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The best thing to do now is to start working on yourself. It sounds cliche but read and learn about relationships and how to build relationships. Learn about what you like and don’t like and how you should treat a partner. Focus on building your self esteem and self respect. You are still young so you have a lot of time to meet people and experience more.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/24 11:47 AM
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Thank you for this
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/24 10:58 AM
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I’m more emotionally detached after finding everything out, it’s just I feel repulsed by him now. Like since we still live together I don’t even like talking to him anymore. But I still get angry when he leaves. I guess it’s something I can work on more
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/24 10:56 AM
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This is a good point. It doesn’t align with my values
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/24 12:49 AM
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I will DM you, I don’t feel comfortable putting it in public
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/24 12:44 AM
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Yeah I never looked at him as a husband, I knew it wasn’t feasible because of the age gap lol. My family is able to send me money here and there, there’s not a position of me to become fully financially dependent on him, I am just a little spoiled by the lifestyle.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/24 11:11 PM
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That’s true. I honestly have separated my feelings after I found out, maybe this is the wrong sub to ask. I wanted to know if I should continue reaping the benefits, but as you said it may not be worth it
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/24 10:27 PM
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I understand. The good thing is that moving home is always an option, even if I decided to stay and things go left
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/24 10:16 PM
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There’s no student accommodation and anywhere else I would move would cost me money. And my family isn’t wealthy, so this situation is actually helping out my family financially as well
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/24 10:06 PM
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Better late than never. 32 is still okay. I know of people who did not get married until 35+ and have a beautiful family. Just work on bettering you and you will find someone. Since you relocated, you know have a whole new pool of people that you can meet 🙂
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/24 11:31 AM
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Take care of yourself by eating healthy, working out, skin care, etc. and you will look great after 30. I recently saw a woman who is 61 and body looks 25! Her instagram is @/glow_anna_glow if you don’t believe me lol. But there’s so many ways to ensure smooth aging these days. Just take care of yourself!
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 07:41 PM
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I like people because of the way they make me feel. So what works for me is thinking about how there’s someone out there that would treat me better. Start being attracted to who you are/how you feel when you are with a man. The best man I have been with only made me love myself more and feel more confident in myself. If you don’t like who you are with them (clingy, anxious, depressed, sad) then find someone worthy of your love.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/24 10:01 PM
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Interesting. Thanks
/r/seduction15/09/24 09:04 PM
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I understand. I would like to do my own research. Who’s the psychologist?
/r/seduction15/09/24 08:53 PM
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Okay. If you want to change the men you like then you will have to start liking the things about them. If you think only men who like video games will like you, start to enjoy video games. Or you can just pretend to be interested. Liking someone can grow as well. The more you try the more feelings you will have for them.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/24 08:20 PM
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You know exactly what to do if you’ve done it already :) Just do what works and keep doing it. Everyone can lose weight. If you believe it could be a health issue, you can check with your doctor to see if there is some other problem.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/24 07:58 PM
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It sounds like you should work on your mindset when it comes to these things. Saying you “can’t” do something puts a limit on who you are. It sounds cliche but you can do anything you put your mind to. You are able to change your life. No one deserves to die alone, you should be able to have close relationships. The only people who would make fun of you would be ignorant people who are racist. Studies show biracial people are seen as more attractive, intelligent and likely to be successful.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/24 07:34 PM
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So you would rather change who you like than work on yourself? Just exercise and cut calories and you will lose the weight. White guys are the main men who like slim girls
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/24 07:23 PM
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I am a woman but I have done major work/research on self esteem and confidence. Imagine the man that gets all the women you would want. Think of the type of man he is. What are his daily activities and what does he think about himself? What does he wear and how does he approach women? Is he witty? Is he serious? Is he laid back and nonchalant? Identify that. And start building skills to get you there. Rejection is just practice when it comes to dating. You build confidence by practicing as well …
/r/seduction15/09/24 12:24 PM
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Traditionally when a man and woman marry, the man is usually considered the leader, head of household, etc. So what the man’s life looks like before marriage, is usually the baseline for the life of the couple. Of course when married, men on average tend to improve in many aspects of their life, but that’s another conversation. For example, I am a woman who loves to travel, and I love the gym. So I cannot expect to marry a man who only plays video games and is scared of planes to do things that …
/r/seduction15/09/24 10:53 AM
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As a woman, I can confirm. One of the top things we look for in men is experience. A man’s lifestyle is what the woman’s lifestyle will most likely look like.
/r/seduction13/09/24 12:57 PM
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Thank you for your response!
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/24 02:09 AM
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It wasn’t overt or touching or anything. It was friendly, but he was blatantly asking me out. I wouldn’t say anything normally, but we live in the same neighborhood so I would see them often.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/24 12:46 AM
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I usually feel the same way about most things. I feel nervous and guilty about not being fully transparent. Thanks for your reply!
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/24 11:08 PM
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This is insightful, a great way to approach it. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/24 10:57 PM
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I feel the need to say something first in case they find out about it. Especially since the person knows my partner. Normally I wouldn’t though. I am probably just overthinking it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/24 10:23 PM
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I understand. What if it was someone that they know?
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/24 10:16 PM
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No I would not be able to tell you why. Do not cross them out though if they are willing to give you what you want. I recommended that age range because those men are the ones I see that are more open to settling down since you mentioned marriage. Also, older men tend to have more grace with younger women in terms of submissiveness. They expect younger women have more learning/experience to go through. It would be beneficial to be with someone who isn’t very hard on you as you are learning.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/24 12:24 AM
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Date older men. Mid 30s to early 40s (or older if you’re open). In terms of submission, I’ve learned that it is always better to say less than you know. Men like to feel smarter and in control. So we have to give it to them. Men love to have their ego stroked. Realize that we as women should not have to do what men do. If you want a strong man, you have to trust him to lead. Try watching videos on feminine energy. Jillz Guerin, awwlexis, and Jasmyne Theodora are some of my favorites. It may take…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 11:47 PM
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I have always been attracted to men who were providers. I am currently in a relationship with someone who takes care of >90% of my expenses. My only expenses total around $500 a month. I am planning to marry a provider man. And he has told me from his own mouth that he wants a woman who would want to stay at home. So it’s possible and those men are out there :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 11:28 PM
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I would recommend creating an idea of who you want to be. Your dream girl. Think of all the qualities that she has and start embodying those qualities every day. Every day you should think to yourself “what can I do today to get me closer to who I want to be?” Trust me you will start to feel more confident.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 11:24 PM
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