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My former friend never had a problem meeting women and quality women at that. I'm not sure how he let himself get stuck with this situation. Damn right. They get away with a lot.
/r/MGTOW24/05/17 08:10 PM
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That wasn't even close to the whole story. That wasn't even an executive summary. It's a "how do I tell someone my former best friend fucked up his life in this really really stupid way in less than 300 words." The details of which would make anyone facepalm themselves out of existence. My former friend doesn't have any friends from the old crew save one, the only single one in the whole bunch. The "lady" if you can call her that found someone else immediately after their relationship dissolves.…
/r/MGTOW24/05/17 03:35 PM
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He got divorced and they met. She was attractive (competitive figure and fitness model) and he was starting body building. I'm. It sure why he thought this was a good idea. The only thing I could think of was that she must be great in bed bc it was a bad deal from the get go. Her brood ranged from 18 years old all the way down to 6 months. Bad deal all around. They get together despite protests from all the friends. 6 months later, after she's moved all of them into his house, it started. She wa…
/r/MGTOW24/05/17 11:48 AM
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Friend of mine married someone like this. 6 kids. 4 dads. None of them his. It didn't end well.
/r/MGTOW23/05/17 11:49 PM
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This is sounding much like my soon to be ex-wife.
/r/MGTOW09/03/17 02:35 AM
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I am shocked. Shocked I say!
/r/PussyPass09/04/16 06:48 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PussyPass27/02/16 02:56 AM
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If you're wealthy it tends to go one way. Poor tends to go another. It's bullshit.
/r/PussyPass27/02/16 02:15 AM
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I remember this case. It was 60 days for killing someone and people down the hall got years for petty crimes.
/r/PussyPass26/02/16 11:50 PM
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He's dressed way too well to be dealing with that shit.
/r/MGTOW30/01/16 01:42 AM
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"You're not allowed to think of other women while I'm fucking you!" and then you give her everything you've got.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/15 07:51 PM
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Of course it does...
/r/seduction09/09/14 04:13 PM
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In sales this is known as an Either/Or close. You present 2 positive options and people are most likely to pick one offered. If you ask a Yes/No the easiest response is no so that's what you're more likely to get. If you ask an open ended question then you've ceded all control over the subject matter to the person you're asking and are less likely to get a positive response. You are more likely to get a negative response or none at all.
/r/seduction09/09/14 04:03 AM
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As someone who used to work with young people this pisses me off. The blanket assumption that the male wanted sex thus he is responsible regardless of age or circumstance. Maybe he did. Maybe he didn't. But societally he must have wanted it or he is a fag. If the roles are reversed and it's a young female the assumption is that the male coerced or forced the sex. Maybe he did. Maybe he didn't. There is rarely a question of whether or not the female wanted or initiated the sexual relationship and…
/r/MensRights06/09/14 02:40 AM
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Recently experienced this for myself. Out with the boys and winged for a friend. I made it known very quickly that I was married by dropping the "my wife" into the conversations early. It made me more approachable in several ways. First, they assumed I wasn't looking to hook up (I wasn't) and became very open. Essentially I made it obvious I wasn't interested in fucking them so they were very open, flirty and talkative with me. Secondly, there was that bit of natural competitiveness where they a…
/r/seduction31/08/14 03:01 AM
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There are some very good lawyers out there but, unless you've got $$$ they can't help you. It's pretty sad.
/r/MensRights20/08/14 03:06 PM
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Not Edmonton, just south of Calgary. I'll still pass it on. Thanks.
/r/MensRights12/08/14 12:59 AM
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I forgot to mention, thanks for the tip about Student Legal services. I've passed that along.
/r/MensRights11/08/14 09:37 PM
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He's working on getting something from legal aid. They haven't been the most helpful. He talked to some who appeared to have no idea what they were doing (noobs I assume). He's working on talking to different parties like crazy seeing who can help him out. He definitely needs to have his support adjusted. What was presented as his estimated income from last year was far about what he actually earned. His ex's lawyer used one month where he was up north but he is only a first year and was working…
/r/MensRights11/08/14 09:18 PM
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Hmmmmm. That could work. I'd need to look into it and see if or how the MEP could access it.
/r/MensRights27/07/14 11:06 PM
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Courts dispense law, not justice.
/r/MensRights27/07/14 06:04 AM
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It's not even about feeding the kids. He can barely afford to feed himself. His wife is doing fantastically well, legally bludgeoning him whenever she can and rubbing his face in it. I think pleading no contest would find him in the can. It would be an interesting but largely ignored political statement. Sigh.
/r/MensRights27/07/14 06:02 AM
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The Maintenance Enforecemnet Programs has many tools at their disposal. The primary is garnished wages. If someone does not pay, regardless of reason, they move to harsher methods. One of the more common is the indefinite suspension of the driver's license until payment is made or other terms are come to. I have heard of them seizing assets and other things. I can see a time and place for some of these but having someone who is jobless, looking for work and receiving unemployment insurance payme…
/r/MensRights27/07/14 05:57 AM
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I'd need to see if he'd be okay with that. He, like all of us, is a proud guy. One thing that would concern me is the MEP would prob view it as income and move to seize immediately.
/r/MensRights27/07/14 02:34 AM
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That's an interesting idea.
/r/MensRights27/07/14 01:37 AM
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The divorce is finalized. It took a toll on his credit rating due to needing to live on credit heavily with his reduced income. His kids are teenagers. He has a great relationship with them. That's one thing his wife hasn't messed with, probably bc the kids would revolt and she also wants to make sure the kids are out of the house so she and her new man have time together. Why get a baby sitter when you have dad who wants to see them and they want to see him. It's the shitty yet convenient part …
/r/MensRights27/07/14 01:36 AM
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That wouldn't do anything for him at all. Ideally he should be receiving palimony as his wife was working while he was in school so it would offset things. But he needs a lawyer. The hard part is he can't afford one and he's up against a family of means with good lawyers and the cards are stacked against him more so than normal. They don't even care if he has a place to live or food to eat. I find it so obscene, perverse and unfair. I hope when he gets working again he can get afford a lawyer an…
/r/MensRights27/07/14 12:24 AM
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Your friend NEEDS A LAWYER. Don't just assume he can't afford one and do nothing, most will at least give a free consult. No shit. He has had free consults. From there they want at least $1500 as a retainer plus all additional fees for time and expenses. They have told him his retainer will get him a few days of efforts. Dude is living out of a dufflebag on my couch with no earnings (he's on unemployment right now after being laid off) and the Maintenance Enforcement Program has indicated that t…
/r/MensRights26/07/14 10:15 PM
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I have giggled. Sadly, it's MEP he really has to deal with first at this point.
/r/MensRights26/07/14 10:10 PM
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I agree but getting the money for legal help or getting the money to live and eat is literally where he is at. The whole thing is crazy. He's getting sooooooooo fucked. What ever money he has MEP is going to take. Plus they're going to make it harder for him to get a job bc they're taking his license in 30 days.
/r/MensRights26/07/14 09:40 PM
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That would be ideal but his ex drained the bank account. The divorce took whatever else he had. Now he's been laid off. MEP is going to be taking HALF of his EI. (Still astounds me) Lawyers cost money. Most wouldn't move without a $1500 retainer which won't get them far at all. If I won the lottery it's one of the first things I would do but I am not a person of means. I can offer a roof to sleep under and buy some extra groceries but that's it at the moment.
/r/MensRights26/07/14 09:38 PM
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Had to add my PSA in there juuuuuust in case.
/r/MensRights05/09/13 03:16 PM
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As an active martial artist who is trains with blades a lot, bladed weapons regardless of size, don't get the respect they deserve, I would advise against letting someone cut you at all costs. If they have a blade, GTFO. If you can't GTFO, defend yourself to the best of your ability (you still run a very high risk of getting cut regardless of training).
/r/MensRights04/09/13 06:43 PM
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I love my sweater and so does my wife. My back and shoulder hair is another issue though.
/r/MensRights30/04/13 07:40 PM
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Fear is usually from not knowing. Men are labelled as threats before they are given a chance. It's good to see you helped the guy out. I should note, I used to prefer being massaged by female MT's but all my best massages have come from guys. I needed to overcome my own, initial discomfort. OP is awesome. Edit: I should note that my discomfort/fear came from not wanting my young male self to be naked in front of another guy. My preferred female MT was out sick one day and the only one available …
/r/MensRights05/04/13 06:26 PM
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I kept reading thinking "this has to be a parody" "where's the punchline?" "this can't be serious" HOLY. FUCKING. SHIT. This is published material.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 11:59 PM
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With my martial arts experience I get this from a great deal of my friends. "you should be able to take care of that no problem." It doesn't work that way and thanks for offering up my ass to the fire. Just because I "may" be able to handle it better doesn't mean I need the risk and it's always risky.
/r/MensRights14/03/13 12:08 AM
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There are different motivations for violence. Some people are violent for dominance and other are violent for monetary gain. The lead up to these can be very different. As a man, when I go out somewhere, I carry myself with confidence and visually observe anything for good and bad. I know that there is a possibility of being mugged. I know that there is a possibility of attack. Statistically they are far smaller than I imagine. If I am out at a bar, there can be people who are into stirring shit…
/r/MensRights14/03/13 12:02 AM
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I think it's a great part of it. Look at the positive impacts boxing gyms and sports clubs have on gang violence, etc. in urban areas. Gets kids off the street, teach skills, give them goals and positive role models, introspection, etc. It's all very valuable. Beyond just that, I think that confidence comes from doing something and gaining some sort of proficiency. People, especially young boys, need something of value to prove that they have worth. People that pick fights and harass tend to hav…
/r/MensRights12/03/13 01:27 AM
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I had an father that was on occaision physically abusive (7-10 incidents I think). I was also a geek/nerd in school so I was frequently bullied until I was told I had to stand up for myself and realized I could handle myself in a physical altercation. Most incidences I was smaller and/or outnumbered. Psychological bullying was far more common but you asked about beatings. Later on I found martial arts and actually grew into a fairly big dude and instances of bullying became less frequent and all…
/r/MensRights11/03/13 11:50 PM
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Not being a US citizen I cannot sign this but fully support the effort.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 05:11 AM
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Thanks
/r/MensRights05/03/13 04:12 PM
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If someone is into pegging that's cool But pegging your way free of sexism? Is stupid. People have different needs and desires sexually and this new cure all is more than a little myopic.
/r/MensRights02/03/13 06:27 PM
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I think I used to work with one of the women in the article, not gonna bother saying who, but the name and institution are eerily too close. As I remember she was a decent co-worker, definitely had a chip on her shoulder about men, and had some hilariously bad ideas about human nature combined with jumping to conclusions of this sort. I really wonder if its the same lady. I'd this was a recent event shed definitely be an Harvard alumnus so it makes me wonder about her motivation for being on cam…
/r/MensRights02/03/13 04:26 PM
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I meant OP should create a throwaway email and if he's a manager at the company to send it to himself and all the other managers to avoid suspicion. If all managers get it but OP, then they immediately look OP's way.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 11:07 PM
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But it's still an ineffective strategy. It's like having someone make you angry and then you flip them off. It's proximately awesome and fulfilling but ultimately does nothing. Why not do something that is more effective and awesome?
/r/MensRights27/02/13 09:25 PM
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I know. I saw. Have another upvote.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 09:22 PM
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I think most people read your post incorrectly. Have an upvote.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 07:24 PM
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Then they can terminate your for vandalizing property. This is a losing strategy.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 07:22 PM
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Give us feedback on what he says.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 07:21 PM
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As an egalitarian my position is that you either need to make it okay for all or not okay for all. No BS exemptions. We become equal by leveling all playing fields not overly adjusting to one side or another. This throws it in their lap, all of their laps, and forces them do all discuss and deal with it. There can`t be any blow back on the anonymous emailer though they will probably try to figure out who sent it. If it gets emailed out, I would send it on a Tuesday/Wednesday (Mondays are bad for…
/r/MensRights27/02/13 07:20 PM
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This is inappropriate for the workplace and especially from HR. To prevent blow back I would send an anonymous email from a throwaway to ALL of the management from the company and HR stating something to the effect of: "As an employee of X, a great, equal opportunity workplace, I find it disturbing that the HR office has posted a sexist message on the door. The sign reads "The man who said it can't be done shouldn't interrupt the woman doing it." This denotes a gender bias within our organizatio…
/r/MensRights27/02/13 05:02 PM
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Can you find a source on that?
/r/MensRights27/02/13 08:12 AM
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Hopefully she mellows with age, it's a great flaw I have, I tend to be an optimist and see the good potential in people. On top of that people change over time. My relationship with my father when I was young not good. He was always traveling for work and when he was home he was an absentee and angry all the time. He was more interested in going out with his friends than doing family stuff. My parents divorce was one of the best things that happened to us. I got to have a better home environment…
/r/MensRights27/02/13 08:08 AM
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Sounds like dad is a pretty cool guy/well grounded dad. Hopefully you'll be able to have a good relationship with your mom someday. Edit: I should mention that the our grandmothers are extremely difficult ppl. Not of the same social view as your mom but I they are deeply flawed and angry women. Some f us have grown up without familial gender assumptions because of our relatives.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 07:56 AM
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It sounds like your relationship with your mom is very complex. How would you describe your relationship with your folks now? If its too personal I apologize.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 07:36 AM
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I don't think the light pap is even appropriate. Disagreements can and should be kept verbal and civil. The only time I strike my partner, or her me, is in the agreed upon fashion a la sexy time. In terms of being physical with children there are times when restraining is needed. I'm not a spanker, and am on the fence about it (not gonna delve in here). I do believe in labor based punishment over corporal. Re "leering," i detest them term.MPeople will look at people they are attracted to (its no…
/r/MensRights27/02/13 07:34 AM
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Hopefully you will never need to.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 07:18 AM
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The hitting part is pretty simple. You should only be allowed to strike in defense. Size/gender of the attacker shouldn't matter. My brother used the "I'm younger/smaller/less mature" schtick at home all the time. He instigated the vast majority of our childhood spats. He's just that type of guy. I could be studying and be punched in the back of he head. I'd be reading a book and a foreign object would fly at me from across the room. You get the picture. He's a habitual line stepper and still is…
/r/MensRights27/02/13 07:13 AM
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I don't just treat my wife like a princess on Valentine's day. She is the Queen of my Heart and I am the King of hers. I belong to her and she to me. We share and love each other every day. We also deplore hallmark holidays and the rampant consumerism that masquerades as love and affection. We are partners in love and life. If either one of us were to value the traditions of a calendar day over genuine daily affections, we would seriously worry about the future of our lives together.
/r/MensRights14/02/13 11:04 PM
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I need men`s rights because everyone should be equal under the law, have equal rights, equal responsibilities and equal obligations.
/r/MensRights14/02/13 07:45 PM
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She could be just done with you (a lot of relationships are short). It could be cat string theory example (what changed over those days? Did you start chasing her too hard). Perhaps you gave no reason to continue the relationship (you hooked up and that's all she thought it was and maybe she wanted something different/more than an FB). Maybe she met someone else. Or it could be a test (seeing if you'll chase her). Could be a lot of different things.
/r/seduction10/02/13 05:29 PM
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You've called the confidence part right. He doesn't have any left and is overcompensation through social aggression and anger. Shrink4men has been mentioned. Talking to a professional would be helpful. As a friend the best things you and other mutual friends can do is engage in activities that show him he has value, he's not a loser. Things to build self confidence. It can be like joining a club or a rec sports team, going paint balling, something where he must be in action and expend effort tha…
/r/MensRights07/02/13 07:45 PM
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Rape is bad. Wrongful accusations are also bad. What is important is that we need to preserve a process that protects all. This article was very well written.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 05:18 PM
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Don't worry. It gets better. There is a lot less bullshit when you graduate high school. There will still be a lot but there is less of it and it'll be easier to wade through to the good stuff.
/r/seduction16/01/13 10:48 PM
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This is why our young uns need encouragement. It makes me sad at all the missed opportunities.
/r/seduction16/01/13 04:22 PM
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It's amazing how, after high school, when you talked to girls you knew/were friends with, how many of them were interested in you. I facepalmed a lot between 19-25. Many of the girls I had no clue they liked me or thought they didn't like me at all. One girl I thought hated me. She teased me incessantly (I know now that this type of teasing was something different). We got to be friends later on. She got married. We were all out drinking one night, she was drunk and her husband was in the can. S…
/r/seduction15/01/13 08:55 PM
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In regards to your postscript, did you get laid when you got home or were you subjected to the wrath of Hedes or both?
/r/seduction12/07/12 03:05 PM
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If you tell her she may take it upon herself to deflower you and try to ruin you for other women (which won't happen but you'll appreciate the extra effort).
/r/seduction31/05/12 03:38 PM
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There is and should be less bullshit, from you and them. They are more Into knowing what they want and less likely to want full on games. you can get further by being more genuine, sincere and charming than trying a mind fuck (unless she's nuts).
/r/seduction12/01/12 03:32 AM
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Smokers too. If she smokes she pokes my friend Patty used to say. It's not a guarantee but if you're looking to up the chances watch for smokers. It's also useful in a good opener. Edit: It`s not a guarantee. mistyped it last time.
/r/seduction12/01/12 03:27 AM
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