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You gotta remember that these are the worst of the worst and not to indulge your pessimistic side by reading every single last one. You're filling your head with doom and gloom. It's like women who watch the most awful, sadistic porn they can find where the women in the scene are being abused, assume all men are like that and run to FDS to circlejerk about how terrible men are. The same happens with men reading toxic stories about manipulative women and running to trp for refuge. You're doing yo…
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 07:06 AM
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Unfortunately I think a lot of people here wind up pushing back so much against trp that they end up on the other end of extremism. They think just because the extreme right is bad, the extreme left must be good. Most people suffer from that black and white thinking on some level, so we're in the minority I believe.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 06:28 PM
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Yep. You can't teach someone to be charismatic, you learn it through experience. I get so sick of seeing dudes here blowing smoke up the asses of these "gurus," red pill or not it's all trash.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:38 AM
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This, they're just businessmen who want to demoralize already pessimistic men and then swoop in for the kill.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:34 AM
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maybe we are misandrist Yep, back to whatever cult you came from please, this is an anti red pill sub, not a pro fds one.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:26 AM
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Yep. And yet people will defend it as though it isn't full of people who are just as batshit insane, it's baffling.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/21 08:27 AM
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I find it so weird that some people leave the red pill just to wind up in the opposing (but eerily similar) cult and don't see the irony in that. Leave fds dude. Shit is poisoning your brain just like trp. Men are not the enemy, just as women aren't.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/21 08:04 AM
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Lol my thoughts exactly. This reads like a trp/mgtow post but for women.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/21 07:42 AM
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Yeah kinda sounds more like an r/redpillwomen post or r/femaledatingstrategy Edit: lol active in fds, called it
/r/ExRedPill11/09/21 07:40 AM
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10/10 troll bravo
/r/ExRedPill10/09/21 07:39 AM
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Thanks for the input everyone, I think I'm just gonna leave it alone and move on. She has likely done the same.
/r/ExRedPill10/09/21 04:09 AM
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Yeah it's a lot of bullshit and im glad i dont think like that anymore
/r/ExRedPill10/09/21 01:15 AM
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I personally think having very little body fat is just a vanity thing. You're supposed to have SOME fat, I don't think it's normal to be cut to the point that you look like a mannequin. I don't see anything wrong with building muscle though.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 08:35 PM
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Perhaps, I'm just trying to be thorough in apologizing to anyone I might have wronged because I'm working a 12 step program. I'm leaning toward just leaving this one be though.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 05:45 PM
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Yeah part of me feels like it's unnecessary and also would be a way of alleviating my guilt with no real benefit to her. I'm working a 12 step program so it's kinda tricky to navigate, I hear a lot of people say that you should be thorough or you'll wind up relapsing. But perhaps you're right, it isn't a huge deal and I can't apologize to every single person I've mildly offended.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 05:44 PM
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That's funny you would bring up 12 step programs, I just got sober a week ago and am in AA. A couple people have already told me I'm overthinking it and that it's not a big deal but this amends list thing basically requires you to overthink everything and be aa thorough as possible lol. There's also the fact that, like you said, I've been part of a toxic cult and now want to make up for past mistakes in that context as well. Anyways I appreciate your input.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 05:32 PM
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I was gonna say this but couldn't think of how to word it properly. Couldn't have said it better myself. Make some gym buddies OP, and also friends who take studying as serious as you do who can hold you accountable and you them.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 02:23 AM
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I think of it like training wheels, it's necessary for some people to use them for a while before learning to balance on your own. We can bounce our thoughts off each other and discuss what is toxic red pill shit that we've absorbed and want to expel from ourselves, and what isn't. Real world experiences are important for detoxing, but I have no one to talk to about whether or not my views on women are healthy, or at least no one who will understand where those unhealthy views came from because …
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 12:06 AM
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Or you could work on improving yourself without joining a cult.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 05:12 PM
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I'm reading Wuthering Heights and this reminds me of a part where the narrator describes a woman having a crush on him, but he's so afraid of interacting he just kind of scowls at her until she loses interest. I've definitely done that with potential friends/relationships when I was redpilled and saw women as some kind of enemy or group of people out to get me.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 05:45 AM
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It could also be because of shyness/extreme introversion, i was that way for a long time and nobody wanted to be my friend until I opened up a little. I suppose that falls under unlikable personality traits though.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 05:42 AM
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I think you're confusing rejection with self preservation instinct. Women tend to be much more wary of people they are unfamiliar with (especially men) than men because they are usually weaker than men. That's not to say that you're some big scary person, just that you could overpower most women if you decided you wanted to, and in their eyes you're a potential threat. There's also the fact that women get hit on a lot, sometimes aggressively, and that can be annoying. It's not your fault of cour…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 05:39 AM
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I never said the communities don't contain misogyny, I said it's not a high percentage. Extremists are always a vocal minority. Where is the evidence that most of the individuals are hateful and violent? The burden of proof is on you, I'm taking a neutral stance.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 07:41 AM
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Have you bothered to look and assess what percentage is actually saying those things? You see those the most often because they are controversial. Just like you see Islam mentioned most often in the media when a terrorist attack happens, because that will get more attention than a story about the life of an average Muslim who lives an average life, aka not newsworthy.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 06:01 AM
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So a lot of people being incorrect about something makes their assertion correct? I hate the people who did those things, but blaming a neutral term makes no sense. It's like the republicans in the early 2000s saying that all muslims are bad because a minority of them commit terrorist attacks. It's an emotional reaction with no actual reasoning because you're angry and don't know what to do with that anger.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 05:57 AM
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I don't understand where you're getting this idea that they all say these things. It's like saying that because a couple of Muslims took out the twin towers, that must mean all muslims are terrorists. It reeks of ideological warfare more than actual concern for women.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 05:51 AM
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Incel literally just means celibate and wishing you were not, I'm not sure what you're on about. Saying they're all murderers just because the elliot roger thing happened just pushes them further away from getting help.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 05:45 AM
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This. It's completely made up. Lots of people get married after 30 and live happy lives. It's just as much bullshit as the whole "women are going to magically start wanting you when you hit 35, even if you're a good for nothing loser who does nothing with his life except think up absurdly complex plans to get into women's pants" nonsense. It's a pathetic cope.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 05:33 AM
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This. And family is huge too. And platonic relationships with women. If you're just trying to get a partner all the time you lose sight of things that are very important to your mental health.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 03:53 AM
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Oh definitely, I just don't think it's a healthy solution. I didn't have many good father figures growing up either and that's why I fell into red pill myself. But dropping red pill and forming bonds with wiser, more experienced people irl, and most importantly, making an effort to humble myself and listen instead of just saying "yes but blah blah blah" was the best thing that ever happened to me. If you can just cycle through videos until you find one that confirms your bias, you aren't going t…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 01:59 AM
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I think they are control freaks who are desperate to have some kind of power over women, because women do not do what red pillers want them to.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/21 04:47 AM
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Can you elaborate a little? I'm curious.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/21 04:40 AM
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Definitely. It's annoying but like you said, I think it's mostly just people who are on the fence or still in the process of detoxing. There are some that feel like they are intentionally trying to mislead though..
/r/ExRedPill05/09/21 01:54 AM
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Not you specifically, but you're one of them. take the information and evaluate it on its merits Exactly. Examine what you're looking at. Don't sit here and tell me it's different just because it goes by a different name. That's all I'm going to say, I'm not going to argue with someone who refuses to do so in good faith.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/21 12:02 AM
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Couldn't have said it better myself. I remember for a while I would jump from alt right youtube channel to channel, then it was the trp subreddit, finally I ended up on /pol/ and started thinking to myself that I wasn't really changing. It's crazy to think I was blind to it up until that point, but I guess I just wanted the positives of change without having to actually make the commitment, and I lied to myself. That same thing is what I see in these guys delusionally thinking that they've found…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 11:45 PM
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Whatever you gotta tell yourself man
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 10:17 PM
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It's closer to PUA material than red pill? That's like saying a Siamese is closer to being a feline than it is to being a cat.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 06:53 PM
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fresh n fit Dude get real.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 06:48 PM
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For real! My roommate is always talking about alphas this, betas that, frame, game, etc. And it is absolutely cringey as hell. It's such an overly analytical view of something that is meant to flow organically, something that you learn through experience. What do you know, he never brings girls home, who would have thought..
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 05:39 PM
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There's very little actual truth, like the foundation of a lot of their beliefs is fact, but what they choose to build upon it is pure fantasy and crumbles under the slightest pressure. I think it's time we did away with the idea that trp is helpful to anyone. Every guy I know who is redpilled is not having success with women. When I was redpilled, it was the loneliest few years of my life, and only after I kicked it to the curb did I start to successfully date again. I think the only people who…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 04:30 PM
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This. There's nothing less manly than a guy who thinks drinking a mike's hard, wearing pink or listening to emo makes you less of a man. Like if just doing something effeminate takes away from who you are maybe you weren't that great in the first place..
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 04:59 AM
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The world needs more people like this who can speak their piece without attacking who they are trying to help. There were parts that I didn't agree with, but his delivery was fairly neutral and all of his points seem to be made in good faith, so I stuck through to the end. By the end, I realized the things I disagreed with were only like 5% of the video, and some things I even changed my opinion on. Most political channels would have some boisterous loud mouth taking jabs at their opponents, and…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 04:47 AM
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Lol yes, I am, because he contradicts that point in the first 5 minutes when he's laughing at some dude's appearance and judging whether or not he's "alpha." And in response to your other comment, I never said he was red pill, he clearly is separated from it, but he carries the same attitudes. "Fake gurus"? Dude get real, there are no "gurus." He's a content creator making money off lonely guys. This garbage just reeks of the same sadness and desperation of red pill.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 02:09 AM
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Just more weird insecure guys who are obsessed with what women think of them and their image, no thanks.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 01:08 AM
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Selected "no way" as soon as I read "women aren't bad" lol. That's like the most common sentiment for RPers. Also it really makes me wonder how many people here are actually ex red pill, half the results said yes, like what?
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 11:33 PM
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I thought the same thing in high school and to an extent as a young adult. Here's the thing though: confidence is the only part that matters. "Badboys" are just insecure people who project their problems onto other people, and other insecure people mistake that for confidence. You're far more likely to get on someone's good side by being a genuine, decent person with real confidence, not fake confidence that comes fron putting people down.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 04:57 AM
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I don't think red pill is really all that common, most dudes think it's for losers. To some degree though I think all guys have some kind of game they're playing to get close to their crush, because we tend to be analytical to a fault instead of connecting on an emotional level.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 04:41 AM
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I think they try but rarely succeed lol. Just another thing that red pill is wrong about. Idk if you've seen the whole "once you hit 35 young women will be beating down your door" sentiment from RPers but I used to see it a lot on pol and whatnot, I think it's just a way for men below that age to cope with lack of success with women and an excuse to not put any effort into self improvement.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 04:09 AM
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