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I mean, yeah, that's valid. Blackpill can be very excessive at times. If you don't have enough substance for a girl to become attached to you beyond your money or good looks after she gets to know you, then you really need to take some time to look inwards, because that's probably where the real issues are.
/r/seduction26/07/26 07:17 PM
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Not a woman, but from what I've seen women say on social media: - Pecs - Big forearms - Broad shoulders - Big Biceps - Short beard (ideally stubble) - Strong Jaw
/r/seduction26/07/26 06:43 PM
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They shouldn't have to check it. It should be projected based on what you wear/drive and how you behave.
/r/seduction26/07/26 06:36 PM
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That's an odd way to put it. That's like saying physical attraction isn't important to women if they're in a room full of people who are roughly equally physically attractive. It's obvious that every woman would have some sort of rough standard for these things, but your way of putting it is divorced from reality because, more often than not, people are exposed to others from all walks of life and all levels of society. Yes, if you hold one desirable trait as a constant, people will shift their …
/r/seduction26/07/26 06:35 PM
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OP's list, while a useful guide, is by no means exhaustive. This is a skill that you will have to learn to sense because it cannot be fully rationalized, just like much of the human experience. I'm glad you learned eye contact and reading fafes as well.
/r/seduction14/02/26 02:47 PM
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While that does sound unfortunate, let me leave you with this, there's a difference seeing these in the first person versus the third person perspective. These things can seem entirely obvious when ypu see them happen to someone else, but yoy might completely miss them when they are happening to or have happened to you. Also, reading body language, while helpful, isn't enough. As a person with ADHD, I had to learn to read people's emptions through their face because those with ADHD, similarly to…
/r/seduction14/02/26 01:23 AM
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Have you considered the fact that your autism limits your ability to notice people's potential interest in you?
/r/seduction13/02/26 05:53 PM
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Agreed. It's obviously important, but she has to be in a place mentally that she wants to have a relationship and she also needs to have an interest in you as a person, not just a hookup, lol
/r/seduction01/02/26 02:56 AM
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Yes, reflection can lead to errors, of course. There is no such thing as a perfect analysis. That does not mean it has no value. What you want to avoid, however, is drastic changes between approaches based on the previous approach. You want to aim for small tweaks and refinement primarily. The "everything works" mentality will limit you to girls who are initially very attracted to you only and will kill your chances with girls who still haven't decided how they feel about you. In those instances…
/r/seduction23/01/26 08:53 PM
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Yes, and that can be part of your analysis. Reflection is always worthwhile, dramatic changes and being overly emotionally involved is what you want to avoid.
/r/seduction23/01/26 08:50 PM
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You're talking about overcorrecting. Proper analysis, especially with reasonable volume, would prevent this.
/r/seduction23/01/26 06:00 AM
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Size is helpful, but it's like icing on a cake rather than a core component. Women want secure men primarily, you wearing lifts is like a sign that you aren't comfortable with your reality. Also, listen to u/Lacunaethra, she's right. Call them women, female is only for use in scientific contexts. Other uses are considered objectification.
/r/seduction23/01/26 05:58 AM
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I am, not that that's what helps me get girls, though it doesn't hurt when it comes to keeping them around, lol. Bro, I didn't have my first relationship until I was 21, lol. You're not late, and experience is not achieved at the same time or rate. You're not meant to compare with everyone else, just figure out what you want and get after it on your own schedule. As long as you are happy with where you're at, that's what matters most.
/r/seduction22/01/26 06:08 AM
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I know guys shorter than that who have gfs that are taller than them, don't let that stop you.
/r/seduction22/01/26 05:52 AM
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That doesn't present as volume being the issue. That shows a lack of reflection following the volume, which is key. If you don't take the time to hone in on what works and what doesn't, all the volume in the world couldn't help you. It doesn't have to be excessive, just a few minutes a day will get the job done.
/r/seduction22/01/26 05:51 AM
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It's useful, but it lacks the clarity that comes from explaining how to develop confidence. And also, there's only so much ineptness you can get away with while being confident. If you're a complete idiot or asshole, confidence won't take you too far and may even prove counterproductive.
/r/seduction22/01/26 02:34 AM
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You can join a band (plenty of listings for players of all levels on Kijiji), make videos and post them online, busk (play outside) if you're up for it, play at an open mic night at a local bar or cafe (this will get you the most attention probably, you can meet a lot of fun people at open mics), whatever feels right tbh.
/r/seduction21/01/26 06:44 AM
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Learn piano or guitar, girls love that and it's great for your brain, and just fun in general tbh. Pick up a sport and a gym membership, having a fit body helps you look better, think better and feel better. Learn to cook, it's fun, not too many guys are good at it, it'll save you money, and it'll give you great control over your health.
/r/seduction21/01/26 03:55 AM
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There's literally nothing racist about being attracted to people of any particular race unless you tokenize or objectify them. No one is owed anyone's sexual attraction or partnership.
/r/seduction21/01/26 03:53 AM
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Yes, but it's not magical by any means. They can tell you have options in how you act. If you give girls all your attention, answer instantly, and come off as desperate for their approval, that SCREAMS that they're your only option. Conversely, if you give girls some of your attention, answer when you feel like it or, if you're genuinely busy, when you have time, and you're not too concerned about getting their approval, they'll assume you have options as it will make you come off as a confident…
/r/seduction19/01/26 07:31 AM
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You're probably suffering from 2 things: Confirmation bias, noting every time it works when you let the woman make the first move and ignoring the times when that strategy fails you. Lack of practice. You just don't know how to set up situations or recognize opportunities to playfully touch your date. As evidenced by your later comment that you're often not in a situation where kino is possible. Comfort is not an on/off switch, it's a sliding scale. She may be comfortable enough to let you hold …
/r/seduction06/01/26 08:33 PM
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Disagree. There is risk involved, yes, but as a man, it's your job to lead and part of that is knowing when it's the right time to touch her and how to do so depending on the scenario. Sometimes it may set you back, but with practice, it will be easier to recognize opportunities to use touch to escalate far more quickly and intensely.
/r/seduction06/01/26 09:55 AM
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Escalation through playful touches. Putting your hand on the small of her back briefly to guide her, putting a hand on her shoulder, sitting close and having knees or some other part discretely touching, etc. It helps you escalate and feel out where you're at with the girl you're flirting with.
/r/seduction06/01/26 03:20 AM
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Probably to farm karma and then sell the account to some agency that will use it for advertising. Can be lucrative if you can run enough accounts at the same time. And with the advent of AI, I bet it's a whole lot easier than it was back then too.
/r/seduction11/07/25 03:50 AM
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I'm curious about this week of transformation, if you don't mind sharing a bit more about that.
/r/seduction27/02/25 05:57 AM
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Just don't hang out too much with him, remind yourself that we all have our strengths and weaknesses, and work on yourself. You can also remind yourself that you've probably but a skill he doesn't have in the process of trying to improve your game simply because he was never afforded the opportunity. It's like how less attractive people usually end up doing more interesting things in life because they couldn't coast on their looks and needed to do something to be recognized.
/r/seduction30/01/25 03:11 PM
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Move on. She's not into you, and she's trying to let you down easy. Think of the situations when people use the term "that's nice." It's almost always use in a pitying way or like when you're dealing with a child. Also, if she REALLY wanted to see you, I doubt her parents' strictness would be the thing to stop her.
/r/seduction20/01/25 07:49 PM
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Yeah, generally.
/r/seduction09/01/25 02:45 AM
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Nah, let him cook, because he's right, that feeling is unreal, every time
/r/seduction05/01/25 05:38 AM
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As a bald guy, unless you have the right face shape for it, you're gonna lose a lot in the looks department, so you just have to be that much more confident, well-dressed, charming, interesting and everything else to make up the difference.
/r/seduction16/12/24 09:28 PM
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That's understandable. Like I said, you have options to regrow a certain amount of hair if it's important to you. You can also go to Turkey and get a transplant or whatever. It all depends on how much you value having a full head of hair.
/r/seduction16/12/24 09:27 PM
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You say you're confident, but you literally said you're feeling anxious about how you will be perceived because you're now bald. That's something to work on because your self-esteem has taken a hit, understandably. That said, if you did want to regrow some hair, derma rolling and using rosemary oil has been shown to be effective. Minoxidil also works, but it comes with a long list of side effects, including heart problems and further hair loss if you stop using it.
/r/seduction16/12/24 03:10 PM
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I mean I've noticed Lebanese girls (and guys tbh) are pretty open to white people compared to most other Arab girls. If you look at a lot of the Arab/white mixes in North America, you'll notice they tend to be part Lebanese. A significant factor may be that Lebanese people are 50% Christian, so they don't have to worry about a significant difference in religion, and the fact that some of them are even considered white passing.
/r/seduction13/12/24 03:06 PM
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It can if you look it.
/r/seduction13/12/24 04:47 AM
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I'm Egyptian, so yeah, haha
/r/seduction13/12/24 04:42 AM
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Arab is a tough one if you're white unless you go for super repressed/rebellious girls. Especially Lebanese ones
/r/seduction13/12/24 04:38 AM
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I just thank them and wish them luck, then move on.
/r/seduction21/11/24 04:14 AM
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Most guys will not. A shit test is a screening tactic and many men simply don't have that many options to screen in that systematic manner to begin with. If a guy is more attractive though, he might have enough options and resort to shit tests.
/r/seduction02/07/24 04:46 PM
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I agree in part with this. However, I feel like you've neglected a few things: There is no consideration for the halo effect. Just by virtue of the halo effect, you will have positive associations with you and your personality that may very well not exist as long as you don't demonstrate that they don't exist. You're more likely to be construed as smart, kind and funny. All you need to do is not shatter that illusion. You've presented an interesting thought experiment, but it's fairly unrealisti…
/r/seduction09/02/24 06:34 AM
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You're right. It's really the pain of rejection, because I no longer believe the worst a girl can do is say no. I've had much worse than simply being told "no." This one girl basically found reasons to put me down in front of others at any opportunity for a good chunk of a year after rejecting me, and it destroyed me. Especially because she was kind and caring before that, but that all changed after I asked her out.
/r/seduction29/01/24 06:40 PM
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Thank you for saying that, I really appreciate it. I do like her, and think we could be compatible. I hope you're right, and honestly the thought of that just gave me butterflies in my stomach, but Idk, I mean it was such a short conversation, I doubt she's telling her friends about it. See, I also have an affinity for self-sabotage. I've had girls that I find attractive almost essentially throw themselves at me after a short conversation, and I basically found a way to talk myself out of it. Wi…
/r/seduction29/01/24 03:47 AM
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I've had very unfortunate experiences romantically with women in general, so I get nervous pretty easily (a big part of me believes I don't deserve love). I did not get her number, but I will try to get her contact info next time.
/r/seduction29/01/24 03:19 AM
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Yes, I said hi. I complimented her poetry (use of imagery and metaphors specifically), she complimented mine (a specific line). Then she complimented my shirt and I asked if she watched anime (it was an anime sweater). She said "some, yeah." Then I said "cool," while smiling, I got nervous, the conversation fizzled out and I bailed 😅.
/r/seduction29/01/24 02:15 AM
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This is a surprising, but great suggestion. I just met one there, recently. But I have zero game, especially when I get hit with a woman that's my type enough for me to instantly crush on her. She seemed at least a little interested, so I'm hoping I can see her again and maybe start a relationship 😅
/r/seduction28/01/24 08:47 PM
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You practice what to say. Try to notice something about her. Is she wearing a cool necklace or ring? Is she drinking an interesting or unusual drink? Just find something to ask her about. Anything. From there, find more things to ask her about based on her response. If her responses are dry, short, and to the point. She doesn't want to talk, let alone sleep with you, so move on.
/r/seduction28/01/24 07:57 AM
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