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Can you help me get girls and improve my game bro. I'm 5ft5" south asian. Like some advice and help.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 12:26 PM
1

Is this limited to east asian dudes or do you love brown town too. We need some love as well haha
/r/seduction14/05/19 07:45 PM
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Nice, as a fellow asian. Not east but south asian I share your story about the limiting beliefs. Thanks for the confirmation man. We will all make it.
/r/seduction14/05/19 07:43 PM
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Posting for later
/r/seduction14/05/19 06:06 PM
8

Solo game
/r/seduction12/05/19 10:09 AM
1

I honestly struggle to believe this. I don't look near that bad and I cant score a date to save my life.
/r/seduction08/05/19 11:27 PM
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I went to his free tour, was pretty shit.
/r/seduction08/05/19 11:23 PM
1

Dude derek is a con man. I recommend todd.
/r/seduction08/05/19 11:09 PM
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Pmd you
/r/seduction08/05/19 10:40 PM
1

Can you give me some advice too?
/r/seduction08/05/19 08:30 PM
1

You can show me how you look. I'll tell you if its actually your personality.
/r/seduction02/05/19 09:52 PM
1

What transformation? All I saw was blowouts.
/r/seduction02/05/19 09:47 PM
1

Thank you for the advice. I'm really grateful for this! Would it be possible for you to elaborate on the three points you made?
/r/seduction28/04/19 08:26 PM
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Is there any advice you can give me? What has helped you do well?
/r/seduction28/04/19 07:27 PM
1

I did the same experiment you can write whatever in your bio, as long as you post a hot guys pics you'll get matches. You could literally write you're a serial killer and you'd get matches.
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:10 PM
1

I've day gamed for almost a year with very little success...
/r/seduction23/04/19 05:17 PM
2

Who the fuck is derek rake lol. Why not just approach in person. Reading material and watching don't even come close to field experience.
/r/seduction20/04/19 10:09 PM
1

Hey man I can relate, my brother is the same. Girls won't leave him alone but for me attention is almost none existent.
/r/seduction09/04/19 12:07 PM
2

How I can relate.
/r/seduction09/04/19 12:06 PM
5

Here I thought I was alone.
/r/seduction09/04/19 12:04 PM
1

What the fuck did I read. I swear you're meant to be the all bad big pick up artist advising people?
/r/seduction07/04/19 09:18 PM
1

Your game is wack homie. That's why.
/r/seduction07/04/19 06:03 PM
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Where you staying at? Location?
/r/seduction06/04/19 01:51 PM
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Bingo this guy sees women as a tool. If you stop doing that maybe women will be more receptive?
/r/seduction06/04/19 12:28 PM
1

It's your attitude it fucking stinks. Once I stopped this victin bullshit things started clicking more.
/r/seduction06/04/19 12:27 PM
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This this this this.
/r/seduction06/04/19 12:22 PM
2

No it ain't don't fuck with another mans family. Shit is immoral. Don't blame the other guy when you're dead in a ditch.
/r/seduction06/04/19 11:57 AM
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Always a good post from you.
/r/seduction28/03/19 07:17 PM
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Op don't do this.
/r/seduction28/03/19 10:52 AM
1

Pick up is not bullshit. I know real guys who kill it. Yes there's a lot of fluff out there.
/r/seduction27/03/19 08:07 AM
0

Bonus points for username.
/r/seduction26/03/19 10:47 AM
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It's not for socially awkward people. Some of it is for people who aren't great looking or some looking to become a pimp.
/r/seduction25/03/19 08:26 AM
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This shit inspirational to me man. You have the fucking mentality of a champ. 120 girls in 2 days. Insane. I've done 300 approaches in 2 years. Your shit blows mine out the water. Any advice you got that you specifically learnt from bootcamp?
/r/seduction24/03/19 10:23 PM
1

Can you help me improve my dating life? It fucking sucks now bro. I'm open to any advice atm. No judgement. I'll pm you if you want.
/r/seduction24/03/19 10:06 PM
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I use to have serious anxiety and panic attacks. Best thing I found to do is fuck up the approach that's the first one and the rest of the approaches will happen normally. Also keep those thoughts in check. Your mind can be your biggest ally or biggest enemy.
/r/seduction24/03/19 10:05 PM
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I could have wrote this post lol
/r/seduction24/03/19 10:03 PM
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Oh shit you're right. Fools crazy
/r/seduction24/03/19 10:01 PM
1

Interesting, so you never go for building a connection & going for an instant date? That's what I've tried doing. Also what's the reply ratio to your no. Close?
/r/seduction24/03/19 10:00 PM
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How does he game?
/r/seduction24/03/19 09:43 PM
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Its definitely not your fucking height. If you're 5ft5 and below you have zero issues.
/r/seduction24/03/19 09:42 PM
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Wrong sub homie
/r/seduction24/03/19 09:40 PM
1

Fucking lold
/r/seduction24/03/19 09:40 PM
1

Yo dude could you give me some advice so I can improve my current situation? I need it from a bruddah haha
/r/seduction24/03/19 09:30 PM
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Can you tell me how you structure your game?
/r/seduction24/03/19 09:09 PM
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Can i pm you too?
/r/seduction24/03/19 09:08 PM
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Fantastic post
/r/seduction19/03/19 09:13 PM
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Man If I tell you I've seen white men who look ugly do decently with women you'll feel bad. You're lucky you aren't indian/south asian. TRUST ME YOU CAN DO IT.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:35 AM
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You should not be struggling then. If you want you can PM me what you look like and i can tell you if its your face or whatever.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:32 AM
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What ethnicity are you?
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:27 AM
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Just wanna say you dish out fucking good advice. Everytime I come back and just read your post and replies.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:36 PM
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You too mate? I go literally nowhere after a no. Close even after good convo.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:10 PM
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I can confirm this. I've closed so many fucking worthless numbers. Numbers are shit.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:08 PM
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I needed this post.
/r/seduction17/03/19 01:41 PM
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Do you have any content you can recommend me?
/r/seduction14/03/19 08:20 AM
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I think the award goes to you...
/r/seduction14/03/19 08:20 AM
2

Do you do well in cold approach?
/r/seduction13/03/19 07:25 PM
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That's sadistic.
/r/seduction10/03/19 03:01 PM
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Agreed did fuck all for me.
/r/seduction07/03/19 06:55 PM
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Mate the only one that needs to chill is you. You wrote an entire paragraph trying to dissect me. Edit: large majority of non /r seduction members have a strong dislike for this sub. You're deciding not to see it.
/r/seduction06/03/19 07:00 AM
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Listen in the 300 approaches I've done I noticed No one is special on the great green earth. Everyone is equiavlent of each other. We are all walking meat bags looking for something that makes us feel less insignficant in this vast universe. Someone to hold and love. Just be sure when you say he is special he is really worth the effort. You probably don't know there's guys dying to meet you.
/r/seduction05/03/19 10:03 PM
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Work out and lose weight. Not what you want to hear but that's your solution. Otherwise go cold approach men you find attractive. Also you're better of going on tinder. Why aren't you on there? Women have endless options on there...
/r/seduction05/03/19 09:25 PM
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Yes at this rate I probably will be. I've tried real hard. Dunno why people are down voting me. I approach everyday and more than the most people on this sub...
/r/seduction05/03/19 09:17 PM
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Maybe? I don't say any weird shit. In a lot of the sets I talk quick like a salesman. Perhaps that's screwing me?
/r/seduction04/03/19 11:59 PM
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I'm 23. I'm not getting numbers or dates. When I do get numbers they never reply to my messages so its very very Odd. Interactions last from 2 to 5 minutes. Also Thank you for getting back to me. Really appreciate it man.
/r/seduction04/03/19 11:57 PM
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I'm 5ft5, I'm built (quite muscular). Also from the UK. I'm not white though. Can you perhaps guide me to what I'm doing wrong? I've hit about 300 approaches...with little to no success.
/r/seduction04/03/19 06:50 PM
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Same stats as mine but you're killing it wtf
/r/seduction04/03/19 06:21 PM
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Mate I hit 300 cold approaches with little success. Join the club...
/r/seduction04/03/19 06:15 PM
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No it really isn't. I'm approaching with 100% confidence. I didn't tell you I dress bad, I dress just fine man. Sometimes shit don't work.
/r/seduction04/03/19 10:29 AM
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Yes you recall an anecdote and magically that applies to all short men. I'm shory myself I've done literally everything and have hardly improved in seduction. Take it from me your friend is an OUTLIER. I've met so many short men that can't get shit.
/r/seduction04/03/19 07:00 AM
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Do this.
/r/seduction03/03/19 11:16 PM
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She's a girl lol. All she needs to say is hi.
/r/seduction03/03/19 11:14 PM
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Someone ban this guy.
/r/seduction03/03/19 11:13 PM
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This is the stupidest thing I've ever read. Girls give massive shit about height.
/r/seduction03/03/19 11:11 PM
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Disagree with your point. The day you go out doesn't matter at all. Also yes you'll run into many girls that don't reply at all.
/r/seduction02/03/19 07:56 PM
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That's what YOU do. Majority of girls don't. Nor do they care about being mindful. OP just say cool let me know and game other women. How do I know? I've approached 300+ women.
/r/seduction02/03/19 07:54 PM
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Exactly, unfortunately bullshit sells. What people don't speak about is the REAL grind behind pickup.
/r/seduction02/03/19 07:50 PM
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If OP can say seduction is easy. He truly has no idea what seduction is...
/r/seduction02/03/19 07:42 PM
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I seriously disagree with OP and that other poster. Some people don't have that ingrained in them. For me its learnt.
/r/seduction02/03/19 07:41 PM
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Seems like it
/r/seduction28/02/19 07:12 PM
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If you really were buff you would have no trouble mate. You know how buff you have to be to get girls easily? Go look at instagram fitness models. If you tell me you're that buff and you're not getting girls I'll call you a liar.
/r/seduction25/02/19 10:14 PM
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Get buff, do shit, complain later. I'm the same height. Either look for solutions or sulk. The latter I did for too long.
/r/seduction25/02/19 06:27 PM
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Have other things in your life you want to do.
/r/seduction24/02/19 05:45 PM
1

How good looking are you? Seven girls in a month?
/r/seduction24/02/19 05:21 PM
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Depends. It may make you even more depressed. For me the rejection was incredibly painful which caused me depression for a while but inaction was even more depressing. And thus I started to approach like a maniac.
/r/seduction24/02/19 05:19 PM
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I'm going to film this and show you. Becsuse I've gotten real nasty responses before.
/r/seduction24/02/19 09:10 AM
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He's not I've gotten the same reaction a few times. I've been lifting for 3 years fairly consistently and dress well.
/r/seduction24/02/19 08:40 AM
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No if you cold approach her, you don't tell her that because it sounds desperate.
/r/seduction24/02/19 08:34 AM
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The voters disagreeing with you are deluded man.
/r/seduction24/02/19 08:32 AM
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I for one think its a damn good post.
/r/seduction24/02/19 01:26 AM
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Nah bro. Ignore her and move on. These type of girls are pompous and airheaded.
/r/seduction24/02/19 12:31 AM
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I'll take you up on that
/r/seduction23/02/19 11:41 PM
1

Do you do any kind of mentoring?
/r/seduction23/02/19 09:09 PM
1

Fyi I drop situational push and pulls. Too. But I'm not getting anywhere...
/r/seduction23/02/19 08:21 PM
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Please do I'm interested in this. I myself am at 300 plus with no success.
/r/seduction23/02/19 08:11 PM
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400 over span of a few months.
/r/seduction23/02/19 07:42 PM
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It's less vibe than more so attractiveness.
/r/seduction23/02/19 07:38 PM
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No I've done that already no dice. Pro photos don't do shit if you aren't attractive.
/r/seduction22/02/19 08:12 PM
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make a tldw come on man
/r/seduction22/02/19 08:25 AM
1

I've done something similar over 100s of times. This does not work. Edit,: for me.
/r/seduction22/02/19 08:19 AM
1

I'm at the same stage. No clue what to do. I do some interesting things in my life so not sure if that's a problem.
/r/seduction22/02/19 08:06 AM
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A lot of guys bullshit. Don't believe everything you read on the internet. Most dudes don't smash 20 girls in a month. That dude is straight talking absolute trash.
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:59 AM
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There is no magical pill to become top 20%. Either make a ton a of money or become the top in a field. Both require years of dedication most men won't have. Hence why the shit is an absolute waste of time for average men. Op is right. Fyi I'm working my ass off in every aspect of life so I know myself.
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:57 AM
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OP all these hurr durr I'm above average in looks retards are going to come and comment on the thread not evem reading the title. They don't understand tinder is absolute dog shit for average to semi decent looking men.
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:55 AM
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This article is like 10 years old....
/r/seduction19/02/19 07:33 PM
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I'm a fairly good looking man, I also work out a lot. So I don't think that's my concern.
/r/seduction19/02/19 12:24 PM
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DON'T
/r/seduction18/02/19 10:57 PM
1

I'm not coming to attack you but. But the claim they have it easy is incredibly true.
/r/seduction18/02/19 06:21 PM
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I'm open to this. Also dropped you a message.
/r/seduction18/02/19 06:17 PM
1

I did 20 sets yesterday 0 numbers.
/r/seduction18/02/19 10:09 AM
1

I've approached close to 300 women (cold approach). When does it get better?
/r/seduction18/02/19 10:08 AM
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Typically what I do go indirect. This is to make a comment or tease as an opener about them. I.e. if they're wearing a pink hat say you almost mistakened them for a flamingo. Or you could go direct...which i haven't been successful with at all. Choice is yours.
/r/seduction17/02/19 10:14 AM
1

James tusk is by far the worst person to follow. He is the complete opposite of pick up artist. All he does rely on is being a big tall good looking man and saying bullshit to girls who eat it up because he's 6ft big and good looking.
/r/seduction17/02/19 10:10 AM
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I completely agree with you man. Rsd is a load of marketing shit.
/r/seduction17/02/19 10:09 AM
1

I'm sorry to shit on your parade. I'm also south asian but if you don't do well on Tinder or dating apps that is pretty representative of how good you look. Fyi I'm the same, I do shit in dating apps.
/r/seduction17/02/19 01:08 AM
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Is this why 99% of my number closes don't reply to my inital message or any message at all?
/r/seduction13/02/19 11:06 AM
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Dump her. Get the fuck away, she's poison.
/r/seduction13/02/19 11:05 AM
1

Thanks man. I appreciate the effort. I'm so lost right now.
/r/seduction12/02/19 10:21 PM
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I'm not an ugly dude. But I am short. 5ft5 or 5ft6. In terms of lowering my standards I go for overweight women as well. I still don't have success. I think any lower the standard I would have to approach 40 year old obese single mothers. I think I'm not ready for that. Edit: also I'm not sure about those areas but Its too much effort just to go there for a women. I'm already in Europe btw.
/r/seduction12/02/19 10:05 PM
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I've been approaching for almost a year and a half with no success. Great progress so far. /s
/r/seduction12/02/19 09:48 PM
1

I'm in the same boat. Less angry now, more sad.
/r/seduction12/02/19 09:40 PM
2

Already done all this. What do I do now?
/r/seduction12/02/19 09:40 PM
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Exactly this. What she saying is she doesn't want an average or ugly dude approaching her. She wants the tall 6ft white alpha.
/r/seduction12/02/19 06:51 PM
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You're an absolute joker. Once you have done as many as approaches as me and self improvement you will understand. It is different for those who aren't attractive. Trust someone whos in those shoes.
/r/seduction06/02/19 10:43 PM
1

Game and attitude are two different things.
/r/seduction06/02/19 02:33 PM
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This is rare. Incredibly RARE.
/r/seduction05/02/19 03:05 PM
1

I'm sorry how are you giving advice out when you don't get anything at all. I've seen you post a few times. You can't correlate shit attitude to no women. I have a good attitude and I've not got any women at all.
/r/seduction05/02/19 03:05 PM
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It's not because they're incels. Your ignorance grinds my gears. Its because women want an entire package and these guys lack that, hence why they come and ask in seduction if they can somehow be better and lessen those requirements.
/r/seduction05/02/19 03:02 PM
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Man you're so wrong. Women are shallow, so are men. In fact women more so than men. Not sure where you've pulled your statistics from but OkCupid and real life experience dismiss your claim.
/r/seduction05/02/19 03:00 PM
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Yeah man I'm slowly realising this.
/r/seduction02/02/19 06:41 PM
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I honestly don't think you could help. Unless you're on the same side of the grass. I approach women normally with a greeting, and have a conversation. Try go for a coffee, if not I get there number. But truthfully you and I both know If the guy is unattractive there is nothing he can say or do. There is no magic gene lamp he can do to get women. Also, you know that women even the unattractive ones have endless options.
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:18 PM
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How did you start getting action. Prior you were complaining you couldn't get anything?
/r/seduction27/01/19 11:12 PM
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Who told you that women don't care. Man that is a huge lie. Women care and they CARE a lot about the face.
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:59 PM
1

Going to the gym will help you because it helps you vent or be proud of yourself. Even if can't use it to attract women.
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:58 PM
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No they can't. I've tried to fuck fatties and haven't managed to.
/r/seduction27/01/19 10:07 PM
8

Okay time to shit on your parade. Yes looks matter. I can confirm race also matters. If you're not white, AND you're a short male you're going to have a very very hard time. How do I know? Cold hard dating statistics and actually approaching. I've done over 200 approaches.
/r/seduction27/01/19 08:32 PM
1

I can relate all too well. I'm lost at this point.
/r/seduction26/01/19 03:31 AM
1

Fyi it doesn't get easier. Use college more wisely, girls are more open there.
/r/seduction26/01/19 03:24 AM
12

Wait dude. Your other posts indicate you aren't successful so how are you coaching people? Did something just start clicking?
/r/seduction25/01/19 06:47 PM
1

Do you still have tour original post up?
/r/seduction25/01/19 06:43 PM
1

I honestly don't know. I empathise with you becoming bitter.
/r/seduction23/01/19 02:14 AM
3

Get the fuck out of here. You should be banned. He's far better than you at pickup in every single way and doesn't even fraud people. You on the other hand are slimey and are a liar.
/r/seduction23/01/19 02:06 AM
2

I learned this after 200+ approaches.
/r/seduction22/01/19 02:45 PM
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Op is an idiot. He is also on reddit therefore he has included himself. Op can fuck off with his shit marketing. It's the slimey salesmen JMULV.
/r/seduction22/01/19 02:42 PM
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You don't understand. Here let me give you an example: Imagine this, you are a man who has never done well with a women or even get one at all. You try after hundreds of approaches and yet you still get nothing. Again after that you remain positive and do self improvement. You repeat this cycle but nothing changes. You start wondering whats wrong with you. You then see how easy dating is for women. You start feeling depressed and fall into a cycle of negativity. That is where the resent begins a…
/r/seduction22/01/19 02:40 PM
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Lol wtf. This is an advice sub not dating sub. Also no one wants to be your snapchat follower. Christ.
/r/seduction22/01/19 02:36 PM
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But that's exactly how it is. I'm musuclar, lift weights etc. Wheras a fat obese slob can get a boyfriend because she has a vagina.
/r/seduction22/01/19 02:34 PM
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Are you 6ft? White? Muscular?
/r/seduction21/01/19 08:45 PM
5

Worst advice ever. This would piss me off.
/r/seduction21/01/19 07:11 PM
2

He means develop all the superfical things women are into because women are also shallow beings.
/r/seduction21/01/19 12:24 AM
1

One thing I learnt during my cold approach days is most numvers do not convert. Moreover, girls who are interested will show it. The fact that they barely reply or do not reply mean you should not waste any time with them.
/r/seduction21/01/19 12:22 AM
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Well some women are standoffish/uninterested with me. With those I don't bother interacting at all. The others are fine. What you need to understand is secuction is fucking hard.
/r/seduction19/01/19 04:28 PM
1

I can relate. I would love to see what advice everyone has.
/r/seduction19/01/19 04:22 PM
1

This is basically me to the T. I think LOOKS matter a lot. But people just want to bullshit you.
/r/seduction19/01/19 04:21 PM
1

Totally feel you, I'm around the same I've batted 200 approaches with hardly any success.
/r/seduction19/01/19 04:12 PM
1

Christ man that's rough.
/r/seduction19/01/19 04:12 PM
3

This is shallow as fuck.
/r/seduction19/01/19 04:11 PM
1

The one thousand lay count. Stastically in the time period he puts out seems so unfeasable.
/r/seduction19/01/19 04:08 PM
2

Fuck if I know man.
/r/seduction19/01/19 04:06 PM
1

Go fuck yourself.
/r/seduction19/01/19 03:58 PM
1

The zeroes after the number are the six figures you cunt.
/r/seduction19/01/19 03:21 PM
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lol this fraud
/r/seduction19/01/19 10:46 AM
0

I'm not a loser though you idiot. Women don't like a man who's facially unattractive. Also you're an asshole. Fuck yourself.
/r/seduction19/01/19 10:30 AM
1

I'm above average in no. Of factors i.e. body aesthethics and wealth. It doesnt make a damn difference. I'm still regarded as average by women.
/r/seduction19/01/19 12:14 AM
1

Yup the guy above you is a total idiot.
/r/seduction19/01/19 12:13 AM
1

Dude speaking from experience I've done 200 approaches. It helps you understand social dyanmics better but rejection still hurts.
/r/seduction19/01/19 12:12 AM
2

I lift at 12% bf and make six figures. Can confirm doesn't work.
/r/seduction19/01/19 12:11 AM
1

I have fucked 30 prositutes. Doesn't change fuck all. Women don't want me anymore than before.
/r/seduction19/01/19 12:10 AM
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Not really I've approached hundreds of women over months spent hours and hours to get nothing. Money I've made over 1000 pounds in a day. I think money is by far easiest compared to women.
/r/seduction19/01/19 12:09 AM
0

I make six figures handily. I had to pay for sex if I want it. Women are shallow as fuck.
/r/seduction19/01/19 12:07 AM
4

Rare exceptions
/r/seduction19/01/19 12:07 AM
3

Agreed 100%
/r/seduction19/01/19 12:07 AM
2

2 minutes if you're attractive. Fucking bs otherwise. Money is easier than getting women for a fact.
/r/seduction19/01/19 12:06 AM
2

In England it's a lot of money. The pound is so much stronger than the US dollar. Also I didn't mention how much. Fyi 600k a year is not middle class you fucknut.
/r/seduction18/01/19 04:14 PM
0

Fuck yes I made six figures in a year. Yet I can't get a date to save my life.
/r/seduction18/01/19 11:26 AM
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Mate its not just approaching. Approaching and game are not magic. Trust me I've done 200+. Yes I write up field reports and try constantly improve.
/r/seduction18/01/19 11:25 AM
1

Yes dude but at the end of the day when I number close her if I can't go on an instant date that's all I become. A dead number.
/r/seduction16/01/19 07:57 PM
1

Wtf you do when you're at 200 approaches and hardly successful. How do you get the motivation to approach again?
/r/seduction16/01/19 06:21 PM
1

Because attraction is 70% physical.
/r/seduction16/01/19 06:18 PM
1

It's your standards lower them.
/r/seduction13/01/19 01:29 PM
1

You are right about that. At this moment I'm going to chase my passions. Yhen get back into the swing of game.
/r/seduction12/01/19 10:00 PM
1

Okay dude. My SMV is not shit. But its not amazing for things out my control. But yes, I'm not sure what to do anymore either.
/r/seduction12/01/19 08:03 PM
1

Your 25 and delusional. Your biological clock is ticking. Get your head out of your ass.
/r/seduction11/01/19 03:06 PM
1

I cannot disagree more with you. You're nuts. This is why you're going to be alone with standards like that. 2 in 30 that's absurd. I like 1 in 3 of every women. Dating is absolutely easy for women unless you're gunning for the top 10% of men, which if you are take a hike because unless you're top 10% you aren't. I'm sorry you are dating in a purely superficial manner. You want attractive, muscular men who have great personalities. That sure is gunning for a lot. Edit: to answer your question ab…
/r/seduction11/01/19 01:26 PM
10

Scarcity mindset if you're a girl? Have you opened tinder and looked at the number of men lining up to meet you like a conveyer belt. I'm sorry but I don't take women seriously in terms of dating. They have no scarcity unless they have a disability or disorder of some sort.
/r/seduction10/01/19 11:21 PM
9

I am about that point. Except I've been rejected over 200 times so I'm depressed. I've stopped cold approaching. Dating apps give me hardly any matches so I avoid those to not damage my self esteem.
/r/seduction10/01/19 11:18 PM
3

Teach me sensei.
/r/seduction10/01/19 11:17 PM
1

Unfortunately cold approach or a job that involves meeting people constantly. Both are shit.
/r/seduction10/01/19 03:38 PM
-2

You're a cunt. Fuck this protecting bullshit you cockblock.
/r/seduction07/01/19 06:52 PM
1

FYI I lift I have 12% bodyfat & have a good face. Shits just hard.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 12:28 PM
1

Okay. I am mixed race but. That's an offensive statement that just because I'm not getting women in the west I should fuck off to my 'homeland'. Which I don't know what is my homeland considering I'm half asian and half european. This is also really defeatist this attitude. Race and height play a big role in things obviously but I should just fly to the fucking middle of nowhere abadoning friends and family to homeland that isn't my homeland. That's fucking ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 12:26 PM
7

I need to inbox you bro I'm about 5'5 to 5'6. I have literally 0 success with women.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 02:58 AM
2

Mate you don't even need justification the pussy is enough. Your lay count must be 300+. I'll be dissappointrd if you aren't.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 02:53 AM
3

Mate you crushed the genetic lottery. I would have tons of slays if I looked half as good as you. You can have inner game all you want but if you're 5'6" and brown. You better fucking levitate cus you ain't getting fucking shit.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 02:50 AM
2

I daygame in London. It is definitely not dead in terms of people approaching. I know successful day gamers but I'm not successful at pick up :/
/r/seduction05/01/19 02:14 AM
1

If you want I can PM you how I look. I don't get matches. I guess I'm ugly dude. When I do get some matches women never meet.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 09:41 PM
4

Unfotunately in the country I live the weather is shit and there's hardly any beaches. Yes I use this for tinder. I deleted tinder because it was bad for my self esteem.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 08:51 PM
2

Is shredded Sub 10% body fat? Do you have examples of what level I should be at?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 08:39 PM
1

Ok I will note it down. Hopefully get to see you then!
/r/seduction31/12/18 08:10 PM
2

Big fan of you Brad. When are you coming London?
/r/seduction31/12/18 07:30 PM
4

Interesting. Do you have any examples of how jacked I should be? I've been lifting inconsistently for 3 years. Btw I didn't down vote you.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 06:12 PM
1

Can you give me some advice too?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 02:06 PM
7

Explain why I don't get matches OP. I lift, not really a greek god but decent. It doesn't get me anything on Tinder. Me
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 01:47 PM
21

Christ it seems like women nowadays have the attention span of a goldfish.
/r/seduction30/12/18 12:20 AM
1

Fwb is the best imo. Aim for those.
/r/seduction29/12/18 10:58 AM
1

Myself 200+ approaches, around 15+ number closes, 3 instant dates, 1 makeout/lots of kino (night game), 0 lays. 99.9% numbers end up dead.
/r/seduction29/12/18 10:54 AM
1

How much do looks matter?
/r/seduction28/12/18 10:24 PM
2

Where do you go to meet women who want that?
/r/seduction28/12/18 10:20 PM
3

You're projecting.
/r/seduction28/12/18 10:18 PM
5

She's cheating on you.
/r/seduction28/12/18 06:22 PM
1

Fantastic post.
/r/seduction28/12/18 06:19 PM
1

You can torrent them all. 10 dollars is basically profit for doing nothing but okay. Have a good day.
/r/seduction28/12/18 01:03 AM
1

I'll offer you 10 dollars.
/r/seduction27/12/18 11:09 PM
1

This is by far one of the best posts I've read full stop.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 10:44 PM
2

Nah I think getting ripped and having solid game should fix things bro.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 10:17 PM
14

No the truth is all women are like that. They want chad, hypergamy etc.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 09:59 PM
3

I'm 5ft6, ethnic and semi jacked. Don't get any results. :/
/r/askTRP27/12/18 09:58 PM
3

Also if you are short. Death sentence right here.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 09:50 PM
19

Awalt
/r/askTRP27/12/18 09:49 PM
1

Would it be possible for you to share the system with me? Apparantly that's Todd's best program.
/r/seduction27/12/18 09:26 PM
2

Do you have Todd's the system?
/r/seduction27/12/18 08:00 PM
3

If you are meeting them online that means you're very facially attractive.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 05:54 PM
1

Hey bro can you give me a few pointers what makes you do so well. I'm the same height and buff but I don't do well at all... Do you have facebook?
/r/askTRP25/12/18 05:49 PM
1

Can you help me with my situation?
/r/seduction24/12/18 09:34 PM
2

Do you have experience in this?
/r/askTRP24/12/18 05:12 PM
2

Could you elaborate how?
/r/askTRP24/12/18 07:37 AM
1

why you gotta kill my dreams lmao. I'm not going to bullshit you, its been tough.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 06:49 PM
26

This exactly this!!!
/r/seduction23/12/18 05:29 PM
2

Thanks I will reconsider this and try fix it.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 12:59 PM
1

I'm 5ft6 and ethnic. I lift too but not a crazy amount.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 10:26 AM
2

I'm 5ft6
/r/askTRP23/12/18 10:20 AM
5

He's talking shit bro. His height gets him laid he doesn't even know.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:57 PM
1

I only do cold approach so far. I walk up to the women, say hi, talk about the situation or what she's wearing, build more comfort, drop hints this is a man to women frame that its not some friendzone bs. And close her number and try meet her later on. Doesn't really work so I've stopped approaching for a few weeks now.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:54 PM
3

You are being cucked.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:49 PM
1

Local coach. Bootcamp will overcharge you.
/r/seduction20/12/18 01:27 PM
2

Bro who cares what the she thinks. Fuck her. Just don't get kicked out by mall security.
/r/seduction20/12/18 01:25 PM
1

Dude pick up is mentally tiring. I've got over 300 approaches with no results. Working and then doing day game for a few hours just to get rejections burns you out.
/r/seduction20/12/18 01:23 PM
1

Sure but I'm not huge. Ripped doesn't mean huge and I am pretty short.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 11:13 AM
3

I am already ripped, have good photos and I get nothing at all. I'm not trying to pollute the forum or ruin your view but some guys i.e. me no matter what I do I will probably never be attractive to women. On Tinder I have pretty decent photos and am quite muscular yet it doesn't get me anything at all.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 10:32 AM
6

I already lift, I'm actually quitr muscular & have decent professional photos I hardly get matches? Coincidence? No, you can't beat being facially unattractive to women.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 10:30 AM
1

Same here buddy.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 11:29 PM
1

Real life. Betas are everywhere.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 11:26 PM
1

This hits home.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 11:25 PM
1

Same here
/r/askTRP17/12/18 11:23 PM
1

Same whenever I mention TRP anywhere I get down voted to an oblivion.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 12:14 AM
2

Mate tinder is dead for me aswell.
/r/seduction17/12/18 12:01 AM
1

What the fuck i get like max 20 matched in a month and I have good pics.
/r/seduction17/12/18 12:01 AM
1

Interesting post
/r/seduction16/12/18 11:59 PM
1

Wish there was a fetish for brown guys.
/r/seduction16/12/18 11:56 PM
1

I mean I feel this is true because I've had literally 0 success.
/r/seduction16/12/18 11:54 PM
3

He's lying about the 100+ but is also trying to make an informative post.
/r/seduction16/12/18 11:53 PM
1

You are basically me.
/r/seduction16/12/18 11:50 PM
4

That guy is not your friend he's a narcissist.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 03:00 PM
15

Sounds like a godtier wingman.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 03:00 PM
0

How does it feel to be a social justice warrior & basically disparage your own gender.
/r/seduction14/12/18 10:09 AM
1

What are you talking about.
/r/seduction13/12/18 10:43 PM
-4

Enjoy being a cuck.
/r/seduction13/12/18 05:38 PM
14

Last part is assholish. Shows you lack empathy. Men have it tough as fuck.
/r/seduction12/12/18 11:07 PM
2

Bro I'm tired as well. I'm so tired of this bs.
/r/seduction10/12/18 08:51 PM
1

Lol similar stats as me. All I can say is I'm burnt the fuck out too.
/r/seduction10/12/18 08:48 PM
1

Mate you're retarded you must be Chris hemsworth if every 1 in 2 women are into you.
/r/seduction10/12/18 08:46 PM
1

No man I don't think you do. You recognise them becuase they are outstanding rather than a plain white couple.
/r/seduction07/12/18 10:19 AM
2

I would advise you stay away from it unless you are 100% sure you'll succeed. Dating apps really damaged my self esteem.
/r/seduction07/12/18 01:01 AM
1

Nah man fuck your pessimist mindset. I don't ever want to go being that way. That's what causes you depression.
/r/seduction06/12/18 03:27 PM
3

This is the type of beliefs that have fucked my self esteem. I'd rather be delusional.
/r/seduction06/12/18 12:05 AM
3

Yeah that's what he is saying.
/r/seduction05/12/18 11:57 PM
1

Holy fuck his comment made me sad.
/r/seduction05/12/18 11:55 PM
1

I'd advise against tinder that damaged my self esteem so badly it took me months to recover.
/r/seduction04/12/18 11:55 PM
2

Just tried this now still crying myself to sleep. Rock on!
/r/seduction04/12/18 01:05 PM
1

Game does not supplicate looks unfortunately. I don't think game is powerful enough for that contrary to what many puas say.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 07:21 PM
1

Interesting, what is your current job? I really like relaxed jobs, it lets me focus on side businesses.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 07:19 PM
1

Ah bro I don't run devious game like that. That isn't me, I run the same game as you except I'm not white. It feels very congruent with my own character. Can you give me tips from your game?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 06:56 PM
1

Can you enlighten me on his approach I'm a guy in a similar situation but in his 20s and I'm pretty built & muscular.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 06:39 PM
1

I don't understand this though. I'm a guy in his 20s about 1.65m pretty muscular, well groomed and a decent paying job. I haven't experienced any of the above benefits :(
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 06:36 PM
1

Spot on man. Honestly guys have it really really rough unless they are the top 10%.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 06:34 PM
4

OP take this advice. It is entirely true. This is what I've found entirely consistent in cold approaching.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 06:30 PM
1

This is so me.
/r/seduction02/12/18 11:42 PM
149

Tl;dr: she approached you.
/r/seduction02/12/18 11:13 PM
2

I'm guessing you've never been a short male before and to make it worse ethnic. Would love for you to approach as many as women as I do and get no response then decide for yourself. Also, I understand it's about changing a womens mood. But if she finds you unattractive nothing you say or do will change that.
/r/seduction02/12/18 11:10 PM
1

Lol what the hell do you look like christ. That many matches wtf
/r/seduction01/12/18 05:25 PM
2

This hits home.
/r/seduction01/12/18 05:11 PM
2

You too, thought it was just me 😭😭😭😂😂😂
/r/seduction01/12/18 05:08 PM
2

You have a long fucking road ahead of you. Getting the balls to cold approach is hard, what's harder is getting numbers to convert to dates and eventually lays. There's no easy way to get sex or cuddles. Watch videos by Todd Valentine on youtube & follow hi.
/r/seduction30/11/18 07:51 PM
1

Very dark and manipulative stuff.
/r/seduction30/11/18 07:45 PM
0

Lol the 2nd point is impossible.
/r/seduction30/11/18 08:15 AM
1

I've took pro photos lol and I still get no matches. You can't beat being unattractive.
/r/seduction30/11/18 08:14 AM
2

I don't advise dating apps. They're very shit for most men. They lowered my seld esteem massively.
/r/seduction30/11/18 08:10 AM
2

Nah. Just because you find your friend attractive doesn't mean chicks do. Furthermore, you say all of those things about yourself yet women find you attractive meaning this is pure down talk. You're probably far better than him in terms of looks. Me I'm 5'5" well dressed, muscular visibly, full head of hair and not really sociallly retarded. I'm confident to the extent where i can do about 200+ approaches cold and number close 60% the time. I don't get anything. Nada. Indicating it isn't my abil…
/r/seduction29/11/18 09:30 PM
2

Too much bullshit fluff.
/r/seduction28/11/18 10:44 PM
2

You clearly don't live in my shoes.
/r/seduction27/11/18 09:44 PM
3

So cold approach does get better? So far I've had no results.
/r/seduction27/11/18 07:41 PM
1

Instagram
/r/seduction27/11/18 07:41 PM
5

Looks are 80% of the battle.
/r/seduction26/11/18 10:31 PM
1

Dude I'm in a similar albeit worse situation, is it okay if I PM you. Your opinion is pretty realistic from what I've seen.
/r/seduction26/11/18 09:37 PM
1

Most of this is not even close to manipulation. It's removing barriers of bullshit social conditioning and allowing girls who are already interested go through with what they already want but societal pressure i.e. being treated as a slut in the way was previously stopping them. If she ends up going home with the guy she wanted it. She can easily just tell you she's not into you in the first step of compliance. Compliance is just to see if they're into you and graduallly build interest. But no, …
/r/seduction24/11/18 01:36 AM
5

Deliver your SJW nonsense somewhere else.
/r/seduction24/11/18 01:25 AM
3

Fucking perfect. Commenting to save this post.
/r/seduction24/11/18 12:02 AM
0

I agree 100%. A girl can make time quite easily. If she's super busy realistically she can always find a way to reschedule. People don't want to live in reality.
/r/seduction21/11/18 08:11 AM
1

Don't hate your parents. Don't hate anything. I know its hard. I'm not successful either but one thing I can tell you is just live life for yourself. You might not get girls but you'll be better than you already are. While you do that you can still try get women. That's a summary of me atm.
/r/seduction20/11/18 09:56 PM
6

You're a retard.
/r/seduction20/11/18 01:42 PM
1

Can I join?
/r/seduction19/11/18 10:08 PM
3

5'6 here bro. Own that shit. Be the fucking boss. I approach every type of chick tall or short. Love em all.
/r/seduction19/11/18 10:07 PM
1

The absolute worst type of game for me. Never succeeded in social circle game.
/r/seduction19/11/18 09:51 PM
2

How about you just go out and game. You'll learn more than any product will teach you.
/r/seduction19/11/18 09:48 PM
7

I use to suffer from a panic disorder so bad I couldn't leave the house. Now I am cold approaching about 2 girls a day. You can definitely do it man. I empathise and realise i came off as a cock.
/r/seduction19/11/18 09:39 PM
2

Dude ignore the guy above you he's an idiot.
/r/seduction19/11/18 09:26 PM
8

This is how we know you don't game.
/r/seduction19/11/18 09:07 PM
1

Thank you bro. You're awesome.
/r/seduction17/11/18 10:24 PM
1

Don't eat his bullshit up; my man is straight up chatting bullchit. I myself follow GQ & dress very nicely and I do not get results. Plus this guy can hardly spell so put two and two together.
/r/seduction17/11/18 01:33 AM
3

This is irrelevant to the post but can you give me advice on my post about dead numbers? What do I do to get over this?
/r/seduction17/11/18 01:19 AM
1

So I am having trouble getting responses back from numbers after daygame closes. Mind having a look at my post and helping me out? I can't even get to that let alone same day lay.
/r/seduction17/11/18 01:14 AM
3

Same boat here christ.
/r/seduction16/11/18 06:53 PM
1

Explain. Most of these coaches are bs.
/r/seduction14/11/18 08:28 AM
5

This is a sub for seduction not actual dating you nob head.
/r/seduction11/11/18 06:27 PM
9

Can I join your group?
/r/seduction29/10/18 09:33 PM
10

Found the misogynist
/r/seduction28/10/18 08:19 PM
10

What a retarded question
/r/seduction28/10/18 08:19 PM
1

S M V
/r/seduction27/10/18 09:25 PM
2

Das it mayn. You got it bro. Hypergamy at it's best.
/r/seduction27/10/18 09:24 PM
0

Models is by far better than any bullshit you talk about. It's about achieving a lifestyle and overall well being. Doing that shit will sky rocket your game like nothing else.
/r/seduction27/10/18 09:22 PM
1

Fake confidence is different to bullshitting and lying. But I agree with faking it till you make it.
/r/seduction25/10/18 05:48 PM
42

probably full of shit
/r/seduction24/10/18 08:58 PM
3

Was going to say the same thing; so damn lame.
/r/seduction20/10/18 10:18 PM
6

So I should ignore 99.99% of women; as they all tell me they exclusively don't date short men. How about, fuck no. Why would I poison my own water supply. Just because you're going to hear shit like this doesn't mean you have to listen to it. People don't always know what they exactly want. It's sad really because you don't know how hard "getting pussy is". Most guys that join this sub are shy men or men who have routinely struggled with women for a variety of reasons; a lot predominantly being …
/r/seduction20/10/18 12:29 AM
2

If anyone is looking for advice look to the age old saying; If you want to feed a man feed him for a day; If you want to feed him for the rest of his life teach him to fish. Just as the saying goes you should learn from the fisherman not the fish.
/r/seduction20/10/18 12:21 AM
2

You forgot don't be short & an ethnic minority; that's is truly killer if you want success with women.
/r/seduction19/10/18 11:43 PM
1

Bro get the fuck out man. I honestly wish I could help you; where are you staying currently?
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:38 PM
0

lmfao bro get off seduction - you are in no position to give anyone advice. If you had no success before that is because your game was total trash. With the way you look mate if you didn't succeed you'd pretty much either have to be a mute or mentally disabled. Try being a 5'5" brown guy - you'll be annihilated. I want to take advice from a guy who's ugly and kills it with women not someone who looks like a stud.
/r/seduction19/10/18 10:09 PM
7

Teach me how you get women cus right now I suck.
/r/seduction17/10/18 01:14 PM
3

What does your face look like? Do you look like chris hemsworth?
/r/seduction17/10/18 12:12 PM
1

What the fuck does considerer mean? Don't you mean consider?
/r/seduction14/10/18 01:32 PM
1

Move on man. I am in the same shit currently. Game the world - billions of women out there. She isn't special.
/r/seduction13/10/18 12:43 AM
2

I have different aims. Don't care about fucking the girl. I want a girlfriend.
/r/seduction12/10/18 06:40 AM
1

Oh damn I could have wrote this man...
/r/seduction10/10/18 10:51 PM
2

I'm in the same boat man. It's slowly killing me. I could have wrote this post word for word man.
/r/seduction09/10/18 01:58 AM
1

They're retarded and deserve every little bit if they're lonely for no reason. True loneliness is different.
/r/seduction09/10/18 01:57 AM
0

McDonalds, KFC or any other fast food outlet or the street.
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:15 PM
-4

Lol fuck off. Confidence my ass. If you want to ignore the evidence all around you by far do it. You want evidence. Take a look at tinder where chicks have pick of the pie like men are cattle.
/r/seduction08/10/18 05:15 PM
1

Statements of empathy I disagree with. You frame an interaction as that and then it sets the vibe as that.
/r/seduction06/10/18 10:30 PM
2

Lift weights. Only thing that gives quick results imo.
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:33 AM
2

I disagree with your articles premise. Looks do matter and you're most definitely measured by them. Making her feel a certain way only goes so far. What you are also forgetting is that she can only feel a certain way if she's attracted to you.
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:31 AM
1

mate same day lays hardly ever happen.
/r/seduction05/10/18 09:58 PM
1

what a sack of shit. I have moderate to decent game and I don't do well.
/r/seduction05/10/18 09:36 PM
1

I'm the same as you. Good luck man.
/r/seduction04/10/18 08:53 PM
1

It sure is better than 200 approaches and 0 dates. Which is me btw
/r/seduction04/10/18 08:50 PM
3

Please don't delude people about drowning in pussy. I've hit 200+ approaches with relatively no success.
/r/seduction04/10/18 06:29 AM
1

I talk about it with my best friend sometimes. He's also going through the same thing. But other than that I don't want to share it with anyone as its embarassing.
/r/seduction02/10/18 03:24 PM
1

Nah buddy, I'd rather you be succeeding than read your failures man. I've been in your boat far too many times. Hope shit clicks for you man.
/r/seduction01/10/18 09:30 PM
1

I've tried to pick myself up multiple times, I keep falling back into this abyss of depression and hoplessness.
/r/seduction01/10/18 09:19 PM
1

Maybe you should read my profile posts, I've approached 200 women with no success. I know all too well about these things. But, hey don't take my advice I'm just another idiot.
/r/seduction26/09/18 10:46 PM
3

If you feed yourself this negativity you're gonna become like how I was a few days ago. Spiraling in and out of depression. People are right about attitude - it might not bring you a gf but atleast you will live a better life. Which might eventually translate into a gf. In other words man, don't pity yourself - it isn't good. Just focus on doing and living with the consequences. You might wanna read Robert Glover - No More Mr Nice Guy.
/r/seduction26/09/18 09:52 PM
6

Fyi he fakes infield.
/r/seduction23/09/18 11:17 AM
1

mate I get 4/10 ratings on /r rateme, fuck outta here man. You can get helped.
/r/seduction22/09/18 10:25 PM
1

I've done all that bs - it doesn't work if you're ugly.
/r/seduction22/09/18 08:12 PM
1

You haven't got the you're 'too young' for me response yet. Because being a women is different from a man.
/r/seduction22/09/18 08:10 PM
2

I am talking about approaching not cat calling. Cat calling is retarded.
/r/seduction22/09/18 07:17 PM
1

London. Near tube stations/street.
/r/seduction22/09/18 07:15 PM
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You're absolutely fucking deluded if you think approaching women is harassment. It's because of crazy bastards like yourself liberalism is taking over and men can't even say hello to women without fearing they'll be shamed or locked up. You're creating a generation of pussies and not men.
/r/seduction22/09/18 05:02 PM
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When you see an overwhelming majority agree with what I have to say you see it as a problem but not a statistic. What you're choosing to do is wear an eye-patch and spout baseless claims where I'm citing something a vast majority of the sub agrees with - that IS WHY I AM GETTING UPVOTED. I don't live behind veils and delude myself like you.
/r/seduction22/09/18 03:09 PM
2

If people don't cold approach what do you do when they have no social circle or if its shit?
/r/seduction22/09/18 01:55 PM
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I've spoken to more women than you'll do in your entire life. Both socially and cold approach. You're just a butthurt blue pill loser who doesn't understand what reality is.
/r/seduction22/09/18 01:49 PM
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I've met hundreds of girls like OP. If you're ugly no matter what you say you're a creep or scary. Girls (I know well) have confirmed this in social discussions with me.
/r/seduction22/09/18 12:27 PM
1

Odd I'm in the UK. Daygame seems to suck balls for me.
/r/seduction22/09/18 12:14 PM
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Okay. You gave a really poor example. Celebs are rich and have very socially powerful status. The status quo doesn't apply to exceptions like celebs or those with political power. Because as with all things even looks can be mitigated. Also, I find it a real shame that you seem to disparage my comment and its reality. Modern studies reveal 80% of men on OkCupir are found below attractive in the eyes of women. Meaning they're practically undatable or at least a minority are willing to. Moreover a…
/r/seduction22/09/18 12:05 PM
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Op has zero problems with men approaching her. She finds the ugly ones that approach her creepy and doesn't want that. And this bullshit about being a sexual item or being sexualized. That's apart of every gender and the basis of attraction being sexually attractive so I don't see any problems with guys approaching you becuase they find you attractive. Girls do the same to men. No way in hell do people get in to relationships when they don't feel attracted to someone. If this is what you're sugg…
/r/seduction22/09/18 11:09 AM
2

It's funny how people WANT to stay deluded and blue pilled because it destorys their reality with a real one.
/r/seduction22/09/18 11:02 AM
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OPs first world problems depress me. She can get a constant volume of men to choose from and complains about no dates. Not all want to fuck but obviously if she has had only one date it seems to me she has really powerful expectations. Trust me I know I've approached over 200 women with no success. If they find you attractive there's no way this is considered creepy or scary. Only the dudes she doesn't find attractive she wants them to stop approaching.
/r/seduction22/09/18 10:58 AM
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Entirely true, you're ostracising him for revealing the nature of most women.
/r/seduction22/09/18 10:55 AM
4

Well summed up not sure why you have been down voted. 100% she wouldn't feel 'scared'.
/r/seduction22/09/18 10:54 AM
1

Where do you live the USA?
/r/seduction22/09/18 10:49 AM
1

Main impediment isn't talking or conveying myself honestly. I think it's because I'm ugly and short.
/r/seduction21/09/18 10:45 PM
1

I'm similar, I'm around 200+ approaches and it's gone no where for me.
/r/seduction21/09/18 01:15 PM
1

I do all this and am social it doesn't work if you're ugly.
/r/seduction21/09/18 01:14 PM
1

What do you suppose you rather be ugly? I find your response quite stupid becuase ugly men don't get anything at all.
/r/seduction21/09/18 01:13 PM
1

Being brown is a huge handicap.
/r/seduction21/09/18 01:10 PM
1

Why do I do better in night game than Daygame?
/r/seduction21/09/18 01:08 PM
1

Ignore this bullshit. Fucking magic tricks fuck off.
/r/seduction21/09/18 01:07 PM
1

You are not wrong. They're the shallowest gender for a reason. They have unreasonably high standards.
/r/seduction21/09/18 01:06 PM
1

Doesn't work when you are short. I'm already ripped.
/r/seduction21/09/18 01:02 PM
1

Day game is entirely looks. I found bar and night game actually is less dependent. Imo day game is the absolute shittest ever.
/r/seduction21/09/18 12:51 PM
1

You're basically me. Welcome to the club. Except I've had 0 experience.
/r/seduction21/09/18 12:31 PM
1

Glad someone else agrees.
/r/seduction21/09/18 11:28 AM
1

You don't even need advice you got everything on a fucking plate. Just work on your self esteem. Smh.
/r/seduction20/09/18 10:33 PM
1

I've got a few impediments myself. I'm not autistic but I'm quite dysparexic (bad hand and eye coordination, ordering thoughts & expressing myself) and dyslexic. But this doesn't mean its end of all; I found that reading a ton of books and regularly talking improves your ability to communicate swiftly & also slowing down to think and speak. And to update you. No pickup has not brought me any ass or any success tbh. I mainly got into pickup to get a girlfriend. But I feel quite defeated atm.
/r/seduction20/09/18 11:18 AM
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It's called me being objective and describing my physical characteristics. I'm not going to lie and say I'm 6ft etc.
/r/seduction19/09/18 08:41 PM
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This person I describe is me. I groom myself, I work out & I'm a social dude. I don't say stupid things, I try run some game but as always it is a dud. I am at over 200 approaches now. Some girls I approach are 'receptive' visually but when it comes to after a number close there is no response from those numbers. I get completely ignored. What I usually do: Open them about the situation/what they are wearing or direct (I.e. You look interesting, I wanted to find out if you are cool). In the midd…
/r/seduction19/09/18 06:30 PM
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Take this shit down.
/r/seduction19/09/18 06:24 PM
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Okay fair enough, you can come up with excuses as to approaching. But lets picture this, you have approached over 200+ times and have got no results despite changing tactics & gaming differently & given up. Does this sound like an excuse to you, or reasonable action? The reason why I think It is reasonable is because usually where if you keep repeating something and 100/100 times you fail doing the same thing (in this case approaching) it is time to move on to something else as the failure rate …
/r/seduction19/09/18 06:22 PM
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5'6" and under qualifies as short. 5'9" is the average male height where you are taller than a significant proportion of women. A minor amount of women will disqualify you and only want a 6ft dude. However, when you start dropping under 5'7" this is where shit gets fucked up. I know for certain because I'm short and facially not the best looking at all. If you get IOIs with your face you're certain not ugly. I don't get any IOIs most chats are like to a brick wall regardless how cool the shit I …
/r/seduction19/09/18 06:14 PM
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Your profile is literally incel itself. You have no right to disqualify me. FYI over 200 people attend my events. Suck on it.
/r/seduction19/09/18 05:57 PM
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I don't think improving my SMV is really possible. I go gym 6x a week anyway. Have an active social life & plenty of social hobbies & a deceng job. I'm just ugly, short and ethnic. PS: I have no issues getting numbers they just tend to be dead numbers (zero responses).
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 12:27 PM
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Haha I don't know but every time I approach nothing ever happens.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 12:25 PM
1

I've got drinks thrown in my face. Girls will reject you from dancing no matter how good you are if they find you ugly.
/r/seduction18/09/18 09:53 PM
1

Thanks for the reply. I am not trying to shit on your parade or be rude to you at all. I am just trying to explain to you what my circumstance is despite how grim it looks. Average women and fat women have better options then me. If you see the attention these women get from dating apps you will understand I have no chance with them. FYI: I have mainly approached average or below average women this includes obese women. Thanks for your input.
/r/seduction18/09/18 09:49 PM
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No they exist, of course. But this guy makes it sound like they can be successful with women. I didn't say it isn't possible to get into a relationship with a women or fuck them. But It will be a hard task. The effort v Time will be ridiculous. I would have to say they are pretty much lucky majority of these men. These men usually do not have the balls to ditch a women they're with because they know it will be very hard finding another one. Take myself for example: I have approached about 200+ w…
/r/seduction18/09/18 09:22 PM
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learn how to display it through the way you carry yourself and talk about yourself. This part. Ok my bad, I made a mistake in reading but its the same thing. But I make decent money, am well known in my job & have a lot of social hobbies - I make sure to show this value is displayed but I get 0 results even when I do. I don't display it in a boastful manner but in settings where I can genuinely show it. I.e. Painting class - people see that I draw well & have discussions about various art with p…
/r/seduction18/09/18 09:12 PM
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I am 5'5". I would rate my face as 4 or 5. Objectively.
/r/seduction18/09/18 09:05 PM
1

Honestly, you can fake 'High status vibes' all you like but that won't get you anything. You are basically telling people to imagine they are high status and feel like it and the girl will magically ignore the way you look and fuck you. I am sorry attraction does not work that way. A similar analogy to what you are saying is like; Imagine money in your bank account and magically money will start piling up or become attracted to you by the law of attraction. That is some hoo-haa. If you are actua…
/r/seduction18/09/18 09:03 PM
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I've had sex from escorts so no I don't count that as success.
/r/seduction18/09/18 08:56 PM
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You don't understand because you're not in the situation yourself. If you are: Short Facially unattractive You will have low SMV. You will rarely ever succeed in pick up if you have a low SMV. So not matter how much you approach you will see very little results and will get burnt up. So after like first few hundred apporach you'll stop thinking 'it's fun'. Since you have none of that you won't understand.
/r/seduction18/09/18 08:55 PM
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Not an incel, I'm a public speaker & I've approached over 200 women w/ little to no success. I have had sex a few times. So I don't know how you can make that assumption. Keep deluding yourself about spam approach my friend & game being the all king deal sealer of picking up women.
/r/seduction18/09/18 08:51 PM
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Sweet. You have all this advice, but a few things you don't understand because you're not in that circumstance. Being Facially unttractive. Regardless how much 'Improvement' you talk about I sincerely doubt its going to overcome this. Your face is what women see and talk to on first and last sight. The body is a mere addition. Course you can be buff - but that won't make much of a difference (trust me I'm quite muscular). Minority - Brown or Black. (Black guys are better at getting away with thi…
/r/seduction18/09/18 08:44 PM
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Believe me man, If you were me you would understand why I put so much emphasis on looks. Have a look at the hatred spewed at short men in general, moreover have a look at dating statistics for ethnic minorities. Combine those two you have a difficult man to date. BUT if you add in the fact that my face is not attractive to women, you have the devil's triangle. So Imagine this, There's three atrributes and I get a +1 for each. I am effectively on -3. Speaking well, dressing well & being muscular …
/r/seduction18/09/18 08:34 PM
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That is a fuck ton. Either he's a hot dude in asia or a really high smv guy in massive city in the West.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 08:04 PM
1

I used a boost one time I ended up with 2 new matches. Easy right?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 08:04 PM
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Neither because he's fat and she has many options. Women have at least 2 or 3 guys on the back burner. If I'm muscular & have decent social skills and still can't get a date what makes you you think he will unless he has some outstanding factors for him i.e. facially good looking/tall/strong social status. Also your arguement about confidence is flawed. I'm a public speaker with an abundance of confidence. And if I didn't have confidence how could approach 200 women?
/r/seduction18/09/18 08:00 PM
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You are deffo not a 6 then. I'm 5 or or 6 aesthetically maybe less idk. I've fucked approximately 0 off badoo/tinder etc. And bro I am ripped & Muscular. Have okay pictures too.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 07:51 PM
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How do you explain 200 approaches & no success then. Height plays a strong role yes. If your facial aesthethics are strong you can mitigate it. If you are like me where neither is good you are fucked.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 07:49 PM
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It's gone the other way around. I started confident and now I'm under the assumption I'll add to my rejection list.
/r/seduction18/09/18 07:31 PM
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Well, I am in the same boat - 200 approaches. I'm just demotivated - thinking about fully dropping cold approach.
/r/seduction18/09/18 06:58 PM
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I wish this was true buddy, my patience has almost ran out. Also: I think I've maxed the way I look - I lift & eat well, dress/groom well. So I don't think there will be anymore improvements unless I get some surgery/get taller.
/r/seduction16/09/18 09:02 PM
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no lol I actually walk up to them and talk/flirt with them/try no. close etc. haha thanks for doubting that me but trust me I wish this was what I considered an approach..
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 08:58 PM
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Haha man thanks for confirming what I was already suspicious about. People just like to delude themselves that game is the reason why bro. Game is total shit. It only works if she's into you already.
/r/seduction16/09/18 02:45 PM
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Yeah It's probably that tbh. I'm 5'6" and probably not the most facially attractive guy.
/r/seduction16/09/18 01:51 PM
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This
/r/seduction16/09/18 10:43 AM
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Lol'd at this post. you're a women. You've got this what advice do you need lmao. You can if you wanted to not utter a single word and just write a phone number down and he would chase you.
/r/seduction16/09/18 10:42 AM
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I have over 200 cold approaches not one success... Not exactly sure why I got down voted, just sharing that I take action and don't succeed lol. Not sure why that affects people....
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 10:36 AM
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Mate I'm ripped and make money. I don't think I have high standards compared to the girls I'm approaching.
/r/seduction16/09/18 10:31 AM
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Do you want to join the club, I am the head of this club.
/r/seduction15/09/18 01:02 PM
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Girls get 100s of matches. You're not as a important in her life as you think you are.
/r/seduction15/09/18 11:27 AM
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Same. I recently started frequenting this sub and I just saw this again.
/r/seduction15/09/18 11:25 AM
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smash you idiot. Smoke near park & walk her to your apartment.
/r/seduction14/09/18 06:55 PM
1

Funny, I have difficulty getting past the stage where women actually want to go out with me on a date. Guess I gotta let them marinate more right?
/r/seduction12/09/18 09:26 PM
1

To play the devil's advocate, I've smashed about 200+ approaches and gotten no where. I am confident and ripped too. -> I don't kill shit.
/r/seduction11/09/18 10:40 PM
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I've done 200+ approaches with no success - you aren't alone man.
/r/seduction11/09/18 10:38 PM
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You'd be one desperate motherfucker if you did that. That would've killed their view of you.
/r/seduction11/09/18 06:28 PM
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Playing games - Leave her be & unfollow her.
/r/seduction09/09/18 08:25 PM
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Okay I'll tell you whatever you wrote is a crock of shit. I am 12% body fat & ripped. I am also 5'6" and South-East Asian/European. I am a generally confident male who is not afraid to talk or voice his opinion. I also dress well, have a great posture & a strong sense of humor. I have approached nearing 200 women and have not even succeeded once. Don't sell me bullshit. It is all about facial aesthetics & height.
/r/seduction08/09/18 02:36 PM
2

Hey you're basically me. But I don't get ONS at all. Be happy you got that going for you.
/r/seduction08/09/18 01:57 PM
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If this was true it would work for me.
/r/seduction08/09/18 01:57 PM
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Yeah this is what I've noticed. It's kinda leading me to a deep and dark depression. My apetite to have fun/relax/eat has dropped. I'm dropping hobbies like no tomorrow & feeling apathetic.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 10:13 PM
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Yes think you're alpha and that's all there's to it. Women are going to line up to ride my cock. /s Truth of the matter is if you fall below what is the threshold of attractiveness/smv for the current climate of women DOES NOT MATTER how alpha you think or act you are you will go no where. What a guy like that will get done against him is in trouble with HR/Police for being a creep. When a high SMV guy does it he will get wooed. You're essentially throwing garbage RSD mindsets at me which is com…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 09:50 PM
1

I can only praise you. You're doing things I can only dream of.
/r/seduction06/09/18 09:37 PM
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Did you read my comment. I do similar things but get no where?
/r/seduction05/09/18 07:32 PM
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Okay I'll summarise what I look like and what I do. I'm 5'6", muscular & well dressed. I am well spoken too & confident. Facially I would say I am not deformed or displeasing to look at. I objectively would say I am average or slightly above. I usually open a girl I am cold approaching in several ways - commenting on the situation or items. i.e. If she's wearing a pendalum tell her I like it because etc.. (i.e. It reminds me of a rockstar who wore something similar, everyone who has similar styl…
/r/seduction05/09/18 06:48 PM
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I read your post - I think its absolute bullshit. Most generic advice ever. don't be desperate smoothly escalate meet girls at a party (in adult life, this is a lot harder, less people hosting parties) eye-contact Regurgitated shit. Furthermore, tall, broad shoulders & curly hair -> really attractive to women, all you have to do is NOT fuck up and she will escalate you.
/r/seduction05/09/18 06:15 PM
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Yeah day game is phenomenal, the results are absolutely astounding and ground breaking. In fact it's shifted the earth off its axis. /s 200 approaches & not one success. Day game is shit as fuck.
/r/seduction05/09/18 06:10 PM
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RSD is delusional.
/r/seduction05/09/18 08:59 AM
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I've done all of this. I am confident, dominant and am 12% body fat with quite a bit of muscle. I GO NO WHERE.
/r/seduction04/09/18 09:24 PM
1

And you have success with these problems? I am at almost 200 approaches with 0 success. And no I am not socially inept or skinny (I'm muscular) and I'm also confident.
/r/seduction04/09/18 07:40 PM
1

This is exactly me yet I have ZERO success as well.
/r/seduction02/09/18 04:58 PM
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I am using neither of those. I approach with confidence. I have over 150 approaches done with almost 0 success. No canned shit here. I just think what you're saying isn't great advice. I would opt to grind for social game rather than cold-approach.
/r/seduction02/09/18 04:46 PM
1

Shit advice because cold approach has literally the lowest success rate of any approach.
/r/seduction02/09/18 04:36 PM
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lol that's such bs man. Women are as shallow as men are if not, they are even more shallow. I know from personal experience.
/r/seduction02/09/18 04:00 PM
1

Props to you buddy, I have no success - I wish I did!
/r/seduction28/08/18 08:10 PM
0

Literally no take back from this post. What was you epiphany, I failed to understand? Merely showing interest? Other PUAs go as far as saying show little to no interest. I myself show interest and it gets me no where...
/r/seduction28/08/18 08:04 PM
1

Good shit man.
/r/seduction26/08/18 11:53 PM
1

You gotta set the record straight. Some will rudely shit test, and some are cunts. To win in either scenario 1. Laugh it off & throw the joke back at them, or 2. exaggerate what they've said or 3. open a different girl in front of her face - showing you have abundance.
/r/seduction26/08/18 11:50 PM
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I'm 5'6" and I look young - lol same boat right here. I am not successful, but some advice that would help is 1. don't get hung up on that shit, waste of time (like other the redditor said), 2. hit the gym, 3. socialise a ton.
/r/seduction26/08/18 11:45 PM
1

waiting for this to happen to me rip - I've had blinders on for a while.
/r/seduction26/08/18 11:43 PM
1

Not really resentful. I just read your post about how you are bragging about your looks and appearance.
/r/seduction25/08/18 11:31 PM
2

wtf this turned serial killer.
/r/seduction25/08/18 07:57 PM
1

I always open them. You shouldn't give a fuck whether they want to talk or not.
/r/seduction25/08/18 07:54 PM
2

Talk about being a self-absorbed assshole. That's why you're lonely and a virgin.
/r/seduction25/08/18 07:53 PM
2

I'll play devil's advocate: I don't think you know how bad internet dating is. I'm 5'6", 22, Mixed race (asian/european), average/above average facially, ripped & with a stable job & plenty of hobbies. I don't get many responses, and when I do the conversation dies after a few messages. Yes, I message exciting/emotional eliciting things. FYI: these are whales (obese women) I've been trying it with, forget the higher standard women (i.e. plain faced janes). So no not everyone can get a relationsh…
/r/seduction25/08/18 07:47 PM
1

There are 3.8 Billion women on planet earth. She isn't special. Fucking approach her - wtf you got to lose.
/r/seduction17/08/18 11:35 AM
1

You can't even reply in a respectable way. I wonder what crawled up your arse and died you cunt.
/r/seduction16/08/18 10:46 AM
0

'Most of the time'. How much is that. 60% of the time. To be honest with you I call bullshit. This will only work if you're quite attractive - otherwise she will never open you.
/r/seduction15/08/18 11:59 PM
0

How often does this work for you?
/r/seduction15/08/18 11:51 PM
1

Fuck that's long. I could have opened 5 girls while you wait for that one.
/r/seduction15/08/18 11:30 PM
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Nope I've flipped a girl that was completely uninterested in me. It is DOABLE but certainly very hard.
/r/seduction15/08/18 11:26 PM
2

In! on this thread (I'm looking for some answers!) What has somewhat worked for me is: Nightgame Potentially you could translate day-game meets to day 2's where you frame it sexually. Eventually get a fuck buddy - but I have yet to get to this stage as all the numbers I've got are flakes.
/r/seduction14/08/18 11:32 PM
2

you're paranoid wtf is wrong with you You're not that important that people pay attention to you.
/r/seduction14/08/18 11:34 AM
2

I've ran into a few of these type of people and I've noticed the more I let them talk about themselves they invest more despite not being initially attracted. These are the type of people I label as vain.
/r/seduction14/08/18 11:17 AM
2

Sounds like you're paranoid.
/r/seduction13/08/18 12:16 AM
1

I couldn't get laid from tinder to save my fucking life. I get like 3 matches a month. I really wish it could help during my dry period man.
/r/seduction13/08/18 12:14 AM
4

not a big deal bro - get antibiotics you'll be cured in a week.
/r/seduction10/08/18 02:55 PM
2

Dude you need to write more posts, this is very good for inner game. If possible could you write one about conversation filler/emotional spiking. What questions do you ask? Do you do it based on the situation? Do you use canned lines? Also, I would like to PM you and seek your advice to improve my dating life now - because its really crap. I'd honestly really appreciate it.
/r/seduction09/08/18 07:12 PM
2

Long brutal series of rejections & conscious mind-set change.
/r/seduction07/08/18 11:04 PM
18

no fuck her and dump her.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 04:15 PM
1

I'm a minority, I've had little success too.
/r/seduction06/08/18 12:17 PM
0

Firstly no one is bating you. You don't need any fancy entertainment system in your room. My friend who gets laid regularly lives in a box room with no TV and only a laptop. He pulls from clubs. That is a reference I'm using. I never once said that entertainment systems won't help you. It may look like you're a cool person who take cares of himself to the chick. So the chick might feel more safe at your place and more likely to be comfortable to fuck you. That is a no-brainer. However, this is a…
/r/seduction02/08/18 09:42 PM
2

Also this
/r/seduction02/08/18 06:10 PM
5

I can relate to a lot of what you have said man, PM me if you want to talk. Edit: Also don't browse incel. You're doing a dishonour to your mental health and yourself.
/r/seduction02/08/18 06:09 PM
1

I hardly get any matches a week with tinder. Don't know what you're doing. Oh wait, Tinder is entirely dependent on looks and not game therefore your success will be relative to how sexually attractive you are and not how good your game is.
/r/seduction02/08/18 10:23 AM
0

You don't need any of that shit to get women.
/r/seduction02/08/18 10:17 AM
2

How did you manage to screw her younger sister?
/r/seduction02/08/18 09:53 AM
1

Are you a fucking idiot. Don't do this, you'll potentially ruin your career and never will be able to fix it again.
/r/seduction29/06/18 11:06 AM
2

3 months ish. I've hit it pretty hard at times. It just leads to absolutely nowhere.
/r/seduction28/06/18 07:23 PM
1

No it's to show that younger men acknowledge that its fine for older men to hit on/date younger women.
/r/seduction11/06/18 11:00 AM
4

Online dating is a sausage farm. Women can pretty much choose the best sausage available; this includes even women who aren't attractive (literally have like 100s of matches). As I don't like competing when I don't have a winning chance so therefore I do not online date. Online dating is also one of the reasons which affected my confidence for a while. Definitely not something I would recommend.
/r/seduction09/06/18 05:18 PM
4

At this moment in time I would appreciate any advice thank you. You are right in what you say - I haven't been logical for a while because I've not been great as I'm a bit lonely.
/r/seduction09/06/18 05:07 PM
2

I am approaching mostly during day-game. Night-game I've had better success.
/r/seduction09/06/18 05:04 PM
2

Sign Up to Grindr and fuck a few dudes NSA. That will really help you shift in to who you are.
/r/seduction09/06/18 12:41 PM
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Well you're not alone to be honest. I would say I'm a decent guy (moderately attractive) with okay personality. I have been approaching women so far hitting the count of 70 cold approaches, I've had two instant-dates & a few numbers. But nothing has happened so far. I am also quite lonely that's why I want a relationship. But my whole point is to not roll over and give up. I want you to go out there and try. IAMTheSmoothOpereator
/r/seduction09/06/18 12:39 PM
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Yes It's fine OP. I am 22. Completely normal thing to do. Don't let people tell you its creepy.
/r/seduction09/06/18 12:33 PM
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