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| 15 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?As someone who has started dateless, discovered the seduction reddit, and am now thriving with more dates than I know to deal with (legit I'm stretching myself so thin with scheduling), working out and putting yourself in environments where you'll naturally interact with women you find attractive is the best way to go. For example, I'll go to the gym, make friends there and interact with women there sometimes, and after some time of building social circles/developing a positive reputation, peopl… | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 01:26 AM |
| 2 | I feel invisible to womenI think you need to work on your self confidence. Lots of people here has given you solid advice and you're still feeling depressed. Work on yourself first because at this point even if you get more numbers with women, it'll only be temporary happiness. | /r/seduction | 06/07/26 01:34 PM |
| 7 | I feel invisible to womenWhat does "receiving signals" mean to you? Personally, I've found that body language is a toss up. It can be very hard to interpret and in most cases, it shouldn't be relied on. There's multiple Instagram videos where women even joke about how their "I am attracted to you" signals is a simple eye glance your way that you can miss in a blink of an eye. This is what I highly recommend. 1. Sexualize the conversation with women. I'm not necessarily saying specifically talk about sex right off the ba… | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….Agreed | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….I almost always do direct approaches now. You're absolutely right - it saves so much time and you know right away if they're interested or not. In addition, some (ADHD or neurodivergent in general) people are genuinely oblivious to "subtle" flirting techniques; being direct is an absolute necessity for these people. Overall, in my opinion, being direct is generally better as a catch-all blanket approach, which is good 90% of the time. Being indirect is better if the situation really calls for it… | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 05:00 PM |
| 2 | anyone ever been to an orgy?Assuming you have a good social standing and a lot of willing female friends, tell them you're cool with them inviting their friends (ideally other couples + single women). This way you can limit the amount of men so it's a balanced 1:1 ratio at the worst (unless you're all cool with more men). I discovered having an Excel spreadsheet to keep track of people's names, pronouns, sexual likes/dislikes/, their general boundaries, forms of aftercare they like, and assuming everyone is tight with each… | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 05:11 PM |
| 7 | anyone ever been to an orgy?As someone who has participated in orgies, you are entitled to your opinions but don't limit other people's sexual goals. I've personally organized orgies and they can be extremely fun. | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 11:35 AM |
| 3 | Guys who are late bloomer, how did you do it ?This is a serious answer. Go to pornhub and search how to make women squirt using your hands/fingers. I mean this 100%. I was curious one day and I did this; I found some solid real techniques that I still actively use. Another link is called How to Eat Pussy like a Champ. That is the literal name of the video where pornstars do a genuine video on how to eat a woman out. Give this a shot. These videos are 👌 chef's kiss; they've significantly improved my sex skills. | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Guys who are late bloomer, how did you do it ?I only read your first point about sexual innuendo and comments. At first I was going to disagree but you're absolutely right about differentiating yourself and not making yourself seem like a creep. Giving off the impression of being a creep seems to be the #1 complaint of all of my female friends. After the guy has made a good impression in not being a creep, they could make so many sexual comments/innuendoes and women will (usually) love it haha. | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 11:57 PM |
| 5 | Guys who are late bloomer, how did you do it ?I started in my very last semester of university, which is both unfortunate and fortunate, depending on how you look at it. That said, 10 years later, I can confidently say I have a borderline unhealthily high amount dates and sex in my life. Reading self improvement books on game, relationships as a whole, sex techniques, careers, and feminism (being more knowledgeable and changing your mindset/habits/perspective on dating, life and relationships is significantly life-changing) Consistently wor… | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Guys who are late bloomer, how did you do it ?Agreed. It really is a volume/numbers game; both in the micro sense of getting individual numbers and talking to each person as well as in the macro sense of "I've talked to so many people/had so many experiences" now I know what my relationship style, preferences, boundaries are etc. | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 03:14 PM |
| 12 | Date was going very well until I said one sentenceJust piggybacking off of this. You didn't do anything wrong. This is 100% outside of your control. Sometimes you can be perfect but if they don't see that, that's on them. Also, I haven't read any of the other comments but any comment talking about your apologizing - don't worry about that either. Life and game critique/feedback isn't black and white. There is definitely power in apologizing too. | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 08:57 PM |
| 5 | Threesomes: Best way to find a girl from a dating app?I highly highly disagree. There are plenty of bi/pan women out there. | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 05:08 AM |
| 4 | Threesomes: Best way to find a girl from a dating app?Provide a source that porn stars are generally more safe std-wise?? | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 05:06 AM |
| 16 | Threesomes: Best way to find a girl from a dating app?Yeah I would suggest either Feeld, 3Fun or look into a swingers website like Cafe Desire, SDC Swingers or any other similar site. I'd also look into your local "lifestyle" club to find likeminded people OR kink munch. Fetlife is also fantastic. Finding a sex worker is also good too because sex workers in general are actually more safe (std-wise) than regular people arguably. | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 11:39 PM |
| 16 | Girl literally told me “ur ugly as f”I've had women tell me I'm ugly and then minutes later in the same venue, other women will genuinely say how handsome I am. People have different vibes. It's also funny when one person rejects you and then later in the night, you're publicly making out with another girl. I wouldn't stress it. ALSO, here's a fun advanced game fact. Sometimes when women say you're fucking ugly (but then they don't leave the vicinity), that's actually a shit test and it means they're into you. This is a very advanc… | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 09:28 PM |
| 18 | She attempted to ghost me after two great dates. But why?This is the answer OP should focus on. Sometimes, things are outside of your control. You did everything in your control and that's it. Sometimes your game is just fine and not your fault. Even when girls say it's because of XYZ reasons, sometimes they're just making shit up, they don't know the reasons themselves, or it could actually be true. All of these "never invest too much into a stranger blah blah" comments; honestly that's pretty subjective and depends on person to person. If you vibe w… | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 04:05 PM |
| 2 | As a woman, here’s what actually makes us want you — and it’s not what most guys thinkThanks for sharing. Not to diminish your input, everything you just mentioned most people on this subreddit already know (hence the negative comments so far I would assume). There's a book named Models by author Mark Manson. It's a highly recommended book on this subreddit; there's likely been numerous posts on the book itself and it's personally shaped my life. That book has the same message you just shared. Also I'm not sure if you intended this but your post is extremely click-bait-ish and pe… | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Too old at 43?Everyone else has great answers. Here's something to think about. What's the alternative? Go for someone less attractive and settle?probably not | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 02:55 AM |
| 1 | To all the dating gurus How to show a intrest in a girl without looking creepyCreepy is subjective. One girl thinks you're hot and another thinks you're creepy. Haven't read the other comments but investing into working out and fashion a decent amount goes a long way. One of the other comments said handsome guys aren't creepy. How do you become handsome ? You work out at the gym and dress nice. | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 12:38 PM |
| 5 | The Opener That Gets Me More Dates Than Any OtherIf you're saying this as a joke, then lmao I genuinely laughed. If you're actually critiquing their opener, you don't need to get so logical about the opener. There's plenty of witty banter potential here, especially if it's not sunny outside. I'd probably use it more on days it wasn't sunny. For example, one time, there was a girl wearing a (covid) mask and I approached her saying I thought she was attractive with her smile (the mask is concealing her mouth). It made her laugh and helped set up… | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 01:51 PM |
| 1 | How to learn flirtingI stand by this 100%. Open them however you want and then straight up ask them "Is it cool if I flirt with you?". I've been doing this and it's been going well with me. The benefits of this are that you are clearly indicating your sexual/romantic interest in them. I know a ton of people who are freaking oblivious to flirting. Sometimes you literally need to spell it out for them. The fact that you yourself are asking how to flirt is proof that people are oblivious to flirting sometimes. Reading … | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Women bring up sex in a conversationWhen I refer to sexualized conversation, topics can obviously pertain to sex, porn, kinks, dicks etc. I like to talk about dating apps, fantasy smut books, dates in general etc. These are more common conversation topics and can easily be tied to sex. I talk about these first, gauge interest, slowly drop in some sexual jokes, and ease into the more overt sex topics like porn. For the average person, if they immediately jump into "What's your favorite hentai genre and why isn't it tentacles?", tha… | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Flirting examples that worked for youJust keep trying it until it becomes natural. If it doesn't work for you, there's other conversation techniques. | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 03:45 PM |
| 12 | Flirting examples that worked for youI gotta disagree. Flirting in chat is always a good way to warm them before asking them on a date, regardless of how long you've known them. Even if OP has only known the woman for 5 seconds or 5 years, flirting in general and building that connection goes a long way. | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 09:28 PM |
| 5 | Flirting examples that worked for youI think since OP is a beginner, they shouldn't necessarily stress about forcing the technique. Better to do it, get the practice and when they feel more accustomed to it, they can calibrate. For the record, I absolutely agree with you. Way too many times I'll try to force a conversation technique and it'll backfire on me. (If anyone else is reading this comment, there's also plenty of times where it'd wildly successfully worked out). Calibration is definitely key. | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Women bring up sex in a conversationOn the flip side, you should slowly but surely bring up sexual topics too. Anything from dating apps to even kinks, assuming you built up enough rapport and worked up to it. Like everyone else here has mentioned, if they are enjoying having a sexualized conversation with you, it serves as a major indicator of interest. You can use it as a litmus test to see who is interested in you. This is something ive been doing instead of trying to read their body language, which is significantly hit or miss… | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 01:24 PM |
| 67 | Flirting examples that worked for youInstead of specific screenshot examples, here are the core principles. Push/Pull or Pull/Push Pull is a compliment Push is a light hearted insult Example: You look so hot in that dress. Too bad you're so short though. Advanced Example - (Assuming there's already good rapport), you can physically do the full motion and swift left in front of her face (swiping left implies you're rejecting her as if it's a dating app). After that, you can physically pull her closer to you. Flip the Script Make it … | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 12:35 PM |
| 5 | Hearing my roommate have sex really upsets meWow thank you for sharing this. I came to this post with a similar outlook as OP's on a particular topic (not seduction; something else). Your solution/comment is still very much applicable. Great advice! | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps are still hard even for someone with hundreds of matchesHaha I'm also in my 30s. I'm an extrovert and I still frequently go out to social events (albeit not necessarily clubs per se but still social spots where game can definitely be applied). Clubs every weekend in this economy?! Arguably less expensive to do online. That said, I am still very happy with my IRL game experience. Cold approaching, social proof, and turning online matches into real dates. On another side note, I'm happy for your success whatever that might look like for you <3 | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 08:13 PM |
| 13 | Dating apps are still hard even for someone with hundreds of matchesI gotta disagree. As a seasoned person who's been doing game for years, most of my connections (dating, Fwb etc.) have been through online. I completely understand that online is rough but approaching IRL doesn't have the same success rate that online provides. I also understand the pros and cons of both. Obviously a mix of the two is best for maximum results but give online some more credit. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 07:08 PM |
| 3 | 10/10 in gymIdk about the whole incel stuff but overall, I agree with you. Trying to knocking her down off her pedestal just screams insecurity and revenge porn. If this girl really is super attractive, a single guy purposely ignoring her won't knock her off her pedestal. Hot people usually get checked out/validated constantly both in person and online. OP, if you're reading this, keep being flirty buddies with her. Maybe another opportunity will come up and maybe it won't. However, hot women usually have h… | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 05:04 AM |
| 0 | 8 mistakes guys make on a date that make you look like a foolI gotta disagree. Basics for an absolute beginner maybe but most of these tips are terrible to seasoned guys. | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 06:39 AM |
| 1 | 8 mistakes guys make on a date that make you look like a foolThe only ones I do agree with are #3 and #8. Not everything is black and white. You can definitely make sure she's still good to go for the date. There's been so many times I didn't text/call an hour before the date "because I don't want to seem insecure" and the girl either genuinely forgets or thinks I'm not interested. I'm sure you're a great guy but these pick up tips are clearly meant for absolute beginners and very rarely apply to experienced guys. | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 06:31 AM |
| 1 | “Excuse me, we are in a conversation right now. Can you leave us alone please?”You can say "oh is that your boyfriend?" in a polite way, knowing that probably isn't her boyfriend. You can then say "oh I think he's trying to kiss you or get your number." Again, do this in a playful fun tone so it shows you're not affected by it. By doing this, you're putting the other guy in a difficult position. He'll either say Yes to the kiss and the girl would reject it because there's no connection OR he'll say no and that'll disqualify him too, making his future advances awkward and c… | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 08:32 PM |
| 19 | So I am a police officer, very pretty girl, no BS. I was told I am 8-9. Why guys are afraid to approach me and just say hi, or is it the idea of dating a cop is scary?I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with being a cop in the dating world. People in general whenever they see a gun or a police officer, they'll more than likely be very hesitant in approaching you. Even right now, I'm thinking if I go up to a police officer and flirt with her, will I get charged with something? | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 05:42 AM |
| 3 | How do STOP making female friends and make lovers?Sexualize the conversation. This is the #1 issue I see with beginners (no offense) but the fact you're asking this question would indicate you are new. Talk about online dating, friendzone, differences between blowjob techniques, porn, kinks, if they'd ever fuck a 9 inch dick. The key to all of this is having fun with the conversation, be non-judgmental, and be wary of social cues. I've found that girls actually loveeee this conversation. In fact, I use sexual convo as a form of a shit test myse… | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 06:25 PM |
| 9 | My weird unexpected strategy to get girls to approachJust to be clear though, it looks like you are attractive. This is very evident with all of the girls coming up to you to start a conversation. In other words, this isn't a weird unusual strategy that you just came up with lol. It's literally being attractive and then focusing on your mission, which is what you try to focus on already. Not trying to insult you by any means or take away your accomplishments but I'm just saying your "trick" isn't new or news-breaking. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 09:21 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]So it looks like you don't even have her number and the date is set in 2 weeks. I highly recommend rescheduling the date to something a lot closer. Even if the date is only 30mins or shorter. Also, if a girl says she's busy, usually it's absolute bullshit. You're saying she can't spare 30mins in an entire week for a coffee? Reschedule with her asap. If you push a little, you'll find that she does in fact have time or you yourself in fact have time. The further away you set the date, the higher t… | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 05:32 PM |
| 1 | “How Many Girls Have You Slept With?”In terms of getting laid, I do alright myself to be honest Hahaha. Let's keep the debate on the post itself though; not trying to throw mud and discredit you here. I thought about it and you are absolutely right sir. A kinky hipster definitely does get women than your average blue pill vanilla bodybuilder. In fact, I think both of our view points can be correct at the same time. I'm saying he has some skill and you're saying his skill shouldn't be inflated because of his girlfriend and his Bdsm … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/21 03:06 PM |
| 3 | “How Many Girls Have You Slept With?”I can see where you're coming from and I do agree with some points. I think that even when his girlfriend is picking up the girls or the hookup is baited with Bdsm, at the end of the day, a girl likely won't fuck you if you're a beta loser (I. E. Zero skill). It takes skill to not only get a 6 pack cute and dirty minded primary girl but also to keep her and to get her invested into threesome activities. It takes skill when the girlfriend introduces the new girl to OP and OP has to win the new gi… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/21 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Always Keep an Open MindI appreciate your thoughts on this post; I just don't agree with them. Whether OP is driving traffic to his website or not, OP has a shit ton of proof and the principles at the heart of the post are still true. If you look at How to Get Laid Like a Warlord (literally one of the most up voted and we'll-recommended posts on TRP), the author of that post was also driving traffic to his website or ebook. The post is telling you to be open-minded and you're doing the opposite. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/21 01:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle the "I have a boyfriend" shit test/objection?Yeah absolutely agreed my man. Just wondering if there is a way bypass that defense mechanism but it looks like the general consensus is either fix my approach or leave it alone and move on. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle the "I have a boyfriend" shit test/objection?Fair Ill try to switch it up | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle the "I have a boyfriend" shit test/objection?Agreed still trying to experiment with direct and indirect openers during daygame. For the past week, I've been going in with a really direct opener. I'll try to switch it up a bit | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 09:34 PM |
| -3 | How do you handle the "I have a boyfriend" shit test/objection?Agreed. I have some ideas to change up my approach. I'm coming in direct during daygame and I'm a tall and fit dude. That might be too intimidating for them | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 06:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle the "I have a boyfriend" shit test/objection?Good response. I'll try using this more often but I think like what the other commenters and you mentioned, just accept it and move on. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 05:13 PM |
| -5 | How do you handle the "I have a boyfriend" shit test/objection?How come though? I mean I feel like I shouldn't immediately give up after hearing that especially if it's a shit test. At the same time, I'm not trying to harass her so I'd probably give it another 1-2 reasonable pushes. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 04:56 PM |
| 2 | A Woman Making You Wait for Sex - Exception?LMR is always a hassle but fun at the same time. Covid19 is just a new version of LMR that I have yet to figure out fully. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | A Woman Making You Wait for Sex - Exception?Sounds like a plan. Good advice | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 08:01 PM |
| 2 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksTrust but verify. Everyone on TRP ALWAYS suggests to drop the girl even when the slightest red flag comes up. I personally don't recommend dropping her just yet. Start talking to other girls in the meantime and keep your LTR on the backburner. Again, trust but verify. Why drop a 6 month long relationship based on interpretations of her behaviour? The interpretations might be extremely accurate but you gotta dig deeper. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 11:14 AM |
| 1 | If she broke up with me why did she want to have 1 last time sex?"Gonna wait for her to reach out again" I know you're fucking other girls but it seems like you got her on a pedestal. You're already thinking about revenge fantasies, what you're going to say and how she's going to get it when she comes back. Take her off the pedestal my man. Be more productive instead of daydreaming if she's thinking about you. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Inviting myself over a girls place for first date?It actually works. I have lots of friends who have used covid and winter as an excuse to immediately go back to her place. Times have changed; girls are usually more horny for a more physical interaction too. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/21 09:39 AM |
| 2 | There’s A Hidden Supply of Hot Girls All Around You that No One Else is Gaming EffectivelyFlakes or not, that's still two #s closed. 2 #s closed in a span of an hour + or whatever. Online game has decent for me lately but even still, 2 numbers in a hour is still higher than the average PUA's conversation rate online, especially considering the higher amount of competition. In addition to this, exercising the daygame muscle is still always good. As for where to meet them, I'd say high traffic or higher end grocery stores would be a good place to start. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/21 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Quick Fitness question. How do I get my body to look more aesthetically cut?I think I know exactly what you mean. I've seen that for my buddy and his abs looked really morphed in a weird way. I suspect I'll be the same because I hardly work on abs. I'll keep lowering my BF% for now though. Good idea on posting pics - I'll definitely do that | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Quick Fitness question. How do I get my body to look more aesthetically cut?Perfect, that's what I've been doing lately. Just a lean cut for lower body fat % | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Worth it to pursue a girl from a few years ago?Fair enough. Better to start fresh | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 11:00 PM |
| 9 | The play of alcohol, nicotine, and drugs in gameEveryone has tackled the most common substance (alcohol) and for the most part, they're right. That being said, I've noticed that having coke and doing with girls will typically get them to party with you more. I personally do not do hard drugs nor am I advocating them but if you already like doing coke etc., doing with girls will definitely boost your game. I have friends who do coke and they use it to attract hot clubby girls. Here's a second "that being said", these guys' game, frame, income,… | /r/seduction | 22/12/20 06:16 AM |
| 3 | Broke up with ny LTR and it's making me feel like shitKeep improving yourself, whether it's muscles, fashion, income etc. She will always say something along the lines of "don't go to the gym etc" and "I like the way you are" because she's scared of losing you. She's scared your value will outgrow hers and that you'll move on. Now that you've recognized the problem, the solution is to keep improving yourself but also give her that emotional reassurance from time to time. Make sure you dick her down good as well; that way, she's also sexually reassu… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 09:32 PM |
| 48 | Broke up with ny LTR and it's making me feel like shitAll signs point to her cheating. Even if she didn't cheat, her attraction to you has significantly dropped, which is all the more reason to talk to other girls; you did a good job dropping her when you did. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 06:42 AM |
| 1 | How do I not get bored of fucking the same girl?I agree with this. There's only been a handful of seriously hot women I've slept with and the relationship deteriorated long in a month or two due to other circumstances. The relationship never lasted long enough to see if I would get bored or not so I definitely want to experiment more with this. I have fucked average to cute looking girls; all of whom are freaks in bed in their own way but I've always managed to get bored. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 06:49 PM |
| 1 | How do I not get bored of fucking the same girl?Yeah good point - I've done that twice and the relationship deteriorated in time. Lesson learned though | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 03:39 AM |
| 0 | How do I not get bored of fucking the same girl?Good analogy. I think my current goal is to find a girlfriend who is down for threesomes, orgies etc. I have found girls like that before and I am versed in the swinger community. I feel like that would be a good way to keep it fresh; continually finding new couples to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 07:11 PM |
| 3 | She started complaining in text before we met for a first date (advice)Came here to say this. Agreed - a lot of the naysayers here don't have any skin in the game and they say everything a woman does is a red flag. Also, agreed with how some things causing her to be late might be outside of her control. Better to play it out and reschedule if needed; talk to her in person and then re-decide if things are really indeed a red flag. Worst case scenario, whether OP reschedules with her or stops talking to her, OP should have abundance and talk to other girls. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 01:30 AM |
| 11 | Banging girls from dating apps while living with parentsTell them the truth. You're living at home with parents to save money until you can move out. This is the dead honest truth; if the girls are reasonably financially smart people, they'll know that it's actually a smart move to do that in this economy. I live in Toronto and Toronto is widely known to be incredibly expensive to live in. Another good reason to live with your parents is Covid19. I know a lot of people who hate living by themselves alone in true isolation so it's totally understandab… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 02:51 PM |
| 1 | How often should you yourself be setting up dates with a girl?This is a perfect spot on analysis of whats been happening and how to remedy the situation for this girl and previous girls. Getting stuck in a routine is an excitement killer. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | How often should you yourself be setting up dates with a girl?Those are some pretty interesting points. So far from what I can recall, it doesn't seem like she's been resisting certain advances or choices. She's been pretty go with the flow or even going out of her way to follow through with these date plans. Thanks for the insight - I'll definitely keep that in mind now and in the future. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Powertalk and GameYeah agreed. He has that kind of logical mindset where he breaks down every subtle social behaviour and specific word a girl does/says like it has a hidden meaning. It's intense but he is getting good results. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Powertalk and GameThanks for the feedback. My buddy and I aren't new to gaming women though. We're both decently experienced; I just can't understand if his level of game is too advanced or it's just socially awkward style of gaming. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/20 06:19 PM |
| 1 | How do you win arguments with a LTR over miscommunication?Wow we have the same humour. That is legit something I would say to girls just as a joke. I'm not sure if I believe in texting is for logistics only. I used to before but it's fun flirting with girls via text. It's just shitty they're just so obviously insecure in themselves so that they'll misinterpret a joke as a personal attack. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Any ideas how do I respond to this easy shit test?Glad to know my dick is still on your mind. If I play the game, I'm going to end up beating you. Just turn it into a joke. Saying the latex thing kinda sounds like you're salty and not a good way to diffuse the shit test. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 05:44 AM |
| 0 | What is it like being cheated on? Any stories?How about just doing both? I mean still vet her accordingly when you do meet a cool girl. LTR her if you want but continue to have options available. LTRing a girl is fine in my opinion; marriage, however, is something entirely different and I don't advocate that. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Would this raise my SMVBro either to pursue her and continue texting her or move onto other girls. Better yet, work on yourself more and read, workout etc. People are telling you to read the sidebar again because you're doubting yourself over one girl. Stop overthinking things and commit to yourself to what you want to do. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 09:48 PM |
| 0 | On the need to test and challenge your woman, at all stages in a relationship.How about girls with past drug abuse and suicide scars? I happened to catch her at a better time where this was in her past and now she's further along in her high status career. Healthy lifestyle so far in terms of gym, family, and eating. She still hangs around her druggie friends though despite not doing drugs to my knowledge. Been dating her for about a month so this girl could easily have more red flags. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/20 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Grass is always greener on the other side. How to know when to act on it?I like that analogy. It really seems like she's what I'm looking for in a girl minus the looks. Personality, loyal, sense of humour etc., cute but not head turning hot. I'm trying to get her to lift more but it's a struggle. If I had to be real honest with myself, I'm not sure if I want to give up something good for something potentially better. In every relationship I've been in, I've always had this greener grass dilemma, which caused me to drop them prematurely. How do I get rid of this menta… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/19 11:13 PM |
| 1 | How to Handle a Difficult Girl Over Text - Nightgame Number LR (Screenshots start to finish)Haven't watched the video yet but just based on your take aways, it sounds practical. Legit saving the post so don't delete it | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | What is TRP's thoughts on gaming at a sex club?That guy sounds like a dick with a big ass ego. I've closed a few girls from munches before but I think the goal for me would be to get access to those kind of after parties. While we're on the topic and seems like you got a ton of experience, how would you convert a vanilla girl into the lifestyle of swinging? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 09:54 PM |
| 2 | What is TRP's thoughts on gaming at a sex club?Major respect - thanks for the detailed analysis. Thats what I was originally thinking too ; single guys have almost zero value. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | What is TRP's thoughts on gaming at a sex club?Hey do you know the name of the post? Just spent like 5 whole minutes scrolling through all his submitted posts. I agree with your sex club inner workings. I had a foursome this past weekend and a 5some a few days ago but that was only because I brought a girl with me to the club. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 06:50 PM |
| 171 | Despite her leaving, she said it herselfKeep her on the back burner. Far far back. - Attraction has an expiration date - Keep talking to other girls | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 11:06 PM |
| 0 | Went on the best date ever--she has a boyfriend.Read the post late but fuck all the guys saying "move on". They are right to a degree but as long as she sees you as higher value than her current bf, she will branch swing to you. The whole argument around "would you want a girl who would cheat" is incredibly flawed; this is simply because all girls would cheat if a high value man went on a date with them. Imagine this: she has a boyfriend but she somehow wins a date with Zac Efron. Given the opportunity, 99% of girls would cheat and fuck Zac E… | /r/seduction | 02/07/19 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Escorts TipsI do alright with ladies. I get why you might perceive me that way though. I just haven't been with a 9 and wondering what I'm missing out on. I do appreciate the advice with sugar baby. I'm a no go with that. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Escorts TipsAgreed - that's one of my heavy preferences too. I've fucked 5s who have begged me before and while that is fun, the physical appeal just isnt there. As for the escort, psychologically, I'm going to keep thinking she's faking it. Sounds dumb but any tips to get around this? I mean I definitely want to fuck a model but I'm thinking if I build some rapport at least first, it'll be better. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 06:25 PM |
| 1 | How do I pick up milfs?Be direct and know how to pass shit and comfort tests. Kino goes a long way too. Age shit tests will inevitably come at you. Be prepared to deflect them. Remember that the more shit tests you get the more she's actually attracted to you. Milfs and women in general do not shit test ugly men. | /r/seduction | 21/05/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | How to proposition a threesome to a plate?Yeah never MMF. Always two girls and me OR two straight couples swapping. That being said, all of these activities I just mentioned were never planned out; they were strokes of luck, which was why I'm asking this question now. Update: I asked Lauren after post-coitus and she's decently interested. I asked her to dress like a school girls and she happily did it so I think she's fairly submissive to me now and thus open to more kinky activities like a threesome. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Are sex clubs and bdsm clubs filled with low SMV men and women?Had to make a second comment here. It makes sense though in terms of age demographics. People don't really discover their sexuality and kinks until they're older and feel less pressured by society. In other words, the sex clubs are usually filled with older people and therefore less SMV on average because the younger generations haven't really felt the need or comfort to explore their kinks yet. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Are sex clubs and bdsm clubs filled with low SMV men and women?I've been to a few and depending on the club and city, there are susprisingly decent-mid high girls there. You can tell based on the price cover entry of the club. You really need to do your research on what days/nights to go and what time. Daytime is vastly different than night time in terms SMV demographics. Here's a quick tip: Go to event where they only allow couples in and no single males. At these events, you'll typically find more attractive couples because they themselves don't want to b… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Plates situation with cuck boyfriend is making me a little uneasy . NEXT ?Personally, I'd keep smashing. If it's not you, it'll be some other dude. Also, if you think about it, you'll come across other similar girls like this sooner or later. I'd say it's up to your morals; no judgment if you decide to drop her. The other potential reason you might consider dropping her is if the beta dude finally snaps and starts going psycho trigger happy; unlikely but depending on the part of world you're in, it might happen. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 10:03 PM |
| 1 | How to proposition a threesome to a plate?Yeah I think im going to do that - describe Michelle as an old friend who is bi and is into Asian girls. She'll probably get the hint im trying to set up the threesome but we'll see what happens. I do like the concept of incepting the idea into her to make her think it's her idea or Michelle's idea! | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How to proposition a threesome to a plate?Agreed - having a list of boundaries should be mentioned so all parties are comfortable and have fun. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 05:12 PM |
| 4 | How do you find out a woman's relationship status?Agreed - came here to say this. Girls will cheat if you are higher value than their current partner. | /r/seduction | 26/03/19 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Why does every girl ever say that their ex boyfriend/current boyfriend is a physically abusive stalker who threatens them & beats the shit out of them?Pm'd you | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Why does every girl ever say that their ex boyfriend/current boyfriend is a physically abusive stalker who threatens them & beats the shit out of them?I'm from Toronto and I've come across this too. I've only encountered a handful of girls who say shit like that. As soon as they say it, I just ignore her and switch topics. They usually get the hint and drop it. Overall, it seems like they just want to rationalize (hamster) their poor choices in the past. They're bringing it up now out of guilt or as a desperate ploy for attention. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 02:29 AM |
| 67 | How did you train yourself to see women as child-like?I'm not sure if this applies or not but I read How to Win Friends and Influence People and found that some of the book's principles could relate to treating women like children. For example, always positive reinforcement, being enthusiastic, saying the girl's name multiple times throughout the conversation, compliment and then criticize (aka push pull) and maybe being genuinely interested in her. Sure these principles apply to all people but whenever I game, I emphasize these points and have fou… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I push my girl to diet and workout more consistently?100% agreed. Mistakes were made - Competition anxiety is gone so she doesn't really have a good motivator to workout more. Don't try to change people. You can only change yourself. I like that; I remember reading that in the Rational Male. I think I'll continue gaming other girls on the side | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 07:06 PM |
| 2 | How does one get good in bed?Seems like the rest of the guys here have good points. You should read Daniel Rose's Sex God Method book. May be wrong but I think it's one of the recommended books in the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 04:08 AM |
| 1 | How do I push my girl to diet and workout more consistently?Agreed, a breaking point may be coming soon considering how I've been increasingly mentioning it more. I'm trying to layer it with positive reinforcement to soften the blow. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 03:59 AM |
| 1 | How does game work for swinger couples?Agreed. I think next time, I'll let my FWB handle all the arrangements unless the couple specifically took a liking to me. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 07:36 PM |
| 2 | How does game work for swinger couples?Seems like the girls hit it off a lot better. I was just along for the ride more or less. That being said, I would assume my text game is better but you're right my FWB shouldve texted the couple. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | How does game work for swinger couples?Sounds gooood. If they're actually down to fuck, they'll make it easy for me; I like that. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Do girls tell their friends when they fuck a guy or keep it secret?There's a women's TRP subreddit in the sidebar I think. If you want to take a glance and learn a bit more about us from a female perspective, I'd suggest looking into that sub. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Do girls tell their friends when they fuck a guy or keep it secret?That sounds kinda harsh. You know there is a women's TRP subreddit right? I don't go on that sub much but I think it's essentially about helping women better serve their alpha male partners in achieving their missions. I may be wrong but I think it'd be better to direct her to that subreddit than to tell her she doesn't belong. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Where is the middle ground between a high quality girl not giving away sex too easily and a girl who is making you wait for sex?Agreed - just reread Iron Rule #3. Had her on a pedestal; going to drop her if the same pattern continues next time I see her. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Where is the middle ground between a high quality girl not giving away sex too easily and a girl who is making you wait for sex?I too am Chinese. I know for a fact western Asian girls are typically more slutty and this particular girl was likely a covert slut but putting her on a pedestal (mistakes were made) led me to act otherwise. As for the higher motive for plausible deniability, I'm well aware of this. In fact, I factored that into my pedestal cognitive dissonance, which caused me to believe I should build more rapport first. A little shitty that I'll probably have to drop her if things continue as they are now. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Where is the middle ground between a high quality girl not giving away sex too easily and a girl who is making you wait for sex?Saved - That was a solid and much needed read. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Where is the middle ground between a high quality girl not giving away sex too easily and a girl who is making you wait for sex?You're doing it wrong. Get the kissing going, then YOU pull away. Don't push for anything, make her want more and make her come for it. That's the secret to not only getting laid, but also not getting metooed. Agreed. Also, her making you wait doesn't make her high quality. It makes you low(er) quality in her eyes. If you were a celebrity, she wouldn't have waited... I'm pretty sure I had her on a pedestal. It's a combination of me not leading her to sex properly and her making me wait (via her … | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Where is the middle ground between a high quality girl not giving away sex too easily and a girl who is making you wait for sex?Just reread the iron rule of Rollo Tomassi and you're right; She wouldn't wait for Chad. That being said, I guess my next move here is to lead her to sex and if she tells me to wait, I'll soft next her? For the record, even though we haven't had sex yet (I know), she does seem to have LTR qualities. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 01:26 PM |
| 1 | What are some awesome first dates?It hasn't been said yet but if you have good logistics, just invite her over to your place. I've had first dates where she came to my place on the first date. She'd get a quick tour where I was still getting ready. We'd go to a nearby bar and come back to my place after. If they come over to your place at any point in the date even in the beginning, she's essentially signalling to you that she's DTF. | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 08:54 PM |
| 2 | What are some awesome first dates?This works especially well if you're German and she's Jewish. It'll be a first date to remember and tell the kids in the future. | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 08:51 PM |
| 3 | What are some awesome first dates?Do a physical activity together like pool (billiards) or some other activity where mutual kino is socially acceptable like maybe going to the park and pushing her on the swing set. | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 08:50 PM |
| 7 | Women need to ask men out moreThen the guys who aren't good at reading social cues need to get better. Even if the girl was more direct, not being able to read social cues is pretty detrimental in a relationship. I agree with you in the sense that women being more direct would be more fun but this is idealistic thinking. This is like wishing for life to be easier instead of developing the skills and attitude to be more successful in life. In other words, if you truly want women to ask for your number without your influence, … | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 03:16 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with women who give short responses even after initiating the conversation themselvesThat makes a lot of sense actually. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 07:26 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with women who give short responses even after initiating the conversation themselvesHow much truth is there in this? For a first date, I can understand why texting should only be used for logistics but I've been on about 3 dates with one girl and I feel like I could be bantering more via text. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Where do you recommend for me to solo travel to?You're absolutely right. It's a summer time trip. I'm going to keep this short in terms of my interests: bars & clubs partying beaches (and beach sports like volleyball) lifting EDM Festivals I am a bit of a foodie. I actively try new foods and different cuisines. I even frequently binge food shows like Hell's Kitchen Board games/video games As of right now, I think my plan is either just go to a hostel, make friends and explore a city during both the day (shopping, food, maybe some museums etc.… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Where do you recommend for me to solo travel to?To be honest, I've never really thought about travelling until very recently. It was out of my comfort zone and I'm trying to explore it more now. I'd say my list right now are just the typical travel places like Cuba, London, Hawaii, and Japan; these places seem very social-centric in terms of partying or beaches. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I transition to kissing/makeouts quicker?Sounds fucking good - I've never even thought o just saying "are you going to kiss me or not" (obviously with a strong flirty foundation first). This is actually golden advice an what I was looking for. I was at a club earlier this weekend and spent an hour with this girl just flirting but only got a kiss on the cheek because her friends wanted to go home. Kinda lame results I know; I'm 100% sure I could've closed a lot more and in a quicker time had I known what I know now. EDIT: Geez just real… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Peacocking: What it is and how it can work for youWhat are your thoughts on bowties? Thinking about just wearing one to bars and clubs | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Hitting on girls at the gymI'm a believer of this law of power too but for argument sake and to play devil's advocate here, where is the line between protecting your reputation for acting too "out of the norm" and protecting your reputation for not acting "out of the norm" enough? I mean it seems like OP got real results not just with girls, but also with self-confidence, skills in game etc. Where is the line that "protecting your reputation" becomes cognitive disonnance? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Gaming at the gymJust reinitiate conversation. It's super clear when you're actively avoiding them or staring at them from afar. Game them as per usual | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Gaming at the gymDon't make friends just with girls. Make friends with other fit dudes; they'll bring introduce you to other girls and guys Buff dudes love talking about working out and everyone loves attention/appreciation Ask people to spot you and start up a convo Find something you genuinely appreciate about them and tell them (tattoos, underarmor shirts, their gains, the fact they lift so much etc. is a good start) | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 11:43 PM |
| 4 | Gaming at the gymGaming at the gym is a lot like gaming off of Tinder. It shouldn't be your primary source of women (unless you're very physically attractive). Gaming at the gym is a long but fun investment. Like people said, people come here to work out. That being said, build a social circle and start friendzoning girls in the sense you're still gaming them but you're not chasing after them. You're at the gym to work out anyways; just make friends along the way. Slowly but surely you'll get a lot of social pro… | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 11:40 PM |
| 1 | What was that thing that you had a hard time getting?This is something I'm trying to work on now, particularly asking to meet them first after a successful first date, always being available as well as trying to escalate her up the ranks. My question is where is the balance between being a leader and initiating dates/sex etc. and being less emotionally invested and letting her hit you up? | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 03:18 AM |
| 4 | To the guys who think that looks are everything...Income Looks Fitness Game (Understanding of male/female sexual strategy) Hygiene Fashion (clothes) Social Circle Every one of these factors are important. For those that say one of these is not important, then theyre lying to themselves. Improve yourself in at least one and your overall sexual market value (SMV) will increase, which will get you higher quality women, higher odds of success, and a greater amount of women. For example, you could be ugly as fuck with zero game but still be banging … | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 06:32 AM |
| 1 | GF goes radio silent for 3 days. Claims she was sick and on her period. Should I demote?That's actually a really good point I didn't even think of, considering how she isn't super close with her mom. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 04:40 AM |
| 3 | GF goes radio silent for 3 days. Claims she was sick and on her period. Should I demote?Agreed. I'm in her frame. It sucks and frankly I'm disappointed she's blatantly lying to my face. I've hit girls in general with soft nexts before but not necessarily a girlfriend. Would I just ignore her the next couple of days, work on myself, and then reconsider the LTR when she inevitably reinitiates conversation? | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 05:00 AM |
| 2 | GF goes radio silent for 3 days. Claims she was sick and on her period. Should I demote?When a girl soft nexts me, I usually move onto the next girl until she reinitiates contact. After that, I reconsider if I want to move on with that girl. I haven't had a girlfriend who has soft nexted me before. I'm assuming I'd take the same steps as I would with any other girl? | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 04:55 AM |
| 9 | Finally: the Red Pill disillusionment with women. How do I go about finding a personal MISSION?I know a lot of people here including OP himself in this very post say that don't make your mission about pursuing girls but lately, I've been finding that intersexual dynamics (i.e. all the male/female sexual strategies we talk about on this sub) extremely intrigue me. Chasing after girls or vice versa is really fun but knowing how they really communicate is something I've grown to be passionate about. How could I make this part of my mission if at all? | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 07:29 PM |
| -3 | Girl I just started dating uses "white male" or "old white male" as pejoratives when talking about her boss, politicians, or any other authority figure she dislikes...Pussy is pussy. I agree with you. It doesn't make a lot of sense to drop a plate over politics. People are worried about cheating and divorce rape but if she's strictly a plate, then there's no reason to be stressing over this. As for the false rape allegations, every woman is capable of this. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 08:00 AM |
| 3 | Do you cheat in an LTR?Something along the lines of having trust in a relationship. If you can't be an adult and trust me, this isnt going to work out. Work some dread game in there. Dont't argue with her; just state it as a fact. If possible, go do your own thing and let her brain hamster (i.e. dread losing you) so she'll reconsider on her own. If she doesn't back off, then you have a girl who doesnt really trust you. What you do next is up to you | /r/askTRP | 28/01/18 09:16 PM |
| 1 | How to respark sexual attractionJust pretend it didn't happen and start fresh. If she mentions your past behaviour, lightly brush it off and quickly switch topics. Do NOT use self-deprecating humor as a fix; people will respect you less for that. For example, some people say "sometimes I'm really shy around hot girls". Don't do this...you're saying it as a joke but men and women will realize it's the truth and take it as a real weakness, thus thinking less of you. | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 08:57 PM |
| 3 | What do reply back when a girl asks "What do you do for work/living?"If it's at a bar or club, I'll say something sexual and/or funny but somewhat plausible like a door to door dildo salesman. Hold frame and turn it into an inside joke with her. You're both having fun with it. Also, her mind will keep hamstering if you're telling the truth or not. Either way, not telling her the truth will keep her guessing and intrigued. If you end up banging her, feel free to tell her your real job because at this point, itll be weird if you keep hiding it. Overall, my point is… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/18 06:57 AM |
| 2 | But WHY would she do this?!Once a cheater, always a cheater. Stop trying to win her back. She disrespected you in one of the worst way. Start fresh and move on | /r/askTRP | 14/01/18 10:22 PM |
| -1 | Becoming the Captain of a Group ConversationNot every single conversation, just ones where I'm trying to game a hot girl or I myself am genuinely interested in a certain sexual topic. For example, I like talking to people about online dating and how it's affected human interaction. It's sexual in nature but not necessarily about fucking. Also, I know women much prefer sexual conversations over small talk. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Hotness vs. PersonalityBe sexual in the very beginning. Sexual conversation, jokes, actions. This is how I am naturally so it works well with me Laser eye contact Hide your provider traits. Don''t show off your money, job, car etc. Hold frame and passing shit tests Once you've set the precedent of being a lover, you can slowly show your provider side That being said, you can never go from provider into lover | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Finally broke up with LTR but we still live together — what to do next?Bro, I'm sure you're a cool dude especially because you follow TRP. That being said, take a hint when literally every comment here is telling you they're looking out for YOUR best interests. Obviously, they're biased but there is truth in their words. I understand you don't want to be make another person homeless but she'll find a way to make it work. If she can't find a way to live elsewhere, she wouldn't make a good roommate either. She's not an idiot; she'll find a way to get housing somehow.… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 12:28 AM |
| 5 | Girlfriend of 5 months gets drunk at my holiday party tonight....Hey first off complete respect for your posts here and fuck that other jealous guy. Off topic question: what makes you not want to go to office holiday parties anymore? I went to one last night for the first time (my first corporate job). | /r/askTRP | 16/12/17 06:14 PM |
| 7 | Make a woman squirt/gush during sexI know the finger technique well. I've made 80% of the girls I've been with (since learning it) squirt. All girls are capable of squirting. Like you, I dont give a fuck what it is; it's hot as fuck. Dick Technique I read this in another trp guide so I'm just paraphrasing here. Bring the girl to the corner of the bed missionary style. Put both of her legs on your respective shoulders. Proceed to fuck her as per usual but push the legs down and try to make your dick bounce while going in and out (… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 12:17 AM |
| 6 | What went wrong here? Really bummed because this girl was absolutely gorgeousPersonally, I'd start by making a new reddit account. You might think it's too big of a hassle but youre seeing these couple of negative words almost every day. It'd be better to have an username that motivates you and pumps you up. This is the same reason why people have vision/dream boards. It's a constant reminder of what you want to become or have. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 04:38 AM |
| 4 | What went wrong here? Really bummed because this girl was absolutely gorgeousOne short inside joke and straight to logistics. On a separate topic, whats with your reddit username? High value men with high confidence don't self-deprecate. Believe in yourself; this username is pretty toxic even if there's hidden meaning I'm missing. In your defense and to be fair, mine is pretty bad as well just realized. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Is club game worth it for beginners?Honestly, you're both right. Mark Manson mentioned it in Models. It's a real paradox. You shouldnt go out with the intentions to get girls but to have fun instead (for the reasons he listed above). However, like you said, girls dont just fall into your laps some time when you focus solely on having fun. In other words, you cant have one without the other. That being said, go in with low expectations, have fun, and go talk to girls. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 11:52 PM |
| 6 | "Why go further when I'm already turned on"Why are you doing long distance? Get a girl(s) in your city. Youre wasting time over phone sex when you can have the real thing. | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 03:41 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend disclosed to me that before I started dating her she didn’t find me attractive. Once I started gaming her she realized that everyone else is missing out.I've used the pressure flip a few times in groups (not so much women) when someone would try to humiliate me etc. You pretty much say "you make the whole group feel awkward now because of your XYZ behaviour." Act like you're speaking on behalf of the group and slowly the rest of the group will side with you against the other person. As for nuclear, correct me if I'm wrong but you just call out a girl's misbehaviour and if she doesn't comply, you just leave her. An ultimatum doesn't sound like th… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 03:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Out of LTR with Crazy Ex, lifting the veil, and F-close first date x 2- Thankful for TRP Pt. 1Do you have a picture to illustrate what a "guy who will fuck you right, not a husband" looks like? I've been lifting a lot more and I'm stàrting to extremely like fitted basic color v neck shirts. Aside from that, I wear OCBDs and chino pants. To top it off, I wear either black chuck taylors or brown dress shoes. There's a clothes guide post in TRP I've been following but just wondering if I can do anything more. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Woman was twerking on meBe that as it may, my points are still valid. They showed signs of interest in you. | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 11:33 PM |
| 4 | Woman was twerking on meI'm glad youre doing game but I actually stopped reading when you said youre 33 and unfuckable. Age doesnt mean shit and this self-defeating belief of being unfuckable is just absolute bullshit. Get rid of your toxic mentality and get over your insecurities. Your first couple words in your post is self-deprecating; probably because you want to lower our expectations of you so you feel less judged. Fuck that! Never self-deprecate. Reflection on your self is always good but not like this. | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Women intentionally shit test men to understand if he's a solid partner, which is caused by an abundance mindset, but how do we do the same?Sexualize the conversation early and often. This will screen out girls who aren't sexually attracted to you. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 09:07 PM |
| 3 | My night out with a "nice guy"Ignore Ztak07. It's honestly up to you with how much value he brings to your life. It never hurts to have more friends but at the same time, the more you hang around the nice guy, the more he'll eventually influence your behaviour. I may be wrong but I think being more selective with your friends is a great way to improve; after all, you are the average of your 5 closest friends. | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 08:35 PM |
| 10 | How detrimental is seeing hookers? (situation inside)One way or another, you're paying for sex. Even all these PUAs are paying for sex with time, money for bars/clubs, and other expenses. Escorts are arguably cleaner than random girls at the bar too. Is banging escorts bad?...No. In fact, there are many wealthy men who bang escorts so they dont have to deal with the bullshit that comes along with random girls at the bar. My suggestion: Go and improve yourself through lifting, social hobbies, and game. Keep going to escorts if you want to and if yo… | /r/seduction | 21/10/17 02:12 PM |
| 2 | SHY INTROVERT GUY DAYGAME THAT GETS RESULTS (+infield)Clickbait titles for game's largest customer demographic (shy introverts). | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 07:48 PM |
| 6 | How do I tell a girl I want to be her boyfriend.Lol what...she initiated on you so you already want to be her boyfriend. She hasnt worked for it yet; you're going to give her commitment for free. She'll respect you a whole lot less if she doesnt work for it and feel like she's achieved it. In addition, you havent even had sex yet. Bro plate her first and then consider if shes gf material. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 06:25 AM |
| 0 | Unique shit test help.Haha I only like girls named (insert her name) with (insert traits about herself). Overall, you are over thinking it; no need to stress over whether she actually cares if you want to date Koreans or not. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 05:00 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread September 20I've never solo travelled before. TRP has helped me be more socially outgoing so I definitely want to meet cool new people and change my perspectives on life if possible. Where do you guys suggest going to get a mix of partying, meeting cool people, adventure and maybe gaming girls? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Expressing sexual interestHad the same issue. Search up lover versus provider frame. It's always better to be the lover. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl says she doesn't kiss on the first date. Good sign or Red Flag?Honestly I thought I was red pill by being aware but I've been slacking on reading and applying the principles in my life. Reading the iron rule you mentioned pumps me up to restart. As for that realization, it is indeed a hard truth. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Girl says she doesn't kiss on the first date. Good sign or Red Flag?Agreed. When the rejection happened, I had the same thought of her and Chad. I shouldve just tried to escalate for a kiss again later into the date or dropped her. For now, I'm going to soft next her. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 01:52 AM |
| 3 | Girl says she doesn't kiss on the first date. Good sign or Red Flag?You're right; I should've tried to escalate for a kiss again later after the rejection. The thought of she would kiss Chad on the first date crossed my mind at that moment and I gradually broke frame to a degree. Persistence is definitely a sticking point I've been trying to work on. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Simple Question: Gym or Go out to game?I understand what you mean and you're right I do make excuses. However, I had some surgery done among other legitimate things stopping me from going in those weeks; I just didnt want to risk anything. I mean I definitely could've done some light exercise but just trying to follow the doctor's advice. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Simple Question: Gym or Go out to game?Going to try and do both but I'll prioritize on getting the full workout. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls love pop singers with beta male blue-pilled lyrics like Shawn Mendes?Might be wrong but I think Outkast's Hey Ya song is good example of what you're talking about. Like you said, people just like the catchy chorus and melody; Andre 3000 even calls them out on not listening to the lyrics. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/17 09:01 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when some guy(s) actively tries to push you out of a set?Yeah I've rarely come across this (i.e. guys shit testing me too), which was why I wasn't sure how to react. You're absolutely right; I shouldve teased them back or made a joke about the whole situation. In any case, I shouldn't have let them get under my skin and should've reframed it so they looked silly instead. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 07:55 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when some guy(s) actively tries to push you out of a set?Agreed. At that moment, my frame was pretty bad and I immediately ejected instead of saying something witty to tease them back. I should've held frame and remained stoic. I'm a pretty big and tall guy but I've always frowned upon guys who start random fights over girls at the bar/club. Like you said, a potential fight over a girl just isn't worth it. Now that I think about it, I've both rarely come across situations like this and in the situations I have experienced this, I didn't do a great job… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 07:46 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when some guy(s) actively tries to push you out of a set?I'm 6'5" and weigh about 240lbs. I usually resolve conflict like this by making friends with everyone or just ignoring them but in this case, it's difficult to do either of those. I'm not the type to start fights especially when it'll just ruin the set. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 07:40 AM |
| 4 | Is 29 to old to start from nothing?There are 40+ year old men who still game 18-25 year old women. I think you're in the clear. There are a lot of people who will try to shame you (if you were to go for younger girls) but fuck them. Do what YOU want. Even in this community, there'll be people who'll shame "older" men for gaming younger girls. | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who have had/are in very successful LTRs, what RP principles would you emphasize the most?That's a really good tip. I was just about to ask the difference between the two but that tip summed it up pretty well. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 01:16 AM |
| 2 | How to invite a girl for a first date in your house?Both can work really if you frame it right. However, for your safety, I may be wrong but I think it's better to go for drinks first (at a nearby bar) and then back to your place. She might have a ton of red flag issues so it's always good to vet her first and see if she's cool. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/17 10:47 PM |
| 2 | What does 'frame' mean in seduction lingo?Agreed. I may be wrong but frame could be used interchangeably with masculinity or ability to lead. When a woman shit tests you, she is seeing how masculine you are. She wants to know whether you're just a pushover doormat or a confident man. The more masculine you are (i.e. your ability to hold frame), the more sexually attracted she will be to you. | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Where to start?Read books like Models by Mark Manson. Keep going to the gym Regularly post field reports or questions on r/seduction and r/askseddit for critique and feedback Engage in new interests and develop social circles with them. Preferably interests that have both male and females. Most importantly, just start approaching. It's going to suck at first but learning new knowledge without applying and practicing it is almost worthless. Rejection is the fastest and best method to learn | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Canadians on here, how good or bad of a city is Montreal for Asian guys?Race does matter but not nearly as much as you think. If your game is good, you can still pull girls. I'm Asian myself. It's easy to use race as cognitive disonnance for your lack of success or failure to approach. However, a strong frame and game will get you girls regardless of location. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 07:37 PM |
| 0 | How to start a conversation online?How to talk to women in general Don't talk to women online when you can't even hold a conversation with women in real life In fact, don't do online dating at all. Unless you are at least physically 9/10 hot, you are wasting your time I know what you're thinking; online dating will be a lot easier because X reasons. In reality, you're just doing online dating because rejection doesn't hurt as much as in real life Work on daygame and night game. Rejection is the best way to learn and improve. Ther… | /r/seduction | 09/06/17 08:13 AM |
| 1 | TorontoSame. PM me your number if youre interested in going out to game this weekend. | /r/seduction | 01/06/17 11:39 PM |
| 3 | TorontoI'm from Mississauga. I drive to Toronto a lot for friends and game. Dundas Square, Nathan Phillips Square, Eaton Centre, and Queen & Spadina are great places to daygame. There are also plenty of meetups and festivals in Toronto. As for specific bars and venues, I'm interested in knowing some myself. How old are you? I'm a bit rusty but I usually go out on the weekends and sometimes during the weekdays for game. | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Why does my sister and father both put me down for trying to work outI guess you can say the same about TRP. A close friend of mine and I both started on TRP at the same time. While I continued to adopt its core principles, he eventually became disillusioned with it and tries to criticize it. He's still a cool guy but it's unfortunate not being able to share insights with him anymore without further risking my reputation. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/17 08:09 PM |
| 2 | After clubbing for 6 months I still leave home empty handedCame here to say something like this. Know your strengths and weaknesses. Instead of being a well rounded person and compensating for your weaknesses, become a specialist in your strengths. By this I mean, pick a venue you are very comfortable with; you'll maximize your fun and success by doing so. For example, I'm a great conversationalist. I usually have a ton of fun talking to people at bars, lounges, networking events etc. Since I have a lot of fun, I can close a lot easier. However, at club… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/17 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date. Fingered a girl but she didn't reciprocate with a blowjob back. What to do?It happened unintentionally but basically yeah. I jokingly gamed her and it worked. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/17 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Went on a date. Fingered a girl but she didn't reciprocate with a blowjob back. What to do?I'm probably phrasing it wrong but point is I lead her to give me a blowjob and she refused. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/17 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date. Fingered a girl but she didn't reciprocate with a blowjob back. What to do?I'm proud of you. The first step is admitting you're a slut. I pretty much know your entire life now haha. You should PM me your snapchat handle and I'll show you who I am to judge. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/17 05:58 PM |
| 4 | Went on a date. Fingered a girl but she didn't reciprocate with a blowjob back. What to do?A little biased? You've admitted to being an emotionally damaged woman who bases her self-worth on the validation of men. Normally, I don't like to attack and discredit those who make counterarguments in a debate but you're basically a slut if you base your self-worth on the validation of men. You're the defending the actions of a girl who was talking like a slut and dressed like a slut. Because of those two things, it's reasonable for me to have the expectations that she would act like a slut. … | /r/askTRP | 13/05/17 04:50 PM |
| 0 | Went on a date. Fingered a girl but she didn't reciprocate with a blowjob back. What to do?When engaging in sexual activity, you should give what you expect. I agree with this to a degree. You're saying I didn't give her oral so she shouldn't have to give me oral. This is somewhat fair; however, I did make her cum so shouldn't she be fair and make me cum? She should be on her absolute best behavior after all at this stage in dating. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/17 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date. Fingered a girl but she didn't reciprocate with a blowjob back. What to do?That's an extremely good point. I'll go for a second date with her and try to make something happen. I've read about dread but I'm still new in applying it. If things don't turn out better, you're right in the sense that I should just drop her now. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/17 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date. Fingered a girl but she didn't reciprocate with a blowjob back. What to do?Agreed. Dread game was on my mind but like you said, she's a brand new plate so I was thinking it might not work on her. At that moment, I also sort of tricked myself into thinking blowjobs will come later in the future consider how I already set up a very sexual tone. In retrospect, I feel like I cognitive disonnanced myself into not pushing for dread. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/17 03:32 PM |
| 9 | Going to bars aloneWhen you go to the bar, people will sometimes ask you if you came by yourself. Obviously you wouldn't want to look like some creepy loner so a good way to frame the set(s) is by saying "I'm alone now. My friend just met a girl and took off with her." This will put a sexual undertone to your conversation, which you of course want If you're talking to girls, they'll compare themselves to this imaginary girl and wonder why no guy has talked to them or taken them home yet (basically stirring female … | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 06:38 AM |
| 1 | A couple of women keep teasing me about the fact I bulked up by trying talk about it when I'm around... how can I stop this?Even if it wasn't a compliment and it was a shit test, then that's even better! The more she shit tests you, the more she is actually interested in fucking you. You just need to pass the shit tests. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 10:30 AM |
| 1 | I'm Turning Women off in Conversation (bar)I can understand his point of view. If you think you're ready, go for it. Another point I want to add when sexualizing the conversation is that you need to be open-minded and non-judgemental. For example, if a girl told you she fantasizes about fucking Donald Trump, then encourage her or tease her on it. Positive reinforcement is almost always the way to go because if you were to say "that's fucking disgusting!" in a rude tone, she can become turned off and not willing to open up her sexual view… | /r/seduction | 09/05/17 05:32 AM |
| 1 | I'm Turning Women off in Conversation (bar)There'a a lot to go through but for starters, here are some 3 methods to sexualize. Flip the Script You flip the conversation to make it seem like she's flirting with you and not the other way around Light fun back and forth banter Ex. (Heavy mutual eye contact) Are you trying to seduce me with your eyes right now? Opinion on Sexual Topic Straightforward; ask her opinion on a sexual topic Topics can include: LGBQT community, fantasies, how you lost your virginity, what kind of men women like etc… | /r/seduction | 08/05/17 12:25 PM |
| 2 | I'm Turning Women off in Conversation (bar)Fuck what everyone else has said. I skimmed through the comments and only /u/extremelyinfamous is right. Kino escalation is extremely important Sexual conversation is what will arouse them, create attraction, and capture their attention Sexual conversation will work on EVERY girl, especially women with 504646 master degrees and work in highly prestigious jobs In other words, do NOT try to connect with them intellectually. This is boring to them and boring to you. Connect with them physically and… | /r/seduction | 08/05/17 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Redpill local groups? Anyone from San Diego?Agreed. Once people give you a label like that, you're almost stuck with it for life | /r/askTRP | 07/05/17 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Redpill local groups? Anyone from San Diego?I get that. I'm not trying to shit on your idea. I'm just saying be very careful because if your group gets exposed, your group will be seen as misogynists and everything else the media hate about TRP. If a PUA group gets exposed, it's not nearly as bad. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Redpill local groups? Anyone from San Diego?I met some of my closest friends through PUA meetups so I know exactly what you mean. Hmm yeah if ýou screen people the right way, then I can see it working out. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Redpill local groups? Anyone from San Diego?I was thinking about doing something like this but the first rule of TRP is Don't talk about TRP. It would be great to find like-minded individuals for professional networking, friends, wingmen etc.; however, establishing a group like this puts your reputation at risk, namely how people can now associate you (as opposed to just your reddit username) with TRP. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Date with Open Relationship CoupleAgreed. I just want to make the most of my turn with the girl. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/17 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Date with Open Relationship CoupleTread lightly I'm assuming I'm meeting both of them at the date. I'll be my usual self, become friends with the two, as well as maintaining a sexual frame. With regards to treading lightly, the only things I can think of are kino and maybe kissing her at some point in the date. Should I tone these actions down or just avoid these actions completely during the first date? Absolute bottom of your dating priorities I still go out to game on a weekly basis. I also have 2 plates but I'm thinking abou… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/17 05:22 AM |
| 6 | Questions about Thai womenDamn you kinda convinced me to go to Thailand now for a vacation trip. | /r/MGTOW | 26/04/17 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Send screenshots of a text pickupWhat's a text pickup? Like doing online game and getting her number or already having her number and scheduling a date? You: Hey this is your name here. Short inside joke you and the girl talked about. Girl: Haha blah blah blah You: When are you free this week? Girl: I'm free on X day. You: Awesome. Let's hang out at Time/place/day. Girl: Sure Radio Silence - | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 08:20 AM |
| 1 | When you're a spoiled brat who calls anyone that disagrees with you a nazi and reality hits you in the face.What does solipsism mean in terms of MGTOW and TRP? I see that term a lot and I don't quite get its meaning in a MGTOW/TRP context. | /r/MGTOW | 18/04/17 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Talking about hypergamy....So basicallg alpha fux with Superman and beta bux with Clark Kent. | /r/MGTOW | 15/04/17 05:49 PM |
| 1 | What makes a girl think "I want to fuck this guy." ?Oh definitely. I'm just saying different cultures rank factors differently I think. In other words, there isn't one particular quality that is at the top for every culture. They definitely do exist though... | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 08:20 AM |
| 1 | What makes a girl think "I want to fuck this guy." ?I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic or not. There are universal qualities men find attractive in women. Men are visual people, meaning across every culture, looks are a huge attractive quality. In other words, if you take one hot girl and present her to every race, the males will find her attractive. This is a proven fact. As for women, there are no definitive universal qualities for attractiveness across every culture but personally, I believe looks are a huge factor, especially in the Weste… | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 07:05 AM |
| 8 | What makes a girl think "I want to fuck this guy." ?First off, I just saw your name and I'm guessing you play dota. Respect if you do. Secondly, I completely agree with you. Dating advice from women is almost always dog shit. They literally do not know what they want. It has been proven in many psychological studies that women don't even know what arouses them. She said intelligence but in reality, all you have to do is give her the tingles and make her laugh; she will think you're intelligent as a result. Her ego will literally cause her to thin… | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 06:44 AM |
| 6 | Guys who had vasectomies. Did you regret it?I'm 24 and heavily considering a vasectomy. At this point in my life, I don't think it would be cost effective to freeze sperm because I'm not looking to settle down any time soon if at all. I really appreciate your opinions and advice because like most guys, I'm scared of accidently impregnating women, which makes sex much harder to truly appreciate. My only real concerns are the leg days you mentioned. How bad is it and how frequent is the minor pain? | /r/askTRP | 02/04/17 01:11 AM |
| 6 | Would a guy become hot if he went from super skinny to more lean and muscular?Bro relax yourself. You already know the answers to these questions. Stop asking them and go lift. At this point, you're just seeking attention. | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 10:47 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Guys Keep Good Contact With Everyone and Build Better Relationships/How Do You Express Your Sense of Humor Even If It's Weird?Then imagine the girl youre talking to is giving you a blowjob. This will make you smile. Also, if you sincerely believe in your mental image, it is more likely to happen because it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 10:17 PM |
| 3 | How Do You Guys Keep Good Contact With Everyone and Build Better Relationships/How Do You Express Your Sense of Humor Even If It's Weird?Agreed. "Be yourself" is crap advice; it's "advice" you give when you have no idea what to say on a given topic. That's why this particular statement is so commonly said by women when asked about advice on men. That being said, whenever people I don't like ask me for advice, I particularly give that Be Yourself advice. | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 08:42 PM |
| 4 | How Do You Guys Keep Good Contact With Everyone and Build Better Relationships/How Do You Express Your Sense of Humor Even If It's Weird?You should read the book, How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. It's a solid book with techniques to improve socializing with others and by that association, confidence, networking. For example, one of the techniques is to always be smiling. While this is extremely basic and can be often overlooked, people will see that you're extremely positive person; men and women are attracted to fun people. When you smile at others, most of the time, people will instinctively smile back … | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Sexual innuendoes and teasing - examples and principlesAgreed. Sexual innuendos are a great method to sexualize the conversation early and often. Having sexualized conversation very early in the set is extremely useful in gauging a woman's sexual interest in you. There are a lot of people commenting on how they don't want to be seen as a creep but being seen as a creep is actually a huge advantage in the right context. If you bring up sexual conversation right off the bat and they react negatively, you just saved a crap ton of time and can easily mo… | /r/seduction | 10/03/17 08:12 AM |
| 1 | AWALT - Asian EditionWhat were the skills you mastered? The only things I have going for me is height, decent game (for women and social life), and basic gains (i.e. lifting). I'm currently doing StrongLifts 5x5. Is it really necessary for me to read Starting Strength? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/17 06:57 AM |
| 0 | I was a bad boy, yet it didn't work, why so?Your thinking on the behaviour of a bad boy is wrong. Forget about your status in high school. Focus on your grades. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/17 11:10 AM |
| 1 | I impersonated a girl online dating for a week and I’m shocked at what I foundI did a lot of online game last year. I did meet a handful of ok looking (keyword being ok looking) women and even an ex-girlfriend of 8 months. However, the amount of time and energy I put into it was not proportionate to the results though. Also, just this year I learned that the top guys in online dating (who are very good looking, muscular etc.) consistently had women open them instead of the other way around. In other words, online dating is a joke; if you're in the top 20% of men, you will… | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 06:48 AM |
| 1 | I impersonated a girl online dating for a week and I’m shocked at what I foundDon't online game if you're average looking. Trust me; you will gain more experience, confidence, and numbers doing day & night game. It truly is unfortunate but this is a hard fact about online dating. | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 04:04 PM |
| 3 | I impersonated a girl online dating for a week and I’m shocked at what I foundHere's an unpopular opinion but something you should seriously consider. If you're average looking, don't do online dating. Go hard at daygame and night. I'm not trying to offend you but if you want to be successful in online dating, you NEED to be good looking, muscular etc. because no amount of sweet talking will beat the physical attraction that's crucial in online game. Since you're saying you are only average looking, don't waste time with online dating. However, that being said, it's not i… | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 04:00 PM |
| – | AWALT - Asian EditionSoon...got the height already; working on the gains and lifts | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 11:30 AM |
| 7 | I impersonated a girl online dating for a week and I’m shocked at what I foundWow. Ironically, I just spent a full hour trying to craft a personalized response to best explain myself. Overall, you're right. My photos/profile portray me to be more attractive than the average male so it's likely my openers matter less. /u/Drandran As for which type of opener is better (assuming our profiles and photos are exactly the same), I still think copy & paste "hey"s are better for the advantages I listed earlier because I know my photos will get my foot in the door. | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 12:43 PM |
| 22 | I impersonated a girl online dating for a week and I’m shocked at what I foundI disagree. Simple openers like "hey" are actually quite effective. I used to fiend online dating last year. I'd read their profiles and create openers unique to their profiles. Sometimes, I would have success but in most cases, the ladies would just look at my profile and not reply. This isn't susprising of course but it was exhausting on my end. By reading their profiles and crafting openers unique to each person, I realized not only was it time consuming but also needy that I was investing so… | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 08:43 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with higher SMV guys? Should I get away from them until I am on the same level.Agreed | /r/askTRP | 25/02/17 10:20 PM |
| – | If you are not the alpha in a social circle, are you therefore perceived as a beta orbiter?I'm actually quite happy I'm not in a female dominated social circle or the one with the alpha's gf. I know for the latter there is a crap ton of drama and power plays. I can't even imagine the amount of bullshit in the former. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/17 10:19 PM |
| 1 | If you are not the alpha in a social circle, are you therefore perceived as a beta orbiter?Think of Alpha and Beta as a sliding scale of dominance and attractiveness, not a binary set Agreed. Thanks for the solid explanation. That clears up a lot of things | /r/askTRP | 25/02/17 03:04 PM |
| – | How do you deal with higher SMV guys? Should I get away from them until I am on the same level.I agree with /u/brideboy. You should hang out with them. You will learn and gain a lot of advantages like: A better fashion sense Behaviour towards women and men Lifting tips Networking opportunities (i.e. parties and jobs) with girls and guys You'll feel salty and butthurt when they close girls and you don't but think of it as a period of pain before you gain. Also, take this into consideration for comparison. In all aspects of life (business, sports etc.), people sometimes will need mentors to… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/17 02:58 PM |
| 5 | Date went sour because I didn't pay for her drinksYou should stress a 50/50 split not just because you should not be buying her drinks anyways but also if you buy her drinks, she usually thinks you are expecting sex in return and thus there'll be a negative vibe for the rest of the date. Also, when it comes down to paying, frame the situation that she is poor and dependent as fuck. Say things like "Do you NEED me to pay for you?" or "I'll do you a favour. Drinks are on me" etc. This will sometimes cause her ego to be offended and offer to split… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/17 02:45 PM |
| 1 | How to quit video games and work on the life I want to have?Good idea. I just quit again last week but every time I "quit", I always leave a backdoor for myself (i.e. leaving steam account and friends list intact) to get in again. This time, i'm selling my steam account. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Is there a faster way to learn social calibration than cold approach?Talk to everyone (men & women). It's easy to make to new friends. In some cases, your new friends will give you benefits (i.e. free drinks or introducing you to their other friends). Either way, you get social proof. Find something you genuinely appreciate in a person and strike up a conversation. For example, I am personally into fashion even though I know very little. If I see someone rocking a dress, shirt or whatever very well, I'll compliment them on it and transition into a conversation if… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/17 11:52 AM |
| – | University Orientation Week - Experiences with the new girls and general advice?Make friends with everyone. Building a good social circle is crucial Consider joining a fraternity | /r/askTRP | 16/02/17 10:51 AM |
| – | Is there a faster way to learn social calibration than cold approach?There are other methods but none of them are as fast as cold approach. Rejection is easily the best teacher. I understand it hurts your ego but over time (maybe the first couple girls), you get used to it and doesn't sting as much. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/17 10:49 AM |
| 1 | How to text a girl on a dating site (and in general)? I'm so confusedThey enjoy sexual jokes. If they don't enjoy the joke, it simply means they don't see YOU as sexual. In other words, they are hardly sexually attracted to you. As for context, you should sexualize early and often in the conversation. You don't need to wait for a certain topic or external factor to occur for you to make the joke. You can even have the sexual joke in your opener. For example: "Why do you keep checking out that Ronald McDonald statue? Haha please don't tell me you have a clown feti… | /r/seduction | 16/01/17 12:58 PM |
| 1 | How to text a girl on a dating site (and in general)? I'm so confusedLike you said, looks do matter. In online dating, looks are just about the only thing that matters because your photos convey your attitude, personality, and lifestyle rather than just words. You need to be pretty high tier in terms of looks to compete in the male-saturated online dating market. Think about it: the market is heavily male saturated, which means even fattest and ugliest women have their pick of the litter. No amount of sweet talking (online) will outcompete looks. In any case, eve… | /r/seduction | 16/01/17 11:01 AM |
| 3 | How to text a girl on a dating site (and in general)? I'm so confusedHere's the tips you'll need: Girls give shitty advice almost always. In 9.9 out of 10 cases, she will give out lazy, just downright hypocritical or absolutely useless advice. I could go extremely in length as to why this is but for now, it's extremely safe to assume that dating advice from ALL women is just utter shit As for online dating, give yourself a serious critique on your looks. Do you lift? Are you extremely handsome? The fact that you are asking the question you asked and you are terri… | /r/seduction | 16/01/17 09:53 AM |
| 1 | clueless on texting, general advice?/u/Pitchfork51 is correct. Strictly use texting for logistics (where & when). Keep in mind, I didn't include "what & why" for a reason. You shouldn't tell the girl what the fun plan (or at least not the full plan) is because by doing so, it ruins the surprise, mystery, and only gives her leeway to reject the plan. Assuming you already talked to her face to face and gotten her number that way, she already has a good impression of you. You don't need to mess it up by overtexting or texting stupid … | /r/seduction | 16/01/17 06:55 AM |
| 1 | I work at a company inside a mall. Would I be shitting where I eat if I daygamed girls at the mall?I'm trying to do both. I've had some success with daygame at the same mall before when I do it outside of work. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/16 08:32 PM |
| 2 | I work at a company inside a mall. Would I be shitting where I eat if I daygamed girls at the mall?Agreed, so I'll just daygame on the days I'm not working. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/16 08:31 PM |
| – | "do you have a gf" shittestI'm quite often asked "what do you do for a living?". This common shit test trips me up most of the time. Despite my attempts to avoid saying provider details, make sexual joke answers or just fully ignore it and quickly switch topics, there have been times where some girls have been persistent with the question. Is saying "It's complicated" a good answer to this shit test? | /r/askTRP | 14/12/16 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Simple first date do's and dont's?Sexual jokes and sexual topics (dating, kinks, fantasies etc.). It's not really as bad as you're interpreting it to be. I'm getting the feeling that you think I'm being creepy around girls; however, that isn't necessarily the case. Even a "that's what she said" joke or discussing dating in the modern world is considered sexualizing the conversation. Then again, some women might not enjoy you discussing sexual topics/jokes and will therefore consider you a creep. On the other hand, some other wom… | /r/seduction | 13/12/16 05:54 AM |
| 4 | How to turn a semi-professional relationship into a romantic one?Honestly, I personally think that long distance relationships are not worth the time and trouble. You can easily find another likeable woman (or women) in your city. The problem with long distance relationships, which I think this potential relationship will eventually become if it does "work out", is the following: Opportunity cost of time and money to travel to be with her physically It's much easier to find another likeable woman in your own city It's much easier for the girl to cheat on you.… | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 11:37 AM |
| 4 | Simple first date do's and dont's?I think picking her up is just a matter of preference. However, if you're aiming for same night lay (as you should be unless external factors say otherwise), you should pick her up. If you pick her up, you can make up an excuse to quickly use her bathroom and enter her place. By doing this, she will be more comfortable with you entering her place a second time (for sexy shenanigans) later on in the date because you've already been inside her place once before. Just to add on the Do's section. I … | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 06:09 PM |
| -3 | The 5 seductive commandmentsAgreed. All I read was #1 and thought it was absolute bullshit. "Just be yourself" is shitty advice. It's commonly used when people just don't know what else to say as advice OR as a shaming tactic to get the person to stay the same personality wise. A while back, a girl mentally perceived me as a beta (long story) and when I started to act alpha (from her perspective), she told me "just be yourself". She rationalized it as a friendly advice but covertly, it meant I don't want you to change and … | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 07:31 AM |
| 6 | Going out with your more 'alpha' friendsPreselection ALL women naturally want a guy who is wanted by other women Hypergamy ALL women want a man of superior status even if they're already in a relationship In other words, be that superior guy that women want. Your girl is definitely attracted to your friends to a degree. Should you feel worried or jealous? Absolutely not! Even if she leaves you, that's a blessing in disguise for you. Centre of Attention Don't be the centre of attention if you feel that it drains you too much Like someo… | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 06:29 AM |
| 2 | What are some techniques to implement in my day?DIRECT GAME Direct game is when you state your romantic/sexual intentions very early in the interaction with the girl. You are being direct or straightforward with her. Example: "Hey, I know this is totally random but I thought you were cute with your leather jacket. I had to come up and talk to you." Right from the beginning, she knows your intentions with her Direct game is good because she will very quickly let you know if she's interested back or not, meaning it is time efficient There is a … | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 12:56 AM |
| 2 | I feel like i'm getting too oldIf midgets and homeless people can game girls, I don't think an age difference of 1 or 2 years will matter. Guys as old as 40+ are still getting 20 year old girls so don't stress it. However, there is some truth to your concerns but just not in the way you think. Since you're 21, I'm guessing you're in college or university. College/university is an extremely easy place to meet and talk to girls. When you leave college/university, it can be harder to meet the same volume of attractive women in o… | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 08:47 AM |
| 2 | What are some techniques to implement in my day?Find something you can honestly appreciate (cute hairstyle, clothing, jewelry, shoes etc.) and start a convo through that Smiling and eye contact. I've opened a few girls based on how they simply smiled back at me. Asking stupid questions. By this, I mean asking questions you already know the answer to. Example: (At a donut shop) "Hey, what do you recommend I should get?" Direct game is the absolute best method though. You have to state your intentions and polarize very early to be efficient on … | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 07:41 AM |
| 5 | “It’s like he has nothing else to do.”I may be wrong but I think I may fall in this category. I don't think women aren't necessarily my mission but they are associated with it. Part of my mission is self-improvement via communication with people (particularly women). In other words, I like going out to bars with the intentions of having fun in meeting and talking to men/women; however, I also like to game girls on the side. I hope I'm making sense but does this mean I'm making women my mission or just better communication? For examp… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/16 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Tinder Slut promises sex in exchange for a long distance ride. How do I turn this in my favor?The ride would average at about 1 and 1/2 hours (90 mins) there and back. It's not as bad as a 5 hour drive but with Briffault's Law in mind, there's no guarantee sex would happen. Also, even if I did fuck first and then drive later, it's still weird as fuck to me, considering how I'd be basically paying for sex in this beta bux situation. If the conditional ride wasn't enough, she kept adding guys to the deal. It escalated from sex to a threesome to eventually a full on gangbang at her place. I… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/16 09:35 AM |
| 6 | Tinder Slut promises sex in exchange for a long distance ride. How do I turn this in my favor?She was suggesting a threesome with more guys at her place. Seemed super sketchy so I nexted her. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/16 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Exposed as a guy who games girls within my social circle. How do I recover?Definitely not LTR material by any means. In fact, I've already determined she's a legit textbook example of a slut. I'm just trying to game girls through her social circle and eventually jump ship into another circle away from her. How would I regain value? I'm guessing by holding frame and gaming everyone in the circle. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/16 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Exposed as a guy who games girls within my social circle. How do I recover?I love this analysis! I was hanging out with her last night. She herself mentioned that whenever people get into relationships, they are less likely to hang out with their friends. In other words, similar to how you mentioned she'll feel inferior to other females, she definitely does have a fear of losing friends and validation. As of right now, I think my plan is to just ignore her behaviour towards me and keep gaming girls however I see fit. Again, like you said, she'll likely feel invalidated… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/16 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Exposed as a guy who games girls within my social circle. How do I recover?Fair enough. You're absolutely right! I just have the fear of being booted from the social circle or being cockblocked. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/16 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Failed Social Circle Game. Is worth staying in the social circle now?I provided some more details to the post in the comments section. Let me know what you think | /r/askTRP | 22/10/16 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Failed Social Circle Game. Is worth staying in the social circle now?OK maybe the date wasn't going as well as I would have liked actually. Let's call this girl Stacy. At one point in the date, Stacy said something along the lines of "let's be friends for now and let's see how it goes." I interpreted that as a rejection. I still wanted to be a part of her social circle so we still hung out afterwards and went to a bar where some of her friends were at. At the bar with her friends, I was trying to game a cute girl in front of Stacy. So far, Stacy has been cool wit… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/16 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Failed Social Circle Game. Is worth staying in the social circle now?Damn that's really smart. Halloween weekend is coming up so this social circle will throw another party and hopefully I can find the outcast alpha and jump ship soon. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/16 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Failed Social Circle Game. Is worth staying in the social circle now?Honestly, it'll take some time to find another social circle as good as this one. There are plenty of cool people, cute girls, and fun parties in this circle. One of my personal buddies integrated into this circle right now and I highly doubt he'll leave with me. Overall, I really don't want to leave it but after tonight, I wouldn't be surprised if she went around and talked shit behind my back. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/16 08:59 AM |
| 1 | How can one improve day game?Aim for instadates Don't settle for just numbers. They are incredibly flakey unless you do a really good job building a connection and attraction (this is usually done via instadate hence why you should aim for it) Be direct. Indirect is only situationally good but by being direct, you are quicker to polarize girls and therefore more time efficient Being direct (i.e. direct game) means you are stating your sexual intentions very early (if not the very beginning) whereas with indirect, you must s… | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Is there any groups based in Toronto3 and half months late to your post but let's go out and game in toronto | /r/seduction | 29/09/16 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Anyone in Toronto, ON?3 months late to your post but lets do it | /r/seduction | 29/09/16 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a wingman in toronto/ mississauga regions, even GTA.3 months late to your post but let's do it! | /r/seduction | 29/09/16 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Anyone in Toronto down to wingman?Yeah lets do it. At the moment, I'm more interested in daygame but im open to both. | /r/seduction | 29/09/16 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Broke frame to HB8. Does she see me as a provider?Agreed. I was worried I'd be wasting time on her but I won't know until I try to get her to come out again. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Broke frame to HB8. Does she see me as a provider?Fair enough. I'm all for abundance and I do have a tendency to overthink every step. You're right; I'll just see where I can get and have fun along the way. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Don't get hung up on approachingI'm seriously really glad you brought this up. Every time I'm about to go game during the day or night, I'm with people who also do game. As such, I'm not too concerned about my self-image. Whenever I'm with friends (who don't do game) or family, I'm concerned about my self-image and appearances. As a result, I've missed out on several potential opportunities with attractive women while I was with these people. However, I've come to the realization just right now that my friends and family not o… | /r/seduction | 10/09/16 05:18 PM |
| -1 | Don't get hung up on approachingOP is using the term "approaching" as if it's a special PUA technique even though it simply means, by its very clear-cut definition, to come near or nearer to someone/something in distance. Honestly, OP is a hyprocrite, every time he mentions not to "approach" but later say to talk to strangers. | /r/seduction | 09/09/16 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Don't get hung up on approachingI completely agree with you. If someone can understand social dynamics between men and women and talk to women, that's great. However, talking to women is only one aspect of getting women; being able to confidently talk to women is just good communication skills. I'm not saying you have poor communication skills in general but you spent these 5 years building a better lifestyle; this is also fundamental in attracting women. Your lifestyle accounts for more in raising your SMV (sexual market valu… | /r/seduction | 09/09/16 10:35 AM |
| 5 | Don't get hung up on approachingAgreed. It is a major shit post. I'm pretty sure OP designed it specifically to target beginners in this community and drive traffic to his site. I find it fucking hilarious how so many people here (whom I can safely assume are AFCs) have said it is a good post whereas the experienced members of the community immediately called out bullshit. | /r/seduction | 09/09/16 10:24 AM |
| 1 | PSA on Monk Mode and SocializingI think this has been discussed in previous threads but what about female friends? I used to want female friends for social connections before I learned about TRP but now every time I gain a female friend, they eventually turn out to be somewhat cunty people. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/16 10:07 AM |
| 1 | How to survive monk mode and not go insane?What were the resources you used to find your hobby-specific groups? I've been using meetup.com to find groups that interest me, namely voĺleyball and board games. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/16 07:28 AM |
| 1 | AWALT:I only date guys with high credit scoresAt first glance, she reminded me of the child actor that played Chris in Chris Rock's tv show "Everybody Hates Chris". | /r/MGTOW | 27/08/16 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Girl asked for my number after asking her if she liked breadI'm happy for you; there'll be more to come. However, just so we're clear, you should still talk to other women. Having an abundance of women (options) is also an alpha trait. | /r/seduction | 26/08/16 06:05 AM |
| 3 | So I learned this vital rule last night...Agreed. Sometimes, remembering her name just can't be done. I am great at remembering names; however, it's hard to do for these following reasons If the name is super weird and long The girl has a strong accent If the name has like 50 letters in it The venue is really loud Creating a pet name will be good for fun banter and it's an awesome way to start your text conversation when you get her number. Also, it serves as a great reminder for her to remember who you are as opposed to just "Hi, it's … | /r/seduction | 16/08/16 10:00 PM |
| 4 | I'm not an expert by any stretch, but I have a method that I've found useful for "getting in the zone".I havent watched the youtube links yet but how is this different from power poses? Power poses are a pretty popular meditative method to get hyped and boost confidence. | /r/seduction | 16/08/16 04:12 AM |
| 1 | My personal principles for getting better with women and staying sane when shit hits the fanI agree with your post 100%. However, for the sake of argument and discussion, #13 has always been peculiar to me. Sure, it'd be ideal to leave women better off than they were initially but "better" is pretty subjective. For example, I may break a girl's heart but in the long run, the girl will learn from the experience and learn how to be a better SO in the future. Also, it's not always possible to leave them better off even in the traditional sense. Just like the 60-40 rule in approaching, the… | /r/seduction | 15/08/16 04:26 AM |
| 2 | How should I respond to her lie of wanting to take it slow?She wouldn't have said anything about taking it slow if she wasn't thinking of fucking you I didn't think about it like that. I actually really like this point of view. I'm sooo nervous about losing my virginity Hahaha I like that. It's a good way to cut the tension, sexualize the conversation, and reframe the situation. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/16 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Can an introvert become extrovert?I think I would identify myself as the same way. I used to think I was an introvert due to a lack of friends and social skills; however, it simply just meant I was a shy extrovert. Now that I think about it, whenever I was alone (in the past), I didn't feel recharged. I felt recharged when I was with others, which is actually what extroverts do; recharging energy by being around others. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/16 01:45 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says "you have nice lips"Hopefully this doesn't get drowned out by the rest of the comments. "Aww (girl's name), we've been hanging out for (whatever amount of time) and you're already thinking about my lips" The point is you are flipping the script You are flirting by suggesting she is the one chasing you, not the other way around You are the prize, not her. If you set this frame, you have full control of the interaction This also helps you set yourself up to get past last minute resistance | /r/seduction | 27/07/16 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being miserable?I'm extremely susprised how everyone is trying to suggest widely different solutions from psychotherapy sessions to laughing yoga. Isn't the answer really really simple here? You want a meaningful discussion? Go to a social event that involves one of your interests or hobbies. Now, talk to the men AND women there. Talk to everyone. You get to have meaningful conversations amd social practixe with people of both genders in a hobby/event you are genuinely interested in. Know your strengths and wea… | /r/seduction | 25/07/16 11:01 AM |
| 3 | Before and after makeup, beware.They're showing a lot of bias in their pictures. Some of the women aren't shown smiling in the before pics. Also, if they showed the same hairstyle in both before and after pics, it would show a more objective look. Overall, if the women in the before pics were shown smiling and with the same hairstyles as their after pics, I think most of the before pics would look pretty good. | /r/MGTOW | 22/07/16 09:01 AM |
| 1 | How to Give off More of a Sexual/lover Vibe Instead of a Friendly and Platonic VibeHmm I'm honestly trying to see it from your perspective. Perhaps, I wasn't clear enough in my original comment but after some thinking, I think you're right! I should be converting the flirting into something more substantial by now and I am not. In other words, to my dismay, I guess I'm not quite conveying the sexual lover type image yet. As for being a desperate thirsty dude, I don't think I'm coming off as creepy or anything like that. In most cases, I brought positivity and fun to the group.… | /r/seduction | 04/07/16 11:01 AM |
| 1 | What cool ways have you found in making new friends as an adult?I was the same way about meetups. Meetups are typically filled with older people. You're still low 20s whereas everyone else in meetups will probably be 25+. Personally, I'm 23 now and after leaving university, the majority of my friends are easily much older than me. However, if you want people more your age, then local college clubs. Wait nevermind, I think you said you're a HS graduate, not an university graduate? I would say volunteer for groups your age or find a sports league. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 02:07 PM |
| 1 | What cool ways have you found in making new friends as an adult?I'm an advocate for meetups. There's plenty of meetups that'll provide events to network and meet people, especially women. Aside from that, I would suggest joining a recreational sports league, a recreational class (cooking, rock climbing, learning another language etc.), volunteering for a charity or non-profit organization, or even checking out events within your community. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 07:56 AM |
| 1 | I'm reading Neil Strauss's 'The Game'. Is there any point in this?Agreed. Learning about the origin of the PUA movement and the fundamentals of game is always a good read. I mean back then the book was revolutionary and we still apply similar if not the same basic techniques to this day. Needless to say, The Game will always pale in comparison to all of the current popular books because it's simply an older model. However, I may be wrong but I think we should still give the book a little recognition. Personally, even though this book only taught game and perha… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 07:40 AM |
| 3 | What is the best way to reject a girl at a bar or nightclub that would embarrass her?I used to hang out with a wing/friend that had the same mindset as you. This guy also knew about TRP and was in the anger phase. Any time a set wouldn't go his way, he'd openly project his frustration on the girls or his friends. It's super toxic because even though you think you're making yourself feel better, you're scaring away all the other women. Also, as a result of his toxic behaviour, he'd usually start random fights at the bar/club. I mean if you're still thinking how you'd be okay with… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 07:00 AM |
| 1 | How to forget a girl? No motivation for anything...Agreed. Getting a lawyer before she does is always good! Personally, I don't use social media except reddit and snapchat. Facebook, twitter, and instagram are just a waste of time unless you can profit from it. | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 09:36 AM |
| 2 | How to forget a girl? No motivation for anything...Go lift. You look and feel better; more confidence. | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Went on a few dates with HB7. Girl is demonstrating potential red flagsFair enough. I recognize the problems in my game and I'm working to fix them. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/16 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Went on a few dates with HB7. Girl is demonstrating potential red flagsFair enough. I haven't been consistently physically escalating or at least not a good pace. First date; we got to making out quick but all other subsequent dates, she's been less receptive to anything past making out. I have another date with her later in the evening. I'll be more aggressive tonight. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/16 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Ex messaged me again 6 months after breakup. I'd like your help please.Long distance relationships usually aren't worth the investment, especially if she's emotionally unstable (i.e. feeling suicidal). It's a 4 hour drive there and back. That's a fucking long time just to hang out with her and maybe have sex Why travel for 4 hours when you can get the same thing (if not better) in your own city? I suggest not talking to her anymore. Block her and delete her contacf info. Like you said, she doesn't care about you and she is acting selfishly. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/16 08:47 AM |
| 1 | How can I get more status?Remembering people's names is super useful. I've heard of your technique before; I haven't start using it yet but I'll start now. Usually, when I'm trying to remember names and I'm talking to person, I'll say the person's name as much as reasonably possible throughout the conversation. People like the sound of their names. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 05:28 AM |
| 1 | On the second day, he learned how to liftHey, I'm guessing you're really experienced with dieting. I'm kinda lost on what my goal should be right now. I'm 6'5" and about 230lbs. I've got a bit of big belly but I can hide it well with good posture. My overall goal is just to get jacked aesthetically but not sure if I should cut or bulk up. What do you think? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 07:10 AM |
| 1 | I give off a boyfriend vibe. How do I let girls know I just want to hookup?Yeah I definitely agree! Since I know and practice game, I always thought that the mr. nice guy concept only applied to betas but little did I know, I was still being a nice guy and being viewed as a provider and not a sexual being. Holy fuck! Combined with the advice you've and everyone else here has given, it actually blows my mind! | /r/askTRP | 21/06/16 03:57 PM |
| 1 | I give off a boyfriend vibe. How do I let girls know I just want to hookup?I'm still reading it but this is fucking spot-on. Thanks for the link! I'm definitely going to transition to a lover type. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/16 03:41 PM |
| 2 | I give off a boyfriend vibe. How do I let girls know I just want to hookup?Hahaha Thank You! I love this!! I crack sexual jokes all the time but thanks for the reminder to keep it up I definitely don't eye fuck women enough or other women in her presence. I usually give the strong direct eye contact to my date, which means the "only have eyes for you" type is pretty accurate for me unfortunately. I'm definitely like the "dating around and looking for the right person" scenario. I'll have to make that more clear with the girl I'm hanging out with right now. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/16 02:54 PM |
| 2 | I give off a boyfriend vibe. How do I let girls know I just want to hookup?I normally sexualize and create the physical contact but I guess as of recently, I've toned it down. I definitely loved the video and just randomly bringing up sexual topics. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/16 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Sales Guy Gave Me His Number?Text him if you're interested and it seems like you are, which explains why you would come here in the first place for advice. If he's looking for a date, that's great! If he's hustling for more commission, then just block him. Then again, if I was the salesman personally, I would've immediately set the tone as sexual/romantic right when I gave away my number to give you the right impression. | /r/seduction | 21/06/16 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Sales Guy Gave Me His Number?I don't know too much about sales but even if he did add your number to a spam database, you can easily block the spam right? I think the guy genuinely had fun bantering with you and gave you his number to possibly set up a date. | /r/seduction | 21/06/16 08:00 AM |
| 2 | How to respond to height shit test?I may be wrong but they are not as wildly different as they may appear. Clearly, this "shit test" is a regular occurence and it is disturbing him enough to consult askseddit. If she behaves in a way you are not comfortable with (no matter how small), which of the following is the better behavioural reinforcement method: Whining and complaining to her that discussing about her ex-boyfriend's better natural height hurts your feelings OR She can keep talking about her ex if she wants but you'll jus… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/16 10:28 AM |
| 0 | How to respond to height shit test?Not sure why you're being downvoted; you bring up a good point. diffusing shit tests is one thing but ending the shit test entirely by using fear is even better I'm not sure I would've phrased it like that but nonetheless, different methods, same end goal. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/16 10:13 AM |
| 0 | In terms of venues, Where would I need to go to find attractive black women?Hahaha fair enough. | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Here's a compilation of the best techniques to overcome approach anxiety with womenI definitely agree with you. While I still do face approach anxiety from time to time, it definitely wasn't as bad as it used to be. I overcame AA by facing the fear and approaching. I honestly feel like it's a muscle where the more times you open, you naturally get overcome it, become stronger and more socially accustomed to opening people (not just women). On a side note, I recently took a personality test and I was identified as an extrovert whereas when I took the same test a few years ago, … | /r/seduction | 05/05/16 03:44 PM |
| 1 | (FR) I technically did 3 approaches today and need feedbackBy transitioning for an instadate: You are setting yourself as the leader and her as the follower You are making a memorable and adventurous instant date for the girl by transitioning to a different state of motion It's the same idea when you're on a date with a girl and you constantly venue change. You are creating an adventure of going to multiple places with her. She won't get bored and she'll remember fondly of you every time she comes across the places you went with her | /r/seduction | 22/04/16 09:12 PM |
| 2 | (FR) I technically did 3 approaches today and need feedbackFirst question: Don't feel bad about taking up their time unless they have a serious emergency. Women like flirting and being complimented even if they are busy or with a boyfriend (if the boyfriend isnt present with her I mean) Second Question: You shouldve pushed for a number sooner before the bus incident. Girls typically dont like to look like sluts in front of their friends so given your situation, its much better and easier to push for a number when you first pulled her into the conversati… | /r/seduction | 22/04/16 06:46 AM |
| 1 | (FR) I technically did 3 approaches today and need feedbackYou're doing an excellent job! I'll just give you some general tips that you may find useful. First approach : Be aware of logistics. Make sure you're both aware of each other's destination when you daygame her like that. Also, state your intentions early. You dont need to waste time on a girl who might not even be sexually interested in you. In daygame, if the girl you are approaching is walking somewhere, try to transition the interaction somehow so that you're both sitting down (Build rapport… | /r/seduction | 22/04/16 06:35 AM |
| 1 | I think I need a lot of help.Hey, let's grab a coffee sometime in Toronto. I know it's totally random but I often find myself wanting to go out, meet new people, and just have fun conversations. In fact, I used to have occasional conversations regarding game and life in general; I greatly miss these conversations on seduction theory, techniques, and its effects on lifestyle. I'm extending this invitation to /u/its-3AM. Also, I'm a slightly younger than you OP but I'm completely cool with the age difference if you are. I am … | /r/seduction | 21/04/16 08:24 AM |
| 3 | mid 20's all my mates on lock down.. Worth hitting up bars/ pubs / night events by myself?Wine bars or bars with live bands sometimes. Use yelp on your local bars and clubs. Some people actually comment on the milf/cougar level for each venue. | /r/seduction | 14/04/16 03:08 PM |
| 4 | mid 20's all my mates on lock down.. Worth hitting up bars/ pubs / night events by myself?Savage | /r/seduction | 14/04/16 02:32 PM |
| 12 | mid 20's all my mates on lock down.. Worth hitting up bars/ pubs / night events by myself?Going out with friends is great but going out solo can be just as fun! For me personally, I'm picky over certain venues. For example, I prefer bars and pubs over clubs because I love having conversations. In other words, you have complete control in where you want to go and what to do for the night. Switch venues if you don't like the vibe of one place. So much easier to do this while solo Go out and make new friends. More often than not, your new friends will introduce you to another group of f… | /r/seduction | 14/04/16 11:48 AM |
| 1 | A nice surprise I had talking to a girlI completely agree with you! PUA techniques are effective on women; however, they're also effective on the male users themselves. Without these "techniques", one could say we are the same as the rest of the average frustrated chumps. With these "techniques" at our disposal, we believe these techniques have power, thus making us more bold and confident towards women. In other words, you're absolutely correct in saying the various methods of seduction matter. | /r/seduction | 18/03/16 02:30 PM |
| 12 | [FR] Accidental line that turned into the easiest kiss I've ever hadI may be wrong but I don't think it was the germ line; rather you gamed her pretty well overall. Attraction, comfort, seduction- you did all that! In the end, I think she used a line on you really. | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 03:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR]Completely bitched out by a girl last night, but stood my groundBy going for the solo girl and helping your buddies, that was good. When the girl was bitching at you and you let it not affect you, that was even better. However, even though it was good to not let it bother you, I think there were better ways to deal with the bitchy girl. You could've tried to become friends with the bitchy girl and had an even more fun night. Overall, I'm just saying, whenever someone starts an argument with you, it's best to stay calm and avoid the argument entirely. | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 09:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I've never been rejected like this. Dude-zoned during movie night while she slept on my couch. Need advice.Work your way past the small talk. I don't smoke weed but I would assume getting high would help transition into more fun conversation. In fact, you should always sexualize the conversation. From flirting, kino, and even sex-related discussions would help you get rid of the awkwardness. Needless to say, have fun with your conversations. Sex Related Topics: Fantasies Craziest thing they've ever done Craziest Locations to have sex Online dating (I usually start with this) | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Bar/club game solo tipsAgreed! I'm going to add onto this. Sometimes, when you go out to a bar/club, the venue might turn out to be dead as in no one is really there. You can keep the momentum going by either Making friends with the few people that are there and wait as the bar/club gets busier Don't waste time or money. Find another nearby venue. In fact, let's say you have somehow ran out of sets to open or for whatever reason you feel uncomfortable at a venue. Feel free to leave and find another bar/club. I've had … | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Take her roller skating.I'm a crappy skater. Mainly because I've only ice skated (never touched roller skates) once in my life. I'm sure my hypothetical date and I would laugh about it but would you still recommend this activity to absolute beginners like me? | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 06:54 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean if a woman 'hides' her lips?That is possible but given that it's a movie and she is an actress, I'm going to assume the hiding of her lips was part of the act. | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 02:05 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean if a woman 'hides' her lips?Search up: Pursing lips. It might be a bit of a stretch comparing the google images of pursing lips and the woman from the film. However, pursing lips or rather hiding her lips like that means she's uncomfortable. Source: What Every Body is Saying: An Ex FBI Agent's Guide to Body Language by Joe Navarro. In general, it shows discomfort; however, given the romantic context of the movie and her other indicators of interest (big smile, strong eye contact etc.), the hiding of lips gesture can be an … | /r/seduction | 18/02/16 10:40 PM |
| 3 | How I stopped being poor AKA financial fitnessI'm a pretty young guy and I've realized I've been spending a lot of money on outside food the past couple of months if not years. Solid post! | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 09:05 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Night at a club and one dumb habit I realizedFor beginner readers, I'm saying it's important to summarize your points. For example, TL;DR - Kino and strong eye contact helped me make out with a girl is a lot more informative than TL:DR did 8 approaches and danced with one girl. TL;DR is essentially your conclusion. If you're going to take away and learn anything from this field report, here is basically what you should know/remember _______. | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 04:54 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Night at a club and one dumb habit I realizedIn your field reports, you could always put important lessons/techniques you've learned or used in bold text. Also, sometimes when you make a field report, the reader just sees a wall of text. It's always helpful to the reader to include a Too Long; Didn't Read (TL;DR) very short summary at the end. Otherwise, your field report is well-written and I'm glad you considered writing one. | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 02:04 AM |
| 6 | I need a smoother way to ask for a girl's number at a bar and during the day....When getting the number, don't ask. Lead her instead. I completely agree with these other guys are saying. "I think you're really cute (etc.). Give me your number." By asking her the question, "can you give me your number?", you're giving her an opportunity to say No. Whereas if you lead her, she's less likely to say no. | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 01:58 AM |
| 39 | "Look at her like you want her." I've literally never done this and I've realized this is my problem. Any success stories or tips on this?Guys always think that if they stare (use eye contact) too much into their eyes, they'll be considered creepy. That's false; you actually need to overcompensate and use even more strong eye contact. Don't worry about what she thinks. Strong eye contact is an absolute fundamental in conveying desire and sexual intent. Needless to say, don't just stare. Use strong eye contact and still have a fun teasing conversation. It's actually in a scientific study that strong eye contact increases attraction… | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Best ways to approach a girl?It doesn't seem like you game all that often so you haven't really tried all the different types yet. Personally, I would say just start going out whenever you can. Anytime you need to buy milk, clothes, to the gym, or whatever else, go talk to men and women. Your first step would be to become more comfortable with talking to groups of people or even women in general. You don't have to game them but just start a conversation with random people. The goal is to become more socially aware and a bet… | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 02:15 PM |
| 3 | What type of girls prefer tall guys?I am 6'5". Apparently, I give very nice hugs with my long arms. Also, I can rest my head on top of their heads most of the time. I am told this is very satisfying. | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 08:28 PM |
| 2 | How to hit on your server, by a server who loves sex.I might not have phrased it in the best way but I already agree with you to a degree. | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 12:02 PM |
| 1 | How to hit on your server, by a server who loves sex.I was going to write another long wall of text with perspectives, evidence, and whatever else but overall, hired guns (the PUA term for women with these kinds of jobs) are much harder to game and are sometimes not worth the trouble. This isn't to say you cannot successfully game them; I'm just agreeing with the consensus that it's considerably harder. Overall, we are agreeing on the grounds that these women shouldn't be generally hit on unless you're willing to put serious effort to game them. D… | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 10:32 AM |
| 1 | I have this theory about how to measure your messages efficiency in online datingBut almost every woman is different. What one woman may dislike about your photos, profile etc. another woman may like. I wouldn't want to constantly change my online stuff to potentially satisfy the woman. Also, sometimes, it has nothing to do with you. In online dating sites like OKCupid, it is inevitable you will be constantly compared against other men. This is something out of your control. Despite all of this, I'm not bashing online game. I've had my successes and failures. My overall poin… | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 09:34 AM |
| 1 | First meet up ideas with girls younger than 21?Agreed. Coffee shops, ice cream, bubble tea (that's my go to) etc. After that, go do a recreational activity and proceed to get drinks after. Multiple venue switches are nice! | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 09:17 AM |
| 2 | High school party openers?Agreed. This can be applied to any style of game; have fun and introduce yourself to random people (guys AND girls). I feel like some beginners (no offence to OP if you are one) to game neglect to approach guys too. This is how you make friends at parties and have fun outside your usual circle at the party. There's a good chance by making friends with random guys (or girls), they'll introduce you to their other friends. | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 09:13 AM |
| 2 | The Bread and Butter "Go-to" Line of internet dating sites.I like it! I used to fiend dating sites and sometimes women would come across my profile. This seems like a really good response for situations like those. On a completely separate topic (i don't mean to hijack your thread), isn't "Hey, What's up?" a line? In a situation where you're trying to pick up women, isn't anything you say (with the intention to game) a line? | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 09:01 AM |
| 0 | Clear Intentions When Approaching WomenState your intentions early. Don't forget to sexualize the conversation; do this early if possible. Kino escalation and strong eye contact; I know these seem basic but they're crucial in subcommunicating sexual attraction | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Got a few girls numbers but having issues could this be the potential problem...Right now, you've over thinking and doubting yourself. I highly doubt they're concerned about the numbers in your cell number. If anything, I'd intentionally bring that up to further sexualize the conversation. There could be a whole number of reasons for the flakiness. 60% of the time, these women could be stressed from any number of factors (ex. Period, work) in their lives that don't involve you. The other 40% suggests you didn't develop a strong enough attraction, connection, and seduction. … | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 08:50 AM |
| -2 | [FR] Met her in the library. K-close an hour later.Hahaha that was a solid ending to a good field report. | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Best ways to approach a girl?I understand how Daygame in that sense may appear unappealing. However, there will be a lot of times, in night game or any other style of game, where the exact same thing happens. You can go to a bar, club, tinder etc. get numbers, and potentially get radio silence later. If you're truly not comfortable with Daygame, then it's ok. You should stick to your strengths but keep in mind, game is also about getting out of your comfort zones and trying something new. I just wrote a long wall of text. I… | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 06:29 AM |
| 1 | How to hit on your server, by a server who loves sex.You have suspected wrong. I understand your perspective of the server and her view on male customers. She gets hit on quite a few times per night probably. However, if I were to gather evidence she was interested in me, I would have to do some form of approach on her. I know that servers are paid to be nice to customers so I haven't knowingly hit on any servers recently since knowing that. On the other hand, women complain about men hitting on them all the time. This won't stop me or others from… | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 02:17 AM |
| 2 | How to hit on your server, by a server who loves sex.In other words, don't be an AFC beta and do a half ass approach on a server. | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Best ways to approach a girl?Are you kidding me? I've seen midgets do game and get girls. | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Best ways to approach a girl?There's a video of two men daygaming with the sole purpose of whoever can get the most numbers. One was attractive and the other was not. The latter also wore a dildo on his head. In the end, dildo man dominated the contest! Overall, Daygame might be a little scary/intimidating but it can certainly be done. Also, you might have inner game issues if you think only "attractive" men can do one style of game. | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Best ways to approach a girl?You are misinformed. Some of my friends excel at Daygame. They don't go near night game. Look up SashaPUA or Simple Pickup. They teach and excel at Daygame. Whenever people are scared of something, they make up excuses not to do it. Personally, I find Daygame exhilarating with a lot of women telling me that more guys should man up and approach them. However, if you choose not to Daygame, that's perfectly fine as well. You're leaving an unsaturated market for the rest of us. | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Best ways to approach a girl?Instead of saying "who are you?", you can say "hi, I haven't met you yet" or some variation of that statement. Personally, I think if you ask someone who they were, some people may take offence whereas if you say "I haven't met you yet", this implies you've been talking to everyone and a bit more polite. | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Thanks to this sub, I went from being a virgin to girls asking to have threesomes with me in one month. Here's what changed and what I learned.I don't think you're ever too late. I started game (Asian myself) in my last year of university. Sure I have a lot of regrets with wasted opportunities but looking at the future, there's so much potential (networking friends and women) everywhere I go. Game doesn't just improve yourself with women. It improves your entire lifestyle (communication, leadership, desire for new experiences, lifting etc.). Never too late. | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 08:58 AM |
| 1 | 3 MOST COMMON TEXT MISTAKESAgreed. If I have to ask her a question, i try to form it into a statement instead. | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 08:35 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Clubbing and a bad wingHmm I didn't know Mystery said that about takeaways. I can definitely see the potential advantages and disadvantages of takeaways. As for the being the party and looking for the party, I didn't realize this until only recently. I mean I always kinda knew but I had some bad wingmen myself where they constantly pushed me to open new sets at a venue instead of just having a fun time and letting them come to me. | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 01:36 PM |
| 2 | What are YOUR tricks for giving off a sexual vibe?My buddy does this. Most of the time, he won't let go and just keep talking. He'll know instantly if the girl is attracted if the girl doesn't pull her hand away. | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 12:00 PM |
| 2 | App for handling phone numbersWait so I can't get this app if I have an iPhone? | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 11:34 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Lay report - "Are you going on dates with other girls?"I still live with my parents and I've done this with a friends with benefits girl I met on Tinder. Most of the time, girls don't care about the conditions of your place so long as you have one to have sex. | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 11:02 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Clubbing and a bad wingIncoming Long Wall of Text but worth the read. Firstly, if by takeaways, do you mean approaching a girl, having a fun time, and then leaving with the intentions of going back to them later? I do this a lot of the times but I regret it a lot because I know if I had stayed, I could've escalated it further. Also, by you talking to the girl and then leaving, you have raised her buying temperature, which means she is more likely to be more social with the next guy that games her. In other words, ther… | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Why guys have it better in the dating world — a mathematical proof.I'm going to be that asshole guy. I absolutely agree with your points but you spelled intelligent two different ways; you had it right the first time. | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Best Vacation Spot to Meet Girls?For the past couple of days, I've been wondering the same thing with my vacation days. As of right now, my thoughts are Montreal (Canada), Cuba, The Dominican, and maybe Cancun. I know you want to go travelling and bang some girls at the same time; however, your first priority is to find a place where you'll have fun. Getting girls at the location will be the bonus but not necessarily needed. You should have the exact same mindset when going out to game; fun first and women second. | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 10:33 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I was an idiot, still F-ClosingFirst impressions count so if you behave in the opposite manner of a negative stereotype, women will be easily more interested in you. | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 03:10 AM |
| 12 | [FR] I was an idiot, still F-ClosingI only skimmed through your field report but I'm super glad another Asian is having success with game. | /r/seduction | 26/01/16 09:24 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Solo Game. Friendships & Venue Changes.Yeah you're absolutely right! I was only direct with one Milf near the end of the night. She ultimately turned me down but you're right I could tell she was getting attracted. | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 12:31 PM |
| 1 | My real life game was improved by miles, and yet it seems as though my Tinder game has gotten somehow worse, has anyone else experienced this?Tinder is online texting whereas real life game is face to face conversations. There's obviously some things that don't convert as well from real life to tinder and vice versa. For example, in real life, you know she's laughing for real whereas in tinder, she'll just say "lol". Keep trying on both fronts if you want but if you're better at real life game, put more time into that than tinder. | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 11:34 AM |
| 5 | What do you do if you approach a girl intending to take her out but lose interest through the conversation?If you want, you can keep texting her for practice on text game. Maybe you'll realize your impression of her was wrong and go on a date with her. On the other hand, don't waste time and start talking to other women. There are times when I'll get a number but I'll lose interest in the girl too. Either use it to improve yourself or drop it and move on. | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 11:31 AM |
| 3 | Your secret weapon: The phone callAbsolutely agree with you! I usually text for a few times in the beginning so I can keep her interested for a bit and then switch over to phone calls. Phone calls allow for much easier rapport building. I highly recommend it! In general, I like phone calls over texting anyways because you're able to tell long stories on the phone and it's much harder through text. If you're going to make jokes/flirt and tease someone, people are less likely misinterpret what you say because your tone of voice wi… | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 04:20 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Picked up a girl for the first time. (F-Closed)I'm not sure why you got downvoted but I liked your FR. You presented techniques that helped you and just reading it motivates me as a reader. Keep it up with the Field Reports! I actually find field reports are a good way to have others spot your mistakes so you can learn from them. | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 12:10 PM |
| 3 | Why so the vast vajority think approaching girls is creepy?Not necessarily. Let's say Person A approaches two women at two separate times. He has the same feelings for both women. He uses an one liner joke on the both of them. One girl could call him a creep whereas the other could laugh her ass off and become attracted to him. I can't tell you how many times this scenario has applied to me and my feelings/mindset were the same. All women are different. OP, if you're reading this, there's so many times where I approached and women feel so happy I approa… | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Why so the vast vajority think approaching girls is creepy?Doing it on campus is such an easy and great place. I suggest you stop worrying about what people think of you and just go approach. Have fun with it. As for the people you know (while doing it on campus), chances are they won't care. If they do care, either they're not cool people that respect you and your passions or you're going to go on the rest of your life following the expectations and norms of "people you know". I mean you can call me try hard as much as you want but I'll be the one gett… | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Why so the vast vajority think approaching girls is creepy?Looks is part of it and it's ideal to wear clothes that fit you properly and to keep your hygiene in check. However, looks aren't necessarily needed as you claim. There was a homeless PUA and he was able to pull off multiple successful approaches; he was even able to go back to their places for sex. Again, looks and hygiene are ideal but attitude is more important. If you approach with the mindset of having fun instead of picking up girls, you'll have more fun doing it and be more successful at … | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Observed my daughter using/abusing a Beta: She's 11I believe in positive reinforcement and in extreme cases, negative reinforcement may be needed. What do you think about OP's situation? What kind of positive reinforcement would be needed to change the daughter's undesirable behaviour? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/16 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Observed my daughter using/abusing a Beta: She's 11I'm reading the book "How to Win Friends & Influence People" by Dale Carnegie and read that positive reinforcement goes a lot better in teaching someone a desired behaviour than negative reinforcement. I'm not telling OP how to raise his daughter or even criticizing him but I'm just genuinely curious as to what someone can do to fix this problem behaviour in a positive manner instead of a punishment. The daughter wanted to impress her friends so what kind of positive incentives (or any other sol… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 11:06 AM |
| 2 | the girl I loved turned out to be an unbelievable slutHaha that's fucking awesome! How's the partying in Arizona? My buddy and I are thinking about heading to the states (From Canada) for a fun weekend to see the sights and game. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 10:39 AM |
| 3 | Every girl seems to have a boyfriend...You can ask questions here and there but it's best to make statements and fun assumptions. It'll lead to better conversation. If you ask too many questions, she'll feel like she's being interrogated. Edit: You have a long way to go but if you legitimately stick with it, you'll begin to see changes in your lifestyle, perspectives, and behaviour to other people. You may have come to learn about getting girls but you'll get a whole lot more. | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Mississauga, Toronto, or the GTA Meetup in OntarioI got some holiday plans for this weekend unfortunately. The plan is next week though. Are you from sauga or Toronto? | /r/seduction | 01/01/16 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Mississauga, Toronto, or the GTA Meetup in OntarioSounds good. You come to Toronto often? | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Mississauga, Toronto, or the GTA Meetup in OntarioYeah I don't mind. Shoot me a PM. | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 06:37 AM |
| 1 | 9 Reasons Why You Should Date Older WomenAgreed! Middle aged women (28+) are easier in a sense. Along with the reasons mentioned in the post, older women are needless to say more mature than younger women. Younger women (whether they're hot or even extremely unattractive) think they have a ton of options. The downside is that they carry emotional baggage most of the time and that's why some younger men are afraid of this age group. I don't blame them but sometimes, the benefits outweigh the drawbacks. | /r/seduction | 03/12/15 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Purpose of PickupAgreed. Just by improving your inner game (lifestyle, confidence etc.), your access and behaviour with attractive women increase exponentially! Even though I'm proud of my experiences with women, I'm even more proud of my inner transformation of sorts. | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 06:51 AM |
| 1 | I don't seem to have any luck...I realize that you have major inner game issues and you're on the right path to better yourself. There's a mountain of knowledge in the sidebar or if you look up the Top posts of r/seduction. Please use these extremely useful resources first. The answers you seek have already been answered in greatly detailed submissions in the past. Just use the reddit search function and you won't have to wait on other people to answer your questions. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 09:08 AM |
| 3 | Date ideasLate night coffee shop for baked goods, bar, walk in the park, yours or her place in this order. There's a search function on reddit. Don't be lazy! Use it to your advantage. I know for a fact there's at least 10 (if not hundreds more) posts about date ideas. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 09:01 AM |
| 3 | Going out with an older girl tomorrow, tips please?Seriously...there's a search function on reddit. Use it! Don't be lazy. I know for a fact there are numerous reddit articles/posts on older women. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Using Snapchat to My AdvantageSnapchat definitely has a place in game. Snapchat her a pic of your boobs with the caption "Your Turn". Obviously, you need to have a rapport and everything first with the girl. | /r/seduction | 22/09/15 05:53 PM |
| 1 | How to use Push/Pull effectively?Ok yeah now I'm certain I've unintentionally done push/pull before to a degree. However, I don't think I've ever created the tension Braddock mentioned. It was almost always a tease and then an immediate pull. That's good to keep in mind from now on. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 08:30 AM |
| 2 | How should you end a text convo with a girl?Ignoring her texts is more ideal than "I'm busy. I'll ttyl." I'm suggesting you ignore the texts. By ignoring her texts, she'll wonder why you haven't texted her back. She won't 100% know that you are busy (even if you really are not). This will cause her to miss you to a degree because it'll prey on her insecurity. You can then text her back on your own time. By saying that you are busy, she will NOT wonder why he hasn't texted me back. Overall, you stand to gain more by ignoring her texts. I h… | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 07:56 AM |
| 2 | How should you end a text convo with a girl?I don't think you should EVER say I'm busy and I'll ttyl to the girl. You are indirectly saying you're not important to me right now. If you're actually busy, just don't reply. Sometimes, not saying anything at all has more impact than saying something. In other words, you'll be making her wonder why hasn't he texted me back yet; give her the gift of missing you. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 06:49 AM |
| 2 | I know a lot of you have used meetup.com to maker new friends. Do you have any tips for finding groups that aren't full of old people?I know what you mean but sometimes networking with people older than you isn't a bad idea. I'm in a meetup group now where the host is 32 and I'm 23. Now that I'm friends with her, she's telling me about all these niche pick up bars/areas around the city. I'm pretty sure she could even be an amazing wing woman. Overall, don't underestimate the power of networking. Although I haven't really answered OP's question, keep an open mind about meetup groups and their respective participants. | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 05:04 AM |
| 1 | What we ultimately all want.I was just thinking about this earlier today. Most guys use and learn game to get women. They're essentially learning skills that aren't taught in school or from parents. While it is good to get better with women, being more confident in life, and all the other benefits, you absolutely CANNOT derive your happiness from women's validation of you. There are downsides to game that I have seen firsthand; some of my friends devoted themselves to game and they've become misogynistic and are constantly… | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Got a girlfriend now, Should I still game?Even now, there's a side of me that's jealous of my friends' current success in seduction but I absolutely agree with you! Seriously appreciate the advice! I just finished reading The Game for the second time literally right now and it's closing statements are essentially the same as yours. | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Got a girlfriend now, Should I still game?Yeah I figured as much but I just needed solid reassurance. I seriously appreciate the advice and I'll take it to heart. | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 09:10 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys do to be heard in loud clubs?Go up to her ear and talk. Aside from that, if you still think the music is too loud, I think you should go to a different part of the club to talk (ex. Smoke pit). You don't have to actually smoke but you can bring her outside for some fresh air and to talk. Even after all that, if you still don't like it, club game isn't for everyone. | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 07:14 AM |
| 2 | How do you kiss?Do some research on reddit. Use the Search function and search up Billy's Guide to Kissing on R/seduction | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Older wingmen in Toronto (35-50 age bracket)Just going to take a random guess: your first name is Harman? | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Older wingmen in Toronto (35-50 age bracket)Toronto is indeed really hard. I'm from the GTA but not in the age group you mentioned unfortunately. From bad logistics to heavy competition, Toronto can be quite difficult at times. You're a lot more experienced than me but if I had to guess as to where you guys frequent, I would say Brassaii or Muzik Nightclub. | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 08:17 AM |
| 1 | The girl at workBefore asking her out, you should at least flirt with her. Sexualize the conversation when you're alone with her and kino escalate. After doing so, you'll begin to see indicators of interest OR disinterest; you can then base your next actions based on the results. As for strategy, you can bring up how one of your female friends is trying out online dating. You can talk about the pros and cons of online dating vs. finding women through conventional means (ex. Social circles). By doing this, you w… | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 08:04 AM |
| 4 | Women Will Degrade Themselves for an AlphaExactly this! As soon as I read this, I thought about how women lose respect for guys who buy them dinner on a first date for example. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 04:59 AM |
| 1 | /R/AskSeddit....with or without wingman?It's easy to find wingmen in your area by posting a thread in r/seduction or any other social PU forum. Going solo has its perks and drawbacks but I prefer having a wingman that can push me to keep going when I think it's hopeless and AA creeps in. Wingmen help to game/distract the target's friends too and thus allowing you to build better rapport and isolation with your girl. | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Does race affect if they want to date you or notI used to have this issue (still kinda do but much less) with race and how it might affect me in terms of game. I'm an Asian guy myself so I understand the racial barrier. There will always be racial barriers but they're pretty easy to get over. Firstly, Asian men are stereotypically seen as nerdy, introverted, and likewise. One easy tip is to immediately show that you're actually quite social, talkative, and outgoing. You have to shatter their predisposed stereotype image of you in order to sho… | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 05:51 AM |
| 1 | I joke around too muchI'm the same as you but probably not to the same extent. I love to make jokes (mostly sexual) as much as I can. Personally, I don't think making too many jokes is a bad thing. It shows you have a sense of humour , high energy, and you're optimistic about things in life. I'm not quite sure what the problem is here but I guess you can learn more about her and relate to her in a light hearted (as opposed to mean/rude) joking way. If the problem is you can't get serious, then sometimes silence (from… | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Something to remember for texting.Ideally, you shouldn't flirt or have a conversation through text unless of course there's already solid rapport and everything. Its too easy to misinterpret something through text. For example, there's so many times people write "lol" but they're not actually laughing out loud . Exactly what Derpaterian is saying (I just read his comment now)! Personally, I'd like to switch from texting to phone calls ASAP so that you can have proper conversations, flirt , and correct the other person if there's… | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Do you have to be more reserved with unexperienced girls?Not exactly sure why someone downvoted this but this is the gist of it essentially! | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 06:12 AM |
| 1 | How to divide and conquer?Exactly this! As for isolation, you could say you need a breath of fresh air or you want to play some one on one foosball/pool (if it's available) and then proceed to lead her there. | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 05:46 AM |
| 5 | How to friendzone a girl?I don't think being completely upfront and honest is necessarily the way to go. Let's say you talk to her privately, and you two talk but she denies it for whatever reason; it might become weird for you guys afterwards. You should drop subtle lines here and there like "I'm so glad we're friends". You should treat her like one of your casual friends and you could even game another girl in her presence. If she still shows indicators of interest and attraction in you (after all that), then maybe yo… | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Books/Reference about dating especially 1:st date?Models by Mark Manson has some good things to say about the first date. | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 02:11 AM |
| 0 | How do I wake the fuck up?One good conversation (training) exercise that I've personally found useful and fun was to ask strangers dumb questions. For example, you could ask someone what the time is (despite already knowing the time) and start a conversation that way. Another good one is "can you give me directions to Building X?". Also, a second fun exercise is saying Hi to anyone and everyone every time you step in an elevator. | /r/seduction | 04/09/15 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Game isn't just about getting girls, it's about improving yourself in all aspects of life.There was a recent post on r/ seduction where someone asked what the best books for game to buy were? Reading books is indeed incredibly helpful but it won't improve your life as much if you don't apply it in your life! Sometimes, you have to put the book down and get some real life infield experience in order to improve. | /r/seduction | 04/09/15 06:17 AM |
| 1 | How do I be playful instead of just plain mean?Learning pick up isn't just about getting girls. It's about improving yourself as a whole and clearly you have self-doubts in the person you are becoming or at least being perceived as. If people think you're a bully, you're losing out on a lot of opportunities that would otherwise be available to you. Being a jerk shares similar qualities of an Alpha male and that's why people often use them interchangeably but they're quite different. You should be confident and not cocky (overconfident). You … | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 02:15 AM |
| 9 | How do you flirt? I'm completely clueless, and don'te even know what "flirting" is. Help?Don't worry, a lot of guys don't know what flirting is and are expected to just know what it is. I haven't watched the entirety of the video yet but you should watch How to get Sexual Like a Man by Nick Sparks. If I have to describe it myself, flirting is basically anything you say but said with a sexual intention. Strong body language like kino or strong eye contact will help your partner understand your sexual intentions. For example, "it's going to rain tonight. You're going to get all wet" w… | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Tips for bringing out a stubborn girl's sexual side over textIf she's making you jump through hoops, why would you want to be with her...? If a woman keeps shit testing you and you do win her over, you have successfully won over a manipulative lady. If you still want to go through with this (despite my aforementioned argument not to), here's a solid tip I've used and seen work on many occasions. Call her out on her bullshit games. Tell her you like her and think she's cute or whatever but if she keeps playing games with you, then you're leaving. She will … | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 05:13 PM |
| 2 | A few tips that took countless painful failures to learnYou mentioned not paying for dinner or whatever gets you laid. However, in Mark Manson's book, Models, Manson suggests to always pay for the woman's meal because chivalry and some other reasons I don't quite remember at the moment. I don't mean to dispute your experience and advice but I'd like to know your thoughts about this. I don't have the luxury of bringing a girl back to my place freely yet. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 07:25 PM |
| 1 | "Is that your way of getting my number?" Shit TestWow I actually didn't think of this. My buddy was telling me to say "haha yeah this is my method. It works 10/10 times", which is pretty good too for future reference. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Tips for the ACTUAL DATE itselfHey, I know this is a late comment but I was reading Models a while back and Mark Manson suggested some advice that's entirely relevant to your tenth tip. Manson suggests that most girls are busy on Friday & Saturday nights and it takes a big commitment from them to have a date on those days. In other words, as a guy, you ideally shouldn't suggest dates on these days. On the other hand, if the girl suggests dates on these days as OP has mentioned, it is therefore a giant indicator of interest. | /r/seduction | 10/03/15 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Where to Meet Asian Women?Yeah I'll definitely try a k-pop club. I've always wondered how it'd be like. And pool, I know is a great idea too. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Where to Meet Asian Women?Yeah that's a really good idea I'm going to do with my friends. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 12:49 AM |
| 1 | What is my crush trying to say?The very fact that he went out of his way to talk to you in particular suggests that he is interested in you to some degree. Not only did this guy talk about your test went, he started to joke around with you on your opinions on the cheesy TV shows. In other words, he is definitely showing some degree of interest in you because he wasn't just concerned about your academic grades but also your opinions. You should keep talking to him, show some CLEAR interest back to him (ex. non-sexual physical … | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Where to Meet Asian Women?I am a 22 year old white-washed Asian so I guess I'm trying to find similar Westernized Asians of the same or similar age group. I am extremely into the bar and clubbing scene so I wouldn't be opposed to Asian events at particular clubs. I mean the hot Asian women you always see at clubs that like to party and drink, those are the ones I'm trying to befriend OUTSIDE of the club. There were a few Asian extracurricular clubs at my university; however, I didn't develop the interest in joining these… | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 11:00 PM |
| 1 | White guy going solo to Latin night club. does anyone have this experience? Advice?I am not a white male but I have been to a club that promotes a weekly salsa night. As such, the night was filled with older Latino (columbian?) men and women. From what I could see is that they were all well dressed in dresses, dress pants, black shoes, exotic color dress shirts, and likewise. Also, the Latino men appeared to be very alpha and hostile around their women. | /r/seduction | 09/09/14 03:10 AM |
| 2 | I got a girl's number tonight and noticed some things. If you're still at a phase where numbers are a problem this might help you out.Down vote me if you want but I couldn't agree more with Elysius. You haven't gotten a number in over a year so it seems like OP is setting himself up for oneitis. | /r/seduction | 30/06/14 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Any Toronto sedditors here?I can't speak for the other two guys but they are 24 and 23 respectively. I'm 21. I'm not exactly sure how to quantify or measure experience but I learned this stuff in the summer of 2013 and just went hard with it (almost everyday) in September-December (my last semester in uni). I took a semi-long break (hard to explain on reddit) and started up again when I organized the group of 3. | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Any Toronto sedditors here?I organized a small group of 3 (including myself) about a month ago. We live in the GTA, namely Mississauga and Brampton but we go out to Toronto sometimes. We've been going out on a consistent weekly basis if you're interested. | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 07:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Number Closed HB7 but HB7 appears to be just a TeaseJust before you commented, I texted her to meet up but as you said, I'm quite sure she'll flake on the text. Next time I see her, I'll do what you suggested because it does seem like that's the case. The advice is much appreciated hewolf14. | /r/seduction | 25/05/14 10:49 PM |
| 12 | What are some good flirting games?I couldnt help but notice that most of the flirty games posted on this thread were all created or at least popularized by Neil Straus....I was hoping to learn more original flirty games. | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 04:41 AM |
| 1 | 15 Reasons Why Toronto is the Worst City to Game?Yeah I kinda had a feeling the article poster would generate some bullshit to stir up discussion. However, when I first skimmed through it, it seemed like there was some truth in it, such as the expensive costs and the entrenched PUA culture. I'm still in university so I've only partied in Waterloo so I'm not sure exactly if I just have a narrow or naive perspective of Toronto night life culture. | /r/seduction | 26/03/14 07:37 PM |
| 5 | [Reverse FR] Or what worked on me in daygame80% Day Game and 20% Night Game is the way to go. | /r/seduction | 10/03/14 06:14 PM |
| 1 | [Noob Post] How do I go about picking up a girl dancing at a club?I honestly expected a lot of people to down vote my post. When I commented earlier, I was in a slump state of mind but you're absolutely right; being outcome independent, going to have fun and not just pick up girls should be the goal, and your insecure aura negatively affecting others. Personally, after some previous poor and recent experiences on the dance floor, I've been doubting my game on the dance floor and thus created a self-fulfilling prophecy. It's a numbers game but most of the time,… | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 09:05 PM |
| 16 | [Noob Post] How do I go about picking up a girl dancing at a club?I've done this many times and to be honest, it isn't that simple. Maybe I'm just not the most attractive and suave guy on the dancefloor but many times, girls don't grab your hand back and some girls do like to grind on random guys. | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 02:51 AM |
| 9 | Why I prefer to approach 3 girls instead of 1To win over your target, you must first win over her friends first. | /r/seduction | 12/01/14 03:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The first night of the rest of my lifeGood for you buddy. Hope my advice helped out. | /r/seduction | 09/01/14 08:14 AM |
| 3 | I've been such a pussy ever since I heard about this community. Tonight's the first night of the rest of my lifeFor some more club advice, I wrote out a huge list if you want to check out comment history. I'm on my phone right now so I can't just copy and paste it fully | /r/seduction | 08/01/14 09:20 PM |
| 1 | I've been such a pussy ever since I heard about this community. Tonight's the first night of the rest of my lifeI struggle with club game so you don't necessarily need to heed my advice. Talk to women at the bar area because it's a lot more difficult to have a conversation with a girl on the dance floor. On the dance floor, it's more about body language. A very common mistake is to slowly dance their way to a girl and make it seem like you just happened to get there. Don't do that. Either talk to them (though it will be difficult) or walk up to them and extend your hand for a dance. If they don't take it,… | /r/seduction | 08/01/14 09:12 PM |
| 0 | I've been such a pussy ever since I heard about this community. Tonight's the first night of the rest of my lifeAre you planning to go out to a bar or just day gaming or both? | /r/seduction | 08/01/14 08:46 PM |
| 6 | I've been such a pussy ever since I heard about this community. Tonight's the first night of the rest of my lifeIsn't this being outcome dependent? I mean you should go out to have a lot of fun and not to just pick up girls. You'll talk to girls in the process of having fun | /r/seduction | 08/01/14 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Clubs, wtf?I too am struggling with club game but after going out quite a bit and following up on other sedditors' advice, here's a few tips (in no particular order): Go out to have fun, not to necessarily pick up women (something about being outcome independent? not sure if its the right term). It's very difficult in verbally approaching sets on the dance floor but not impossible. As everyone else has already suggested, it's all about eye contact, body language, grooming etc. Approach sets in the bar area… | /r/seduction | 15/12/13 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Didn't F-close my first semester of collegeWrite a full field report. You haven't really included any details for us to suggest advice to. Your question is extremely broad so don't be surprised if you receive extremely broad answers. | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 11:04 PM |
| 22 | *FR College number close 100%*Hey bud, I don't mean to ruin your momentum but this is something you may want to use and keep in mind. When you ask for their number, you should repeat it back to them but change one digit. If they correct you, then you're all good. If she doesn't correct you, it's a very good chance she gave you the wrong number on purpose. After talking for a certain amount of time with you, she may have felt obligated to give you a number. By doing this, you can separate the girls who are actually interested… | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 03:51 AM |
| 1 | [FR+Q] Club Night with a Bisexual Girlyeah the "not the hottest" thing was something I immediately regretted after saying it. The bad kisser, on the other hand, was something I picked up from other field reports. The bad kisser line is actually pretty good I think. It worked well for me even though I lost the HB6 later on in the night. | /r/seduction | 08/12/13 08:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR+Q] Club Night with a Bisexual GirlYeah I should've developed a better connection first; that was the primary problem I would say. I barely established any rapport. | /r/seduction | 08/12/13 07:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR+Q] Club Night with a Bisexual GirlI posted the FR in both r/seduction and r/askseddit. There seemed to be more responses there so I'll just provide the link. If you could comment there, that would be awesome. One person already broke down what I did wrong. [FR] Club Night with Bisexual Girl | /r/seduction | 08/12/13 07:28 PM |
| 1 | {CAN OPENER TEXT}I used this text message on a girl today after a K close last night. It worked wonders.Yeah I'll try this out next time I number and k-close a girl. I haven't watched suits in a while but something bout Canned pineapples | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 02:46 PM |
| 4 | Getting hot and heavy, dealing with LMR, and sexLooking at all these comments, it doesn't seem like you're getting all the respect and credit you deserve. I've dealt with LMR before and didn't know how to react to it - much appreciation to your informative article. | /r/seduction | 14/11/13 06:17 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/25/13Hey, I started going to clubs a lot more often but I've found that I haven't really sexualized the conversations even though I have gotten their numbers. I feel that one solution would be using the apocalypse opener. It's kind of a stupid and not simple question but I have to ask regardless. How do you guys feel about using the apocalypse opener critically early in the night? | /r/seduction | 28/10/13 06:41 AM |
| 16 | Why you should try day game.I'm at university at the moment and my biggest concern over day game is that if she rejects me, there's a fair chance she may see me again somewhere else especially because I go to a small university with a small campus. | /r/seduction | 24/09/13 03:00 AM |
| 4 | What are some good hobbies?Hey, what do you think about playing pool? Plenty of bars in my area. | /r/seduction | 20/08/13 07:41 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Friendzoned by a sexually-active HB6, but didn't leave empty-handedSolid advice | /r/seduction | 09/08/13 05:41 AM |
| 12 | [FR] What should you say when they ask if you have a girlfriend?Damn I should've said this yesterday. | /r/seduction | 07/08/13 05:40 PM |
| – | Went on a few dates with HB7. Girl is demonstrating potential red flagsWell I'm actually glad you replied and gave this response just right now. I literally just finished another date with the girl. I definitely sexualized the conversation and physical touching a lot more. Here's what I found out: She was a slut (low self-esteem issues, wanting to please etc.) She would regularly do sexual things with guys but according to her, she's still a virgin She's trying to break the "cycle", which is bullshit of course Made out with her some more which led to her franticall… | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Went on a few dates with HB7. Girl is demonstrating potential red flagsThanks, I like your perspective on the whole situation. I've recently just swallowed the pill. I was on the fence before on kids and marriage but after reading some horror stories on TRP, I don't think kids or marriage is right for me. As for the girl, I'll talk to her tonight. | /r/askTRP |
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