Iamapieceofsh1t2020 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
77	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills	Debate	Iamapieceofsh1t2020	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 07:58 AM
0	Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.	Debate	Iamapieceofsh1t2020	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 06:59 PM
0	Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do.	Debate	Iamapieceofsh1t2020	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 01:30 AM

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–	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills Cultural expectations	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/26 03:53 AM
14	It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.” Usually hobby groups that men get into don't have a lot of women who are not there with their guys, if at all. You may have one or two.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 12:21 AM
–	The reason men get "friendzoned" more than women is often because there's a Masculinity + "Does he say / do the right things to turn me on" component to women's sexuality that eliminates her male friends from contention. Bullshit	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 11:01 PM
8	The reason men get "friendzoned" more than women is often because there's a Masculinity + "Does he say / do the right things to turn me on" component to women's sexuality that eliminates her male friends from contention. And you would not want to sleep with at all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 10:35 PM
–	Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do. That and your confidence are what set you apart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 04:51 PM
–	Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do. Then you are probably an attractive woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 04:42 PM
3	Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do. That has been a problem for decades but I never dream it would fuel multi-billion dollar industries thar are designed to keep them lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 02:32 AM
-18	Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do. Well try me, where am I wrong?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 02:02 AM
0	Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do. Women have easier access to sex not relationship though	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 02:02 AM
2	Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do. Great points!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 01:50 AM
-2	Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do. Multi-billion dollar industries like OF, Cornhub, and manosphere show otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 01:46 AM
–	Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection? Not true, I have female friends. I'm definitely far closer to my guy friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:59 AM
–	Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection? You have a point there. I grew up learning to protect those who can't, I would tell the guys to run but I will stay and defend gals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:58 AM
–	Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection? It isn't about likelihood of the occurrence; it is the deterrence. And I'm just listing one example.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:53 AM
–	Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection? You think he would say that to a girl?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:52 AM
–	Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection? I am a minority, I also struggle to share friendship with white men since they will never understand what we have to deal with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:42 AM
–	Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection? Say I go out with my female friends and we got confronted with a physical threat, I'm the one supposed to defend them. Financial support is a bit muddy because I don't pay for other people's shit, but I have seen more guys buying female friends food than the other way around... It is also socially more acceptable if not expected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:41 AM
–	Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection? Men provide physical/emotional/financial supports, at least that's the standard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:29 AM
–	Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection? No, most don't	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:27 AM
–	Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection? Not with women because they will never understand our struggles	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:21 AM
–	Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection? What's the benefit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:20 AM
1	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills That too	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 06:52 PM
1	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills She told me at times I was like	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 05:42 PM
1	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills I wish my dad was that way. He didn't cheat but he didn't do anything else I did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 05:18 PM
1	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills Actually... Great advices. I will, thank you. I just don't think I can be repaired anymore. Too late.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 12:01 AM
1	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills Sigh... It is the truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 10:37 PM
1	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills Let's see... My dad was abusive, my mom was a serial cheater until she died from cancer, I got bullied because I am an immigrant from a poor family and I used to be fat and ugly. All of those insecurities and self hatred stayed with me even after I got in shape, finished my degrees, established in my career... All those accomplishments were partially fueled by my revenge mentality. Now, I want attention and love, I want to be desired but I never want anyone to have control over my heart anymore …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 10:06 PM
2	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills Well give me a treatment plan. How do I heal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 09:14 PM
2	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills You Dr. Phil?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 08:57 PM
3	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills Yeah... I won't be this way if it isn't working.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 08:56 PM
1	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills Lying to myself? About what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 08:52 PM
1	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills I am sorry. I really hope you can recover from it and find love again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 08:49 PM
0	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills I know it is ridiculous but... All these women who are "heartbroken" can find a dude within minutes. All of my ex start dating within weeks after the break ups. Even for an above average guy it will take months before landing a girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 07:59 PM
1	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills I have to spice this up a bit to get engagement	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 07:55 PM
1	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills I guess I'm also kinda taking into consideration that men (and people in general) in this generation are not as socially calibrated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 05:05 PM
1	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills Sure, that beats when I was being stringed along in my early 20s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 04:45 PM
3	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills We started as FWB, then situationship, once I started having other women on tap she wanted exclusivity. It worked out for a few years but I will be honest - I never like love her as much she love me. She said I was cold and distance since I always had a foot out the door. Besides that I was a pretty good partner... I cook, clean, provide financially/physically/emotionally, always keep a calm and helpful presence. I just never want to give my heart away after my early 20s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 04:44 PM
4	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills I went with a coworker and a friend of a coworker before, they had to drop heavy signals first lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 04:40 PM
5	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills Haha, one of my ex said that... After about 6 months in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 04:38 PM
1	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills I see your point there. I, for one, don't go around asking everyone out; I always wait for indicators of interest first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 04:37 PM
-1	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills I cheated on my partners before, I just didn't get caught. But I did everything else - cook, clean, provide financially/physically/emotionally, always keep a calm and helpful presence... I am also not claiming I'm a good partner overall. One of my ex called me cold and distance because I always have a foot out the door.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 04:35 PM
4	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills Well, sleeping around help me get more women; I used to be loyal to a fault... I would date a person, announced my romantic interests, then keep all of my other options away to focus on the one person I wanted to be with... Even if that means letting go of another option that was more appealing to me later. I ended up getting stringed along by 2 woman over the course of 4 years combined during my early 20s. Never again did I ever fully give my heart away after that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 04:33 PM
1	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills No	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 04:29 PM
6	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills What is a grasshopper in this context lol?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 04:13 PM
1	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills I cheated on my previous partner before. Don't have a wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 04:08 PM
3	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills Good point, for men who are dating for relationship it isn't such a deterance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 03:47 PM
-4	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills I understand and I'm not excusing my actions. I am very respectful, kind, caring... I cook, clean, provide financially, and always keep a calm and helpful presence. I also never got caught cheating. I just... I want to be desired and loved by more than just one woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 09:42 AM
2	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills I get you, I now think the gender divide is how we view sex. Women view it as a shared experience whereas we view that as the objective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 09:29 AM
1	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills I agree those switch up are terrible, hell, I caused a few of those problems. If you don't mind me asking... How long were you two when yall first met? How did you two became a couple? I feel you two are compatible and skipped the game phase due to a shared environment where marriage and family are the long term goal. I actually think the world will be a better place if we can all be like you two. 2	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 09:20 AM
-5	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills Haha... Morality isn't a requirement nor a motive for enlisting. Most of us just need a job. My bad moral was definitely more so in dating; I absolutely made efforts when I'm in relationships... I did cheat on all of my partners in the past so other than that I was a great partner...	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 09:09 AM
6	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills Oh, I got you now. Yes, I can see why cold approach isn't necessarily an opposing skill... More like a different style. Yes, I am using sex as the reward here... Within the context of being a potential partner. I think the problem is that most good men with good intention don't even get to that in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 09:06 AM
4	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills I agree with you that it depends on what one want out of it. I'm just saying this can gatekeep good LTR material men with good intention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 08:56 AM
8	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills English is my third language and I typed this on my mobile. I thought about using AI to dress it up but this seems to be more genuine. I can write more professionally... I have a bachelor's and a master's in history, a fun hobby. I just don't use those skills on reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 08:55 AM
-1	Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills I agree with your analysis that men largely misunderstood the advice. But your refutation has no bearing on my point - caring men who are romantically interested in women they know are going to be overlooked by men who don't care about shooting their shots to every women they see, because the former see women as friend, partner, human while the latter only consider them as walking vagina. It is not just women... It is human nature. I play 2k and EA Sports FC... Think of them as casinos, if you g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 08:22 AM
3	Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkward I probably don't. I'm from a broken home and honestly, like to be alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 09:20 PM
8	Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkward Yeah I agree the middle ground is the best place to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 06:20 PM
11	Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkward I think that's the problem. Men were taught to treat women as princesses and attend to their every needs. But... From my observations and personal experience, women are more likely attracted to those who tear them down than prop them up. Neither are good LTR materials, but the former get dates and sex. Not saying I tear people down, but I'm definitely on the colder side... My ex complained to me "I'm cold and distanced at times" but still stuck around for 2 years when I always had a foot out the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 05:49 PM
6	Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkward As a guy, I was told to not put women on a pedestal. In many instances of my dating stage during my early 20s I would be the one putting up more effort because I thought I needed to be attentive to the women I was pursuing/dating/in relationship with. All failed after the women got bored. In my late 20s I started to not care, date/fwb with multiple women as backups, never committed to any relationships... Guess what? Since then I have never been dumped and always get to dictate, I have women tel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 05:40 PM
1	Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange. You do have a point there... I'm not from the US and I don't really pay attention to pop culture so I need to look them through.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 05:31 AM
1	Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange. Blue pillars promoted it first? I am not aware but can you show me some of the examples?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 04:40 AM
7	Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange. He turned into this <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 01:12 AM
4	Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange. 1st example <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 08:40 PM
7	Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange. Here your first example <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 08:40 PM
5	What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience? The biggest disadvantage of feminism is it gives an illusion of solution but it had been employed for superficial ends. Celebrities, corporations, politicians, and the wealthy class get to play this card to further their agenda without addressing practical challenges women faced everyday - SA laws, r-pe kits testing backlogs, domestic abuse, employment opportunities... But feminism became the signal that we achieved gender equality, at least enough to be used as the rallying point for pushbacks …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 07:15 AM
3	Women ghost because it's convenient, not because they're afraid of men getting violent I miss her. I love her. And I really want to see her again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 02:50 AM
2	Women ghost because it's convenient, not because they're afraid of men getting violent That is actually what I am more scared of... What if she calls and apologize? Do I forgive her? What if she wish to pick up from where we were at? My heart can't handle it anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 02:01 AM
3	Women ghost because it's convenient, not because they're afraid of men getting violent Funny I got ghosted after 2 years... Just before our trip.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 12:28 AM
1	As a single man, dating apps are your best bet to find a partner in 2025 You have to be trolling us, man...	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 05:13 PM
1	As a single man, dating apps are your best bet to find a partner in 2025 Come on man, those women need love too. Get to know them first, many of them have amazing personality and will help you become a better person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 03:04 PM
1	As a single man, dating apps are your best bet to find a partner in 2025 Then why not date someone who also suffer your issue? You want women to overlook your appearance but you can't do that for women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 02:25 PM
1	As a single man, dating apps are your best bet to find a partner in 2025 You said you are fat and ugly right	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 01:19 PM
0	As a single man, dating apps are your best bet to find a partner in 2025 Have you tried going out with women who are fat and ugly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 04:04 AM