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Or maybe the bar is that low 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 05:32 PM
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Men are simple creatures- they want us to make their life as simple as possible. Just fuck them and feed them and take care of everything around the house with no question. Simple!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:13 PM
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My grandma was this “good wife” and all she ever got in return was a drunk asshole who had no problem beating her or the kids. It was these women who taught us we need financial independence and an exit strategy. So if a man today wants this kind of treatment, then he needs to make enough for the wife to stay at home and give her money in order to build her savings. They don’t like to hear that though. They’re appalled at the idea of a woman having an exit strategy. They think that’s not loyal. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:16 PM
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Did he not expect the child to cost him anything? What a moron. What she’s suggesting is 50/50 technically. This is why FDS does not believe in 50/50 relationships. At the very least it needs to be proportionate to the income, but also if you’re with a man who is strictly like this 50/50 you’re going to have a miserable time. Imagine someone nickel and diming you and always keeping tabs on what’s owed for your entire life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:03 PM
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Omg I wouldn’t trust a man sex robot if it were programmed by a man. We already get enough awkward thrusting. You have to know what how to actually please a woman in order for that to work. Plus for about 70% of women, the robot peen would need a couple additional features 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:14 AM
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Sex robots - it’ll definitely be another LVM interest to avoid in a dating partner. However, unless technology and research is expedited leaps and mounds we’re still going to be needed to continue the species for a long time. I think sex robots will occupy and satisfy the LVM who is ok with their life being as low effort as possible. I’m more afraid of the LVM who uses a sex robot to address an immediate need but becomes more resentful towards women over time because he realizes the real deal is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 03:49 AM
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They used to feel emasculated and shameful for not paying for dates. 50/50 used to be embarrassing, we need to go back in that aspect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 01:18 AM
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I have mixed feelings on the outlook for future generations. One one hand, it’s possible men get more and more respectful over time, the incel’s bloodline get darwined and we phase out undesirable men and their behaviors. On the other hand, if we continue to keep our standards high and the men don’t step up, I could see violence and misogyny getting worse. Handsmaid Tale even if we don’t reproduce enough. That’s why I’m not super excited for our daughters. The third hand is men just giving up co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 12:27 AM
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Correct! I would see that dude and immediately assume he’s going for the easiest target
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 09:46 PM
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TLDR: The least attractive scrote of a friend group only goes after the least attractive woman of a different friend group when they’re out. Then he thinks it’s some sort of accomplishment and that everyone else is jealous of him and the woman of the night. It kind of reminds me of my trailer park trash acquaintances who always post possessive memes/quotes about their partners. It’s like nah sis, one wants your dude besides you 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 05:47 PM
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I woke up this morning and some scrote reported to Reddit I was having a crisis and a bot referred me to the crisis care help line 😂 Ngl that’s a good troll 😂 but if that person had at least 5 brain cells, this post is about the audacity of men who think single moms aren’t allowed to have standards, and less about the standards themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 12:51 PM
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Actually what’s more interesting is they’ll have a laundry list of requirements before getting into a serious relationship but they’ll literally fuck anything. Because a potential child from a hookup is somehow less commitment than a girlfriend. Make it make sense 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:24 PM
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To the scrote who DM’ed me saying we’re entitled princesses who want males to make them feel special all of the time: 1. First of all we’re queens and 2. I mean yes….? We want our partners to make us feel special…? Is that supposed to be an insult or a ground-breaking revelation? 3. Yes we are entitled to not put out to man-children…? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 08:16 PM
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Right, when I was first using OLD I put some expectations on my profile but I learned that’s not the way to go. You need to keep a mental checklist and vet, and use your profile to talk about yourself. Most of those requests are pretty standard but scrotes aren’t used to seeing them laid out so clearly. They hate being reminded attractive woman have standards that requires them to work (both professionally and domestically) and spend money on something other than porn and video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:37 PM
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To the scrotes who keep downvoting me: 11/15 of those standards are actually the bare minimum dating requirements for any woman ever. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:22 PM
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Society is so nasty to single mothers. Yet politicians are scratching their heads wondering why the birth rate is dropping. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:57 PM
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We split the bills 50/50 but he spent his excess income all on video games while I actually had some savings to leave comfortably. Plus I bought all of the furniture, kitchenware, decorations, etc before we got married. He was left with very little but it was his own damn fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:06 AM
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The best advice I can add is in regards to divorce. If you’re young, have little to no assets, no kids, etc and things are relatively amicable between you and the LVM you’re leaving, you can divorce on your own without a lawyer. Sure the lawyer can probably get you entitled to something from your LVM ex, but in some cases you have to consider if paying a lawyer is going to be worth it if you’re trying to get blood out of a turnip. I googled my way through how to do a divorce pro se, and it worke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:13 PM
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“Calculate how much she actually owes me” 🤡🤡🤡 🚩🚩🚩 She protected herself during the time frame she was a girlfriend, opened up about it after engagement, but before marriage, and the OP is being a little bitch over what will realistically end up being ~$3k per year that he feels entitled to. Edit: Also how much do you want to bet she does most of the house work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 06:46 PM
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I have a HVM fiancé. He even understands women have to protect themselves financially at all costs. He has heard my stories of women in my family unable to financially leave their abusers. He knows I have an emergency savings if things go downhill with him relationship wise. This is a non-problem for a HVM that is financially stable with or without a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 05:56 PM
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No omg, scrotes and pickmes are sympathetic of him saying the biggest problem was the lie 🤡 a few people are pointing out she could have been doing it to protect herself but OP is not responding to those comments. This wouldn’t bother a HVM, just saying. It also sounds like he needs to budget better if he doesn’t have much in savings making double his GF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 05:49 PM
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The male Reddit scrotes who complain about FDS don’t even come here to see what we are about. What happens is there will be a screenshot taken of the 1-2% of extremely controversial/triggering opinions to the scrotes on reddit and they are posted on different subreddits (a recent example being the dick size preference post) The broader Reddit community wants to keep FDS’s reputation as toxic (and therefore should be dismissed/ignored) because if you actually spend time here and understand the br…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:42 PM
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To me it was just exhausting. Over the period I was on the apps I had to have gotten over 1,000 matches and hundreds of conversations. It’s impersonal and it took a lot of work to vet out the guys who acted like they wanted relationships but were only looking for sex. I think women are leaving dating apps because we want to find men who aren’t also on the dating apps. Dating apps give an illusion of an endless supply of potential partners and it causes men to not want to settle down & are always…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:55 AM
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I stopped mentioning it on the first couple dates but would mention it by date three. I’m in the same boat in that we were young, had no assets or kids so it was like any other long term relationship breakup, just with some extra paperwork. No contact and the bridge is burned. It was completely his fault so the reasoning doesn’t look bad on me. It’ll bother extremely religious men but otherwise I never really had any problems. What’s most awkward is going over to families houses and they still h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 01:48 AM
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On finding a man to have kids with - you need to look at him objectively for who he is, what he does, and how he acts. Look at him for who he is today and not potential. If you would be proud to have a son EXACTLY like him - most likely he is father material. If the idea of having a son exactly like him is off putting, or not ideal, or you would change something, rethink the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 06:35 PM
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Right, my HVM fiancé still plays video games but it’s maybe 5-8 hours per week. The rest of his free time he’s either catching up on work, doing something around the house, playing with our dogs, volunteering, spending time with family and friends, etc. 😍 I also hate the argument that video games are just like any other hobby…. Like, what other hobby even compares to video games other than a social media addiction? What other hobby can you do from your home, with a low barrier of entry (no skill…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 12:58 PM
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Yes another huge problem with addicting games are the micro transactions of the game itself. It also sometimes involves loot creates which are essentially gambling. When vetting men whose main hobby is video games there’s a lot to go through that can be difficult to find out. That’s why for a lot of women it’s going to be easier to avoid them in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 09:24 PM
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Absolutely, if you can watch a tutorial for a game you can watch a tutorial for a basic meal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:46 PM
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To counter this though MMORPGs are arguably some of the most addicting & time consuming types of games. Sometimes those social obligations also mean time obligations where they have a specific time and date they need to be on for a “raid” for 2-3 hours. Edit: Which is fine in itself but sometimes gamers prioritize this over their real lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:44 PM
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As someone who divorced a NVM gamer, all of this is definitely true but I would also add to watch out for weaponized incompetence. I have found in general male gamers are really bad about doing their fair share of household work. You can also see how well they take care of their pets to gauge their responsibility and whether they put their games down to pay attention to them. Also, pro tip. Find out their steam username and look them up. Sometimes their info is public and it will show you how ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:16 PM
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Honestly nowadays I assume everyone who goes on reality shows are only there to increase their social media following for better chances of being a full time influencer. I highly doubt the marriages and engagement are real or taken seriously. So yeah, men are going to men and ask questions about their appearance because they probably forgot which reality show they signed up for. The show wants to display a story line so the footage is going to focus on the engaged cast members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:18 PM
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I’m watching the American version season 2 right now and noticed the same thing. Not one question about the division of household labor? I mean that show’s setup would provide a LOT of content that needs to be edited down. Also a lot could be scripted. However, this is just one example of how the MSM wants us believe as long as you love each other and have similar interests it’ll all magically work out. Wrong. It’s the fantasy aspect of the show that brings in the views, hence the pickmes end up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:55 PM
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On a first date and all was going well until he asked me the question “So what are your biggest turn ons?” My answer: Honestly a guy that is an actual adult and has some sort of financial literacy. His answer: “When women are completely shaved from the neck down, and this” and gets out of his chair, and proceeds to kiss my neck in the MIDDLE OF THE RESTAURANT. On a FIRST DATE. 🤺🤺BACK I SAY🤺🤺 When he pulls back he asks, “I screwed up didn’t I?” I said YES, yes you did. I left shortly after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 01:45 AM
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Haha I know what you mean. I’m so thankful for my very HVM fiancé. I thought I was just going to be child free for awhile there but now I’m more than willing to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:21 PM
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Just to clarify, he wanted the dog initially, and we agreed to it, but then he didn’t want to take care of it after learning the hard way about the time commitment (I warned him several times before we got the dog). It says a lot about a person, and is a great lesson to learn before bringing a human into the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 05:56 PM
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Agreed, when I was with my LV (ex) husband, my moment of realization was how miserably he failed helping me with raising a new puppy. After the first two nights of having the puppy, he broke down and cried because the pup wanted too much attention from him and it was taking away time from his precious video games. I would have helped with the puppy more, but who else was going to cook dinner, fold laundry, clean, grocery shop, etc.? That’s when I realized I could never raise children with this m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 03:40 PM
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I hear what you’re saying but in actuality he was just lazy and a man child so 🤷🏻‍♀️ I googled and did the whole divorce myself without a lawyer and it cost ~$260. I just had to tell my ex what to do at each step (we were young and had no assets or kids so it was easy)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:52 PM
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I have an interesting case because my ex technically initiated the divorce, but I had to be the one to file and start the legal process or else we would have never divorced
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:27 PM
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I have an interesting case because my ex technically initiated the divorce, but I had to be the one to file and start the legal process or else we would have never divorced
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:27 PM
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This gives me PTSD. I did this all the time for my ex. Always playing video games and insisted if we wanted to spend time together I should learn how to play with him. Fuck dudes like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 12:40 PM
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When I was dating it amazed me how many men didn’t understand why we look for financial security. I’m sorry, did you think owning a house, raising kids, and going on vacation was going to just magically happen on your $12/hr entry level job? Oh and you do the bare minimum at work, with no intentions to move up, AND spend all of your free time smoking and playing video games? NEXT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:05 PM
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Haha oh the biggest thing it suggested was allowing a guy to help you out. Give him a chance to feel like a hero to you and make him feel needed. I never ask for help, ever, and if I can’t do it I pay for someone else to do it for me. So for example one freezing cold morning my cars battery died. Instead of taking the battery out myself and Ubering to and from Autozone, I let him help me out. Another time my power went out and instead of just dealing with a cold shower and takeout, I let him kno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:14 AM
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Yeah and a lot of it does align with FDS but maybe a couple others things in there to consider. Like I was really bad about digging into much on the first dates in an attempt to not waste my time. I was also terrible about answering texts right away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:01 AM
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Right I get it but I think if the end goal is to be with a HVM, it doesn’t hurt to read advice from a guy. The book is also not really about what we want, we do know what we want but the book has really good strategies on how to get a HVM to chase you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:56 PM
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