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Fundamentals IanPowers26/r/seduction10/03/25 07:13 AM
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Fundamentals IanPowers26/r/seduction16/04/25 11:04 PM
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That's actually good advice. Today starts ''Semana Santa'' holiday here in Mexico. So might be a good day to go out since most of them have holidays this weekend. Although the introverts one probably are with family, not in the nightclubs though. Although it's a little more likely then normal.
/r/seduction18/04/25 12:24 AM
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Not necesarrily. You can be introvert without being a ''church girl''. Kind of funny that's what people think when I say introvert. Social media really has shown the worst of people.
/r/seduction17/04/25 11:57 PM
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Interesting. So how woulld you prefer to be approached? Just asking ''I am sorry, I think you're cute, do you happen to have a boyfriend''? Or is that TOO much?
/r/seduction17/04/25 10:19 PM
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I mean it does happen. They do have to leave their home sometime. Maybe in restaurants, bars if you don't mind approaching if they are in group. Even just giving your phone number. Usually these type of girls are great to know in social circle. Befriend an extrovert girl, and hang out together. This is how it happened in the past for me. But it does take a long time. You have to establish strong friendships with the extrovert ones and slowly show interest towards that more introvert girl.
/r/seduction17/04/25 08:03 PM
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You're exactly right haha. I've gotten lucky in the past (being in the right place, at the right time), but I need to do more effort to actually push my luck in the right direction haha.
/r/seduction17/04/25 10:12 AM
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Thanks, these are some great tips
/r/seduction17/04/25 05:37 AM
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Thanks! You're probably right. I just need to change my locations.
/r/seduction17/04/25 05:35 AM
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Thanks. Any advice on how to get good? How would you start from day 1 if you had to start from zero again?
/r/seduction17/04/25 02:29 AM
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So basically that would all be categorized under day approaches for you?? I am still too scared doing that. I hope soon the regret of not doing it will be heigher then my discomfort.
/r/seduction16/04/25 11:25 PM
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I met an Ukrainian woman during my travel. We were in a group setting. There were guys (similar to me) that wanted something serious, but I am from a country where equality is on all levels (even financially). I remember discussing ''what if I paid the 5 first dates, would you mind paying my coffee on the 6th date?'' and her response was ''why would I do that? If I wanted a coffee, I would just go by myself then''. So it makes no sense for me at all, haha.
/r/seduction15/04/25 09:24 PM
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And I appreciate you making this video! Thanks for the advice. I mean social anxiety is so weird. I've no idea why I am so scared of it, but I am. Rejections aren't going to kill you. So i guess it's true, you just need to get comfortable with it. Funny things happen when you go outside your comfort zone. After a while your comfort zone changes. Being home all day, and using dating apps kind of got my self confidence pretty low. I feel like after this video you probably must have felt so full of…
/r/seduction12/04/25 10:04 PM
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Loved the video. Way to push yourself out of your comfort zone! Also you look like a fun guy! Subscribed. Also, from another guy with social anxiety, and who never can imagine doing this, how did you get yourself in the right headspace before making this video? Did you focus on some exercise, maybe talk to strangers who weren't girls first? Or did you just said ''fuck it'' and just started without much planning beforehand?
/r/seduction12/04/25 09:16 PM
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How were your results? Do you feel more confident now then before?
/r/seduction12/04/25 09:09 PM
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You can try going out sober, doesn't necesarilly have to be expensive.
/r/seduction11/04/25 05:05 PM
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Are you talking from personal experience? If so, could you tell me a bit about life before taking action (where I am at and probably many too) and now when you decided to just go for it?
/r/seduction02/04/25 06:45 PM
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I mean just a few minutes I can do, but I feel plenty of girls need more time and just tell me ''I am bored'' and want someone to talk too. Especially from dating apps. I should just learn PUA and live in the real world haha.
/r/seduction27/03/25 06:02 PM
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But how would you text every day? It's honestly impossible to be on the phone during the entire day if I want to work and improve myself in other aspects of life.
/r/seduction27/03/25 05:43 PM
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Thanks for the reply. My main issue with dating apps is probably connection. Mentally it doesn't help that there are so many options for men and women, that people just have a date & then move on to the next person. Even when you do feel like you've build a connection, one or both persons probably is just swiping or talking to other persons the minute they get back home. That happens a lot less if you just live your life and happen to connect with someone organically who isn't living online all …
/r/seduction10/03/25 04:20 PM
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Thanks for sharing. 10% doesn't seem that bad. You might have more options online, but the quality might be better with cold approaches.
/r/seduction10/03/25 08:07 AM
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How old are you now? I meet confident guys in their 40s who still do well.
/r/seduction10/03/25 07:32 AM
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That's why i like working remote. Can always move to a different major city to find the love of my life. It's still not easy though. Most people just assume you are there for limited time, and dating apps pretty much suck everywhere.
/r/seduction05/02/25 02:09 PM
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Why would you want to flaunt your material successes with anyone? Seems like that's going to attract all the wrong girls. Woman shouldn't rely on men for survival. Maybe rather look for a partner to build a life together, instead of seeing woman in the way you do.
/r/seduction24/11/24 10:36 AM
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PM'd you too
/r/seduction17/10/24 11:01 PM
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I am looking for serious relationship, but feel I might have more quality woman doing day game, or at least find someone through social cirlce. Also, competition and flakiness is a lot higher online, something that's less when you connect in person. Also the fun aspect is true, more fun just to meet someone organically and connect on a strong level.
/r/seduction12/10/24 02:24 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction23/08/24 12:35 AM
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That's usually the best way for most success in dating. Not put all your eggs in one basket, and use all ways that are available :)
/r/seduction15/07/24 02:45 PM
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People actually go through effort like that just to set up their profile? Seems like if you're in South East Asia or Poland, might as well have fun with some girls in real life, or focus on traveling and meeting people organically.
/r/seduction15/07/24 02:21 PM
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Most likely it's this. I told a girl I liked I was going to visit my ex too, even though it was purely amicable at that point , she kind of ghosted me after that and later told me it was because of that. Nobody wants to hear that shit.
/r/seduction20/02/24 10:04 PM
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Bro seriously? Don't do this. There are girls who you'll find attractive inside and out. It's not worth it unless you want to spend your future having extra therapy sessions because your entire life is linked to a horrible human.
/r/seduction18/02/24 06:10 PM
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Even for a potential girlfriend, I'd be worried if she gets mad if you don't text for a day haha
/r/seduction14/02/24 01:44 PM
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Thanks!!
/r/seduction13/02/24 10:49 AM
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I have poor texting skills, and plenty of dates told me I am more interesting in person than in text. I think it's hard to show interest on OLD when you've never met in person.
/r/seduction12/02/24 10:19 PM
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Oh ok I understand. No idea though, but I guess it's best to use dating apps to screen out these guys.
/r/seduction12/02/24 08:14 PM
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I understand. But she can't be that great if she's dating while in a relationship. Maybe for something casual but still. If she was looking for serious and unhappy, she'd end that relationship first and then look for a suitable partner.
/r/seduction12/02/24 07:32 PM
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Oh ok, then I understand it. She basically lied or hid it from you. Not the type of girls I would be dating, since if she does it with you, she's going to do it at you eventually.
/r/seduction12/02/24 07:24 PM
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What's wrong with building an emotional connection over time?? You don't need to make a move constantly. Some girls really want to know a guy first. If she's really into you and you as well, and she already told you she's not into casual stuff, why not just take it slow??
/r/seduction12/02/24 07:21 PM
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Shitty move for going after a girl in a relationship.
/r/seduction12/02/24 06:58 PM
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Oh ok, I understand, and I think that's valid. In your situation, I agree. Still a majority of guys wouldn't want to date trans, and that's also perfectly understandable. I usually swipe left on trans girls online too. I am probably going to start doing day game, and be more social. There actually was a girl once who did it to me in a coffee shop, so I don't see that as a bad thing, if you're friendly. As a trans I can understand it kind of sucks to mention it on the first interaction or deal wi…
/r/seduction12/02/24 06:51 PM
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Yeah apps are really easy, but I don't think the best quality is to be found there. Also, I'd like to date a more traditional, feminine girl for a serious relationship and I feel its less likely I find someone on that app, who already dated multiple people through that same method. Have you made a move through daily life liike day game? Or do you usually find girls through apps?
/r/seduction12/02/24 06:03 PM
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I guess approach anxiety kind of does the job for me :)
/r/seduction12/02/24 04:15 PM
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I live in Mexico and I do have social media like Instagram, but my last photo is of a landscape I liked about 1 year old. I think it's different in Latin America. People are even more addicted to social media there than in the USA. I think part of it is also safety wise. A guy without any social media is considered strange here because he might have something to hide. I've had it happened plenty of times when girls even questioned my dating profile and asked for my social profiles. Some other gi…
/r/seduction07/02/24 02:04 PM
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Thanks, makes sense.
/r/seduction06/02/24 03:20 PM
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What about texting girls through Bumble prior a trip. I am traveling in 2 weeks time, and I changed my location to that destination. I've got some great matches, but I feel like it's too early to start talking, since after a couple of days we stop talking. I usually ask Instagram, but usually connection fade away fast. Any tips for doing this effectively?
/r/seduction06/02/24 02:41 PM
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Great info. I've been honestly so frustrated with dating apps.
/r/seduction06/02/24 02:25 PM
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Yeah me too, that's an instant pass for me. But humbleness is a core value for me. Girls that have only gym pics are also a pass in that regard. On the other hand, I had girls insisting to pay on the first date, and its really a turn on for me.
/r/seduction05/02/24 12:57 PM
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27, just wow. I mean I don't even know how to pull that off, neither do I think I want too. I still have a lot to focus professionally and physically, and prefer to put my energy there. Does spending so many time with random girls take a mental toll on you?? Thanks for the honest reply. I feel like I can screen quite well with Tinder and Bumble and just put my preferences.
/r/seduction02/02/24 03:06 PM
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Man, 18 dates in January that's a lot, to say the least. Seems like you know what you are doing. Seems like you are interested in casual sex, and your results speak for yourself. Probably you're a good looking dude too. I am more of a relationship kind of guy myself. When you say ''relationship vibes''. Probably you mean girls that don't put out fast? It seems like you screen on this. Is there a contrary way to yours, where I can avoid girls that sleep with everyone on a first date, and go for t…
/r/seduction02/02/24 01:52 PM
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I feel like this could be me posting this. I'd say a reserved and nice/respectful demeanor isn't a bad thing. But don't let woman walk all over you or don't have any self-respect. I'd say a perfect example of a celebrity like that would be Keanu Reeves. He probably could have had many girls, but somehow he isn't that type of extrovert guy and that's fine, he has charisma. He settled with a woman around his same age (intellectual compatibility is much more important for me too), compared to a mor…
/r/seduction31/01/24 09:24 PM
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