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Do it! Bay Area has a ton of single women but it's expensive. San Francisco, Berkeley, San Jose. Sacramento area is big but it the summers are hotter.
/r/seduction20/07/17 12:11 AM
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I would say find something to do together that you're actually interested in or already enjoy. Basically find something to do together that you would already enjoy doing alone. It's just like hanging out with anyone really. Don't expect anything to happen and don't try to force any outcomes. Its important to lead and it's important to listen. Those are 2 different things but both are important.
/r/seduction08/07/17 01:52 AM
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If you looked exactly the way they look or if they looked exactly they way you looked, you wouldn't think about their appearance. I believe you're paying too much attention to appearance. Do you take care of your personal hygiene? Do you bathe regularly? Brush your teeth and stuff? Do you groom regularly? Trim your body hair? Shave as necessary? Do you have good smelling breath and smell good in general? Do you take care of your clothing and wear stuff that fits you well and gets compliments? Do…
/r/seduction08/07/17 12:11 AM
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What do you want? From her, from the interaction? What do you want? And does she know why you want? For example, do you want to fuck this woman? Do you want her to be your girlfriend? Do you want to just be friends? What do you assume she wants from you? Do you think she just wants to be friends? Do you think she just likes attention from you? Your answers will allow us to give you the best advice for your situation.
/r/seduction07/07/17 11:58 PM
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Hahahaha. I love you man.
/r/seduction27/06/17 07:11 PM
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She was in a poly relationship. She was using me for my dick. I doubt she would have described it as "making love". In my experience men are more romantic than women. It's just that women get shamed for liking sex.
/r/seduction27/06/17 03:17 AM
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You will learn more from your mistakes than your success. Go out and fail. That's my only advice. I don't know you're current level of success with women. Are you a virgin? Are you just leaving a long term relationship? Are you going through divorce? Either way, go out and fail. Fuck up. It's the best teacher. I would go somewheee where no one knows you. Maybe an hour or 2 from where you live. Just in case. I prefer honesty. I prefer being direct. I've gotten a lot of hookups. I've also gotten k…
/r/seduction27/06/17 02:31 AM
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Are you just complaining? WTF is the point of your post? Who cares why people think. Man or woman. It's what people respond to that matters. Seriously. As someone else pointed out, on tinder or other dating websites, women can be picky and basically choose from the "best" men, because all kinds of people are hitting on her. It's mostly for sex. And they mostly aren't choosing to keep dating after sex. But they still want "the best". So what? Go after what you want. Always. Forget what "trends" a…
/r/seduction27/06/17 02:26 AM
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Savage Steve. I'm being real. Would you prefer that I lie to you? Please ask me anything you would like. No one else cares. I posted this because someone else posted a tinder thing. I'm just sharing my experience. Was that a mistake?
/r/seduction27/06/17 02:18 AM
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Honestly. I wanted to share my stories and my advice for educational purposes. But if it's not welcome here I will delete my post.
/r/seduction26/06/17 11:35 PM
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I had two tinder hookups and then I matched a couple more times. But only the first two wanted to meet. No one else ever responded to my messages. It's awesome and infuriating.
/r/seduction26/06/17 07:54 PM
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I made a tinder profile that said I just wanted one night stands or friends with benefits. I matched the next day and she asked what o was doing that night. We met at a brewery. I massaged her shoulders and kissed her mouth. And after about an hour of taking about non sexual things we then went back to her place. She had all the lights off and told me to take off my clothes. We did everything I wanted to do.
/r/seduction26/06/17 07:53 PM
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I created a tinder profile then matched with a girl. Met her at a Starbucks. Massaged her shoulders and kissed her mouth. I asked her if she had a place we could go to and she said her house was full of people. So we took her car to a turnout on a country road and I used my hand on her until there was a puddle in her seat. And then she sucked my dick and swallowed my cum. She said she squirted but my hand smelled like pee.
/r/seduction26/06/17 07:49 PM
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I'm talking practical shit. Take a shower. Brush your teeth. Clean your home just in case you bring someone back. Style your hair or get a hair cut. Buy gum. Buy condoms. I'm NOT talking about what to read or videos to watch. The studying is done and it's time to take the final exam.
/r/seduction22/06/17 07:56 PM
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Rejection is rejection. The only difference in your example is the words you've used. But the outcome is the same. I'll confess that I don't just walk up to women and ask them for sex. If I don't feel turned on I'm not going to say anything sexual. I usually go up and say what's on my mind. Usually I tell her I think she's attractive and I want to talk to her. But, I have used the apocalypse opener "hi how are you? (Wait for response) What are you doing later? (Wait for response) Would you like …
/r/seduction20/06/17 10:43 PM
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It starts at about 4:27 and ends around 5:15 https://youtu.be/pLT01TZfhgI I couldn't find a better source for it. Here is what he told GQ about it: "What was the creepiest thing you found reading The Game?--GQ They do this thing where they give girls little trinkets and treats. It's really treating women like chimpanzees. They give women key chains and little necklaces and bracelets and stuff like that. Little 25 cent knick-knacks. For the Eric Andre Show we did this hidden camera bit where I wa…
/r/seduction19/06/17 05:08 PM
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The point is, it works. He tried to make fun of it and he basically proved to himself that it works.
/r/seduction19/06/17 09:41 AM
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My point wasn't that I was trying to prove something. I was just unashamed of my age. But if you felt in danger, of course you shouldn't talk to them. If you don't trust them, because you think they were criminals or something, then of course you shouldn't talk to them. But normally you can trust people. You have to be comfortable sharing your name, your age, what you do for work or things like that. Don't be ashamed of who you are. For example, if a woman makes fun of me for liking a certain so…
/r/seduction19/06/17 09:03 AM
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Every person is different. You can never predict how someone will respond. The best thing is to be consistent in who you are, and be honest about what you want and what you're thinking. Honesty will not make every woman attracted to you. It will not stop some people from hating your guts. But honestly will help you quickly find the people who like the real you. It will quickly help you find people who don't like the real you. When you try to listen to women, or men but you don't really want to, …
/r/seduction19/06/17 08:42 AM
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Would you describe what you are saying when you approach? And how exactly do they respond? Before you walk into a bar, warm up your social skills by making small talk with people. Maybe high five a person on the street. Or compliment someone's shoes. Or say something random like "damn it's hot today!" Or something that people are talking about like "did you see the Warriors game? So good/bad." When you walk in a bar, immediately walk up to the first attractive person you see, smile and say hello…
/r/seduction19/06/17 08:11 AM
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You know what you should do? Make this your opener the next time you go out and talk to women. Ask a woman for her opinion on this story. As far as trying to figure out what really happened... You didn't ask so you'll never know. If this happened to me, I would have just been honest. She asks for my age and i give her my age. But I would have said "What do you want?" I went to a bar recently and immediately talked to 2 women. One said a guy had just talked to them and lied about his age. They as…
/r/seduction19/06/17 06:18 AM
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My philosophy is rejection will happen to you. Rejection will happen to me. Rejection happens to everyone, no matter how amazing they are. Think of the most beautiful woman. Think about her asking married men for sex. Men who love their wives, love their family. You are living in a fantasy if you think the most beautiful woman can't get rejected. Everyone gets rejected. Rejection is natural. I go up to women fully prepared to be rejected. I'm not ashamed of my attraction for the women I approach…
/r/seduction15/06/17 11:57 PM
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I hook up a fair amount. I get rejected a fair amount. You take the good, you take the bad, and there you have, the facts of life. My point is. Any person, no matter how amazing, no matter how skilled, is going to get rejected. Rejection is natural. It's necessary. It's not a big deal.
/r/seduction15/06/17 11:46 PM
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I like talking to people that way. I'm just super honest. I walked passed a very pretty woman sitting parked downtown. I looked at her, smiled and said "wow! I think you're gorgeous. How are you?" She replied in a very welcoming manner so I asked if she's like to join me at a nearby bar for a drink and she said yes. She was actually on her way to a hair appointment but she was a little early so she had just enough time to share a drink with me. She complimented me on being direct. But it boils d…
/r/seduction12/06/17 03:44 PM
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Did she want you to approach? We can't read minds. So you approach her. Did she want to talk to you? We can't read minds. So you talk to her. Did she want to give you her number? We can't read minds. So you ask for her number. Etc. Escalate the interaction until you fail or succeed.
/r/seduction12/06/17 05:30 AM
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If you think something is creepy, then those feelings will transfer to whoever you're with. For example, some people effortlessly touch people they just met. They shake hands, then maybe tap on their elbow or shoulder occasionally during conversation, or they briefly place a hand a woman's leg while making her laugh. Other people stare at their hand as they attempt to place it on the girls shoulder. This draws too much focus and attention to the act of touching. And perhaps he leaves the hand on…
/r/seduction07/06/17 07:59 PM
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I used to live in a town that didn't have bars and clubs. I'd have to take a 30-60 minute bus ride to the nearest college town. That place had about a dozen bars within walking distance of each other. After I read "The Game" I'd take a bus, practice taking to girls, then get on the bus back home. Eventually I made friends in that town and I was able to spend the night and take my bus back home in the morning. I recall reading (perhaps in the book "the game") that Mystery used to take a train to …
/r/seduction06/06/17 05:29 AM
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Real life is VERY different than online dating. Guess what? I have not been successful at online dating. I mean, yes I've gotten dates. Yes I've hooked up with a few but it was much more difficult and time consuming for me than real life. Meeting people in person is much easier for me. i know it's not my bio because one time as an experiment I used someone else's pictures and I got more interest. I encourage you to meet people in person because even if you do succeed and meeting someone from a d…
/r/seduction04/06/17 09:25 AM
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I appreciate that!
/r/seduction03/06/17 10:25 PM
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Even if she told you she wanted to fuck you, just say no. Why would you betray your friend like that? Stop wasting your time on people who are already attached. Ignore her and stay away. It's for your own good. I worked with a girl who was married. She flirted with me a lot but I didn't pursue it because I don't fuck married women. Next thing I know she's cheating on her husband with this other guy at work. Eventually she leaves the husband. For a brief moment I thought damn, that could have bee…
/r/seduction03/06/17 08:29 PM
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I agree with you completely. I think many guys don't realize how simple it really is. But many guys here think "it can't be that easy. What if she rejects me?" She might. And that's ok. When you get rejected, talk to someone else. It's that simple.
/r/seduction03/06/17 08:17 PM
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So I've read some of your comments on Reddit. In my opinion you think too much. When you try to rationalize why why women could never sleep with you, it forces your brain to only think of reasons why. But that's like sports commentators predicting the outcome of a match or game. Dating is unpredictable. Sexual attraction is not rational. I've known plenty of women who say they prefer tall, athletic, rich men have sex with short, fat, poor men. I know some women who actually prefer short men, fat…
/r/seduction03/06/17 06:43 AM
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First of all, we all want love. We all want affection. Men and women. All people. We're all just people man. We all have feelings. I think you should accept yourself. No matter where you are in your life. Expressing yourself honestly feels amazing and you should do it just because of that. RSD max has some great stuff on YouTube about facing fear when approaching. Before I was super honest I would talk to random women trying to use pick up techniques and it didn't go far. People can sense what y…
/r/seduction02/06/17 07:21 AM
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I don't believe we have any control. I just go out clean and dressed in clothes I think look good. And I talk to people. When I see an exceptionally attractive woman I approach and let her know what I'm really thinking. That all. Most people respond well. I get rejected and that's ok. If they want to talk, that's great. If they want more, I'm open to it.
/r/seduction01/06/17 11:52 PM
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Personally I'm here to share any advice I can give. I've made some really stupid mistakes. The best thing I ever learned was just be honest. I used to go to a lot of strip clubs. I craved the touch of a woman more than sex. I stopped when I realized most of the girls would tell me I was cute and "why are you here? You really don't have a girlfriend?" Another I liked about strip clubs was I wasn't afraid of saying anything. I loved giving compliments. And I just started speaking that way to women…
/r/seduction01/06/17 08:22 PM
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There will always be obstacles in the way of your goals. Feel the fear and do it anyway. When I first started going to the gym and I couldn't find a parking space, I thought damn I really want to leave. I let myself think it and feel it and say it. But I stuck around until I found a parking spot. I kept going to the gym even when I hated it. Pretty soon I got used to going to the gym. In fact it got to the point I fucking loved going to the gym. When you're afraid of approaching a girl, feel it,…
/r/seduction20/05/17 05:54 PM
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Joy comes from within. I speak from experience. You can have a hot girlfriend or sex with a beautiful woman but doesn't that mean your happiness is always tied to someone else? Why happens when the girlfriend breaks up with you or the beautiful stops sleeping with you? Your sense of self worth should never depend on someone else. You need to focus on why you can control. You need to work hard on loving yourself. Accepting yourself for who you are right now. Self improvement is great but you need…
/r/seduction20/05/17 03:49 PM
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You're going to be ok dude. High school fucking sucks. It's the worst. College is awesome. Right now you're hurting because somehow your social status got fucked up. Try dating people from other high schools. Meet new people at the mall or any place young people hang out. Join sports. That's a good way to make friends. If you do well it will be difficult for people not to respect you. You need to realize something I wish someone could have told me: After high school things get a million times be…
/r/seduction19/05/17 04:13 AM
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I was surprised because she wasn't dressed up. Jeans and a hoodie. But she was grinding on me like we were partying at the club. It was a little embarrassing having her do that stuff in full view of people playing poker and black jack just outside the lounge at 3pm.
/r/seduction19/05/17 03:28 AM
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I got her comfortable with my touch. Hand holding, hugs, knees touching, etc. I got her horny with my talk. Then when we were alone I escalated more, kissing her neck, massaging her shoulders, then back, then legs. Sucking her nipples. I eventually rubbed her between her legs. If you can get to rubbing her pussy it's practically a done deal. Hell. If I can kiss a women on her neck and suck her earlobes, she's probably going to let me do anything. But only if we're close to a place where sex is a…
/r/seduction19/05/17 03:17 AM
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She was "worried" about me being drunk and insisted she walk me to my car. I was sober. I lied and said I needed to check something in my trunk. I was really taking a condom from my trunk and placing it in my pocket. She was from out of town visiting her sister. I offered to drive her to her sisters car. The chick I was talking to basically ditched her sister for me. So the sister was actually taking a nap in the car. We started kissing. I was kissing her neck once we parked. Eventually I was su…
/r/seduction18/05/17 11:54 PM
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If she rejects you, she was always going to reject you. You might as well find out sooner than later. You're either wasting time thinking about someone who will eventually reject you. Or if you actually have a chance, you're allowing someone else to swoop in and ask her out before you even try. Always approach immediately. Always be honest and direct with women who you might never see again. What have you got to lose? She's not your girlfriend now. If you approach and she rejects you, at least y…
/r/seduction18/05/17 11:10 PM
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Some techniques that have worked for me in losing weight while still eating what I love: Immediately portion out what you will eat, before you begin eating. You say you make enough for 4 servings, store 3 servings immediately. Or learn how to use less ingredients to make a single serving each time. Or learn how to throw away food. It's more difficult to lose a calorie from exercise than to gain it by eating. The best way to lose weight is to never eat the extra calories in the first place. When …
/r/seduction18/05/17 10:27 PM
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What is your goal exactly? You're asking for advice but you're not saying what you want. You're posting this on the seduction subreddit so how does this relate to picking up women? Who cares if you're getting less looks. So what. Go out and approach. Go out and talk to women. Go out and get phone numbers or dates. You're appearance shouldn't stop you. Stop making excuses. If you're worried about our weight post on r/loseit or r/fitness and ask about advice losing weight or using those extra calo…
/r/seduction18/05/17 08:23 PM
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What I didn't mention was she told me to "make it rain". I am broke so I got out one dollar and stuffed it into her jean back pocket. She said I should be getting out hundreds. Anyways. A little while after we were at the slot machines she tells me to give her $300 and she'll fuck me. I don't pay for sex and I couldn't afford that even if I did. I playfully hold up a $1 bill and she walks away. So she might have been a prostitute. But she still gave me a lap dance for practically nothing.
/r/seduction18/05/17 05:02 AM
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The short answer is, try it for yourself. Really. Look at how Max approaches in field. I actually do that. I did it before I knew he did it. It works. I can't vouch for anything j haven't personally done. It's really not necessary to read or purchase any programs. Just go out and fail. That's the best way to learn. Seriously. Just go out and be honest.
/r/seduction18/05/17 02:54 AM
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Please describe what you do when you approach. Also, where did you go to approach women? Do you shower, brush your teeth, style your hair, put some thought in your appearance? I'm 5'10" and I'm not handsome. I hook up every time I go out. I go to venues where there are plenty of women so even if I get rejected I can move on to someone else quickly.
/r/seduction18/05/17 02:47 AM
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A couple of times I tried to kiss her lips and she said "I don't let strangers touch me." Even though she let me squeeze her ass, hug her, and let me kiss her neck.
/r/seduction17/05/17 10:37 PM
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It's only out of place if you think it's out of place. It's not about saying certain words. It's about saying your words. The words that are true to you. Say what's really on your mind. For example if I'm Kanye West I can say "I'm dope and I do dope shit." But it would sound lame and dishonest if my boss said it. Be genuine and authentic. That's what girls mean when they say be yourself. If you're uncomfortable asking a girl for her relationship status, don't. As someone else mentioned, when you…
/r/seduction17/05/17 04:44 AM
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The point is not asking about the boyfriend. The point is expressing your thoughts and feelings honestly. If you are not thinking it, don't say it. What I say and what you say are going to be different. People like honesty. They respect it. Relationships are built on communication. It's healthy to be emotionally expressive. By expressing yourself in a direct and honest way you demonstrate confidence and the above traits. Even if she's not interested in you romantically, she will trust you and re…
/r/seduction17/05/17 04:27 AM
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You're not wrong, it's really just a personal preference. It's fine if you don't like it. I'm more like you, I also don't ask if a woman is single but there's nothing philosophically wrong with it. Its just another way to escalate and it follows your "escalate until rejection" philosophy. It's not wrong, it's just not your cup of tea.
/r/seduction16/05/17 03:03 PM
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It's a great thing to ask because it's honest. Many women you meet already have a boyfriend. They will never say yes to a date no matter what you say or do. Isn't it better to find out sooner than later? If you get rejected, wouldn't you want it to be quick and painless? I guarantee that if you approach women like OP did, you will find a woman who wants to date you. And you will know very quickly the more honest you are. Honesty is blunt. But it's efficient. Even if you get rejected, women will …
/r/seduction16/05/17 02:04 PM
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Excellent! Everyone who is afraid to approach should read this. Some guys are going to say "but he got rejected". She had a boyfriend and there isn't anything any guy could have done to "pickup" or seduce her. And it would have been unethical to do so. You approached immediately and stated your intentions directly. You don't have to change a damn thing. Keep going like this and your success is inevitable.
/r/seduction16/05/17 01:47 PM
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Looking at someone when you're not talking to them is creepy. Make sure you talk to them or approach immediately. If they reject you, or ignore you, just leave them alone. Move on to the next person. Eye contact tips: Girls like soft eyes. What does this mean? Look at a woman like you're gazing into the sun. It's a bit like squinting. Check out RSD Tyler when he's about to kiss a girl. He gives a relaxed gaze and a smile. He'll say "hey! Come here!" He extends his hand to them and says "who are …
/r/seduction16/05/17 06:00 AM
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She's probably not into you that way. "Confessing your feelings" never works. If she ever thought you were attractive, you took way too long and she's probably over it. Since you have the same friends you probably should just move on man. If you've never had a relationship or any hints that girls were into you I would suggest you work on your self a bit. Make sure your hygiene is good. Do you bathe every day? Do you smell good? Make sure you groom yourself well. Do you shave or shape your beard?…
/r/seduction16/05/17 03:46 AM
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If a woman doesn't respond to a message, leave them alone. Women who are interested in you will respond and reply. You shouldn't waste time on women who aren't interested. You shouldn't harass women who aren't interested either. No one wins. Stop it. It's ok to send sexy messages to women who want them. It's not ok to send any message to women who are not interested in you. Just move on man. Just because a woman doesn't like you doesn't mean she's a bad person. It just means you aren't compatibl…
/r/seduction16/05/17 01:55 AM
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You're good looking? Guess what? There is an app called tinder that would be very helpful to you. Just be honest with what you want. If you just want sex, don't pretend you want a long term monogamous relationship. Also, don't assume you know what someone else wants. Move forward with the interaction until you get rejected. If you get a no, leave her alone and move on.
/r/seduction16/05/17 01:44 AM
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I'm sorry. In regards to your first question. You will not seem fake. I know plenty of people that seemed unfriendly at first and then finally opened up. People might actually like it more that it took so long for them to crack your shell. But in general, yes it's better to be social with people from the beginning. For question 2, I recommend you be friendly to coworkers even if they don't seem social back. The exception would be if they tell you not to talk to them or something else that is exp…
/r/seduction15/05/17 01:49 PM
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If your already grabbing her ass, you should just lean in for the kiss. If you're too shy try kissing her cheek first. If she is ok with a kiss on the cheek, try kissing her neck. If she's cool with you kissing her neck, keep doing it. It will turn her on. Suck her earlobe a little. Don't go crazy. Don't shove your tongue in her ear. You build up to that. Start light and go slow. The first kiss should be light. Don't shove your tongue down her throat. You build up slowly. Keep escalating. It's u…
/r/seduction15/05/17 05:38 AM
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I am very social at work and in public but I wasn't always that way. One thing you can do to practice is thinking out loud. To warm up I might say what my senses are sensing. Right now for example, I could say aloud "I'm sitting on my couch. I got my phone in my hands and I'm typing out a message to some dude asking for advice." As I drive down the street "I see an asshole tailgating me." Or I might sing along with the radio. Walking to work from my downtown parking garage "wow it's sunny this m…
/r/seduction15/05/17 05:22 AM
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How did you feel about that girl? What did you think about her? What do you want? Be honest. Seriously, I want you to think about what you really want. Good. Now all you needed to do was say it to her. Seriously. It's simple. Lets say for example. You were thinking "damn I can't believe a hot girl like you is flirting with me right now. I hope I don't fuck this up." If I were you I would have smiled and looked into her eyes and said exactly that. At any moment a woman can accept or reject what y…
/r/seduction15/05/17 05:09 AM
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My dad never called me ugly but he made me feel worthless. I asked my crush in high school if I was ugly and she said no. At the time I didn't believe her. I thought I must have been ugly because I felt ugly inside. I'm sorry your dad hurt your self confidence. But you must understand a simple truth. You are enough. You don't need to change a single thing about yourself. You are worthy of love and acceptance. As long as you haven't done anything terrible, you shouldn't feel ashamed. We all wante…
/r/seduction15/05/17 04:55 AM
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Could you be more specific? What's a scenario or example where you are confused?
/r/seduction14/05/17 06:49 PM
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The longer you think about talking to her the harder it will be. The longer you take to speak to her after she's noticed you staring, the creepier you will appear. So approach quickly or just don't look at her at all. If she is super into you she might approach you or start up a conversation but don't hold your breath.
/r/seduction14/05/17 06:42 PM
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One thing I haven't seen anyone else say is this: feelings are not rational. You have feelings for her because? It's nothing rational that she did. Or else that would mean any random person could follow steps x y z to make you feel feelings for them. Think about that for a second. Pick a random woman you know and are not attracted to whatsoever. I you were drunk, lonely, and horny enough to kiss her, would you want to date her the next day? Fuck no. You pretty much already decided what kind of r…
/r/seduction14/05/17 04:11 PM
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About 10 years ago a man was feeling depressed and lonely. But one night they went out to a party and a completely random person came up to him and gave a hug. The man said it was greatest thing that ever happened and he felt like a king. The man shortly after began holding a sign up and can you guess what it said? "FREE HUGS". That dude started the free hugs movement. I'm not saying you should go out and hold a sign up for free hugs. I don't know that I have the courage for that myself. But I a…
/r/seduction14/05/17 03:56 PM
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After reading what you wrote, I highly recommend this post. https://www.reddit.com/r/GetMotivated/comments/2mwfgz/text_no_more_mr_nice_guy_detailed_notes_on_how_to/
/r/seduction13/05/17 09:37 PM
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Males are humans. Humans have needs for closeness, cuddles, hugs, and nonsexual intimacy. Our society makes it not okay for males to express their desire for those things, so males transfer those desires into desire for sex since closeness and cuddles and hugs occur during or after sex, and when those wants are combined with the act of sex, they are not seen as signs of weakness. - from RSD Tyler's Instagram I highly recommend "the mask you live in" which is a documentary on Netflix that deals w…
/r/seduction13/05/17 09:30 PM
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This is why you must always approach or make a move immediately. Because her rejection will always be outside of your control. What is in your control is when the rejection happens. If you get rejected quickly, you will move on quickly. If you drag on the approach, you will drag on the time it takes to get rejected, and you will waste precious time, energy, and imagination on a woman who will eventually reject you. Another reason you need to approach women right away is because it demonstrates y…
/r/seduction12/05/17 04:34 AM
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Short women love shorter men. I see short sexy women with short guys all the time. Check out RSD Max on YouTube. Most of the women he talks to are taller than him. Also, your perception of rejection is ridiculous. You've only been rejected 3 times? I'll get rejected 3 times in less than an hour. Last time I hooked up with a girl my night was like this. 5pm Yesterday. Talk to a girl. She's not interested. 6pm Talk to a girl until her friend arrives. Go home. 11pm Go to bar. People are older than …
/r/seduction12/05/17 01:29 AM
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It sounds like you just need to "warm up" your social skills before using them. Much like warming up before lifting weights or some other exercise. Can you talk out loud right now without feeling self conscious? Try this. Look at your environment and think out loud. "I see a phone. I see a computer. I see a television. I feel like a dumb ass saying this shit out loud." State what your 5 senses are sensing. This is a good way to warm up before a party or other social gathering because it gets you…
/r/seduction06/05/17 04:46 PM
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Most introverts believe they should only talk to people they want to build relationships with. Otherwise, why bother? They only invest in interactions with people they want to be friends with or date. They rarely talk to "random" people. I used to be that way. But what I learned is everyone you talk to is practice and the more you practice talking to strangers, the better you get. It's like a muscle. You need to work at it every day. I'll give you an example. Don't try to get into deep conversat…
/r/seduction27/04/17 05:11 AM
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My philosophy is that woman are either going to say yes or no, and they've already decided. Fate has already been decided. You are just finding out which when you approach. If you approach and she says yes, she was always going to say yes. If she says no, she was always going to say no. Sometimes it's just timing. Sometimes a woman really likes you and thinks you're attractive but they have a boyfriend. If it's no, you just move on. The good news is you can stop worrying because you have an answ…
/r/seduction27/04/17 03:19 AM
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Don't dwell on it. Maybe she got back with an ex. Maybe she is with someone she likes more than you. It's all timing. At the time it was fun for her to dance with you, flirt with you, text you. You were best option at the time. There is something she is dealing with that is more important to her. Maybe a family crisis. Or maybe she got bored of you because you were too available. Don't ask anymore. If she's interested in you she will text you. Maybe in a month or maybe in a year. I've had this h…
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:24 PM
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If you always think about things you can't change, you will feel helpless. Stop worrying about opportunities you missed. What's passed is in the past. Focus on the present. What can you do right now? What is awesome about your life right now? What are you grateful for right now. This moment is the only moment. What opportunities are open to you right now? Don't worry about the past or you will miss the present. Do you want to look back 10 years from now and say "shit, college was awesome, why di…
/r/seduction21/04/17 05:16 AM
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One night I went out to party. But it was an off night like Wednesday and the bars were fucking dead. I went to a strip club. Fucking dead too. I walked up to a couple strippers and asked what they would do if they had the night off and wanted to party. One said she'd drink vodka and I said I had some in a water bottle in my car. She asked me if she could have some. I asked the doorman if i could go back to my car because I forgot my phone. He said it was ok. I snuck in my vodka and gave it to t…
/r/seduction16/04/17 11:01 PM
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Technically I bought her dinner. From pizzahut. But yeah, I didn't pay hundreds of dollars like her clients. Dude. It was so fast. I couldn't believe how fast it was. Usually women put up token resistance. She put up no resistance whatsoever. I didn't suggest hooking up or anything. She got so turned on by my massage she was moaning softly. When she suggested that I take her home I was super surprised. Never happened that quick. Thinking about it now, she must just be a super sexual lady. I'm gl…
/r/seduction16/04/17 10:48 PM
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So I went to a nearby casino around 4pm last month and I saw a gorgeous blonde milf by the bar in a tight dress with short sleeves and a collar. Kinda looked like a business woman. I was just hoping to smoke a cigarette and get a drink that day. I was dressed in a t-shirt and khaki pants. I walked up to her and told her I thought she was gorgeous and I wanted to know her. I asked if I could sit with her to talk. She said of course. I asked what did she order from the bar? Could I buy her a drink…
/r/seduction16/04/17 10:19 PM
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Brilliant!
/r/seduction24/02/17 03:31 PM
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I will delete my post. Sorry.
/r/seduction15/10/15 01:29 PM
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