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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Shit test: My girl is calling other guys “hot as fuck” while talking with me.Just ignore and continue the conversation or change topics. She is trying to get a reaction out of you. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Should/Would you go through an LTR's phone?I'd say just to make sure there's nothing disrespectful, I mean you can go off her actions but the phone really reveals stuff you may not expect | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on LTR meeting with another coworker? Should I react? Or am I being an Insecure bitch?Keep ear to the ground? Can you clarify, thanks. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend wants to hang out with ex boyfriend soon, should I be worried?-They use to obviously have a sexual relationship and she still finds him attractive HUGE RED FLAG. Abort the fucking mission. They used to have a sexual relationship and she finds him attractive?! Dude what other sign do you need? -She complains that she doesn't like texting him and he always messages her Bullshit. If she valued you, she would ignore any of his messages. -She will be hanging out with him soon for a final goodbye because he'll be moving out of the United States. Yeah goodbye sex… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend wants to hang out with ex boyfriend soon, should I be worried?They're going to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Tips on Soft Nexting? Need clarity.Just wanted to say thanks for the solid advice, really needed it for clarity! I'll stick to this. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Tips on Soft Nexting? Need clarity.She has no clue | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Tips on Soft Nexting? Need clarity.On your second point, if this is a serious relationship, just sit her down and calmly explain why what she did was disrespectful. This is a serious relationship, so I'm wondering how long is a good time for no contact before I sit her down and calmly explain. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 08:16 AM |
| 1 | LTR asking me what she should wear on vacation, how to proceed without mateguarding?This is with family. Okay I won't overreact then. I feel like I lost frame because I replied by saying "smh" | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | LTR asking me what she should wear on vacation, how to proceed without mateguarding?I won't be going on this trip. She does have quite large tits, literally this is what she said "it's annoying trying to find a bathing suit because my waist shrunk but my top is still the same size, the ones I want are showing waaaaaay to much cleavage so idk (with laughing emoji here" I don't know if I'm overthinking this but what's the best course of action if she's in extremely revealing bikinis while on vacation? | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 11:07 PM |
| 1 | OneitisKeep dating her, hang out, have fun and hook up. Girls are attracted to guys whose intentions are unclear. Eventually she will be up the relationship talk (or not). Still learning here, but does this apply if you're already in an LTR? I'm currently in an LTR and I've been leading and she is well aware of my intentions to be with her long-term. I'm not sure how I can lead and keep my intentions unclear if she's already in an LTR with me. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 10:24 AM |
| 1 | I know this is a small thing but i notice i do it a lot and i could use some adviceKudos for realizing that. You got this. Text for a meetup and see where it goes. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 05:18 AM |
| 1 | I know this is a small thing but i notice i do it a lot and i could use some adviceMessage her to meet up. How many fucking streaks is this bitch having with 50 other guys? She does not want streaks, she wants a guy who will meet up with her. None of this snapchat business. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Who are your role models and what did you learned from them?Jesus Christ. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Should there be some jealousy shown in an LTR?AWALT. She knows the boundaries of what is disrespectful and what isn't. I plan on having my fun while on vacation as well. So if I sense anything off after vacation she'll get demoted. Just wondering if I should have shown ANY concern since she's LTR? | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Physique not improving at all. What the hell am I doing wrong?Progressive Overload. You're not lifting heavy enough. Read the fitness subreddit sidebar. And do some fucking compound lifts. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Please helpYou need to learn how to not give a fuck. Anxiety comes from worrying too much, perhaps worrying what other people think. There's a subreddit for not giving a fuck, or even read the book The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. Start lifting, start acting confident (fake it till you make it) I lift consistently and I know others here can attest to this: If you're jacked you can say outlandish / crazy shit and you won't be judged and who cares because you can say shit without giving a fuck. It comes … | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Relationship stages?If this in regards to Stages of an LTR it's in the sidebar. If not, please post it once you find it. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 06:58 AM |
| 1 | "Betas guard, Alpha's disregard" LTR going on vacation, need adviceI would find that disrespectful, am I tripping too hard? Serious question would you or anyone in this thread care if girls danced with guys? I guess I'm overreacting here, the main concern for this post was to determine how to set boundaries or rules without looking beta. I guess I'll just tell her to have fun and not care whatsoever. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 09:24 PM |
| 1 | "Betas guard, Alpha's disregard" LTR going on vacation, need adviceI see where you're coming from, I smashed plenty previously, but I decided to take my Christian faith seriously and commit to one. Yes I know this is against what most on here believe but with a Christian girl they are waiting until marriage. Especially in her culture. She was not born in North America. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 07:32 PM |
| 1 | "Betas guard, Alpha's disregard" LTR going on vacation, need adviceNot sure what the joke is, she's a Christian, there is no chance she's sleeping with someone. I'm more concerned with if she dances with a guy to be honest. There are plenty of virgins within the Christian community. I'm not sure how this is a hard concept to grasp. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 07:31 PM |
| 9 | When is it alright to call your ex?I she had a 5 year old boy I decided not to raise Red Flag. I know I made the right choice; Then stick to your guns. I dont want to get back together with her Great. No need for contact whatsoever. but I miss dancing and hanging out with her. She was an LTR, understandable. She's the only really intelligent girl I've ever met that had alot of the same interests as me. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Use this time alone to improve yourself. Keep yourself busy. You will find someone better at the right time. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 08:50 AM |
| 6 | Keep getting called weird when flirting?Who gives a fuck what your ex thinks. Continue to lift and better yourself, own the situation and continue to improve yourself. In terms of being called "weird" for flirting, what the hell are you saying to girls? Keep it cool, calm, collected. Work on yourself until you're the prize, you won't need to flirt too much to get what you want. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Unicorn checklistSearch green flags on this subreddit. Sorry I can't provide the link using my mobile phone. It's a solid list. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 11:23 PM |
| 1 | How to handle this Shit Test?She is a virgin, we've done other stuff but she is waiting until marriage. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 04:08 AM |
| 1 | How to handle this Shit Test?Well yeah there's definitely some insecurity there. I'm just not sure what's my best course of action moving forward now. Any advice is appreciated | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 03:33 AM |
| 1 | How to handle this Shit Test?That's true, so now that this vacation is set in stone, what's my best course of action? Should I distance myself, any tips etc? These comments have me trippin'. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 03:32 AM |
| 1 | How to handle this Shit Test?Thanks for the feedback, what's the best course of action? This is happening in January so I'm not sure how to act until then. Especially since she's a potential LTR. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 03:23 AM |
| 1 | How to handle this Shit Test?I basically didn't want to seem insecure or protective by recommending something shitty or boring. Maybe this backfired but I wanted to make it look like I don't give a fuck. Clearly I do, since I am considering her as a potential LTR. Anyways I'll just have to deal with whatever the consequence is. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Girl responded 2 days later and idk if I want to replyIgnore her reply to your text and keep it logistical. Tell her to meet you Sunday at (whatever time YOU decide). That's it. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 06:22 PM |
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