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I do have a phone thats made within the last two years, just not an expensive one. I guess we're just two different kinds of people ;)
/r/seduction18/04/12 06:53 PM
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If someone in their mid 20s doesn't have a smart phone I personally wonder what their deal is. Are you serious?? You sound like a materialistic douchebag... I would also like to add that trying to demonstrate value by pulling out an expensive phone is pathetic in my eyes..
/r/seduction18/04/12 02:54 PM
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You sir, are a BAWS!
/r/seduction14/03/12 09:08 PM
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I think that as long as you're comfortable with this it's ok.
/r/seduction14/02/12 01:08 PM
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Maybe you were too focused on your game? I sometimes get this too when I overfocus on my game.. What works for me is just dismiss game for a couple of minutes and have as much fun as possible.
/r/seduction22/10/11 10:22 PM
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I have something that applies to every situation of this type: If she says: "oh hey, he thinks you're really cute!" You look back at your target, look her in the eyes for a solid 1, maybe 2 seconds, and then say. "That's true, I absolutely do". Continue the eye contact and then smile it off.
/r/seduction19/10/11 09:09 PM
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Congratulations to you! Man, you pulled some really great lines there. I'd almost say it went flawless. Maybe you're a natural ;).
/r/seduction09/10/11 10:39 PM
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This is not the right subreddit for this but i'll give you some advice anyway. If you really are a good match you should just take it easy and not think to much about it, things will flow naturally. Once things are comfortable again, apologize for anything necessary from the past and make him get rid of his guilt. Goodluck.
/r/seduction09/10/11 10:32 PM
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"Are you old enough for that ass?"
/r/seduction05/09/11 09:53 PM
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Yes, this is the kind of challenge that I was referring to but not the one I am looking for.
/r/seduction03/09/11 12:14 AM
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Whenever I am able to create attraction or get some solid IOI's and am quite certain that I can pull off a # or kclose I find myself chickening out 95% of the times. This is weird because overall I think I'm a pretty gutsy guy. Also just taking control of the situation, telling her to come sit with me or come dance with me etc etc. I think my natural game is too passive.
/r/seduction03/09/11 12:14 AM
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Is she older than 16? Then go get her back bro.
/r/seduction27/08/11 11:42 PM
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It sounds like she likes you but also cares about her reputation. She doesn't want to be known as a slut or something like that. Invite her to the picnic party and keep making her laugh and being awesome ;)
/r/seduction27/08/11 11:40 PM
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You can actually turn this one in a bit of a cocky one: "Do you know what time this place closes?" "Uhm, I think around 3. Why?" "So I know how long I have to wait before I can take you home."
/r/seduction23/08/11 10:10 PM
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I first wanted to upvote maddawg579 because I feel the same way but then saw you're comment and you're absolutely right. I'd be a better person if I didn't drink (or alot less) and stopped smoking.
/r/seduction18/08/11 12:15 PM
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Yes this is indeed a very complicated topic. And I get what you're saying and agree with it but I hope I've added something.
/r/seduction29/07/11 10:57 AM
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I think you are missing the point. The point is that you should feel confident about yourself and that you do not have to copy someone else to be successfull.
/r/seduction29/07/11 10:35 AM
1

Then I suggest you try bonding emotionally to a chick, might sound lame, but it's actually pretty cool. Big downside is the fact that you're emotionally bonded ofcourse =D
/r/seduction23/06/11 08:58 AM
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What's regular for you might not be regular for someone else..
/r/seduction19/06/11 03:32 PM
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Goodluck and I hope you find one you like even better ;)
/r/seduction18/06/11 07:53 PM
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Very right, you need to know when to move on. However, it was just a first date. He might pull it off next date.
/r/seduction18/06/11 01:29 PM
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Don't make a big deal out of it but don't make it into a taboo either. It's a great opportunity to tease her a bit. You could say things like "Oops! Almost got into your bubble there!". Just make her really comfortable with it and let her know that you're totally okay with it. The key to breaking the bubble is comfort and trust.
/r/seduction17/06/11 09:04 PM
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If you are going home angrier when you where trying to have fun then you didn't have fun. Anyhow, I'm not trying to take you down here and I feel for you. After having put in so much effort you deserve moderate outcome. If you allow me I will try to work things out with you. What is your actual goal?
/r/seduction17/06/11 04:53 PM
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What these guys are saying. First, stop concentrating on the outcome and start enjoying it, start enjoying talking to girls, start enjoying making them laugh and not even thinking about what you want from them.
/r/seduction17/06/11 11:50 AM
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=) awesome comment, thanks! I didn't go wrong as in the 'date' went wrong though, it went wrong as in the 'date' didnt happen =D
/r/seduction17/06/11 11:42 AM
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I would easily believe this if she wouldn't have 'blown me off' several times before. On occasions where I provide alot of oppurtunity to get to know eachother/be more intimite, she has completely ignored it, this makes me think that she's not into me at all. I don't have low self esteem, not at all. Lack of inner game? Probably =) Nevertheless I will be taking your advice, grow some fucking balls and make this girl mine goddamnit!
/r/seduction17/06/11 01:27 AM
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I agree about not going to the library, I chickened out. As to where she was saying that I could come to her if I needed to break down, that was not a direct invitation and I am sure about it. The texting was in dutch, translating it to english and getting the right message across is hard. She was not inviting me over, just comforting me/being friendly.
/r/seduction16/06/11 09:05 PM
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To clarify: She passes my dorm on her way to the library..
/r/seduction16/06/11 08:24 PM
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She's very cautious at this point, you've probably noticed that. I personally think your response was okay, but you shouldn't pull that shit too frequently because it'll only cause her to be more cautious. (She'll get the perception that you're player)
/r/seduction16/06/11 07:52 PM
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Indeed, I did this and it worked! I got thrilled to meeting her and had some positive energy going. Unfortunately, something got in the way and things got ruined =(. Maybe I'll make a post about it later..
/r/seduction16/06/11 03:53 PM
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Learn to recognize the times where commitment has to be shown and the times where it hasn't. For example: girlfriend's pet died? Dont be an asshole and play it cool, but show her some love and comfort. Other example: Just plain hanging out at her place? Play it cool. Another tip, one way to get away with playing it cool most of the time is by surprising her from time to time with something awesome (a nice dinner, some really good sex etc..).
/r/seduction16/06/11 11:24 AM
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This is definetely in the right direction!
/r/seduction16/06/11 11:12 AM
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Exactly, I want to stick with my natural game. Thing is, even your natural game can be improved. Mine lacks kino so that's why I will be trying to add a bit of it..
/r/seduction16/06/11 12:19 AM
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I'm 19, I agree that this might help but i'd rather somehow try without it.
/r/seduction16/06/11 12:03 AM
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I'd say take it easy on the text game, then set up a date as soon as possible. On the date, man the fuck up and initiate ANYTHING, she will not reject you
/r/seduction15/06/11 11:51 PM
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He's saying that people who are not confident can become confident by trying things confident people would do and by finding out they won't die from it.
/r/seduction11/06/11 08:02 PM
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Could you do a video about dancing to rnb/hiphip? =)
/r/seduction05/06/11 08:26 AM
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Seems you've got a nice thing going here! There is definitely some chemistry between you two which is why you don't need game here. When there is no chemistry, you do need game. Anyway, congratulations and enjoy ;)
/r/seduction05/06/11 12:05 AM
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"also had this realization: attraction is an investment. It’s temporary, and time-dependent. You can’t take it for granted that someone likes you and coast on it. It’s always a dance, in a way always a performance." This is very, very true
/r/seduction04/06/11 05:38 PM
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I would like to give you a HUGE shout for getting a PhD. You're contributing to science and it's taking a toll on your life. I think you are a hero. That being said, i admire your courage. Good luck on getting everything together.
/r/seduction02/06/11 10:26 PM
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I wouldn't see this as them leaving you out on purpose, they just forget to ask you.
/r/seduction02/06/11 08:00 PM
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First off, get the idea of making her your future girlfriend out of your mind. This is probably providing the most stress. Having stress shows and it's not attractive. Second, you might want to try and contact her so you can have a little chat before saturday, this should also relieve alot of stress. Third, don't mind about the dancing, just straight out tell her you can't/haven't tried but you're willing to try now. Goodluck and have a blast!!!!!!
/r/seduction02/06/11 05:42 PM
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Beginning PUA, i am in no way socially awkward or something. Good advice
/r/seduction21/05/11 11:37 AM
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I was thinking of maybe complimenting the girl doing my hair if the oppurtunity comes up, or is that too bold?
/r/seduction21/05/11 10:57 AM
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Solid advice right thur
/r/seduction21/05/11 10:56 AM
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I like this, you know exactly what you want and you're on your way to getting it! This takes a discrete volume of balls. Now make sure you're in top shape when you come back from vacation and show her who's boss!
/r/seduction17/05/11 09:18 PM
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I see, breaking up is never easy. You'll find the right one someday ;)
/r/seduction17/05/11 05:51 PM
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I like how no one here says anything about this guy having a girlfriend and kissing other women =D way to go dude, just make sure she won't find out ;)
/r/seduction17/05/11 10:43 AM
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I'm gonna say this is false, a virgin probably won't have sex with you after your first make out session.
/r/seduction16/05/11 10:40 AM
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Gotcha, thanks for the advice. As to the 2 steps forward and one step back; do i give her some spins, heavy kino and then act superficial?
/r/seduction14/05/11 03:35 PM
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Yes, build more comfort and make her trust you. Don't go too big too fast, the better you two know eachother, the more intimate stuff you can do. So i'd start out small, with crab a coffee or something like that.
/r/seduction14/05/11 03:33 PM
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So be more dominant and distant?
/r/seduction14/05/11 12:31 PM
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You need to love yourself again, can't expect girls to love you if you don't love yourself.
/r/seduction14/05/11 10:08 AM
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Might also want to try talking about a bit more personal stuff, and not just your majors. Oh and, yes
/r/seduction14/05/11 09:38 AM
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