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Thanks. I know for sure that my weakest point by a huge margin is my inner game. Stems from being short and not having any success in my life with women ever. I wrote this in another comment but I'll mimic it here, I really feel like if I can number close, k-close or even f-close anything, I will be "cured". Sounds sort of like a catch-22 and I think sometimes I get focused on that and feel down about it. All that said, I am in a much better state now than I was a month and a half ago. I just wa…
/r/seduction17/12/12 04:00 AM
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Thanks man. This really does help. Sometimes I hate my brain. I have a great job, make a pretty good living, no handicaps, I'm funny and I'm smart. I feel like a total package but keep getting caught up on my height and weight. (Weight is rapidly changing though, lost 12 lbs and looking to keep that shit going.) I constantly get hung up on my height. I really, really feel like if I could just close in some kind of way with any girl, that would cure me of everything and would be me reaching my st…
/r/seduction17/12/12 03:57 AM
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Appreciate the detailed response. It was a good read. I think I may have misrepresented my situation a little. When I "act confident" I am being myself. There are two versions of me. There is the outgoing fun loving guy who is a ball of fun and then there is the depressing loner who just doesn't want to be near anybody. My default is definitely the outgoing guy, but whenever I act like that and everyone seems to be having a good time and then every one splits off with their guy/girl and I am lef…
/r/seduction17/12/12 03:55 AM
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(1,3)Yeah I haven't read any books like that. I will have to check that out and see. Thanks. (2) Yeah I make a habit throughout the night to talk to random people. "That shirt is awesome." "You look awesome." Stuff like that. Then I try to play off what they say. Gotten a fair share of scoffs but I just move on and for the most part people at least say thanks and then I bug off. =P
/r/seduction17/12/12 03:49 AM
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Yeah I hear you. In no way do I want to split them up, I just wish I could find someone with her attitude about going out. Until then, I will probably keep fancying her.
/r/seduction17/12/12 03:46 AM
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I think the general consensus will be "Doesn't matter; had sex".
/r/seduction16/12/12 11:08 PM
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The real bad part is when I actually start liking the married ones. =( Sometimes I find myself getting these major crushes on "the unattainable" ones. Shit sucks.
/r/seduction10/12/12 12:39 AM
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I am exactly the same way, only difference is it isn't whether or not they are attractive, it's whether they are available. Married women and women with boyfriends I have no problems talking to at all. But if I know someone is single, forget about it.
/r/seduction09/12/12 09:46 PM
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It's way easier said than done. I still have yet to cold approach someone even though I know I need to. It's the weirdest thing. I think it is important to drive the conversation into things you want to talk about. Don't just be a stuffed animal for her (or anyone) to talk at. Be someone that they talk to. If you are not interested in the conversation at all, change it.
/r/seduction21/11/12 11:06 PM
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Pretty much in the same boat as you. Past the approach I think I am golden, but the approach is scary as shit to me. The responses and feedback I have gotten are to just do it. Do it often. Do it whenever. Do it everywhere. Do it all the time. Approach guys and girls. Approach everyone, all the time, every time. It's the only way to get over it. There isn't a magic sentence that suddenly gets rid of AA or it wouldn't be a problem.
/r/seduction21/11/12 10:04 PM
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5'0" barefoot when I wear my boots about 5'3". shit sucks. Most debilitating feature in my life.
/r/seduction15/11/12 10:39 PM
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I don't know how I missed this post last time but I just read it and this sounds like awesome shit. Thanks a ton. I am going to be trying round 2 tomorrow and I look forward to trying to push the envelope hopefully this time actually complimenting them and trying that route.
/r/seduction15/11/12 07:08 AM
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Thanks. Working on the formatting. =P Really new at this as well.
/r/seduction15/11/12 12:13 AM
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Well the whole purpose isn't necessarily to have success as much as it is to get over the anxiety of the approach. Right now my anxiety is through the roof just thinking about tonight so I need to go.out there and just see what happens.
/r/seduction13/11/12 11:23 PM
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"Hey you are gorgeous, I had to talk to you." "Thanks"/"Ok" aaaaand just like that I am lost. I don't know how to continue down that tree of dialogue.
/r/seduction13/11/12 05:09 AM
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I am going to try your improv idea tomorrow. Fairly terrified of what I will hear but if I get even one "cute" or something like that it would probably knock my socks off.
/r/seduction13/11/12 05:07 AM
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