eli5127 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	3rd Date - No physical contact yet. I have no idea what to do I dont know what some other people here are saying but your doing good. If shes's STILL into you after 3 dates and you didnt fuck her you are doing something right. Fuck escalation, worst is forcing it in times when its not needed. Sure it's important, but it seems like the frame you set for yourself is casual. And thats fine, remember that the seduction community here is catered to both one night stands and long term relationships... Dont just listen to everyone, you have to know where you are …	/r/seduction	25/01/16 12:13 PM
1	Going after sorority girls in a college town while not even being a student, how hard is that? Very easy if you have your life together, do you?	/r/seduction	25/01/16 12:03 PM
1	Having some success, but often feel I'm an asshole for doing so - how do you deal with success with women? Dont just come here and expect people here to clear your conciousness for you. You know exactly what the right thing to do is. To me it seems like you want a girlfriend but your setting traps for yourself by involving yourself with women you dont truly like. Hey man, been there done that, I feel you homie. Like you said yourself- it is very fucking important that your alligned with your thoughts, words, and actions. You'll never be happy if those things are not alligned.	/r/seduction	25/01/16 12:02 PM
1	How can I be like Cyrus, a guy who doesn't need external validation? Your mentality is sick. And I mean poisoned. You know exactly what your issues are which is great, now act on them. Overly sensitive? Go and get rejected even more so you become numb to the feeling. Can't game with your family around, yup you guessed it, do that more. Low self esteem? Fuck it who cares, it's just what it is, self eteem. Go attend to other people's needs instead, this world isn't just about you. I'm being tough on you because I went through everything your going through and someo…	/r/seduction	25/01/16 11:51 AM
2	[FR] Solo Game. Friendships & Venue Changes. I feel like your not setting the right frame from the start. These are older women and they lived awhile, too long for too much small talk. Take it from me, be more direct with them, their 3x more horny than you.	/r/seduction	25/01/16 11:44 AM
1	Tips for small talks? Agreed	/r/seduction	25/01/16 11:35 AM
2	How many of you have no friends? Whenever I have a problem, I think what is the "ubmbrella " problem, what is the bigger issue here that if I solve, other solutions will flow under it. Lets take this case, friends. The real issue isnt finding friend, it's doing more with your life. I have met awesome people at the gym, at the store, in bars, outside of bars, subways. Clearly OP your social, but maybe your not proactive enough about initiating conversations with new people. Also im getting a hint that you think your "above" intr…	/r/seduction	25/01/16 11:32 AM
1	How do you win over the girl's friends? You don't have to win anything it's not the battle of Gettysburg. Be the dude who all the girls love for your charm and value-giving, then pick the girl you want. There is just no way that if your funny, charming, and awesome that someone will stop you ;)	/r/seduction	25/01/16 11:24 AM
3	How do you win over the girl's friends? Gotta love Tyler	/r/seduction	25/01/16 11:20 AM
2	Text Game. Girl I matched with on dating app is a drag to talk with. When do I cut the line? Is there a general guideline for how long to stay in one sided conversations? Yeah it's insecure. Get over it. And what do you mean they have it so easy online. You know how many losers they have to weed out. Imagine a million tinder matches with 999,999 of them being incompatible. In the girls mind we have it easy. All we do is hit up who we like in hopes of them reciprocating. A girl has no control over who likes her profile. And that my friend is not "having it easy" online. Anyways keep approaching, online or not and remember that rejection is part of the game, move o…	/r/seduction	25/01/16 11:17 AM
3	Tips for small talks? A good pick up artist is simply a person who understands people on a deeper level. So if you want to have better small talk, make it meaningful by acknowledging the girl. Ex. You're talking to her about some BS like the weather or class schedules, and then suddenly cut her and say " you know I really appreciate talking to someone just for kicks" ... Then smile and just see how the girls face changes to a calm, sexually charged look ;)	/r/seduction	25/01/16 03:58 AM
3	An idea of throwing a party that includes my friends inviting all of their Tinder matches, could it work? Ayyyy I went to a New Years party last year, the theme was tinder matches, beautiful idea. there were no issues. go for it sir.	/r/seduction	25/01/16 03:52 AM
2	First Date in Years - Didn't go Well Maybe the whole date idea was too much for a first time you know. Pillows and blankets and shit on a first date...eh too much investment on her part. Regardless, good stuff for not letting anything stand between you and having fun, and for that you deserve the medal of being that cool dude.	/r/seduction	23/01/16 11:14 AM
11	[FR] -Mall game with #-close Love the baddass "Did you forget something? yeah your number" ordeal. Also great that you know it's totally not weird to go back and grab her numner after a simple chat. you just did something 99% of the population wouldnt do.	/r/seduction	23/01/16 11:06 AM
8	How to approach a group? Scene* Cofee table, three woman, friday night. There's always a solution, here's mine: Approach them like your approaching kittens in an adoption clinic. Walk up to them slow, your walk should convey kindness, calmness, and focus like wire-walker Philippe Petit when he crossed the twin towers. In your mind imagine that your approaching them because you have found the solutions to all their problems. Imagine that they really need you. Imagine that they called you to come over there because they'v…	/r/seduction	23/01/16 10:55 AM