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There are dozens of articles and resources that summarize this much better than I can in a single reply. Google "IOI examples." Maybe give the ol' sidebar a read too...
/r/askTRP06/10/15 10:43 PM
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Since I met Anna she never mentioned him to me and it seems that she is avoiding this subject, sometimes in a very unnatural way. I used to think that this was a "sign" that a girl wanted me to hit on her or escalate with her, but I've actually found that a lot of girls do this to try and pull you into orbit. She wants you to think that you have a chance. But you probably don't. So just move on
/r/askTRP06/10/15 09:57 PM
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Did you get offended that I told you that you'd better save your money by going to prostitutes and escorts? What "money?" Love the assumption that I'm spending all sorts of money on plates. Did it offend you that you provide nothing to women other than sex? Nope, I really don't care what I'm "providing." Women have the option to leave whenever they'd like and it doesn't bother me in the least. But you know nothing about me, so it's pretty funny that you seem to "know" what I'm providing What off…
/r/askTRP06/10/15 09:38 PM
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Excellent post Recently dealt with your situation. Seeing a girl, banging regularly. but constantly getting flaked on, etc. I figured she was just riding the CC and banging other guys. Eventually I found out she had a boyfriend the entire time and I was actually the "other guy." Total perspective shifting moment for me
/r/askTRP06/10/15 05:36 PM
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If you want to start approaching, then do it. You just need to temper your expectations and really analyze your approaches/interactions afterwards. Fuck confidence. You need to do these approaches and learn from your mistakes so you can effectively implement your game once you've raised your SMV
/r/askTRP06/10/15 05:25 PM
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In my younger, more dick-ish days, I would completely dominate the beta. He's instantly the butt of all my jokes and I'll control the conversation in a manner that either leaves him out or sets him up for epic failure. These days, I'd just let the dude 3rd wheel and hit the girl up another time. I remember what it was like to be the helpless beta. It's not fun at all. A rising tide lifts all boats
/r/askTRP06/10/15 05:17 PM
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YES!
/r/askTRP06/10/15 05:11 PM
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Very good point. I have nothing against long-term MGTOW/Monk Mode lifestyles, but I think it's become a crutch for some people to avoid facing the problem that ultimately brought them to TRP --dealing with women
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 05:10 PM
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It's a great rule. Girls who "make you wait" and dangle sex over your head aren't worth your time. She'll fuck Chad within 20 minutes of meeting him, yet you're somehow expected to wait? NEXT. No point in even trying. Using sex as a bargaining chip might be the ultimate red flag for me. If a girl really likes you, she'll make it happen by date #2. Otherwise, you're getting the BB treatment and that's no way to start a relationship. Glad we both stumbled upon the same "rule." It's always nice to …
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 04:57 PM
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You don't get it. It's okay. A LTR has boundaries and there are commitments. I see other women and they are free to see other dudes. No strings attached. Hanging out with someone once or twice a week and occasionally going out on "dates" does not make it a LTR. The fact that you can't see the difference here is baffling to me. But then again, I should have known better than to engage in an argument with someone clueless enough to equate plates to prostitutes...
/r/askTRP06/10/15 04:47 PM
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He updated the OP. It makes more sense now. I will say, however, that the term "plate" is getting consistently misused. Not in this situation (I misconstrued the OP), but throughout TRP. It's getting annoying to read about how some dude is planning on "plating" a girl that he's barely even talked to
/r/askTRP06/10/15 04:15 AM
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Yeah sure thing buddy. I know it might surprise you, but I actually enjoy hanging out with girls and don't just see them as fuck toys. But please, tell me more about the last time you paid a prostitute to go to a concert with you, get drunk, and fuck afterwards, because that's the type of thing I do with my FWB's. So you're helping them cheat? I don't get it. No, not necessarily. A few of my past FWB's have ultimately dumped me for a LTR. We saw each other for a few months, they found a dude who…
/r/askTRP06/10/15 04:02 AM
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How are you plating a chick who won't even go out on a date with you? How are you going from not even worthy of a date, to being FWBs? Not trying to be a dick, but talking about "plating" chicks who you've never fucked and are showing obvious signs of disinterest makes absolutely no sense. This type of "logic" seems to be a growing trend on TRP. Not trying to single you out or anything, just trying to make a point. EDIT: Re-read the OP. Seems like it's possible that he's fucked her. Even so, you…
/r/askTRP06/10/15 03:53 AM
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Damn, this post draws way too many parallels with my old BP lifestyle. It's painful to even think about, but I used to get much more pleasure from cockblocking the dude who wanted to fuck a girl I was white knighting than I got from gaming random chicks. So glad I've absorbed the pill and become the guy who actually gets laid at the end of the night
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 03:35 AM
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So let me get this straight--she is ultra involved in multiple different things with the University, but she magically forgets how to plan when it comes to you? Sounds like bullshit to me. Go no contact and game other girls. If she texts you on Saturday, just respond with a time and location. If she wants to make it happen, she will.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 02:42 AM
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Girls aren't in this for sex. At this point if you are still providing no commitment at all, you might as well just get prostitutes and escorts and save everyone the trouble. Jesus dude. Just because you don't want a serious relationship doesn't mean you should just start banging hookers. I've had plenty of fun, mutually-beneficially FWB relationships that didn't require me to give any real "commitment." Sure, girls are always looking for "commitment," but that commitment doesn't necessarily hav…
/r/askTRP06/10/15 01:28 AM
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The only time it isn't is for guys learning, hell even myself. Raising that N count and getting experience in bed is good. Once a guy feels he's getting to a good stage, up the standards as you have. Yeah once you know your game really works, you need to up the standards a bit. The only way you'll find that out is through experience. I'm far from the "most" experienced guy on TRP, but I know enough to know when the connection isn't there.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 11:27 PM
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As I and I know others say, every girl could be a slut for the right guy. I won't rule out a girl for a relationship based on the fact we had a ONS together that turned to banging. For all I know, I was the only guy she tried that form of "relationship" with because I was worth it in her eyes. Most people will disagree with me, but I won't even consider a "relationship" with a girl unless we have sex within 2 dates. I've always said, you cannot negotiate passion. It's either there or it isn't. I…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 10:28 PM
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How are you "planning on plating" a girl you haven't even fucked yet? How do you have a "plate-in-progess?" Not trying to single you out or be a dick, but I hear way too much of this on here. Plates (I really don't like using this term honestly) are girls you are actively having sex with. Not ONS. Not girls you've kissed one time and are "planning" on fucking eventually. But girls you are actively having sex with. Again, not trying to be a dick, but I think it's important to understand the diffe…
/r/askTRP05/10/15 09:23 PM
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A real quality girl is a hot girl who drives a shit car and hangs out with a broke boyfriend/husband. It's weird how many low-quality girls I know like this They aren't no "quality girls" There absolutely are. You don't have to be a "unicorn" to be a quality girl.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 07:12 PM
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Honestly dude, the longer she lives in your apartment, the harder this is all going to be. You might have to just suck it up for a month financially and kick her out asap. Also, there is not going to be a "conversation." You are going to simply tell her that it's over and she's moving out asap. This isn't a negotiation. She cheated on you dude. The time for being nice and "talking things out" ended the second she met Ol' Chad in Vegas. You owe her nothing
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 06:51 PM
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This X1000 As someone who is just now breaking into the Top 20% of the 80/20 spectrum, I've seen this behavior from both sides of the equation. I KNOW what it feels like to be the "decisionmaker" and I also KNOW when a woman doesn't view me as attractive enough to get "decisionmaker" privileges. I'm at the point of my life where I'm not going to ever "work" for sex again. If it's really difficult from the beginning, the relationship is doomed anyway So what does she do? She puts out for the hot …
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 06:30 PM
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Tinder was/is/always will be a hook-up app. Sorry, but that's the truth. Any girl who spends a significant amount of time on Tinder isn't worth LTR'ing. Most girls will at least try it out, but the highest quality girls have no use for it
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 05:01 PM
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I don't live in a woman's frame ever. This is something that I'm just now realizing after approx. 2 years since swallowing the pill. The odds are severely stacked against you when you willingly enter a woman's frame. You may be successful occasionally, but was it really worth the effort that you put in?
/r/askTRP05/10/15 04:52 PM
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I actually respect the hell out of guys who can execute a boldface lie for sex. It's not something I've ever been able to bring myself to do, but I don't fault guys who can pull it off. It's really no different than girls dangling sex over your head so you will commit to them.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 04:48 PM
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Yup. Worst case scenario, you get rejected. But at least when you get a "hard" rejection, you know exactly where you stand, as opposed to Op's situation now where he doesn't know. Fortune favors the bold
/r/askTRP05/10/15 04:44 PM
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Yeah I was in PR one time and a few ladyboy hookers got killed at La Concha by some coked out Americans. Fucked up shit. Not really related to your story at all, but I thought I'd share. It's definitely a party hotel where pretty much anything goes
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 04:41 PM
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Puerto Rico is one of my favorite places in the world. Puerto Ricans are just cool as shit and love to party. And if you're a white dude, Puerto Rican women will love you. Even in my most BP days, I was getting laid in PR. But sex/women aside, it's just a great place to go. It's really underrated for some reason, but I can't think of a place in the Caribbean that I'd rather go on vacation to.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 04:38 PM
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People (most) dont care about your problems, only what value you can provide for them, and that it breeds contempt amongst people who have to hear it. They will pretend sympathy but really just end up seeing you as a snivelling rat which is pretty much the truth when acting like that. Absolutely. This is why I've just gotten to the point where I don't tell anyone about my problems...ever. Nobody gives a shit. Most people are too self-absorbed to want to hear about any of your issues, regardless …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 04:32 PM
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Most guys have shit game. Most of the time they will fuck up and then you and your girl can exchange looks and roll your eyes about him, and she will probably smile realizing that the "amog" is spitting bad game or is acting drunk or whatever. I'd say this is the case 9 times out of 10. I just smirk and laugh. Typically these types of guys take themselves way too seriously, so I can break them down pretty easily with wit and humor
/r/askTRP04/10/15 04:04 PM
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If he doesn't fuck her, someone else will. So why not him? Bingo. I usually don't fuck around with married or LTR'd chicks because it's usually too much drama for me, but I really have no sympathy at all for the Beta husband/boyfriend in these situations. It's not my responsibility to keep your wife/girlfriend from cheating on you.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 03:56 PM
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If he is fucking housewives he clearly isn't getting sex easily. Do you honestly believe that? Fucking a housewife is a lot more difficult than fucking some bar slut on a Saturday night. It's actually kinda mindblowing that you think the opposite
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 03:51 PM
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It's not everyone's motive who has gone MGTOW, but it definitely seems like one of the motivations to me
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 08:56 PM
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Why did you try to get her back?
/r/askTRP03/10/15 04:12 PM
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Great post. I see a lot of people who claim they are MGTOW/"permanent monk mode" because "AWALT bro, there's no point in even dealing with women." In reality, it's just easier for them to say "AWALT" than it is to deal with failure or even put themselves at risk to fail. Far too often AWALT is simply used as a crutch to absolve any personal responsibility associated with failure (I'm definitely guilty of it). If you know "all women are like that," then you should be prepared for it
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 04:08 PM
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Right and Bud Light commercials don't say "Drink Bud Light and you'll party with hot chicks," they say "This fictional guy is drinking Bud Light and partying with hot chicks." I wonder how Bud Light sells so much shitty beer...
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 03:07 PM
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I wish I had some pull over her Drop the ego. The only life you need to worry about is your own. And as long as you aren't blatantly treating people poorly, you should only be worried about how your actions positively affect you and those around you.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 02:46 PM
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I feel I should feel good. But I can't. It feels ant clamatic. I hadn't seen her in months. I thought she would look better, I thought she would be with a better dude, if she was eben with him. This is the eyeopening truth of TRP. 9 times out of 10, you were actually "the prize" and didn't realize it. You expected her to upgrade to some super Alpha badass because you completely undervalued yourself in relation to your Ex.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 02:43 PM
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Yes exactly I'm not going to try to argue with the group of TRPers who will willingly twist their minds to make it seem like all women are terrible for having orbiters (most of which likely put themselves into orbit), while men doing the same thing with plates are somehow not at fault. It's the same type of logic that feminists use and it isn't constructive at all. This is TRP, where we are supposed to view things with complete objectivity. If you have plates, you shouldn't get upset at women fo…
/r/askTRP03/10/15 02:21 PM
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Yeah validation addiction is really becoming a serious problem in society today -- for both men and women. It's sad to watch. I legitimately feel bad when I see really attractive girls I know posting new, revealing pictures to social media every single day. I seriously think a few girls I know would have withdrawals if they didn't get to post a new cleavage selfie to Snapchat every few hours
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 02:02 PM
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only post when you have something to say that adds value. Creating content is not a value on its own. Yeah it's extremely frustrating when like half of the posts on Page 1 are either relating to basic sidebar material or pointless, grasping-at-straws analogies that serve no purpose other than feeding the circle-jerk. If you aren't making a strong, relevant point, don't bother posting about it. Nobody benefits from your wall-of-text about how some 15 second interaction you had with a stranger rel…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 05:43 PM
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You should invite as many girls as possible to the pregame
/r/askTRP01/10/15 02:54 AM
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It wears you down man, especially when they get butthurt because you moved on and made other plans. They never learn though...
/r/askTRP01/10/15 02:27 AM
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Again, I know that waiting a long time to text back is something that girls will do to weed out thirsty, desperate dudes who are already too invested. However, after we've been seeing each other for a little while, it shouldn't be an issue to send a quick response
/r/askTRP01/10/15 01:49 AM
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It really amazes me how entitled some girls are when it comes to making last second plans (or plans in general really). Had a plate text me at 11:30 the other night to come over. When I told her it'd be at least 30 minutes, she acted like an absolute child and cancelled because she "didn't want to wait that long." Same exact girl who waits 6-12 hours to text me back on a regular basis. And she wonders why she'll never be more than a plate...
/r/askTRP01/10/15 12:10 AM
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Since I usually only text for logistics, it becomes even more rude and annoying because my texts are usually time sensitive. If I text a girl "come by at 8" and she doesn't respond until 7:30, I've already made other plans and moved on with my night. You have to be a really entitled person to think that I'm going to wait around all night while you decide whether or not you want to come over
/r/askTRP30/09/15 11:51 PM
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The inability text/call back in a reasonable amount of time is a huge red flag for me. I know that this behavior can be part of "the game" early on, but it really shows a lack of respect once you've started seeing each other fairly regularly
/r/askTRP30/09/15 10:32 PM
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Next
/r/askTRP30/09/15 10:17 PM
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Exactly. You can't control her. She's not your property. If she wants to continue to flirt with Chad until she "slips up" one day, that's fine. You will simply move on without a second thought
/r/askTRP30/09/15 09:02 PM
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Abundance mentality
/r/askTRP30/09/15 08:43 PM
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Don't take it personally. She is just discovering the CC. The amount of validation she's receiving from an infinite number of different dudes right now is probably overwhelming. You haven't really been "rejected," but you aren't someone that she needs to immediately address. As long as you maintain frame, you'll probably end up banging her occasionally after the bar
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:40 PM
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But that was something I'd been taught as a beta and simply never addressed; it used to be important because it was so rare, but now, in it's abundance, it's become meaningless. Yeah, this is kinda where I am right now. I don't go out very often, but I generally can get laid whenever I put in the effort. The problem is, I often just end up fucking a "meh" girl without trying at all. And you're right, this has diluted the meaning of sex for me. My BP programming tells me "fuck anything and everyt…
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:24 PM
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She's 18, single, and "slutty." She doesn't need to have a FWB relationship with some dude she works with (you shouldn't shit where you eat anyway) because she can have sex with a different dude whenever she'd like. You need to go no-contact because she's not interested in having a "thing" with you. Just act like it was no big deal and then bang her whenever the opportunity arises when you're both drinking at the same bar
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:15 PM
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Wow, this post really hit home for me. Thank you. How did you escape from this mentality? I've prided myself on my sexual abilities for a long time, even dating back to my beta days. I just can't imagine finishing in 2-3 minutes, shrugging my shoulders, and not insisting on going for another round (or 3). I don't really have a sensitive ego, as I've left girls unsatisfied before and basically said "your loss," but I do feel additional pressure when sleeping with a new girl to leave a really good…
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:01 PM
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I agree with this. You need to be reading the sidebar, drawing your own conclusions, then coming to AskTRP with specific questions. Nobody wants to decode your 1200 word essay about your 2 minute interaction with a girl at the bar
/r/askTRP28/09/15 11:15 PM
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True
/r/askTRP28/09/15 11:02 PM
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Is it worth the drama that will inevitably come along with it?
/r/askTRP28/09/15 09:14 PM
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Also, think of how compelling the concept of 'oppression'. If you frame everything as a struggle against oppression, even if is a struggle against objective reality, it is still very appealing to young minds which are being mind controlled en masse. It's classic misdirection. Create an imaginary "struggle" to fight against, then systematically remove freedoms and rights in the name of "freedom," "safety," and "equality."
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 08:03 PM
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But if a girl is not Fuck YES about you then why waste your time? Because the idea of "Fuck Yes" is an extreme oversimplification of what actually takes place in real life
/r/askTRP28/09/15 07:59 PM
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Sounds pretty typical. Just tell her to come over and act like it never happened. No need to get butthurt over a plate not texting you while on vacation in Europe
/r/askTRP28/09/15 07:15 PM
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This is a good principle to understand, but I personally don't always use it. It's a nice little short-cut for people just swallowing the pill and teaches a valuable lesson, but you'll be a lot less successful if you don't sometimes chase "warm leads" that have a big payoff
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:34 PM
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Hard to say, but I've been in very similar situations before. In my situations, it seemed like the girl was just looking for an excuse to break it off with me, while looking to get as much validation as possible before ending the "relationship." She wants you to start upping your commitment to her so she can feel like she's "won" and then she'll say "sorry I'm already dating Beta Brian, we can't hang out anymore." My advice would be to keep banging her for as long as she'll let you. Then, in a f…
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:25 PM
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Did you inquire about her not texting quickly enough or double-text her when she hadn't responded in a while? If yes, she's telling you to lay off. You've been soft nexted. If no, I would say that while she's probably being relatively honest, shes also being an uppity bitch. A lot of girls think that it's cute to be a bitch when dealing with someone who they view as "beneath" them. It's a major shit test. Agree and amplify. I'm not going to come up with the line for you, but you're on the right …
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:10 PM
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Best handle on TRP?
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:05 PM
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Recently I asked my friend "Why do you care so much about where I put my dick?" He was immediately silenced. There is no reason that somebody should care enough about your sex life to mock you for having sex with a girl, unless she is like 400 pounds with body hair and an STD. You can't worry about it. I've never met a dude who was consistently banging hot chicks who would rag on another guy for fucking 6/7's. The fact is, he probably isn't getting laid very often, so it softens the blow to his …
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:04 PM
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ts all about manipulating language in order to manipulate thought and quell opposition. Its mind control. 2+2=5. Ding!Ding!Ding! Language control is the closest thing to thought control. It's an absolute tragedy to see where our society is heading. It's legitimately mirroring 1984 and Brave New World. Frightening really
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 05:59 PM
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It's really just an awful, uninformative post that feeds the circle-jerk and goes nowhere. There's an old saying that goes "When your only tool is a hammer, everything looks like a nail." When everything you ever look at is viewed through an extreme red pill lens, everything you see is going to look like some feminist attack on your masculinity. It's the same exact mentality that has feminist crazies starting campaigns against "manspreading" or whatever other dumbass thing they view as an attack…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 05:48 PM
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Girls like drugs. Water = wet Typical festy chick. She's going to be a lot of drama, I'm sure, but she'll be ridiculous in bed
/r/askTRP24/09/15 09:19 PM
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2-pronged test: A. She is marriage testing B. She wants to keep her name and is testing your reaction to that (not as important as A)
/r/askTRP24/09/15 07:11 PM
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Women cheating/wife cheating is an entirely different matter. A wife cheating has moved on from the relationship and has already hard nexted the husband. She's emotionally and sexually closed off after a cheating episode. After she cheats, husband is in the friendzone. Wives don't slip up and cheat, they don't get drunk on business trips and cheat with some hawt dude; it doesn't "just happen". A wife who cheats has been thinking about, ruminating about, and eventually planning the cheating, for …
/r/askTRP24/09/15 07:09 PM
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Great stuff right here
/r/askTRP23/09/15 08:39 PM
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Nobody (well...pretty much nobody) goes through life without making serious mistakes along the way. You cannot live a perfect life. You will always have regrets. Dwelling on them isn't constructive. However, learning from them is.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 08:31 PM
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So it's likely that she didn't think anything at all of flaking on you. Girls are safety-oriented, and she carefully assessed that flaking on you while dangling some vague hope of a future meeting allowed her to bank in some future attention and validation from you. This is great insight right here
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:00 PM
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My go-to response right here is "that sucks." "Ugh, my Ex boyfriend was such a fucking jerk to me, blah, blah" "Damn...that sucks...." I like to let that awkward pause really sink in. I want her to know that I really don't care about her past relationships and I'm not going to engage in a conversation about them. Sometimes I can't even control myself and I'll start smirking as the pause becomes more and more awkward. I legitimately think it's funny that some girls think talking about past guys o…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:34 PM
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The OP just isn't useful for the average RPer. The average RPer isn't going to be a 32 year old billionaire with the ability to tell the world to "fuck off" whenever they want. You can afford to be a bull in a china shop when you have a billion dollars. 99% of people can't act that way and get away with it. o create wealth and abundance you must have the courage to flaunt society's prescribed morals. Victory is the purest energy source one can tap. Let your standards dictate the bar for everyone…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 09:18 PM
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Not because I want to talk to her or see how she's doing, but because I might feel like a dick if I don't, and because it may cast me in a good light. Maybe I'm just not familiar with the situation or something, but this seems like a classic hamster right here. You are making up excuses for yourself so you can text your Ex, hoping that she will respond and you guys can talk, all under the guise of plausible deniability. Not trying to be a dick or anything (really, I'm not), but this is a terribl…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:03 PM
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Ok...here are the spoilers for what happens when you get back in touch: She agrees to meet back up with you You hang out, things are just like they were prior to the breakup, possibly better Sex is off-the-charts good. Better than it ever was You begin to question your decision to dump her You attempt to get her back as your GF and develop oneitis She branch swings to another dude, possibly attempting to turn you into an orbiter along the way My advice: Wait a year before even thinking about get…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 08:58 PM
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Thank you! I really hope it's helpful
/r/askTRP21/09/15 08:40 PM
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I walked in a bitch who just wanted to disrespect me, no? Yes, you did. It's a tough spot to be in, that's for sure. I don't fault you for just walking out, but I'm betting that she interpreted it as you being pissed off. See my update she sent an apology but it seemed full of shit Yup, I'm thinking that was a face-saving apology text because she thought you were pissed. Different from the "I'm reeeallly sorry about the other night, how can I make it up to you?" text
/r/askTRP21/09/15 06:22 PM
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After you next a girl for whatever reason, she is going to want to justify it in her head. Normally, she is going to justify it by calling you an asshole (not the good kind) and moving on. By following my approach, you are showing that while you are amused with her, you aren't mad. You stayed cool and maintained frame, even when she was blatantly disrespecting you. She didn't get a rise out of you, even when she was obviously fishing for one. You are essentially laughing in her face as you walk …
/r/askTRP21/09/15 06:08 PM
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Lately I've been thinking that "Ok" isn't as good of a response as saying nothing. A lot of girls read "Ok" as "he's pissed that I flaked." This doesn't always work in your favor. Saying nothing lets that hamster wheel spin and you can still text her back a few days later if you want. She might even send a double-text after a day or so
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 05:58 PM
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While we may disagree on how you left it, your thought process was perfect and ejecting was definitely the correct move. Personally, I don't advocate any type of bridge-burning behaviors, as they display a certain level of butthurt. In my opinion, he who gets butthurt first, loses. A quick "Welp I gotta go. Later" with an amused smirk on your face is what I would have done. I don't blame you though. She was clearly being a self-absorbed bitch and doesn't really deserve much courtesy.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 05:37 PM
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Western society today breeds validation addicts by the millions. Having enough self-awareness to realize that you struggle with validation is a great first step. I was in your shoes about 2 years ago. What helped me the most was just going out and doing things I wanted to do. I went to a bunch of great concerts alone. I started lifting like a maniac. I even moved into a single apartment, away from all of my friends, and unplugged from the partying lifestyle. Now, 2 years later, I'm a completely …
/r/askTRP21/09/15 05:25 PM
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You have to ask yourself "Why am I placing so much of my happiness in the hands of someone who doesn't care about my happiness?" The fact is, 99.9999% of people you meet in this life really don't give a fuck about your happiness. It's a harsh reality. Luckily, your personal happiness does not need to be dependent on the actions/thoughts of others. Happiness is a simple choice that you make every single day. Am I going to smile and laugh at the absurdity of life or am I going to drag my feet and …
/r/askTRP21/09/15 12:56 PM
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It's all about status, with a hint of pussy pedestalization thrown in for good measure. The frat who allows a 23 year old in = low status, creepy frat.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 12:39 PM
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By partaking in a LDR, you are displaying that you can't find another woman better than or equal to the one you are currently dating. It essentially defines the concept of "oneitis." You are basically saying "well...I can't find anyone better and I'm scared of being single...so I guess I'll stay in this relationship, even though she's hours away and I can rarely see her."
/r/askTRP20/09/15 11:26 PM
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My opinion is, they rarely ever work (unless you are a supreme beta) and aren't ever worth the extra effort needed to sustain them
/r/askTRP20/09/15 11:09 PM
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Nope. She wants him to say "Ok I'll be friends with you" so she can feel good about herself and then she'll either make OP her orbiter or she'll go no contact once he starts showing romantic interest again.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 08:56 PM
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So I walk out and she gets a bit emotional and says that she is really glad that I came considering I don't become friends with my exs, and I replied saying its cool and I repeat that I don't become friends. She asks if she can hug me and I grant her permission; she hugs for good 2 minutes but I don't hug her back. I say bye and go my way. I cringed reading this. It's pretty easy to see your inner beta showing through your alpha tough guy facade. You let her hug you for 2 whole minutes but "didn…
/r/askTRP20/09/15 08:53 PM
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First of all, one does not simply "switch" to MMA. If you are thinking about joining a gym that specifically offers "MMA training," there is a really good chance that the gym is shit. Go to a gym that offers BJJ and some form striking (Make sure to research the coaches. Lots of questionable "black belts" out there scamming students). They will probably have a fight team that isn't open to the public that you can eventually join after training for a while. Second, what makes you think that you wi…
/r/askTRP20/09/15 08:34 PM
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Right, but you actually have plates. You've actually shown the ability to keep women around for longer periods of time and you COULD have a LTR if you felt like it. I know a guy who apparently fucked 42 women in a year. That's basically a new chick every week. Currently, he has no plates. No LTR possibilities. And honestly, not much happiness outside of the gaming chicks. That's legitimately his entire life. The same could be said for a lot of women who open their legs for a new dude every weeke…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 10:18 PM
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You just cancel in the simplest way possible ("Can't make it tonight") and reschedule at your convenience (Wait a few days. Don't eagerly text her asking to hang out the next day). Abundance mentality goes a long way. If cancelling means she loses her shit and isn't an option as a plate, so be it. It happens sometimes However, whenever I cancel, then reschedule, the girl is often much more excited when I actually meet up with her. You have to understand, most girls aren't used to dudes cancellin…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:19 PM
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You don't NEED to be a good fighter, but I would highly recommend doing BJJ and some form of striking (boxing or Muay Thai). Not necessarily because you are going to use it every day and kick people's asses, but because it will give you a much greater appreciation for serious nature of fighting. After doing BJJ and Muay Thai for a few years, I lost all interest in fighting. It's not worth it, even when I could destroy some pudgy fuck who probably hasn't thrown a serious punch in his entire life …
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:09 PM
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I'm mostly talking about outrageously high partner counts. I'm guessing your count was initially very low, then you raised it to a decent number so you could prove to yourself that you aren't some lowly beta, and now you are comfortable in your own skin. Fair enough. My post was directed towards the people who can't be satisfied with a triple digit partner count. It displays insecurity. It's like, if you fuck 100 girls and you can't keep any of them around for an extended period of time, you pro…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 06:38 PM
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If you died, the world would not feel a pain in their hearts and immediately know it was you. We are all pieces to a machine, and each piece is just as valuable as the next. You know your worth, so don't let people take advantage of you. But don't get so cocky. Remember - you are one in 7 billion. The world revolves around the sun, not you. Yep. Being a narcissistic asshole is akin to women thinking they are a special little butterfly. The reality is, you're just another person on a journey to h…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 06:32 PM
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Drop the ego Everyone has a different story. Just because you fucked a few girls or whatever doesn't mean you are better or worse than anyone. Treating everyone with the respect they deserve costs you nothing, yet might mean everything to someone else. Most narcissists also take themselves waaay too seriously (you are definitely giving off that vibe, fwiw). Eventually, people are just going to start laughing at how seriously you take yourself and suddenly the tables will turn. Then you'll be the…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 06:27 PM
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New lesson: Don't give your number away. Instead, get the girl's number. Sorry things didn't work out the way you wanted them to. As a freshman in high school who just had awkward, unsuccessful sex for her first time, she will probably not want to hang out again. It's ok. Just move along and keep doing what you are doing. If high school is still the way I remember it, you'll probably reconnect with her at some point down the road
/r/askTRP18/09/15 06:17 PM
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Agreed. Going out and having a shitload of ONS's can be cool, but you are really lacking something in your game if you can't maintain longer term plates. I honestly think their is something inherently wrong with people (men and women) who take pride in building up ridiculously high partner counts, while remaining completely uncommitted to any type of LTR/FWB/plate
/r/askTRP18/09/15 06:10 PM
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No reason to make the guy feel worse about his life. Yeah exactly. The saddest part is, your friend probably doesn't even fully realize how shitty his situation is. He's probably been taught from Day 1 that blowjobs are some sort of "prize" that you have to "earn." Deep down, he likely says "WTF, why can't this just be a regular thing?" Unfortunately, society tells men to keep these feelings buried deep down inside. I always find it amazing how women can unabashedly use sex/sexual favors as a "r…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 06:00 PM
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Netflix and chill is the best thing ever
/r/askTRP18/09/15 12:26 AM
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But what is there to do after trp? I mention it a couple times in the other comments, but once you turn off trp as a distraction, more free time comes into your life as well as productivity. Shit, Idk man. Pick up another hobby. Go troll another message board for lulz. Maybe just live your life? You have to understand, there is no "next level" you go to after TRP. It's just information that is available to help you live a happier life on your terms. where else will you get the guidance from othe…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 12:01 AM
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Agree completely. If your friends aren't getting laid or they're in a boring marriage, they are going to really hate hearing about your sex life. Shit, I remember how badly I hated it after going on a 2 year dry spell in college (I'm cringing just thinking about it). Have some compassion for these guys. There was probably a time in your life when you were in their shoes
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:34 PM
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I'm thinking this is the period when you start to break into the top 20%. It's a very good sign, but also a good motivator. If being at the top 20% is good, imagine being top 15%, top 10%, etc. I've just started breaking into the top 20% and I'm really pushing myself harder than ever. I'm sooo close
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:22 PM
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just feel that no matter how hard the mods try, the continual growth of trp will just result in less quality and more emotion-driven posts, leading to less quality and more shit. The angry, circle-jerk posts are necessary for people just swallowing the pill. Most TRP content really isn't tailored towards men who have really began to internalize the pill. It's for people just figuring it out. At some point, you (not YOU, but TRPers in general) need to get on the bike without training wheels and f…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:14 PM
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Exactly. The idea of monk mode seems to have become another excuse for a lot of guys on here. It's much much easier to say "fuck it dude, AWALT, I'm going monk mode indefinitely" than it is to actually face your challenges head-on
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 11:01 PM
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Excellent post right here
/r/askTRP16/09/15 03:41 PM
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Validation is a helluva drug. Really ruins a lot of people these days -- men and women. It's funny you mentioned FB. The Ex I was referring to eventually deleted and/or blocked me off her FB at some point after I ignored her call. She had a bunch of good pictures of me on there and suddenly they were missing. I guess she probably couldn't handle the rejection and deleted me. No idea why else she would have done it I think it's probably borderline soul crushing for some of these girls when their …
/r/askTRP16/09/15 03:20 PM
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Take what you need from TRP and move along. Maybe come back and every few months just to stay current and stay sharp. For me, I learned far more about the reality of TRP when I quit reading the sub for 6+ months. The anger phase is necessary, but once you move past it, a lot of posts on here seem to be just pointless, circle-jerk banter about who is "most" alpha. And you get caught up in that mentality. What changes have you noticed in your lives since moving on? For one, I've noticed that I've …
/r/askTRP16/09/15 03:09 PM
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Yup. I had an Ex who would call me, then immediately hang up once I picked up the phone. She did this for like 3 weekends straight a few months after ripping my heart out (this was all prior to me joining TRP). She just wanted to the validation of knowing that I was there for her any time she wanted me. Of course, my beta ass would blow up her phone, hoping that she would answer and we could "work things out." Obviously it never happened, but this was instrumental in my shift to TRP Interestingl…
/r/askTRP16/09/15 02:55 PM
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Take it from a guy who is extremely strong for his size (5'8, 167) -- nobody gives a fuck about how weak you are! Not one single fuck. The only things you should EVER be embarrassed about in the gym are curling in the squat rack and using terrible form. That's it. And the longer you put off going because you are scared, the longer you are going to remain the weakest guy at the gym. You tell me what's worse...
/r/askTRP16/09/15 03:40 AM
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And again, don't beat yourself up about this. Being cordial in public towards any of your Ex's is a sign that you've completely moved on and aren't still butthurt enough to make a scene. Her saying "OMG I can't do this, etc, etc" seemed like her trying to goad you into making a scene actually. You did good. Saying "Oh yeah, lets hang out again sometime," then never following up, is honestly pretty RP in my book
/r/askTRP16/09/15 03:35 AM
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Not bad at all. Honestly, it might end up being a display of your conversion to RP after you don't contact her again after saying "We should hang out." She's probably expecting a text from you any day now tbh. Whatever you do, don't give her that satisfaction
/r/askTRP16/09/15 02:49 AM
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Yes! I came in here to post something like this. The "Trumps" of the world are used to getting their desired response from people. Displaying a positive attitude with calculated sense of humor usually throws these people off their game pretty quickly. In group settings, he who gets angry first, loses. Every single time
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 10:07 PM
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I think a gift would be a little cheesy in this situation, but I don't think taking her out would be terrible if this is the last time you'll see her for a few months. Either way, there are no guarantees that you'll be able to re-plate her once you come back Fwiw, I almost always take FWBs out occasionally. I usually enjoy their company anyway, so it's not like it's ever a huge hassle for me
/r/askTRP15/09/15 08:11 PM
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It really depends on how you are rejected. Something like "nice talking to you (name)" and walking off wouldn't be bad. Just don't act butthurt. Walk away with your head held high. Maybe even laugh to yourself at the absurdity of the situation
/r/askTRP15/09/15 07:55 PM
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She is now just a "person" of no particular interest. Treat her like a guy you might need to borrow some printer paper from someday, but don't particularly want to hang out with. This! You'll be surprised at how quickly she might come back around after she sees you with other girls, while you treat her like Geeky Gary from down the hall. Especially useful strategy if you will be attending the same parties as her
/r/askTRP15/09/15 07:47 PM
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While I have many of the same issues, I've found that once I make the initial move into the conversation, things start to smooth out and become much easier. It's like jumping headfirst into really cold water. It sucks to think about, but actually ends up being worth it most of the time. If you really aren't shy and are a decent conversationalist, you really shouldn't have any problems once you start talking. It's all in your head dude. Just remember to not take rejection too personally and don't…
/r/askTRP15/09/15 07:35 PM
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Sure thing bossman
/r/askTRP08/09/15 08:51 PM
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"What happened to you wanting to spend the rest of your life with me" "You just like....got all like...weird all of a sudden. I wasn't like...being serious. Did you like...actually take that seriously???? We can still like...be friends."
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 06:17 PM
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Haha no way dude, you're going to be fine. Do you understand how fat, lazy, and unwilling to change the bottom 80% are? Humanity is going in the opposite direction actually. See: Dad bods, SJWs, white knights, "body positive," etc, etc. The list goes on and on.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 06:11 PM
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No. It's not that simple. In most cases, a girl is cheating on her BF for a reason. Usually, it's because he's a beta pussy. Obviously AWALT and it could happen to even the most alpha bad asses, but generally, it happens to beta pussies. If you go out of your way to tell one of these guys that their GF is cheating, he likely won't do shit about it. He might try to fight YOU or shame YOU, but he will generally accept his unique special snowflake's "mistake" in-stride. You aren't doing anyone any …
/r/askTRP08/09/15 06:05 PM
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Went through this recently actually. I was banging this girl, no-strings-attached, for about 2-3 months. She ended up going ghost for about a week, then reappeared to come clean and admit that she was dating a guy the entire time. I guess when she met me the guy was living somewhere else, but at some point he moved in with her. Kinda shocking...yet typical I've since cut her off and don't see her anymore, but she still texts/snapchats me from time to time. I basically told her that I didn't want…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 05:59 PM
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Typical response from girls wanting relationship: she gets a little sad, but very soon solipsism takes over, it is not possible that anyone could reject her this way, so she decides that she's going to break you down anyway, by sheer dick sucking skills. You now have a plate with some good spin for a while. In the end she'll drop away of course, if her tactic doesn't bear any fruit. But hey, you were 100% upfront about it, never lead her on or claimed "maybe someday" you would relationship her. …
/r/askTRP08/09/15 01:20 PM
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and of course I say or do whatever I need to in order to sleep with them. Like what? Are you implying that you might want a relationship the night before, only to pull the rug out from under them the next morning? If so, that's pretty shitty and you should stop doing that. I personally let my intentions be known from the get-go. I don't explicity go out of my way to say "I don't want a relationship, I just want a fling," but I make it pretty clear with my actions. If you are projecting that you …
/r/askTRP08/09/15 01:18 PM
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There is no great answer I can give you that will magically fix your problem. This is just a mentality that you need to develop over time. At some point, everything with "click" and you'll just stop giving a fuck. For me, it took moving into my own apartment after college and isolating myself from the party life. Eventually I found that my happiness levels didn't really change that much. If anything, I was happier that I wasn't involved in partying and the pressures that come along with "being c…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 07:49 PM
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Most everyone, men and women, have some sort of anxiety issue these days. With social media, smart phones, and texting, most people lack the ability to relax their minds and surrender to the flow. We live in an instant gratification society and that causes a lot anxiety issues in people imo
/r/askTRP07/09/15 07:37 PM
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As long as the dread does not come off as intentional, it is an asset This cannot be overstated. Most noobs will fail at this 9 times out of 10. I know I did. It always works best when it is natural, unforced, and you seem almost oblivious to it even happening. It's really obvious, bordering on cringe-worthy, when you force it. Imo, you should focus on raising your value so it "just happens," as opposed to trying to create dread artificially.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 07:30 PM
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Yup. The person who cares less "wins" in relationships. It's a sad truth, but a truth nonetheless
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 12:52 AM
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You just have to understand that rejection is part of the process and it usually isn't personal. You don't fear or avoid doing a hard workout because you might get serious DOMS afterwards. You do it anyway because it will eventually lead to dem gainz. Same thing with rejection. You shouldn't fear or even dislike rejection, because at some point you won't get rejected and it will make it all worth it. I get rejected waaaay more now than I did in my BP days. But I also get waaay more pussy now tha…
/r/askTRP01/09/15 11:53 PM
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Typically if a woman is interested but legitimately busy, she will propose another date or at least show interest in rescheduling for another time. Tinder girl offered you a 3 word response. That should tell you all you need to know about her interest level
/r/askTRP01/09/15 11:36 PM
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I guess it's a better alternative than assuming your 7 year old son wants to be a girl because he thinks dresses are cool
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 06:36 PM
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When Jazz reaches adult hood both physically and mentally (around 25) expect major cognitive dissonance and him either hating all females and/or becoming gay. Or becoming extremely depressed/suicidal It seriously boggles my mind that there are "parents" out there letting their children, who are barely able to add and subtract, be in control of their "gender." It's gotten to the point where some kids are getting put on hormone treatment therapy before they hit puberty. It's madness. I thought "ni…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 03:45 PM
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"Don't drop the soap! HARHARHAR!" ::man's hand grazes her on a busy street:: "We seriously have a huge rape problem in this country"
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 03:10 PM
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Always be unapologetically a man. When these white knights critisize you for liking young women you don't even need to break out the socio biology to argue with them. Just put on your best smug shit eating grin and say "that's just how I like my women" and move on. Don't entertain these people. Do what you want to do and be a man. Yup. About a month ago, I went out to eat with a big group of my friends. There was a smoking hot waitress working and, of course, I was making comments to everyone ab…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 03:02 PM
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Nah, I agree. My point was, OP is making excuses for not getting into shape ("It's booorrring," "I'm like, not seeing resssullltss") and thinking about focusing all of his efforts onto "social game." For most guys, they won't reach their desired level of success without putting in the effort at the gym. "Social game" only takes most guys so far, whereas there are countless ripped mongoloids who pull ass regularly just because they are 6'0 with a six-pack.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 02:46 PM
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Nothing more needs to be said. If they really are your friends and you care about them, your LTR should have enough decency to respect that. I'm not going to tell you how you should handle this OP, but I personally don't allow anyone to disrespect the people I care about anymore. At 25, good friends are increasingly hard to come by and I'll be damned if I let some chick ruin one
/r/askTRP01/09/15 02:34 PM
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Most noobs looking for advice on here will need months to learn game. Those are months that they're masturbating instead of fucking, while still languishing in their skinny-fat, pencil-necked state. What I'm saying is, worked for you won't work for most people seeking advice on here. Most people seeking advice on here have confidence issues and poor physiques. Attempting to learn how to effectively game without any efforts towards self-improvement will probably set a lot of these people back fur…
/r/askTRP01/09/15 02:22 PM
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Yes, you can. But why make it harder on yourself? Your game has to be "that much" stronger and "that much" tighter when you aren't in shape. With the amount of time/effort it would take for most people to learn "game" that would make them consistently successful, they could get themselves into good enough shape for "game" to barely matter at all
/r/askTRP31/08/15 11:05 PM
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With Plate #2, strangely the attraction level has dropped since I met her the second time and it was sure she wanted to fuck me. I was quite horny for her when we got ready to do it, but the interest just kinda waned for me and after the second round, I was pretty much done for the weekend. This is hilarious, just because I know the exact feeling you are talking about. You aren't really attracted to her dude. You're just looking for a hole to fill. Nothing wrong with that. I'd hang onto her unti…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 09:58 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP31/08/15 09:50 PM
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Good shit People might disagree with me, but I truly believe you should never burn a bridge unless it's absolutely necessary. Life is long and the world is small. Enough people will hate you just for being you. No need to make more enemies by being a petty asshole. As long as you don't put your trust into these people, there is absolutely nothing wrong with keeping them around
/r/askTRP31/08/15 09:48 PM
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However you want to frame it, dude. I have many opinions that stray from the "rp dogma" actually. This annoying petty masculinity is why I didn't exercise regularly for years. Sure thing bud. Whatever you have to tell yourself. It's not petty masculinity. It's the fact that you are inferring that lifting somehow "won't work" for you, when you have put in only 6 months of work with a bad attitude. How do you think you'll respond after working on "social game" for 6 months, only to get less than o…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 09:42 PM
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What makes you think that your body is so much different than everyone else's that lifting weights and eating a lot won't put muscle on your body? That's the defeatist part. You've been lifting a measly 6 months and you seem to expect some huge change. Now you're ready to quit because it didn't come as easily as you'd expected and isn't as "fun" as you'd expected. Seems like you already made your mind up though, you're just coming here for confirmation...
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:13 PM
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Jesus dude. The biggest beta trait of all is having a defeatist mentality and quitting when the chips are down. Here are the facts. If you lift (correctly), consume more calories than you burn, and eat .7gs of protein for every lb of your bodyweight, you WILL gain weight/muscle. Period. End of discussion. You aren't going to get results overnight and you for damn sure aren't going to get results with the attitude you're projecting
/r/askTRP31/08/15 07:57 PM
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You laugh, shrug your shoulders, and move on. Most people are shameless pieces of shit. Getting mad or confronting your "friends" about it isn't going to change that. Just move on with your life. Keep those "friends" around if its convenient, but realize that they aren't really your friends and treat them accordingly
/r/askTRP31/08/15 07:49 PM
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A+ In reality what they want to do is bitch and complain - its the common denominator - its both beginning and end. For a lot of women, if they don't have something to bitch about, they have absolutely nothing to say. It's not a complete day for some women unless the "sky is falling" and someone fixes it for them
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 07:18 PM
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Sometimes If I say to someone "You're my best friend," it's based on the sum of their actions prior to that statement. If a women says "You're the best guy I've ever slept with," it's really based on nothing more than her feelings at that given moment. Still, you do remind me of a good point regarding compliments/pride. They are essentially meaningless. People are fickle in general. Don't worry about what anyone thinks of you today, because tomorrow you could be old news. Focus on yourself and y…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 06:37 PM
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Time, a significant perceived SMV increase, or the ability to immediately move on with another plate. Not giving a fuck sometimes works by itself, depending on the girl and the situation, but it's basically a coin flip once she's set her sights on a new Chad(s).
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:19 AM
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Depends on what she told everyone, but you just own it and laugh about it. Don't let it bother you at all. "TRPthrowaway couldn't even keep a boner (or sucked in bed) HAHAHA" "Yeah, you're right. Really shoulda went with the paper bag. Rookie mistake." "TRPthrowaway has a small dick!" "It's called a micropenis, thank you very much. We should all compare sizes later. I'm sure (insert girl's name) wouldn't mind being the judge. Seems like her type of thing..." Just own it and turn it around on eve…
/r/askTRP30/08/15 11:28 PM
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Thanks for this. Been on and off TRP for over a year now. Just now coming back after a 6+ month hiatus. Posts like this remind me of some issues I'm still working on fixing
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 11:14 PM
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I wouldn't call it "compulsive." I think you mean "impulsive," as in, they are acting on an impulse. And I agree. However, impulsive emotions to most women ARE deep, so you should act accordingly
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 10:51 PM
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It is their right and it should be expected, because that's the way it is. It's not schizophrenic...it's just women
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 10:33 PM
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Or add "so far" to the end of her sentences "You're the best guy I've ever slept with...so far" "I haven't met anyone who makes me feel like you do...so far" To summarize - Women's minds are locked into "the moment." Whenever they express emotion, they are expressing what is happening in their mind at that exact moment. Don't ever assume that just because you were "the best guy she's ever slept with" last night, you won't be some run-of-the-mill fuck next week
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 08:42 PM
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This was one of the hardest things for me to internalize once I broke out of the BP lifestyle. It used to drive me crazy when a chick would reject me (whether it be a soft rejection or a hard rejection), especially when I considered them to be equal to or below my SMV. Now, I just can't be bothered enough to care. Once you bang enough attractive women, the rejections don't seem to matter as much and you stop taking it so personally
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 08:05 PM
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To them, their emotions ARE deep, meaningful, and real. The problem is, what is "deep, meaningful, and real" right now, can be flipped to "just a phase" at any given time. It's just a truth you need to acknowledge and be aware of. The second a women's emotions towards you start to turn cold, you are likely on the way out. Always be ready for this
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 07:45 PM
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Let me guess, I described your workout outfit perfectly. Are you the same guy who thinks that guys that dress nice are gay too? Not at all. I dress nice when there is a reason to. Working out isn't one of those reasons. I'm much more concerned with how my body looks in nice clothes AFTER my workout, not during it. But your making fun of guys who dress how they want to? Not really. I'm making fun of dudes who wear specific clothes to the gym because it's a "fad" or the "cool thing to wear." 5 yea…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 07:47 PM
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Believe it or not, you actually ARE capable of picking up heavy things and putting them back down while wearing running shoes. Crazy, I know.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 10:53 PM
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So lame. I've never cared about what I wore to lift. This goes back to high school weightlifting, when everyone wore old, smelly shirts they left in their lockers for days (or weeks) at a time. I'll never understand why people feel the need spend hundreds and hundreds of dollars on workout clothes, when they have absolutely no impact on performance.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 10:20 PM
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Yup. They are all talk when it comes to free speech. They want free speech... as long as it doesn't hurt anyone's feeeeelingz. Because, as we all know, getting your feeeeelingz hurt isn't a natural part of being an adult in the real world. Therefore, SJWs must silence all speech that MAY offend someone (unless they are straight, white males...fuck them) so we can all live happily ever after in Candyland
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 10:08 PM
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Depending on where you do your internship, you may have other interns that you will be working and spending a lot of time with. 9 times out of 10, when there is a problem, the other interns will be clueless as to how to solve the problem OR too afraid to take the risk necessary to solve the issue. Be a leader. Be man enough to say "I will figure this out." I'm not advocating that you make wild, rash decisions without permission from a superior, but in every internship I ever had, almost ALL of t…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:57 PM
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Unfortunately, because of my work hours, I'm basically forced to go at 7:00 or 8:00. At my gym, this is the time when every 18-21 year old douchebag decides he needs to do his 3rd "arms day" workout of the week. It's pretty awful, but deep down, I kinda enjoy watching the faggotry. Makes me laugh (except when people are curling in the squat rack).
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 08:10 PM
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Remember that gym clothes being worn at the gym are not meant to be sexy, as they are functional. I'll never understand dudes who walk into the gym with knee-high neon socks, a colored-coordinated outfit (with the sleeves chopped off, of course), a flat-brimmed hat, and brand-new lime green sneakers that are replaced every 2 months. These are usually the same idiots who workout with a group of 4 other dudes and take 2 hours to finish benching. I typically go in there with some weird old shirt fr…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:13 PM
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I've also found this to be true. I use other methods to get an idea of a girl's sexual past. Explicitly asking about it usually ends up going bad in my experience.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 06:58 PM
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I don't disagree with you. But nobody wants to deal with the backlash of actually coming out and saying this. Too many radical fems and SJWs are ready to pounce on anyone who disagrees with their narrative.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 04:17 PM
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Woman with average tits = natural, "real" woman Woman with average ass = natural, "real" woman Woman with average face = natural, "real" woman Man with average dick = loser Man of average height = loser Man with average body = loser
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 01:53 PM
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It's like a bank robber bragging about how awesome he is for robbing the bank when he has the keys to the damn vault. It's more like a dude bragging about how much porn he's jerked off to. Congrats man, you've done what anyone with an internet connection can do. THAT, quite literally is how easy it is for women to have sex.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 01:48 PM
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No one wants to be 1 in 30, as you're just as forgettable as any of the other chaps. Exactly. It's almost like reverse pre-selection. Oh...you've fucked 40 dudes? Well why haven't any of them decided to date you? Why should I date you and wait for sex when 40 other dudes didn't?
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 01:12 PM
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The funny part is, when I first met her, I had gotten her back to my house. I had some friends there and she brought a friend as well. After 30 minutes of hanging out/making out, she declares "I have to leave or else I'll have sex with you." So let me get this straight: you WANT to have sex with me and you've put out easily for dudes in the past, but yet you won't fuck me because "you want to do it the right way?" And Im supposed to just take that in stride? Fuck that.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 01:05 PM
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Ah, its women not owning their decisions that I take most issue with, the internal dishonesty. Hamstering. Guys go out and do it, then look back and go "yup, I did that" with a hint of pride often. Women go out, look back and go "I can't believe I did that, I don't want to get judged for it" I'd actually be pretty ok with them taking a more adult like stance and just "manning up" about it. I agree. The problem here, however, is that a woman cannot explain to her beta bux that he is, in fact, her…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:01 AM
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Since millions of people throughout history were scammers and liars everything everyone says ever must be a scam then. Most things are, to be honest, but this is an extremely flawed argument nonetheless. I provided you with specific examples, and you extrapolated that to absurdity. This is known as a "Fallacy of Composition." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fallacy_of_composition. Religion is big business. Shit, it's probably a multi-billion dollar industry these days. Other newer religions/cults (…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 11:14 PM
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Ahhh ok gotcha. It's not that I really "care" about a woman's scoreboard (I don't mind hooking up with sluts), I just don't want them to think that it's some meaningless tidbit of information that doesn't permeate every relationship they have. I posted a story in this thread already about a girl I was seeing in March. She basically admitted to me that she'd had her fair share of no-strings-attached sex, but somehow expected me to "pay my dues" like the good beta she wanted me to be. THAT is hone…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 10:45 PM
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Yes, I have gotten this shit test quite frequently. It's really a no win situation for both sides, but women really love asking about your sexual history while (not so) subtly hinting at theirs. For example, I was seeing a girl back in March. While I never told her my actual "number," she ALWAYS called me a player and tried to shame me for sleeping around. The irony? Whenever I started to escalate towards sex, she'd tell me "I don't want to have sex yet. I want to do this the right way for once.…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 10:08 PM
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14, with the majority coming in the last 2 years (I was veerry bad with women from the ages of 16-21). I sincerely hope this isn't going to end with you trying to equate a man's "scoreboard" to a woman's "scoreboard"
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 09:32 PM
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You seem to think that a religion is defined by the actions of people that have been dead for 500 years. Well...it kinda is. Ever heard of some dude named Jesus Christ? Religion is almost 100% defined by the actions of people who have been dead for 500+ years. Hold people accountable for their decisions not for the story about what people long ago may or may not have done. Yes, let us put our heads in the sand and forget about the hundreds of years of proof that religion is more or less a scam. …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 09:26 PM
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That is how unimportant that information is. For some reason, I've never looked at it from this perspective. It makes complete sense, but women/society have taught men that we not only shouldn't care about a woman's past, but we shouldn't even question it. The classic narrative is that a woman was young, wild, stupid and didn't realize that she "actually" wasn't happy. So, even though she fucked 30-40 different dudes, it doesn't matter because her "feeelings" (in hindsight, of course) tell her t…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 09:08 PM
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That's what I figured. Ive always found smoking as much pot with as many people as possible has always opened the coolest doors for me Way ahead of you on this. Smoking and tripping with random people has allowed me to have friends all over the east coast who I can go hit shows with. Would be awesome to one day parlay my drug use into a sweet ass job.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 08:53 PM
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Just out of curiosity, how do you get into that line of work?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 08:43 PM
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Martin Luther and the Protestant Reformation is a pretty good place to start. Once a church begins selling salvation for secular goods, it kinda loses it's credibility. All sorts of wars have also been waged with the "blessing" (and often guidance/funding) of the Papacy for political reasons. This is basically European History 101, which is why it always baffles me when people decide to stand up for Catholicism.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 07:46 PM
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I'm 5'8ish. I've been lifting since my sophomore year of high school (I'm 24 now) and have always been naturally stronger than I look. I also know people who are my size that move more weight than me, so it's really not all that impressive. I actually used to have a much higher bench (300), but I kept getting injured, so I don't focus on barbell benching really heavy weight any more. No shenanigans
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 06:17 PM
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I'm not defending women, but we ALL do this to some extent. Rather than shaming this tactic, you should simply be happy that you are one of the few people who are aware of it and use it to your advantage.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 01:59 PM
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"Stats" are pretty meaningless when it comes to aesthetics honestly. For example, I bench 250, squat 420 (2x), and DL 410. I'm about 5-7 pounds overweight right now (I weigh 175) and don't look all that great. The mirror and your "stats" don't always agree with each other
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 01:25 PM
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What I got from it is that dating is a game. Exactly. To put it more precisely, dating is a "bluffing game." There will always be younger, better looking, smarter, richer, more interesting, etc, etc people out there than you (this goes for both men and women). So how is it that seemingly regular men are able to make get extremely attractive women to fall head over heels in love with them? Because they are able to convince these women that they are the one with higher value. The whole concepts of…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 01:02 PM
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Uh no. I'm hoping this was a troll attempt...
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 01:09 AM
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My mind exploded when I first read this quote (not sure where it was originally posted). Once you fully understand this concept, your game and the way you look at relationships will change forever.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 12:26 AM
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I would supplement that you will occasionally do something nice to reward behavior you wish to encourage. Yup. However, this shouldn't be associated with any particular action. For example, don't kiss your plate's ass after every blowjob. Otherwise, she'll start withholding blowjobs UNTIL you start kissing her ass. Eventually, you'll have to do more and more to get something as simple as a BJ. Women are VERY good at manipulating these types of situations. That's why it is absolutely essential to…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 12:11 AM
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Women don't want be treated awesome by someone nice, they want to be treated okay by someone awesome. I think you are close, but slightly off. Women "think" they want to be treated awesome by someone awesome. Seems obvious, right? However, women will think that a guy is much less "awesome" once they start doing tons of shit for her. Therefore, one must treat women "okay" in order to keep them interested in the possibility that they might eventually earn the "awesome" treatment.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:27 PM
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The impression he gives is one where women would say, behind his back, "Oh tombreck2 think's he's a player." I got a similar impression. You're spot on. I enjoyed your post because it accurately went against the typical TRP narrative. Most posts would praise the OP and say "fuck them, awalt, etc, etc." I think you had one of the first comments ITT though, which made people rethink their typical, automated TRP response. Its so easy to get sucked into the hive mind, groupthink mentality on this su…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:00 PM
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My guess is you are touchy, feely and come across as super desperate and only wanting sex. This is an issue that often gets glossed over on TRP. Yeah sure, you need to come off as a sexual man, not a beta, etc, etc. However, it's extremely important to note that there is a clear line between "sexual" and "creepy." I hate using the word "creepy" because a lot of women use it as a shaming tactic against less attractive guys. I'm not using it like that. When I say "creepy," I mean social awkwardnes…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 09:40 PM
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How can I bail on her without being a complete ass? I At this point, if you haven't already told her your honest intentions, you really can't. That's why most people advocate being open with plates about not being interested in exclusive relationships. If you have already told her this, then you can fall back on it any time she pushes for more. To cut her off, you simply say that things have moved too fast and you don't want her to get any ideas that you might be interested in an exclusive relat…
/r/askTRP17/11/14 07:09 PM
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Agree and amplify. The exact responses depend on how absurd you want to be. I have a friend who is a pretty scrawny guy, but pulls tons of top-notch ass. He realizes he can't get physical with a bigger guy in these situations, so he just steers the conversation to the absurd. I've heard him refer to himself as his GF's "gay best friend." I've even heard him start hitting on (jokingly, of course) the guy who approaches his GF. He is mentally running circles around the other guy, while his GF (or …
/r/askTRP14/11/14 10:15 PM
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And of course, these are the same guys who don't read the sidebar, post within days of joining TRP, and provide a wall-of-text full of details about their 3 minute interaction with a girl. I try to be as nice and open-minded as possible to new guys (everyone has to start somewhere), but /r/askTRP could be a muuch better sub if more people actually started using it correctly.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 07:01 PM
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One of my main annoyances on /r/askTRP is when some new TRPer comes in, asks a question, then proceeds to disagree with every bit of advice given to him. If you are going to ask questions, at least be open-minded enough to take the fucking advice people are giving you. Just because you aren't getting the validating responses that you are looking for, doesn't mean the advice is bad/wrong.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:48 PM
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Yeah, it's not so much as who is "better," but who appears to be better when the rubber meets the road. You could be a ripped, famous, millionaire, but if you come off as a weak, whiny, beta for whatever reason, you will still get rejected. This is why we have stories like that homeless guy who was sleeping with a different girl every night. He has mastered the art of appearing better than he really is.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:29 PM
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If a girl didn't want to hurt me, why would she send you one of those messages? Wouldn't it just be best to ignore you? I mean, if I message a girl, and she ignored me, I'll take the hint without her telling me and making me feel like shit. Dude, you are looking at the female mindset from a male's perspective. The thing is, these girls aren't intentionally trying to hurt you, although they might feel powerful and validated afterwards as a result. They legitimately believe that they are being "ni…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:21 PM
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I've been through similar situations before. It could be a big shit test, but I honestly think she's probably being serious. This was her last ditch effort to get you to commit. Obviously you didn't commit, so she's moving on to someone who she thinks will (probably a BB). Just a few weeks ago she was sending all signals of being hooked and on her way to deep conversion. If I had to guess, this was probably the time period where you slipped up. You either let your frame slip towards the oneitis,…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 10:17 PM
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It's amazing how much better looking I am at 24 compared to my 16 year old self. Similarly, its hilarious how a lot of the dudes who were getting the most pussy in HS are now fat, balding or both. Just take your ass to the gym every day and by the time you are 18, you'll be just fine.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 05:09 PM
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I like that a lot. You'll inevitably get called an "asshole," and suddenly, you become the pursued.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 01:13 PM
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I usually do, which is kinda the whole point of my post. Anyone who has been gaming women for a while knows when a flake is imminent. Sometimes I can tell days in advance. If I preemptively flake, I can focus more on my other plans, which are often with my boys, not just plates. I want to be able (if possible) to subtlety send the message that I can not only predict her obvious flake, but I have other important plans that will take precedence over wishy-washy behavior. Its all true, but straight…
/r/askTRP13/11/14 01:11 PM
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You also have to realize that qualities men take pride in as accomplishments are not 100% transferable to the qualities women are attracted too. If you are a professor with 2 PHDS, can cook Michelin star meals, can build a car from scrap parts and but you are short and pudgy you are likely to get less action than a broke outlaw biker who has a wicked five o clock shadow and wide shoulders but a low IQ Definitely. I was mostly just outlining the different types of guys that young women typically …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 11:46 PM
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I'm not saying you are wrong, I just think your analogy is off. The "You can't fire me, I quit" seems much more analogous to the "Don't worry worry about flaking, I have X other activities I need to do" beta thought process outlined in the OP that I'm trying to avoid. Why do you care whether you or some bitch you're never going to meet again has more power? Well, it isn't really that simple. I've had flakes eventually reschedule and then end up as plates. So it's not that I know I'm "never going…
/r/askTRP12/11/14 11:18 PM
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Good point One thing that is important to remember, however, is that many women (especially entitled women in their mid-twenties who have a declining SMV) perceive their SMV to be much higher than it really is. So you get these situations where the man is actually higher on the SMV totem pole than she is, but she rejects him anyway for whatever petty reason, so she can continue chasing the top-tier of men. This type of shit happens to me all the time, and I just have to laugh at it. By the time …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:54 PM
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I've been trying to articulate this for so long. Glad you posted it. I can't tell you how many times I've been on a first date with a girl who is so much more interested in the "show" that I'm expected to put on, that she forgets I'm not there just for her amusement. It's funny, because women always talk about how they are constantly "objectified," yet they expect men to put on a horse and pony show for them to even be considered as a possible BF. They pick out every little flaw and will disqual…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 07:23 PM
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Its going back and forth and i think its gonna keep goin back and forth until someone crosses the line. I hope it is not men that cross it. The line has been crossed, redrawn, crossed, and redrawn multiple times already. I think at this point, the real question is, what will be the consequences of all this in 5-10 years? What will happen to the current generation of 20-somethings who are starting to learn that marriage and relationships in general are a scam? What will happen to kids in middle s…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 01:17 PM
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Women might be superficially sympathetic, but they are incapable of understanding a man's problems and deep in their heart of hearts they will resent you for weakness. Interesting point you bring up. I think one of the reasons many women hate it when men cry is because they are viewing it from their own "lens." Women are taught from a young age that crying can be used for manipulation. When they see a man cry they instantly equate it to the crocodile tears that women use to get their way. Embarr…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 02:48 AM
2

"Penguins often slide on their tummies over ice and snow. This is called tobogganing. Researchers believe they do this for fun and as an efficient way to travel"
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 09:54 PM
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They were just talking and one said "Yeah, well, there are no real guys here anyway" and the guy standing next to me frowned at them, she saw this and said "What? It's true." Depends on the chick. If I look over and it's some chick who's 15+ pounds overweight (I realize it isn't THAT much overweight), I'd say something along the lines of "Yeah, no skinny chicks either. It sucks." Or "Yeah, you drove them all away. Good job Rotunda." I'm sure some other guys on here will have better responses, bu…
/r/askTRP11/11/14 09:11 PM
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Can't tell if I went to far Probably. I've made the same mistake though, so no worries. You're better off just taking the L (no sex) when she's on her period and escalating again the next time you hang out with her. If she turns you down for sex again, that's when its probably time to move on, unless you want her as more than a plate. I will warn you though, the "I'm on my period" trick is a pretty common form of withholding sex to gain commitment/turn you into BB. It starts with "I'm on my peri…
/r/askTRP11/11/14 08:54 PM
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I think that the more hard to get she wants to appear, the more she actually is attracted to you, at least in the beginning stages, because she wants to bring her "A" game. What does it tell you that she made the mental effort to set aside a spot in her "busy" mind, to after 24 hours "suddenly" remember to text you back. I don't know if I 100% agree with this, so would you mind elaborating a bit? In my experience, girls will sometimes text me back 24+ hours later with a one word response or some…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 08:34 PM
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First of all, his statistics don't prove that he sucks because you can't acquire accurate statistics without sustained repetition which is the whole point of giving him a shot. Please point me to a QB who has ever had the worst QB rating in the league and turned out to be good. If 15 total starts isn''t a large enough sample size, I'm curious to know what is. Second, you act as though you are an expert on QB mechanics I've never commented on his mechanics. But it's pretty obvious he can't make t…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 04:35 PM
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His run wasn't "good," his team won in spite of him and because his name is Tim Tebow, people like yourself overlook his obvious deficiencies and say "see, see he won and that's all that matters." Except that its really not. It's like saying an MLB pitcher is "good" for winning games, despite having a 5+ ERA. Yeah sure, he won the game, but anyone with 2 eyes can see that it wasn't because he is a good player. And that's what I'll never understand about Tebow apologists. His statistics prove he …
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 01:07 PM
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In my BP days, I'd get all bent out of shape about girls not responding to texts, tinder messages, etc. Now, I don't even really realize when girls don't respond. It simply doesn't matter to me anymore. No girl is worth chasing around in circles. I wish I could say that if you just don't care, they will eventually respond, but they typically won't. I've said this before, but you need to realize that being successful with women is a numbers game. You have to not only realize that women are essent…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 01:14 AM
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If you can't pass, you can't be successful in the NFL over the long term. The Broncos defense played out of their minds during Tebow's run. You cannot continue winning games throwing under 50% for less than 150 yards. His run was a mixture of luck and perfect timing. I honestly wish he had been given a chance to be "the guy" for somebody, because it would have just confirmed what everyone with 2 eyes already knows: Tebow sucks. It's like asking why Eric Crouch never got a shot at playing QB in t…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 12:12 AM
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The only QB who has ever done anything without an amazing supporting cast is Peyton Manning in Indy and I would argue he is the best QB ever. Now this is just crazy talk. He didn't get a bigger opportunity to play because he wasn't very good. The "he just wins games" argument makes no sense, especially when you consider how poorly he played in many of the games he won. Trent Dilfer won a Super Bowl. I guess since he "wins games," he must have been a better option than all the other QBs in the le…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 10:04 PM
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It's so ridiculous to me that men can look at these two options (being cuckolded or being the alpha fuck buddy) and legitimately think that being the cuckolded beta provider is a good option. Posts like this make me very sad for our future. I fear that one day, this type of behavior will become the norm and taking care of another man's baby will not only be expected, but enthusiastically accepted. These will be their future men, when all the 'real' men have packed up and gone. Then, they will tr…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 09:38 PM
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What is the logic and morality that outlines why this is bad. Because, in most cases, you are leveraging your friendship to get pussy. Just like if you leverage your friendship to get anything else in this world, its a bullshit thing to do. You are using friendship as a means to an end without considering or caring about the consequences. If you fuck my sister, I am stuck in the middle if/when something goes wrong. For example, if she's a bitch to you, I have to figure out a way to maintain our …
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 08:33 PM
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Its logically correct to be upset with friends trying to fuck your sister. It's just disrespectful. There are literally millions of other girls you could be trying to fuck. Out of all of them, why are you choosing to pursue a friend's sister? A lot of the disrespect, at least from my perspective, comes from the fact that you would be leveraging your friendship as a way to fuck this girl. For example, I have a friend who has a very attractive sister. He invites me on vacations with his family all…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 05:53 PM
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Absolutely. I think the overarching point here, is that you need to do everything in your power to maximize your strengths, while minimizing weaknesses. There will ALWAYS be a plateau in everything you will ever do. However, just like in baseball, you can maximize your chances by putting yourself in the right scenario. For example, certain hitters suck against left-handed pitchers, so they don't play on days where lefties are starting. This inevitably increases their batting average. Just like y…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 10:56 PM
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Exactly. However, another key point is that you will eventually hit a plateau, like a baseball player's batting average. I cannot speak for celebrities or professional athletes, but generally speaking, you will always reach a point where you won't be able to pull girls at a significantly higher percentage. You will always need to do approaches and there is always going to be a decent chance of getting shot down. Fortunately, I find it hard to believe that many dudes would ever need to get to thi…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 10:40 PM
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Agreed. I would consider myself to be a good looking dude, but I'm short and that definitely impacts my chances with women. I've learned that you just have to stop taking rejection so personally and realize that getting women is legitimately a numbers game. If I had the time, I could break down how many women I need to message on Tinder to get a date and how many different dates I needed to go on to acquire a plate. Sure, being good looking, wealthy, tall, etc will all improve your chances, but …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 10:25 PM
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For the most part, "Bro Code" is a bunch of bullshit. I've seen it broken way too many times to actually believe it exists. I typically make my decisions on a case by case basis. However, I think you did good. Fucking your good buddy's sister would definitely mess up your friendship.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 02:17 PM
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I see this article get posted almost every day on Facebook by a different random girl from high school. I never knew it was written by a 20 y.o. Must be nice to have life all figured out by age 20..
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 02:10 PM
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Look up the story of Urijah Faber getting into a bar fight please. Fwiw, the majority of 155ers are also considered "short." You think the average dude looks at Gray Maynard and thinks he can beat his ass? We are getting sidetracked though, as you are actually agreeing with my original point. Bisping is going to lose to Rockhold btw. Even if he wins, he'll never be anything more than a gatekeeper in what is historically the worst division in the UFC.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 01:03 PM
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Being a professional fighter and ridiculing another professional fighter is much different than your average Joe trying to do the same thing to a professional fighter. Not to mention Bisping is a joke and probably one of the more insecure guys in the UFC
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 11:46 PM
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I'm 5'8 and still get the "little man syndrome" comments. I have a friend who is the same height and a former collegiate wrestler. Even he gets those comments, despite having a legitimate need to be in great shape. Shit, virtually the entire 135 and 125 divisions in the UFC are filled with guys who are considered short. Point is, in life, you can only play the hand you are dealt. You can either wallow in self pity and worry about snide remarks from people who have never had to walk a mile in you…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 02:03 PM
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It's simple. The question she asked cannot be answered correctly if you give a direct answer. For example, you say "1" and she says to herself "wtf I thought this guy was good looking... he must be a weirdo or have no game, etc." If you say "100," she will say to herself "Ew this guy sleeps with anything... or he's just a huge liar." The reality is, you never know what number is too low ("he must have no game") or too high ("he must have no standards"). Therefore the only correct answer is not a…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 09:58 PM
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Radio silence is better for the more "hardcore" shit tests in my experience. Asking how many girls you've slept with is easily deflected. OP handled it like a champion. I'm definitely not saying you are "wrong" or anything like that. But this question will inevitably pop back up in person if you don't deflect it. A lot of times a good "deflect" will substitute for a real answer in a girl's mind. That's just my experience though. I can't imagine just completely ignoring every single shit test thr…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 09:48 PM
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Initially, my goal was to pay my rent and afford my exorbitant college tuition while taking down the patriarchy one lap dance at a time. If this is the case, then why do feminists get all bent out of shape when someone suggests the legalization of prostitution?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:09 PM
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Is it bad that I read the post, laughed, and said "of course?" I feel bad for the whiny dudes in the comment section. Seems like that post is causing all sorts of cognitive dissonance in their bp minds
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 11:12 PM
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Maybe I'm misinterpreting your point, so forgive me if I am. I think what you're pointing out is that middle class, white, liberal "issues" and perceived "rights" don't always cross over cultural lines. If that is what you are saying, then I'd definitely have to agree. Great point. The problem I have with feminists today is that they are middle-class, white, liberals who will push their agenda on Arab women, black women, etc, without realizing that its often like putting a square peg in a round …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 09:43 PM
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Pretty much common sense, but this issue has been reframed so many times that the naive and ignorant have trouble understanding it. In every other aspect of life, past behavior is used to judge future behavior. Yet somehow, on this one issue, carousel riders and beta males perpetuate this myth of "change." "Shes not like that anymore... she's changed." And yet, here is a study proving that the idea of "change" is a bunch of bullshit. If a girl cheats with you, she will most certainly cheat ON yo…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 08:24 PM
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's definitely a valid critique but I think feminism is acknowledging its racism and WoC feminism is starting to become more popular/accepted. Which is good. But honestly, its all talk until they actually do something about it. Acknowledging the racism and the exclusion of "woc" is one thing. But actions speak much louder than words and if the short history of feminism tells me anything, it's that they are all talk. When basic white feminist "commentators" begin regularly discussing these issues …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 04:25 PM
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Whether you agree with the feminist agenda or not, middle-class white liberal women working to make things better for middle-class white liberal women is not, in and of itself, bad. True. But when your stated goal is to achieve equality for ALL women, in addition to supposedly "supporting" other minority groups, wouldn't it make sense to actually try to achieve those goals rather than saying "me, me, me" and only worrying about your own problems? Again, it's not inherently bad to want to push yo…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 04:10 PM
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Makes more sense now. It's definitely a tough spot to be in. If it's something that truly bothers you (your gut instincts are normally correct), then maybe turning her into a plate might be a better option for you. Like someone else has mentioned, she may not cheat today or tomorrow or the next day, but the risk is always there. If that reality isn't something you are comfortable dealing with over the long term, you may want to consider finding a girl who lives closer, while plating/dumping your…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 10:11 PM
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Of course feminists are racist. When was the last time you saw feminists standing up for black/Latina/Asian women? Feminism has largely been dominated by middle-class white liberal women (and their lackeys) who are so solipsistic, that they think only the problems of other middle class white liberal women matter. In fact, I've read numerous different blogs and articles written by black women that essentially demonize feminists. It's so funny how the most privileged group of women in the world fi…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 09:14 PM
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I used to be like you. Breaking my phone, then losing my phone in consecutive weeks helped a lot in getting me out of the "cycle" that you seem to be caught in. However, the biggest thing for me was the realization that I don't really give a shit what some girl I'm texting is doing or how she is perceiving the length between responses. You'd be surprised how many girls will text you twice in a row when you don't immediately respond. Ultimately, you need to realize that texting is not something t…
/r/askTRP29/10/14 08:50 PM
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That would just make me a hypocrite. Sorta. It's really not a 1:1 comparison, although it seems like it is on the surface. When you think about it, your girl probably isn't THAT worried (if at all) that you'll be at these parties hooking up with other girls. She knows that you probably won't cheat on her, but even if you wanted to, it'd be pretty difficult. On the other hand, any girl (minus extremely obese women) can go out, decide she wants to hook up with a guy for whatever reason, and pull i…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 07:22 PM
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Only a complete fool would believe the "spider bite" lie.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 06:45 PM
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Thirdly, I just moved to town and now you're deciding to make an agenda to exclude me from our friend group. Funny how she just moved to town three weeks ago, but she's somehow got a claim to this guy's "friend group." I don't know the full situation, but it seems like it was HIS friend group and she's butthurt because they don't want to hang out with her after she led on their friend. I mean how pissed would you be if you've been trying to hook up with/date a girl for 3ish weeks, she meets your…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 08:01 PM
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I'd say this is true most of the time. Unfortunately, there are some guys that are so stuck in beta orbit that women will legitimately call them to cuddle with no intentions to fuck. I've also had girls call me up to "cuddle" before and wouldn't go further than making out/fingering. I think that sometimes girls will do this to guys who they want for BB, but use "cuddling" to shit test them first to make sure they're qualified for the BB position, so to speak (a good BB won't push for sex). For w…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:38 PM
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I want to address her behavior without coming across as me being butthurt because she's not giving me her undivided attention. Yeah, definitely don't be butthurt. Tell her you find it annoying and continue with the occasional subtle jab. If things don't start getting better, just zone her out when she decides to finally look up from her phone to talk. Stare at the TV, look at your phone, walk out of the room and start doing something else, etc. Basically, you need to project a higher level of al…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 08:30 PM
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Good post. While this should all be self evident, it's really a good reminder that you shouldn't ever be blinded by pussy. For example, I recently had a run in with a really mean bitch I met via tinder. I messaged her first, she shit tested, I passed, etc, etc. Eventually, I got her number and got her to agree to meeting up at my place. She then began obsessively texting me shit tests and really rude questions. I should have said "fuck it" and cut contact then, but since I already set up the "da…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:48 PM
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Well, I don't really see how I used it incorrectly, but I'd love for you to correct it (were you saying that I should have spaced the "dots?") I'm not trying to get really technical online, I just want to be able to read a sentence without having to decode its meaning.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 01:39 PM
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I think I know what you mean. You don't necessarily feel "bad" for her, you just understand her position. I can't argue that. If she was bored, then it is definitely understandable for her to move on, regardless of money. However, I think she would have stuck around if she knew about the money situation. That's irrelevant though. The takeaway from this is, you aren't loved for "you." You are loved for what you can do for women. I'd love to see what the dating scene would look like if every woman…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 01:32 PM
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It wasn't like he missed one comma or missed one period. The whole thing was a run-on sentence. Looks like it's been edited now, so you may have missed it's original form. I don't expect grammar to be perfect, but I think we should hold ourselves to a high enough standard so that we can fully understand each other's posts without having to read and re-read 10 times.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 01:16 PM
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So you "feel for her" because a guy chooses not to spend his money on status symbols? How is buying a new car, even if you can easily afford it, considered "ambitious?" Oh right, its not. By the way, you should probably figure out how to use commas and periods too man...
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 12:10 PM
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I was never allowed to put myself first. When I did I was shamed and punished. Called selfish. I needed to sacrifice for the family. Not something an 11 year old should hear. Went through the same exact bullshit. Mom and sister would drag me out to the mall so they could go shopping. If I was "good," they'd allow me to go to a few stores I wanted. So after they forced me to sit through a 3 hour shopping trip, I'd get to wander around the toy/sporting goods store for 15 minutes. Then they'd tell …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 08:38 PM
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I've seen so many people here posting non stop and I have to ask myself, do these people even go out into the real world? Reading FRs doesn't mean you've all experienced this shit. It would be good if users went out and didn't read TRP for a week as a test, see if they can form there own ideas. I definitely agree. I actually deleted my old account, disappeared for a few months, then returned as Iwearjorts5. When I came back, the same old people were on here posting the same old shit. Don't get m…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 04:07 PM
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Women only see the top 20% of men. The rest don't exist. So true. That's why you'll hear women talk about how "easy" it is for men to pick up women. That's why they say they want a "nice" guy or a "caring" guy. Thats why lower SMV women talk about there being no "good" men left, after they've been pumped and dumped 20+ times. They aren't including the bottom 80% in those statements because the bottom 80% are either invisible or the equivalent of a eunuch. Somewhat ironically, women also almost a…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 03:22 PM
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And yet somehow, despite the fact that EVERYTHING you just wrote is 100% true, if you went into that thread and told her this, you'd be downvoted to oblivion. The problem with both men and women in the current SMP is that they just assume that they are entitled to whatever the top 10-20% gets. When the real world hits them in the mouth, they come onto places like reddit/Facebook/Twitter and bitch about how life isn't fair. Meanwhile, the top 10-20% have either hit the genetic jackpot or are work…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 09:41 PM
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I'd say in most of those instances, the girl is "interested," in a sense, but she's basically looking at you like a piece of meat. She isn't looking at you saying "wow he seems really cool, I should go throw myself at him." It's more like, "I'm horny and, since I'm a female, I can do whatever I want. Decent looking dude? Better go make out with him." It's essentially hypergamy at its finest. Funny how men are so often accused of viewing women as "pieces of meat" when women go out, get drunk, and…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 07:19 PM
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They don't think you're Don Draper, they think you're Fedora Milady-Tippington. Hilarious. A great point too. OP: I may be wrong, and no offense, but you seem pretty arrogant to me. Like... in the sense that you believe yourself to be so smart and so well read that you are above your typical dumb girl. Almost like you are bragplaining. "It sucks that I'm so smart and charming because most girls are too stupid to understand me. That must be why I can't get them to hook up with me!" Well then, if …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 03:52 PM
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Hard to say for sure. A lot of it has to do with whatever the reason is why they don't have girlfriends. If I had to guess, I'd say it's mostly subconscious. People in general need friendship, attention, and validity. However, men are much more solitary creatures than women, so just having 2-3 good friends is probably the bare minimum to fulfill a man's friendship needs. Women, however, crave not only the friendship, but the validation that comes along with it. And nobody gives women more valida…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 12:29 PM
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Gotcha. Like I said, it definitely makes sense. Making your presence and social status known without giving them attention lays a decent foundation for a succesful approach Good point. Jumping into a social situation and immediately bum rushing every girl in the room is an awful strategy that I unfortunately see far too often from my friends. Sit back, relax, and slowly position yourself for a successful approach. Sometimes you can feel the eyes on you that are basically saying "when are you goi…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 03:30 AM
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If she doesn't have girlfriends, it's because she's a straight up slut full stop Not necessarily true, but is true a lot of the time. Another reason is that she's such a drama queen that other girls can't even deal with it. Either way, serious red flag.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 03:23 AM
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Or do they enjoy the attention too much to even care? You nailed it. There are all sorts of reasons for why a girl doesn't have many friends that are girls, but the underlying reason for girls having a majority of male friends is that they simply need the validation and attention.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 03:18 AM
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Never seen this before, but I agree wholeheartedly. It's funny when they feel entitled to something and you take it away though. For example, I used to smoke up an old plate I had most times when she came over. I mostly did it just to be nice and it wasn't a big deal. Eventually, I noticed that she'd expect it ("ummm when are we smoking???) So I just stopped it entirely. You couldn't imagine the bitch fit she had when I told her she had to either bring her own pot or buy a little from me. Called…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 02:53 AM
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If they realise there's nothing wrong with your social skills they'll have a harder time explaining why you aren't talking to them, which serves as a subtle but effective negging strategy in itself. Yeah, this definitely makes sense...if you are high enough SMV. For example, if you're in a group of 5 guys and you aren't in the top 2 of SMV, this does nothing for you if you continue to not pursue. I'm definitely not saying you are wrong, I just don't want beginners to think that if they just inte…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 02:42 AM
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I understand and appreciate the point you are trying to make, but I also want people just starting out on TRP to realize that by going out, ignoring chicks, and not trying to get laid, you aren't going to magically receive women's attention. You sort of implied that at the end of your story, so I just wanted to clear that up. If you have a high SMV? Sure. But if you are midtier SMV/just starting? You'll likely come off as "awkward." With that said, I agree that going monk mode (or just maintaini…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 11:35 PM
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Amazingly this has worked almost every time, and they have no guilt. So, lets say the plate drops a few weeks later for whatever reason. Do you get any bullshit about "making" her leave her bf? If so, how do you handle it? This would be my only concern. Deep down, I really am a nice guy and although I have no problem being "the guy" she cheats with (someone will inevitably be that guy anyway and LDRs are bullshit), I could see myself easily breaking frame if she blamed me for her breakup. A bit …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 09:15 PM
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It's something that I should try again. For me, however, the point of using shrooms is for the internal aspects. In my opinion, when you are taking a lower dose of shrooms for the social benefits, you should actually be timing up an L trip so you reach your social event (whatever that may be) at the same time as you come down from the initial peak (3-4 hours). Obviously this is just my opinion, but far too often I see people trying to force shrooms to be used in a situation where L would make mu…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 08:27 PM
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And yet somehow, we are the sexist pigs
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:28 PM
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They'll tell you what they want. They just won't tell you that your contribution is meaningless once they get it.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:54 PM
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It is annoying, but I understand it from their perspective. I say this a lot on here, but you cannot negotiate passion, which, by extension, means you cannot buy passion either. It's either there through "the feelz" or it isn't. The current dating scene may make some women bitchy or entitled, but once you stop giving them things just for having a pussy, you put yourself in a much better position to bypass the bitch shield. You separate yourself from the typical idiot who thinks buying girls shot…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:51 PM
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Interesting. My low dose trips on shrooms make me feel uncomfortable. Like I'm on the verge on "breaking through," but never quite get there. Also i tripped really hard once and communicated with myself that was the universe telepathically. Once, I fainted randomly with no explanation. About a month later, I tripped so hard that I determined my current "self" had went back in time and became one with my fainting "self." I came to the conclusion that the fainting was due to my two "selves" mergin…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:26 PM
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Not really. The body load on shrooms is much greater. They make you feel pretty lethargic, whereas L has a much more energizing aspect to it. Not to mention, the time commitments for each is vastly different. Overall, you will have a much different experience on shrooms compared to acid. Like, if I were to do a study where you give me a pill with either ground up shrooms or acid inside, I would know within the hour which you gave me. Saying it's like tequila vs. whiskey is a vast oversimplificat…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 02:29 PM
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Give a woman an inch and she'll take a mile. Then she'll complain she didn't get two miles. Great point. Essentially, Briffault's law 101. Something that all guys starting on TRP need to internalize and understand. Women are hardly, if ever, grateful for things you do for them. The millisecond you buy them something or do something for them, they immediately begin expecting more. In the end, it's not about what you do for a woman or what you can give her (unless you are a top tier BB), but about…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 02:15 PM
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No, no, I have. Just because I can handle my drugs like a big boy doesn't mean I've never had good acid. It might be tough during the initial peak, but after that I'm golden. I wouldn't advocate you gaming on L and expecting great success, but it's a much safer bet than trying on shrooms
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 01:59 PM
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Don't do this. If you wanna try on acid, knock yourself out. Shrooms make regular interactions pretty much impossible and taking a low-dose (anything under 2 grams) really is meaningless/a waste. Shrooms are much better for an internal journey and learning experience. Acid will allow you to actually converse with people
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 12:48 PM
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This is a great learning experience. When I first found TRP about a year ago, this was happening to me every so often, and I couldn't figure out the problem. Eventually, I realized that I was treating making plans with a girl the same way I make plans with one of my friends. You see, even the act of making plans with a girl can be seen as a shit test. Go back and look through your texts. I know I often came off as needy, clingy, and outcome dependent, even though that was never my intention. Not…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 09:46 PM
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Could you explain further on how to ignore them in group situations ? I know she will ask direct questions if I ignore her. To put it simply, it would be much easier to just avoid group situations with them. However, if you are "forced" to see them in a group setting, just acknowledge their existence and leave it at that. Don't be a bitch boy. As in, don't hold conversations with them. Conversely, you shouldn't hide in the corner from them either. Take the high road. It will likely make you look…
/r/askTRP21/10/14 06:26 PM
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How should I act towards my xGF when I come back and John is not there ? Act like she doesn't exist. Because, honestly, she shouldn't even be a blip on your radar at this point. Cut all contact and pretend she doesn't exist. At some point, she'll try to rope you into a "talk," which is really just a conversation where she'll try to get you to either: A.) Validate her relationship and give it your "blessing" or B.) Break frame so she can call you an "asshole," which will indirectly validate her r…
/r/askTRP21/10/14 04:09 PM
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IMO, you shouldn't ever "try again" with a girl you had oneitis for prior to finding TRP. It brings out too many old demons and is really a precarious situation where you may find yourself back in beta bux/orbiter mode without even realizing it. I know a lot of people claim successes with girls they had oneitis for, and I applaud them for that. But for me, severing ties here is the best bet. It's going to take a WHILE before she stops viewing you as her orbiter. So cut contact, bang a bunch of o…
/r/askTRP21/10/14 03:56 PM
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Yeah I could go on and on with shitty wingman stories. When I first started TRP, I would go out with one of my friends who pulls a pretty decent amount of puss. I figured we would be a good team. Unfortunately, his wingman game consisted of sliding in on the girl I was talking to. This was, of course, after I opened, which is probably the hardest part. There were a lot of nights where neither of us got pussy because he would legitimately follow me around the bar and hit on EVERY girl I was alrea…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 01:12 PM
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I think your frame is very important in these situations. Don't flirt along, don't joke around, etc when responding to the request. Give a blank stare, pause, then say yes or no. An old boss I had (ex college football player) used to handle flirtatious behavior from female employees in this manner and it worked every time. That brief pause resets the frame from "flirting" to "Why are you flirting with me at work? Let me help you with X task and we'll forgot this happened." Honestly, the brief pa…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 10:10 PM
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I might even agree eventually, she's approaching the wall fast and I might want to get in a bang before she finds a BB to settle down with and using game on her becomes slightly harder than usual. Might be fun. However, keep in mind that she was a problem for you in the past and if you cannot keep her as just a plate, don't bother at all. Since you've been here for a year, you probably already know the deal. Just a friendly reminder that oneitis can be a bitch, even after swallowing and digestin…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 09:25 PM
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Understandable. I feel bad for guys like him also. In fact, I used to be "that guy." But it wasn't until I started seeing first hand how things actually worked that I finally began to understand that the problem was with ME and not the guy taking my girl. The guy mentioned in the OP will either learn and adapt, or remain BB. You can't base your life around the "feelings" of the clueless/ignorant. They will either see the error of their ways or they won't. Sugarcoating it for them because you fee…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 05:46 PM
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What if the date she was with had a death in the family or is dealing with problems in his own life? There are obvious exceptions to any "rule." This is one of them. However, you can only know what you can know. I'm certainly not going to ponder what is going on in a strangers life and base my life around that. I feel like that OP should of not escalated at all. Afterall, he was driving her home, he must know her some bit. Why is that important? Goes back to trying to negotiate passion. What's t…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 02:53 PM
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It really depends on the person, imo. I tried it a while ago (28 days), as it got rave reviews. While I did notice a slight uptick in energy, it made me aggressive as fuck. Like..in a horribly bad way. I'm already pretty aggressive, so by day 27, my head was ready to blow off. While this may be beneficial for less aggressive people, it didn't mix well with my personality. Remember, there's also a reason uptight people are told to "go get laid" as an insult, just like being a "wanker" is an insul…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 01:03 PM
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Fuck that. This is the real world, and in the real world, there is competition. Her "date" already had multiple opportunities to gain interest/attraction throughout the night. There is no rule against hooking up with another guy's date, especially when they aren't actually dating. Its the other guy's job to keep her interested if he wants to hook up with her. Not to mention, the female in question has agency and can choose to be with whatever guy she wants. It's not like the OP forced her to mak…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 12:42 PM
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I know it's a shitty outlook, but if I'm not looking for a LTR (which I'm currently not), "making me work for it" just turns me off completely. When a girl says this to me, it tells me that she either isn't "that" attracted to me or she wants to turn me into a LTR/beta bux/orbiter. This is a hardcore shit tactic by women where she immediately holds sex over your head in order to get her way. I've been told this on multiple first and second dates. I've yet to fuck any girl who explicitly stated s…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 10:35 PM
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I'm not sure who hurts "worse," but Hollywood/mainstream media has done a fantastic job of making breakups seem easy for men and devastating for women. So when men get dumped, feel terrible, and do all sorts of stupid things (endless phone calls, texts, etc), they are harshly judged for their moment of weakness. This makes regaining frame and reputation extremely difficult to repair for a lot of men after breakups, as no one simpathizes with a man whose been dumped. In fact, he's usually the but…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 03:29 PM
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Luke Kuechly thinks you're hilarious
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 02:40 PM
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She'd obviously hate them. I'm guessing her problem is that she's ugly/fat, but not extremely ugly/fat, so she only gets approached by lower SMV guys. Because she obviously has an inflated ego, she sees herself as out of these guy's league, which, by typical female logic, makes them "creepy." I'd be willing to bet that her sunglasses would go flying off her head if a high SMV guy approached her.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 05:37 PM
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Love it It's so funny how society picks and chooses what forms of discrimination are allowed and what aren't. Feminists in particular are extremely discriminatory. What I find so hilarious is that, generally, feminists are middle class white women who only are concerned with the "rights" of other middle class white women. Do you think your typical fatty-fem gives a shit about the problems of poor black women or poor hispanic women? Fuck no. The list in the OP is simply a list of whiny "bragplain…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 05:22 PM
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A bad boy has a tendency to break hearts and cause emotional distress. From a psychological standpoint, this behavior can be taxing on a woman’s feelings. As a result, it makes the nice guy guilty until proven innocent, which means he has to work twice as hard to earn a woman’s trust and affection. Moreover, there is a shadow of doubt cast over them even before their attempt to ask for a woman’s phone number; it’s a vicious cycle. How can this trend come to an end? Stop being an assh*le. This ma…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 08:57 PM
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It's not about "doing whatever you want it bed." Bad sex can be improved if the passion is there. Lack of blowjobs can be replaced by willingness to try new things in bed. The problem arises when your GF/LTR decides that you don't need sex, will only put out (if ever) when she feels absolutely obligated to and doesn't put any effort into making it a pleasurable experience for you. When that happens, the girl in question is either A. a selfish human being who couldn't care less if her partner is …
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 01:39 AM
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I do the same thing. You can immediately gauge her attraction and go from there. That's why it's always a good thing to maintain a confident, bordering on cocky frame. You immediately separate the interested (or at least semi interested) from the girls who absolutely are not attracted to you. Saves time and effort
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 10:23 PM
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Thank you for this. I'd never considered the "loneliness" factor and I think this is where I'm having issues. When a plate tells me she's seeing another guy, I always just assume she's pulling the "jealousy" card, which turns me off so much that I usually stop fucking her or fuck her half-heartedly. Obviously, this leads to her disappearing for a while, if not forever. The loneliness explaination makes perfect sense. I don't usually take plates on dates or anything that could be considered a dat…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 09:20 PM
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Agree so much with this post. I took around a month off from 4-5 days a week lifting. I dropped down to 1-2 because I needed to focus on work. During this time, I lost my visible, nonflexed abs (hope that makes sense), lost 5 pounds (which I can only assume was muscle), and lost a good bit of confidence. I went from girls approaching me regularly at the bar, to getting turned down at a much higher frequency (most likely a confidence issue). Point is, once you get off that path to self improvemen…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 08:03 PM
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1-10 is a good scale for explaining "hotness" to someone, but it really is meaningless when it actually comes to personal use. Generally, I use a 1-3 scale for myself. 1=will not fuck ever, under any circumstances. 2=will fuck at least once, when I'm drunk or desperate. Depending on the level of sex and girl's personality, she can become a low-mid level plate. 3=would fuck sober. Potential to become a high-level plate or LTR if personality and sex are good. I like the 3-point scale because it ma…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 07:01 PM
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But are you feeling this way because you're developing feelings for these girls? No. I think it just comes from my ego. I want to believe I'm the badass my plates go home and brag about. When I find out they are fucking other dudes, even if the reason is because they can't get a commitment out of me, it's a shot to my ego. I also then sense that she's trying to leverage her pussy as a way to get me to commit. She's basically pitting me against another dude to "fight" over her. Those sorts of gam…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 09:51 PM
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It usually comes up post-sex 1-2 months after we start fucking. We'll be laying in bed or something and she'll ask about the other girls I'm seeing. After I respond, she'll say something like "well just so you know... I'm seeing/dating/fucking/etc another guy. He wears condoms, blah, blah, blah...you fuck better but won't give me a commitment, blah, blah...I just thought you should know." This has happened to me multiple times. I've also had plates come over and tell me we can't fuck anymore..."…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 09:16 PM
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It's definitely my goal and I usually get great reviews, but after 1-2 months, once they find out I'm not going to ever commit, there is usually another dude added to the fold. Due to my behavior after finding out about another dude, I usually have trouble maintaining that plate for much longer, even when I have other plates to fall back on.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 09:07 PM
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I guess my concern is the ensuing shit tests and subsequent failure of shit tests once I find out. Because I spin plates, I make sure that they all know there are other girls I see. It's only fair, imo. So when a girl tells me she's also seeing other dudes, I look like a huuge hypocrite, as this is obviously hypocritical behavior. My point, I guess, is that I know I'm being a hypocrite when I lose attraction for a plate who sees other dudes, but I don't want to stop spinning plates myself. I'm n…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 09:02 PM
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I wish I didn't and try my best not to care, but I have trouble maintaining the same frame once I find out she's fucking/dating/seeing other dudes. It is definitely something I need to get over, but whenever I catch wind of my plates seeing other guys, my jealous inner beta kills the attraction. I don't take pride is knowingly fucking a girl who has multiple current partners. It honestly makes me feel like an orbiter, even though I'm still getting sex. Anyone have any advice on getting over this…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 08:34 PM
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Any time a girl refuses sex, but also "hates blowjobs," that is an immediate "next" in my book. No discussions, no negotiations. If you aren't willing to pleasure someone you claim to "love," then you don't really love that person. You aren't even attracted to that person. I've had plates blow me and afterwards admit that they "don't usually do that." I didn't beg or pressure them into it. They were just so caught up in the attraction that they happily sucked me off. Some girls do probably hate …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 02:54 PM
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A jealous, clueless beta. With no other forms of game to use, he resorted to going nuclear on a completely innocent party (the alpha). That shit is fucking pathetic. The thing these jackasses don't realize is, they are actually saying that women are incapable of taking care of themselves, so they must don the white armour to protect them. This is a pretty selfish worldview when you think about it. These betas think so highly of themselves, that they anoint themselves "protector of the realm," wi…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 12:44 PM
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Yup, definitely agree. Your post honestly has given me that "lightbulb" moment regarding these sorts of white knights. In reality, these white knights are nothing but a shit test in today's sexual marketplace. An "indirect" shit test, if you will. The girls they are "protecting" really don't have much respect for them at all, but know that any guy who will be deterred by these douchbags aren't man enough for them. So when one of these assholes says "sorry she's not interested," you can come righ…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 02:42 AM
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Oh my god, this explains probably 75% of the white knights that I hate the most. I never could properly articulate it, but now it all makes sense. I knew sooo many douches in high school and college like this. The "best friend" who would pull the girl off me when we were getting hot and heavy on the dance floor. The "voice of reason" when a girl was getting ready to leave the bar and go home with me. The "protector" when his little snowflake was being a self centered bitch and I had the audacity…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:27 AM
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Building an authentic "Alpha core" where you know who you are and that other people are "not you" is the essence of becoming differentiated as a man. Great way to put it. Every real "alpha" I've ever met has a whole life story, almost like a character in a book. Most average betas have no idea who they are, how they got here, and where they are going. They meander through life, stopping only to point out the beauty of their special snowflake, never once considering that they are just along for t…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 12:32 AM
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The best way to show that you truly do not care is to actually "not care." You can fake this all you want, but you'll eventually fall back onto you beta tendencies. However, by filling your life with good friends, fun hobbies, and hard work, you don't really have the time to care if some plate is whining about you not upping your commitment level with her. You won't have the energy to respond to the barrage of texts sent by a plate who is threatening to leave you. And you certainly won't give a …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 07:13 PM
1

For me, it's not always a bad thing to question the honesty of ANYONE. It doesn't need to be frantic, panicky "oh my god are they lying" thoughts that you seem to be having, but just general questioning of what you are being told is a good thing. In my opinion, most "complete" lies are easy to spot. The harder things to spot are half-truths/trickle truths or statements that require you to read between the lines (power talk). However, even this is pretty easy to spot with enough practice/focus. Y…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 04:17 PM
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Recently, I've had to dump a female "friend" for similar reasons stated in the OP. Long story short, a plate told me she had found a boyfriend and we couldn't have sex anymore. But guess what guys?!? She still wants to be friends!! How sweet of a deal is that? I get to go from having wild sex every other day to listening to this girl's bullshit problems and drama. I should consider myself lucky... right? Unfortunately for this girl, I didn't accept her friendship offer. I simply said "no thanks,…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 05:35 PM
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BBT isn't a "super alpha," he's just been fortunate enough to have multiple different projects and streams of revenue/fame. He acts like a child in that video. His claim is that he doesn't want to have his acting career brought up, as to not draw attention away from the band, but then he purposely draws all attention to himself by being a crybaby dickhead. It's not alpha, it's egocentric female behavior. He is basically saying "The whole world should revolve around me, even when I tell you the w…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 04:00 PM
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Old Ex GF used to tell me it was ridiculous that I had the urge for sex/masturbation on a daily basis. In typical solipsistic fashion, she reasoned: "If I don't need to get off every day, then I have no idea what makes you think that you do." She was the worst lay of my life, but I doubt that's a surprise to many of you. Some women ar so self-centered that they really don't even think about the sexual needs of men.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 11:34 PM
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Morally disgusting as rape? No. Thank you for undermining the seriousness of rape though, because you can totally equate rape to leaked nude pictures. Is it a crime? Yes. Is it fucked up that someone hacked into her computer (or wherever) and posted the pictures? Yes. But lets not forget, if she didn't have these pictures lying around, it wouldn't be a problem. Nobody forced her to take these pictures. Some shithead just took advantage of the situation that was presented to him. Think about how …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 07:34 PM
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In my opinion, you are either high SMV, or you aren't. "Fake it until you make it" only goes so far with SMV. Eventually, if you either A.) Are insecure about your SMV or B.) Overinflate your SMV to the point of absurdity, you ultimately will come off as a huge try hard. Let's take your situation. You are trying to make this girl a plate. Instead of playing it cool and letting the chips fall where they may (like a true high SMV man would), you make an obvious attempt to impress this girl by invi…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 04:59 AM
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Such a great article. Confirms everything I've noticed in my 10+ month TRP journey. If a woman wants to fuck, she will. Negotiating sex is not only pretty much an impossibility, it's the sign of a self-centered woman who legitimately believes she can put a value on her pussy. Think about that for a second. Men are commonly attacked for "objectifying" women, yet here women are, putting a price on their own pussy.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:01 PM
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No. TRP isn't a sexual strategy. We simply present information. What you do with that information is up to you. Many choose to use the information presented to more effectively deal with relationships, particularly relationships with women. However, many also use it to become better, more rounded individuals as a whole. Some PUA stuff translates to TRP, but they are definitely not the same. Saying they are the same is a drastic oversimplification of TRP, which means you probably need to read the…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 08:31 PM
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Can't tell if this is sarcasm or not. I knew a few football players who were rumored to have fucked teachers at my high school. These dudes were the gang member type, who were pretty badass and willing to go the extra mile to try and fuck a teacher. When I was a senior, I distinctly remember flirting with younger teachers and they actually seemed to enjoy it. I'll never know what would have happened if I actually tried to go further. Kinda makes me wonder, especially with all these student-teach…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 10:25 PM
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How does this example prove hypergamy? Well, at least IMO, it proves that being "most" alpha isn't important. Simply being alpha, available, and having a little game are the most important things. That's how we have 16 year olds banging teachers and homeless guys banging different girls every night. Money and status are extremely important in becoming a top tier alpha who is capable of pulling 10s, but it isn't the end all, be all. Being ripped is important but being the "most" ripped isn't as i…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 08:13 PM
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Yup. I'm not going to say that legitimate catcalls aren't "creepy" to some extent, but I would say 75% of the time, women are bragplaining when they refer to catcalls. "Ugh some ugly creep tried to say hi to me today! Don't you hate getting harassed by pigs? Hold on, let me put on a pound of makeup and slide on my yoga pants and low cut shirt." This is the logic of most women. They want to dress and act however they want, but somehow feel that they are entitled to pick and choose the attention a…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 07:10 PM
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Well, I can't speak for pre-Bronze Age civilization, but generally, the biggest assholes of society have been the rich, ruling elite. Since the beginning of civilization, the elite have had their pick of women to fuck on the side (remember: prostitution is the world's oldest profession) and also marry. Women still dream of being "princesses" (although it is more figurative than literal in this day and age). And since the beginning of civilization, what have people been conditioned to associate w…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 06:32 PM
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The truth is we shouldn’t be asking why some women date bad guys. We should go to the root of the problem first. Why are men socialized to be assholes? And why does society applaud and encourage that behavior in men, while stifling more enriching and healthy traits like empathy and good communication? Hilarious quote. She is essentially saying "don't blame us for fucking assholes, blame society for creating them." This is the equivalent of an obese person saying "don't blame me for being fat, bl…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 01:53 PM
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Sad thing is, I lived most or my life doing this. General consensus from women about me? "He's too pussy to make a move." Women obviously want men to make the first move without having to ask her permission to kiss, escalate, etc. Yet at the same time, they want an "out" where they can decide retroactively that they DIDN'T want to be hook up with a guy. Seriously, how can a man win with this arrangement? You can either ignore the "yes means yes" bullshit and get accused of rape OR you can never …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 01:35 PM
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Been in your shoes before. While it probably would have been "better" if you just hung around, bitched her in person (jokingly) for being a slut, and stopped validating her entirely, taking the nuclear option isn't always a bad thing for a newbie. I know it's going to sound demeaning, but you have to figure out you have balls when you first start TRP. Before this, you didn't have balls (at least in her eyes). She isn't (and probably never was) attracted to you, but now she's pissed because she l…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 09:54 PM
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For me, she doesn't need to fuck on the first date, but has to put out a least a little bit. Even a quick makeout session is enough to start out. This denotes at least some level of attraction. I immediately reject all girls who do not. Every date after that must take a step forward, or else I demote to the back of the line. For example, if we make out for a few minutes on the first date, it needs to be AT LEAST more intense and longer on the second. If you aren't fucking by the 3rd or 4th date,…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 08:22 PM
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I mean, all she had to do was say "stop" or "no." That's it. But she willingly allowed this guy to move from spooning -> hands down pants -> fingering -> pants off -> sex. It would be different if they were drunk or he was just some random dude, but it was her boyfriend and they were sober
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 04:55 PM
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Sure, I've met a bunch. Ironically, they run much sleazier, "creepy" game than is preached on TRP. These are the types of dudes who go for the drunkest girl at the bar or try to seduce crying, attention seeking women (under the guise of being a "good guy" of course). This is why I find most male feminists to be the biggest scumbags of all. The majority of them don't really care about "women's rights," they just identify as a feminist to kiss ass and try to worm their way into pussy.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 02:25 PM
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What caught my attention was when she explained him fingering her. It "somehow" happened, as if she didn't notice this guy putting his hand down her pants. They "somehow" began to have sex, as if her clothes magically fell off. I'm not saying she enthusiastically wanted to fuck this guy, but can you really blame him for fucking his girlfriend when she allowed him to stick his hand down her pants, then finger her, then take her clothes off, and then fuck her. Does she not realize where the confus…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 02:08 PM
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You know, I'm not really sure women don't understand this, so much as they choose to ignore it for their own perceived benefit. That's why they will never logically approach this basic issue, they merely just tell men to "grow up," while fucking everything in sight. Women know exactly why they let that alpha do anything he wanted back in college while their current beta boyfriend only gets 2 minutes of missionary sex a month. This is why I find it so hilarious when betas complain about not getti…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 12:23 PM
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As a man, you want to have the respect of other men. When you exclusively date a slut, you lose tons of respect from every single guy who fucked her and every guy who simply KNOWS that she slept around. I mean, how much of a chump do you have to be to put time, money, and effort into something that you can get for free, with hardly any time/effort commitment?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:03 PM
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Ever have that awkward moment where you run into an ex-fwb or ONS while she is with her current BF/LTR? You've not only seen this guy's GF naked, but you've fucked her (and probably had much kinkier sex than he gets). Now imagine how it would feel to be that guy. Every time you run into one of her guy "friends," you feel the embarrassment of dating a girl who's slept with everyone and their brother. This is ultimately why I won't date sluts. I don't want to be viewed as the chump who dates a gir…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 05:06 PM
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Yeah, I mean I'm still on the fence about fucking a girl who is in a "relationship," however phony it may be. Could I have trudged forward and fucked her? Probably. Should I have? That's where the line blurs for me
/r/askTRP26/09/14 09:04 PM
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don't become a beta bitch or any other sort of source of approval. That's my worry. I don't think I will ever go back to the oneitis beta bitch I once was, but I don't want to continue to validate a girl who is fucking someone that isn't me. On the other hand, I don't want to overreact and ruin a good plate (this has been a sticking point for me in the past).
/r/askTRP26/09/14 08:57 PM
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Thanks. Yes, you are correct. Blew up my phone for days, so I said "Fuck it." I actually assumed that her "relationship" wasn't really serious and she was just desperate for sex. I forgot to mention, her "boyfriend" lives like 2 hours away. Part of me just wants to call bullshit on this whole thing. She literally went from gushing all over my sheets to "I have a boyfriend now" overnight. Never seen anything like it. I almost think she's trying to trick herself into believing that she's in a real…
/r/askTRP26/09/14 08:53 PM
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Care to elaborate a bit?
/r/askTRP26/09/14 08:37 PM
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The appeal to equality used by feminists is such bullshit. They, along with other pro-minority groups, have changed their goals from "equal opportunity" to "equality." So they force these ideals and statistics down our throats, like a square peg in a round hole. They don't want the "equal opportunity" to get a job. They want the company to artificially alter their hiring strategies to ensure that 50% of people hired are women, even if they are much less qualified. And yet, even though women want…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:50 PM
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No response is always the best. You did good. Any sort of response would have either validated her or showed her that you still have some feelings towards her. By not responding, you send the message that she isn't even worth a second of your time and you've moved on to much greener pastures. Feels good doesn't it?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 03:48 PM
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"All animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others"
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 08:26 PM
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Shit like that makes me laugh. It gives no real advice at all. Just says to be nice and MAYBE you'll get a GF. You better not fucking expect it though, because you are probably better suited as a beta orbiter. I also loved the part about dating "assholes." They are probably dating that person because they make them feel good in some way Translation: they give my gina all sorts of tingles that ass-kissing beta orbiters don't. So many hilarious RP truths in that post, just gotta read between the b…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 01:04 AM
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People don't like it when you reveal to them that their worldview and beliefs are bullshit. So rather than take your advice and adapt, it's much easier for them to just bury their head in the sand. If the cognitive dissonance becomes too great, they'll just shoot the messenger and blame you, likely accusing you of being a lunatic, misogynist, or asshole (depending on the situation). This is why I don't bother arguing with people's bullshit beliefs or trying to open people's eyes to the "truth."
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 05:11 PM
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How dare you make a logical point you sexist piece of shit!
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 04:27 PM
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Aside from the porn comments, I thought her explanation of seeing a good looking guy was weird. She gawks at a man while her 14 year old son and his friend are in the car? What kind of mother does that?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:22 PM
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