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ConversationIamaThrowAwway/r/seduction27/02/26 10:09 PM
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Outer Game IamaThrowAwway/r/seduction20/03/21 07:55 AM
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I've only organized swinger parties and not sex positive ones, but I disagree a little bit about swinger orgies being primal. In my experience, since they are married and more or less fulfilled in their relationships their expectations are much higher and to be honest it takes a lot more to get them to take their clothes off. They're expecting some great experience, usually, be it music or themes for amazing connections in great conversations. Most of them are happy to spend all night chatting a…
/r/seduction27/05/26 02:47 AM
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Yeah I've been to several of them. As a matter of fact I used to organize them for a number of years before covid. What do you want to know about them?
/r/seduction27/05/26 02:39 AM
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You're expecting too much too soon. It needs to be said that women in the US are all concerned about their safety. All of them. You don't realize how often violence happens to women, but they do. Just chatting a couple of days likely isn't enough to make her feel safe enough to meet in person. Relax. The constant pressure will work against you rather than for you. Stop acting so desperate. Have other things to do and a life to lead.
/r/seduction05/05/26 02:29 AM
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I live in america, that’s exactly how i’m going to think about them deep down, that’s what they are. As the saying goes, live by the sword --- If this is what you think of them then this is exactly what you're going to get every single time.
/r/seduction04/05/26 02:17 AM
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You're not going to land an in-person date within two messages very often. Women need to feel safe and confident that you're not going to become violent. Even when they do agree to meet, there's still lingering concerns about their safety. It should be obvious to you by now pickup lines just don't work. How much more data do you need? The fact that you're calling them "hoes" because you can't get what you want tells me there's all kinds of other red flags you're throwing off about your true pers…
/r/seduction04/05/26 02:13 AM
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This is all bullshit. It's basically one more guy on the outside looking in, claiming he has the secret.
/r/seduction30/04/26 02:06 PM
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It's not jealousy but safety. If other women are comfortable with him, he's probably a safe choice. You guys fail to acknowledge or take seriously how much safety factor's into a woman's thinking. It's like you refuse to accept every strange male is potentially dangerous in their view. Half of you would do so much better if you weren't so god damn creepy all the time.
/r/seduction30/04/26 01:58 PM
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No, one crazy woman cannot destroy everything. As far as the United States goes. A person does not have to prove their innocence at any time. The accuser is the one who must prove their accusation. And to be honest, the majority of the times when the man is guilty he still gets off because SA is difficult to prove. If you don't put your dick in a crazy woman you don't have to worry about accusations from a crazy woman. You should probably know something about who you are putting your dick into a…
/r/seduction25/04/26 04:53 PM
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I think you are living too much in a fantasy world and not interacting with the real one. Women aren't standing around plotting and scheming ways to a falsely accused men of SA. That's not reality. There may be one woman out of thousands who is like that but it certainly should not be a thing that you fear to the degree that you are. Consent is an easy thing to check for you simply ask before you do things. And if it feels off and if she seems hesitant then you don't do it. That's how you don't …
/r/seduction25/04/26 04:45 PM
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Cool. I'll save this post and link to it when you ask her to respect your time, nothing changes, and you come back here to complain about it.
/r/seduction22/04/26 11:33 PM
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Just don't bother. You're not going to enforce it and it won't change. So what's the point.
/r/seduction22/04/26 08:32 PM
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No, you're a doormat. If someone isn't showing you respect and you allow them to continue, that's not being polite. That's being walked over.
/r/seduction22/04/26 08:31 PM
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You don't. You move on.
/r/seduction22/04/26 08:30 PM
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Why does it matter?
/r/seduction19/04/26 03:07 AM
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It's not a algorithm, my guy. Not a cheat code. Not step-by-step instruction manual. Say it whenever it feels right to say. Say when it doesn't feel right. It doesn't matter. It's somewhat sleazy to say you don't want anything serious after the first time you've had sex, but even in that case at least you have been honest with your intentions and expectation. Just talk.
/r/seduction17/04/26 02:46 AM
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I'm trying to be understanding to your confusion, but it doesn't occur to you that those things are not mutually exclusive? Flirting doesn't mean you want a relationship. Joking doesn't mean you want a relationship. Having sex doesn't mean you want a relationship. None of those things alone mean you want a relationship. You're being manipulative when you are allowing the other person to believe there's a possibility or eventuality of a relationship when it is not what you're looking for. All it …
/r/seduction16/04/26 05:28 PM
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You asked your friends how they do it, they told you, and you rejected their advice. So what are you hoping for, some alternate way? Plus you answered your own question: just don't be manipulative. Being a manipulative is a conscious choice. Just don't do that.
/r/seduction16/04/26 02:30 AM
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Your first mistake is believing it's supposed to be easy. It's not.
/r/seduction15/04/26 03:16 AM
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You're a solid dude with solid advice. Thank you for your contribution.
/r/seduction11/04/26 05:33 AM
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Or maybe they're sick and tired of dudes who think they're the first one to use ChatGPT to try to talk to them, and it's become so obvious that it's an instant turn off. The fuck is wrong with you guys ? It just kills you to put effort into being genuine, doesn't it? If you put the same amount of energy into being genuine as you put into try to cheat code your way into bed with women, you would actually get more women into bed.
/r/seduction09/04/26 11:27 PM
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You get rejected. Then you realize it's neither fatal nor is it final. Read this once more: Rejection is neither fatal nor final. Rejection won't kill you. Rejection isn't the end of your life.
/r/seduction05/04/26 11:49 PM
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You're foolish if you believe that.
/r/seduction05/04/26 09:45 PM
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This should be upvoted more, but the men here want to persist in the fantasy of being able to have sex with any woman they want with minimal to zero effort.
/r/seduction05/04/26 06:16 PM
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I'm glad you posted your story because I went through the same thing last night and your were the cautionary tale against being a selfish asshat. In the first place, you should have read the room when she wouldn't kiss you that nothing was going to happen. There's a woman I've been fucking for years and she dropped off and went to jail. She hit me up a couple days ago telling me why she had dropped off and that she was out, so we made a plan to meet up. It's been a bit of a dry spell for and, th…
/r/seduction01/04/26 05:18 PM
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I am just very disappointed and angry about the outcome. This is the wrong attitude. Disappointed, sure, but you have nothing to be angry about because you were owed nothing. She doesn't owe it to you to fuck you. She doesn't owe you anything. And until you start seeing every interaction as a gift, you're going to continue to have bad reactions to rejection and that will lead to more rejection. We had really high chemistry and a strong connection. It’s frustrating because it feels like she won't…
/r/seduction31/03/26 01:45 AM
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Yes.
/r/seduction21/03/26 10:41 AM
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The pill you truly need to swallow is the realization all of this "advice" is for no other reason than to sell you a product. That's it.
/r/seduction19/03/26 10:43 PM
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When in doubt, assume she's just being nice and is not interested in anything further.
/r/seduction12/03/26 06:10 PM
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Where there's a will, there's a way. There's definitely reliable ways to get it done if you put forth minimal effort. Put it this way, it's a lot less effort than trying to fool some women into having sex with you under the guise of possible commitment later.
/r/seduction12/03/26 07:33 AM
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The best way to text a girl about a ONS is to text a sex worker. You've already said most girls want a relationship and not casual sex. It is deceptive to hide your intentions and make promises you have no plans to deliver upon. It's extremely shitty to let a woman think there's a possibility of a relationship then ditch her after you've gotten what you wanted, making the next guy after you work that much harder to break down her walls and build trust. Just get a sex worker. You don't want a rel…
/r/seduction12/03/26 02:14 AM
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Exactly so you are truly nobody to be giving him any advice. Unless of course the man you are married to now turned around in the grocery store and said the shit that you advised him to say. Which we both know didn't happen.
/r/seduction08/03/26 02:35 AM
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Then you weren't looking very hard because I did leave him advice and that the conversation needs to be as far away from anything having to do with a date as possible. It can be a conversation about the magazine or something funny that the checkout clerk is doing or something. But even you wouldn't just accept a date for some random dude in the grocery store and if you would you are the rarest of rare who would. I don't know what your angle is but you're not helping him at all. I'm glad you have…
/r/seduction08/03/26 02:33 AM
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If anyone is trolling him it's you with advice that is sure to get him ignored.
/r/seduction08/03/26 02:04 AM
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Oh my God why would you tell him that? Are you trying to set him up for failure?
/r/seduction08/03/26 02:03 AM
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I'm not sure why you thought that was a good idea in the first place. She's there trying to get food. She's not there trying to get picked up. What do you guys not understand about this? Women are not standing around hoping somebody is going to try to pick them up. If that were going to have any success at all you needed to have started talking to her about some possible common interest that you two might have. I've began conversations in grocery store checkout lines over the band that was on th…
/r/seduction08/03/26 02:01 AM
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I mention it because I fear that's a sign that you're not really looking to invest in anyone for whatever your reasons may be. Not deeply investing. That's going to be challenging to attract others, especially women because they typically are looking for someone who wants to get to know them on the very deepest of levels. As far as attraction goes, it's normal and natural to want to feel attracted to your partner. I feel the problem comes when there's only a very narrow and specific set of crite…
/r/seduction04/03/26 04:53 AM
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Again, did you read the post? OP said nothing about asking a woman's status or bringing anything of the sort up to a potential interest. He assumes that a woman with an FWB is going to reject his advances because she already has a sexual outlet and therefore isn't seeking more. It's a true or false question. Your reluctance to rebut and instead focus on issues that aren't even in discussion points to his assumption being true.
/r/seduction03/03/26 07:39 PM
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Well OP cares, that's why he asked. If a women in general typically aren't looking for additional lovers once they have an FWB, that reduces the already small market. Did you read the question at all?
/r/seduction03/03/26 07:04 PM
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Most "random" women aren't going to be single. As of 2023, one study shows only 42% of adults in the US are unpartnered. So 6 in 10 of the women you come across are already in a relationship of some level. This is why I preach that "daygame" is a waste of time except for as practicing socializing without expectation. It's like being a door-to-door refrigerator salesman. I mean what do you expect? Most houses you go to are already going to have a refrigerator. Utter waste of time. You need to go …
/r/seduction03/03/26 03:02 PM
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I'm not sure you understood what he's asking, though. I don't discount the point you're making, just pointing out it doesn't answer what he asked. I know some sexually liberal women and even they usually don't have multiple FWBs. Safety is of course the biggest reason. Why risk meeting someone new when you already have something safe? Maybe 2 sometimes, but not like a whole roster of FWBs. So it's still monogamy without the label, essentially. To me, it seems like he's asking if you personally a…
/r/seduction03/03/26 01:53 PM
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Most. Sorry if this is news for you. Most are going to be in a relationship of some level. Truly single is a minority. Let's parse out a couple of things. A minority of women are going to tolerate the kind of FWB status where there's no communication, no interaction, no hanging out and there's only contact "wyd" for sex. I won't say no woman tolerates that, but it's a very small minority. The "F" in FWB needs to be present. It's not simply a way of saying there's no commitment or expectation to …
/r/seduction03/03/26 01:47 PM
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So no one wants you and you're here talking like you're the shit. Got it.
/r/seduction03/03/26 01:44 PM
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What's worked for me is to stop pursuing after the first, "I'm not ready" and investing energy instead into those who do accept a second date.
/r/seduction03/03/26 01:43 PM
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You've been married how long, now?
/r/seduction03/03/26 01:38 AM
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Women must be so grateful to you that you know more about them than they know about themselves.
/r/seduction02/03/26 02:27 PM
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"No" isn't nuanced. I'm not taking moral advice from any guy whose crowning achievement is "every interaction I've ever had with a woman, they rebuffed me until I finally brow beat them to give in" And for context, I stopped counting after sleeping with 200 women. And zero times did I need to overcome their rebuffed advances.
/r/seduction01/03/26 07:29 PM
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/r/seduction01/03/26 07:05 PM
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I'm sorry but now I withdraw my support. Your perception of their response isn't fact. You don't have a crystal ball into their thinking and decision making is a complicated process. A favorable response for you doesn't mean it was favorable for them. The hell is wrong with you guys?
/r/seduction01/03/26 04:51 PM
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I'll agree with this. I'll further say this is what women themselves report. Any "advice" from a guy should be ignored unless it's a guy telling you what women themselves have said. Men in this sub need to start paying a lot more attention to what women say than what bros tell them. Study after study with responses from actual women report that women respond to the vibe a profile photo gives off. Not your six pack. Not your dead animal. Not some display of dominance. They respond to the vibe. So…
/r/seduction01/03/26 04:40 PM
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Okay, tell me the names of all the women who said to you, "I said no but that really means I want to you pursue me anyway".
/r/seduction01/03/26 04:20 PM
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What's laughable is thinking you know better than the person telling you "no". You decide not to take it seriously. Go ahead and pull up the psychological studies that women need to be wooed. So me the peer reviewed studies that women say no just to invite men to pursue further. Show us these studies. Let's see them.
/r/seduction01/03/26 04:16 PM
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That's grape thinking. No means no. It doesn't mean you, the man, get to ignore that because you know they don't really mean it.
/r/seduction01/03/26 04:04 PM
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The only reason I’m even at this point was because I thought there were enough indications that there was at least some level of interest on her end. And you were wrong. That should tell you that your reasoning and discernment is flawed and needs adjusting. Show me someone who claims they haven’t also done so and I will show you a liar. This is as pathetic of an excuse as they come. You do thing you know are wrong because, why not, everyone else is too? That's not a man. That's a coward. Do what…
/r/seduction01/03/26 04:02 PM
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You are. She told you "no". You proceeded to ask her again a second time, only not even allowing her any consent in the matter but telling her to choose between X and Y. She told you no again. It doesn't escape my attention that you didn't disclose at all what her reasons were, just kept right on going about what you think and what you want. Do you even remember the reasons? Trust me I am keenly aware of when a woman is uncomfortable and she is certainly not that. She is uncomfortable having any…
/r/seduction01/03/26 06:01 AM
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I really hate when guys don't listen and instead think it's all some push-me-pull-you game. It's not a game. Women take being harassed seriously. They are keenly aware of the statistics, that every hour of every day some woman somewhere is being violently assaulted by a male. If she said the experience freaked her out then respect that. It freaked her out. You don't seem to understand that all those interactions don't have to mean she wants anything more. They don't have to mean that. She could …
/r/seduction01/03/26 05:11 AM
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You didn't do anything wrong. Maybe she has shit to do? I think your plans on how to handle it are perfect, but it doesn't ask to say non-chalantly, "hey, I messaged you and never heard anything back," and listening to what she has to say. You can never know someone else's mind. You can only know if someone is a good fit for you. Don't come here asking random people what her thoughts are because no one can know. Just be fair minded and hear what she has to say when you see her next.
/r/seduction01/03/26 02:09 AM
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Since you are a man of integrity and flawless morality, could you finally give me a list of things you consider manipulative in PUA ? Sure. I'll repeat actions and decisions that come from empathy, that come from understanding, that come from genuine interests and general concern for another human being are good behaviors, though technically a manipulation. Actions and decisions that come from a strategy to get what you want, to make the conditions favorable to you with no regard for the other p…
/r/seduction01/03/26 01:05 AM
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Be empathetic. Don't just consider what you want but consider feelings and experiences of your interest. Be understanding. It's not really a big ask.
/r/seduction01/03/26 12:56 AM
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I'm giving up on you. Your only interested in what you're on about, not the topic.
/r/seduction01/03/26 12:54 AM
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The question is why would I expect everyone to play fair and follow the rules? You shouldn't, however the behavior of others does not have to dictate your behavior. You can choose to follow the rules and play fair as an example of your own manhood and integrity. Simply doing what everone else is doing isn't manhood. It's cowardice. Be a man who chooses integrity because that's his character. Don't be a man who makes excuses that everyone else doesn't play fair so why should you.
/r/seduction28/02/26 06:12 PM
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I think it's just not useful to project such polls to personal experience and frame, You're kind of what's wrong with this subreddit and men in general. You openly advocate ignoring the experience of others when understanding is exactly what's required. In the first place, it was stated by no one that women expect to be let down in bed. That's counterintuitive to how people typically operate. If they expect to be let down, they likely wouldn't bother doing it. The problem comes with being let do…
/r/seduction28/02/26 05:18 PM
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I'm curious, what exactly do you consider manipulative, in your opinion? This is a good question. From pure definition, manipulation would be any action with the intention of changing or arranging a desired outcome, an outcome that's not likely to happen without your direct hand in arranging the conditions. Manipulation itself is amoral, neither good or bad. However the intentions and reasons for the manipulation are what makes it good or bad. It's not a hard line in the sand but a spectrum betw…
/r/seduction28/02/26 05:06 PM
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I'm curious where you're getting your data from, and it had better not be the thoroughly-debunked "80 percent of women only view the top 20% of men". Your beliefs sound like they've come from some guy who is trying to sell you his 5-step method to getting laid. Let's back this up with actual data. Exactly as I claimed, the perception of women on dating apps is the men are only looking for casual flings, according to the Green Flags study of 8,000 Tinder users. Now, to your point, the same study …
/r/seduction28/02/26 04:50 PM
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I hear you but it’s a two way thing the only fans models just want your money and give nothing in return. From their point of view they are giving something in return. They're giving you the opportunity to see them sexually. They're giving you sexy conversation and fantasy. They're giving you their time when they respond in chats. Those things many not have value to you, but to say the OF models give nothing in return is incorrect. A guy might want sex early with a woman early to know she is act…
/r/seduction28/02/26 04:31 PM
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It is similar wanting to ride a horse This is a fascinating response that's more true than you realize, except not for the reasons you explained. Let's start with first horses need to be broken. That's what they call it. You have to break the horse's spirit to be able to ride it and make it do what you want it to do. The horse doesn't want you on its back. The horse wants nothing to do with you in its natural state. Your explanation ignores that fact, either out of convenience or ignorance. Are …
/r/seduction28/02/26 04:20 PM
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You seem to miss that in most surveys, women report dissatisfaction from sex because their typical encounters are men who don't care much at all about the woman's enjoyment. It's funny how so many men who protest this post missed the point entirely, choosing to argue some red herring that had nothing to do with what's being advised. Learn how to stop looking at what you want to look at and learn to hear where other people are coming from.
/r/seduction28/02/26 04:13 PM
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You haven't done anything wrong based on what you described. Every swing isn't going to result in a home run. In marketing circles, you're doing good if can turn 10% of leads into sales. 10%. You did the right thing by letting them walk away, not desperately chase after them trying to tell them what they want to hear. Change your perspective and your expectations. Be confident in the fact that the right one will respond favorably to who you are. It'll happen. I wouldn't tell you to change anythi…
/r/seduction28/02/26 04:07 PM
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I wonder how many of them can truly put themselves in a woman's shoes. They truly don't have to face the level of harassment, judgment and misogyny so they have no clue. I once saw a video of another role-reversal camp (of sorts) for middle school and high school boys and one exercise was the boys had to walk in between two lines of girls who all shouted the most ruthless, sexists and misandrist things at the boys as they went by. By the time the boys got to the end of the line, more than half o…
/r/seduction28/02/26 03:04 AM
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I didn't write to pass judgment on the morality of only wanting sex. I wrote so that you can understand how anyone feels who has been pursued for only one thing. Shaming healthy inclinations is a big part of how gender relations got to where they are Repeating again, I didn't shame anyone for just wanting sex. But being a healthy human being means being able to empathize with another person's feelings, rather than ignoring them in favor of your own. A person can want only sex for themselves AND …
/r/seduction28/02/26 01:26 AM
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There's a difference between not being overly complimentary as a strategy and not doing so from awareness. As a strategy, you'll fool novices once. The more experienced ones already know that trick. When you have game you are already different from the average guy approaching. No you're not. You're just another dude with another variation of the same thing. You end up just spending time searching for the ones who haven't fallen for it before and got wise to it, so it's always a shrinking pool. I…
/r/seduction28/02/26 01:17 AM
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Why would your morale be affected? Have you considered the possibility they actually do have boyfriends and aren't on the market? Have you considered it's not a line, it's the truth. I don't understand why you all insist on "day game" when it's an inefficient waste of time. The majority of "random" people you meet in the wild are going to be in a relationship of some level. Because the majority of the population are in a relationship of some level. Being single is already a minority. The four th…
/r/seduction26/02/26 04:21 AM
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Joyce Meyer's "Enjoying Everyday Life" television series. It's religious, Christianity specifically, but you can take the religion out of it and still find a solid concept that will transform your life. When you're owed nothing, then everything is a gift. You didn't have to be born where you were, to who you were, in the conditions you're in. You could have been born in Palestine and your life ended by Israeli bombs. None of us are "owed" anything out of life. Therefore the fact you have interne…
/r/seduction24/02/26 04:13 AM
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Tbh I thought OP was a piece of shit for even suggesting his lack of being able to find something more interesting in her than sex was the fault of her clothing. He apologized so maybe he did actually see how childish and shitty he was being.
/r/seduction22/02/26 05:56 AM
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Thank you! I get so tired of the bullshit here being perpetuated about looks. No woman is going to throw herself at an attractive man who makes her feel unsafe. It's not about looks. Looks may get you a glance and a notice and maybe they'll fantasize about you but no woman is going to put their safety at risk overlooks. IDK what the fuck is wrong with guys in this subreddit.
/r/seduction11/02/26 05:45 PM
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You're likely creepy. All guys, at all times, should remember a woman's only known predator are men. One woman suffers violence from a man every hour of the day. Safety is a primary concern. If you're giving off vibes you're not safe to be around then they'll avoid you.
/r/seduction11/02/26 05:43 PM
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You're making a simple thing complicated. If you get into a conversation and you want to see someone again you just ask, "Hey, I'd really like to see you again." She'll reply something, and then you'll know. But a date isn't going to magically happen without you asking.
/r/seduction10/02/26 08:04 AM
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No, actually it isn't. With an escort, there's no pretending. You get what you want, so long as you don't cross her boundaries and aren't overly creepy. That takes the pressure off getting sex from other women and you actually spend time getting to know them rather than devising ways to get into their pants. The biggest trick to getting laid is to stop acting like you're desperate for it. When you have an outlet, you're no longer desperate. More guys should see escorts so they can stop their bul…
/r/seduction10/02/26 08:00 AM
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Nothing external can fix internal problems. No amount of pussy is going to change how you feel about yourself. Work on your self image and your esteem first.
/r/seduction10/02/26 07:50 AM
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Nothing works better or more reliably than seducing a woman who's already into you.
/r/seduction07/02/26 03:50 AM
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Exactly how I feel. When you are genuinely curious about another person, there's never a shortage of things to talk about.
/r/seduction06/02/26 04:23 PM
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I feel like that's a sign of you not doing anything with your life. You're not curious about anything? You're not fascinated by anything? You don't wonder about anything? Who are you as a person?
/r/seduction06/02/26 04:22 PM
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I'll corroborate parts of this. I stopped counting after I'd slept with 200 women and I'll confirm that 1) It's a full time job. All the communication, all the sorting through profiles and matching, it's a time suck. 2) It is a numbers game. No person bats 1000. 3) It is empty. It was fun, don't get me wrong. But I thought I'd feel more confident, feel more attractive, feel more like a "man" after I hit 100 and it didn't happen. It didn't happen after 200. Internal problems can never be fixed wi…
/r/seduction06/02/26 04:03 PM
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Shame this is not upvoted more, because I feel like screaming the same thing in this sub. It's so god damn obvious when you approach anyone because you want something. Try and dress it up, play it down, confuse and confound all you want but women deal men like that so much that it becomes obvious off the bat why a man is approaching. These mf-ers don't want to hear it.
/r/seduction24/01/26 01:06 AM
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I feel where you're coming from, but your perspective is truly all wrong. I think that, just for practice, a guy should make a fake profile on a sugar dating site. Because there's no shortage of gold digging bitches out there. But it's a complete role reversal to typical dating. There's more women on sugar dating sites than men. A lot more. You suddenly have women throwing themselves at you, but it's only about the money. They don't want to get to know you. They aren't interested in anything apa…
/r/seduction23/01/26 06:01 PM
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It takes a lot of self talk beforehand, before you even go out. It's a lot easier to do when you're not in the moment so practice even before you plan to go out reminding yourself that it's not about the results at all. Set yourself an achievable goal such as just taking the first step and initiating some contact. If you do that then you haven't failed
/r/seduction20/01/26 05:47 AM
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It's a no.
/r/seduction17/01/26 04:32 PM
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Grow up.
/r/seduction12/01/26 06:55 PM
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"Methods" are bullshit and no person can be reduced down to a predictable algorithm. Next.
/r/seduction12/01/26 06:47 PM
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You be that guy by finding something else in your life more important than getting laid. You be that guy by finding something else more important in life then trying to impress other men with how many hot girls you've fucked. In some sense, I'll admit it's a bit of a catch 22 reminiscent of trying to get your first job. All employers want experience, but how can you get experience if no one will hire you? Men who have a lot of sex don't need it and therefore don't act desperate about getting it,…
/r/seduction12/01/26 06:29 PM
0

Never.
/r/seduction09/01/26 03:24 AM
1

I question if he's on the same planet.
/r/seduction09/01/26 03:23 AM
2

Maybe because their lives revolve around something other than what attracts men?
/r/seduction09/01/26 03:23 AM
172

I'm 51 and there's still a few years before 60. I was always told men peak in their 30s and I was hoping for that to be true but it hasn't been for me. The only difference I've noticed is that I want something more out of sex than when I was younger. Now I actually have to have some kind of intellectual connection and genuinely like the person. It's no longer anyone will do. It's not longer sex for the sake of having sex. The upside to it, the less important you make having sex in your life, the…
/r/seduction28/12/25 01:59 AM
1

Tell yourself whatever you want to hear, but it's not the truth. Men prioritize attraction. Women don't, generally. Overall, women prioritize vibe and safety over attraction every single time. I agree trying to seduce a woman who isn't into you is a massive waste of time, but attraction has very little to do with it. Some women have will turn down men **because** of how attractive a man is and it triggers an insecurity.
/r/seduction22/12/25 04:11 PM
4

You're being downvoted because you're full of shit. There's a whole host of other reasons she may not have been into him that had nothing to do with him at all.
/r/seduction22/12/25 08:26 AM
2

Would you guys have a general idea on where I could improve my game for the next time? I figured I showed me intentions by holding her hand and what not. Not too sure where I went wrong? Please stop thinking women are a block of code whereby if you execute the correct string of commands, you get the result you're looking for. Maybe she just wasn't into you, period, and there's nothing at all you can do about. There's nothing at all you should do about it. If a girl isn't interested in you, why b…
/r/seduction22/12/25 08:20 AM
1

No, likely not. And to be honest, I wouldn't assign too much value that you still fantasize about her when you masturbate. It's a totally natural and normal thing to remember the good parts of the relationship, or the good things that happened in life. Having sex with her is good. You don't need to feel bad about remembering when you masturbate. It's not written in stone that you should never think about her in any way again. Relax. You're fine. Don't rush out and find the first hookup you can t…
/r/seduction17/12/25 09:26 AM
1

You're still wrong if you think being married means never having the desire to fuck other people. You're dead wrong if you think a person should only get married once they've lost all desire to fuck other people. You're talking fairy tale bullshit.
/r/seduction15/12/25 04:14 AM
1

You [are] probably gonna have to suffer until you find the person you wanna marry and thus naturally lose a lot of lust for others for I wish people wouldn't give advice like this. A person isn't going to stop lusting just because they get married. That's the wrong expectation. If you're recommending he not get married until he has no more lust, he'll never get married. What is supposed to happen. Also bad advice. That's not what's "supposed" to happen. That's a fairy tale.
/r/seduction15/12/25 03:57 AM
2

I've been a lustful person all my life and at least for me, I haven't found a "way" of sticking to one person without actually healing the issues that led me to seek out multiple women. I think the results you're looking for come from deep internal growth, therapy, and healing the traumas that cause you not to be satisfied with just one person. For me, as I've gotten older and dealt with my emotional shit, I am much more content sticking without needing to go from person to person as often as I …
/r/seduction15/12/25 03:54 AM
1

Ok idk where you came up with me showing them I care with violence. I've told you, and it's starting to become very obvious why you have trouble with women. You don't listen to what anyone is telling you, but insist you're doing nothing wrong. I'm an empiricist so the proof is in the results. And you're the common denominator. If women withdraw from you when you start to show you "care" it's because you are the problem. You are the common denominator. You can listen, learn, and grow, changing so…
/r/seduction14/12/25 09:56 PM
2

Again, not true. There is no such individual who has ever existed in which no one will ever reject them. That kind of poisonous mindset is likely why you have trouble relating to women at all. An average twenty year old girl can absolutely entice many single men for a short term fling That doesn't mean she wants any of them that she can entice. So what they have a lot of options that they don't want? What good is that? the average twenty year old man, in comparison, has to put in so much more wo…
/r/seduction14/12/25 09:47 PM
1

Although there is no one thing that's true for all women, in general with American women, they are very fearful for their own safety. The human female is the only animal that dates its only natural predator. If you don't understand that women fear violence from Men first and foremost you're never going to understand anything at all about them. If the way that you show you care starts coming off like you're going to harm them and murder them, then yes, they are going to lose interest really quick…
/r/seduction14/12/25 12:08 AM
3

Dude, pretty much all adult behaviors are rooted in childhood traumas and experiences.
/r/seduction13/12/25 08:05 PM
1

Probably has something to do with the way you're choosing to show that you care.
/r/seduction13/12/25 08:04 PM
1

There's no such person on Earth who can have almost anyone. Those are poisonous beliefs, man, whether you know it or not.
/r/seduction13/12/25 08:03 PM
1

The only thing about complementing the look of the wardrobe is there's nowhere for the conversation to go without making it obvious that you're trying to pick up on her. You say nice dress, she says thank you, and then what else is there to say? After that it's obvious you're trying. I find that commenting on things that open up a dialogue makes it less obvious that you're trying to pick them up. You're actually trying to get to know them and ultimately that's what most women want. They want som…
/r/seduction13/12/25 08:00 PM
3

The advice is move on. She clearly isn't interested. The advice is believe what she's telling you. There's plenty more women out there. They make new models every single day.
/r/seduction13/12/25 06:40 AM
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There's a *type* of woman who may prefer that, but women aren't a monolith. What attracts one woman is repulsive to another woman. Having said that, the problem I notice most men have when talking to women is the men think making physical compliments goes over better than it does. It really doesn't. You may sincerely mean it when you say she's gorgeous but she's heard it before. Often. Unsolicited when she's trying to just mind her business. It gets old and it loses it's impact. Your best bet to…
/r/seduction13/12/25 03:08 AM
1

If you're asking questions as if any group of people is a monolith then you're already asking the wrong question. Yes, some women prefer older guys. Some women prefer guys their own age.
/r/seduction13/12/25 02:50 AM
1

We're not getting the whole picture here, but the common denominator is you. You're turning them off once they get to know you. So what is it you're not telling us?
/r/seduction01/10/25 12:56 PM
3

I'm convinced the issue for the majority of men who come to this forum looking for advice is they don't genuinely like women and don't want to. In reality, they're all about their male friendships. They prefer being around men, they prefer the company of men. But "getting girls" is a way to impress those other males in their life and that's the only value women have for them. And so they come here looking for ways to get what they want out of women, which is for their male friends to pat them on…
/r/seduction01/10/25 12:49 PM
1

ITT: A bunch of people telling OP what he doesn't want to hear and him blowing them off, looking to confirm what he already believed.
/r/seduction01/10/25 12:42 PM
4

I feel like these guys don't want to hear that. They want to believe in some make believe world where a guy exists who can get any woman to have sex with him and time he wants.
/r/seduction21/09/25 04:35 PM
35

I worry you guys watch too much porn or otherwise have unrealistic expectations. No such man exists were all women will say yes to, especially on a cold approach, first time meeting. For every man, there's more failure than success. Even the men who seem like they're getting laid all the time, there were more misses than hits. Some of you guys are spending way too much time in fantasy land, and asking other men to validate that this fairytale land truly exists. It doesn't.
/r/seduction21/09/25 04:33 PM
1

Fine, then I'm wrong. 🤷 To answer the question: nothing makes a woman more approachable than not being the type to sit back and wait to be approached. Other than that, is there a reason to talk to her? I'm past the age where looks mean anything at all. The more they show their assets the less I'm inclined to bother, not because I think there's anything morally wrong with showing their bodies but rather a certain attitude generally follows and the body is the only interesting thing about them, in…
/r/seduction27/08/25 10:43 PM
0

How about you stop taking the easy way out, waiting for people to come to you, and you take the initiative to approach someone? Chivalry has always been a myth. Read Don Quixote sometime. It's never existed and it was always a thing of fantasy. Put your big girl panties on and risk rejection like everyone else has to.
/r/seduction27/08/25 04:39 PM
3

The secret is not acting like you.
/r/seduction24/08/25 08:39 AM
1

Luck has zero to do with it. Zero. In the first place, no one can get it whenever they want it. I don't even care if you're a millionaire and you're paying women for it, there are going to be times when women aren't available for whatever reason. It happens. Shit, I have 6 women I see on a regular basis and there's times none of them are available. So stop thinking "get it whenever you want it" is even possible because it's not. I’ve had no success when i usually get the phone number I’m a very …
/r/seduction24/08/25 07:22 AM
7

I feel genuineness is the key to success, and not being desperate. When I started talking to her and we were talking about where to meet, she had to work that night and I said rather honestly I don't want to see her as a sexual object straight away. I meant that. It wasn't a line. I ended up meeting her there anyway because we couldn't make another night work and I didn't watch her performance. I wanted to know her, not just fck her. It comes across when you're desperate and it comes across when…
/r/seduction24/08/25 06:26 AM
2

I'be fucked a stripper.
/r/seduction24/08/25 03:57 AM
10

Or you could not be one-dimensional and actually want more than to get your dick wet. It's selfish. I don't know why you think anybody's going to go for that.
/r/seduction31/07/25 03:21 AM
11

Because you're trying to force it. You guys aren't clever, it's obvious when you're just trying to get into their pants.
/r/seduction31/07/25 03:17 AM
60

Exactly this.
/r/seduction19/06/25 07:51 AM
49

You're too self focused and a touch self centered. This is a human being, not a thing to conquer.
/r/seduction19/06/25 07:49 AM
1

It's your time to waste. In the time it took you to find one girl to fuck you, the rest of us have had sex with 10 or 20 others.
/r/seduction11/06/24 10:24 PM
0

We can accept it, but those of us who have more experience knows there's no one with a 100% success ratio without some context. Moreover, ironically the advise they told you ...you're ignoring. You're guilty of the very thing. Even if, and it's a big if, you know such men who get laid every single time they go to a bar, you admitted you've asked them how they do it, they answered you and you rejected their advice so you're here seeking an answer you can swallow. Learn from the very men you say a…
/r/seduction25/05/24 04:16 AM
1

There's more to the story than you're telling and the parts you're leaving out make all the difference. Were you sharing a room and know for sure they had sex? Leaving together doesn't mean anything more happened.
/r/seduction25/05/24 04:11 AM
0

No one gets laid every time they go to the bar. Don't believe for a moment anyone who says they do. It's 90% luck of approaching the right woman at the right time and 10% not being creepy or weird.
/r/seduction25/05/24 04:04 AM
3

That's just wasted time. And frankly you're selling yourself short. When you have multiple options, you can more easily recognize a bad fit. You notice sooner one chick isn't as into you as another is. One interaction you enjoy far more than another. When you only deal with one at a time you allow things to slide in an effort to make it work. It should require "making" it work, it should just work fairly effortlessly. The reason you're failing is because you're "trying with all your passion" and…
/r/seduction22/05/24 03:54 PM
1

Between 4 and 7 on average. Most communication is done by text message these days, so you can spread your responses out accordingly. There are the rare occasions when it seems all of them are chatty at once and that can be a little hectic but it usually isn't that way.
/r/seduction22/05/24 03:43 PM
0

It's not, you're just listening to all the wrong people. You're believing a lie they're selling you about alpha this, top 10% that and it's all bullshit. Masculinity is just an act men perform for other men. And you bought the tickets to the show. You let some other dude tell you he's a man and you're not so you need to follow what he says. This is why you fail and will continue to fail. Women want to be known. Be interested in knowing them and you'll do a lot better.
/r/seduction22/05/24 07:11 AM
6

to be honest the opener is mostly irrelevant if you ask me - as long as it is clear that you are there because you are attracted to her. Not only is it this wrong, but this is exactly why you fail. The opener is everything. Women don't walk out of the house just hoping some guy will find them attractive. They walk out of the house on their way to do something. You're stopping them from doing it and "You're so cute" is a pretty poor reason that won't get you anywhere. Obviously because it doesn't…
/r/seduction22/05/24 07:03 AM
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That is the definition of inefficient, my friend. 2 lays from 1,000 approaches over 4 years? The results should tell you the strategy doesn't work. "Daygame" has only one real use and purpose and that is to get you over the fear of approaching women, but it's a doomed strategy for making any meaningful connections with anyone and certainly no strategy for getting laid. I don't know why guys keep falling for it. In the first place, realize that the majority of women walking around in public have …
/r/seduction22/05/24 06:53 AM
1

It's not true though. Anything in life costs in time, money or aggravation. The choice is which do we want to spend? If you don't want to spend the money then you're going to spend time and aggravation finding the right connection. If you don't want to spend time, then you spend money. But there is no such life without any cost whatsoever. Spending a little bit of money for a convenient lay without the time and aggravation is a wise fucking investment. Fuck what anyone else says. It's a wise inv…
/r/seduction12/05/24 04:14 PM
1

Dude, don't feel ashamed of seeing hookers. To be honest, I would recommend seeing hookers just for sex and that takes all the pressure of regular dating. This desperation you feel comes from not having a regular outlet and that's understandable. So get a regular outlet with a hooker and then you don't feel so desperate to find someone. I fully believe that desperation comes across and it drives people away. I don't know how or why but women just sense it when a guy is desperate so it repels the…
/r/seduction12/05/24 03:59 PM
2

I got married thanks to Meetup. This was 10 years ago and it seemed on the decline then. However with the mass exodus of people from dating apps, Meetup and services like it may be making a comeback.
/r/seduction12/05/24 03:52 PM
2

You just need to endure, my guy. Studies have shown that on the whole, people are leaving the dating apps. It turns out those apps are designed to keep people coming back but not actually ever match them. These app designers want repeat customers and you're not a repeat customer if you find the right person and never use the app again. It's more beneficial for them to keep you always coming back and looking. So people are fleeing the apps. As far as nightlife goes, that's just a bad approach to …
/r/seduction12/05/24 03:49 PM
2

These aren't negative effects. They are signs of maturity and growing up. It's a good thing. The need to date and have sex with a lot of women is an immature way to prove manhood at the end of the day. We are led to believe that being prolific with women proves our masculinity and makes us dominant over other men. Except it's all bullshit. It stems from unresolved emotional needs and self image problems. It should happen that you begin to realize such a lifestyle ultimately doesn't fill the void…
/r/seduction12/05/24 03:21 PM
4

You mean broke women who are hoping for a male to support them.
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:10 PM
61

You should change your definition of masculine if that's all you think it means.
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:09 PM
24

Those are the traits of an asshole (excluding being tatted up) not a gender. If you think that's what masculinity is you're part of the problem with men.
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:07 PM
3

I've heard that, unfortunately I'm not in a position where I can travel to Eastern Europe any time soon.
/r/seduction19/09/23 03:18 PM
1

I applaud you for trying to open these guys" eyes to some much-needed facts, however I think you will find that they are invested in maintaining the false belief that if they just have a better body or more money or some magic formula that another dude told them they could get women without effort. No external thing can ever fix an internal problem. Money doesn't bring confidence, it usually just brings suspicion that women are only into you for the money and paranoia that everyone is out to get…
/r/seduction11/09/23 02:46 AM
3

Get on Netflix and scroll to the end of Iliza Schersinger's movie "Good on Paper" which dramatizes a man who lies about his whole life just to date Schersinger's character. He admits he lies because he thinks women like her are only interested in men with money, a good physique but void of personality. She returns with, "What gives you the right to judge me like that before knowing me? Because I'm blonde and attractive?" You guys are just as pathetic. You immediately judge an attractive woman as…
/r/seduction15/08/23 03:10 AM
1

I'll address a couple of things in your post, then summarizes my experience in answer to your question. But before anything else, it must be stressed the phrase "Your Mileage May Vary" and that means everyone's experience is different based on the innumerable variables and differences in personalities. Looking for one answer that is universally true is a fool's errand because there is no such thing. So as you'll see below, the answer to all your questions is: That's true for some people and not …
/r/seduction11/06/23 08:59 AM
4

Here's a thought:. Rather than trying to manipulate someone to get what you want at all cost, instead, if things are platonic and you have no interest then just be honest and say you're ending correspondence since you're not looking for the same things.
/r/seduction30/08/22 10:47 PM
1

If you’d like to get to know me, feel free to ask. No thanks. I don't see a lot of substance there so far. I’ve never felt more self-actualized and happy because I’m doing something that brings me a lot of joy. Conning women into sleeping with you by acting and pretending to be someone you aren't naturally makes you happy? So basically you're a sociopath who's only concerned about yourself. Well, that explains it.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:56 PM
1

I'm repeating again the problem stems from making "getting laid" too important in the first place. It's bullshit to say it's biological because it's not. The sexual desire is natural and of course you have it, but focusing on it like a goal is learned, conditioned behavior. You reinforce it by watching porn; you reinforce it by coming to these bullshit subreddits and glorifying all your buddies who are having sex. You are making getting laid too important, which is why you're frustrated. Your fr…
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:12 PM
1

"friend zone" is bullshit. In the first place, if the goal wasn't trying to get into her pants it wouldn't matter if you were in the "friend zone" or not. You'd genuinely enjoy the company of that person for who they are...or you wouldn't and you'd stop hanging around them. This is what I mean about caring about the person more than caring about what you can get from them.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:37 PM
1

I didn't shame men for wanting sex. I shamed men for being so shallow and one-dimensional as to only want sex and care nothing about the person they're trying to get sex from. And I'm shaming you for you inability to read clearly written English, because my response specifically said: too many guys only want sex, which is insulting. To take that and turn it into "men should be ashamed for wanting sex" is reducio ad absurdum; a common tactic when one doesn't want to face something.
/r/seduction20/08/22 06:57 AM
2

The simple answer is too many guys only want sex which is insulting. It's hard for you, a male, to relate because it doesn't happen to you. But try to imagine if every woman you came across had no interest in your personality or your life, they just wanted something from you. It's insulting. If you want sex from women then start caring about the woman more. Honestly, most guys are far more concerned about looking cool to other guys. Seeking women out just to put your dick in them makes you a sel…
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:58 AM
3

I'm a black guy who had this issue most of my life. I grew up during a time where you were mostly likely to hear from a white girl "my parents wouldn't accept us". You're not in those times so you have a leg up. The problem is likely how you're coming off, both in person and in your profiles. It's likely that your profile paints you as kind of a boring person. You're probably insecure. All these factors are working against you. You're probably talking yourself out of approaching anyone or initia…
/r/seduction30/06/22 11:50 PM
2

If you can't ask her then you don't have an actual friendship. So stop playing games and either get real or move it along.
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:15 PM
1

You get shallow women looking for a one night stand, whose personality you probably can't tolerate longer than the time it takes to get them in bed
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:49 PM
1

I see your point
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:58 PM
1

I'll give you an example from my own life. My own mother was emotionally unavailable and inattentive. I could never "feel" like she loved me, so I think part of me always wanted that. To really "feel" she loved me, beyond her just saying the words. So I found myself in a pattern of having feelings (or being "in love with") other women who were emotionally unavailable for whatever reason. Some just didn't feel the same, some just lacked empathy, etc and so forth. But ultimately, I was in the same…
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:13 AM
2

You're not making sense. Rejecting women is not a way to attract them. You're missing the point of what I said. I don't want any woman who doesn't find me attractive. That's weak and stupid. Weak and stupid. So if I'm rejecting her, I don't want or need her attraction. Stop wanting or needing anyone's attraction to like who you are. Stop. Then you'll find a hell of a lot more success. Women don't care unless you prove it to them. After the number of women I've had sex with, I can say with confid…
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:53 AM
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Fat/ugly women are down to play with anyone regardless of the guy’s value….. Bullshit. They won't fuck you because nothing about you so far is an attractive person anyway. Low value --- dude, you're no prize. lol I know lots of fat/ugly women who will turn you down just as fast as every other woman is turning you down. Your attitude is what's low value. Your attitude is why you're not getting laid.
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:42 AM
2

That's the thing. Sure you can bang 10 under 30yo.this year. But would anyone else want to bang those 30 yo's? Actually, that doesn't matter. What is with you idiot boys thinking that whether or not you think I'm cool means a hill of beans? This is why you're not getting laid. You're far too concerned if your friends think she's "hot" and far too concerned with their approval of your choices. Stop being a sissy boy. Be attracted to who you want to be attracted to, because it's what you like. Sto…
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:40 AM
2

Well the quality of those women matter. Quality is in the eye of the beholder. But they weren't ugly by my standards and that's all that really matters. Also why are you so mad? I'm not mad. You're telling someone a load of bullshit just because you've convinced yourself you can't land women under 30. You're the reason you can't land them... not your looks, not your body, not your money. You've decided it can't happen so it won't happen. When you change your attitude you will change your results…
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:35 AM
0

Why would you? Never be interested in someone who isn't interested in you. That shows just how little you think of yourself. Value yourself a lot more than that. To hell with a chick who isn't interested --- it's her loss and not yours.
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:39 AM
6

I've had sex with like 10 women this year, all under thirty and I don't have extremely good looks, clout or money. I'm not ugly, but I'm not Idris Elba either. And I don't need to be. Stop perpetuating this hyper-toxic masculinity bullshit that guys need to be buff, cut and rich to attract women.
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:32 AM
5

I've tried it and there's nothing there you won't hear anywhere else. Remember something about any "book" or program: the entire thing is based on the premise there's something wrong with you that needs fixing. Then low and behold, they can sell you the fix. The premise is bullshit. There's nothing wrong with you. The instant you realize there isn't anything wrong with you, that's when you will be more successful with women. You don't need Bill Grant or PUA or anyone else to sell you a "fix". Yo…
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:29 AM
3

Hon, like yourself first and be acceptable to yourself. Look up the 80/20 rule, which basically says 80% of your self-worth should come from you. You should like who you are. You should like how you look. You should like yourself. Only 20% of your worth should come from external things like praise, compliments and attention. In the first place, there's just lots of bulshitters and window-shoppers online: men and women. They think they can go through with it but they can't or they're lying about …
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:21 AM
39

Leave her alone. It's not "playing hard to get" it's actual disinterest.
/r/seduction21/04/22 04:47 AM
3

Perhaps, the answer is simple unlike all these complicated theories. Maybe they're just not interesting girls to begin with. Maybe, instead of being focused on getting pussy, you should focus on the type of human being she is --- because some of them aren't all great. Don't be interested in anyone not interested in you. If she can't hold a conversation, then move on. Stop trying to find some formula by which you get the results you want so you can get laid.
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:09 PM
1

I can totally relate to where you're coming from because I've struggled with confidence and feeling worthy most of my life. I also think the public's idea of serial dating one person at a time is flawed because once we're struck with limerence we get tunnel vision on this one person and try to fit square pegs into round holes. If you're not important enough to him to open your message and answer. As disappointing as that is, it tells you already where things stand and that this is not a good mat…
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:01 PM
2

Just be who you are and you'll find out in time if it's the right mix. Everyone says they're tired of the games yet the first thing they do is start playing games by asking who should message first and how long to wait and all that crap. Just be who you are. The problem is you aren't confident in who you are and until you fix that nothing will work.
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:16 PM
1

The unfiltered truth is no one thing works on every woman. Stop looking for it. Stop asking about it. Height matters to some women and it doesn't to others. One approach works with one woman but it won't work on the other. They're not robots with the same programming.
/r/seduction29/03/22 10:53 PM
1

It's probably because your version of "kind-hearted" comes off as creepy, stalkerish, co-dependent and desperate. Real talk. You put women and getting sex/attention/approval from them on too high a pedestal and it comes across instantly. Read up on the 80/20 rule. 80% of your value should come from yourself and 20% from outside appraisal. You likely have that backwards and get 80% of your esteem based on your ability to seem attractive to women. Be an interesting person first. Be an attractive p…
/r/seduction29/03/22 10:40 PM
5

This is such BS. I don't have a six pack and I had sex with 5 women last week and it could have been 7 but I wasn't interested in more. The easiest way to attract local ladies is not be an asshole. I talk to a lot of women who tell me about their contact with men, especially online. Most are assholes ..so much so that I'm a breath of fresh air by the time they meet me. Just don't be an asshole. It's easy.
/r/seduction27/03/22 03:06 AM
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You're not wrong. There's a bit of an art to it. Not expressing interest wouldn't work as a long-run strategy. I'm thinking of it more as a means to get past the bouncer at the door. It seems to me every woman on a site/app has her guard up --- if not extra security. They say they want to meet someone but really they don't. They want some meet-cute bullshit they see on rom-com movies. Not showing interest at first, in theory, gets them to drop the guard. Then you breadcrumb them... hints of poss…
/r/seduction20/03/21 05:59 PM
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First off, thank you for trying to be helpful unlike some of the others who have left comments. I appreciate you. Essentially, how do you “approach them as if you’re not interested in them one bit”. Maybe if you could give a general outline of how a typical conversation would go... One of the things that's worked very well in person, I learned from maybe even this sub: Engage them about something other than them physically. For instance, if she's wearing a concert T-shirt then you say "Oh, I lov…
/r/seduction20/03/21 02:26 PM
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Everything is a choice
/r/seduction20/03/21 02:06 PM
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Lol definitely not true. My worth isn't derived from any person except myself.
/r/seduction20/03/21 02:05 PM
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It is definitely not wrong to date multiple women at the same time. Somehow, the meaning of "date" changed from --- simply agreeing to meet at a specific time and specific place --- to meaning exclusively committed to one individual. I feel this is a bad approach. Date many, date frequently, date as long as you can without making any commitments. NRE 'new relationship elation' is a documented thing. Your brain is all hopped up on chemicals the first couple of months after meeting someone new. Yo…
/r/seduction18/02/21 10:16 AM
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