I stumbled across an interesting article which cites a study in which people fell in love just from a series of questions followed by 4 minutes of gazing into each others' eyes: http://www.couriermail.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/how-to-fall-in-love-with-anyone-ask-36-questions-and-stare-into-their-eyes-for-four-minutes/story-fnihp23s-1227182605762?nk=8559ef70328e606fd63495da17c24c50

The reasons for this post are twofold:

  • Some of the questions fit within RP game for delving deeper with your target. I like "4. What would constitute a 'perfect' day for you?", and "13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?". Seems like these kind of questions would tell you a lot about whomever you are screening.

  • As a warning that this kind of article is likely to be picked up by feminist media and you may encounter these questions in the field. Most will be easy to deflect, e.g: "25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... “ “ could be met with "horny" or "my nuts", but some may be more challenging: "24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?" yekkh.

Any thoughts? Would like to hear funny responses to some of the others too (I have a few ideas).