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I_AMA_Naughty_Boy/r/askTRP28/10/14 11:03 PM
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You need a hobby. Playing an instrument, try wood or leather work, or electronics/coding like raspberry pi. Ultimately it just needs to be something you enjoy doing that doesn't directly benefit her.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 11:29 PM
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consensual self-love. Gonna need a notarized declaration of affirmative consent for that.
/r/MensRights12/07/15 09:59 PM
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Grudge fuck her until it passes. Use the 10 seconds kiss every dail. Keep lifting and start watching for the shit tests. It seemed like I was angry forever but as the saying goes, " This too shall pass".
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 01:04 PM
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Congratulations on doing you! This is big progress. Get ready.. you're about to feel fantastic again!! I've been on TRT for about 7 years. Getting treatment is easy. But its an ongoing process. And depending on your health/Rx coverage potentially very expensive. There is no quick fix. If you haven't already, make an appointment with an endocrinologist. Likely you'll be prescribed testosterone cypionate injections or androgel. Work with your insurer and doctor to establish the treatment plan best…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 05:53 PM
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Like trying to sip water from a fire hose.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 06:12 PM
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And if that glass slipper fit her so well, how did she just step right out of it? Beta bait.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 02:05 AM
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Really? I have a wife, a job, and two kids and i can manage 4 to 5. I gotta be REAL selective though. Can't have them getting all upset and causing a divorce rape situation. Before there's a bandwagon. I know marriage=bad. But when my first kid turned 5 and I was still with his mom I wanted him to have that sense of security and not feel different from the other kids.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 11:55 PM
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Look up pick up artist negging. This is what he did. It's very effective.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 03:43 PM
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Are you prepared to lose her and your family dynamic to some slimy beta that's dying to give her the comfort she needs? If yes, do whatever you want. But, if you can see the possibility of that scenario and think you might later regret not having given her a little comfort when you could have. Then no doubt, you should suck it up and soften up a little here and there. But you already know all this. The question is, do you care enough to put in that beta work knowing the potential consequences.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 01:30 AM
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As a group we should all be testing this theory and reporting back. At least the more experienced of us should. It may be a little to beta for those still unplugging who have tons of beta points to burn. /u/Sepean laid out a strong case the other day regarding comfort tests and attachment theory. If it pans out it will be a remarkable breakthrough for the RP community and especially those who really struggle to identify the difference between shit tests and comfort tests. I haven't had reason ye…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 11:00 PM
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Don't share. If she sees you reading it. "Its just a personal development book. You thought might help with some situations at work."
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 10:42 PM
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Fidelity unless/until divorce. Just a case of The Mega Next. The bigger diversion between them is plate spinning. No plates for the MRP. But in both the context is remaining firm in your position. If a TRP goes exclusive he would be advised to next before resuming plates as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 06:36 AM
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Eggplants!! LMAO. Nice. Seriously though good post. One of the biggest reasons to avoid substantive texting is they don't just feed the hamster in the moment. It's an all you can eat hamster buffet. They will go over the messages all day, continuously refueling until they are lathered up and ready for a blowout fight.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 04:15 AM
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You think that's nuts... Wait til you find out your wife wants to get fucked by a caveman and not some sensitive lover. You've got a long road ahead of you, Buddy. For now though...Less post, more lurk & read. I recognize your name and you were posting in DB just a few weeks ago. IMO you're way to focused on participating in the sub and need to spend that time and energy absorbing information. By your own admission you haven't really swallowed the pill yet so lets try and focus on the basics. Sa…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 03:50 AM
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To me they are one and the same. Applied with different measure based on the situation of the redpiller. The entirety of RP thought is how to best handle your present situation to bring about the positive changes you seek in your life. MRP is just more applicable to those seeking to improve an existing LTR and TRP is applicable to those without present interest in a LTR.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 11:32 PM
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Funny thing, I actually made a conscious decision to try and out posture anyone in the stall next to me. I grunt when i walk up, step into position a little louder than needed and take up as much room as possible in my area. There is often a visible shrinking/submission in their body language. Only time it didn't work at all was when there was this 7' motherfucker at the short urinal. That dude didn't budge.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 09:54 PM
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"I feel as though her saying it is expecting me to put my two-cents in to help fix the situation, so to not say anything or even not reacting feels like it would put me in the doghouse in her book." Text book Beta thinking. Fuck her doghouse. Your reactions should be driven by your mindset. If your tired of hearing about it stfu as in the FR. If you are in a joking mood agree & amplify 'Your boss sounds like a total douche, you should stab him in the asshole with a paperclip.'
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 12:42 AM
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90% of us have been there. Head up, shoulders back, start lifting and reading. You're free of the bullshit and on your way to becoming the best possible version of you. Like they say at the end of an AA meeting 'it works if you work it'.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 05:25 AM
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Cheap suit and a good tailor. Nobody can tell the difference.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 02:38 AM
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If you want to promote a good image of a feminist, using your brain for a split second longer than your typing skills would be a good thing. It would help prevent you from making stupid mistakes Feminist. Can't help it. And you should stop victimizing her by expecting active brain function.
/r/MensRights01/05/15 03:38 AM
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Need more context.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 03:59 AM
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Wait... how is it that he is responsible for her actions? Her broken vow.
/r/MensRights24/04/15 03:57 AM
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Seems like you give more than a couple F's. Judging from your emotional (and poorly written btw) post I'd say you're in very early anger phase. This is stage 2 of swallowing the redpill. Respond to this with: Lifting Read the sidebar content Rinse and repeat. Do not making ANY life changing decisions beyond step 1 & 2 for at least 90 days.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 03:38 AM
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AWALT is not really intended literally. Surely most nuns are not money grubbing CC riders. It's more a point of emphasis that in most every gender based debate a white knight will charge in with a NAWALT comment. As though it exonerates the 99.9% that in fact Are Like That to one degree or another. Think of it more as the exception that proves the rule.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 02:57 AM
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This is not the sub you want. But, it is most definitely the sub you need.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 02:39 PM
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Are your businesses mobile? Or standard brick and mortar locations. If you're running a bunch of online stores or anything that could be relatively easily moved. Strongly consider moving to a state without alimony. Research the most father friendly divorce states. Tell your cheating wife that the family is moving for business/ tax reasons. She'll go. She doesn't really have a choice. Your sons might be upset, but they will bounce back once they start making new friends. Most states require 6-12 …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/15 02:05 PM
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I think this situation calls for WISNIFG. NMMNG title alone may turn his father off to the idea.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 01:25 AM
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I have a running banter with a coworker. I'm 'asshole' and she's 'bitchface'. I can get that piece anytime I want.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 11:30 PM
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Wrong. That extended stay hotel can quickly become a permanent home. He needs a lawyer before he even considers leaving himself.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/15 10:06 PM
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That's all fine and good. Just be aware weakness of any kind makes you "creepy" to women. Only men with low/lower SMV. They will rationalize emotional range from a man with high SMV.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 04:55 PM
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At your next checkup talk to your doc about having them run a hormone panel. Your refractory period (time between rounds) is caused by a release of prolactin from your pituitary gland. It's what you're feeling when you experience 'afterglow' If your prolactin levels are elevated you'll have a longer refractory period and will have a decrease in total testosterone production over time. That said you may also just be getting older and experiencing a natural decline in testosterone production. Male…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 02:43 AM
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Feel the anger flow through you. Feel how it feeds your adrenaline. Feel it harden your strength and resolve. Take that strength and go to the gym and fucking lift some heavy shit. Capture your weakness and make it your asset.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 02:13 AM
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I'd get kicked out of the bedroom if I shoved a butt plug up my ass. For months. At least. It's your bedroom. She can't kick you out she can only choose to leave. Bill Burr for moral support : https://youtu.be/NqCZvIwrpZw AK is not suggesting you need introduce anal play to your sex life. It's just an example. He's saying that if you want her to be okay with being on the receiving end of anal play you can introduce it by showing you're open to it as well. I never understood how powerful an orgas…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 01:30 AM
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Has dick, is threat. I see no complications for them.
/r/MensRights20/03/15 12:00 AM
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There's a cycle, it's just not as obvious to you. Mark your calendar with the days she complaints of breast tenderness an mark the spotting days with a red dot. After 3-4 months you will be able to see it. And remember that it's a 28 day cycle not 30/31 like a calendar.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/15 02:06 AM
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He's got plenty of saved up beta points to spend. He can throw down Alpha hard. She wont like it, but that has absolutely nothing to do with it. She may even thank him for it later.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/15 01:57 AM
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They could include them all and list them in alphabetical order.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/15 01:45 AM
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Oh shit. I laughed my ass off. This might work better than anything else.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/15 09:47 PM
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You've got yourself an issue. And you understand the dynamics better than us. But, if I'm in your shoes I'm nuking the hell out of this conversation. If she hyphenates my child's name she's going to be a single mother. Beyond cheating I cant think of a more disrespectful thing she could do. Edit: professor's comment is probably the correct way. I just see a woman who is clearly pushing boundaries with no regard for your feelings. I would make sure she understands she's reached her max.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/15 08:07 PM
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Great sign posts for self evaluation. I'd say I'm solidly at #4. #3 is easier when your wife is prone to bouts of depression. But it then becomes the 'elephant' that keeps making return trips to the room. I know a lot of men question/doubt using dark triad techniques on your wife. It's true enough that if you don't have structural issues they probably aren't needed. But if like me you are dealing with ongoing recurring aircraft maintenance. They are great tools for avoiding emergency landings.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/15 02:44 PM
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EDIT2: Shit. I'm going to have to work out a good definition of intermediate now otherwise this is going to get fluffy at the edges. Just saying "is your plane crashing ? No ? Welcome" was a good metaphor but as a definition of "intermediate" we need something more concrete. Sticking with the metaphor simply not crashing isn't quite intermediate to me. Can you successfully guide your plane through the turbulent skies of shit tests and comfort tests? Congratulations you're a pilot. Now it's time …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/15 01:08 AM
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"She's said several times that she just wants us to go out and "flirt", meaning be playful like we're dating again." > I get it. Some of it is Shit Testing. But most of it is just the need for female drama and fun. I resented it before. Now I love it and look for the opening to give her a zinger back. The girls love the banter. They don't just love banter. They want attention. She is proud of the man you're becoming and she wants to experience your adventurous side and to be seen doing it. Obvio…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/15 01:09 AM
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Also we're raising our son's to be red pill men and our daughters to be red pill women. This is the real future impact. Long term we chip away at the matrix by allowing the next-generation to grow and learn from the outset that it is an illusion.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 11:58 PM
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As a man with hypogonadism caused by a prolactinoma I can confirm this. At my lowest point my endo told me I had the test levels of a 10 year old boy and would literally cry at those 'cotton fabric of our lives' commercials. Enter testosterone replacement. Emotions contained, strength, confidence, and porn star status through the roof. My experience was drastic and potentially life threatening. But it gave me great insight into the mind of a woman. With hormone levels like that emotion rules you…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 11:49 PM
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This is all very normal. She is escalating to keep or regain the relationship within her frame. It cannot be emphasized enough. Ignore the words observe the actions. My worst was as I was leaving for work one day my wife yelled "You'll be lucky if we're (she and my two sons) still here when you get back" I just said "good luck with that" and closed the door. I was pretty sure it was an empty threat. But I did worry that my MIL try to help her leave that day. To walk away for 10 hours with her in…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/15 05:30 AM
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https://instagram.com/p/0DgSdZF8jO/ Starbucks #Starbucksaddict #coffee #caffeine #love #truelove
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 01:43 AM
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I suggest you evaluate which you want to see change first. Laziness is the root cause, but fitness and descent house making are the symptoms. Focus on the symptoms and the motivation will return. You can work to have her improve both at the same time, but you need to identify and set the priority for her through your leadership. That priority should receive the majority of your focus, the secondary symptom should receive casual mention only rarely until gains are made in the priority. Women crav…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/15 01:25 AM
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Did you mean 'without a DNA test'?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 12:09 AM
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Dead on until this. Are you gay? Do you really want to be married to a man? Embrace the differences and work with them, not against them! To simply embrace your wife's hamster is far to conciliatory to me. Solid leadership is capable of producing the behavior change he seeks. We should be accepting the reality of her hamster and work with those differences to bring about changes in behavior. OP is setting the expectation that she make a decision on what she wants before making the request. Women…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/15 04:41 PM
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After reading your other post. It seems you've come here looking for an answer that reflects your desire to continue the relationship. Ask yourself why? You're 6 months in and now about to commit to a LDR with someone? This is begging for her to cheat. You're both still in school. A RP man would stop thinking about the pussy that's hours away and pick up some that's more accessible. A married RP guy can see you setting yourself up for disaster. Focus on you, your classes, and being socially acti…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/15 09:16 PM
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You don't have to worry about me leaving you for another woman, you have to worry about (me) leaving you for no one at all. Great line but with 100k subs now it's important for anyone new to trp to understand this is not applicable to dread game. It's an overt declaration of outcome independence. A great tool to have and use but only in dealing with the 'another woman' shit test that can result from effective dread.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 06:09 PM
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Good stuff here. Great examples of how we can interpret the same scenarios differently based on our experience. Q1. B. Who the hell has the time for an internet uproar if they're focusing on being the best they can be. Q2. C. Many may be inclined to opt for B, but if you're experienced in this area you know that a 200k salary allows for influence and comes with responsibility. 'Delegate' is the key word. It allows you to complete the task, please your boss,(who is doing the same thing) and use t…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 03:55 AM
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I can't wait for the day my son can do this to me. He's had 'stoicism' down since he could walk. With some trp fatherly advice he's become the best young man I could imagine. When he can beat me in grappling he will have reached a milestone of physical and tactical maturity. I may be a little bummed out about the passage of time and my own mortality, but I'll be far more excited to have been a part of his future greatness.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 01:02 AM
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We're just the mammals with the most heightened state of self consciousness.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 12:38 AM
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Protester Pulls Fire Alarm At UofT MRA Meeting: http://youtu.be/GO_X4DkwA_Q
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 12:35 AM
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I can see how this would throw you off. As long as you didn't pout you held your frame. She probably wont do that again for a while. But I would take it as a clear sign that she's just going through the motions. Just because she's not refusing as much doesn't mean she's an enthusiastic participant. I submit that you are clearly not giving it to her hard/rough enough. This girl needs a grudge fucking. Pull hair, choke, call her your bitch/slut/whore etc. shove her face into the pillow. Edit: I ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 11:56 PM
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The real risk is fungus.
/r/MensRights27/02/15 04:47 AM
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The problem ultimately is dealing with the resulting power dynamic of the relationship that typically results from not dealing with the situation correctly. OP could still potentially score this girl (long shot) by giving into her head games and using classic storybook romance tactics. But at what cost to his personal satisfaction long term? He will have defined the tone of their sexual relationship as existing only under her authority not her consent.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 03:50 AM
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Hacked by the Anonymous 4chan. Genius.
/r/MensRights26/02/15 02:38 AM
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The term used at least twice that should concern everyone "Sexual Assault Advocates" as though being concerned about due process equates to promoting and advocating sexual assault. Disgusting.
/r/MensRights26/02/15 02:20 AM
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I'd like to add that you should not fear being an asshole. Asshole is just a turn of phrase where woman really mean "I can't control him." You should embrace your inner asshole (please not literally) . Live and breathe asshole. All an asshole is, is a guy who knows what he wants and is not afraid to take action to get it. It doesn't mean you are incapable of compromise, only that you put her in a position to acknowledge your desires as well as her own. Continue with the sidebar and give it a few…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/15 03:45 AM
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Throwback option https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VvYIpa1Ulvw&app=desktop
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:00 AM
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Anger is one of the phases of swallowing the red pill. Most of us wouldn't be in this sub if we had swallowed it prior to marriage. So take any response that says "no" with a grain of salt. Its either a lie, they're in denial, or they just haven't gotten to the anger phase yet. We each move through this process at our own pace. And trp anger phase with your wife around is one of the hardest things i ever did. It took 6 months before it kicked in for me. I honestly thought for a while that I had …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/15 09:15 PM
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You're extrapolating from insufficient data. I did acknowledge that we had limited information to work with. Your Edit and this additional information does mitigate my impression. Her breakdown and explanation of a fear of unworthiness fits an attempt to withdraw and try a calculated approach. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/15 07:34 PM
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Should add Sigma Traits as well. From riseofsigma.com "Genius/Cleverness Determination to not be dragged into a system where they are either ruler, or servant. Unique experiences that changed them both for the good and the bad, it motivates and informs but never warps Success at something obscure, but valuable Always sort of..off key..in a room full of people who will raise their hands in approval of something the Sigma is the one who will raise their hand against it and not care what the others…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/15 07:22 PM
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I would say this is beyond a shit test. This relationship appears to exist entirely within her frame. She has not asked to move in. He asked her. And she's now seeking concessions from him in order to even consider a trial situation! It's hard to say given the limited information. But with his (inherited not earned) overall financial situation and the fact that she is willing to make this a topic for formal negotiation I think she views /u/FalsePregnancy as pure Beta Bucks. It could be she's ver…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/15 06:49 PM
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I switched to sugar free red bull and now i couldn't go back. The sugar was completely unnecessary and led to a crash. I find the taste of sugar free is better too.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 01:05 AM
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Does the sarcasm not translate in text? That happens to me sometimes.
/r/MensRights22/12/14 08:10 PM
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No. Its bad when its me and I'm butthurt about something.
/r/MensRights22/12/14 08:02 PM
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But my sensitive little feelers have feelers about that.
/r/MensRights22/12/14 04:59 PM
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Its the double standard that is frustrating. Once you start to see it.. you discover it's everywhere. I have a profile from before it was voluntary. I figured I'd better polish that thing up since I didn't have a choice. But I've been pretty favorably reviewed i figure it can only help my reputation. I can feel a stud shaming coming on. Don't judge me you guys. I should be free to explore the sexuality of as many women as I can before I'm ready to settle down.
/r/MensRights22/12/14 04:50 PM
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/u/Johnson96 the eternal optimist!
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:27 PM
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The scope of these questions was not limited geographically. Am I to answer on a global scale or relative to my geographic location? Without this control accounted for your data will be useless.
/r/MensRights22/12/14 04:25 PM
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You're right of course. I guess I tend to default associate threesome with FFM.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 01:24 PM
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He's Canadian. I bet he wears pads and skates.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 11:22 AM
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Careful with those married chicks. Never know what husband is standing at the edge ready to jump and take a few with him. Not judging just advising EXTREME caution.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 11:18 AM
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Not like there is a perfect ratio to be achieved. I think each has their own standard that is always flexibly dependant on other SMV factors. I can see a 5'2" girl thinking 5'7" is to short pretty easily though.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 11:12 AM
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I think 5'7" or less is considered short typically. But it's also relative to the woman's height. If she's 5'7" she may consider 6'0" to short for her.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 10:54 AM
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Perfect solutions, plus a Movie 43 reference in there.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 05:51 AM
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Wrong pirates.
/r/MensRights22/12/14 04:48 AM
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It's getting downvoted because it originates from red pill theory. Which is in my mind hilarious. Red pill and MRA are just different branches of the same tree so the contention between the groups is childish. But whatever. The connotation really is sarcastic in that inevitably a white knight type will come charging to a debate with a comment that can be boiled down to NAWALT.
/r/MensRights22/12/14 02:37 AM
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Not All Women Are Like That Edit: I'd like to add that u-penisflytrap (not linked on purpose) is clearly a fanatic feminist in the MRA sub to stir up some shit. It doesn't take a whole lot of looking to see what her agenda really is. Can the sub MOD ban for this? I'm all for open dialogue but this is just subversive.
/r/MensRights22/12/14 02:18 AM
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Not sure of the legal age of consent where this happened. 15 isn't old enough to be able to consent in a lot of states. Society gains a conviction of a sex predator, and future registration as a predator, and equal application of the law across genders. Say she is convicted. Serves her time and is paroled. But the takes out a craigslist ad for tutoring services. Would you want another teenager's parents hiring her? This is a sex predator, she just doesn't fit the standard narrative.
/r/MensRights21/12/14 09:17 PM
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Classic NAWALT here.
/r/MensRights21/12/14 09:02 PM
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There is a huge difference between shit tests and comfort tests. If the affair is an underlying issue day to day I'd say you are dealing with a lot of comfort tests. Read up on the difference and why they happen and how to handle them. Be strong for you when she is comfortable and secure. Be strong for her when she is insecure of your commitment.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/14 05:45 PM
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This is an definitely issue for me. I suggest you flirt. Flirt away! I use these experiences to build up my confidence as much as possible. If the wife see's it's just building dread and raising my SMV. If she doesn't whats the harm? What a great opportunity to work your game and reinforce that outcome independence.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/14 01:52 AM
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"The U.S. Office of Personnel Management has granted CBP an exception to Title 5 of the Code of Federal Regulations, Part 332, Section 332.407 which authorizes the targeted recruitment of female agents along the southwest border of the United States. Therefore, this announcement is limited to the recruitment of female applicants" It's literally the first paragraph of the article. Any lawsuit will be tossed.
/r/MensRights13/12/14 11:02 PM
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/r/RedPillWomen
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/14 05:31 AM
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How long ago was the affair? Or how long ago did she find out about the affair?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/14 02:48 AM
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Has anyone seen a link to the report itself?
/r/MensRights11/12/14 10:07 PM
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Thanks a lot! I just snot shot my coffee.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 04:14 PM
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Read this list to my wife. Her response: "Their porn just got really boring."
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 12:53 AM
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You really need to put your foot down. This was a golden chance for you to turn the table and say "I could ask you the same thing." Yes she'll be pissed.. so what. You mentioned all the little favors earlier. Make very sure to say "you're welcome" loudly and confidently when you do them. Regardless of if she thanks you or not. It demands her acknowledgement (even if only internally) that you did the favor voluntarily rather than out of subjugation.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/14 12:41 AM
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Seems to me that she's pretty upset all the time. Whats the difference if she's upset about the TV or some other inflated issue.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/14 12:28 AM
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This can be a very tricky area. I wouldn't suggest it with a LTR because it brings relationship dynamic into her frame. You can do it with a plate but the idea needs to come from her but you can open the door with sex games talk. Set a very clear rule of 'no cuffs'. What you really want to achieve is the illusion of Dom/Sub. You need to keep the ability to switch from a submissive position if you want or need to. Safewords are not enough. You want to keep the situation within your ability to phy…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 04:55 AM
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Move on, Man. This is Oneitis. You need some abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 11:55 PM
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This is just a reflection of you being the more alpha of the two of you.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 12:46 AM
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This is duty sex. You may not see it now because the frequency has gone up, but unenthusiastic sex is duty sex. I think this woman hasn't been hit with enough dread to feel that she should work to keep what she has. Try going out for lunch and paying with a joint account. Treat your Buddy for the meal and wait. I also recommend stopping any pursuit of her until she initiates. If she's a true sex camel you may need to up the dread even more.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/14 01:43 AM
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It's a bitter pill, brother.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:20 PM
1

Do you have a strong thick accent? If so that may be playing a part in your troubles.I've noticed that race/nationality doesn't seem to carry nearly the same importance if you can pull off appearing Americanized. Unless your Italian or French which are typically more romanticized.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 07:18 AM
5

Well, you are the mega beta
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 05:13 AM
3

Its a whole lot easier when its someone else... Remember confidence and body language first. Just walking up with your head high and shoulders back will step him down a bit. Direct eye contact without staring him down too. As for the interruption maybe "Excuse us.. i need to borrow my wife for just a minute." Take her a few feet away. Then whisper in her ear "I cant wait to get you out of that dress" or any other escalation will do.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/14 12:23 AM
3

"Hypergamy – The instinctual urge for women to seek out the best alpha available. This is marked by maximizing rejection (therefore women are the selective gender). A woman will vet her alpha through various shit tests to ensure his "health" on the alpha scale. She is conditioned to recognize a declining alpha, as hypergamy also tends to continue seeking out higher status males even while with an alpha male." Your reaction here matters. You set yourself up a little by getting drunk to a point wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/14 11:41 PM
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I feel for Steven here, many of us have been there at one point or another and for some reason I'd like to see /u/Ronin11A invite Steven out for drinks and play the role of Morpheus. Give the guy a chance at least to choose pills. I think that's such a huge issue with tbp so many betas would go red if they knew it was an option.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 06:01 AM
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I like this.. but its a short term deflection that wont work in many situations. Also it would probably be more effective once OP has gained a bit more control in his relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/14 12:36 AM
4

This may cause a few days of discomfort in your house but its worth the effort to stop the "tell me how awesome i am" shit tests. You need to shut her down immediately. Walk away and tell her the more confidence boosting she asks for the less attractive she is. Any compliment is disingenuous if it has to be solicited.. so tell her she's wasting both of your time. She WILL lose her shit.. but this is where you need to maintain frame and really just be honest without hurt, anger or frustration. A …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/14 12:28 AM
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I think the 'faggots' comment would also be viewed in the same way as a slight to her girlfriends. It reeks of insecurity to me. Way better to hold frame and say 'k. Bye'
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 05:49 AM
1

I've noticed the same thing. Hold frame by changing your response from 'yep' or 'uh huh' to 'Sure!' or 'Of course' tone and volume are critical here. Make sure you are a little louder than her request. Make sure she hears your response. Because it's your response and tone that indicate you are making the choice to do this favor for her. (Your frame. Not hers) If you are mumbling a 'yeah' you indicate being submissive to her demand. Most important. Regardless of if she says 'thank you' or not. Sa…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/14 10:30 PM
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I sincerely appreciate your response here because it represents an open mind beginning the process of an awakening. Assuming you are in a western nation now ask yourself what rights of equality women have failed to achieve? It doesn't take long to see the fight is not for equal rights anymore but has advanced to a fight for superior rights with superior outcomes.
/r/MensRights02/10/14 03:51 AM
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IANAL. Harassment and Sexual Harassment are not crimes. They are terminable HR offenses. At worst this is libel. But for her to bring a case against the 'anonymous' you who posted it she would have to prove: You are the perpetrator She was raped
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 04:54 AM
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Depending on the mood & context, either. Agree & Amplify/Amused Mastery: "You know I can have any woman I want." Or let the dread hang in the air: "If you're feeling insecure you should seriously reconsider your behavior that will push me away." I would not confirm/deny unless you sense she's looking at using a nuke herself.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/14 04:11 AM
1

-- these are also the only times when she will talk about how she can't be with someone who doesn't agree with her views. I don't see a solution other than just avoiding the subjects that fire her up This is when I created a temporary physical distance during the conversation like getting a drink from the kitchen or checking the thermostat. As I walk away I say (amused mastery like) "That's silly I've never agreed with this and you're still with me..." (Let it hang in the air for just a second. …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/14 08:30 PM
1

I did this. Ended the relationship when she refused for all my 'mistrust'. Saw an attorney who refused to take the case if a paternity test wasn't taken. It allowed us to proceed with araingment of a visitation schedule before the child was born. It allowed for the creation of a child support trust again before the birth. All of a sudden she had nothing to bargain with and wanted me back. I took her back but mostly so that I could ensure that i wouldn't just be a weekend influence for my son. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 08:43 AM
1

Well, sure. Growing up consists of a series of disillusionments (Santa Claus, the tooth fairy, the infallibility of authority figures, etc...). We are all products of socialization. Women face the same trials...I have three sisters that were taught to be sweet, pretty, ladylike and demure...and their knight in shining armor would come along some day. My oldest sister got a hard lesson at the ripe old age of 17, when her childhood sweetheart and "man of her dreams" knocked her up and left her. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 04:22 AM
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I think the implication is to devalue the man on the train by reinforcing most men are dogs I'm the prize. While playfully teasing her for getting excited about a simple interaction with the now devalued man. I don't see it as mean, I just see it as a redirection of her focus.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 05:14 AM
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Keep this plate spinning.. she will keep coming back.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 03:28 AM
2

This always gets compliments. Smell like a man not a boy in a club. Sorry for long link.. on mobile. http://www.fragrancenet.com/cologne/adidas/adidas-deep-energy/edt#!207379
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 03:24 AM
1

Good for you. Stay strong. Get stronger.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 02:34 AM
1

Curious how things are going for you after a few days.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 12:29 AM
10

Date other women and be obvious about what you're doing. Don't bring any women home because she will step on your game. When she see's you moving on she will try hard to make you jealous, by bringing other guys over and generally being a slut. Handle this like a pro. Hi- 5 the guys and tell them she's a sweet piece of ass but its not worth all the trouble it brings... recommend in front of her that they hit it and quit it. She'll leave on her own.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 10:49 PM
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