garlicextract . I want this guy to succeed but he seems to prefer to be a lazy ass. How to solve it? Edit: you say that I attract what I am and that I'm supposed to figure this one out. Well this is somewhat true: I've distanced myself from most of my low han…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 08:19 AM
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Re-see my main comment: I tried to get him hired at my office so he'd make a buck and lose the financial impediment he's in (see my response to /u/doritoesNcoffee) but I think he really doesn't want it since he's too lazy to do it. How can I convince him to get hired? Hell I know chicks from highschool that got hired here and they went to a 2 cent college and learned nothing.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 08:13 AM
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It's not that I'm flaunting; I call him to meet up and do stuff, not brag about my latest purchase. He asks me and I can't really hide it from him because he gets fussy again saying that "why do I complain about not wanting to go in town cuz I don't have money?". Again I want to remind you: I offered to teach him how to do my job and I even said that I could get him some courses if he prefers to learn by himself but to no avail (response in my main post). I would really like to help him solve hi…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 08:10 AM
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No man. All my true and close friends do reply on time. And they really are consistent with it! Worst case scenario: they see what I write/ that I called and tell me "Hey, can't talk now, ring you later." I dunno what world you live in but in my world the people that don't reply to your messages (when/ if they see them) within a timely manner (30 minutes) are not your friends; they are random acquaintances that stick around due to a goal of theirs. This is not my personal opinion, I've discussed…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 08:06 AM
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I buy a TV. It costs so much that I barely have enough money to buy food for the rest of the month. I tell him that I don't have money to go out. He bitches at me with what you quoted. I give in and we go out and I spend the money that I dedicated to food for the next week. Cue 2 more going outs like this one and by the end of the month I manage to have to borrow up to 20% (or more!) of my future salary because I'm broke. Next month comes, I pay my debts and tell him that I'm broke again. Rinse …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 08:00 AM
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He's sad and bitter: mostly about not finding a job (and implicitly the extension: not having money); but also about the world since he has high expectations of people. He is by far not a simple minded person. but he lacks empathy to the extreme. He literally cannot be vicarious with nobody. This is what I think is 80% of the cause of our disputes.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 07:54 AM
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As he said: RedPill is amoral. It's meant to be a toolbox which we each contribute to as to maintain and improve it. The toolbox doesn't have a specific goal: get a LTR, make a LTR more pleasant, get a wife, get flings. Although it touches on each of these aspects, TRP's main goal is a single one: to help you with women (main reason why TRP was created and exists), to help you reach the best version of yourself that you can reach (side mission which developed over time, as TRP got more and more …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 03:54 PM
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You just blew me away dude! That's extensive and (based on what you said) you even have data to back it up! Please share some more! Any proper fasting tips?: how much should I reduce food intake? Should I limit myself to just one type of food? How often should I fast? For how long should I do it?
/r/askTRP17/12/14 03:49 PM
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That's odd given the fact that the guys above gave (more or less) positive feedback for keto and vegetarian diets.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 12:59 PM
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Healthy (self explanatory), and "productive" (be able to do lifting and improve my mental acuity; no tradeoffs, just benefits from ditching meat). That should sum up exactly what I'd like :D.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 11:44 AM
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What about the ketogenic diet suggested by /u/vandaalen ?
/r/askTRP17/12/14 11:11 AM
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Ok, this seems just as promising as the vegetarian diet seems. How can I distinguish which is actually better O_O?
/r/askTRP17/12/14 10:54 AM
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Extensive examples. You almost have me convinced. I have a setback still. I recently watched a short documentary that stated that our brain power increased by around 3% due to the fact that we invented cooking and this makes the job easier for our stomach -> our brain can get more nutrients because the body doesn't waste as much energy on digestion. How is your grey matter behaving during these 6 years? Increases/ decreases in energy level? Longer sleep cycle? More mental sharpness? More intelle…
/r/askTRP17/12/14 10:29 AM
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Start taking it for granted. I found that repeating things to myself works wonders. We all have an "inner voice". You know, when you think your thoughts/ ideas, they are formulated with words that you hear in your head in the voice that you perceive as being yours. I had trouble accepting that finding that "ultimate love" is nearly impossible (read as: you have a chance of that awesome love with 1 in 30 girls you meet with which you spend at least a month each); that people tend to be simpletons…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 10:06 AM
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Thanks for the extensive reply. I have an ex that seems to fit the bill quite a bit. Is there any "home-made" remedy? Read: as anxious people can fix it by self control, going out in the world and actually struggling with it, is there something similar here?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 08:03 AM
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xkore - destroyer xkore - money counter xkore - shredder feint - those eyes Metal Gear Rising- Revengeance OST Rules of Nature (Platinum Mix) [Instrumental] Metal Gear Rising- Revengeance Vocal Tracks - The Only Thing I Know For Real [Instrumental] Metal Gear Rising Revengeance, Sam's theme. The only thing I know for real lyrics MGR- Revengeance Vocal Tracks - The Hot Wind Blowing (feat. Ferry Corsten) [Platinum Mix] EDM | Darsen - Achilles (Original Mix) To name a few. You can find all of them …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 09:46 AM
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That's a pretty pragmatic approach to things. Thanks for the reply! :D
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 08:52 AM
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If you're on probation period, this is mandatory. Showing that you get everything done effortlessly may get you a healthy raise by the end of those 6 months.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 03:08 PM
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Dude you just took the ball, jizzed on the enemy team and drowned them in it, and then gracefully strolled to goal area. I'm 90% in that exact situation. My problem is: who do you discuss your philosophies with? Having nobody to discuss things with may make you lean in and become overconfident and start believing garbage yourself; you may also start feeling "entitled" when you see that you know much more than your immediate peers and start slacking. Any effective counters?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 02:13 PM
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Quick question: how do you conclude that someone has BPD if they're smart?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 08:36 AM
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Although very metaphorical, I loved your post! I'd also appreciate it if you'd try to shorten it and put it all here. Let's keep TRP inside TRP ;).
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 01:37 PM
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Damn that's deep! But pretty accurate I guess. A twist to what you're saying is that there are women who are delighted to see a lower SMV man try to get with them. By lower SMV I don't mean a fugly 3 guy goes to a HB8; but more like a 6 putting his best in front of an 8-9. The 8-9 might give him a glance because if the wrapping seems promising, there might be more lying under the hood!
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 01:03 PM
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I've seen 42 y.o. mothers which I'd brutally bang. Women don't go though this unless they're really trying to be fugly. Being fugly has to do with age but not 100%. The main thing that changes as you age is that you have to put in more effort to retain the same SMV (or grow) as the years pass by.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 03:11 PM
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Jesus Christ! Poor fella! On the flip side kind of behavior is very Neo (Matrix): the guy faced a point of no return and had to make a choice. He had an EXTREMELY dysfunctional family and...he did nothing about it. He stayed like a rat trapped in the corner and let life pummel him to death. I had a dysfunctional family and my father and mother beat me when I was small. I started working out in the 5th/ 6th grade (got a 6 kg dumbbell, pushups, pullups, abdoments). Cue 3 years and I had enough hat…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 02:48 PM
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Some people find it hard to accept but I agree with you. With 3 different chicks I tried this and it does work. It's weird at first (for me, not for her) but eventually you get used to it and it becomes fun, kinky and an extreme turn on for your girl. I sometimes even use foul language or be rough (or both!) as an initiation technique and it works wonders (girls turned on in 10 minutes or less). The catch is that you must be comfortable with this approach and do it because you feel like having s…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:11 AM
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Congratulations for reaching this point! Don't worry the so called damage will pass if you give it some time and thought.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 09:40 AM
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Is it just me or does this post make no sense? Your post ends with: . It' Did you accidentally delete part of it? What does the title have to do with the body?: who you would be with how to preselect people for your personal network of friends.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 12:53 PM
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with a door as a personality. You lost me there! I guess she was fun at parties. xD
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 01:25 PM
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I would've told her what you told her but shamed her for it. In my book if I tell you to do something because it's good for you and you're dumb enough to not follow my advice because "Who the fuck are you to tell me what to do? I got this!", then ok. I will come back when you frolick around in the shit you created to calmly tell you that: this is your fault, I told you what you had to do and you didn't listen, enjoy the consequences but think about the prospect of changing yourself and your pers…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 01:43 PM
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Please improve your grammar: articulation, conjugation, positioning in the sentence and (sometimes) translation. Your post is understandable but at times I had to slow down and re-read some lines because I literally didn't get it (wrong words being used). This is a very metaphorical post (which means even more emphasis on correct grammar). It's good up to a point (as others suggested). The idea is fine but the more you focus on the surreal/ metaphorical/ analogies, the more you decouple yourself…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 09:45 AM
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there is an information revolution going on, but it only favors the cognitive elite. Pure gold! Will keep one and quote it when adequate ;).
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 07:29 AM
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I usually do upper body and rarely do running. I just don't feel like it's my thing. Will try to add it to my routine a lot more since I know it's healthy.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 08:45 AM
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Define "cold shower". Let's presume that the handle is on a 180 degree half circle where 0 degrees is the maximum on the hot side and 180 degrees is the maximum on the cold side. At what position (in degrees) do you take the shower for it to be cold? I'm experimenting with 95-100 degrees (slightly on the cold side). How far do you go? Do you have a method (drifting gradually towards your target or straight on)?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 08:44 AM
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Currently working on point 1). of your reply. My problem is that I sleep "different" when gf comes by or when I go to sleep at her place. Sometimes I sleep better than at home, sometimes I don't sleep that deeply. Sometimes she nudges me in her sleep and wakes me up, etc.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 08:41 AM
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Opti-Men Multivitamin Will try this thank you! I tend to be a slacker. I'm in good shape now but I ain't reaching my desired body because I tend to skip workout days often in favor of other things. Will have to work on that too I guess. Thanks for the reply!
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 08:40 AM
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Most of the people I know (gf included) get into bed and in 5 minutes tops they're snoring. The same people have half (or less) physical activity daily that I do. That's why I envy them and want that kind of thing :).
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 08:29 AM
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Don't take the literal meaning of it. A mirror image of something suggests an almost perfect/ identical copy of something.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 12:22 PM
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Very possible and plausible. There are people that are deeper than you'd ever imagine. I'm starting out a theory of my own: the less partners you've had as a man, the more entrenched in the illusion you are. My friends who had 1-4 girlfriends up until now (aged 24) are so deep that they literally can't conceive being cheated on or changing their relationship. This is staggering especially when you have a 5 y.o. relationship that isn't going anywhere (I've always been an observer and I observed t…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:56 AM
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I think you need support. You know your way but it's clouded by uncertainty, lack of self confidence and lack of a will to go forward. Befriend a trustworthy alpha; hell even befriend someone here and grow with them! He can teach/ guide you and eventually you can teach/ guide him (since you're 2 different individuals, the difference in perspective will help him)!
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 07:52 AM
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I'll counter this whole thread and turn it upside down by saying the main negative (or is it?) point that I nurtured since finding TRP: abundance mentality is killing me. I have a gf for 3 months and using TRP and basic knowledge I'm steering things in the right direction. All is fine and dandy but my abundance mentality is so high that I cheated on her with 2 different girls up until now. One of them is in a LTR with a best friend of mine (not really a best friend; my relationship with him went…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 12:37 PM
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Google it (actually try and Google: california escorts); Google it (see step 1); It's like at the supermarket: the more expensive the fruit, the more likely they're good/ organic/ taste better/ less additives/ etc (you make the needed analogy please); Location is up to you: some offer their place, some come to your place, some go to the hotel, some even do it in the bushes (this category is the cheapest but ugliest and also has the greatest chance of catching an STD); I dunno about how legal it …
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 10:10 AM
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A better answer to what you said would be: he would've been an alpha if he would smile at both, take a gracious bow, go to her and tell her when she can come and pick up her things (if she has things at his place). He'd proceed to leave the scene smiling, minding his own plans and so forth.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:24 PM
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I love how you structured your post! I'm facing quite a similar situation and am uncertain how to go over it: have a 3 month gf, popped her cherry, things are advancing slowly. The thing is that I don't feel that "click". Why? Because I tend to feel complacency from her. From our discussions she said that she prefers to hang out with guys since they're less of a hassle than girls are (as she put it: "they have their feet more firmly on the ground") and every time I confront her with her complace…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 11:10 AM
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I heard your voice in my head narrating what you wrote above. You could make a pretty neat movie ;)!
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 08:28 AM
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Points 3 and 4 are extremely surreal. Point 3: the amount of work I put it in equally and directly correlates with what I get back This doesn't apply every time. People can and will exploit you. Your boss wants the cheapest guy he can get that will get the job done (at least that's the mentality here). Point 4: Women just hang around, look pretty, and hope an awesome guy approaches them instead of some wimp Women get approached by all sorts of guys. Even the top tier guys approach them. If they …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 01:51 PM
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I myself didn't do it, but a co-worker did just this. I was amazed to hear that the reason he got married was "because too many friends around me got married". Also he's been with the chick for a few months only. Me and the dude aren't that close but I barely withheld myself from asking what was in his head?!
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 08:14 AM
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Tough. That's the only thing we have remaining of natural selection. It's like saying that a lion gets depressed because he can't hunt well and he doesn't get females. Yes, he gets down, but he tries even harder next time. If you end up in option b). then natural selection did its job and you made a fool of yourself -> less people trust you and wanna have to deal with you. (observed this behavior on myself 3 years ago when initially I was depressed that life wasn't going anywhere).
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 06:46 AM
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I will stand by OP's side. Why? Because most of my friends who are 24-25 and above have a real LTR (think 3+ or even 5+ years). I started having wedding invites. I see that when people hit 27, they're REALLY thinking about marrying. Maybe for the rest of you it's different, but that's how my country (and probably OP's country also) is. Hell I'm 24, I broke off a 2.5 y.o. relationship and after 6 months I'm still getting shit from my parents for breaking it since it "really felt like she was the …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 01:32 PM
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My personal theory is: the more a man suffers, the greater the chances are that one of 2 things happens: a). he will find a way and grow OR b). he will be emotionally and mentally destroyed.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 01:27 PM
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No. I'm so clean off pills that I don't even take pills when I have a cold. The only thing I do take is painkillers if I have a grueling headache/ toothache. Things that I did notice though: generally right after a set of 10-12 reps (the exercise/ weights are difficult enough so that only that many I can do) my heart starts to pump and once it gets stable at a point, I feel like a king. I feel like I want all my problems to come to me in that moment so that I can get them over with. (adrenaline/…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 03:15 PM
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That White Knight is retarded. I live in an emerging 3rd world country and I get paid around 5.7$/ hour. This wage is considered well above average (the minimum wage that you can get in a contract here is somewhere between 1.44$ and 1.80$) With 28$/hour I'd be considered so rich here that chicks would come smiling to me just to hang around and hope for some rich D.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 08:55 AM
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Lack of necessity. List of reasons: 1). "Stuff" generally has a (relatively) accessible price. 2). Most of the stuff you buy also has a 1-2 year warranty. If you're a tech guru, it's highly likely you'll sell off that gadget somewhere between year 1 and 2 -> you don't even use that warranty. Or if you use it -> no need for you to touch it. 3). Civilization advanced a lot. Now you have really well made things that are very specialized, compact, and durable (please don't counter-argue with me by p…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 08:09 AM
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This seems EXTREMELY useful. Where could I read more about similar things? Thanks in advance.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:47 AM
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I partially agree with the woman. Yes, she's 80-90% a gold digger, but the fact that after abour 1 year she decided to end the relationship because it didn't go anywhere; well I find this logical. I ended my previous relationship because it felt like a hassle, it wasn't going anywhere and I knew I could get someone better that would want to improve both herself and motivate me also. She was facing a complacent guy that seemed like a schmuck that had no goal, ambition, dreams, etc (which is what …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:43 AM
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I'm guessing: Facebook friend shared it. I go on 9gag and hugelol (although I prefer hugelol since it's less emotional). If you know how to detach from an element, you can have it around you and it won't affect you.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 02:17 PM
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This is gold! "Lube factory"? "Rockstar at sucking"? "it was just her and my dick and she had some sort of point to prove"? Sorry for being a poor fuck but dang I'd give you gold mate! Please tell me your job is being a storyteller!
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 12:39 PM
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Providers? Turn the tables around for a minute and let's see what happens: You walk down the street and a solid 7-8 chick with a Bugatti signals you to get in for a ride cuz she wants to know you. Would you say "no"? I would think (in this order): - hot chick, would fuck her silly; - Bugatti? Nice car, would love to see one/ ride in one; - the two combined? The chick's rich! - she's telling me to get in? Rich hot chick with a Bugatti want me to hop in for a ride, this will be quite a day. - this…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 12:23 PM
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This is why I have trust issues and am actually paranoid of opening up to my feelings in a relationship. My gf seems smart (in a man-like way) and she actually tends to be boy-ish even though she's a decent 6-7. I still fear what TRULY dwells in her mind even though she tries to compel me to be more loving, more romantic, more affectionate.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 12:12 PM
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Actually she's giving you free TRP advice. Take away the video, take away the voice, take away the fact that she's a female. Keep only a transcript of what she's saying (formatted and corrected into proper English) and you'll see she's giving TRP advice unknowingly.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 11:58 AM
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I dunno why you all hate what she's saying. This chick is spewing pure gold and actually makes sense! Around 1:30 she starts with stuff like: "good looking girls go after guys that don't treat them right because maybe they're too used to getting so much attention and compliments and these guys are different". I find this to be 100% accurate. She's supporting TRP unknowingly. As many of you pointed out in the comments: she does seem frustrated (frown detected) when thinking and speaking of the ne…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 11:55 AM
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I guess I went a bit off course. Thanks for highlighting that bit!
/r/askTRP25/10/14 08:30 AM
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True; I guess I have to define myself first before I start looking at others. Thank you!
/r/askTRP25/10/14 08:28 AM
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I guess you covered all exits. I have nothing to say to this. I'll keep to what you said: Don't dwell on it. Learn from it and move on with your life. Thanks! Edit: grammar correction.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 08:27 AM
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Welcome to my world! I noticed (and was also told) that the smarter you become, the greater the chance you'll have a "crippling" issue: anxiety, stage fright, paranoia, pessimism, etc. Although they're small and can be fixed, they're the greatest demons you might have. Try quitting sugar, porn, drinking, eating potatoes, so on; this will beat them since it's internal and it's part of what defines you, of who you are. In my BP days I wanted to be the "good guy". -> "she was treated wrongly by oth…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 01:49 PM
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Yes, I do. I tend to feel bad about that (but I'm blocking it out and telling myself that nothing happened). I honestly want to give a good excuse to you and what you're saying but I really feel like it's hamstering in the middle. Not sure if it's because of my BP origins or just a conflict of thoughts and concepts in my head regarding morality, virtue and gaining what you want.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 01:33 PM
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As I mentioned, I'm not sure we were too close friends anyways. Since moving together with his GF, he drifted VERY far away (from going out daily and talking and having fun, to meeting just on Saturday night for a few drinks to reflect on the passed week and on the ones to come). I do feel bad, but I don't feel extremely bad since I did my best to educate myself into detaching from human bonds as much as possible (for a shy person, which I was, trust me this gives you the key to the world!). Giv…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 01:21 PM
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Amazingly extensive! I lost a lot of weight in the past year (around 30 kg) by working out and getting a cleaner diet and even I am baffled by what you're writing here. Here I was thinking I got it covered with the whole healthy eating and stuff and you come along and rework about a third of what I'm eating! Damn you! But thanks again for the amazing post ;). One thing I'd like to say to you though: I use almonds for their sleep inducing effects, dried fruit (the commercial ones at least) tend t…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 01:49 PM
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Will start working on it ASAP! Thanks for the breath of fresh air! I appreciate the effort; keep up the good work :D.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:00 AM
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You're talking really complex things here. Also that implies a tremendous amount of risk from your side since if she's an ex-oneitis then you may buckle (the risk rises in direct proportion with how much time you had an oneitis for that certain chick). It's interesting, it's catchy, but it's a real long shot.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 09:59 AM
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Thanks for the quick reply! Although I do tend to wank relatively often, the thing is that recently I've been fucking my girlfriend almost daily and sometimes even several times a day. Should I also cut back on this?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 09:02 AM
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Ok, will get on it. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 08:46 AM
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Main signs to look for? I'm not sure if I have low T levels and getting to a lab to get it checked will be hard: I'm living in an emerging 3rd world country; up until this post I have never even heard in my life about a person being able to check his T levels. This would normally seem so Sci-Fi to me that I'd expect it to be done in ultra high tech labs. Also people here have very little health concerns and health educations. Comparing myself to what Google noted as symptoms: my sleep is erratic…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:17 AM
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Question: TRP is amoral; TRP tells you that if you find a chick attractive then you can have a go at her, no matter if she has a boyfriend or not because if she gives in then it's her willingness to cheat after all (not sure about this one but usually my memory doesn't elude me). Give the above, doesn't this mean that the best friend in this story is just a TRP guy acting out of abundance? Where it for that friend to come to OP and say "sorry bud but I was doing you a favor. I went all the way s…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 05:15 AM
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My answers to "situational inconveniences": "Ok, so?" "In love and war everything is allowed." -grin/ wink follows this line immediately- "And I have a body that just won't stop getting closer to you." -move in slightly closer- "Upsi! It happens." -smile and move on like she didn't even mention it- Everything summed up: disregard the fact. Here we have 2 possible situations: a). the one in which she brings this up immediately: you just approached her and made your intentions clear and her immedi…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 02:35 PM
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This is actually an example of abundance mentality and lack of commitment/ orbiting from your side. I see no dread since no third (female) person is involved.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 01:06 PM
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Everyone asks: "what is the meaning of life?" As philosophical a question as it is, the answer is: reproduction. You are meant to procreate. That's what your body was built for, that's why you have sexual organs, that's why people get turned on and it's so fucking hard NOT to get turned on when you see an amazing chick and you know you can have her. Some will say: "oh I'm not an animal, I've gone past that"; and I will come along and say: "please tell me more about how you during your lifetime m…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 09:29 AM
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Nice summary! Even the old ones need some refreshing on the basics sometimes I'm sure.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 09:16 AM
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Awesome! Thanks for the extensive answer :D! I strongly suggest you do a post in /r/TheRedPill with this to clarify for other people why this is so. I was thinking along the lines of "BWT will get you fit but not buff", but you gave me more incentive for gym. Now all I need is the time for it (which should be somewhere starting next month).
/r/askTRP30/09/14 05:43 AM
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Thanks for the breakdown!
/r/askTRP30/09/14 05:37 AM
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If I had a 401K yearly salary I'd be delving in pussy so deep that I'd need a crane to hoist me up. No matter the country I'd be in.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 03:44 PM
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Please do; details eagerly expected!
/r/askTRP29/09/14 01:45 PM
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Extensive info; thank you. Given 1 g / kg then that means that I should eat 68 g of protein per meal? That's a bit hard given the fact that a dish of friend chicken breast has around 100-150 g. Any types of "body" exercise that you suggest? I'd rather not go to the gym since I have a tight schedule and that would kill my free time totally.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 12:29 PM
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Why stop? I get to the places I need sooner, I have nice leg tone and I feel invigorated. More details please? EDIT: I can't wear Air Max with all outfits. More solutions?
/r/askTRP29/09/14 12:03 PM
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Don't confuse correlation with causation. The cause of your dilemma is that you switched context; it has nothing to do with your SMV increasing. Take your new SMV-increased self and go back in time to college and you will see that you get the girls. As other comments suggest: get into college parties/ groups/ etc. Most people are simple minded children. Hell, everyone is in the end; the difference between us is that some of us are more mature children and seem like children to less people. To th…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 10:22 AM
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Not sure if related but: Chatting with current GF on Whatsapp: M(me): -sends pictures of some home made sushi which I made with the ingredients that she brought as a present a week before- H(her): You didn't just fucking cook it without me?! -I know she's angry here because she doesn't cuss- M: So I get it you're angry. Note taken. :P H: Yes, I'm angry but I'll get over it. :* H: They look nice by the way. My take on the story?: I responded quickly, casually and un-impacted by her nervousness ->…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 10:41 AM
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To all of you: Why feel inferior? It's like: you're feeling inferior in front of the son of a rich guy. In my town there were many rich kids that had it good: the fame, the chicks, the "gadgets" (rare you see an 18 yo with 2 cars), the money, the "looks" (of course he had great fashion sense and with money and a lot of time you get a big physique due to time in the gym + money for proteins and stuff). But in my eyes all that pales quickly as I think: "His dad will die, he's just reaping rewards …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 07:23 AM
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They laughed at the fact that you were cocky with them. They weren't expecting it. This probably means that you have low social standing around there, so they weren't expecting you to do such a thing and it was funny. Just the same way that you would see a fat chick look at you and wink; it would be funny because she's trying to flirt when obviously she's fat and that isn't her domain. Work on posture, physique and being smarter/ wittier than the rest. Your social standing will improve, but in t…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 06:19 AM
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Yea but putting out doesn't mean laying in bed and waiting to be fucked. (even though that's what it literally means) To me a girl that puts out is a girl that gives you the two most valuable things that any human being can give you: time and interest. If I'm attracted to a girl and I find her interesting I will give her my time and my attention/ interest. The level of this will grow/ diminish/ stay the same based on her actions: she starts showing me that she's giving me her time and interest o…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 11:05 AM
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Upvoted for honesty! Congratulations for reaching this self-awareness point. It's good that you saw the problem, it's even better that you had the guts to post it here and take the bashing, it will be perfect if you take the advice in and go by it. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:45 AM
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Debatable. People are not really "naturally haters". I actually tend to believe that they're "circumstantially bitter". We are all born the same. Most people (around 70%) chose the easiest way in life. As life goes by events, opportunities, people, etc. appear along the way. The way each individual deals with these influences defines them. People get more comfortable and eventually they reach a point when they start getting bitter because as they grow life offers less and less on a platter and t…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 08:46 AM
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Awesome FR! You handled it like a baws! I'm sure she bit her lip at least a little at the thought that you shunned her with such great ease. Nobody takes well to rejection. Congrats bro for realizing your own value and for getting to this point. Keep it up!
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 08:34 AM
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Explicitly, men love better than women since their love is unrestrained and more passionate. I have yet to see/ hear of many women to make surprise gifts, offer a great and fun day/ night (as in: actually offer to take part in your leisure activities/ hobbies even though she doesn't like them -> I saw this only once or twice).
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 08:29 AM
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I'll agree it's hard to draw a fine line. But honestly I'm not aiming to create a train wreck. As stated above I'd like to see self improvement, ambition, perseverance, and so on. Regarding her insecurities: you're 100% right. She pointed them out herself: "I know I have small tits but do you really mind them this much?"; "I'm trying not to be that shy, give me time!", etc. The main thing I'm telling her is that insecurities and fears need to be faced, not nurtured internally so that they develo…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:04 AM
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The main two words to describe the whole thing? "SHY" and "inexperience". When I mean inexperience I mean inexperience in everything. Sometimes even talking to her is difficult since she finds it easier to talk over Whatsapp texts than in person. Also she tries not to say things out of line (she tries to project that she's in full agreement with me on everything) and so on. General attitude change after you pop the cherry. It's like she tries to be happy around you and with you and tries to make…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 01:47 PM
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Trust me I'm actually doing her good. I'm offering her the chance to develop herself: I offered to her to do workouts with me, I bought her some syrup to take that's supposed to help with estrogen secretion so that her tits can grow, I'm giving her tits massages that are supposed to help them grow (to the extent in which I get bored). On the flip side, I never insist on her taking her meds, or doing her workout and I push her as much as possible to "be herself" around me. I want to be the observ…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 01:42 PM
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I'm trying but here people tend to avoid speaking in English either because "it's weird it's not our language, we're not forced to speak it" or because they speak A LOT worse than me. Please suggest corrections where they are needed. Critique is the bread and butter of improvement. :)
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 01:22 PM
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Is there any way to specifically identify girl game? Any countermeasures? How many women actually know of it and actively use it VS women who use it unconsciously? More details plox!
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 12:13 PM
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See my comment from above to what u/Sandkasten said. ↑
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 12:11 PM
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I won't go to the extent of sleeping with her roommate; her roommate has an SMV a bit lower than her. Were I ever to sleep with her roommate it would actually be a pump and dump. I just wanted to show my gf that I can do as I please. I'll "keep a door open" with the roommate as a keepsake: maintain good relations, be funny. She won't start crying because I am not aiming for emotional instability. The transits take place after each stage lasts a few days: 1-3 days of bliss, 1-3 days of misunderst…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 12:11 PM
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Me: 24 y.o., 1,84 cm, brown hair, physically fit, good face, eat right, average fashion sense. I'd give myself a 7-8; but based on scientific studies, we estimate ourselves to be up to 5x prettier than we actually are, so I'll give myself a 5-6. Her: 22 y.o., 1,64 cm, brown curly hair, physically fit (kinda skinny but has abs), dilated pupils (a very big strong spot since she seems like out of an anime or something), nice face, good/ very good fashion sense, small tits. I wanted to offer her a 7…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 12:03 PM
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So what happens if you take it when you're already motivated? EDIT: Phenylpiracetam seems actually quite nice at a first look. I went to the Wikipedia page for it and I'm pretty convinced to ask my doctor if he can tell me more about it.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:58 AM
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Start from ground zero. When meeting a person for the first time, assume both extremes: He/ she is brilliant/ retarded; he/ she is great/ poor at lying; he/ she has a great/ awful character. From what I noticed people that talk much tend to compensate for something: lack of socialization/ insecurities/ etc. You must pay extra attention to them since if you can spot their weakness you can use it to leverage social standing with that person a lot! For the rest of the average Joe/ Jane: pay attenti…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 09:53 AM
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Honestly? For the "lel" part of it. I got out of a LTR a few months ago and another LTR won't really help. So social experimenting it is! I wanna test things and I wanna see the general reaction and with how many things I can get away. I won't lose the relationship because each time plus up on the good things I follow with some bad ones that are just a tiny bit less important than the good ones. A good analogy: I know I'll keep doing transactions with her if each time I take from her 19$ I give …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 09:30 AM
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That's why I don't talk to her. At work we interact only if strictly necessary. I tend to ignore her existence there.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 08:46 AM
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Love your post. You're pushing the envelope of boldness almost to its upper limits and getting extraordinary results.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 11:48 AM
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I beg to differ kind sir. You're thinking somewhere along the lines of: fully autonomous, self-programming, multitasking machines. When that'll be reached, I think that over 70% of all jobs will disappear. What will happen in the near future (and is already happening but to an extent) is that more and more specialized machines are popping up. Car factories are mostly autonomous, having a few or more (I dunno, it may be 10, it may be 100, I don't work in such a place) specialized machines that do…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 01:05 PM
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Well put. But tastes are not debatable. The fact that I like Mary over Jennifer is like saying that I like french fries over mashed potatoes. An objective way of doing this would be: they are (somewhat) equally hot.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 11:59 AM
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I can't even right now. -starts searching for healthy food for the heart-
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 11:56 AM
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Nothing. You have no right over her; you were never together (even if you were together, after breaking up you have no right over her). As far as you're concerned she's dead in a gutter. From now on you're supposed to act around her like you just met her and she's a fun co-worker of yours. In case you don't work (by the sounds of it you don't): people act nicely to each other at work because they have to work together; even if they hate/ like each other they will act nicely. After going with a c…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 11:49 AM
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Working out a few hours before bed (as u/CloakedOrchid mentioned) is good and was scientifically proven to help you sleep. Working out right before bed increases blood flow, awareness/ alertness, and generally stimulates the body; but more importantly, working out triggers the secretion of cortisol which in turn inhibits your ability to sleep. Scientifically speaking if you wanna workout to stimulate sleep, work out 3-4 hours before going to bed. Good sleep promoters that you should use before b…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 08:01 AM
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I guess this might explain the situation here in a 3rd to 2nd world country. But I'll kick it up a notch and say that women here don't need men that much. It's more of a mutual agreement. If I make 10 $ a month and you (as a woman) make 6-10$ a month, then trust me I want you in my life because even if you make 6$ a month, that's half my pay and will cover living expenses and etc etc. You'll want me since I make more and give you financial freedom. Here it tends to be common practice to do money…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 07:13 AM
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I would've loved to bang at that age any of the two. Especially by the one from the second link. I would love to bang them even now!
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 07:06 AM
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Why can't I grind the upvote button for this reply and OP's post?
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 03:14 PM
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Ew...beat it with a stick 'till it crawls back under the rock it came out of. So much narcissism, hamstering, unhealthy habits (Jesus she's 130 kilos or more!), and bitchy attitude? Do you have more of that natural selection shit Mother Nature?
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 12:56 PM
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I love your friend but as the rest of your comments state: do get him to spill out a few words. I can go talking endlessly at a party but that doesn't mean it will work for me. What's the difference? Body language may be the key here; try and notice his body language, face expression and hand gestures more. Quick edit: I wanted to add that scientifically we communicate 70% through body language and 30% using other methods. (verbally, fashion sense, etc)
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:45 PM
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By walking up to their group of friends you raised your chances dramatically (confidence). The only thing that you did wrong (as you also pointed out) was that you "totally BLURTED out can I have your number". Were you more calm and kept the frame you had created by the sole action of going there, I think you'd have left the table with one extra number in your agenda ;). Even so, doing dramatic changes in a matter of DAYS is quite surprising! Congratulations! This shit is usually done A LOT slow…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 07:48 AM
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Love your perspective bro! Succinct and spot on!
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 07:27 AM
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I tried making FWB with a few chicks but either I'm doing something wrong (most likely) or here women just don't have that mentality. The latter is less likely since most of my fails weren't because the women I talked about weren't against the concept itself; they seemed to be against me and them being FWB. Most of the time the main thing that was brought up was "I'm not sure about this; it's dangerous; can you be trusted with such a thing?". How do you pass this shit test?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 06:07 AM
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I wanna have a girlfriend; I don't have time for one. Working takes 80% out of your day. Include workout -> almost no time left.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 06:03 AM
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Will try and make it work out with the current one.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 06:02 AM
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Thorough analysis. But it applies only if I get back with my ex. Is this what you're suggesting?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 06:02 AM
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Will do my best to avoid it given the case.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 06:01 AM
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I'm not saying that Europe is "rape accusation"-free. I'm saying that the % of consensual sex that end up being turned into a rape accusation by the woman are significantly lower here than in USA.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 05:54 AM
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Not fucking them that hard anyways xD.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 05:52 AM
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Women here aren't that feisty and don't end up regretting what they did with you. Unless you brag about it like a retard (social media, common friends, etc); and even then there's a greater chance she'll never speak to you or try to put you in a bad position but still highly unlikely to file a report against you. You might have a point there though since it's a different mentality.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 05:52 AM
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I'm glad to hear you're pulling through. A sad fact of life is that the men around you that are your closest friends instinctively and subconsciously want you to fail (based on the rule above) and the women you lay (be them LTR, wife, ONS) instinctively and subconsciously want you to succeed. So congratulations for managing to pull through even though you've been kept down!
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 03:10 PM
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Well Europe isn't 100% cleansed of fake rape charges. Your point is valid but it's incontextual. The guy has some social standing -> of course someone will want the attention/ money that come from that so they make fake rape accusations just to get some spotlight/ easy money.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 12:10 PM
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I think that you care. I personally wouldn't care. I would've fucked her and had fun. (both of you wanted it) Hang around 1H more after the sex in which you give her water and a lot of glucose (glucose which is basically anything sugar-based is a drunkenness killer). Leave graciously: "I'm tired" / "I have business to attend to in the morning" Second day comes, wait until 10-12 (depending on the hour she went to sleep), text her "hey, was a nice night kinda tiring and too much booze but I though…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 10:16 AM
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↑ This right here. This comment + what OP did = gold. Both of you got my upvote.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 08:43 AM
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Misinterpretation. A girl will always desire a man that's better than her (read it here a few times but can't remember where). The fact that you show her that you "understand" her means that both of you are on an equivalent level. -> NOT a turnon. Example? Got a new girlfriend (2-3 weeks since hooked up). Chit-chatting with her I discover that she likes tattoos. M(me): so you like tattoos? H(her): yea they seem neat. m: so why don't you get one that represents yourself? h: i couldn't find any. m…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 08:37 AM
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Thank you but I think he's referring to the birth order inside the family not with regards to the compatibility between him (and his birth order) and her (and her birth order) but to see actually if she was spoiled by her parents or not.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 08:36 AM
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I'm from Europe, an emerging 3rd world country (many say it's 2nd world but given the salary, I stay with 3rd world thank you). I'm 24, relatively tall, skinny towards athletic. Since discovering TRP my success when interacting with women grew enormously. Yes, the main goal of TRP is to gain a woman and fuck her, but I refuse to believe that there are no further applications. I love studying people (why do they do X? when do they do X? how do they react to X? etc) even though my college diploma …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 08:33 AM
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since the youngest will almost always be spoiled. Don't you mean "since the oldest" ? If I have two kids, and one now has 15 yo and one has 17 yo, you should bet that the 17 yo will be more spoiled. Why? Because he came first and he got my undivided attention. By the time the second one came, I already lost a lot of money, effort, willpower, sleepless nights and patience raising the first -> no so much huff and puff will be put in raising the second one. Am I correct or...?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 11:50 AM
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1). I presume that you/ your friends and your respective partners are "old school" and were raised in the "old school" way. 2).Alternatively, you and your friends might be having a midlife crisis and decided to "lock down" a chick while you're still in your prime. Female hypergamy confirmed -> the women you got are more than delighted to get married. What are the odds that most (if not all) of the people that try TRP admit it works and admit that there's a problem in the man-woman interaction? T…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 11:46 AM
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What I took from the article is: betas give their all and get oneitis and put the chick on a pedestal as if she's some supermodel scientist that has evolved beyond normal human comprehension. The way I shifted away from that is first the way I view a girl: below me, same level, above me. Below me -> I'm baldly confident in whatever I do, no matter how weird, sexist, invasive it is. Why? Because I know that I have something to offer (my time, my personality, my thoughts...me!) while she can only …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 11:36 AM
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So...your friend found out that his gf fucked another of your common friends in their bed, he found out that she also tried to fuck you, and still he decided to propose to the chick? (you never explicitly stated that he broke up with her; the "current chick" might still be the same chick from your story since you make the whole engagement sound bad)
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 11:20 AM
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You are correct. Thank you, will make the edit now. EDIT: sorry I'm not able to change the title. Will have to stay like this :S.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 11:05 AM
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Congratulations on winning this battle! No matter how small/ big it was, you won it both for yourself (reinforced your own confidence in your subconscious) and in front of her -> she'll keep on smiling when thinking of you! Here, have an upvote!
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 10:46 AM
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Elusive title my friend! But a good read none the less. I still doubt though that this will convince people since it's hard to decouple so easily once you're rigged on a single girl. :)
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 10:15 AM
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Upvote for sincerity! You deserve it. Also as the rest of the comments say: don't beat yourself over it. We all had that moment. :P I can't say I'm a true alpha, but I'm slowly turning into one (shed a lot of my beta skin in the last few months). A story for a story: first girlfriend in the 6th grade (that makes me what? 12 yo?). I was so beta and shy that I didn't even kiss the girl! We hooked up because I really liked her and teased her sexually (get on top of her, slap her ass, etc). I was so…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 08:42 AM
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I'd personally focus on the networking part of the interaction and play my cards as best as I can (not trying to insinuate that you ain't playing your cards at your best) as open some new doors for me/ keep some old doors open. I think career should occupy 70-90% of your brainpower and time during the age of 20-30 (or even more) because if you get it right, then you can lay back once you hit a big milestone ;).
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 05:57 AM
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Must...bookmark...NOW!!! Great post! I love the analogies and sadly even smart girls do it subliminally. Please keep making such posts and you will have a new avid follower! Edit: small correction.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 03:22 PM
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guys pump them and dump them Sir I cannot get myself to do such a thing with a girl whose resemblance to a barrel is uncanny! No matter how intoxicated I may be.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 01:11 PM
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You're right. I would've sued for damage. No matter if that would ruin her financially; she should've thought about it before "lying to get some attention since she was going through a difficult time".
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 05:04 AM
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I'd actually just lay it down to her. Hypothetical scenario (had similar situations a few times): H: Why do you want us to stop being friends? M: Because I don't wanna be friends; I wanna hook up. H: But you're throwing away all those years that we were friends. Didn't that mean anything to you? M: It doesn't matter. I wanna be together or not at all. H: Are you sure of what you're doing? M: Yeah. Edit: formatting.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 09:59 AM
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Great post! It's very logical and brings up good arguments for the supposition being made.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 08:05 AM
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You might have a point. I guess I'm trying to support my personal opinion here :). Sorry for generalizing.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 02:20 PM
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Everyone dreams of scoring a milf. The fact that she's a milf rises her SMV by 3 no matter what. So if she was a 5-6 in the eyes of a 30 yo, she'll be a 8-9 for a 17 yo slugger.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 01:27 PM
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he'll be joining TRP in 1,2,3... Not all men that get beaten down see the road.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 12:16 PM
6

Poor fella. I gotta say I hate adding random extra lines just to please the bot.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 11:44 AM
0

If the chick was at least remotely hot (at least a 5-6) and I would've been in that guy's place, I would have landed in fucking Heaven!
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 11:10 AM
2

I love you mate! No homo though!
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 10:20 AM
1

Numbers tend to be your friend! Also tech! Hardware, software, telecommunications, generally networking, automotive, etc. To all these add a diploma that says "engineer" at the end and I say you have a pretty neat starting point. Healthcare is good and it pays a lot more than the above but the amount of effort and time that you have to put in is also a lot higher.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 09:29 AM
1

Congrats OP! Take a break sometime and have a glass of something; you deserve it!
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 09:24 AM
2

Points 2 and 4 from "TheSKSpecial" stand tall here! Dude if my wife left me and a friend died, I wouldn't be in the mood to go out with friends, play some pool and have a beer. All I'd love is to go to work, do my job without talking to anybody, go home and watch a series. I'd keep doing this for at least a few days until I would be ready to gradually pass over it. If my dreamgirl came along during the first few days I'm not sure I'd feel like fucking her or even generally interacting with her a…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 08:38 AM
4

slow clap ensues And another random line of text to satisfy the ever-hungry Mister Bot.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 05:21 AM
1

I got fat; loathed myself for it and in the process of losing weight I decided to change other things as well.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 05:14 AM
1

don't calculate your lines too much. I've had A LOT bigger success in social interaction when I just thought of the general direction of the conversation I was going to have VS actually thinking of the lines, what the response might be, what my response to that response might be, etc. be calm, appear in control, appear in control and calm even when you clearly aren't (you're sick and you feel sick and you look sick; your boss tells you to go home but you tell him/ her that you can handle it. do …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 01:50 PM
1

From what I presume: many people are blue pill converted (me including) that want to have as many flings as they'd like but they'd also like a ultra hot 10/10 smart, well mannered, chick for a true LTR. I also still want this but in the back of my head I'd trying to teach myself that she doesn't exist, or if she does she's not gonna come for me since (just like me) she's aiming for a 10/10 guy. -> the real reason raising your SMV matters: you raise your SMV so you get higher SMV women. Enough ra…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 01:42 PM
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Sorry. As offtopic as this may be: are you fapping?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 01:22 PM
1

You did marvelous! The 8/10 could've been yours also but she would've required a lot more work. Regarding what to do with the 8/10: glancing at others means you weren't really interesting in her eyes; since her group tried to seclude the two of you, she was initially interested but when she got to know you she lost interest. Possible cause?: I presume you gave her a certain vibe when she first saw you/ met you/ talked to you/ heard about you, and tonight when you two were together you gave a dif…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 02:37 PM
1

The only thing I'd like to point out: peer pressure. Seeing everyone around her falling into the same stereotype makes it really hard to keep ideologies. I find it really hard not to fall back into BluePill behavior and sometimes unconsciously I wake up acting BluePill. Tread carefully. Given the scenario presented by you, it would be really nice if she could find a female friend with the same ideologies.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 01:27 PM
1

Pretty good starting point? This is amazing!
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 01:22 PM
2

True but the man wants basic tips, now a whole subreddit with a plethora of information.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 01:07 PM
0

I don't find it physically abusive at all; but as you said it: You don't giver her ammo to take more than half your shit in divorce proceedings and possibly jail time. It's a cold world for men that get physical with girls.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 12:59 PM
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As feministic as this may seem: I think she saw that you mistreated her and got really pissed off. As you said it: I see no reason to do something that doesn't interest me just to cave to her demands. She did some of the things you requested of her and you didn't do a lot of things she requested of you. By not doing things for hell you fell out of the push-pull tactic. Am I seeing this the wrong way?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 12:53 PM
1

Awesome read! But I really suggest that you change the title into something more contextual like: "Alphas and betas in a relationship", or maybe "Alpha vs beta mentality; investment and outcome". You speak very little about security and a lot more about the things I mentioned. Any other title might be fine but this current one is just lacking context. You still get an upvote for this great case study.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 06:15 AM
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Kudos! Keep going! I'm sure she'll end up being just a memento telling you: she was a good starting point, now she'd be too small of a catch for me.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 05:08 AM
1

And a true Alpha will search for ways to climbing the social ladder easier and also learn to better interact with people to make life/ socialization easier. At least that's my opinion. Yes, it may seem blue pill at some points but there will be people out there that you meet which will be important to you (an employer, a business partner, someone with a lot of connections, etc.) where I'd rather "slide under his skin" than enforce my opinion and beliefs like a real Alpha. From what I know being …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 05:04 AM
1

Was ready. Would've felt bad about kicking myself out like that and ending the night abruptly but I would've felt a bit good thinking that it was for the best.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 07:04 AM
1

I'm sorry to hear that man. But in such a case I think that: Well at least I got that ass for myself a couple of times.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 07:04 AM
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It's not about the boob, it's about the mechanics that got me there. There are people here who spin 2-3 girls at a time fucking them even in the same day. Maybe I dunno how to close; maybe I lose frame along the way; maybe I'm just too new and still have recoils from my natural behavior. In essence what I wanted to point out is that I made progress. If an illiterate and uncultured person tells you he just learned that addition works and that 2+2=4 and this helped him throughout the day, will you…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 06:46 AM
2

Yes, it was a win win situation.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 04:11 PM
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Still you got a lot of +++ out of it. So it was just a shit test. EDIT: got me thinking about women being manipulative and AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 04:10 PM
2

Can you please link something in on dread or explain it? I know the English term but the "Glossary of terms and abbreviations" is so outdated that at least 30% of the active acronyms used here are unknown to me.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 02:15 PM
3

Will work on escalating. I hope to get the best out of it.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 02:10 PM
3

Please see the below reply that I gave to "whatever6". Pretty much the same answer goes here.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 02:08 PM
3

Work the next day -> I can't really afford skipping a night of sleep due to very strict productivity checks from boss. Also, I'm not a PUA. I got this far, I tried more and I got rejected 3 times in a row in 1 hour (pushed away and serious staring) -> decided to call it a night and actually went to sleep.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 02:08 PM
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Settle down with yourself. Judging by your post and your replies in the comments section, you just moved to TRP and haven't stabilized yet. As of now you tend to fall towards the extreme of TRP where you may be viewed as an asshole. What you're thinking isn't necessarily wrong, but keep in mind that if she truly is religious and devoted, then you should respect that since she's a decent chick. (at least more decent than the pretentious, shallow and superficial bimbos out there)
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 10:35 AM
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Mid 20's, posting from work -> funny sense turned off. I didn't submit for the brag. A true brag would be having a threesome with 2 chicks. I am happy that it worked out and I didn't go full beta on the situation.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 09:25 AM
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Not looking for a LTR. What you're describing is meant for LTR, not ONS or general 1 week - 1 month flings. But yes, in a LTR, I fully agree with your approach. Here, have an upvote!
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 09:14 AM
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What are you referring to? How I was beta? The average schmuck that "must treat women right and one day a good girl will come along". Second base? Tits.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 09:12 AM
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I think this isn't true. I was genuinely a nice guy. I really wasn't acting. I treated girls like demi-gods that need protection, support, communication, attention, my time, my effort. It's not about the fact that "you may be acting", it's about the fact that they won and you're boring them. You get to the stage where you're nice to them? They won you. They'll keep you around to play with you a little and then they'll get bored. I'm pretty sure that my theory beats your because my whole life I w…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 08:51 AM
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I know it seems beta, but do you honestly score with every chick you get together? On the first 1-3 dates? Even if you do; it may be a small victory to you but it's a pretty good one to me since I've just started TRP a couple of months ago and in the past I was full beta.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 08:38 AM
1

-eagerly awaits the meditation post-
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 08:35 AM
1

Why can't I give you 2 upvotes? This thing is great! I guess many of us subtly noticed it but not many formulated the idea concretely enough in their minds as to actually use it.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 02:21 PM
1

Shit tests work the other way around also. See if you're genuinely unique to her or just contextually unique. What's contextually unique? Well maybe you're her dream boy that she loves and will love forever just because the fact that in that town/ area/ her group of friends, there are no other males that have your SMV. If you're contextually unique then I don't think you should stick around. A good way of finding this out is to give her opportunities to cheat on you: make sure she goes out in to…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 02:10 PM
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You don't apologize. She seems like a "diva"; I don't apologize to divas because usually they're the ones that are wrong and usually they cause the fight. EDIT: also wanna add that I'm glad that you're wise enough to doubt your actions and aren't fully blind. The curtain is still there but you're starting to see through. Keep asking questions.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 01:47 PM
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Marvelous! Sorry for the misunderstanding then.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 08:50 AM
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I like what your pointing out, but what I'm trying to say is that not everybody responds well to the same stimuli. If he knows how to be tactful and base himself on action -> reaction -> observe if reaction is the desired one. And if he does this in little steps (large jumps are risky) then of course he can go all out.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 06:47 AM
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Be very careful. TRP focuses a lot on game. Also around here everyone agrees that you don't shit where you eat. (aka don't mess around at your workplace) Tread carefully since TRP presumes that you must establish yourself as a dominant alpha male -> this might not fall well with your boss. (people take the boss position too seriously and actually want you to respect them and they wanna fear superior to you)
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 05:40 AM
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Sharing: ex loved me possessively. If she heard me talking over the phone with a chick, she'd either take my phone (when I wasn't looking) and change her number and redirect her original number. Emails deleted, Facebook profiles blocked, at one point she even called one of them to tell them to stop calling me. Most of the chicks were friendzoning me or I friendzoned myself (some were actually pretty neat discussion partners on certain subjects). After 1 year with her I had virtually 1 girl frien…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 10:19 AM
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I find this as being the norm. Guys want flings with girls; girls have the same libido as guys only difference being the fact that they're doing the offering, not the men. If you had the "woman power" to just pick girls, wouldn't you abuse it? I actually consider the chick in the linked post an almost "nice" girl. Since girls can chose any man they want and most of the men will be glad with the fact that they were chosen...well if I'd have that power I'd hook up with a chick that I randomly see …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 08:54 AM
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If your supposition that he has higher SMV than her is correct then you are 95% correct. I say just 95% because the way you put it sounds like she's a drug lord who bought a new gun or a physicist that just built a better particle accelerator. I tend to see her (and generally women) as being a lot more childish and less introspective. Although yea; she might have gotten a huge confidence boost! +1 to you sir!
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 02:00 PM
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on a guy that could potentially mean nothing to me later on down the road This to me suggests: I'm not sure if he's gonna be my last one. She's honest and I really appreciate it! Too bad that the guy ain't seeing these words. In essence she wants flings and she thinks they'd be justifiable since her current boyfriend "could potentially mean nothing later" (hypergamy much?). This to me is the utter most proof of power: "should I abuse my power guys? I kinda feel like it."
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 11:35 AM
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Congrats OP! You're quite a role model to be spinning plates at 52! WOW! I admire the fact that you still do workout also! -slowly bows in front of OP- Cheating on your wife is something very delicate. Some will be against it; some will agree with it. I personally agree with it if: it reinvigorates your relationship with your wife and after the fling you feel renewed passion for her; it unwinds you and this brings a lot more peace at home since you're not so tense; it gives you more confidence a…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 03:05 PM
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Someone posted this here in /r/TheRedPill and I just finished reading it: http://www.badassyoungmen.com/prolonged-eye-contact.html Except for that, don't shout, speak in a low voice but you must be understandable, stand straight, avoid holding one leg over the other (women and defensive men do that). The rest you can find by lurking around here and trying to understand the general mentality. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 01:26 PM
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Ok, will agree with the slut shaming part. Regarding the LTR part: I think it's a matter of flavor. I like french fries and you like mashed potatoes. Eventually I may get bored of flings and just want to settle down; and since this might (and probably will) happen with me, it will happen with a girl also. Moreover the fact that I'll start wanting to settle down at 28 (let's say) doesn't mean that won't stop another guy/ girl from wanting to settle down at 24 or even 20. Having more girls that wa…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 05:45 AM
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Be serious but do some jokes from time to time. Also make a clear distinction between being serious and being morbid/ creepy/ sad. I generally do 1-3 jokes with someone once we meet up and then things tend to be serious; at least I tend to try and keep them serious. If they start joking I smile politely but I don't laugh my pants off, nor do I respond with 10 more jokes (maybe respond with 1 joke if it's adequate). It all revolves around how much of your interaction with that person is serious. …
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 05:35 AM
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To clear things up even more: when a guy gets drunk and he starts a fight and ends up in jail, nobody is siding with him. Why? Because there is the general mentality: "he was stupid enough to start a fight" / "he was too drunk? why did he get so drunk if he knew he had no control over himself? it's his fault still". These things run in the mind of both bystanders, people that are directly affected by the drunk person's actions, the police. So yeah; it may sound rape-ish to you but it's common se…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 05:29 AM
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The internet is anonymous, let's keep it like that. Also we have rules here about doxxing. I will say though that it's a third-towards-second world country, close to the middle of Europe. Anyways this mentality is pretty general here in Europe. To answer your question: they're as willing as American women. Let's take me for example: I won't piss on the street during the day because that's a bit embarrassing and might get me in trouble. Give me 6-8 beers, I'm shattered, I'll throw my dick out in …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 10:39 AM
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I'll actually go to the extent of saying that women and men are equal and have a (almost) similar perspective about life here. What's the main problem with that? Self awareness! Girls that are 7-8s are very self aware usually. And by that I mean that they know they're pretty, they have a line of at least 10 men ready to do their bidding and they know how to play those poor men in such a way that it's depressing. I actually knew a chick which I tried to lay. We even lived together! Progress was m…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 10:25 AM
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I agree. That behavior is unacceptable; but by suing or even filing a complaint about it to the police, you're creating more precedence, you're showing her that she must behave but you're also showing her that that's the way to go. Based on that, if that bartender goes out and a guy grabs her ass and she just doesn't like the guy -> she'll file a complaint against him. So basically, finding another solution would be great. Sadly I know of none; but what OP did was pretty ok honestly and seems li…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 07:28 AM
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That's halfway the mentality that women use when they file rape accusations. In a society where women wanna drag you through court even when you merely glance at them, having men drag women through court for meager reasons won't really improve that society much. In shorter terms: don't escalate for no reason and you can't fight fire with fire in all battles.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 06:24 AM
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What the guy wants is presence. He says his presence is meager within his social circles and he wants to improve that. Also he says he wants authority and to be respected; but due to the fact that he's a funny guy and likes to have fun, people don't take him seriously when he tries to be somber. MY ANSWER: Well you kinda know it yourself already it seems -> don't be the jester of your group. Have a few jokes with your friends but most of the time don't initiate them. You can joke around as much …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 05:58 AM
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Nice idea! But I'm not sure how people go about this here. You PM a mod? You hope a mod sees this thread?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 12:20 PM
1

Nothing more to add except: keep some morality. TRP gives (sometimes, like in this case) too much power. Don't abuse it since if the roles were switched, you wouldn't like being used :). You seem to have everything under control. Congrats mate! ↑ This is completely optional. You seem like a smart man so I'm sure that everything will go smooth whatever you chose. Personally I'd go for a gentle putdown (cut all contact) after I've had my share of what I wanted.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 10:50 AM
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I've taken anxiety meds and they actually made me happy for no reason. So after taking them a second day to confirm it's them, I threw them away. All pills have side effects. I'd rather not take pills for my brain because of that. Overcoming anxiety? Facing it. Due to some health issues, I got really sensitive to temperature/ atmospheric pressure drops which created the extreme sensation of suffocation/ a boulder on your chest and you can't breathe. -> anxiety. I faced it by thinking that either…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 10:41 AM
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Why are you focusing on women? A punch to the chest from a flimsy woman is beating the shit out of someone? Have you been in a fight in your life? Probably not. In any case? You offended by this post? Is it too "extreme" for you and that's why the hostility? I got together with that chick and it ended up being a facade from her side. Kept frame, got second base. Will update my post accordingly. You seem bitter in most of your comments around here; also I see none of your own posts.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 10:31 AM
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Am glad people are enjoying it! Was worried I went a bit too much in depth.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 10:09 AM
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I think those who brush it off too quickly are just to insecure about their own fashion sense. I think it's because people are afraid of being seen weak so they'd rather strengthen their idea over the logical one just so they don't seem like outcasts, underdeveloped, unknowing. But this is a psychological rant of mine. I'm not spending hours in stores, I hate that. I try to shop for no more than 30 minutes for a piece of clothing.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 10:08 AM
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Not a native English speaker. A word-to-word translation from my language to English would be "to do abdomens". I'm not a bodybuilding guru; I follow the exercise routine I exposed in my post which is actually a very rudimentary one, but it's a good one for a beginner. In my opinion doing and knowing any more than this means that you already have bodybuilding as a hobby/ passion. But then again this is personal flavor: I like mashed potatoes, you like french fries.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 10:04 AM
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Blindly because a lot of people around you will choose the easy way out: be lazy, do nothing. This is a basic instinct since we were primitive apes: conserve energy in case you need it later. This mechanic is at the core of getting fat. Since you've done your homework and most people will pull you down once you start your self-improvement journey, you may falter along the way if you let yourself influenced by their opinion. Since we have most people pulling you down, your psyche will even start …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 10:00 AM
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There is no such thing as female friends. She wants you back. Your SMV skyrocketed and now she's trying to weasel herself back into your life. She's taking small calculated steps towards and she's carefully testing waters; but she's definitely trying to get back with you. Why? she clearly made a concise resume of her current love-life that suggests that she's available she doesn't wanna seem weak -> the thing with the beta-orbiter being used as a "boyfriend" she's molding herself on your current…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 09:43 AM
1

Ok, one more try to see if I can do the f-close and then I bail.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 08:52 AM
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I saw awesome responses to this thread: the one from "throwy99" and the one from "asd1100" are really good. They don't touch a major point: you and your problem. Let's ignore the situation you're in completely and deal with you. A few key points that you must tackle before your life will start improving dramatically: - you are low. When I mean low I mean you are so low that you don't even see the beginning of the ladder that you must climb because of so much darkness and void. - you are wrong. T…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 08:14 AM
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Ok, I'll discuss with her when we meet again. EDIT: she's 22 years old.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 07:09 AM
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Downvotes cuz you were offensive. Yes, you can't have them all; but in the case where I can touch her boobs, lifting her shirt enough to expose her back but not her boobs seems like stepping down not up -> confusion? It's like: she lets me finger her but she won't let me touch her thigh. We want sex. I don't consider a chick a slut if she puts out quickly. I actually like that because it skips over the hassle! An unicorn doesn't do any sexual tease (or as little as possible) because she would be…
/r/askTRP25/06/14 07:04 AM
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I was thinking somewhere along those lines in the back of my head (in a more simplified manner than what you described). I see mixed opinions in this thread. My main question now: is she like this just for getting attention (she's faking it), or is it really how she feels/ acts/ wants to be?
/r/askTRP25/06/14 06:49 AM
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First time dealing with such a chick so that's why I'm really uncertain of how and what to do.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 06:43 AM
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Not really interested in a relationship (it would be waaaay too erratic) but would bang. With this post I'm trying to weigh in the gains vs the means: she seems "interesting" and that would make for an interesting f-close; but does that justify the effort of putting up with her seemingly chaotic mind and behavior.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 06:40 AM
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Have you ever learned to talk nicely? Guess not. Girls have many forms of "no" and generally when a girl is rejecting some things but not everything it means you're not doing everything right.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 02:22 PM
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So, bail I guess. I was just excited that she's the first that I actually met. Thanks for clarifying it.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 01:55 PM
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First girl I meet with blue hair and she didn't offer 100% opposition -> will try 2 more times before bailing. I think you're right and we started off with her having too much control. Will be more careful. Suggestions?
/r/askTRP24/06/14 01:44 PM
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Am loving this! Will give it a try. I won't squander too much over her but 'dat blue hair must be pulled at least once! If I don't get an f-close in another 2 tries I'm bailing.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 01:41 PM
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I tried, when increasing kino ("let's lift that shirt off and see your back a little" -proceed to lifting shirt-) I was met with violent opposition. Suggestions?
/r/askTRP24/06/14 01:28 PM
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Good point my friend! Will note these down and try to apply them. I've been trying to pass over AA and honestly I still find it weird even after I've successfully approached 4 chicks. 3 turned me down but it wasn't weird. As you said: we talked normally but when I tried to do a # close they smiled and said no -> I tried, they left with a smile, I left with a rock lifted from my chest. Here, have my +1!
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 10:08 AM
2

Captain please? Legit? Fake? Wut?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 08:35 AM
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For people with approach anxiety (or who had approach anxiety) this would be like the biggest test ever! AA people (I'm trying to bulge out of AA myself) tend to find it really hard or weird to just go up to people and start a conversation (not just chicks).
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 08:29 AM
1

Same answer that I gave to "Areimanes" applies here.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 06:20 AM
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You'd be amazed how lazy people are and how conservative (won't change things for the better). Wasn't meant to be a "feel good" talk. I admit it has an empathy ring to it but it's easier to relate to that way. Generally the people I see in society go around 5-7. People at 7-8 already have a better social standing (more friends) and (in the worst case) get along better with chicks.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 06:20 AM
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Breaking it down for ya'. Ok so we have 2 types of guys based on what you say: 1). The natural!(Call him Jack) 2). The average Joe! 1).Jack has a pretty face, was born in a nice middle-upper class family -> access to education, nice clothes, nice accessories and since people know of his average and above family, he has a decent group of friends. Jack has medium success in life and -relatively- success with women. "Why? Are you dumb? You just said he has looks and money!" Yes I did, but due to th…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 10:03 AM
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You have my +1 for the moral aspect that you present. Yes, your given scenario may happen, but as "maderail" says below me: it will happen with you or with someone else. TRP doesn't teach you how to rape women; it teaches you how to be a better male and it points out some of the major parts that help in getting women along the way. Ultimately women have the choice; men can only work hard to be one of the ones she chooses. Blaming her infidelity on your ability to have game is like saying: it's "…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 02:44 PM
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From my point of view: everything is fine until you hit the right spot. Make yourself understood but don't force your opinion on others. Don't be a pushover, but don't be a manipulative prick that takes advantage of good people either. Have guts but don't be an asshole. Stuff like that can be reaped from here A LOT. TRP never falls in the fanaticism side of things (this is pretty much what I understood from your post). It seems that way sometimes because it's very DIFFERENT from the general ment…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 12:17 PM
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Yea; have to work on that. Yes; I must learn to detach quicker. I want the change but negating some life-long ideals is kinda hard and it feels weird. Just like: you were scared of heights all your life and now you decided to climb tall trees. You climb them because you're facing it, but you're still scared and the sensation is weird because it's very different that what you're used to.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 05:06 AM
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Don't worry; I'm not "please feed me" thin :P. Am working out at home with a 14 kg dumbbell: can do only 3 x 10 reps atm -> just so you can have a clearer picture. Edit: clarification.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 03:35 PM
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Yep; beta-ed out of it -.-. It's hard for me to draw the line between fine moral standards and a wild night with a girl.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 02:59 PM
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Thank you my friend _. Yea I could've said said yes to be dragged around but I really was tired and after talking to her that day I went straight home and crashed into my bed. Yea; I appeared needy because I kept pushing the contact envelope. Thanks for pointing that out!
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 01:31 PM
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Human beings are social. You have to socialize. What might help you would be that instead of thinking: "I'm bad at this but I wanna improve.", go for "I can do better, I'm sure of it!"; then go on and try harder. Yes, the "not giving a fuck" mentality works wonders because it takes out the inhibition that we have: "am I saying the right things?", "am I smiling too much?", "am I boring her?"; these will tend to dissappear and your communication skills will increase. Good luck :D!
/r/seduction19/05/14 10:40 AM
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This seems promising but if you become game and she desperately wants you, she'll offer things to reel you in: if you give in -> relationship -> see above point if you don't give in -> she may become stressed about not being able to have you and eventually hate you/ your presence OR she will try even harder to reel you in. To some extent you can combine the two but sadly I'm too much of a noob to know how that would be possible/ done :(. Good luck though!
/r/seduction09/05/14 02:06 PM
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Focus on the business end of things. Because if this "partnership" starts off as a relationship and based on emotions; then if the relationship/ emotions end, it's very likely that the partnership might as well. The above points won't really make you attractive. You may even end up in the friend zone! But that's not bad if you strike a deal that improves your life and your career :P. Business before pleasure my friend! (you can escalate after you close the deal :P)
/r/seduction09/05/14 01:38 PM
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I have no idea what to say! There! I'm honest :P! But what I'd do would be to keep a few things in mind. You're having an important meeting. I presume she knows that also -> she knows she has the upper hand. Basic tips: try not to be too shy pay attention to what she says be on par with the conversation. show respect; but show that you're not talking from 10 stories under her. Worst case scenario is: you're talking from one step under! DON'T keep things too formal. If you find an oportunity to j…
/r/seduction09/05/14 12:57 PM
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Actually I tend to think that when guys get what they want, they eventually get bored and want more (-> they try to make the girl dress sexier/ act nicer/ etc). Eventually that will fail also -> they get so bored that they start cheating/ break up. So, guys don't really like the type of roundabouts you describe, they like something new, interesting and hard to get; once they get it it slowly becomes "meh". Just like getting a new mobile phone.
/r/seduction05/05/14 02:45 PM
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Openers are a hard subject. Why? Because the circumstances in which I'll meet a girl and the ones in which you'll meet a girl may be extremely different. Also if we both met the same girl, what would work for me might not work for you. A general good start is eye contact: stare at the chick you like from time to time; eventually she should catch you starting and stare back. That's when the moment's just right to smile at her. If she smiles back/ seems pleased in any way by your gesture, then you…
/r/seduction25/04/14 05:40 AM
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Best solutions are: 1). what do I have to lose? I lose a chick that I'm not hooked up with -> I only have to gain from this! 2). fuck you Universe! You can't fucking beat me! I have balls of steel! I'm a fucking GOD! Either one will give you enough motivation to take on any chick. The key is to keep either one in mind when approaching and NO MATTER what she says or does do not break out of this mindset. Even if she feels like a diva and laughs at you and your approach you can only be: "don't wor…
/r/seduction24/04/14 11:33 AM
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Best and simplest way: actually get the girl. The chances that she's out of your league are pretty low: you pretty much have to be the laughing stock of your town, illiterate, disfigured, impotent, and missing a limb. These would SERIOUSLY set you back but even these can be overcame (except for the missing limb and impotent part, but these are just 2). Anyways. There is no exact method to get the girl; pretty much you have to lurk around /seduction and check out as many stories as you can. Find …
/r/seduction23/04/14 05:22 AM
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I have a lot of friends that have difficulties with women/ other life issues (gamblers/ social anxiety/ etc) and each time I try to help them/ convince them that there's a better way I end up being the bad guy :|. Some of their replies when I pointed out their problems and suggested my approach to dealing with them: "Dude wtf? Why are you insisting on me changing? I thought we were friends the way I was now?!" "I'm perfectly fine the way I am!" "You're not the boss of me! I don't need a teacher!…
/r/seduction17/04/14 07:34 AM
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Remember that they're only human like you and me.
/r/seduction08/04/14 09:18 AM
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Seems the same to me sadly :(.
/r/seduction07/04/14 10:00 AM
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Awesome story but please reformat it. I had to copy/paste it and rearrange it in a notepad so that I can read it easily. Great story still! Here, have an upvote :D!
/r/seduction07/04/14 08:52 AM
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A short but meaningful list: You DA BOSS! Whatever happens, whatever you/she say/says, it doesn't matter! You're in control and you're gonna maintain it. <- This is the mindset you're going to have when going on that date. Don't overthink things! It's good to pay attention, sometimes girls leave hints that they're interested/ not interested in you based on the things they say/ do, but don't go to the extreme (trying to see if she blinks too much or stuff like that). Look for certain signs. Girls…
/r/seduction07/04/14 07:10 AM
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You pretty much have to "feel the moment". Try imagining the scene in your head a couple of times. If every time you end up in a bad situation then the scenario you're imagining has flaws in it. Everything can even out smoothly as long as you try hard enough ;). Also, lurk around /seddit and /askseddit a bit. You'll get a lot out of it! (including a more conclusive answer regarding what the end scenario is :P)
/r/seduction07/04/14 06:43 AM
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Here! Have an upvote! You deserve it!
/r/seduction07/04/14 06:06 AM
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Very motivational! Keep it up! I love how you balance the focus between you (and your perspective of yourself) and her (and her perspective of herself)!
/r/seduction04/04/14 05:16 AM
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I used to be like that with a chick. I failed SEVERAL times when trying to hook up with her. After exhausting every option that popped into my head (roses, movies, taking her out for walks, talking to her often and a lot, etc.) and spending a good amount of time (around 1 year), I realized that something doesn't add up. By the time that year passed, I pretty much lost the "love" I had for her. What remained was the "winner's thought". More exactly I didn't really want her to be with me because I…
/r/seduction01/04/14 10:29 AM
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No worries and good luck! ;)
/r/seduction31/03/14 08:36 AM
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1). Ummm, I suggest you start off with fluency. When you speak speak fluently and with no pauses. Avoid as much as possible all the "ummm" moments. 2). Look straight in the eyes. (looking in several other directions -> insecurity/ nervousness/ lack of confidence) 3). Gesticulate a little but don't overdo it. (avoid constantly adjusting yourself in the chair or playing with things in your hands. 4). Take up some space! Don't keep your hands crossed in front of your chest or your legs crossed and …
/r/seduction29/03/14 08:59 AM
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Please say how it all worked out! Also if you tried something not mentioned here in the comments section, then please share with us so we can try it out also :D! Good luck!
/r/seduction20/03/14 07:44 AM
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Damn good question! In the given scenario: day date, have some kino but you're drifting away from the sensuality. Well I guess the first thing is to cut the bad seed from the root: stop any funny/ interesting chit chatting. And I do mean kill it! End it completely and continue with an interesting remark about her: let's say you're on a bench with her, sitting relatively next to eachother, you're both laughing at a joke you just said and you feel that the friendzone starts kicking in. Stop saying…
/r/seduction19/03/14 10:55 AM
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Upvote until it reaches Heaven people! Great stuff here :D!
/r/seduction19/03/14 08:34 AM
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1 step at a time: @FirstAlways: he doesn't have to follow my advice :). There may be a difference between the country you live in and mine. In my country a 1v1 is not taken into account by the police, unless they are right next to you and see it happening. Only for large fights that also involve destruction (5v5 or any multiple of that) do the police get called and they come. @mrtony93: if the guy is her bro, then you're right. In that case pretty much you should be witty and try to outsmart him…
/r/seduction19/03/14 06:57 AM
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Face it directly. You're kinda vague though: how are they trying to boast at your expense? Verbal abuse? Taunting? Nagging? Joking? If they generally insult you and make you feel like shit and show you off as a bad example: tell them in private that this is bad. If they repeat it, tell them in public, if they keep mocking you then grab the sturdiest small object that you can find and hit the face/ head. (the head generally has little protection and is usually the weakest and most accessible area…
/r/seduction18/03/14 01:54 PM
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That comment (+1 from me my friend)! Mostly agreed but the submitter wanted to know what to do with all the girls, not only the hot blonde. My solution would be: the blonde is easy game but mostly for sex; she gives a lot of hints on that so you can keep her for that -> easy FWB will come if you do things right. Ok, now we solved the blonde predicament, we move to the next: you have 2 more chicks to deal with. Go on a date with the 2nd one and see where it ends; my guess would be: FWB nr. 2! You…
/r/seduction18/03/14 01:36 PM
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There you go! You got your mood going ;). Keep it up and then you'll see that every piece starts falling into place. Being positive and optimistic in everything kinda tends to improve your chances of a positive outcome (no matter if it's work or dating).
/r/seduction18/03/14 07:12 AM
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Here! Have my like! You deserve it sir!
/r/seduction13/03/14 11:41 AM
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Sorry; a bit sleepy xD.
/r/seduction12/03/14 01:49 PM
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They do matter. They're signs of being an alpha male. The looks suggest you're fit (for hunting/ defending the female/ establishing dominance over other males) and the money suggests you're "above" (socially and financially surpassing other males). Having money in our society means you're above average people; for wolves being above the average member of the group gives you certain rights, while being above everyone gives you the rights you want. So a guy in a Lamborghini is mostly above everyon…
/r/seduction12/03/14 01:15 PM
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Please post the following parts too :D. I love it!
/r/seduction12/03/14 10:15 AM
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Don't kill the idea please :P. I'll have to contradict you on this one but only halfway through: Yes, it's true you can't really place a person or a reaction in a specific category and create stereotypes out of it; BUT you can place them close to something like a "blurred stereotype". Maybe a good analogy might help: Let's say a Mustang has 400 HP on its blueprints. When coming out of the factory and being shipped to stores where some people take it for a run, it doesn't really have 400 HP. It m…
/r/seduction12/03/14 10:07 AM
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Scars are sexy to women because they show signs that you struggled in your life and managed to overcome it. Go by what I said above: if you have no deformities, you're beautiful! Having scars on your lips doesn't mean your lip is deformed. They have the same shape, but they have lines that are of different color; hell that's actually interesting! How many people like that do you see? It's like seeing a girl that has blue eyes that are so pale that they seem grey. The scars become a problem when …
/r/seduction10/03/14 08:36 AM
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Accept her friend request and see if she says anything (wait 1 day at least). If she doesn't say anything it's ok, not all girls like to make the 1st move. Text her on FB with something like "Hey, I see you remembered me.". This is a good opener. Based on her response you have several options. If she goes: "haha, yeah :)" then I'd presume you're in the "neutral zone" (she's curious but not clearly interested in you). If her answer is more elaborate: "Yea, I remember when we met at the home depot…
/r/seduction08/03/14 09:32 AM
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Ugliness is relative. Truly ugly people rarely exist. It was scientifically proven that the human mind loves symmetry. Based on that and a lot of photo processing, scientists discovered that: As long as you have a symmetrical face, you're beautiful. A bit more into detail: Take a picture of a face, split it in half (vertically) and from the two halves, generate other two identical halves to fill them in. You now have two faces that were each generated based on a half of the original face. Overla…
/r/seduction08/03/14 08:38 AM
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First of all: people like to know you care -> ask about the shows she watches; which one is her favorite? why is that one her favorite? what's her favorite artist? why? As she answers, try to introduce yourself in the subject. Example: y (you): So what's your favourite song? h (her): artist X - song Y y: hmmm, not sure I heard it; how come you like it so much? what's it about? h: well, I like it cuz... y: interesting, I think I can relate to that! So, when there are not many common points, you c…
/r/seduction05/03/14 11:09 AM
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Messaged you on your account since this thread will be closed.
/r/seduction05/03/14 09:55 AM
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I cannot give you enough thumbs up. Will follow your idea. 1 main problem though: we will live together in about a month or so :|.
/r/seduction05/03/14 09:26 AM
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"it may still be true" So you are unsure of your supposition :P?
/r/seduction05/03/14 08:51 AM
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Ok, so basically: stay friends and forget the matter and maybe some time in the future it will work out? Easier said than done. How do I shift my mind from her without removing her from my life completely? Thanks for your patience and answers! :D
/r/seduction05/03/14 08:50 AM
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Ty, will repost immediately. *EDIT: * cannot repost in the askseddit since I'm a new user.
/r/seduction05/03/14 08:43 AM
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Thanks for the opinion. I'd like to try a bit more before giving up because of 2 reasons: -she's actually a good girl, hard working and has a great personality and mindset: she thinks more about her career, her responsibilities and her personal development than she does about going out, or getting drunk or etc (which she doesn't do because she focuses on the above) -she helped me out a lot as time passed and even went out of her way to support me -> there is some "caring" in there That's why I n…
/r/seduction05/03/14 08:29 AM
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