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You banged in a movie theater restroom?
/r/askTRP13/01/18 12:44 AM
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What does BPD stand for again? Its not listed in the glossary.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 06:19 PM
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Idk my girlfriend got one once and she told me she was drinking cranberry juice for it. She also went to the doc too.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 01:00 AM
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UTI, isnt that what girls get lol Cranberry juice helps
/r/askTRP10/01/18 10:37 PM
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Short nigga but my dick tall -A$AP Ferg
/r/askTRP10/01/18 09:20 PM
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Answers to your questions: Gaining confidence and probably getting friends. She is always down on not having any friends, and it would be nice if she would have something to do so I could go out with my friends alone sometimes. I could help her with her confidence, but idk how im suppose to make friends for her. Ive introduced her to my friends who are girls and told her there her friends too, but she says no there your friends or gets mad cause she says they like me. Im down to help this girl, …
/r/askTRP09/01/18 11:37 PM
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Its not that shes fat, its a little budge, but its the fat that she has no confidence about herself.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 11:03 PM
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I didnt that once. I was out with my cousin who was in town for one night. Told her I would be back later, she called, I didn't answer. Blew my phone up all night, hit my roommates and other friends up. I just wanted to hangout with my cousin who I haven't seen in like 10 years.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 11:04 PM
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She has NO friends. She legit would like us to be together every night. If I say im tired on a Friday and I wanna stay home shell get upset that I dont want to see her. Im not worried about her leaving me, in all honesty I wouldn't be upset but I hate getting bitched at for wanting to chill at my house or with my friends.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 11:01 PM
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Lol I wish it was that simple. If I were to say "Going out with the boys tonight. hf" She would say, "Well what am I suppose to do? Sit at home and wait for you?"
/r/askTRP08/01/18 10:52 PM
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Any books you recommend?
/r/askTRP03/01/18 11:00 PM
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Thats tougher to do then to say lol.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 10:56 PM
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True, ive cut him off from most things, guess its finally time to go all the way lol.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 10:02 PM
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I want to punch you in the face so bad right now. Grow a pair and move the fuck on. You wanna plate your ex lol, So much for abundance mentality. Even your mom knows how stupid it sounds. Take the compliment that your progressing in life and move on. FUCK OTHER GIRLS.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 09:30 PM
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Yeah but that would suck if someone off'ed themselves cause of me. Everyone would know about it and it would make it real awkward moving forward.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 09:55 PM
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Thats what im a little worried about. Idk if she really would kill herself cause we break up but she has told me she still thinks about killing herself cause shes depressed. I think she overly dramatic but idk maybe she actually would and that would not be good.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 09:36 PM
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Yeah I get that, I think I need to break up cause I dont really want to be in a relationship and thats why I dont care.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 12:41 AM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP27/12/17 10:43 PM
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Lol how do you do that?
/r/askTRP27/12/17 09:08 PM
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I know youre right. BUT IM SUCH A LIL BITCH WHEN IT COMES TO BREAKING UP WITH GIRLS.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 10:17 PM
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This might be one of the funniest posts ive seen in awhile.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 10:06 PM
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OK RP answer: Hey, your bed and the cats suck. I can't sleep here. Shes shocked and surprised, and starts asking why and is getting upset and sad probably on the brink of tears. She: so your never staying her agian, do you even like me? cry now Me: yeah i like you but not your cats or your place. She: so you hate me, full on tears and asking why bullshit fight ensues. Different way: Me: Hey babe can we talk for a minute Her: yeah Me: I dont want to offend your or make you upset, but ive been hav…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:07 PM
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No, you're right about compromising my happiness for hers. Thats why im asking this questions to change that. Copied from my other response: But itsnt it more advantageous to come at this in a tactful way instead of blunt "I hate your place and you" cause thats exactly how she is going to hear it, so I can move on to other things?
/r/askTRP07/12/17 05:52 PM
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Its not that im scared of making her upset. Ive done that plenty and shes put up with alot of my bullshit. But itsnt it more advantageous to come at this in a tactful way instead of blunt "I hate your place and you" cause thats exactly how she is going to hear it.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 05:47 PM
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No its not about drying up the sex. Its about dealing with the fallout from saying I dont like staying at your place. I know shes going to get offended by it and sad/angry or whatever, and I dont want to deal with that. Im just looking for a nice way to say it without it turning into a big emotional deal.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 05:32 PM
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Right, but I want to say it in a more tactful way?
/r/askTRP07/12/17 05:27 PM
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You got some good walking tools? Wtf, I would have laughed too.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 06:39 PM
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Stop being a bitch. MOVE ON. Sounds like you need something to do instead of sit around thinking about the past. Maybe workout? Maybe sweat out all your bitch feels? Shit ends, go do something productive.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 06:23 PM
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OK, but how do I say that, with out sounding like a little bitch asking him to not stay at someones house. Also, which part of the sidebar are you referring to? Ive read most of it when I first joined, didnt really see anything about friends.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 12:09 AM
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I knew they were still talking, when he first came back she offered him a place to stay. He laughed it off and I told me hed never stay with her and that be weird. I guess im just kinda shocked that he would actually do it. She dating someone. I dont think i would really care of they hooked up, im just pissed cuase i thought he was a bro and thats not really cool.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 12:06 AM
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Huh?
/r/askTRP22/09/17 12:00 AM
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hood man, learn from it. If you didn't learn from life's lessons you would turn into a 40 year old autistic virgin. Botches are crazy and that a fact. Doesn't mean there's not the right crazy one out there for you. Just stop looking. Pay attention to yourself. Bro I swear to mother Mary herself. If you just put all your attention into you and making you a better man, there will be girls that want a piece of that, and that's when you decide who you want. Your young, you'll grow older but girls wi…
/r/askTRP26/07/17 07:38 AM
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Bro, real talk. If she's hanging out with other guys she's not getting enough from you. Sucks to hear but same shit happened to me. The most pathetic thing I hear was. I was living with my ex and out roommate who happened to also be her ex. When me and her broke up he was high one night and told me he still had feelings for her. I was fucking shocked. But also glad because it made me realize how sad I would be if I just hung around her like him. I blocked that girl and moved the fuck on. There's…
/r/askTRP26/07/17 07:28 AM
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Just an update. Talked to my bro, he just wanted to let me know she contacted him. She was mad I blocked her on all social media and wanted to know I was ok. He told her I was fine and that she needs to move on and not talk to him anymore. I asked about her offering a place to stay and he laughed and told me he would never do that shit. We laughed about it. Nice to know a friend has your back.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 07:02 AM
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True, sounds good. Thanks man
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:58 PM
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No hes not moving in with her. If he did I would for sure not be friends with him again. Hes moving in with his girlfriend. If he needed a spot he would stay with me. He just mentioned that she offered. Yeah I think ill just tell him to stop talking to her however he feels like doing it. Hes a nice guy so I think hes just being nice, but she also knows hes one of my best friends who is also a nice guy that will put up with talking to her still.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:54 PM
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I mean honestly, I would totally date this girl.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 04:13 PM
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26, good job, good looking tall guy. Shes a few years younger then me. She has a good job and her own place. Seems like she has her shit together. We met through friends, went out for drinks once, went on a date the second time. I stayed at her house, she made out, got her almost naked, she didn't let me take her underwear off and didn't let me smash. Ended up falling asleep, she likes to cuddle. I woke up in the early morning and had to make her move cause I was falling off the bed cause she ke…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 05:51 PM
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How do I do that?
/r/askTRP11/03/17 02:54 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rbordn0qViw
/r/askTRP09/03/17 01:05 AM
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thottery haha
/r/askTRP05/03/17 10:45 PM
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Wheres the downloadable version at?
/r/askTRP01/03/17 02:01 AM
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Pics or it didn't happen.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 09:28 PM
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This is actually how I feel. How the fuck do you get out of the comfort zone and feel comfortable taking risks? Any ideas lol
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 08:28 PM
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Thank you for writing this. This Is exactly what I needed today. Ive been going back and fourth between being bitter and upset. If you're envisioning turning into "the man" to prove those women wrong in your past who passed up on you, then you're doing it wrong- THIS IS THE TRUTH.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 06:34 PM
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True
/r/askTRP20/02/17 06:15 PM
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IDK. Something to make me feel better lol
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:56 PM
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What did you eat? lol
/r/askTRP10/02/17 12:56 AM
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How does this happy, I want to grow 2 more inches ina few years!!!
/r/askTRP10/02/17 12:40 AM
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Haha yeah but I should at least try and be a gentleman right?
/r/askTRP28/01/17 02:27 AM
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That's annoying as shit. It you did that to me, I wouldn't take my headphones off and give you the most retarded look and then move away from you. Unless you were actually retarded then I would take them off or a hot girl possibly.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 02:16 AM
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I would love to say this but i dont think that would go over so well lol
/r/askTRP27/01/17 01:42 AM
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Where do you live?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 10:26 PM
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OK cool thanks. I'm gonna try this: Walk into a bar and approach "Hey I have a huge dick, wanna come see it outside!?"... "um not me" "it is crazy big! and I dress it in a tuxedo some times!"... "haha really?" ... "yeah! I named it big dog too! It is at least as tall as you!" ... "no way!" BAM. Now we laugh about it and I introduce myself.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 09:53 PM
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Damn, should have pulled the plug when you got there.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 06:45 PM
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Idk cause I don't want her to be happy and hangout with my friends.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:29 AM
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Why? Is it for sports or something? Do you trim ur arms to?
/r/askTRP24/01/17 10:57 PM
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But doesn't it itch? What about sweat?
/r/askTRP24/01/17 10:51 PM
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Huh you trim your ass hair? Why?
/r/askTRP24/01/17 10:44 PM
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Idk I fee like I should be in a relationship, all my friends are starting to get married and I just lost my gf. I feel insignificant at work because I'm not doing something I love or really passionate about. I want to travel the world but don't think I could do it alone. I feel like I'm trying to improve myself but at the same time I still feel like something is missing in my life.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 11:18 PM
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That's a great question. Idk what the because is but I'll look into it thanks. I think I feel insignificant because I don't feel like I'm doing what I should be doing in life.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 10:42 PM
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That's a good questions. I feel lonely and insignificant when I'm feeling beta.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 09:41 PM
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Hard next. Find a girl with an IPhone 7.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 08:10 PM
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DEER?
/r/askTRP21/01/17 12:50 AM
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Meet up and fuck her. Then reblock her and stop letting her get back in contact with you.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 11:57 PM
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OK. Yeah Ive always had a hard time opening up. Every girl that's been a girlfriend long or short term eventually tell me they don't even know me. Even with my last 4.5 year relashiohip. However I was the most open with her out of anyone in my life. So how would you open?
/r/askTRP20/01/17 09:22 PM
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OK, So my ex used to get mad at me for not opening up enough? How are you suppose to handle that?
/r/askTRP20/01/17 08:50 PM
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Ok I'm starting to understand it. Could you give an example in a relationship with a girlfriend?
/r/askTRP20/01/17 08:29 PM
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So what is vulnerable about A?
/r/askTRP20/01/17 07:08 PM
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I still don't understand I guess. So I should pick B correct and show that I'm unsure of what to do?
/r/askTRP20/01/17 06:56 PM
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Non conventional days? Yeah I think I did start a little to high with her, I bought her like a 300 dollar bracelet at the year mark so I kind fucked myself.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 01:31 AM
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Be better at being alpha? Or just in general, make more money, have a better job, more friends, better looking
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:25 PM
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Yeah, I'm better looking, more money. Same career tho.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:47 PM
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Idk just cause I thought we could laugh about it. I thought she was a 10 lol back then but she's probably like a 4-5 now that she's gain/lost weight and all the insecurities that come with that.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 09:44 PM
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My first thought would be to go get drinks with her and just see how shes doing and catch up. No to want to fuck.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 09:38 PM
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So you banged your friends girlfriend? Are you still friends with your friend?
/r/askTRP18/01/17 08:56 PM
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What should I do with this opportunity? I guess I don't really know what I want out of this. Id fuck if she wanted to, but other then that I have zero interest in making this a thing cause she was a little crazy in high school lol
/r/askTRP18/01/17 08:30 PM
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So then what does all this mean. What is she trying to do?
/r/askTRP18/01/17 07:36 PM
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I guess I don't really now.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 06:55 PM
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Haha yeah I get that. It just seems weird that she would want to meet up when she has a boyfriend.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 06:40 PM
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Ok lets say we meet up and its clear she wants the D. Should I say no since I know she has a boyfriend out of respect?
/r/askTRP18/01/17 06:36 PM
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Huh?
/r/askTRP18/01/17 06:34 PM
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Ok yeah I see that. Probably not the best, I would attempt it to be a playful way but your right it probably come off at weird. So ill hold off on that. So why would this girl hit me up for validation or attention? It seems like she has a lot going on in her life via social. However I have noticed recently she has posted a lot of selfies, which I think she needs those likes to feel good cause she did gain weight after high school but has dropped the weight. Is it a confidence thing she is lookin…
/r/askTRP18/01/17 06:29 PM
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Its not that I still love her or have even thought about her since high school, but in middle and high school I had the biggest crush on her but I was way to shy back then to do anything about it. I just figured it would make her want me more since I'm a really good looking guy now and she has kinda gone the other way a little.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 06:19 PM
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Old women.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 01:07 AM
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Why are you trying to pick up girls at the grocery store? lol
/r/askTRP17/01/17 12:44 AM
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Well she knows my ex girlfriend lol so going the gay way wouldn't really work. Moving hands off usually makes then mad. This has happened before with other people and the girl got mad that I wouldn't hold her hand. So idk wtf to do. Maybe Ill just sit alone next time so people leave me alone.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 12:33 AM
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So just let her rest her hand on my leg?
/r/askTRP17/01/17 12:25 AM
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Then would it be beneficial to have a scarce mindset about money, to help not spending it and working hard to get more?
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 08:42 PM
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So what should I text to, to set up plans to meet at her house? Like wanna Netflix and chill lol?
/r/askTRP13/01/17 08:42 PM
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So I don't think I can hangout with her tonight, Should I text her at all today if she doesn't text me? I can hangout tomorrow tho.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 08:40 PM
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So how do I salvage this and make her a plate. She hot but I don't want to be in a relationship. I just want to go to her place, bang and leave. Havent texted or snapped her yet today, should I wait for her to make contact. Also tonight I have to pick a friend up from the airport so I wouldn't have all night to mess around, should I just go radio silent till tomorrow night?
/r/askTRP13/01/17 08:29 PM
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Ok so she's under 21, can't go get a drink with her. She originally said she wanted to hookup at her house only, which I totally fine with. But do I need to take her out on a date first or how do I just make it known that we are just gonna be booty calls.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 08:16 PM
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What if she asked questions and wants to chat? Should just not answer her?
/r/askTRP13/01/17 08:12 PM
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Just wondering, do you have any desire to get married?
/r/askTRP13/01/17 05:28 AM
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Teach me.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 01:33 AM
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You rich?
/r/askTRP13/01/17 12:12 AM
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Yeah I brought it up a little and explained the sub. I think she will check it out, I looked around but couldn't find any posts about a situation like this. What would your opinion be on this, would you tell her to leave him or take a break till he fixes himself or to stay and hope for the best? Its hard to see my sister unhappy over and over again.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 10:53 PM
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Yeah me and my father are trying to figure out what to do. My father has talked to the guy before about being supportive and stepping up. My sister has never cared about her boyfriends being respected by my dad.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 10:41 PM
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Oh our father lol. Yeah he is in the picture.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 10:36 PM
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Yeah he is, they're in a custody battle right now. Which is stressing my sister out a lot and she doesn't need more stress from her husband.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 10:34 PM
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It would be her first failed marriage. She has a kid with an old boyfriend they never married. He asked her but she said no, he was abusive mentally and emotionally to her. Her husband is a really nice guy, lots of friends, would seem alpha when you first meet him but watching all this happen, hes just an immature kid still that doesn't understand the responsibilities he has as a husband and step father. From the guys ive seen her date, no she hasn't been with a man that has his shit together. N…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 10:30 PM
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No plans really, we just want to hangout. She is 20 so I don't really know what to do with her lol. I'm over 21 and I would take her to a bar or place to get drinks but we cant do that.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 10:12 PM
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She just said: Ive been so healthy mentallu and physically lately. The only thing missing is being able to talk to you. You were my best friend and biggest person in my life for 4 years. WTF
/r/askTRP12/01/17 05:49 PM
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She just said: Ive been so healthy mentallu and physically lately. The only thing missing is being able to talk to you. You were my best friend and biggest person in my life for 4 years. WTF
/r/askTRP12/01/17 05:48 PM
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She just said: Ive been so healthy mentallu and physically lately. The only thing missing is being able to talk to you. You were my best friend and biggest person in my life for 4 years. WTF
/r/askTRP12/01/17 05:48 PM
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She left me after 4.5 years for someone else.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 05:46 PM
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I hate you....cause your right. I do want to win her back for some reason. Even tho I know our relashionship would be a mess and I wouldn't be happy with her back. I guess the last thing to do is block her on facebook messanger and that will be final. So just to be clear, just keep not responding?
/r/askTRP12/01/17 05:34 PM
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Maybe they are being so apologetic so you don't hunt them down and murder them lol
/r/askTRP12/01/17 12:22 AM
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What no don't go get rejected again. If you work in an office with her, shes bound to gossip with other girls about how she dumped you twice. Just ignore her and if you do see her say Hi like a normal person. Just pretend like it never happened.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 10:08 PM
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The implications...
/r/askTRP11/01/17 10:03 PM
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Link to video? or what should I search to find it?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 09:09 PM
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I know. However this is starting to get abusive, mentally for her and possibly a little physical. And she is my sister, we have been through so much when we were younger with out family issues that leaving her is not an option to me. We are extremely close and have always been there for each other when we needed help.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 08:49 PM
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Any advice on when I'm feeling like shit and down on myself? When I think about all the shit I should have done in the relashionship.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 02:44 AM
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