yeah, i really need motivation, inspiration, that can prove to me that Asperger's is not an excuse, is not something that will genetically prevent me from getting a girlfriend.
it's like as if most of us men are okay, comfortable, content, with wanting 50 percent of the women, but women seem to only want the top 10 percent of men
Why is it that girls can be boring and attract, get a boyfriend, but guys can't? why are girls hard-wired, instinctively programmed to be attracted to guys with confidence so much?
so why should I be happy, glad, feel lucky, fortunate to be born a guy? born male? why do people think we guys have dating and relationships easier when all the girl has to do is say Yes or No? a girl can have bad social-skills, conversation-skills, no confidence, be boring, bratty, immature, have no life, but as long as she is hot, average, decent looking, most guys will still accept her, since we guys have to approach and start the conversation, it is much easier to make a person unattractive …
So what are other factors, reasons, besides upbringing, that make a lot of guys "born with game" success with girls from an early age? like middle school or high school? like why do all of the jocks in high school get all of the girls? what do the girls find so extremely hot, attractive about them?
Vellyr says "Be glad that you're a guy. We can learn how to be attractive to women. If you were an ugly girl you would really have an inborn disadvantage." is that really true, accurate?
because many people argue, say, it's easier for us guys than for girls, well i like to disagree, i feel it's easier for a girl to get a boyfriend than for a guy to get a girlfriend since we guys have to do all the work to get one, and girls just have to welcome or deny advances, just say Yes or No.
okay i will also be honest, i should have added this, this also makes it very difficult for me, i have Asperger Syndrome, which is associated with Autism.
