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I understand, I'm sure it's a lot of work to go through mod queue and clean all the shit up. I should have sent the message a few times to have a better chance to catch the team's attention. I'm available a few hours a month to help out if needed, just let me know when the time comes.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 03:14 PM
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I sent a PM to the mods offering help before and didn't get an acknowledgement even, so I think that's not a priority yet since reddit hasn't shut us down. I just think it'd be a good idea to have a couple people ready to go in case help is needed to keep the infrastructure costs down by setting up a CDN, using cache optimization and such, things that guys like you and me could help with.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 02:42 AM
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Last time I took this test (jung / briggs myers) I scored ENTJ, but this time it was INTJ. I attributed the change from Extrovered to Introverted partially to RP (more stoic now, less stressed, control situations better), but also to having changed my ways when it comes to talking/listening, when now I listen much more and give out much less (think of Niccolò Machiavelli). This is a great tool to help with your self-improvement. Thanks for sharing!
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 01:03 AM
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I agree, although I'm cynical at times, I tend to keep those thoughts to myself. It just usually keeps me from wasting my time with the wrong people.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 02:12 PM
6

She saw him as a potentially great beta bux. If she was smart, she would have encouraged him to continue down his original path. You can't expect the hamster to think reasonably like that.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 03:01 PM
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This piece is comedy gold, a historical moment if you will.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 04:36 AM
62

You can't use logic against those idiots, it's equivalent to talking to a cat.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 03:35 PM
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I don't even know where to start... The shit they pull is insane, almost to the point where it disgusts me. Fuck man, scientists better get the spaceships to Mars up and running soon, these asshats feminists make me wanna skip to outer space. Thank god I found TRP.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:35 AM
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I agree, it's mostly being self aware enough so that you can take the most appropriate corrective action to improve your life, aka steering the ship away from the icebergs. I understand what you mean when you say "blame yourself". In psychology it translates to having an internal locus of control.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 01:26 AM
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Stop drinking so much and acting like an idiot.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 04:26 AM
1

It doesn't matter how you open them, it's all about confidence and not coming off needy and/or creepy (be attractive and have an abundance mentality). Also give them both similar amounts of attention, but don't try to isolate one of them until you meet them at a later time, assuming you're day gaming and find these women walking around somewhere.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 07:22 PM
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Stop bitching... If someone says something about your height, just reply back with "I'm 5'7" but 6'5" if you count my dick" with a grin
/r/askTRP25/03/15 04:00 PM
1

Treat it like a bad habit... Every single time you catch yourself giving a fuck about what someone else said about you, make a mental note, and give yourself a punishment (30 push ups or something). Every time the opposite happens, and you are able to not give a fuck, make a mental note and reward yourself (an extra 10 minutes in bed or something like that). Follow through with this for at least 30 days, and start enjoying a life of no fucks given.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 10:53 PM
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Next, ain't no pussy worth that trouble, plus she would never be more than a plate...
/r/askTRP21/03/15 01:13 PM
1

I don't think so
/r/askTRP20/03/15 09:54 PM
5

She's a plate, you're not supposed to give a fuck who else she is seeing. Remember, every plate you're spinning is also spinning you.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:46 PM
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AWALT. But I think Russia might be a good start...
/r/askTRP15/03/15 03:00 PM
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Holy fuck, I'll never move there, that's for sure.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 06:15 PM
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Kind of off-topic... I've heard lots of bad things about Toronto, this is another. Anyone know why such a bad rep for that city? I had a good time when I visited it for about a week.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 04:48 PM
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It doesn't matter, still a low quality post.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 07:41 PM
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Bitch deleted her post...
/r/askTRP23/02/15 09:14 PM
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Post this on /r/asktrp instead.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 02:43 PM
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Unless she's really self aware, she probably doesn't know when she's up or down, or when she's being fa total bitch. If she's truly bipolar, it will take years of therapy and work on self to allow her to control these mood swings. Source: 3 year LTR with a BPD woman
/r/askTRP12/02/15 03:48 PM
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Thanks. Once she sends the next text, like you said, should I just ignore and reply back with logistics only?
/r/askTRP06/02/15 11:09 PM
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What's her point then?
/r/askTRP06/02/15 10:36 PM
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True, I agree.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 09:45 PM
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I assume she's just being playful and still wants to get fucked silly. Maybe I should just ignore and set up a time as usual?
/r/askTRP06/02/15 09:31 PM
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Better to find one who's already RP. Amen. How unlikely tho? I have yet to meet one...
/r/askTRP30/01/15 04:10 PM
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Phillips Norelco 4100
/r/askTRP27/01/15 06:11 PM
2

Just the tip... Lmao
/r/askTRP27/01/15 03:38 PM
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Not as much... You prolly won't always have a class with her, your schedule changes every semester, and aside from parties, this is another huge way to fuck college pussy.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 11:15 PM
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Then wait til therapy is done to fuck her. Don't mix the two, it can only make it worse.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 11:13 PM
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She likes how you smell/to be reminded of you and also marking her territory. It's a good sign, don't worry.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 07:57 PM
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Going off of this... Change one thing at a time (so you can have a "control variable") that way you know what was the most effective change to avoid such behavior.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 07:55 PM
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I don't understand why you are bitching about a book. The idea of doing the reading of the recommended TRP books is to be aware of several aspects of gaming, seduction, self improvement, etc... while being rational and taking everything with a grain of salt. Don't like it? Well, all I can see here is that you don't have the balls to improve yourself and just would like to use PUA tricks as shortcuts. Come on, man, we are here to help. You can do this.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 09:17 PM
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Don't mistake vulnerability for weakness, as the former is what you are looking for (comes from being truly confident) and the latter is what a beta always presents.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 09:13 PM
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As /u/vandaalen said: Time for some dread game. Quit seeing her daily. Become unavailable in person, via phone and via texting and social media. Don't give reasons, don't explain yourself. "Just busy." She's trying to pimp you by withdrawing sex. If you start engaging in the bargaining process, it's the first step towards loosing control. Don't let her frame the relationship. "we've done it every night for the past week" and that she thinks she "spoils me" That alone, for me personally qualifies…
/r/askTRP22/01/15 09:01 PM
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That Mr asshole line from californication?
/r/askTRP22/01/15 02:34 AM
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Get your head out of your own ass
/r/askTRP18/01/15 01:49 AM
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Why do you care what they think? Also, amused mastery... The other guy has sloppy seconds, just brush it off like that.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 11:06 PM
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Fuck that... If you like the team and enjoy playing there, then don't go out of your way. This shouldn't have phased you at all, in fact it's probably a good riddance, so moving to another team is going to prove just the opposite. Which one is it gonna be?
/r/askTRP14/01/15 09:03 PM
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Yes, exactly. What I said is that you should at least trim it, but shave if that's what you feel better with.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 09:01 PM
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Trim that shit up, least you could do. Do you like going down on a hairy pussy? All my plates shave or at least keep it trimmed on the reg, pay it forward.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 08:39 PM
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IMHO: It's still RP if you think about it. By crafting these intricate but seemingly innocent questions, you bring your prospect into your frame in a position of pure vulnerability (opening up, being thoughtful, etc). The woman will associate whatever positive feelings she has at that moment with your presence, taking down a lot of barriers.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 04:02 PM
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Go practice game on all the lonely chicks at the bars, clubs or coffee shops. Don't take a plate to a v-day date unless you plan on upgrading her to an LTR.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 12:32 AM
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Get her ass on a cab and send her home, then call plate #2 and do what you always do....
/r/askTRP09/01/15 11:25 PM
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"Hate to sound sleazy, but tease me, I don't want it if it's that easy" - 2pac
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 09:57 PM
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This is true. And if you ever feel like you're walking on egg shells (as in she can go batshit crazy over anything) than you must get the fuck out and never look back.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 06:08 PM
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Shit test? Can you explain?
/r/askTRP09/01/15 05:57 PM
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You should also ask this in /r/redpillwomen While you're with him, don't think too much and let him take the lead. You will have more time later to process the whole thing. The reason you hated TRP before is because you didn't fully understand what it is all about. Also, you have to take everything with a grain of salt because of all the noise from people with different perspectives. Lurk moar, read moar and make your own opinion as you process all the info.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 05:27 PM
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If this holds true, I guess he fucked up by liking her too much and not balancing the beta/alpha traits towards the end. Some dread game would have brought him back to AF status.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 09:40 PM
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it's a bot
/r/askTRP06/01/15 08:49 PM
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read it again. dependent
/r/askTRP06/01/15 08:48 PM
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A lot of people here talk about SOFT vs HARD next. You can't hard next someone who will you be seeing on a regular basis without looking butthurt. A soft next is more appropriate, as you cut any emotional ties and let the other person do the chasing.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 04:48 PM
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If I remember correctly, in the Rational Male Rollo says you should let it be clear right from the beginning, but do so with your actions, not necessarily just stating "you're not the only woman I am seeing right now". Read his Plate Theory chapters, I can't explain it better than he did.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 04:16 PM
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Just had a convo today around those lines with a possible LTR. She had recently gotten out of a LTR herself and getting into another one was making her scared. Essentially she just wants to play the field and see what else is out there before she would even think about committing to me. We hit it off way too quickly and timing wasn't right. Our mutual friends agree and brought this up to me before. But... I also displayed some betaness by accident (started liking her too much) and her tingles mi…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 02:30 AM
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In college now. Ran into a friend from highschool, hadn't seen her in forever... We hugged, talked, I flirted a bit.... All while my plate was watching and I was grabbing drinks for her and I at the bar. Plate went batshit crazy over that and I kept frame and defused the bomb. Later that night she never worked so hard to get me off, craziest shit in bed ever... Dread works.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 02:18 AM
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You should not build comfort (talking all that much) before you build attraction. You're putting yourself in the friend zone right now, so set up a date soon, go out for drinks and show her you're a sexual prospect, not just a guy that she can have nice convos with. If you don't know how to escalate, just keep reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 02:12 AM
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Move on, and do so fast. Go lift, get some numbers, fuck other chicks. You'll forget her pretty fast if you stick to this. And don't respond to that nonsense, you should be busy bettering yourself and getting some strange. Now go out there and meet new girls.
/r/askTRP03/01/15 11:20 PM
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Cooking.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 09:43 PM
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He's not the captain. You listed very good qualities a man can (and arguably should have), but it seems like he lacks drive, ambition and leadership. Also, don't try changing him into the man you really want. It's gonna be a disaster. If he's not currently trying to improve on his own terms, then I wouldn't expect much and just end it gracefully. Good luck.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 11:43 PM
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This. I have lots to improve in the looks department (lose a bit more weight, lift more, and improve my style), but I am intelligent and ambitious, which puts me ahead of my peers in the same age group. The fact that I am 24 and own a company with employees gets women wet. And I've tested this before by withholding this fact, or being very talkative about it. The difference is clear.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 06:10 PM
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I have a plate who wants to bring a woman to bed with us, but she gave me the heads up that she'd be really jealous if I fucked her too. Wtf? Any thoughts? EDIT: as in it'd prolly be a turn off for her if I fucked the girl, so she might not want to do it because of that...
/r/askTRP30/12/14 05:58 PM
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Good point
/r/askTRP25/12/14 09:27 PM
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She's not an unicorn...what I'm saying is she shows some of the characteristics...always takes care of herself, feminine, cooks&cleans, family oriented, etc. Now the fact that she's on tinder now after divorcing is kinda fucked up, thanks for making me see it.
/r/askTRP25/12/14 02:37 PM
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No kids..doesn't want them either afaik
/r/askTRP25/12/14 02:25 PM
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Damn..
/r/askTRP25/12/14 04:36 AM
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How many guys she's had sex with.
/r/askTRP25/12/14 04:35 AM
1

I get what you mean. I didn't mention this, but it might be helpful: she divorced her first husband (10 years) just a few weeks ago. I plated her while she was separated, so I know I'm her rebound and this won't last, but since her n count is 1 I'm wondering if I'm in dangerous waters or not.
/r/askTRP25/12/14 03:24 AM
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She cancelled other dates just to spend time with me instead. I'm 24 and she's almost 30. I guess it make sense that she knows what's up...
/r/askTRP25/12/14 03:07 AM
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Some women find it sexy. Just make sure you own at least one nice pair that looks good on your face. It can be a huge turn off if you wear the wrong glasses. I wear contacts for convenience, but always switch to glasses at least once a week. Sometimes it makes sense, such as for an interview or important meeting. Think of your glasses as an accessory, much like a watch or belt. EDIT: I also wear glasses the night I'm gonna see a plate, if I need to stay the night I won't have to worry about cont…
/r/askTRP25/12/14 01:58 AM
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Right on.
/r/askTRP24/12/14 11:00 PM
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Thanks anyways haha
/r/askTRP24/12/14 12:57 AM
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You did good. You're the prize, not her. If she can't see that, then let her go, practice your abundance mentality and next her. Also, don't let a bitch fuck with your schooling, that's much more important.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 07:22 PM
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Yep. Slightly less drama, although AWALT still holds true. I'm 24 and plating a 29 hottie, so I've learned a bit. You can also be more direct on what you want and they'll appreciate it. Mine is really vocal on what she likes about me and doesn't about other guys she ends up seeing...90% of what she ends up saying are confirmations of RP truths.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 11:42 PM
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Silent treatment is more of a nuclear option and is not the same as applying dread necessarily. Dread game in marriage is exactly what other brothers here have said, work on yourself so your increasing SMV and lower availability to her (being busy) will make her fear losing you. Silent treatment is a mind fuck play you should only use when things are already somewhat FUBAR.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 03:48 PM
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The more you need your GF, the less power you'll have in the relationship. If you don't change soon you'll end up her bitch. Get a hobby, start lifting, read books and get her off your mind for a bit.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 03:35 PM
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You are paid according to how much value you bring to a business and society. Think of jobs that way and you'll be able to figure it out.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 11:03 PM
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My hobby growing up was computers/Linux and I learned a shit ton in about 10 years. My business started with me fixing some computers for 50 bucks an hour, now I have projects for small business, one employee, and can charge several hundred to a few thousand for a job. Still small, but that's how I started. edit: also, channel your anger/frustration into something productive. Thinking everyone is an idiot (even if some are) is not gonna get you far at all.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 10:49 PM
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Ain't no fucking way I'm locking her down haha
/r/askTRP20/12/14 01:00 AM
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It doesn't really work on me. She cheated on her guy with me, so I know she will never be anything more than a plate.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 06:41 PM
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Is that a cheap attempt from her on having me hooked? Or is she actually that enfatuated? I don't get jealous, that's how it should be with plates, I'm asking cause I wanna improve my ability to see through bullshit.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 06:40 PM
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All the advice that was given here is solid. Stop being a little bitch and hard next this hoe out of your life. And since you're into Drake, listen to 'How about now' instead.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 06:26 PM
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Best reply to her then would be?
/r/askTRP17/12/14 08:33 PM
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That show is perfect for it.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 08:32 PM
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I agreed to go after work and later just said "have dinner and a beer waiting for me”
/r/askTRP16/12/14 07:45 AM
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Don't shit where you eat, unless you don't care if you get fired.
/r/askTRP14/12/14 02:34 AM
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I'd say "I don't shoot blanks", but English is not my native tongue and she might not get the reference.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 10:41 PM
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Mini FR: I got the LJBF talk once, while I was still red and blue at the same time. Some assertiveness and some better game moved me to a FWB in her eyes... And now as I practice more and improve myself, she seems to be clinging on me instead of me to her. This was an exception of course because I turned more aggressive immediately after I got the LJBF talk (she was being funny and joking about it, but still).
/r/askTRP13/12/14 09:16 PM
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Assertiveness IMHO is highly correlated with being an overall confident person, and a bit of figuring out how you phrase things, as exemplified above.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 09:12 PM
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I did end up seeing her too often this past 10 days or so, I gotta slow it down. What's funny is that I mentioned something like letting her be for about a week or so, and she agreed, but I guess couldn't handle it.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 04:30 PM
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Cool thought. If I was able to "read" her well enough in the past few weeks, I don't think she's dark triad enough to try to hook me that way. I definitely agree it's a possibility tho, I'll explore that side more often.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 04:28 PM
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Don't get too comfortable. You should strive in situations of discomfort and chaos too, not just when everything is fine and everyone is doing well.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 04:14 PM
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I'd say you go to the gym to work on yourself and focus on your workout, not game. At least that's how I see it when I go to the gym.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 03:46 AM
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Look for GayLubeOil's gift giving guide on the main trp sub.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 01:52 AM
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Text for logistics only
/r/askTRP11/12/14 09:54 PM
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Don't do it for the girls, that's fucked up. Do it because you want to be a better version of yourself.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 06:25 PM
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People keep fucking this up every single day.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:50 PM
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Just don't get drunk. Stop once you have a nice buzz. If you are actively pursuing a goal and being at happy hour is a part of it, you will want to think straight.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:46 PM
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I'm actually curious about tombreck2's question as well. Plate came over and saw The Rational Male on my nightstand... All it takes for a shit storm to happen is for her to look it up and read about plate theory. Am I overthinking?
/r/askTRP09/12/14 08:07 PM
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I have zero fucks to give with regards to what other people think about the things I enjoy doing. And you are right about the state of mind.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 07:00 PM
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True. I'm not cut for it, so for me it will stay as a hobby.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 03:32 PM
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I've had around 12 months or so of experience in 4 different companies... But yeah, not the oldest and most experienced around here for sure.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 02:21 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 03:30 AM
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Aside from networking events and the nightlife, I'd try volunteering either at random events or at not-for-profit that you care about. Do some 5K runs if you can, meet some random people that way. I'd also try something different like a language class, and perhaps meet some babes that way. Just go ahead and live an awesome fucking life, the women will show up eventually...
/r/askTRP09/12/14 03:27 AM
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The other day someone posted around here something like this: Get them wet Treat'em like dirt They will stick on you like mud
/r/askTRP09/12/14 03:21 AM
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Lifting is a hobby, a career is much more meaningful in my opinion. Take some tests online to help you figure out what a good career path would be. Just google "vocational test" and have at it.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 03:19 AM
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You're 17, be glad you can swallow the pill at a young age. Read the sidebar, work on yourself and be the one in charge of your future, the rest will fall into place in due time after due process.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 02:50 AM
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I wouldn't go as far as delimiting jobs as RP or not. I'd choose a path that is fulfilling to you and that you can excel at, so finding an area you're passionate about is a good first step. I am soon to be an engineer, and although that is not as fancy as being an attorney or a doctor, I've heard positive feedback from people (bot men and women) as to how dedicated and passionate I am about it, which is more along the lines of swallowing the pill (rather than slapping labels on everything like a…
/r/askTRP09/12/14 02:43 AM
1

Yeah, now that you mentioned this: she did say something in the lines of being afraid of losing me if we don't pan out romantically... which gives me the vibe of commitment. Not sure if sharing this helps, but I played her hard with push/pull games and got her completely hot about it. For about a half hour last time we met she was telling me how attracted she was to me. So I did change the power balance around, as in letting her chase me now for a bit.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 01:29 AM
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I'll have to decide that rather quick then. And about her n count, I'm not quite sure either. She is not into PDA at all, except when she's drunk with me, in that case she is just as freaky as behind closed doors.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 01:26 AM
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Yep. Got it. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP08/12/14 06:15 PM
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Harsh truth here, sounds like. Fuck, she'd be a great fucking wingwoman tho, she turns heads and even some chicks are into her.
/r/askTRP08/12/14 06:08 PM
1

Well, she married a beta, I wouldn't be surprised if that actually happened.
/r/askTRP08/12/14 05:57 PM
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Why hang out with a women who doesn't want to have sex with you when there are others that do Good point. I gotta keep the mentality that I am the prize, not her. Radio silence & soft next sounds ideal. Can't really do a hard next because we have friends in common and I'll eventually run into her at random.
/r/askTRP08/12/14 05:56 PM
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I didn't fuck her. Now I've turned it around in terms of attraction and got her to chase me, but the same LMR is still there every damn time.
/r/askTRP08/12/14 05:48 PM
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I think so to. Care to explain? I'm actually intrigued by her behavior, it's a shit test but she's used it more than once.
/r/askTRP08/12/14 05:43 PM
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Regarding #1, I've already gone further than that... I had her against the wall of her bedroom, panties long gone, and I was coming in at 100mph and literally last second when we are about to fuck, she just pushes me off looking confused & horny as fuck and that's the LMR right there.
/r/askTRP08/12/14 05:35 PM
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I can imagine it getting old and boring once you've mastered the art of plate spinning and done it for years on end...
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 04:10 PM
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24...swallowing the pill since 23
/r/askTRP05/12/14 08:48 PM
1

I had already kissed her a lot by then. But good approach!
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 07:59 PM
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I run a small business that I'm passionate about (previously a hobby of mine). Almost nothing else can distract me from it. I've said no to several invitations in the past simply because working on it is fucking awesome. In fact, an LTR started bitching about it and I ended it right there. She later apologized. Yes, you do need a balanced life too. So I lift, go to school, hang out, meet women, etc... Just prioritize it all differently. This may work for you too.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 06:04 PM
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Thanks, good answers right there. This is the one I'm mostly practicing with, so I'm outcome independent (as in IDGAF).
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 05:46 PM
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While practicing game on a HB8 she said "I don't tease well" with a smile. I can't take that at face value, but I can't see what's in between the lines here...
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 04:32 PM
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Watch the National Geographic's Going Ape: The Alpha Male episode. It's available for free on YouTube. This will give you an idea of how social dynamics go as far as submitting to an alpha male or having betas submit to you simply by demonstrating certain qualities/attributes.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 04:26 PM
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Nice. If she has asked, how did you defuse the bomb? I have one that doesn't stop asking these questions... I think it's because I'm 24 and she's almost 30. I have just given her vague responses so far.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 04:23 PM
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We could call it QTDDTOT. Questions that don't deserver their own threads. I see those a lot on /fit/.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 08:52 PM
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Not sure, that's why I asked.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 05:48 PM
3

Library, soup stand for the homeless (volunteering), maybe one of those alternative coffee shops, at the student center, church possibly, etc.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 04:08 PM
1

Agreed. But if he burns out before becoming an exec then it all went to waste. He shouldn't do the whole thing in detriment to his health and well being. Sane body sane mind.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 03:46 PM
3

I just brought a couple of different perspectives, guy had a question.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 03:44 AM
2

This. I'd keep the gym the equivalent of workplace, where you go to get shit done, no fucking around and trying to plate women. That's if you give a fuck about your job and working out.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 03:42 AM
1

Last time this happened to me, I joked around and essentially didn't take it seriously at all. Next time we met I just went "cave man mode" on her and just took what I wanted (passionate kissing, man handling, touching, dirty talking, taking lead, etc etc) and she forgot about LJBF pretty damn quick. P.S.: she was ok with my advances because we had already had a ONS, and that was right around when I was started with TRP, so I made some mistakes on the way that made her bring up LJBF (failing one…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 03:35 AM
5

Drug rep? Ok, so she's a sales person. Do you have any influence on the decision process? If so, she could be taking you for a beta and try to sell more shit by flirting with you (this is my cynical approach). On another note, I've met with a girl like that, who was just really friendly and gave the same vibe you're feeling now. Once I got around to ask her for coffee, she went cold and I just let it go. She was just too friendly (some chicks are like that as far as I can tell). Perhaps naive? O…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 03:26 AM
1

Then you better make a decision, and quick. Also, know when to stop and how much work is enough work in a week. Going up the corporate latter isn't a 100 meter sprint, it's more like a marathon, that is, you have to pace yourself (physically and mentally) otherwise you get close to the end and fuck it all up.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 03:11 AM
1

Perhaps all of those bring fulfillment instead, which can be linked to a happy life. But the concept of happiness is complicated anyways, so might as well use TRP for whatever goals you have, rather than just slap this big HAPPINESS label on it.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 03:03 AM
2

First decide if you would like her as a plate or if she's LTR material. Then act accordingly. Do the good ol' radio silence first, and go lift some weights meanwhile or something.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 10:30 PM
3

Females cheat on their BB with the AF and show zero remorse because they already have, internally, justified their actions to themselves, aka hamstering. The majority of these "excuses" are almost never rational and are just outputs of their emotions.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 10:26 PM
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Another way of looking at it, in my opinion, is that acknowledging AWALT is essentially accepting the fact that you cannot change women, therefore you change yourself (and your strategies). This realization is important in many aspects of life, not just inter-sex relationships. edit: typo
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 10:00 PM
2

This.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 09:40 PM
1

I've read your post and some other replies... I think you're thinking too much about it when you are with her. Just go for it, you have to act. You can't be boring with women, for chicks boredom equals death. IF you get another chance, like tombreck said, then just fucking do it already. The worst that could happen is you get some LMR (which you will know how to deal with) or you are in the friend zone already.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 09:39 PM
1

Somehow? How do you let that shit happen? EDIT: also, if she signed just your copy, then I am pretty sure that is worthless. Her name must be in both copies and she must have signed both, so it's an agreement that both parties (you/her and the landlord) are aware of.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 07:30 PM
1

I feel the same way, although in an engineering school the frats were pretty lame... I've never seen such a high concentration of betas in one campus.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 07:20 PM
1

This. Here's a good talk on it: http://www-pnp.physics.ox.ac.uk/~huffman/blank_stare.html
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 05:59 PM
2

Thanks, man. Good luck with your new career! Feel free to PM me if you wanna talk about this stuff.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 09:54 PM
8

This was some great discussion here. Here's a mini FR that somewhat relates to this: After a ONS with a girl 6 years older than me, I was out on Halloween with some friends and threw her a bone saying which bar I was going to start my night at. Not much longer and there she was, with her friends, at the same bar (wow, coincidence!). She comes to where I am sitting and starts talking and saying something like "I am not here to see you, I'm just getting beers for my friends". I immediately say "is…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 11:30 PM
14

I will post some personal findings in hope that it will help others. 1) Can't stress this enough: I am always going out to lunch with older folks (some times they could be my grandpa) and essentially I strike conversation on a topic and just listen the whole time and ask a couple more questions here and there. Find someone you look up to and let them become your mentor. You can also bring up a failure and discuss how you can do it better next time. 2) Getting an internship is fucking exciting an…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 08:22 PM
0

Thanks, I was gonna message the mods and then it got stickied.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 01:38 AM
1

Then tell her you wanna see her again and set up next meet up. Like Thursday night, she doesn't need to know who you are fucking on the weekend. (I am assuming you wanna plate her, not LTR). Be assertive, tell don't ask. Good luck
/r/askTRP19/11/14 01:04 AM
2

If you wanna come off beta as fuck, be my guest. That's only gonna show you have oneitis for her.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 12:58 AM
2

Text for logistics and for flirting only, as in text to set up next date and if it makes sense to plant a seed on her mind about something sexy or an inside joke that has some innuendos.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 12:08 AM
2

I wouldn't give it away that fast, let her want it more and see that she's not the focus of all your attention. Otherwise, if she doesn't have to struggle for it, she will soon lose interest or just branch swing whenever it's convenient.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 04:41 PM
0

Post this on /r/askTRP and you will have a better change of getting good feedback.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:27 PM
3

This. The most beneficial outcome (highest reward) of this "game" is actually not playing it (zero).
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:16 PM
3

I will of course be denouncing him in public any time this comes up in a situation where real people know me, though. Gotta keep up plausible deniability. Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others. Smart move. And although this whole story feels like a win to the feminists, they will never take away the truths from someone who swallowed the pill. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:00 PM
4

As far as I can tell, the average joe is average because he is constantly breaking these rules. 99.9% of all the people I have met in my life have no knowledge of these concepts. In short: lead or be mislead. EDIT: structure
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 01:03 AM
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This is how you think now, but if you seek the pure truth, you will eventually understand that these games are just a part of building your "stuff". I once had a job in finance, mostly on the technical side analyzing millions of dollars in budgets, expenditures, etc. Some days most of my day would consist of meetings and conversations by the water cooler regarding off the book strategies on how to get shit done for the executives and essentially piggy back on their success. It's pretty fucked up…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 12:51 AM
5

Mental disorders are a huge red flag... Nothing to do with the person itself, but because most of the time these people have little to no control over their conditions, and it takes years for improvements to show up. This is something you would have to toughen up and deal with if it were your son or daughter, or a sibling, but no reason to stay around for a plate or possible LTR. Move on, and do so quickly. EDIT: please read the rules, the sidebar, and post questions to /r/askTRP.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 12:45 AM
1

Thank you. I'll post a FR next year, and I'll be damned if it isn't a positive one.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 09:41 PM
12

Good observations. My takeaway is: acknowledge your own shortcomings and seek to improve rather than anything else. Use the possible anger and/or frustration as an internal motivator. Don't expect nor demand justice or any kind of bullshit like that, just man up. Now, I'd have to say that this works best with an LTR, because if you fuck up with a possible plate and keep trying with the same girl after failing, you might just come off as a "creep" as they say, so hard next and keep working on you…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 11:23 PM
1

There's a pocket version of this book, for those who want to have it accessible during a break and don't wanna carry that big orange book around. I recommend it owning it after you've read the original in its entirety, as the pocket version has less examples and focuses mainly on the ideas. edit: recommendation haha
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 10:51 PM
1

Read about the flairs description on the sidebar. If it's a general TRP discussion question then you may post it here under the appropriate flair, otherwise use /r/asktrp.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 09:34 PM
9

I am not trying to be condescending here, but you should read (if you haven't yet) the Dale Carnegie's book called "How to win friends and influence people". This will contrast two very efficient strategies on dealing with others (and eventually achieving your personal goals). The 48 Laws of Power is based off of power games and the struggle to maintain it. How to win friends and influence people shows you the opposite side, where you can be nice and thoughtful and still accomplish what you want…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:31 PM
8

You wouldn't have to move a finger, just your presence as a highly successful man would do the job.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 04:56 PM
0

Women can smell desperation from miles away. That being said... Go work on yourself first, build that abundance mentality, and soon enough you should be looking back and laughing at this whole thing.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 02:04 AM
13

Make this decision with a clear mind rather than belligerently drunk and with a hint of uncertainty and desperation. I guess you are fine if you are just seeking some input right now, but don't jump the gun on something like this.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 01:59 AM
1

Catch up on any school projects (don't procrastinate, that is) and set up a date or two to practice some skills, unless you are in monk mode. I've done this before at a cozy coffee shop (if you live in the north) that kinda sets the mood for playing in the sheets later. EDIT: also, you can take the time to learn how to cook healthier meals, eat better, and meditate.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 01:57 AM
2

You should make a post after reading it, that would be open it up for much better discussions.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 01:54 AM
2

As a reward for her good behavior, but you can think of the 2/3 rule as well.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 01:21 AM
5

This... 1000 times.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 12:52 AM
14

That's the dilemma. Perhaps that's what it takes to remain with power.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 04:28 PM
2

You seem to have done fine, and I don't know the girl, but if she's really into you then she won't fuck it up like this again, as it looks like you made boundaries very clear. And nice catch on not nexting too fast, that's good self-awareness right there.
/r/askTRP11/11/14 11:40 PM
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I have yet to meet someone that told me to check my privilege. This sounds like some 4chan garbage.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 11:06 PM
5

Awesome story, thanks for sharing. Just don't let it get to your head, and I'm sure you know what I mean.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 11:04 PM
3

It's just a shitty technique to attempt to win an argument using emotion rather than logic, similar to a shit test. Best here is to ignore and not feed the "trolls".
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 04:10 PM
2

From what you told us, it sounds like she somewhat lacks a bit of confidence and may come out as needy at times (which then forces us to change a specific approach or two). I'm 23, so I won't worry about getting married any time soon, but it doesn't hurt to know.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 03:54 PM
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Same in engineering. Fucking up could mean losing several lives.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 03:32 PM
1

Join a boxing gym. Getting mentally and physically beat by someone with 10x your skills is quite humbling, as it shows you that you can always improve.
/r/askTRP11/11/14 05:04 AM
4

Yes, go make good use of your time. Meanwhile you will be passively playing a dread game (sort of) and perhaps get a reaction, but live life and don't put your SO into a pedestal, that's just unattractive. This may sound weird, but I put up with quirks a bit more if I find an interesting chick (because they are so hard to find).
/r/askTRP11/11/14 04:57 AM
9

Have you guys considered bringing some of the older redpillers as mods? There's an average of 8k subscribers per mod, that's a lot of shit to go through.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 04:51 AM
0

If mods here were power-tripping, this whole place would turn into shit really fast. The fact that this is still a decent subreddit after such growth goes to show they are at least doing a fair job. Making inferences isn't so hard.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 04:49 AM
3

I think I have some uncomfortable truths to face here. Yes. Also, if you were just too nice and submissive, I'd personally be bored as fuck. What do you bring into this LTR? Notice you said: He is a great guy, he's intelligent, hilarious, doesn't take shit from anybody (especially not me), he's extremely attractive and I think he's a genuinely kind, wonderful person - as opposed to someone who is "nice" in a covert contract kind of way. Now go figure... Can he say the same about you? That's the …
/r/askTRP11/11/14 04:41 AM
2

Meet other people, make new friends, expand your social circle. Many ways of doing that, an easy one is by meeting other people with similar hobbies, or going out to networking events, parties, etc.
/r/askTRP11/11/14 04:32 AM
1

Don't let her walk on you, if you think it's bullshit, call her out on it, just like you would call one of your buddies out if he's being foolish. Or, you could just leave and onto the NEXT!
/r/askTRP11/11/14 04:29 AM
1

a fellow deadhead on trp! cheers
/r/askTRP11/11/14 04:23 AM
2

BPD? Run bro, run like there's no tomorrow. You will always get sucked back into her bullshit, and even if you learn how to work around this, it's still not worth it. Source: 2 year LTR, took me way too long to realize she was bananas. it was a great source of learning tho, I just wish I would have ended it sooner (hence I'm telling you to GTFO). edit: typo
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 05:17 PM
3

It's a great wake up call, but something tells me this is fiction... Holy fuck, 10 years?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 04:59 PM
1

This got me thinking about a couple of occasions where I could have been more decisive and "striked while the iron's hot". Thanks for sharing, the idea of fail reports as /u/green49 mentioned is actually very good. EDIT: typo
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 09:26 PM
1

Yes, that's the point. Just like most posts here, there are good takeaways that help you improve your game.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 02:28 AM
3

I think the desireless that he presents is not so much supressing wants and needs, but essentially not coming off as needy and desperate, which can be a turn off. That's just my take on it.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 02:27 AM
4

What's a good way of becoming desireless? It's specially hard when you are engaged with women with a high SMV, and if you haven't had luck in the sack for a while. I know a couple of buddies who can be excellent and be gone, but I can tell they seem pretty eager to take the girl home... which means if I see that, she does too.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 10:29 PM
7

Take some time to finish reading it. I wouldn't have posted it here if it didn't make any sense.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 09:08 PM
4

Another guy a few days ago posted and went as far as making the girl ask for it, essentially playing the same trick right back at her... Needless to say, it worked flawlessly.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 07:38 PM
1

Check out GQ magazine and find a style that you like, and that looks good on you. If you start doing it right, it will be noticed rather quickly. Keep in mind, never wear baggy clothes and always make sure it's a nice fit.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 07:05 PM
6

I also own a shaving kit, it cost me about $100, but totally worth it. Straight razor (with safety), badger brush, shaving soap, razors and a bowl. I play some chill music and proceed with the ritual, take my time so I don't get any cuts. Not only it shaves much better, but it's how my grandpa taught my dad who taught me, nuff said.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 07:03 PM
8

Thanks for posting, and good job on maintaining frame. I fucked up in a similar situation not too long ago, but lesson learned.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 07:00 PM
8

I am already getting a straight razor shave and my haircut today. Let's do this.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 05:31 PM
9

we could prolly x-post this into /r/WTF
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 05:17 PM
4

I noticed some of this happens on our other RP subreddits (asktrp for example) when new folks come around and perhaps ask a question prematurely, without lurking and reading enough first. There's gotta be another way of purposefully answering these guys without perpetuating the bad habit of posting without studying.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 04:38 PM
0

What? The RP way is a long term commitment, yet you speak as if there's no tomorrow. Just quit bitching, get back into lifting and keep working hard for a better self tomorrow.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 05:04 AM
3

This, and get back to your old hobbies, do things that you like and make you feel good, and therefore a better man.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 12:45 AM
1

If you can actually leave your desk at times (rather than have to pay attention to the controls all the time) you can try networking with other employees, get to know other departments of the business, and pretty much all around learn as much as you can. This has done great things for me, including getting a better job within the same company.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 12:43 AM
1

First, find out what kind of leader you would like to be. Do you want to lead with charisma or fear? Then, act accordingly. A charismatic leader would act as a pacifier and defuse the situation quickly. A tough leader would call out the bullshit and use his power to intimidate the offending party. Pick one and master it, don't flip flop between the two.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 06:11 PM
1

Knowing that, I'd just say go onto the next one. Lesson learned, don't look back, keep moving.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 06:04 PM
1

What would be a good way to get out of that "all we do is fuck"? Ignoring it might just make her bring it up again
/r/askTRP05/11/14 05:51 PM
8

Here's the problem... You should have given her friend attention first. Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. If they have no clue what you are up to, they cannot prepare a defense. Guide them far enough down the wrong path, envelope them in enough smoke, and by the time they realize your intentions, it will be too late, and the hottie will be in your bed.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 05:38 PM
2

No, just wanted to see some thoughts. Maybe I'll just continue to see the stylist that I've always seen and drive the plate crazy, which could be good or bad.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 06:29 AM
1

Good point, so there's got to be a better way to phrase it, as to defuse her childish and boring attitude and carry with on with the more pleasing aspects of life.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:11 PM
1

I was just thinking here... but what if you were to test your plate saying something like this, telling her: "why would I do everything you want? I'll do what I want, and you'll join me because you want to. Would you rather be a lonely crybaby, or take a walk on the wild side with me?" Just a thought... Wonder what you guys think. edit: clarity
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 06:40 PM
1

damn, son... I wish I had read something like this about a week ago, when pretty much the same story happened to me... Massive amounts of making out, fooling around, even got around finger banging her, but I wasn't quick enough on my game to break through her LMR. on to the next.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 06:13 PM
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