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| 2 | What was your worst "needy" moment in your lifetime, Seddit?The way I tried to get my second girlfriend back after she dumped me. *shudders. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 04:55 AM |
| 3 | One-Night-Stand Advice from a Guy who has banged more women than Casanova (seriously)I can't see any of the girls I've ever hooked up with going for this. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Female friend circle cock block. What is the fucking deal here?Even that response was a little hostile. Not to mention every other response. | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Female friend circle cock block. What is the fucking deal here?So much hostility. | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Women's relationship advice: How to Spot a Pickup ArtistA pickup artist is smooth, cute, and charming. The men who seem too good to be true often are. The problem with pickup artists is that they are usually insincere and only around for a fling. They use and discard women like tissues. They waste your time, mess with your mind and generally leave your life a bit of a wreck. Looks like she met some dude she really liked, hooked up with him, he didn't relationship her, and she's been bitter since. Her message is one of external attribution. She puts r… | /r/seduction | 23/05/12 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it common to be apprehensive about following up with a girl you just met?Yes. This is something I've been struggling with lately, and I don't attribute it to anything other than this: my career is fairly time intensive too, so its hard to see time sinks like this worth it It's a Friday night. I could hit up that girl I hooked up with last week, drive all the 30 min it takes to get over there, drink, hang out, and fuck. But then I'll have to stay up late, I'm already tired, it's a long drive, and if I stay over then I'll be spending even more time, and at the end of t… | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 06:51 PM |
| 5 | Where do you draw the line with teasing/negging?Negging and teasing are two different things. Teasing is all about having fun. Negging is to knock her down a peg. So that's where you draw the line with teasing. When it stops being fun, stop. | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 05:58 PM |
| 9 | Success coming in wavesYeah, this is something people talk about a lot. There are two explanations people put out for it. One is social proofing; girls see you with other girls, and that gives you higher value. I believe this is true, but I don't think it explains the "waves" of success because during my waves, those girls don't interact with each other. They don't see each other, they don't hear of each other, they don't even know that the others exist. The only common denominator is me. The other explanation, which … | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 01:12 PM |
| 1 | What's a classy, cool way to handle rejection?"That's too bad." | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 10:00 PM |
| 2 | What is your "go-to" opener/routine/gambit?Not an opener, but as I'm leaving I say "What, no kiss goodbye? I could get hit by a car tomorrow, or get cancer, or choke on food..." This goes on until she kisses me. | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 01:50 AM |
| 3 | I got a laughable "shit test" from a girl.Am I the only one that sees the trolling here?!?!?! | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Responding to the reverse freeze out:D :D :D Yeah, I've definitely found that responding quickly to messages gets better results. But I'm still yet to overcome my own laziness. It's like "I'll respond after a game of league" and then I never do. | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Responding to the reverse freeze outOn OKC, sometimes that shit happens. Texting and messaging people can be a lot of work. When you have to work, get some projects done, take night classes, do chores, get groceries, etc., responding to people from the internet becomes the last priority in life. I don't know exactly what her situation is, but I know I've done the exact thing she's doing plenty of times. Not because I wasn't attracted/bored or anything, but just out of sheer busy-ness. I hooked up with a girl a month and a half ago… | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 07:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] a birthday celebration at the barFirst time it happened to me was at a party when I was talking to this one girl. We were talking, and then she sort of giggled and looked away. I didn't get it. Later, with another girl, the same thing happened, but we ended up fucking. So I was like "AH HA! THIS IS AN IOI!" So I ran into girl #1 at another party, and hooked up with her. I think it happens when you hit a lull in the conversation where you transition to another topic, but she can't think of anything other than kissing you, so hen… | /r/seduction | 16/05/12 09:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] a birthday celebration at the barDoes anyone know what the smile/laugh head turn means? especially when she breaks eye contact? I'm not sure if what you're talking about is exactly what I'm thinking of, but it's a massive IOI. | /r/seduction | 16/05/12 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Seddit: How do you feel about this advice I was given?Ah. I see. Because the implication is that since men haven't asked you out, then they aren't interested in you. Doesn't that sound a little ridiculous though? I have a male friend that's 24 and straight. He's never asked a girl out. Does that mean he isn't interested in any girls? Or even myself. I didn't ask a girl out until I was 18. Does that mean I was never interested in any girls until then? When I first said "I wonder how you would feel if the genders were reversed," I think you mis-under… | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Seddit: How do you feel about this advice I was given?Then it sounds like you don't need any convincing. How do YOU feel about the advice you were given? | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Seddit: How do you feel about this advice I was given?10,000% wrong. if a man was interested in me, he'd have asked me out. I wonder how you would feel if the genders were reversed. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Long-Distance over Summer, or End it?If you want to stay with her, then stay with her. Crazy, and very anti-PUA, I know. This is completely irrelevant. As long as you are healthy and sound of mind, you should follow your instincts. "What are you up to tonight? Good, I'm taking you to dinner at 6.." Nice and simple, yet implies my ambition to change the locale a bit. That being said, I don't want to scare her off.... I really like your idea. And that bit about scaring her off....well that's the chance we always take in this whole pi… | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 01:52 PM |
| 5 | So this girl and I were hanging out every day for a week and then all of a sudden she put on the brakes...I double-checked your original post for evidence of "cuddles," "smootches" (are these just pecks, or full on making out?), and her sleeping over (is this sex or literally sleeping over?). Hmm. Nothing. Furthermore, using the words "cuddles" and "smootches" dramatically undercuts your attempt to be insulting. It's also interesting that you insult my ability to read, yet you write like you're illiterate. Now, let's look at what you said. Your spontaneous animosity, update, and other responses in t… | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 01:23 PM |
| 7 | So this girl and I were hanging out every day for a week and then all of a sudden she put on the brakes...If you've been hanging out with her every day for a week and you still haven't made a move, you are acting like a giant vagina. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Club BitchesI'm glad I'm not the only one that thought so. | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 10:00 AM |
| 5 | PSA to those who have trouble threading conversationsThough most chicks are AWFUL at conversing online in my experience. Fact. | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 04:16 PM |
| 4 | Any advice increasing interactions when you work the typical 8-5?I'm with you dude. My job and location mean that I see literally 0 eligible females in my day-to-day life. That's why I got on OKcupid. | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 10:14 AM |
| 6 | First date: Do you pay?If it comes to that moment, I always say "I'm hitting on you, not paying for you." Oh wow. Reading that here makes it sound really bad. I guess it's all about delivery. In any case, that's worked well for me, repeatedly. | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Hopefully losing my V-card tomorrow night. Any tips/tricks/things I should know or expect?During the beginning of the "actually getting laid" phase, a lot of people try to focus on sexual techniques. There's this whole "if I do x, then she'll get off" mentality. Fuck that. It doesn't even work. Just have a good time, be enthusiastic, and trust your instincts. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Indecisiveness..extremely unsexy?I feel that. I'm the same way, especially about food (I love food). If I'm going to be shelling out cash for some food, I want to try to create the best possible experience for myself. But there's a difference between careful decision making and the "second guessing and over-analyzing" that you describe. If I'm at a new restaurant, I'll ponder my options. I'll ask the waiter which one he likes, and why. I'll read the entire menu twice. And eventually, I'll finally pick something. But after that,… | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 03:37 PM |
| 1 | don't see any harm in posting...If you're down 21-0 with 30 seconds left on the clock, you might as well put in your backups and run a trick play for fun. | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 05:28 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 3 nights in a row. Not a typical success story designed to inflate my ego, looking for advice on improvement.Fuck. I typed out a post, and then windows update raped me. Anyways, reading through your first two days, it felt like you weren't introducing any sexual energy into your encounters. | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 04:41 PM |
| 1 | don't see any harm in posting...I'm hungry, sleep-deprived, and stressed out. Reading this sub-reddit is my way of taking a break from the mountain of work that I have. So forgive me if I'm being harsh. Here's my translation of your post I have one-itis over this chick, and she's blown me off with excuses twice already. But it's okay, because I can blow the next 3 years of my life on waiting for the moment that this girl will change her mind. Any tips from a community where the first rule is to explicitly AVOID this situation?… | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 01:41 PM |
| 5 | Oneitis just got knocked the f**k out.This is completely off topic, but bro-fist for your user-name. I love Animorphs. | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 09:14 PM |
| 3 | FB-closed a bar maid while covered in sweat...I started walking out, but then, I knew I would kick myself stupid if I didn't ask for anything so I went back I find that this is very powerful motivation. then she said "Sure, did you want my number or just the facebook?" Definitely should have went for the number at that point. While your point about men trying to get her number all the time is doubtlessly true, I bet she rarely is offering her number to other men. | /r/seduction | 20/04/12 07:53 PM |
| 5 | What bad dating advice do men give women?I disagree. I don't think that just because a girl is asking a guy out, that means she's desperate. I feel that it simply depends on how she does it. Doubtlessly, the girl in your experience came off as desperate because she was desperate. I've had a couple of occasions where a girl asked me out, and I've been flattered and impressed each time. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 05:31 PM |
| 89 | What does Seddit think of telling the friend of a girl your interested in about your interest, knowing full well she will relay this information to the girl.I found this useful back when I was a pussy. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Introducing Awkward GameSounds more like an idea for a simple-pickup video than an actual attraction technique. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Do girls care if you're inexperienced?No. | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 10:30 AM |
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