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Rollo and the 21 Convention's time in this community is up. Postmodern masculinity serves as a blanket statement to distort the truth and shape herd behavior as society deems fit. At the same time, since as GLO pointed out that postmodern masculinity, much like modern art, is relative in its interpretation, there will always be people who will attempt to lead you astray, both intentionally and by those who are just too retarded to understand. This is precisely what the 21 Convention is. Anyone w…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 01:57 PM
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When I say that an individual's identity cannot be tied to the collective I mean that an individual cannot take on morals and beliefs that the gynocentric collectivist system reinforces and simultaneously claim to have an individual identity reflecting the views the system glorifies. To give an example of this, let's look at liberalism. One of the glaring problems with liberalism (which is heavily collectivist) is that liberalism demands that an individual strips their individuality in favor of …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 09:23 PM
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You're an angry Chinese grandma, I get it. The truth is, the majority of people in this world are destined to be Asian grandmas making sparkly dildos. Individualism is scary. Collectivism is safe. If it's not for you then don't force it. Honestly.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 08:46 PM
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You keep missing the point. You view being Blue Pilled only as someone who expects the system to reward them for collectivist, submissive behavior. You believe that the "truth" of the Red Pill is that you need to work harder than everyone else and continuously self improve to achieve success in a flawed system. In a lot of ways, you're more of a sheep than the Blue Pilled losers you look down upon. Even though you naively believe you possess the "truth" you need to succeed, you are still derivin…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 06:15 PM
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Julius Evola's concept of "Riding the Tiger" is not about going with the flow as a "value upright citizen", as you call it. Riding the Tiger is about retaining Traditionalism and anchoring oneself in the transcendent plane in a modern world where the Traditional man has no place. If you do not ride the tiger, you fall off and the tiger eats you. If you ride the tiger until the tiger becomes exhausted, you're able to kill the tiger, and both you and the values which you embody are once again able…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 03:54 AM
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I think watching yourself rail some girl is certainly better than watching another dude, but its still porn. I think its ok in moderation, or maybe if you watch it with her, but if you're jacking off to you fucking some girl is still gives you that dopamine rush regular porn does, which would most likely be accompanied by the same negative psychological benefits. If I were you, I'd stick to just fucking the plate. People watch porn when they don't have access to girls to fuck.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 05:05 PM
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Congratulations, you've explained what it means to have priorities in about a thousand more words than was necessary.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 04:36 AM
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Kegels. There's a couple of apps you can download to train the PC muscles, which allows you to hold back when you're about to nut and just increases your stamina in general. Also, just being in shape physically helps.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 02:55 PM
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Shit man you're totally right. Why am I even trying to be alpha when I'm afraid of planes. Even though 25% of Americans are afraid of flying I'm such a pussy and I'll never be Chad.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 04:18 AM
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No one said fear was rational. Some people are afraid of planes, some afraid of heights, some afraid of transvestite Easter Bunnies whipping out their cocks and fucking you in the ass. Its easy to say oh who would be afraid of this or that... but how easy would that be to say about your own fears. Everyone fears something, no matter how small, even if you try to deny it. Some people may handle their fears more effectively than others, but asking what kind of person fears flying is a childish rem…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 04:02 AM
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I used to be terrified of planes, to the point where I would freeze up on that little walkway from the gate to the plane and pretty much shit myself. I originally took Valium to get through it, which takes the edge off, and I wasn't retarded and only used it when flying. I never got hooked on it, but eventually I got sick of being a pussy, went to therapy, and now make it through flights without pills. Planes still suck, but if you let fear become your master then you are nothing more than a sla…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 06:57 AM
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I'm the same with my shit; close friends and I get the good shit, girls and randos get the Natty in my fridge. Natty's too cheap to pass up, seeing as most kids drink to get retarded and just yak it all up in the end anyways.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 10:11 PM
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I'm 19 and also in college so trust me I know the Natty Light lifestyle. Takes at least 4 before they stop tasting like piss... then its just straight water.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 09:57 PM
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A man cave with a wall full of that much Natty Light is an insult to man caves everywhere.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 09:53 PM
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Ignore, wait for her to re engage. Her failure to reschedule doesn't affect you, as you should have other options and be ready to replace her at any time. "We are getting more serious" is concerning. Unless you have intentions to LTR this girl, before which she must meet the rigorous criteria outlined in the sidebar, these thoughts have no place. Kids love to scream "ONEITIS" about everything on askTRP, but most of the time they're right. Remember that girls provide value to you, and a life with…
/r/askTRP11/03/18 05:12 PM
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NMMNG is pussy shit, a precursor for what is to come at best. Read it, think about it, but ultimately realize that the content of that book is what NORMAL men before you have been doing for thousands of years. Once you're comfortable acting in the ways outlined by the book, look further. The rabbit hole is endless, and you're just getting started. Good luck on your journey brother.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 05:06 PM
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Hey buddy return all of those chromosomes you stole, stealing is a big no no. Why the fuck are you asking for help for some bitch that isn't you about her reproductive health on a forum dedicated to handling issues pertaining to MEN with a title that almost made me shit myself laughing. Tell the bitch to go see a gynecologist and stop polluting this community with cancer.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 11:03 PM
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Friends are people that enhance your life that you share a bond with, not pawns you use to elevate your status in the eyes of others. I wouldn't want to be friends with anyone I saw as drastically lower than me, because frankly, I would resent them and feel pity.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 04:43 PM
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This. If your girl isn't feeling like this after you continuously employ dread you aren't doing it right. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 04:37 PM
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Simple. Dark triads don't give a fuck about how they accomplish their ambitions, they only care about the end result. When you adopt a mindset of "the ends justify the means" and people realize you'll trample on them without a second thought, people tend to get out of the way for you.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 02:53 AM
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Your dad sounds like a little bitch. Put yourself first, always. The person you're describing is not a father, its a petulant little girl.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 02:51 AM
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NO! You're rationalizing taking her out (provider) because you think its an inconvenience for her to come and see you. Fucking wrong. That girl should be lucky she even gets to see you, because you're the fucking prize. Tell her to come over. Smash. Tell her you have shit to do so she should bounce. Then repeat. You're making shit too hard.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 02:50 AM
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I usually start with twinkle twinkle little star, then mary had a little lamb, and usually nut right before the end of happy and you know it clap your hands. What do you expect people to respond with? A perfect playlist that will instantly make girls drop their panties in front of you? Just put on whatever the fuck you want and fuck. I fuck girls to make them scream and worship my dick, not so i can worry about if they're enjoying the background music.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 11:04 PM
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You're seeking validation from others about your own beliefs, and desire to push your beliefs onto others. That's never a healthy or productive mindset to be in. I don't give a single fuck about any anyone's opinion about me. Grandma thinks I need to get another girlfriend. I shit myself laughing. Shaniqua the feminist with green hair and a nose ring starts talking about my white privilege. I smirk and agree with her. I don't care about other people, their thoughts, or their perception of me, an…
/r/askTRP23/02/18 05:05 AM
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I like the plan. You have to be immoral to thrive in the world we live in. Don't listen to the people telling you your plan is despicable and that you're being a little bitch. Both of you aren't ready for a kid, and it will most definitely ruin your life. The ends justify the means.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 06:09 PM
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And where are these "Amazonian warrior women" today? They went extinct, just like the dinosaurs. A society that embraces feminist values or that is run by women is due to collapse. Women need men to survive. You'll get about one generation of little to no shit being accomplished before they all die without offspring, as there is no men. I really don't know how you developed the sentiment that "women aren't capable of being housewives". Women are more empathetic and nurturing than men, and are th…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 05:40 PM
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Why the fuck do you care? I don't comfort my trash as it is being loaded into the garbage truck, and neither should you.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 07:00 PM
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My deepest periods of introspection have occurred while listening to this song.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 06:39 PM
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This. I have never and will never reconnect with an ex. As you said, an ex is an ex for a reason; there is no reason to ever waste time on a piece of trash that has been discarded from your life long ago. Lots of TRP posts view turning your ex into a plate favorably. I forget where, but one post even encouraged people to turn their ex into their "first plate". I strongly oppose such practices. Exes don't deserve to be in your life. Allowing them to come crawling back will only spell trouble.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 06:38 AM
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I don't give half a shit about anyone else or their problems. I see the world through my own eyes, not through the perspective of anyone else. The only interpretation of life and everyday events that truly matters is my own, and while I may explore and gain insight from the beliefs of others, at the end of the day my identity is cultivated by me alone. I will never "turn the other cheek" or "put myself in someone else's shoes". I don't have time for such nonsense. I am me, nothing more, nothing …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 06:18 AM
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Curiosity got the best of me
/r/askTRP25/01/18 05:35 PM
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What the fuck did I just read?
/r/askTRP25/01/18 07:03 AM
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I know how you feel mate; my ex creeps up in my thoughts more than I would care for as well. I find that as long as I'm living in the present and engaged in something, my mind doesn't wander. I only think of her when I am reminded of the past, and the past is behind all of us, your time isn't worth thinking about things you cannot change. I also have a note saved on my phone of the reasons why I am no longer in a relationship with said ex and a list of accomplishments and achievements I've had s…
/r/askTRP25/01/18 06:48 AM
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Of course you're happy without the authentic discourse, every discussion between a truly RedPilled individual and a BluePilled individual is a threat to your belief system. Your tactic of suppressing the RedPill viewpoint is hardly surprising, given the notoriety of the left for pushing their own agenda while denying any opposition an equal chance to provide a rebuttal, which can clearly be seen at the moment across college campuses where many right wing/ individuals who embody various RedPill b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 10:51 PM
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I enjoyed your field report. I think you could have gone a bit further into your "Lessons Learned" section, but overall I enjoyed an example of a successful meet and fuck as well as the chance to analyze your technique through my own eyes. If nothing else, this post serves as a motivation to others that Redpill ideology can be used to effectively game and fuck women.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 04:04 AM
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Nah dude just show her your blue eyes white dragon. Insta panty dropper.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 03:19 PM
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I merely offered an example of probably the most prominent case in which appeasement failed. Claiming that I share Nazi views on LGBTQ individuals and trans people is a very unfounded and misguided statement. I believe that both LGBTQ and trans people can do whatever the fuck they want; I only object if their agenda interferes with my ability to exist as a straight male. You sound like a feminist calling me a Nazi buddy boy.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 03:18 PM
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Why the fuck do you need to read parenting books? Is learning how to change your girl's diaper or how to effectively give her a time out when she throws a tantrum really essential to a sustainable relationship? In my personal opinion, you shouldn't be in a relationship unless as Vandaalen said you've been spinning multiple plates for several years, and parenting books most certainly do not hold the keys to a solid relationship.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 04:32 AM
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The biggest obstacle to getting laid at a party in college are a girl's friends. Like you mentioned, it is very easy to escalate to making out/grinding with a girl, but the biggest problem for me is a girl's friends pulling her away from you. Two solutions I think are viable are either 1. Being on top of your logistics to a T and leaving the party to a more personal venue fairly quickly or 2. (requires more work) Build enough comfort with the girl and her friends either through engaging them in …
/r/askTRP15/01/18 04:28 AM
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Can confirm this shit works.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 04:25 AM
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I think my wording was somewhat vague. I meant the whole WW2 anaology as an example that appeasement doesn't work, not that there is a correlation between countries that entered WW2 and the prevalence of feminism within those countries. I was trying to convey that many western countries like the US, the UK, and very liberal places like Sweden are sitting with their dicks in their hands currently, and in some cases, even contributing to the spread of feminist ideals, while countries who do not em…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/18 02:54 AM
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There are no chicks with dicks, only guys with tits has a better ring to it ;)
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 08:01 PM
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I think lots of countries sat with their dicks in their hands. The United States, Canada, all of Western Europe, even places like Australia and, as it embraces an increasing amount of western values, China. The countries that aren't afflicted by feminism today are not the ones who stepped in, but rather the ones who largely have rejected many Western ideals and cultural values and already had institutions to combat feminist ideals. Places like Eastern Europe (Russia especially) will just send in…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 04:29 PM
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Exactly. Feminism is an example of a complete regression of logic and intellectual thought, which equates them to the mental level of a toddler, and rendering them useless to society. Toddlers cry, whine, manipulate, and wear down a parent to attempt to get what they want. I agree, this specific example is more of an extreme for the present time. However, as you noted, the fact that an article from a major news source which millions view would even take the time to write such an article hints at…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 04:22 PM
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You raise a very interesting point. However, even if trans people can transform themselves into something they're not and should not be both physically and chemically, they still retain the consciousness and behavior of the entity they chose to change from. Trans people can do whatever they want, and I believe they should have the right to mutilate themselves however they deem fit. However, when their choice interferes with my ability to live my life I have a problem, which is the bottom line. I…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 04:16 PM
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Of course they have to use gay men to advance their agenda. As a collective group, they are incapable of accomplishing anything besides playing the victim and creating issues where they don't exist.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 06:11 AM
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What a fucking disgrace. If anything transgender individuals should be required by law to disclose the fact that they are transgender. I would be horrified to find out that a woman I had fucked wasn't a woman at all. The notion that my refusal as a straight dude to date a transgender "woman" can be considered discriminatory is ludicrous. It is exceedingly sad and worrisome to see how far feminist propaganda and leftist ideals can be pushed onto our society. It started with the whole LGBTQ rights…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 10:17 PM
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This guy knows whats up. My previous ex was exactly like both OP and CutLiver have described. They truly are damaged goods, they will most certainly flirt openly in front of you, and will be the first to play the victim and blame you. Just walk away now, life is so much better without broken people like this. If you want more details, look back at my post history, and you will realize what happens when you stick with crazy.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 07:06 AM
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Your words of wisdom could not have come at a better time. I thoroughly enjoyed your post, you should continue offering your insight to this community. Thank you for the reminder, and best of luck on your journey brother.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 05:09 AM
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Half Asians are my type too. Good taste brother.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 02:40 AM
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The same reason the girl is now an "Ex". You had your turn, she left you or you ended it for whatever reason, and now all you should do is go no contact and move on. I don't go through my trash after it is by the curb, do you?
/r/askTRP11/12/17 10:43 PM
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Lol go back to MGTOW or whatever fairy tale world you came from. Taking the RedPill has and will always be the best decision of my life. I've come farther and reached greater heights than I ever thought possible and I'm just getting started. I genuinely feel bad for you because it is apparent you were unable to internalize the RedPill and choose to accept the fake world we all live in. When Neo takes the RedPill, when we all take the RedPill, there is no going back. Once you see the truth, you c…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:06 AM
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Approaching younger girls is only weird if you make it weird. It is only natural to desire younger girls; they're more sexually desirable, haven't hit the wall yet, and in most cases are far more promiscuous than many post wall women. The reason you believe this is somehow inappropriate is because our feminist society of post wall women can't stand to see you, who is supposed to be their BB, having fun and enjoying younger women. The RedPill in itself goes against society. You've already come th…
/r/askTRP03/12/17 11:42 PM
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Quizlet is also a fun way to test yourself and improve. I used it almost every day when I took Chinese in high school, and as a non native speaker it was exceedingly helpful in learning vocabulary. There are a myriad of different games, including a Flashcard game to learn shit, a game that auto generates a test for you, a matching game which is my personal favorite, and a few more. There was a plethora of quizlets made for Chinese, so I can't even imagine how many there must be for Spanish. Best…
/r/askTRP03/12/17 11:36 PM
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I enjoyed the takeaway from this post and have recently been trying to gain more control over my thoughts and subconscious. On a side note, did anyone read this post in a Borat voice? Every time I saw "the Jew" I thought of the movie and couldn't help myself.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 10:53 PM
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If you like it and do it because you enjoy it and aren't simply putting out to try to please a girl then I say go for it. I too fall in the category of liking eating pussy because it makes me feel in control, girls fucking beg for it, and I'm pretty damn good at it. At the end of the day, you choose what you do. However, I only eat out girls that I know are clean (test) or that promise me to practice safe sex with other partners (which even then leaves some uncertainty). I like eating pussy, but…
/r/askTRP01/12/17 04:40 AM
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You're good mate. He's probably all talk but if he does show up your 9mm will easily be enough of a deterrent to scare him away. Worst comes to worst, you get some free target practice ;).
/r/askTRP01/12/17 01:50 AM
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I've heard several people talk about CBT therapy and it seems to be the way to go. I am certainly a lot farther back from where you are now, but your story gives me hope that I can eventually mitigate the effect of these feelings on my life. My previous psychologist didn't really help with these kind of thoughts; he told me that they were problematic (which I could already tell) and attempted to guide me onto a better path but nothing really stuck with me as I am realizing. Once again, I appreci…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 09:03 PM
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I've been to therapy in the past, been on SSRI's for depression until I quit them cold turkey about a few months ago. I realize I do have self worth issues and probably just some general anxiety, I just wanted to see if anyone else had any insight, as I feel that my current efforts to combat these feelings have not been as effective as I had hoped. You are completely right in saying that I can break down any situation and eventually get to a negative thought about myself. Like you said, what els…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 07:37 PM
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Thanks for the suggestion, I'll start reading today and report back soon.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 07:28 PM
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Thank for the advice that's definitely a mentality I'm trying to adopt.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 07:27 PM
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I've struggled with this for a while now, and despite my best efforts to change my mindset, I'm making minimal progress. Essentially, my question is how do you become non-outcome dependent? From an introspective standpoint, it seems like I go through life in a constant state of anxiety and worry about crossroads in the future (whether it be a test, getting good grades in college, meeting a deadline, accomplishing my goals) and my mood and overall emotional state is tied to the outcomes of stated…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 04:08 AM
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I dated a BPD girl for 6 months. While everything that happened in the relationship was my fault, I went into the relationship as a strong but blind boy and came out at rock bottom, depressed, hopeless, and broken. Personally, I would tell you to run away. Ghost. Hard next. You don't seem to want to do that, and as much as I fail to understand that sentiment, my only piece of advice is to be self aware. I would hate to see another man be harmed by a BPD girl when it could have been prevented. Be…
/r/askTRP29/11/17 05:09 AM
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Learn but never forget. Best of luck on your journey brother.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 09:42 PM
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Simple. The sad truth is most people of what we like to call "society" are not ready and do not have the capacity to be truly unplugged. Almost everyone who finds the RedPill finds it at their time of greatest need, when they realize the game society forces them to play is fucked, when the blue pill doesn't work. In my case, I landed here after being what I believe at the time to be a perfect boyfriend and still watched my girlfriend abandon me and show no remorse. Not everyone is there yet. Not…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 03:24 PM
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"Think as you will but behave like others" I think I speak for most of us here when I say feminists are cancerous scum, but they only make it easier for men like us :).
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 04:26 AM
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If OP's girlfriend is a he I think he has even bigger things to worry about ;).
/r/askTRP26/11/17 08:58 PM
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2 years monk mode is not an awful thing. Think of how much you'll slay after two years of pure improvement.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 04:56 PM
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Beijing is mainstream China, when I visited all the women were all over the white guys for obvious reasons (financial security, ticket to US, yada yada), however they all looked awful. Best bet is to go after the younger girls (high school-early twenties) who want to explore and be a little rebellious ;). If you can, I think you would have better success if you moved to Shanghai. Shanghai is much more Western oriented as far as China goes, and they have xiao long bao, which are fucking delicious…
/r/askTRP26/11/17 04:55 PM
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Sounds like you've transformed yourself completely. Congratulations on the progress, and best of luck on your journey brother.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 08:29 PM
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Smile, laugh, and then go do whatever you were going to fucking do in the first place :). For example, I saw my ex in my college dining hall with her new boyfriend earlier this week. We made eye contact, I smiled, tried not to laugh about how pathetic she looked, watched her hamster spin for a second as she realized IDGAF, and then I walked down the stairs and got back to my shit. Don't think or expect to run into your ex, that just causes you to look for her and leads to needless anxiety. As lo…
/r/askTRP19/11/17 06:10 AM
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I even got a little bit wet while reading that.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:45 PM
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Beautifully put. Denying a girl the validation she so desperately seeks will make her resort to extreme measures. My own ex is no exception to this rule. After we broke up (post about this bitch) I went full no contact and haven't talked to her to this day. I've seen slutty Instagram photos (blocked now), photos on facebook with silly beta boys with the caption "love this tinder date", her little sister started flirting with me on Snapchat which I'm sure is just her trying to expose me or some s…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:42 PM
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You're only at the start of your journey brother. Follow the advice CeterusParibusOfc has laid out, and discover all that life has to offer. Good luck mate.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 12:42 AM
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So first you say OP is a sexual predator who can't read social cues and is going to end up in front of his school's sexual harassment board...but now you say OP is a fool for hard nexting a girl who according to you was a reasonably possible fuck down the road. Doesn't add up does it? You clearly have life figured out my friend. I'm sure you rake in pussy like its nothing.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 12:37 AM
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I don't understand how you translate "putting my arm around her" to groping, but you do you mate. This also happened in OP's dorm and not the library as you state. I guess I'm going to jail along with OP and every other member of this sub. We might as well just all turn ourselves in now ;)
/r/askTRP13/11/17 09:32 PM
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OP is not socially inept in any way, he just got rejected. You're making it seem like the girl's rejection of his advances makes him a creep and socially dysfunctional, when in reality rejection happens all the time, and is a natural and expected part of game. You clearly have a very warped view of game and interacting with females if you believe the only time it is appropriate to escalate is in very specific situations. I believe that you should be able to escalate whenever you would like to. O…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 09:12 PM
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You must be new here.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 08:31 PM
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Good job holding frame, both with the girl and when dealing with this autist. Personally, I don't think you did anything wrong in the situation, and commend you for holding frame, backing off after her hard rejection, and seeing her off. I wouldn't waste any more time with her or her cousin, and just move on to the next girl. Who gives a fuck how she saw the situation? You wanted to escalate with this girl, you went for it, you stopped after the first clear indicator of rejection, remained stoic…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 08:29 PM
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Wise words
/r/askTRP25/10/17 04:37 AM
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Hey mate I appreciate the reply. I totally relate to being overwhelmed going into college, college is definitely a big change and I'm still in the adjustment period. I will certainly only bite off as much as I can chew. I am fortunate enough to have a sizeable amount of AP credit to satisfy a lot of my Gen Ed requirements and lower level math and science classes. Prioritizing classes based on importance is also a great takeaway, I haven't been the best at doing this. As far as partying and my so…
/r/askTRP25/10/17 02:27 AM
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That's a very good point. I always have a mental schedule for the day but putting that into writing could definitely benefit me. I am also working on cutting out distractions such as YouTube and social media, but its a grind and I definitely need more discipline. Thank you for the insight regarding efficiency I'm sure improving in this area would definitely help me out. Good luck on your journey brother.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 02:19 AM
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Exactly my dilemma, the SSRIs help me in some ways but severely inhibit me in others, and I don't sit well knowing I'm reliant on drugs to be able to get by. I'll look into NDRIs...I'm aware of the differences between SSRIs and NDRIs but my psychiatrist was very weary of prescribing me one for whatever reason. Once again, I appreciate your insight. I also have no doubts that beginning to lift again and settling back into a structured routine will provide me with immense psychological benefits.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 02:16 AM
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I appreciate your support, and same for you mate, we're all here to help others fortify their walls.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 01:15 AM
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I appreciate the response. I never considered lifting in the morning that's definitely a viable solution that I'll have to implement. I am sure lifting would help me with my studies and anxiety in general, which is why I considered this such a problem. I already have seen a therapist/psychiatrist and currently am prescribed SSRI's, but stopped taking them recently because I don't like how they affect me (fucked sex drive, excessive sweating, brain fog, weird sporadic fatigue, hard to pee, ya da …
/r/askTRP25/10/17 01:10 AM
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I'm still trying to swallow this pill. My story is the same as yours, during my greatest time of need my ex-girlfriend abandoned me. I, like you, dumped her before she had the chance to dump me, devastated that the girl I loved and cared for so deeply when she was going through hell so easily disregarded me during my own crisis. Looking back, after having internalized many other TRP principles, I understand now that I should not have opened up to her or exposed my wall's vulnerability to her. To…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 12:06 AM
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Beat me to it. I've been down that road, and let me tell you, never again.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:54 PM
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What the fuck did I just read?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 08:25 PM
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Oh OP is going to get all the help he needs my friend ;).
/r/askTRP13/09/17 02:57 AM
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Did a double take at the title at first. You can't blame all your problems on masturbating. Sure, excessive masturbation and consumption of porn isn't healthy, and you might fall within that category, but there are lots of avenues to get to a place where you can get sex. If you devote your energy towards improving yourself to a point where you can have sex with others, not only will you feel less inclination to masturbate, but you'll also become a better person.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 10:46 PM
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I'm happy I can share my story and help others out, I wouldn't wish the shit I went through on anyone else. This shit won't ever happen again to any of us.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 03:25 PM
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I hope she is too brother. I mean for as much as a bitch that she is, she's the reason I swallowed the red pill, so not all is lost. I'm just grateful I didn't end up in a worse place and that I have another chance to take back my life.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 03:24 PM
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I was leaning towards BJJ slightly thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 03:18 AM
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I appreciate your insights man. Seeing people on this sub who are depressed like me but are still striving to improve and transform their lives gives me a lot of hope. I already see a therapist and a psychiatrist, and both have helped me immensely on my journey so far. You're right, the world doesn't give a shit about us. That might've hurt me the most when I swallowed the red pill. Knowing that society expected me to treat women like princesses and get nothing in return hurts... But such is lif…
/r/askTRP12/09/17 01:59 AM
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I love shit like this. I always imagine that when someone posts an article like this on here our community rallies behind each other and unleashes fury in the comment section. AUTOBOTS ROLL OUT
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 05:28 PM
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This is my story, in the form of a post I made on AskTRP a few days ago. Story: This is my first ever post here. I found TRP a few months ago and have been lurking ever since and helping others when I can, but finally feel the need to construct a post and seek advice for what I'm dealing with. I would greatly appreciate any advice any of you are willing to share. This community has given me a new outlook on life, and I am very grateful to be able to even post this and have members of the communi…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 04:59 PM
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To clarify, I read the content under the "New Here" and "References" sections as a refresher. I am still working on reading everything under the "Theory Reading" tab.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 05:18 PM
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I've been starting to follow the advice I received on this thread that I posted: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6ysasa/personal_rantseeking_advice_for_dealing_with_a/ This thread pertains to struggles I have been having with depression and a bad breakup with my LTR. In this thread, I was advised to re read the sidebar (which I have completed), lift (Already was lifting but solidified routine further) as well as to act as if my ex did not exist. Most of my work has been achieved in the …
/r/askTRP10/09/17 05:07 PM
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It's comforting to me to know that others out there are going through the same shit as me, but also very saddening, as I wouldn't wish how I currently feel on anyone. It sounds like you are on your way to recovery, and have your priorities in order. I know that if you keep battling and improving yourself you will come out far stronger than you have ever been before. Good luck in the future, and may the both of us seize the life we desire to live.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 11:58 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I definitely won't ever make the same mistakes, and will never let a girl, or anyone, drag me down so far again. I already lift and study hard, so I'll keep grinding. I realize that it could've been far worse, and I am thankful that I get a second chance to turn my life around. I already ghost my ex, and will continue to do so. There is a shit ton of hot girls at my college, so that's not a problem either. I've already plated a few girls and am fucking other people, my big…
/r/askTRP08/09/17 04:47 PM
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It's all good brother we learn from our mistakes, but preventing them before they happen is always ideal. You are already leaps and bound ahead of where I was in the same position. You have already found this sub, recognize this as a serious problem, and are taking steps to solve it. I was too stupid to see what was happening with my own LTR, and let things continue to the point of no return. You are doing exactly the right thing by emotionally distancing yourself. The less vulnerable you make y…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 04:30 PM
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Run away man. As people have already commented, you have lost her respect, and she will shit test you mercilessly. Before I found TRP, my LTR would do the exact same shit as your girlfriend. She would sit on guys' laps in front of me, hug them in the ways you described, painted on a guys back and touching him when he had his shirt off, dancing with other guys over me during our prom who didn't have dates because she "felt bad for them", and going drinking with 2 guys at 3am without telling me an…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 01:59 PM
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Thanks for the advice, I'm realizing more and more that monk mode is probably the way to go.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 01:48 PM
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To be honest, I'm not surprised. I can almost guarantee you the women who posted those comments are salty post wall women that are alone. It makes sense they have a problem with men getting vasectomies and chasing younger women, they realize that they themselves aren't attractive to men anymore, so any attempt by men to pursue younger women reduces the number of males their own age to choose from. This is pathetic, but hardly surprising.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 04:26 PM
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I needed this post. As someone who struggles with depression and is still in a recent break up, this shit hit me hard. When you said that dating was a bad idea and that you would do it because you were lonely that hit home for me. In my current state, I would honestly almost prefer cuddling and being able to be comforted by someone than have sex, which is fucked. Your words have motivated me to stay on track and keep battling. Thank you brother, your post has helped me, and I'm sure many others,…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 01:59 AM
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If you're opening sets for your friend and he's too much of a pussy to approach on his own you can't really do much more for him. You can't spoon feed people the red pill, as he watches you pick up and fuck girls he will come around. The fact that you are even questioning whether or not taking the chick was right is foolish. You gave your friend ample chances to approach the girl or any other girl, and when he finally did the girl clearly saw through his frame and was much more attracted to you.…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 01:19 AM
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I offer my condolences for your loss, and I want to let you know that I, along with everyone else in this community, is here for you during this difficult time brother. Your words are both insightful and thought provoking. It is my personal belief that the vast majority of posts on TRP pertain to self improvement and advancement, whether it be physically, in the sexual marketplace, economically, or in another area, and often times ignore what happens around us. Your post emphasizes the need to m…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 07:42 PM
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Might as well have a bit of fun with this, whether it be to test out a hypothesis or improve your own Game. Go up to an 18-22 year old, HB 7-9, preferably still in school (for added effect) and open with "Hey girl are you a school? Because I want to shoot kids inside you." Employ loose, open body language with a playful, amused tone.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 04:56 PM
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Your frame is the container. Strong, sturdy, unwavering. Water (women) flows in, water flows out, but when you put your lid down nothing gets out. Water can take many forms, many states, and has many properties. But for all of water's beauty and purported uniqueness, all forms of water can be contained. This raises the question: Is the water special? Or is the single container that has the potential to contain every different drop of water the true prize? Water is plentiful. But those who contro…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 12:26 AM
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I wouldn't describe my therapist as completely Redpill, but he did encourage me to become a better man and take some of the actions that led me to this sub reddit. I started seeing my therapist over this previous summer because my relationship with my now ex girlfriend was killing and me and led to the emergence of depression. My therapist didn't explicitly tell me my relationship (my inner Beta) was the source of my problems, but he encouraged me to work on myself and taught me how to love myse…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 04:13 AM
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Questions pertaining to personal advice should be posted to AskTRP. I wouldn't worry too much, you were at least conscious enough to realize your mistake. Best of luck on your journey brother.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 12:51 AM
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This agree and amplify analogy chain is a masterpiece.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 12:21 AM
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I'm going to be attending a very large, public university this fall. Part of our registration included completing a sexual harassment course (which if you want a laugh is a fucking joke, don't rape kids), but there was one thing within the course that concerned me. The course said that an intoxicated woman could not consent to sexual intercourse, but it failed to clarify the definition of an individual being intoxicated. Being a major party school, I feel that it is ludicrous to expect girls I b…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 12:16 AM
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There are some "rave spots" that let 17 year olds in where I live. If you really can't find a decent game area, perfect your party game, it will prove invaluable in college.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 12:05 AM
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I can totally relate to you, I felt that if I died without having sex my life would be incomplete in a way as well. To be honest, losing your virginity is nothing more than a slight confidence boost, similar to reaching a new personal best in the gym. Such an attitude of relentlessly trying to achieve a goal is totally fine, as long as the desire does not blind you or hurt you while you are trying to achieve the goal. As for your mentality about starting a family, I applaud you for wanting to st…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 12:03 AM
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I know this might be hard to hear but I was in your shoes and I think my story can help you. When I was 17 (a year ago) I too had worked on myself for a while, but was still a kiss less virgin. Fuck, I hadn't even held hands with a girl since kindergarten. So I said fuck it, my new goal is to lose my virginity as soon as possible. That was honestly one of the worst mistakes of my life. I settled on dating a girl that had massive, massive red flags. She was depressed, clingy, unbelievably needy, …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 06:45 PM
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Your posts have been high quality and I've learned a lot from them. I hope you continue to post as frequently as you have been recently, you have a very upbeat and immersive way of conveying your points which has really resonated with me. Keep up the good work!
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 01:58 AM
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I totally agree with you. Implementing NoFap without simultaneously approaching women is counterintuitive and a waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 09:13 PM
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I definitely think that not many people here have factored in the flat line many individuals partaking in NoFap experience. While abstaining from porn and masturbation in excessive amounts is useful in building self discipline and for driving self improvement, long term continuation of such a practice inevitably leads to the flat line, which is in my eyes a state of regression. During the flat line, people often lose all sense of motivation, become zombie-like, have no desire for self improvemen…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 08:27 PM
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