This is my second time doing solo game. I'm writing all of this through my phone so bear with me.

Beginning

It's Friday, January 22nd. I take a nap during the day and wake up at 9:30PM. My plan, since earlier this week on Monday, was to try another attempt on solo game.

Needless to say, I'm pretty shaken up with AA already trying to shut me down before I even go out. I talk to some fellow wingmen buddies and r/askseddit for some last minute motivation and tips. It helps a lot! I learned about this mind trick recently (from Dale Carnegie) and I honestly think it does wonders for getting you into state and just being happy.

Carnegie Smile Trick Force yourself to smile and then sing/hum a song. By doing this, you will have tricked your brain into being more happy and your forced smile will become a more natural smile.Seriously try it right now before you read more!!

Uses:

  • After a rejection
  • Getting into state
  • Quickly have higher energy when meeting someone
  • Use it on a girl (who's sad) and it'll brighten up her day a bit, thus creating rapport

Bar - Venue 1

After doing game for about 2 years, I have a solid understanding of my personal strengths and weaknesses in approaching, conversation etc. I love having interesting conversations with women especially over drinks. As such, I prefer going to bars, pubs or lounges to approach women and not loud night clubs.

I go inside the bar and there's no cover (just another advantage over clubs). It's 10:30PM now and the bar is pretty much dead. There's plenty of guys and one large party of girls and guys. However, the large party is seated in a very secluded area of the bar so it'd be difficult to approach (internal excuses maybe?) and I'd be wasting time to wait for one of the girls to break away so I could possibly befriend her.

Instead, I go talk to one senior male by the bar. I do some small talk to help break down my AA for the night. Ultimately, I decide to switch venues to a pub.

Tip: Know your personal strengths and weaknesses in game. This way, you'll have a much more fun time and better chances to pull women in a venue that is tailored to your style

Pub - Venue 2

I park my car and I walk over. I immediately see a hot blonde Milf smoking outside the pub. I instantly approach her and talk about the pub. I learn she's from Australia and she's here in Canada for her husband. Even though she has a husband, I'm still extremely happy because I'm already in the mood to approach, I made a friend at the venue, and she could possibly introduce me to her other friends later in the night.

I go inside the pub and approach yet another brunette Milf. It turns out she's here with her husband too. I'm still happy because I did research on this venue before leaving. This pub is known for Milfs and Cougars on a Friday night; I have a thing for older women. Tip: Do online research on a venue before going to it on a certain night. Certain venues are known to have a different age demographics on different nights. Prepare accordingly.

I go to the bar and see a smoking hot redhead and blonde by the bar. The blonde appears to be with a guy while the redhead is just on her phone. I open the redhead and she's immediately shows IOIs (biting her lip, twirling her hair, prolonged eye contact, smiling etc.) Needless to say, I could tell she was bored and I made her feel important by talking to her and her interests. (People love it when they talk about themselves).

I stop the conversation to get a beer from the bartender and return to the redhead who is right next to me. Based on her body language, I can see she's no longer interested in me and I realized I also failed to sexualize the conversation and even failed to do kino on her. I try to reestablish conversation but she's not interested anymore.

I turn to my other side and I befriend a a guy who happens to work as a paramedic. We talk about his personal life and I give honest appreciation of his job and family. In turn, he introduces me to some of his friends. I have an awesome time talking with these guys and they gave me free shots. I approach a few more Milfs but even though they turned me down, we're still having a fun time talking about the age differences and their personal lives. Tip: Game everyone. Become friends with everyone, not just the women. They'll introduce you to their friends and you'll just have a more fun time in general

TL; DR - Went out solo. Did a venue change from a dead bar to a live pub filled with Milfs. Became friends with random people. Got free drinks.