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What’s wrong about the stuff he wrote? People in this sub do constantly disregard men’s experiences and you’re doing it too as we speak. Women on the other hand get unlimited benefit of the doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:12 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:01 AM
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We do work that way we are programmed a certain way, just because you’re oblivious to your programming doesn’t make you any less programmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:33 AM
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But that’s literally just not true though every human cares about external validation regardless of gender, even the sex part is a validation thing if it wasn’t then men wouldn’t be as hesitant to just bang hookers but it doesn’t hit the same as being valued sexually by someone. Same goes for being valued as a person by others, these are common human needs there’s more to us than our libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:31 AM
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I’d make the same argument if it was a woman instead of a man but that would never make the internet in the first place bc if it’s a woman being photographed she wouldn’t be seen as the bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:30 PM
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It definitely would be more acceptable, going straight to the internet without knowing intent is pretty fucked up imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:25 PM
7

Is this rage bait? Sleeping in your own home naked is a passive act, 🍇 however isn’t. I can’t with you people yall are fkn insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:07 PM
3

It’s DoorDash not the mafia, if they didn’t do anything about it she could’ve posted it on the internet after that. Probably would’ve gotten quite a bit of money after exposing and/or sueing DoorDash.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:02 PM
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The crime being jerking off in your own home? I mean did he flash her? Was he jerking off to her? Or did he just forgot to close the door?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:48 PM
2

The explanation could be just being careless or forgetting to close the door?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:47 PM
4

Yes obviously they’re not allowed to photograph it wtf? I mean if you do that it’s very much possible someone films it but that doesn’t make it any less unethical
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:44 PM
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Man it must be draining asf to hate your own gender this much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:26 PM
14

Men will never have this kind of solidarity, it’s a dog eat dog world and will always be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:43 PM
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Discouraging cold approaches would only remove the decent people from your pool though, the aggressive assertive ones who don’t give a fk what people think would approach regardless so you’ll be left with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:10 PM
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It’s not about effort it’s about not wanting to get humiliated over and over again in front of everybody it’s not like most rejections are civil if you’re in the category of undesirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 11:53 PM
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I think she’s equating misogyny with being red pilled like any man who’s resentful towards women is red pilled in her book. Either that or she’s confusing black pill with red.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:57 AM
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Nail on the head
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:45 AM
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Below average of your perception of below average
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:36 AM
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The one that yields results and is more solution oriented ie the redpill but if they won’t actually apply it irl then obviously it’s not gonna do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:34 AM
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I don’t see how you can be red pilled and not follow any of its ideology starting with the most basic ones like improving your physique or being confident and social. They don’t seem redpill they just seem incompetent, resentful and jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:32 AM
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In your head average seems like being reasonably good at everything, reality however is much more disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:30 AM
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No they were feminist because they had empathy, when they noticed that feminists make sweeping generalizations and demonize men as a whole they turn their back to them because they don’t want to be seen as bad for having a penis. Not to mention the double standards when it comes to body positivity, why would men be feminists when to this day expressions like “small dick energy” are normalized?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:47 AM
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Ok fine, were most people you slept with conventionally attractive? How many actual ugly men have you hooked up with?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:09 PM
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Yes? You quoted my name because you see a man being feminine as inherently negative, can I not be myself in peace? Is wanting a partner that accepts me for me too much to ask for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:37 PM
0

Blue pill homophobic man? Goes to show personality don’t mean jack shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:32 PM
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Who’s talking about you in particular? In general chads just win with no effort, doesn’t mean non chads can’t win, they’re just gonna have to work thrice as much for half as desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:59 PM
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Eyesight
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:39 PM
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Being excluded is the thief of joy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:31 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:34 AM
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Implying being gay is a negative quality?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:31 AM
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Flair checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:39 AM
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Chads just win by default
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:36 AM
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I agree as an angry man on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:29 AM
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Masculinity is associated with being big that’s all there is to it, bigger is without a doubt better when it comes to aesthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:42 AM
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Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:22 AM
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Stanford professor https://youtu.be/vX6jKdIBNKI?si=BaY4A8WbtJ0GTvVk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:19 AM
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Dr Robert Sapolsky says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:15 AM
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All it shows is luck and how good your genes/ developmental environment was.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:10 AM
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Sure there are, height is a number, income is a number, weight is a number, symmetry is a number, social status is also sorta quantifiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:07 AM
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Be attractive Don’t be unattractive Common in pill lingo spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:04 PM
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Worst part is they’re not even gaslighting they actually believe in it when they give this advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 05:23 PM
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Have whatever standards you want no matter how out of your reach they are, just don’t whine about it when it doesn’t work out your way bc aiming for the top %10 men will only work out your way if you happen to be in a similar category, otherwise you’ll just get pumped and dumped then whine about how there’s no good men anymore on two x.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:16 PM
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Each factor is amplified by another
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:19 PM
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Are they ugly and Indian and neurodivergent too? Cuz if not then we’re not in the same boat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:08 PM
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You ain’t in the west how would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:52 AM
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I just assume no one’s ever into me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:27 AM
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Nope no sex no relationship, I’d be down to hangout platonically though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 09:23 AM
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Why is witch hunting ok when women do it wtf leave the guy alone and focus on the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:50 PM
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Sabrina Carpenter is considered universally attractive and she’s like 4’11
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:03 AM
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Ah shit I read it as “I’d love to be with him” my bad g
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:47 PM
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Why don’t you ask him out?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:39 PM
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I mean she listed every type there is, might as well include the uggo on the totem pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:59 PM
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On average maybe so but you exclude any group the economy falls apart
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:24 PM
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Do most women fit that description? If not then there you go. Also the ones that do are still contributing to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 12:44 PM
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If they make money and spend money they’re contributing to society so I don’t get where you’re coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 12:42 PM
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Everyone should be judged to some level for their past, sexual or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:08 AM
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Not very blue pilled of you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:20 AM
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Where would the pleasant and likable but hideous man stand in this order?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:19 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 03:28 PM
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Believe it or not 5ft people exist, I know several myself both online and offline
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:25 PM
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I could hoe around if I wanted to though 99% women can nothing special about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:15 PM
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I’m just curious is all, height is a part of hotness and just because other factors exist doesn’t mean they’re controllable either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:34 AM
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Don’t dodge the question, if women didn’t care men would care a whole lot less.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:20 AM
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How tall is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:31 AM
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None were 666 but they were exactly my type I’m guessing they were all at least 6ft?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:30 AM
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How about like a 5ft guy? If you had an emotional connection with him would you feel lust?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:28 AM
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Should they just expect a transactional relationship then? A relationship of convenience as opposed to passion?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:25 AM
4

Can you tell me more about the Korean spec thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:56 AM
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Ye if he exist he a sadistic fk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:08 PM
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Yes just close your eyes let your imagination do the work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:47 AM
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Nah although it’d be quite hard she could still get laid you underestimate how degenerate men are
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:12 AM
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This seems to be a medical condition people don’t just get this obese from lack of self control there’s most of the time some predisposition
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:51 AM
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The Sopranos
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:41 AM
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No blue pilled misandrist man it hasn’t “cured” my depression I’m sure you’d be happy to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:11 PM
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Why don’t you go for black women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:24 PM
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Chads are their own race
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 07:27 AM
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If you’re conventionally attractive why 99% of your posts are about ugly men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:46 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:54 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:32 AM
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I don’t think I’ve ever seen you change your mind on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:33 AM
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Don’t spread misinformation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:32 AM
2

Yes because society is more rewarding when you act like a narcissist vs when you act “autistic” for a lack of a better term. I’d be more scared about society being more rewarding than altering one’s behavior to be an asshat as a way of fitting in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:43 PM
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So no argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:40 PM
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I would hope normal people aren’t as sociopathic but whatever makes you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:36 PM
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How would you know? There are people here who have applied this and know people who’ve applied this and their social standing improved dramatically, she’s completely right being a self absorbed c*nt is a lot more rewarding than being yourself when you’re an autist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:31 PM
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I’m glad you get to feel good about yourself watching other people be miserable, it’s what I expect from the women of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:27 PM
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Ah my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:32 AM
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Why mildly? Why not just as much as straight men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:47 AM
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Is this a common thing? I’ve literally never seen a man not take no for an answer, if anything they assume a no before there even is an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:06 AM
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Assuming they’re misogynistic is how they rationalize dehumanizing them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:51 PM
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You don’t want repetitive posts you’re on the wrong sub
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:50 PM
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Why are you even focused on this one rare scenario though? All the charming hot men get a pass for abuse but the nerdy guy gets outed as an asshat and all hell breaks loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:44 PM
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As opposed to criminals who have baby mamas? The ones rotting in jail and have anger issues and drug and alcohol addiction are all good traits for being a parent or a partner? Sexual selection isn’t as rational as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:30 PM
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No women don’t see average men, they do perceive unattractive men and are offended that they’re in the same proximity as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:18 AM
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Personally I feel like I’m violating boundaries by making eye contact with women, I understand it’s irrational but I can’t help it. I feel like a creep looking them in the eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:05 AM
2

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:43 AM
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Nah any autistic woman really, past level 2 would be hard that much I can agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:33 AM
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Did he use the word expected? Or is this also an assumption?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:32 AM
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They’re upset we even exist like they’re baffled when they see us in public not being a 24/7 shut in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:16 AM
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Neurodivergent
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:02 AM
5

Giving up is more like having no expectations from them or not caring about social norms anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:19 AM
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Same lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:12 AM
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Lol no it’s because they get a kick out of putting men down + they’re offended that the guy in question even thought he had a chance with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:33 PM
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Most men are completely fine with a regular normal civil rejection, it’s being humiliated and being laughed at is what stops them from ever initiating, most women don’t know how it feels to be eww’d at and even then that’s not even the worst case. It can break you beyond repair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:51 PM
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Self improvement is subjective, getting a hair transplant, lean bulking and being confident/socially savvy will certainly improve your attractiveness to women but as always your mileage varies on your base, the better base you have the more your self improvement will amplify the results, for some folks no amount of improvement will do anything but that’s not the case for the average failure of a normie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:22 PM
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I’m not trying to make her feel bad I’m just saying her situation isn’t the same as the situation of an average woman, I personally too have a plethora of physical issues half my head is grey at 22 but I can acknowledge I don’t represent the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:53 PM
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Seems like you got all the shitty genes, the average woman doesn’t have all this shit so let’s not act like the entire gender has to do all this shit. Most women don’t have severe acne, blonde lashes, genetic dark circles and whatever the else fuck you got, this is just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:41 PM
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I said do you want me to be beat people into liking me? Like is that what you’re suggesting when you paint being the physically stronger gender as some huge social advantage? You’re either disingenuous or have no reading comprehension. You don’t live in that era anymore you don’t have to give birth and the risk is hella fucking low so don’t go crying about some Stone Age survival rate shit you’re the ungrateful brat here live in the goddamn present. A lot of women also claim to be the superior g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:29 PM
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Acne can be treated with salicylic acid which is ridiculously cheap, hyperpigmentation can be treated by kojic acid/hydroquinone also really cheap and these issues aren’t limited to one gender if anything I see more men with acne than women. Who’s asking you to have curly hair? Isn’t the beauty standard straight/slightly wavy hair which at best requires a cheap ass hair straightener? Who’s asking you to have blonde lashes or brows? Most women don’t dye their brows and lashes, brow pencils are fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:25 PM
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We live in a civilized cooperative society do you want me to just randomly beat people into liking me? And not every man has strong genes it don’t work that way but that doesn’t change that I’m expected to be strong bc of my gender which is so amazingly fkd. Logically superior? I’ve certainly never claimed that, the only thing close to that would be women have the privilege of cognitive dissonance bc no one dares to correct them out of fear of being ostracized.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:19 PM
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Men have it harder in any social thing ever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:25 PM
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Who tf does all this shit where do i find these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:02 PM
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When you do something there’s always a risk of something being wrong, that’s how you learn to correct it and not make the same mistakes. Someone who never gets a chance to experience will never get the chance to grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:53 AM
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At least they’ll get some experience and with experience they can learn and adapt, the uggo bluepiller would just be alone and then get nihilistic as he’s pushing forties.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:58 AM
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At least they can end up with a partner, undesirable men who are still deluded by blue pill will end up alone with a bunch of cats as their best case scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:31 AM
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“They” is society in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:58 AM
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He’s saying what women do doesn’t register as sexual harassment in people’s head so of course the statistics will be skewed since no one is willing to acknowledge it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:17 AM
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Two different groups of men, or the former complaining about doing creepy shit to the latter, use your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:47 AM
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They’re mad about yall lying lol we all know about the drive thing only one of us is in denial of it though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:32 PM
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Same reason hardcore misandrists still date and hook up, hard to ignore your biological drive or at the very least being content without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:18 PM
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He ain’t wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:13 AM
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Like you can look at your dreams and fantasies but that’s about as good as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:12 AM
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I’m doomed to a life of slavery and at best mediocrity, I’ve been in therapy for 4 years btw. Nothing helps when your depression is a rational response to shitty circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:19 PM
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r/greentext r/4chan is full of openly racist and transphobic people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:55 PM
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Those were just two factors I listed, the list of traits that screw men over and can’t be fixed by gym or therapy are endless. What’s the point of trying when the destination is so ridiculously far away I couldn’t even get there in my dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:26 PM
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No gym for face or height, Chads are born not made.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:18 PM
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Because there’s a difference of privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:10 PM
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Not joking most men are inherently disgusting and the shit cherry on top is the usual lack of hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:57 PM
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Yes and I stand by it, men are disgusting and I do not wanna be somewhere their disgusting parts have been, it doesn’t matter how irrational it is to you it’s how me and a lot of other men will always feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:54 PM
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True You just countered like the hundred arguments you made on this very thread? If you don’t meet the initial threshold nothing else matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:14 AM
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Literally everyone is selectively empathetic no one is empathetic towards every group
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:49 AM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:00 AM
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No I do mean a bit of a dick, being cocky is attractive if you’re the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:28 AM
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There’s only two steps, be attractive and be a bit of a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:07 AM
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The purest form of love!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:55 AM
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What exactly did you do to finally get a girlfriend? Where do you read and explore the red pill like is there a book or?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:34 AM
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and he’s soooo handsome There’s the transaction part, you wouldn’t put up with shit if he wasn’t handsome. That’s the catch folks just be attractive all else is forgiven.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:20 AM
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“Hey have you seen this other bad thing that makes up for this bad thing you’re talking about?”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:22 PM
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Think you’re being paranoid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 07:59 PM
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Unfortunately not how biology works
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 07:55 PM
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The silence is deafening
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 07:29 PM
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No way this is from jaw surgery alone, I don’t even think they’re the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:01 PM
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Simping in the name of “Chivalry”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:08 PM
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They don’t go announcing it bc of the stigma
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:12 AM
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Meeks had a baby with a billionaire in case you weren’t aware
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:40 AM
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Nah being a criminal definitely made his odds so much better, women like men who aren’t afraid to break the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:39 AM
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The one that rhymes with trope
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:57 AM
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Natural selection = Survival Sexual selection = Having the privilege of being able to pass on your genes The first one has to do with how well your body and mind has adapted to the environment you’re in and how productive it is in making you survive and thrive so it has to do with practicality and not much to do with looks so no it’s not natural selection it’s rather sexual selection which is way more arbitrary and follows societal influenced preferences in that you could have completely normal …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:31 PM
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Those hundreds of women aren’t special though, Jennifer Lawrence is and that’s why the novelty thing. It’s a forbidden fruit thing and the more out of reach it is the bigger the desire to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:12 PM
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That’s because of novelty not status
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:09 PM
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Well she isn’t being transparent at the very least, like how would you feel if a woman waited til the 4th date to tell you she has herpes? People have the right to reject you for whatever reason and if you’re purposefully waiting for them to be emotionally invested so you don’t get rejected later on then it’s manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:23 PM
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You can be cocky, arrogant, boastful, a complete self absorbed c*nt and still have the skills to back it up at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:07 PM
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No I expect them to have the decency to announce it beforehand instead of waiting til you’re emotionally invested
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:57 PM
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Surprised to hear condescension? From you? Nah that’s usually the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:10 AM
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People can think or be one thing and want people to think something other, pushing an agenda for self benefit is extremely common especially when the entire thing is self reported and who’s to say this is the only survey? Maybe they did multiple and published the one that benefited them the most?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:49 PM
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Self reported with a sample of 150 people. Just because a study exists doesn’t mean it’s credible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:02 PM
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How are you promiscuous and find every man ugly at the same time? Do you just sleep around with men while also being repulsed by them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:45 PM
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You find every man ugly and are promiscuous at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:20 PM
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What is Somalia supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:19 PM
0

Providing a home is monetary though, either split the bills or do more share of the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:49 PM
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Being 6’3 alone puts him at quite a high level especially if he has a fairly full head of hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:13 PM
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Well yeah anyone can starfish I don’t see how that’s relevant, she mentioned dancing because of moves, flexibility or rhythm etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:34 AM
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You know who’s even better in bed? People who workout and have a healthy bmi which is somehow an unreasonable expectation apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:21 AM
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Debates with the main premise being that an entire big ass group needs to change is pointless, you can’t control everyone you can’t change everyone or even anyone for that matter, you can only change how you react to the situations presented to you, life is a single player game. Men need to yada yada stfu doesn’t fucking work most of them would do anything for pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:20 PM
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True women want the naturally hot guy, muscles on an uggo is lipstick on a pig.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:13 PM
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He doesn’t though? Why would we put 100% of our efforts knowing damn well we don’t have any innate value as opposed to Chad who’s worshipped for his existence? I’d rather just be a cat lad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:34 PM
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It’s not laziness, juice ain’t worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:31 PM
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Ugly men are not a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:06 PM
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Yes and they don’t argue against it they’re transparent with it, also they don’t mistreat unattractive women unprompted bc the social consequences are often severe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:28 AM
4

Like you literally avoid interacting with shorter men? Even platonically or in professional settings?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:24 AM
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The difference is that men are straightforward with that, they’ll agree with you that yes they treat them differently there’s no virtue signaling you know head on what the game is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:15 PM
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So 5’11?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:14 PM
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Being a little overweight changes nothing if you have good height good frame good bone structure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:31 PM
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Because if they out themselves in male spaces then betabuxx would be less of a thing, they want all the perks of simpy men and of Chads at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:44 PM
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It’s a hyperbole, most of the time it ends up in their favor it’s not a police issue it’s cultural attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:14 PM
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Those are the ones you hear about, not the 99% other ones that end up in the favor of the innocent person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:05 PM
2

You think all or most doomers are mass shooters? You sound unhinged
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:04 PM
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Calling someone worthless for being nihilistic sounds incredibly harsh, they too are either directionless or truly screwed by their circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:57 PM
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No this is what women tell the men of this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:44 PM
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My guess is to tell men how worthless they are and they deserve being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:39 PM
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Why would calling the cops make their situation worse? You don’t live in that shit of a world I think you need to relax with the excuses and do some self reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:14 AM
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Privilege is invisible to those who have it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:07 PM
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I said immutable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:05 PM
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Men who excluded have things in common so yes it is exclusion it’s not an individual thing you’re being bred out for having specific immutable traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:53 PM
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🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:12 PM
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On Reddit yes it’s incredibly common
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:34 PM
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Nope children refers to both boys and girls, when the term “women and children” (also includes old and disabled folks usually) is used they’re basically saying provide special care to those who can’t protect themselves which in some situations is definitely sexist but I can see a scenario or two where I’d agree with it, also depends on who the woman is bc the average woman def can’t just get up and go to war or some shit at least not at the level of an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:36 PM
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Nope too lazy to site sources but I remember seeing them so I’ll still use em as proof idc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:07 PM
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I’ve seen abusive men sure but that wasn’t my question though? She said she’s dated on both sides of the looks spectrum so I’m curious how the ugliest person she dated looked like. Ain’t got nothing to do with behavior that’s not the question here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:46 PM
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Jews, Indians, Asians (some), Muslims, Short men, Men with small dicks, Men with small hands. Probably more but this is all I could come up with off the top of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:23 PM
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Nah not any group for some groups it’s A okay to generalize no one will care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:06 PM
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Could you possibly paint me a vague picture? Just rate his face, and then height then body type and hair that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:54 PM
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Why are you assuming those are the ways he’ll use to humble his children? There are healthier ways to teach your kid to not abuse social hierarchies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:39 PM
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Most people aren’t demisexual though so your case doesn’t really apply here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:34 PM
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That’s not a change in taste it’s just a defense mechanism
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:32 PM
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What did the ugliest person you dated look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:30 PM
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Doesn’t stop women from dating them and having kids with them for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:17 PM
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I guess 1/4 women have kids with incompetent bums? Wonder why that is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:54 PM
2

I agree with you there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:04 AM
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If you mean the number of people with red hair in the entire world is similar to intersex people then it’d check out, the reason you think being red headed isn’t that uncommon is bc they aren’t that spread out, most of them are in Northern/Eastern Europe and NA.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:42 AM
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Being intersex is biological even though it’s rare
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:19 AM
1

Yes you can both be competent and acknowledge that the game is rigged from the very beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:07 AM
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Women are seen as more beautiful = Men are less picky and have a more lenient perception of what constitutes as a beautiful woman Men’s body being seen as more utilitarian = Not pretty to look at but produces results which isn’t true if you look at some of the most beautiful men on the planet which confirms the point that not just women but the world as a whole has a very high standard for what constitutes as a physically attractive man. Also men have way more testosterone which increases libido…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:09 PM
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Crazy how so many people here can’t shut up about how prudish society is and demonize sex at the same time, it’s ok to want sex even if it’s crazy caveman sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:56 AM
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Why big if? It checks out if you look at any attractive man’s profile
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:18 PM
3

Glue a fake beard to your face that should do the trick
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:31 PM
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It’s a loud online minority no one goes up to people to tell them how revolting their piercing is in person especially men they can’t even get themselves to ask women out let alone being openly insulting to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:14 PM
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You can speed up aging if you’re so looking forward to it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:41 PM
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You can do that pretty easily just buzz your hair, get some tattoos, a septum piercing and don’t wear make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 09:34 PM
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Didn’t know you represented all women, I thought they weren’t supposed to be monolithic?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:48 AM
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Where is this telepathic radar when women date men with giant red flags?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:45 AM
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Totally normal can have irregularities it’s a broad spectrum, most of America is fat so the totally normal man would be too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:44 AM
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Isn’t this more common in women though? Getting attached to your fwb? Likely bc they can sleep with a much more attractive man and delude themselves that if he’s willing to fuck he’d also be willing to date? But sure men can get attached too even when they’re not supposed to even though it goes against the PPD narrative of men being emotionless horny apes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:24 AM
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Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 10:34 AM
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He’s right though they get more positive reinforcement so as a result have a chance to develop their personalities more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 10:33 AM
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I don’t know why anyone bothers listening to normies in the first place, it’s beyond their capabilities to imagine someone not meet the basic criteria to be even treated as a human let alone being dateable. Just observe people in a similar position to you and trial and error that’s about the only productive way to move forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 08:06 AM
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Skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 07:47 AM
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They are not trolling this level of obliviousness is very common in privileged people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:23 PM
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Long ass essay just to say you can’t pull the man you actually want as if men can easily pull women they actually want. Men just shoot for less because they know their place you still won’t get the Prince Charming version of a woman if you were a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:22 PM
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You know what you have to do but you’re not gonna do it and then you go blaming the world for it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:10 PM
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Then prioritize character over superficial things it’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:39 PM
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Yes you feel the need to avoid dating men so you can be dateable to women, it affects self esteem which is why the need for denial in the first place. If society wasn’t as harsh on male homosexuality then there would be a lot less denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:51 PM
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I disagree I think women are a lot more comfortable knowing they’re into women than men are knowing they’re into men, the level of denial is way higher in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:28 PM
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By you guys you mean chronically online red pillers? No one in the real world who’s socially adept thinks like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:12 PM
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The vast majority of men do need to prove, doesn’t mean they go around introducing themselves by saying Hey there I’m definitely not a basement dweller with 200gb worth of niche porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:40 AM
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You might not have to prove anything, which means you also come under the said privileges. Lack of awareness in this sub is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:12 AM
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The person you’re replying to definitely fits that description.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:53 PM
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Lesbians hating straight men is not a common phenomenon which is I’m asking for a study.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:49 PM
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Making snap judgements/assumptions about people and animals is human nature, it’s how we’ve survived for thousands of years. Of course to some level people will keep an open mind but most of judgement happens instantaneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:50 PM
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No I’m not, please provide studies or statistics to back your “Lesbians loathe men” claim bc that hasn’t been my experience outside of femcel subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:45 PM
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Bold of you to assume we get judged after we say something. Most of that happens when you enter their fov and then you gotta be all smiley and friendly and shit but not enough to come off as a simpy doormat. Regardless of what people say or think online they are not stupid enough to say it out loud in person bc the consequences are severe. You are privileged and you just won’t get it, it’s like explaining how starving feels to a person born in wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:45 PM
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No you receive bad advice even if you tell them all the important main details and sure some of it is just generic advice that seems like virtue signalling but in reality it’s just them being oblivious to how the world works when you don’t make the cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:40 PM
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It’s not their fault you miss the context of the vast majority of discussions in this sub. The others already know what advice OP is referring to and how oblivious they are to how courtship works from a straight male perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:38 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:36 PM
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You come under the “privileged ignorance” group, the rest of us have to prove that we’re decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:35 PM
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Fym sheep you don’t know a single thing about him he’s brilliant and saying he’s better educated is a huge understatement
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:09 PM
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He is far more intelligent and educated than anyone in this sub ever will be even if they dedicated their entire life to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:59 PM
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They’re free to breed more suffering although I don’t know why someone would wanna have a child just for it to almost certainly have a shitty life but if that floats your boat then have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:48 PM
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Oh that’s easy just get drunk and then ask her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:56 PM
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For one I think slut shaming existed before religion was ever a thing but that’s not my point. All I’m saying is that religious people participating in manosphere and writing pill lingo sounds like a rare occurrence, most religious people are chronically offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:35 AM
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I don’t think religious people are this chronically online especially when it comes to niche subcultures although I do remember stats that GenZ is getting more religious for some random ass reason and they’re also shifting more right than previous generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:28 AM
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No I am not offended by it because it feels natural, like the way evolution intended. You don’t have to be into men to look around and find the vast majority of men ridiculously repulsive and revolting so it’s only natural to not want someone who has had multiple men inside of them. Women on the other hand? I don’t care how many women other women sleep with, it’s the purest form of sex as far as I’m concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:24 AM
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r/shortguys been having this conversation multiple times on a daily basis for over a decade, idk what the mods are scared of they’re not gonna get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:06 AM
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No it’s bc no one gives a shit about megathreads
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:32 PM
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Men are simpler in the sense that they don’t bullshit as much about their preferences and priorities
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:17 PM
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They won’t agree with it, doesn’t mean it’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:08 AM
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I’m jealous of their soft skin, lush hair and general neotony.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:50 PM
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Normal people don’t talk like this about anyone let alone one of the most social protected group.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:50 PM
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Rule 1 and 2
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:40 PM
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He didn’t say anything about unemployed men, he said instead of trying to date in their socioeconomic status they try to date up and shoot for the top percentage of men in terms of fame and money amongst what’s available in their area.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:14 PM
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Making 10-20k more than your partner doesn’t count as similar in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:06 PM
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No that’s not the point, making enough money to not be financially dependent on anyone is not sufficient enough to meet the financial criteria for most women. You either need to make good money or at the very least more than them and even after that you have to fulfill some more arbitrary “masculine” requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:19 PM
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How do you jump from puppy love to grooming wtf is this some internalized misandry thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:15 PM
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Imagine having someone so cuckoo for you you flip their entire belief system, that’s gotta feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:08 PM
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I’ve never seen men not accepting the first no, if anything they accept the rejection before the woman even says anything so I don’t know why you’re operating under that assumption. Just ask men here how often they receive hostility while being perfectly civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:19 AM
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No one considers a civil rejection as hostility, when he say “hostile” he means getting irrationally angry or irritated or name calling or whatever the vast majority of people would consider an overreaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:03 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:52 PM
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No that’d feel like charity, I don’t wanna be settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:51 PM
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I think it’s not severe enough to be considered OCD but also bad enough that it makes me wanna rot in bed all day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:45 PM
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Why is the world outside my room so damn contaminated? I need like 3 showers in a row to recover from touching grass
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:21 PM
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Is that why I constantly see people shitting on the way they speak? Barely being able to form a sentence doesn’t count as speaking a language in my book, if you wanna hate em so bad just grow a pair and be straight about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:53 PM
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Most countries outside the west don’t even speak good enough English and aren’t well versed into the western culture to be the incel majority, stop blaming minorities for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:23 PM
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She wants to scapegoat minorities
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:22 PM
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No it’s code for I wanna be desired for who I am not for what I can provide you with, if me suddenly losing my job or feeling low or particularly quiet is enough for you to lose attraction then I don’t want your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:35 AM
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If they were willing to compromise they’d get some action.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:20 AM
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No I’m not a woman and I don’t know why that’s even relevant, why isn’t the question about pegging when the content has blatant implications of pegging?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:09 AM
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I’m sure it beats jerking themselves off with Cheeto residue on their hands
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:07 AM
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We expect them to be good bc they can get pegged by women if they wanted to, if they don’t then oh well their loss. They brought it on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:06 AM
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How isn’t it relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:55 AM
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I’m sure if you advertise that on tinder you’ll have men doing whatever it is you want them to do, they’d even do some submissive humiliation shit if that floats your boat. Men will take anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:54 AM
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It wasn’t a compliment not even a backhanded one, you’re grass starved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:53 AM
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Most were white, rest were mixed white and a couple of blacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 11:50 PM
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Yeah they settle and use their man and treat him as a doormat and kick him out the house if he doesn’t get them their unreasonably expensive demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 11:30 PM
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They already know, they’ve known that since forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 11:29 PM
1

Yes when they don’t have any other options they date down in terms of looks and up in terms of money
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 11:03 PM
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What would you rather do? Settle for a nice but ugly guy that gives you no tingles, fulfill your innate drive of having a kid, have a financial safety net or keep getting pumped and dumped by Chad in your 30s? Most women end up choosing the former
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 11:01 PM
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No the top 20% pretty much only exist in western country, even 3rd world women are white supremacists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:16 PM
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Overwhelming majority of men who got married in their 30s yes they’re betabuxx
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:14 PM
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Why not? Betabuxx has been an extremely common thing for decades
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:05 PM
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I don’t know why yall like to do so much mental gymnastics like just literally say you like top 20% ain’t nothing gonna happen to you there’s nothing anyone can do about it just stop bullshitting it achieves nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:50 PM
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We were talking about the pattern of white men who typically vote for Asian women. You ain’t the centre of the universe hate to break it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:35 PM
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What’d you see?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:01 PM
0

Problem isn’t that it’ll affect their dating life, it’s about violation of privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:04 AM
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If they’re on the app clearly they’re having no issues and as long as they’re attractive or high status enough they will continue to have no issues no matter how obvious their red flags are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:48 AM
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Lmao no the point you’re thinking of is that women would date a literal 🍇ist if he’s attractive enough, there have been chadfish experiments on this. Same with being a Nazi or being a pdf shockingly enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:26 AM
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Tbh I’d be pretty intimidated in an environment where 95% of people are women, I’d feel like a creep just for being there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:27 PM
0

Why don’t men join them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:22 PM
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Women tend to be a lot more social adept so this doesn’t really check out both if you look at studies and anecdotes. It’s men who are having a loneliness epidemic women can have social support just fine bc they’re much more sociable and easy going.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:55 PM
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You’re surprised this sub still exists? Check out r/shortguys they’ve been professional incels for over a decade
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:11 PM
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1984
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:56 PM
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most couples are intraracial You’re assuming he’s not including his own ethnicity in dating, if he were to remove every other race his already small dating pool would get even smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:47 PM
1

You know you’re privileged and you’re still blue pilled? How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:20 PM
2

Yep they’re power hungry freaks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 04:03 PM
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Ye bc they can fuck the man without having to pay them, it’s exactly the same thing just easier so they don’t gotta pay. Y’all make wildly hypocritical claims and then whine when people don’t take your arguments as unbiased.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:40 PM
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It’d be a lot less gross if I was a woman myself that’s for damn sure. Ain’t my fault I got the wrong chromosome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:48 PM
2

I don’t have a problem with sex neither do I hate men, I just they’re incredibly disgusting and repulsive like no hate it just feels like objective reality to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:37 PM
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It’s not dirty if you do it yourself it’s dirty when other people do it. It’s like you can spit on your own food and it’s A-okay but if someone else spits on your food you don’t wanna it anymore, except if you find that person attractive. This analogy might sound objectifying but this how most people think. They don’t want other men spitting on their food, them spitting on their own food is fine. This is regardless of gender btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:34 PM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:24 PM
2

Nice to know you find my chronic treatment resistant clinical depression funny 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:22 AM
2

Ok so I said both men and women treat ugly people like shit so why’d you call me an incel lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:30 AM
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It’s a byproduct of seeing women as pure and men as demonic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:09 AM
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Because men are hairy and violent and ugly and big and sexually assault at a much higher rate and have hairy ugly penises with their animalistic testosterone. Sex isn’t disgusting, men are. Lesbian sex is a work of art. Also you can get steralized if you’re so concerned about pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 11:16 PM
2

?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:28 PM
6

You think the rest of this sub is reasonable people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:14 PM
0

Yeah I figured that’s what you meant, I agree with you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:58 PM
1

You’d rather she cheat on you with a man than a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:53 PM
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It’s like talking to a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:22 PM
2

Do you understand the word imbalance? They don’t care about the power imbalance relative to their man, they care about power imbalance relative to other men. Learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:03 PM
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That’s true gay men tend to be a lot more sex positive all around and they still catch way more shit than lesbian couples because again, male sexuality is seen as inherently disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:02 PM
0

They like power imbalances when it comes to men competing with other men, they couldn’t care less about them having less power than the man they’re dating. A 6’3 woman would be content with a 6’1 man because he’s still taller than other men, even though he’s shorter than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:58 PM
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A short woman wants a tall man, a tall woman also wants a tall man, a rich woman wants a rich man, a poor woman also wants a rich man. It’s not about where they themselves stand, it’s about climbing the hierarchy for their own status. If they’re already high up on the hierarchy then it’s about maintaining that hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:55 PM
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I don’t think they necessarily want a man in a significantly higher position than themselves, it’s probably more that they want a man in a higher position than the men around them so it isn’t a power imbalance they’re looking after. Status is what they’re looking for to have power amongst their social circle and to validate their own self worth. (i.e I pulled a high value man = I’m high value myself)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:47 PM
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Most men care about body count not because they’re misogynistic or jealous but because they see sex with men as something dirty, gross and disgusting which is why they don’t care if a woman sleeps with a 100 women but would care if she slept with 10 men. Women are guilty of this too in that they don’t much care about men’s body count but will reject a bisexual man bc he slept with men. Bottom line, everyone regardless of their own gender sees sex with men as contaminating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:38 PM
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Get a diagnosis for autism, even if you don’t have that I do think it’s possible to get benefits for generalized anxiety disorder if it’s severe enough. For college I’d suggest get into nursing, for entry level nursing (Licensed Practical Nurse/Licensed Vocational Nurse) all you need is a one year diploma/certification, pass an exam and then apply for license. For higher level (Registered Nurse, higher demand + higher pay) you need a two year associates although bachelor’s is preferred and would…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:40 AM
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Do you have any form of neurodivergence or anything that could possibly get you government benefits for disability? That extra couple hundred can make a huge difference, you could possibly afford therapy and get on medications. You should probably try going back to college and make money your first priority. Also try and walk 15-30 minutes everyday, you don’t have to jog, it doesn’t have to be on a particular schedule, just do it everyday it’ll help with weight and energy levels in general. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:16 AM
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Your problems are far beyond dating at that point, if you want the next 20 years of life to be enjoyable I suggest you start working towards it, in 2-3 years your life could be completely different for the better. Main priority should be money though I don’t imagine you wanna be working at 80 with no life savings no insurance no nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 03:54 AM
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Be tall, don’t age like shit, have a fairly full head of hair, make good money in a non nerdy career.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 03:47 AM
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Inability to understand nuance Anyone who says differently is “exception to the rule” “outliers” or “virtue signallers” Meanwhile you post 3-5 year old comments to make broad generalizations about men, the cognitive dissonance of this sub is off the charts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:51 AM
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Outside of Reddit no not really, some of them might not wanna associate it bc of the extremists but in general most men are pro equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:40 AM
6

Ok but feminist women don’t date anti feminist men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:25 PM
9

Lol stop pretending to play it as a hyperbole jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:41 PM
11

I don’t make wildly exaggerated assumptions to dodge accountability but from now on this is my go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:07 PM
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I’m gonna assume women wanna stone me to death for having a penis next time I see a “men bad, take accountability” comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:00 PM
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I’d fuck attractive men then find some neurodivergent STEM chump, marry him and then divorce and take half his assets. I’d do that a couple of times til I’m well off and then I’d be a cat lady til I die and my cats eat me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:12 PM
2

They ain’t gotta say it you can put two and two today
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:04 PM
0

The burden is worth it if they look good enough. They tolerate abusive bums because they look good! There’s no other possible reason that every sub is filled with the same story.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:19 PM
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All the relationships subs say otherwise, about 70-80% of the posts are “My bf is abusive” “My bf cheated for the 72th time, what do I do? I really love him” “My bum ass unemployment bf wouldn’t wash his ass, any advice?”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:02 PM
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You didn’t answer my question though. Would you date short ugly janitor type men if they were the only ones in your league? We had neighbours like that years ago Her husband was an ugly short blue collar worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:58 PM
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Just ask yourself, would you wanna date short ugly janitor type men if they were the only ones in your league? Most women would rather be cat ladies than date someone like that, the only exception would be if the guy was a doormat all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:34 PM
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I said treated like cockroaches just for existing, learn to read. Disdain for existing goes far beyond not being dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:30 PM
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They don’t deserve it They did bring it on themselves These aren’t as different as you think they are The left would give them healthcare and services if we could That wasn’t even the case before non white people had voting rights and it wouldn’t be the case now. People have different reasons for voting for someone else than to sticking it to black people. Y’all are perpetual victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:20 PM
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Bigotry bad but also this X group of people deserves negative things because of actions of some people in the group? Cognitive dissonance is crazy on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:01 PM
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I imagine they’re with them bc of financial instability, no woman willingly marries a janitor. Bottom percentage are those with obvious handicaps Yeah that didn’t cross my mind you’re right about that but at least they get some empathy for their handicaps, like they’re infantilized and desexualized, ugly non disabled men get the most mistreatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:34 AM
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They would if they could and I’m not talking about me I was talking about bottom percentage abhorrently ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:32 AM
1

That burden suddenly becomes worth it if they look good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:42 AM
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Most men want modelesque women but they know their place so they don’t bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:41 AM
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No shit they are lmao they’re the ones who’re constantly treated like cockroaches by women just for existing so of course they’d eventually get resentful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:39 AM
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Bottom 1% and 2% aren’t gang bangers they’re probably like short ugly janitors or garbage men or something like that. Gangbangers get plenty of play.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:37 AM
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That would be reasonable if they were only not willing to date butt ugly men but even above average men don’t make the cut and the same time without even glancing at most of the men and focusing only on 10% of the men they claim that all men are rotten pigs, none of that seems reasonable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:47 AM
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What makes you say that? Is their partner a balding 4’11 middle aged man with an incredible sense of humour?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:05 AM
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We do have tons of average looking people in movies and tv, they’re the examples blue pill typically uses to say looks don’t matter while completely ignoring the perceived status of being on tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:04 AM
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Black people are like the most coddled minority amongst the general public, only cops are cunts to them. Whenever anyone says anything remotely negative about black people everyone dogpiles them and that is not the same case with if you talk negatively about any other minority so I don’t know why you keep playing the perpetual victim card when every liberals top priority is to protect your feelings even at their own expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:15 AM
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If they had the opportunity it would mean they have other things that can compensate a loooot for their lack of appearance and so if they got Stacy she’d still be the one who’s marrying up. Hypergamy is about status looks money, women on average marry way up than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:26 AM
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Pair bonding is absolutely a thing in humans what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:21 AM
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But is he conventionally attractive? Or used to be when you were friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:20 AM
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But the average woman is still able to pull an above average man, the point of hypergamy is marrying up so not being able to get 6’6 multi billionaire doesn’t mean you’re not hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:05 AM
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How would me worshipping someone for being beautiful be a currency to me? If they were dating me then yes it can be but not if I’m throwing money at them for an ounce of attention and even that is in a form of text.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:50 PM
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Worshipping attractive women doesn’t give you status though so how exactly is it hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:11 PM
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He’s saying that before dating apps women needed to marry someone because of lack of rights or financial stability but now that they can earn just as much and have same rights they can choose whoever they want and so men who don’t have good enough immutable traits will never get picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:54 PM
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They aren’t the only group in the history to be oppressed you realize that? What’s with the perpetual victim shit jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:40 PM
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Yeah I saw that too but tbf all the top comments were shitting on OP and all of OP’s comments were downvoted so..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:02 PM
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See this is why women won’t date you, y’all are just shit people Proceeds to make a homophobic comment ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:43 PM
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Yesterday someone posted only a fraction of men experience true desire from women and that alone got downvoted to oblivion (rightfully so) and this is a very common belief in red pill/red pill adjacent spaces too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:41 PM
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Quite an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:20 PM
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In the nicest way possible please seek professional help for your sake and for the people around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:56 AM
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Most autistic women refuse to date autistic men so I don’t know why you expect NT men to be some special types of saviours but even then there are a lot more NT men that would be willing to date an autistic woman than there are NT women who’d be willing to date autistic men. Women not wanting to date autistic men isn’t immoral by any means It’s not exactly heroic either and that’s not even the point, you said that women choose for functioning and capable adults implying that autistic people aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:04 PM
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It’s a 6 year old account and look at all the posts and the gaps between them, it’s not a bait account it’s genuine disdain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:27 PM
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I’m not spreading my shaved thighs in a skirt on Reddit with title uwu or some shit no. I am however more feminine than most men and by feminine I mean not a disgusting unhygienic monkey with lack of self care like most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:20 PM
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You were responding to the post saying those type of age gaps were typically in Muslim and Hindu populations and the age gaps OP was talking about were 15-20 which is nowhere near 5.6 or 6.6.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:18 PM
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Most Hindus I know have 4 years gap at most, I dunno what’s with the chronically online generalisations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:03 PM
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Protect and provide while I raise the kids and take care of the household is trad. Protect and provide while I also work and we both raise the kids is the norm. Either way men are required to have the protective role even if these women don’t see it that way, their preferences say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:54 PM
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Women just select for traits that men should have as functioning and capable adults. Hmmmmmmm so you’re saying short, skinny, fat, non white, autistic, facially ugly, bald, feminine, lower class men are not functioning and capable adults because of the traits they lack? Sounds reasonable and moral to me, you sir have changed my mind!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:52 PM
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Based username (I’m short)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:46 PM
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Just bc they don’t say it out loud doesn’t mean their preferences or beliefs are any different. Monkey brain works the same way regardless of your political beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:45 PM
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How’s that work
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:43 PM
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Most body positive blue pilled woman:
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:42 PM
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Once a month is doable for anyone with a decent job. If you want it literally regularly then yeah it’s gonna cost a fortune.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:29 PM
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No I’d love to hug them it’s just I can’t help but be physically disgusted by most men. I wouldn’t even shake their hands if it wasn’t for social norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:11 PM
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High end ones do provide it I imagine the vetting process is a lot more thorough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:10 PM
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I’d say the vast majority of men want both so their best bet is escorts for fun while they participate in the shitshow that online dating is and if and when they get a girlfriend they can stop with the escort thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:00 PM
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What about men who are only looking for sex without an emotional connection? Sometimes you just want crazy caveman sex and escorts are great at providing you with that. Even if you can pull organically you’re not gonna have the same freedom you won’t be the focus of pleasure and they’re not going to be as good as someone who has sex for a living. Escorts are fucking amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:55 PM
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Yes? A woman’s touch and a man’s touch is distinctively different, the former is soothing the latter is disgusting for most straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:53 PM
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Well this “rage bait” had nearly 1k upvotes on r/fauxmoi and it wasn’t even the main post or a parent comment, clearly many women agree with this sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:27 PM
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Is this also considered equality? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:19 PM
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They both sound pretty shit and repressive to me, I’d rather just do whatever I want so long as it doesn’t harm anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:16 PM
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Wait how does that make sense? It doesn’t, it’s some bullshit justification to virtue signal and not seem shallow, they don’t need you to be strong they just want you to be bigger than other men but also if she’s ever cat called or whatever and her man pussies out she’s gonna lose all respect and not view him as masculine anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:28 PM
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Well for one they want you to defend them from dangerous or creepy or unattractive men but they’re not gonna choose a 5’7 strong brave bulky man over a thin stick 6’1 man bc they wanna “feel” safe. Wanting to “feel” safe and wanting to be saved are two different things, they wanna feel small and feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:44 PM
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If being abusive causes men to date multiple women then how are they even pulling those women in the first place? They have the option to walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:54 PM
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There’s barely even a wage gap anymore what the fuck are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:34 PM
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Then why do you make it sound like it’s because of a moral failing they can’t get into relationships? You’re not the “problem” for being autistic or whatever unchangeable trait that severely holds you back despite doing in everything in your power.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:47 AM
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No one’s saying it’s women’s responsibility why do you keep making shit up? We’re just saying it’s no one’s fault including the guy who is unable to find someone despite his best efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:43 AM
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But is it his fault for not being able to find someone to get in a relationship with because he’s autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:42 AM
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Why doesn’t it apply to wage gap then? Why do women bitch about the patriarchy instead of taking responsibility and pulling themselves by the bootstraps like every woman expects a man to do in this sub in every aspect of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:32 AM
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So if some random cripple person tries and fails to climb Mount Everest would you believe it’s his fault he couldn’t just because one person you know managed to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:29 AM
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Why would you ignore the non average men though? The topic was never if it’s the average man’s fault he can’t get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:28 AM
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He literally just said that it’s the man’s responsibility to try and manage to get laid but it’s not (necessarily) his fault that he can’t. Why do you keep mixing up the two? It’s not someone’s fault to be born with arbitrary immutable traits that are heavy disadvantages in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:25 AM
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You’d have to be extraordinarily unlucky to come across someone who’s sadistic enough to falsely accuse you of that so I’d say don’t worry about it and go live your life. Being paranoid it all the time is only going to exhaust you it’s counter productive and I know it’s hypocritical coming from me but stop being chronically online.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:25 AM
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If you don’t make the initial cut then clothes personality context of the space (whatever that means) makes absolutely no difference, it might even have the opposite effect in that they know that you know you’re unattractive and you’re desperately trying to compensate and that makes you seem like a wuss and then they can’t help but bully you unprompted but it’s kinda your fault for leaving the house while being unattractive so can’t really blame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:37 PM
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How many sex tourists/passport bros do you come across? Is it very frequent?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:08 AM
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Or or orrrrrrrr we could just nuke social media that’s much more productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:32 PM
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Agreed I firmly believe we should nuke all social media especially Twitter and Instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:42 PM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:53 PM
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You don’t have to go by bmi, you just know it when you see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:10 PM
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You’re right this is pointless you’re not gonna argue in good faith anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:34 PM
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Which is what I said, by all means don’t go out with anyone you don’t feel physically attracted to but don’t only focus on the physical part. People try to punch above their weight and then whine about it when it backfires.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:00 PM
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I just genuinely don’t understand if you’re dense or wilfully obtuse. I’m saying instead of trying to get the 6’5 douchey model looking gazillionaire (hyperbole in case I need to clarify that too) go for the 6’1 normal sane engineer. It’s like when you’re making your character in a game and use all your points in one stat instead of balancing them out and then you cry how your strong hulk ass character moves at the speed of a turtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:57 PM
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Jfc I just said I’m not asking you to pick someone you find unattractive, all I said was don’t focus so much on looks that you ignore all the other important things, once someone is above a certain threshold of looks instead of trying to get someone even hotter focus on internal characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:54 PM
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White pill = Optimism Black pill = Nihilism
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:35 PM
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Choose better in terms of character, no one’s asking you to pick an ugly dude who’s otherwise a good person. We’re just saying stop prioritising looks and other materialistic traits so much that you ignore giant red flags and then whine about how all men are rotten. Just get your priorities balanced is all and if that’s not what you want then don’t be surprised by the assholery of the men you date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:32 PM
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No, some men (and women) not producing is a feature not a bug, not everyone is meant to reproduce so have high standards and let natural selection do it’s work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:52 PM
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Least condescending blue piller
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:39 AM
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100% couldn’t care less, what I do care about though is that we might be in the spotlight and I don’t like that. I wanna stay lowkey my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:41 AM
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Convenient to blame everything on men instead of fighting for change for society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:30 PM
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Not only is it ok, it’s feminine and cute so plus points for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:40 PM
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What exactly is your job?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:27 AM
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She’s whining about the male hive mind but of course every woman is an individual and there is no pattern of things ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:26 AM
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Just go to any relationship subs and find slob bfs, they have so much raw attraction from their girlfriend that they can not wipe their butt for months on end, be unemployed, be a complete asshole and they’d still stay and try and change him. If you’re average or below average you’ll be held to a certain strict standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:28 PM
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Sure but hypothetically let’s say I do, what were you planning on saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:17 PM
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What would you say if I said yes I do think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:49 PM
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Are they complaining about men not approaching them or are they complaining about attractive men not approaching them? How do we know these same women wouldn’t be rude or hostile if unattractive/average men choose to shoot their shot?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:31 PM
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I understand how devastating it must feel to get rejected on such an inherent level but there is nothing you can do to make it “right” without sacrificing someone else’s rights. Like what do you even wanna do about it? Force a woman to breed with this person who’s considered undesirable by most? Sometimes life’s a bitch and it’s nobody’s fault it’s just the way it is and it will always be that way. Can I fault you for being upset about it? No you have the right to feel sad about it but to act li…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:08 PM
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All the excuses in the world to just let people do whatever they get a feeling to do will never make it right It’s not a moral failure to not breed with someone because of any harmless traits they have or lack of other traits. We do try to make things right when someone’s rights are violated but not being able to pass on your genes because no one wants to do it with you is not a societal failure, it’s just nature and there’s not a thing wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:00 PM
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On the lower end of average I could believe that but low as in below 75? I’m having a hard time believing that it’s quite close to being clinically retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:44 PM
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Why are you expecting sexual selection to be fair? They don’t owe it to anyone to continue to spread a pattern of genetic traits. Sexual selection is amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:28 PM
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It’s like a millionaire saying money doesn’t matter, it’s beyond me how someone can be so oblivious to their privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:14 AM
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Were you just looking for a reason to say you’re 6’5? Also it’s funny how someone so ridiculously above average is “No Pill” like are you so oblivious to the impact your body instantaneously has on people?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:52 AM
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Based and exploitationpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:18 AM
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My guess is that the men they pull are either not sane enough or not attractive enough
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:55 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 07:41 PM
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The sane, sober and hot ones are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 07:04 PM
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Nah the average PPD user could attract a woman if they looksmaxxed but she ain’t gonna be hot. That’s the thing they need to come to terms with, you can pull someone just not the fantasy woman you dream of.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:48 PM
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They want actual physical attraction, leading with your wallet most of the time would lose you money and you wouldn’t even get laid. If they were fine with being seen as “desirable” because of their wealth then they would just get escorts it’s a lot less of a headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:31 PM
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How would these ugly bastards get to bang someone in the first place? And the good looking ones will get enough opportunities to practise so they got no excuse for being shit at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 11:13 PM
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There are no topics that haven’t been beaten to death though, at least with looks n count you get entertaining drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:47 PM
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Instead of a thread can’t why we instead just have a day where you’re allowed to post about n count topics and then one day a week where you’re allowed to post about looks related topics? Single megathreads doesn’t get good engagement and even when it does all the comments get buried down. Just have one day a week of it is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:20 PM
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The taller you are the more returns you’ll get on getting jacked. Even an ugly 6’2 bald guy would have life changing benefits from getting jacked, a 5’1 man on the other hand? There’s a chance it might actually increase the bullying and condescension he receives bc it’ll be seen as compensating + bulky physique would look comical on him, if he’s lean with a 6 pack then people would barely even know unless he’s walking with his shirt off. Bottom line, the more things you have going for you the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:41 PM
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They got famous because of their talent, once you’re famous your quirkiness can be a positive in that it can make you stand out. If he was a regular person he’d get bullied instead. Women made him famous is a crazy statement lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:24 PM
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No I do understand it and yes pretty men are considered desirable nowadays but the most desirable men are still on the broader and taller side (Henry Cavill, Jenson Ackles, Idris Elba etc) I will say that women desiring Timothy Chalamet is likely because of social proof bc I don’t understand how else he caters to the female gaze, dude is thin as a stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:34 PM
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This assumes attraction is logic and convenience based, humans are dimorphic which means the majority of women would men taller than other men usually more attractive regardless of the physical inconveniences, if that wasn’t the case it wouldn’t be a well known thing that tallness is one of the biggest things sought out by women. Yes I can agree that if the 170 less broader man has other positive qualities over the 180 broader man then it’s very much a possibility that he’d get picked instead bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:31 PM
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But does this match with what they’d pick irl? And if it does then how do you explain steroid use being on an all time high? The 5th one is not surprising considering he’s in the unnatural freak territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:25 PM
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Are you saying there aren’t trends of what people are physically attracted to? Most conventionally attractive men and women have a lot of things in common including behavioural traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:49 PM
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Women wanted him because of social proof, if he didn’t have high status then veryyyy few women would want him. Evolutionarily status = more resources, your life is prioritised more = higher chance of survival + luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:47 PM
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Why would she pick the 170 slightly broader guy when there’s a 180+ even broader man who instinctually gets her the tingles? If this was the case then most short men wouldn’t have trouble dating bc most of them are still taller and broader than most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:45 PM
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Then don’t get married who’s forcing you to? If most women didn’t find marriage worth it then why the fuck are they so keen to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:31 AM
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Yes but it is incredibly stupid, if being normally jacked wasn’t enough for you to attract women then getting comically wouldn’t do anything either, it’s likely something other that’s holding you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:53 PM
0

Healthy scalp and healthy diet makes growth a bit faster from what I know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:37 PM
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There is nothing moral or demonstrative of competence from the majority of men who post here I agree but this is Reddit ffs, it’s not a representation of majority of men irl. Choose. Better. IRL. Prioritize character over superficial things and the odds of things turning out in your favour would be a lot higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:46 PM
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As always undesirable men are monolithic and attractive douchey men were just having a bad day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:39 PM
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That’s a very simplified way of putting it but sure both genders would be willing to get pumped and dumped by if the other person is hot enough. Small price to pay for pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:37 PM
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They understand it well enough but they’re willing to overlook the red flags if you look good enough bc god knows how long it’ll be til they can land another conventionally attractive man so we’ll let all the shit slide for now and then when shit hits the fan we’ll rant about how all men are rotten on twitter and then go back to dating walking red flags. The ones who prioritise vetting over status,looks and charm often end up in stable, healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:32 PM
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I don’t understand how you lot have such a hard time understanding what choose better means. Choosing better doesn’t mean having unreasonable sexist double standards, it means prioritizing morals, values, compatibility and competence over looks and the “tingles”. Want a partner that’s a good parent? Choose a partner with the qualities of a good parent it is really not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:28 PM
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I believe you and I believe their choice is justified in that they’d rather have a quick death than take that risk of severe trauma, it’s just odd to me how this occurred to you based off a movie like the vast majority of men are not sadists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:46 PM
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No one who uses this sub on a daily basis is conventionally attractive lmao the actual ones are out there thriving
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:42 PM
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Not that you asked but I imagine lava would destroy your nerves a lot quicker so you wouldn’t feel pain for very long, the first 10 seconds are gonna suck though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:32 PM
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Guys I just watched The Walking Dead and I gotta say those zombie folks really gotta learn how to behave and self reflect a bit. If I say you can’t eat me it means ya can’t! No means no!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:20 PM
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Choose better men then duh, where is women’s infamous red flag detector when they date these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:55 PM
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That is literally not true virginity rates are all time high for men, more than 50% of men under the age of 25 haven’t approached a single woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:58 AM
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GenZ men are having less sex despite having their bar in hell, women are usually Chad or vibrator only for casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:51 AM
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Propaganda to make undesirable men think casual sex is a rarity while banging Chad then settling for the short autistic 6 figure engineer in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:48 AM
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People find femininity pure in both genders which makes men inherently more disgusting because on average men are hairier, higher baldness rate, have bigger frames, bigger features, bad skin and bad hygiene although that’s more because it’s not culturally enforced by society. The more you stray from femininity the more disgusting you’re seen as far as sex goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:26 AM
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I’m just saying wanting a man that’s already competent and morally good is not the same as the phrase “wait at the finish line” Can’t just change meaning of phrases as you please
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:22 AM
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Waiting at the finish line means picking a high status “winner” man. Fame and financial success doesn’t make you a good partner. Besides what makes women as a whole good enough for a winner anyway? The vast majority of people are mediocre and that includes women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:08 AM
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Women do the same thing with bisexual men, dicks are dirty and bad to everybody even though they won’t admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:05 AM
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90% I can fix them situations have a dysfunctional loser attractive man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:26 AM
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Fr lmfao does anyone not know or see dysfunctional men with their own harem trying to win him over
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:24 AM
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You are actually unhinged for linking a 57 day comment lmfao and my point still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:50 AM
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Where’d she say that though? Link the comment or post a screenshot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:37 PM
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Ok but this is genuinely the only time I’ve seen someone say some shit like this, nut jobs exist in every groups especially on Reddit so I still don’t think it’s fair to generalize other men off of one user.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:34 PM
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Stay there, find a tribe, ungabungamaxx
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:27 PM
2

Ok let’s say he does exist, what should he do according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:51 PM
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Women on average want men taller or similar height to other men, their own height is irrelevant. The only sense in which it’s relevant is that they want taller genes to compensate for their shortness so their kid wouldn’t be gasp a short man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:41 PM
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What’s the fantasy part? If people didn’t conform there wouldn’t be such a thing as “conventionally attractive”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:39 PM
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Do you think short poor people don’t exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:37 PM
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Ask your besties their height preferences in dating, ironically enough short women are the most rigid about height requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:36 PM
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You just said you are decently attractive, regardless of how much you were bullied in high school puberty was kind enough to you to give you good enough traits. Some people just don’t meet the base requirements to get into the elite club that is dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:34 PM
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They aren’t out to get you so long as you know your place, once you try to step your foot in the dating market as an undesirable men people will quickly put you into your place. The world is just one big high school with an arbitrary caste system.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:33 PM
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Not really, even if a woman doesn’t wanna date a particular conventionally attractive high status man she can still acknowledge he’s a Chad. Beauty is more objective in the sense that people follow the crowd, if 8 people in a room of 10 think x trait is undesirable then it’s extremely likely that the other 2 will conform without a second thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:30 PM
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Why would she date me if she can get Chad easily? The average woman who gives her all would be 7-8
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:25 PM
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Why do I have to do so much and give it my all just to date a woman who doesn’t do half of those and just has inherent value because of her gender? Even then this is some just world fallacy bullshit, your base qualities/traits determines potential and ceiling, not everyone can work their way into being desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:20 PM
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I agree but just because they can tell what’s holding them back doesn’t mean they have agency over it. You can be a perfectly good human being and do everything in your power to get into a relationship and still fail but other people wouldn’t give you the benefit of the doubt and will instead assume it’s because of a moral failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:24 PM
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I don’t know what to tell you, I’ve been bullied unprompted just for being quite and minding my own business countless times, people definitely do make negative assumptions about men who aren’t extroverted and below average looking. And I promise you most of these men spewing unhinged shit online aren’t saying any of that irl, the whole reason you see it online is because that’s the one place they get away with it and face no consequences. I’d even argue you probably come across some men irl who…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:22 PM
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That I believe but you were saying that attractive people have positive social interests and positive assumptions about them, very few people will argue with you on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:16 PM
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There are levels to friendships, before you get to that level where there is little to no judgement you will almost certainly talk about relationships and it is a red flag to most people to not have been in a romantic relationship your entire 20s involuntarily. Even good, decent people will be wondering that what’s so wrong with you that no one wants you and it makes people trust you less.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:14 PM
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No one’s dismissing that though? People will interact positively with an attractive person and assume positive things about them even if they’re not into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:10 PM
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Sure they can, the ugly quite short guy in your workplace who has trouble with eye contact but is otherwise a good person is almost certainly involuntarily single, the only way for people to not know how hard dating for you is by being average to above average looks wise and socially adept.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:04 PM
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Do you not have people discussing relationships and stuff in like friend groups or even the workplace? Most people don’t feel comfortable making up a big fake story so as to not come off as a loser and even then if what you say doesn’t match up or you slip off and say the truth then it comes off even more pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:00 PM
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Everyone regardless of gender or sexuality favours attractive faces and gives more leeway to attractive people this isn’t news lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:57 PM
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Not really, you severely underestimate how horny and desperate most men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:51 AM
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People who self harm aren’t happy, people who transition usually are. Even if to you it’s some sort of mental illness, why does it matter so long as they’re happy and they’re not hurting anybody?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:46 AM
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Lmao ok stay passive aggressive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:44 AM
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No you used it as an excuse to call me a loser, which is fine but I just like following rules ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:31 AM
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Rule 2
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:25 AM
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There are 3 categories Chad, meh, subhuman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:30 AM
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Then why did you assume him enjoying going down on a hot chick is about validation or visuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:53 PM
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Men can get pleasure from giving oral yknow, it’s not just for the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:33 PM
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The closer you are to that archetype the more options you’ll have as a man, the further you are from the less options you’ll have. Let’s not paint men’s dating struggle as a moral failure given that most of them don’t even make the cut in the first place so you never even know what kinda person they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:52 PM
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Yes movies aren’t real life but the fantasies in movies have a target audience and women are the target audience when the protagonist is a tall white handsome dominant high status man. It’s the same with smut too but usually a little more unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:28 PM
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Yes I got that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:52 PM
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I’m straight as an arrow but you’re fucking hot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:39 PM
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So this is most men according to you? In the real world? What about most women? Are they some pure altruistic non materialistic saints that prioritise character above all else?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:33 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with wanting intimate sex though? Who said sex can’t be part of intimacy? Do you just get a kick out of shaming men for having hormones?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:07 PM
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Wym
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:58 PM
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I will prove you wrong in ten years 🫡 If I’m alive still
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:27 PM
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I’m relatively young at 21 yes but I’ve been clinically depressed for 6 years and have had months long periods where I was nearly bedridden bc of it but most of the population isn’t mentally ill or have any particular type of hardship that makes them lose self control particularly when it comes to fast food. Loads of people all over the world go through hardships, especially third world countries but mass obesity seems like a uniquely American issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:24 PM
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If you want a transactional relationship you don’t have to go overseas, in any country it doesn’t change that women wouldn’t want an ugly man, at best they date you for status or money and I don’t think that’s an appealing offer to most ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:22 PM
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No because there actually are men who would wanna date them, also men don’t mind ugly women approaching them nearly as much as women mind ugly men. Part of the reason is most men are physically stronger than most women, most women aren’t persistent so there’s rarely ever a threat. This has nothing to do with “deserving” or anything, it’s just supply and demand. Unfortunately there aren’t very many women who are ok with ugly men even existing in the same proximity let alone being fine with them a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:14 PM
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I don’t see what other option they have, nature is a cruel bitch and there’s no way around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:09 PM
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If you wouldn’t want an ugly man to approach you then what makes you think other women would? Even straight men are disgusted by ugly men I don’t see why women would feel any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:04 PM
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Are you ever not hostile?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:56 PM
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The nuance being lack of self control? If you can’t ignore your short term gratifications for long term benefits then do you really love yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:55 PM
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Would you want ugly men to approach you if you were a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:52 PM
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There is no such thing as “deserve” You either make the cut or you don’t, natural selection or whatever. Most women would rather stay single their entire life than date a 4’11 man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:11 PM
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Yea I just looked at your horoscope and you’re gonna end up with a 4’11 bald janitor, tough luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:16 PM
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Do you unironically want a beta husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:08 PM
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Ikr I’m positive that having rods in your limbs would be more of a dealbreaker to most women than being short.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:46 PM
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A roided up short dude would look like a comical cube, whatever you do, do NOT bulk up below 5’6.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:02 PM
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Imagine how many hookers and blow you can get for that money, what a waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:18 PM
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What was the parent comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:16 PM
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No one even said anything to you? Are you prefiring?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:10 PM
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Next time an ugly woman comes for advice tell her to get jacked and grow a beard
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:50 PM
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Pick the ones with bad vision and tell em you’re white
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:26 PM
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I have a solution, just date 80 yos who have little to no options. Grannymaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:00 AM
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That and social media
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:59 AM
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People want all the pros without any of the cons, they want the emotional intimacy and the exclusivity of a monogamous relationship but also wanna sleep around and they also don’t want their partner to sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:33 PM
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This seems like more of a rant than a debate like if people did x world would be a better place kinda thing. Women cheat too this has nothing to do with gender there are shitty people regardless of what they got in their pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:20 PM
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Do you think the ones who are not mindlessly swiping aren’t swiping on average to below average women? Because I promise you they are, even though they won’t get a slither of attention from them let alone from someone attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:39 PM
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Lol ChatGPT ain’t holding back with that bottom line thing. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:10 PM
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Paragraphs exist OP, learn to use em.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:46 PM
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Nope, usually when something disproportionately affects someone we acknowledge it and try to level the playing field so I don’t see why it should be any different for this. If others get to participate in misery olympics then I do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:32 PM
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I didn’t say you want attention from old obese men, no one does but that’s not the only men you get attention from. Everything comes with pros and cons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:07 PM
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For one people are bad at assessing their own intelligence, I promise you you’re not as dumb as you think you are. Secondly, your alternative is rotting away being broken forever, you gotta do something drastic brother it’s time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:09 PM
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Yeah well you gotta change that, go back to college if that’s what it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:32 AM
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Jesus man you need to turn your shit around for yourself at the very least, even the upcoming decades in your life can be amazing so long as your career trajectory is good and you make good enough money for luxuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:02 AM
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The average woman can easily get an average-above average man I don’t know what’s with the obese old pervert strawman thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:51 AM
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The average woman is still getting plenty of attention though, the vast majority of men have to work hard, have good enough immutable traits and be some altruistic stoic saint however the celebrity status man can be a douche to their face and they’ll still throw themselves on them. It’s the double standards and the lies that are most frustrating out of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:40 AM
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No they virtue signal because they don’t wanna look bad, if anything when they do admit to things like this they get upvoted and have positive comments and appreciation for their honesty for the most part and even when they don’t let’s not pretend they care about internet points all of a sudden.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:30 AM
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First rule of dating: Know your place ya fuckin pleb.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:06 PM
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I don’t remember replying anything like that to her and yeah fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:46 PM
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Why would you block me you usually agree with me no? Anyway I didn’t assume you hate your spouse it just seemed awfully one sided from your initial comment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:42 PM
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What determines how low or high value you are is the quality of the people who wanna date you and the amount of people who wanna date you, yes there are preferences but we all know what a high value potential partner and a low value one looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:09 PM
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No you don’t have to put in effort to date and get laid as a woman, if anything you’d have to actively put effort into sabotaging tf outta yourself to reduce your smv so much that no one wants you. Men on the other hand have to work their ass off for scraps. This isn’t a comparable situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:47 AM
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Yes it does, they’re still the selectors. Ain’t our fault they’re hell bent on drastically reducing their SMV and then crying about their low quality options.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:41 AM
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They can hate em all they want, they’re still the selectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:20 AM
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Holy mother of simp lmfao can’t you propose to him once in a while? Or does he have to kiss your ass every other month to maintain the marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:30 AM
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Fair you win you’re too sane for this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:25 AM
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Why would you be met with anything else when men are met with disdain when they complain about gender specific relationships problems and are asked to suck it up and be a man? Can’t have it both ways, either try and make a gender neutral society or don’t cry about gender specific problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:38 AM
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They couldn’t say tall white and handsome because of social stigma so they picked hair color of all things 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:23 AM
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If you have to tip toe around them then either they’re not one of the “good” ones or you’re just insufferable. If it keeps happening then you’re the common denominator so I dunno what to tell you. If it doesn’t make you happy then don’t date em, stay single. 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:08 AM
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There def are some but he ain’t one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:18 AM
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Not talking about chin implant, talking about bimax (Bimaxillary Orthognathic Surgery) where they literally move your jaw forward and then screw it together. It is primarily done for breathing, sleeping and eating reasons however some people do it purely for cosmetic reasons as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:55 AM
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3 is the highest “safe” number and even then your legs will never be the same + big risk of complications, going for 4 inches is clinically insane seek professional help before you do something drastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:43 AM
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Hire someone to find a suitable reputable surgeon for you, ffs money can solve everything how are you so dense?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:26 AM
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What’s your height? I gotta say I feel like height surgery is one of the dumbest things you can do unless it’s a physical hurdle in day to day life (below 5ft). You’d be better off finding someone who accepts you for you or blowing that money on escorts and blow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:44 AM
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No one outside of chronically online spaces accuses women of fucking Chad on the first date and not with them, what are doing so wrong to even end up going on dates with these tiny ass minority of people in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:27 AM
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This bit cannot possibly be real, escorts will bang anything and everything especially for that kinda money. They deal with some of the haggiest hideous men I don’t imagine they’d reject a youngish man for being facially stunted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:23 AM
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If you have so much money get plastic surgery, they have one for facial growth which will also significantly improve your breathing and sleeping (bimax surgery) Jfc you’ve hundreds of thousands get an incredibly high end escort, with that kinda money you can bang some of the most beautiful women in the world and you’re here crying on the internet smh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:20 AM
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I’m dead 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:23 PM
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I’m sure assuming they have a small dick and body shaming them would reduce the social stigma and help them feel adequate and secure in themselves. Y’all are doing the lords work 🙏🏻.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:22 PM
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But you do realize the man version of this woman you’re talking about wouldn’t even be considered good enough for a pump and dump? Wouldn’t even be considered good enough for a loser to marry him? I empathize with her but if anything she’d be worse off if she was a man. Some times life sucks and it’s because it’s fucking sucks not because of your gender or the gender you’re attracted to, sometimes you just have bad luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:04 PM
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I thought women didn’t care about dick size and it’s the motion of the ocean? Can yall decide already?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:28 PM
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The winner is the trophy and it’s not just about money, it’s about wanting to validate your own ego by dating a “winner”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 01:16 PM
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Because most women don’t want women to look bad, they don’t ever bring up any flaws about themselves nor do they acknowledge when someone calls it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 01:14 PM
14

Wdym? She literally just said choose a competent normal ass man instead of waiting for a dumbass to change. You can’t change people you can only change yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 01:12 PM
2

What’s the average length threshold?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:11 PM
5

Everyone’s worth is tied to their physical appearance on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:18 AM
12

No shit it doesn’t. If telling me what steps I need to take helped then I’d be somewhere instead of rotting at home for 4-5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:00 PM
1

I’m not, also I’m straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:59 PM
14

It’s called depression look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:57 PM
18

Yeah I mean I don’t leave my home so no opportunity for people to approach me, also no social media/dating apps apart from Reddit and YouTube. I still like whining on Reddit though ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:51 PM
7

But how do you know if she barely knew the guy she hooked up with? Maybe they were long time friends and decided to have some fun? There can be more scenarios too but I can’t come up with any I’m sleepy 😴
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:50 PM
0

You’re black that’s the 2nd most desirable ethnicity in North America At 6’4 + good body + good face it doesn’t matter what race you are, it’s you. You’re doing something wrong and we don’t know you enough to tell you what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:39 PM
14

I knew someone was gonna take that jump, I wasn’t saying women not dating you means they’re denying you basic decency, I was talking about how women mistreat undesirable men just for being in the same proximity as them. It’s fairly common for women to be hostile to undesirable men unprompted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:08 PM
4

Couple decades ago feminine men weren’t seen as attractive and neither were Asian men, fast forward today millions of women fawn over Kpop idols. No one is immune from social conditioning, we went from pencil thin eyebrows to thick eyebrows, from thin lips to every woman getting lip filler. We like whatever the media wants us to like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:03 PM
9

I agree but also wrong men get punished for just existing all the time. How about we treat people for their actions instead of where they stand on the social totem pole?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:00 PM
8

No one’s asking for sympathy, we are however asking for acknowledgment and basic human decency which women often don’t provide if you don’t meet their threshold of good enough. You’re practically a cockroach covered in birdshit to them at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:52 AM
5

Lol no one is immune from social conditioning and that includes women too. So if all of a sudden society pushed the idea that men who look like me are attractive then yes they would find me attractive but even then you do have to meet some level of threshold to be biologically desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:50 AM
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Men’s tastes are a lot more diverse and broader than women’s, literally just search porn subs on Reddit you’ll see hundreds of thousands of men who are into chubby, fat, obese women, women with flatter chests, women with flatter ass, women with short hair, tall women, ethnic women, women with piercings, women with tattoos the list is fucking endless. Women on the other hand just follow trends as if their main goal is to flaunt their trophy to other women, whatever’s currently trending is women’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:45 AM
4

How do I get a hot* boyfriend that wants to marry me right now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:14 AM
5

This is a circus for them they don’t care for your advice lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:13 AM
-1

This is the first question that came to my mind lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:15 PM
6

Benefit ≠ necessity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:32 PM
4

I just wanna cuddle and have a woman (that I’m attracted to) scratch my head and I wanna make her food and pamper her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:11 PM
7

No super model is managing her own insta account bruv. If they wanna cheat they’d get a guy from their huge circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:56 AM
7

Not from what I’ve seen, usually young + good career + high socioeconomic status. I don’t think they care much for body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:23 AM
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That large majority wishes they were objectified because of how little attention they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:21 AM
2

That’s not the hypersexual part, sleeping with a different person every week is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:35 AM
-1

It’d be a problem if he was sexually open with you? You want a man with a wild past to be vanilla? Like that’s a good positive in your book?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:29 AM
1

Ok but why are you the only dude who’s gone their entire life being alone? What’s holding you back so much that literally everyone else can date but not you, I don’t imagine all the people you know are attractive or even average?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:12 AM
1

Why do you think you’re the only one on the extreme side? And does you being alone in your opinion make you feel your perception of reality is distorted? Or is your situation uniquely fucked up?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:53 AM
-1

That is pretty much what the world is like, there are winners and losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:48 AM
10

They don’t envy the abandoned kid part, they envy the being able to effortlessly sleep around while being an absolute cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:57 PM
1

Are we gonna pretend we don’t know a genetically top tier man when we see one? Tall, broad, strong jawline, good face, full head of hair and belongs to a group that has high social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:55 PM
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Yes he would consider his step dad his father but that doesn’t change the fact that the step dad never got to spread his genes. Instead he had to settle for being a provider bc that’s as good as it gets for him. It makes sense that you don’t know anybody who’s trying to do that because ideally most women are looking for someone who has good genes and is also willing to commit to them. The dual mating thing is the 2nd backup plan, the first being choosing not to have kids at all and instead settl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:50 PM
2

He had his fun and so did you, so you’re both in the “hookup material” category OP is referring to. If you can have casual sex then you’ve basically won the game and relationships are easy, if you can’t get casual sex then betabuxx is the best you can hope for which is what’s happening to the partners of the women I mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:45 PM
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Why wouldn’t she wanna carry his child when his genes are literally superior and top tier? This is basically what dual mating strategy is, get the genes from incredibly good looking guy and raise the kid with the kind, doormat, yes man kinda guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:27 PM
10

Rule 1 and 2 If you’re successfully able to follow both those rules then just be a jackass and you’re golden, that’s all there is to the sexual swag guide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:24 PM
7

Hookup material would just knock up multiple women and run for the hills and then the Husband material would come in to save the day and raise Hookup material’s kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:10 PM
8

I wish I had his problems lmfao, I feel bad for the men who ended up with the women who pumped and dumped your husband though, they got settled for after their partner had all their fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:04 PM
6

He meant genetically superior not morally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:00 PM
2

I can’t tell if you picked an overweight because that’s the highest weight you’d be ok with or you’re into thick curvy women, either way I’d like more examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:58 PM
2

Post a picture of a woman that meets your base physical standards, I wanna see what you mean when you say “No woman I’m attracted to”. Just get a random picture of a woman from google.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:49 PM
3

Omfg why yall keep repeating the “men should wear makeup too then” point when you know it doesn’t work that way bc of difference in beauty standards? Do you see men telling women to get jacked if they can’t get a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:45 PM
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You can know by body language a bit but for the most part it’s a gamble and you should only take your shot if you’re ok with the realistically worst case scenario. Risk would never not be there, the only way forward is when you accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:57 PM
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Being confident obviously does help not just with romantic prospects but in general life but it’s not enough, you have to level up in every way possible and then if you’re considered good enough being confident and approaching women might yield results. Even then it’s an uphill battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:53 PM
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Just be confident, do some basic self care and someone will find you attractive, not me mind you, you’re fucking disgusting to me but someone will find you attractive ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:19 PM
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That woman is 10/10 👸💅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:53 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:50 AM
3

Just grind til 50 for transactional relationships is not the win you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:39 AM
2

Fair, good luck to yall.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:33 PM
0

Would you date him if he was 5ft?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:25 PM
1

How tall is your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:21 PM
1

Sure but she still looks good enough or similar yeah? If she aged like shit to the point you didn’t even recognise her then I don’t think you’d feel the same way although I don’t think this is gender specific. For some to be wife or husband goggle’d you’d have to have a really good, fulfilling and emotionally healthy relationship, most people don’t have this but choose to stay/settle bc fear of being alone or sunk cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:06 PM
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Ideally you should be able to make enough to hold up your end and have enough disposable income for some reasonable luxuries but I don’t think you need to make like 6 figures. Women who do require you to make really good money while not making similar amount themselves aren’t worthy of your time, at least not for LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:33 AM
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Much better at dropping their standards to hell for that sweet sweet status of whiteness + green card.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:28 AM
1

I’d replace Tim Chung with Zayn Malik
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:24 AM
3

Nah Aaron Paul is top tier don’t matter how much hair you take out of his face
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:24 AM
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No one wants to go their entire twenties without having sex or relationships though. Feels like a consolation prize after you’ve already lost your prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:42 PM
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This is a steroid physique fyi, it’s just not as extreme as the cartoonish stereotypical ones. It’s like the bias people have against plastic surgery, you don’t notice the ones that look natural and done tastefully. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:56 PM
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Yes that’s the unfortunate reality, some of it is biology, some of it is supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:07 PM
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Standards are different depending on the gender though, skinny and petite women are sought out by many men, can’t say the same for skinny men. Same for women on the heavier side although there’s a limit to it and I agree the gaslighting about fatness being attractive is disingenuous and counterproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:04 PM
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It’s opposite with men they can’t help putting each other down lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:01 PM
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I think a woman who has been skinny, fat and fit can usually rate women pretty accurately and give them good advice so long as she isn’t disingenuous about it but if you’ve been just a single body type your entire life and didn’t struggle much with men it can be hard to assess the real life patterns, the closest help can be the trend of porn categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 01:58 PM
2

Most men would be ok with a masculine woman provided you don’t mean toxic masculinity when you use that word.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 12:00 PM
6

No I don’t think so, even when I have small phases where my libido is tanked I still think about all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:49 AM
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Anyone can demand whatever they want, just don’t be surprised when it doesn’t work out in your favour. Also wanting feminine physical attributes doesn’t mean you’re asking for gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:37 AM
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Legal doesn’t mean moral though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:32 AM
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Coulda just wrote a nice betabuxx doormat who doesn’t question anything because breaking out his fantasy bubble would be too much for him to handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:49 AM
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Yeah if you get those men in a monastery instead and get them to do yoga and meditation and give them structure then sure I believe they can be happy and content, a regular city life on the other hand without any women? Most men would lose it imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:12 AM
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I think even the small minority of men who would sign the contract would lose their shit and eventually end up either mentally ill or they’d kill each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:31 AM
5

Ok but how does that even work? Do these men have no libido or no drive to have romantic relationships or even just female companions? If women disappeared from a state for a year most men would either self delete or start fucking each other. Mostly the former though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:11 AM
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You’re only assuming that about Steve because he mentioned him as an IT guy in this scenario. Another proof women assume what your personality is like based off your masculinity or lack thereof and in this case IT = nerd = unattractive trauma dumping creep who doesn’t understand boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 12:51 AM
7

Hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 12:01 AM
2

If you can specify what exactly you think is ugly about your face? Recessed Jaw/chin is not that big of a deal in women, nose is one of the biggest factors, eyes and symmetry I’d say 2nd biggest and lastly how good your skin/hair is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:37 PM
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No that’s not all they care about it is the initial barrier you have to pass through and then comes the personality, values and other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:09 PM
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What they say is what they do Lol I wish And I’m not talking about TikTok rage baits I’m talking about real life patterns of who always gets dates consistently who gets laid consistently and who ends up paying for meals for nothing in return. At least men are willing to admit that beauty is a top priority to them so most women know what they have to do, men constantly get contradictory advice so they’re always in this limbo of not knowing what’s desirable what’s undesirable apart from the obviou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:49 PM
1

Racist too now huh? There’s never a rock bottom with yall is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 09:51 PM
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How is one supposed to believe women when what they say is not what they do? Are we supposed to believe the consistent patterns we see irl and online or are we supposed to believe women on a random ass anonymous forum? At least with men you know head on what they want in a woman and what their priorities are, women just beat around the bush because they’re too scared of being seen as shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 07:40 PM
1

Whatever department he can become above average in likely wouldn’t be nearly enough, nothings enough if you don’t make the base attraction cutoff. I mean what exactly do you even want him to become above average in?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:20 PM
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Blue pill operates on the idea that personality and internal characteristics >>>> any physical traits that hold you back. You are operating on the assumption that everything that holds him back is fixable however if you look at his description of himself that does not seem to be the case. Also plenty of mentally ill self loathing people are in relationships but of course they’re average and above so they still make the cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:03 PM
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This is what’s wrong with blue pill, it assumes every problem that holds you back in the dating market are the ones you have control over and completely ignores the immutable traits that play the biggest role in dating. What if he’s not mentally ill and he’s just unattractive? What if even getting braces or veneers is not enough for him to enter the line of what’s considered “attractive” ? What then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:51 PM
2

Think we already know this, most of us anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:17 AM
2

Euphemism for repulsively unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:15 AM
2

How exactly does a straight woman find all men unattractive? The only possible conclusion is that either she’s leaving out the part where she only finds a very small minority of men attractive or she genuinely believes she doesn’t find extremely attractive men attractive. Either that or she ain’t straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:14 AM
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side hustle I was talking about redditors, they ain’t earning jack from this. a desire to help western men By creating the same problem there’s in the west in Asia lmao 0 self awareness, if their white ass inflated the market then what are natives of that country supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 12:52 AM
2

If the biggest motivation for them is desire to travel then why do they feel the need to boast about it on the internet and post videos about it? Not just that it also always includes shitting on western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:31 PM
-1

Get an escort at this point no?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:19 PM
1

Ok but do you think you could easily beat a 5ft fully grown man?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:53 PM
6

Yeah this is what I’m thinking too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:44 PM
9

What do you even want me to search? I have been here for quite a while and I’ve never seen someone say that, I’ve also never seen someone say that outside of this sub but even if I did that would be an incredibly small minority who’s probably just trolling/rage baiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:07 PM
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If you specified that he was a 5’4 chubby immigrant and someone told you that he was a “Chad” then they’re blatantly trolling and you’re best off ignoring them. Majority of people would not consider that man even average let alone a “Chad”. Cherry picked trolls ≠ majority opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:06 PM
2

But you realize that even a 5ft man could kill you right? The average 13 yo boy can easily kill a fully grown woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:04 PM
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Just go to a comic con or an anime convention, it’s filled with virgins. Provided you pick a non attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:03 PM
4

What would be your ideal way of losing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:01 PM
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men tell us we can’t trust our sense of which men are the ugliest. I have never once seen anyone say that on this sub, if anything the usual narrative is that women innately find ugly men repulsive so much so that they go out of their way to ostracise them or to let them know how undesirable they are. I straight up don’t believe any woman or even man who says they don’t know who’s bottom of the barrel or within that bottom range in whatever group they’re in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:01 PM
5

Ideally most men do not want transactional relationships but sometimes they’re the best you can get. If passport bros could have their own harem organically at their home they wouldn’t leave in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:47 PM
1

Are there any women here who prefer or even have a requirement that a man has to be shorter than them to be considered a potential partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:44 PM
1

With trial and error yes, with bed rotting and doom scrolling no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:43 PM
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Wait what happened? You’re saying the entire minority got kicked out of Uganda? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:33 AM
1

What’s your type if you don’t mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:55 AM
1

Do you prefer women over men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:36 AM
3

Are there not other ways to make sure of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:04 AM
6

What why lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:33 PM
1

Like you have a preference for sexist men? And this isn’t concerning to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:31 PM
2

Yeah by normal bmi I meant not ridiculously thin and not obese or near obese, anything in between is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:00 PM
6

Must be why I keep coming across liberal women with conservative bigoted boyfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:44 PM
1

Apart from the flair changing setting they’re all blue coloured on my screen, what does it matter anyway it takes a second to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:36 PM
1

It says Wellbutrin pilled, Wellbutrin ain’t blue + it’s not a serious flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:27 PM
3

I’m not blue pill wym
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:20 PM
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Women don’t lie All people lie your gender ain’t special We consider looks to include the human behind the face I haven’t seen a single person here only mention looks, nearly everyone mentioned compatibility with values, political beliefs, having similar interests, being pleasant to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:56 PM
-1

I dunno man that’s like bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:48 PM
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As opposed to women who feel the need to lie or underplay the importance of looks on an anonymous forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:45 PM
1

People have had unrealistic delusional standards since the beginning of time, nothing new about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:44 PM
1

Seems like pretty basic requirements to me, the bar is in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:10 PM
8

Pretty Normal BMI Kind Nurturing Competent Chill
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:57 PM
1

I’d have no problem dating them if it was only solo content and they never revealed their face and identity. I’d even be ok with her doing OF while we date but again only in a way that she can’t be identified.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:49 PM
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Virgin Redhead Ultra Stacy only
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:57 AM
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Why do men act like disinterest = hostility? It’s ok to be hostile it’s a part of life ???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:35 AM
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I see women expressing contempt/disgust with men they find unattractive nearly on a daily basis, it is extremely common like you don’t even have to ask them out, just being in proximity would trigger that reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:31 AM
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Most men can also easily decenter women if they had a partner I don’t understand how these people don’t hear what they’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 04:11 PM
3

There’s no such thing for women because they get shunned for identifying as incels or even just generally ranting about not being able to socialize or get dates because according to male incels it’s supposed to be incredibly easy for them. Same things happen in r/NEET too because there’s a big intersection with being a NEET and an incel. She’s not entirely wrong. Men can be supremely shitty. Yes I said I agree with her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:32 PM
3

Switch genders you’d be downvoted to oblivion and perma banned. But also I do agree with you ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:28 PM
1

So you’ve never dated in your entire life? Why not try dating apps or speed dating events?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:23 AM
1

!remindme 10 hours
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 04:17 AM
4

Am I better off knowing if it makes me wanna bed rot all day and eventually self delete as opposed to if I was just delusional about things and went on about living my mid ass life?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:59 PM
2

I see it literally everyday though and I don’t even follow any particularly unhinged places, women have a raging hard hate boner for low status ugly men and when they finally have the opportunity to express it without consequences they go all in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:43 PM
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inb4 this gets deleted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:55 AM
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Weren’t exactly sane to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:15 AM
2

I want both but I’ll get neither unless it’s transactional bc I don’t meet the immutable requirements, that’s not an excuse that’s just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:41 PM
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It’s not women bad, it’s more men are screwed if they don’t meet the arbitrary criteria for attraction if they lack specific immutable traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:31 PM
1

Seems like an accurate assumption until you made it clear that’s not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:03 PM
6

Men are not a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:01 PM
4

Ok but I don’t think I’ve seen any men here say to go for incompetent partners, all I’ve seen is don’t go purely by looks while ignoring giant red flags and then rant on twitter how all men are rotten. Again this is what I’ve seen “bitter” men say here, none of this is me saying anything personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:47 PM
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I like how you first said this ain’t about height or wealth or dick size then you brought up two of those things in your cousin’s situation 💀💀 Can’t make this up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:27 PM
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🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:42 PM
6

They demonize and generalize men, just not of their own race.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:33 PM
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Conservatives when race stats: 😂🤣🤭 Conservatives when gender stats: 🤬🤬😡
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:31 PM
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Everyone hates men regardless of where they stand politically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:17 PM
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He’s consenting to a romantic relationship not to a transactional relationship so if she’s still there for monetary gain then it’s non consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:30 PM
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Sure but being stupid isn’t a moral failing and so I don’t believe stupid people deserve to get exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:07 AM
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So you’re just wilfully ignorant to justify your lack of empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:52 AM
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Sugar baby ≠ Gold digger If the man knows it’s a transactional relationship then she’s not considered a gold digger. You have to be gaslit into thinking it’s a genuine relationship for it to be considered gold digging.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:31 AM
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But if they both are well aware it’s transactional then it isn’t gold digging by definition, it’s just being a sugar daddy. For it to be considered gold digging one has to be unaware of the true nature of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:25 AM
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Do you still believe it’s the man’s responsibility if he’s genuinely naive about the truth of his relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:14 AM
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It isn’t prostitution if it’s non consensual and it is non consensual if all parties involved are not transparent about their intentions. How hard is this to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:10 AM
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If they didn’t fall for it then OF models wouldn’t be making thousands off these people. If someone was fine with a completely transactional relationship then they wouldn’t spend hundreds/thousands on onlyfans when they can get actual sex for the same amount of money. Also why are you only focused on grandpa aged men? You realize there are loads of men in their 20s 30s 40s who get exploited for their money right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:05 AM
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If you’re paying for sex then that’s not gold digging on the other person’s end it is literally just straight forward prostitution. If they’re both transparent about it then it isn’t gold digging you got your definitions mixed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:43 AM
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You’d be surprised how many old men fall for the “You’re special and your escort is in love with you” scam, not only do they lose money repeatedly but they also get little to no sex. If someone is well aware that people want to date them for monetary gain and they’re ok with that then it’d be stupid for them to not have a consensually transactional relationship instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:42 AM
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Transactional implies it’s an agreement and both parties know what they’re getting into. If one party is putting on act for a non consensual gain then it is exploitation. Just because you lack empathy doesn’t mean you can change the definitions of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:26 AM
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So when men get exploited they should take responsibility but when women get exploited men should take responsibility? Sounds reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:20 AM
12

Attractive = approach anywhere Unattractive = don’t approach anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:12 AM
24

Is that why I see miserable bums with anger issues in relationships constantly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:10 AM
0

Sure have whatever unrealistic outlandish preferences or requirements you want but then don’t bitch about it when it doesn’t work in your favour. It is in your best interest to know where you stand, even if you don’t want to lower your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:54 AM
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25-21 is not an age gap relationship my brudda
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:18 AM
4

Going off statistics and general opinions yes odds are not in your favour by any means but that doesn’t mean no one will want you, besides penis is just one part of a person’s perceived attractiveness. The only way you’re guaranteed to be doomed is if you never try.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:45 PM
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I just trust statistics and general public perception over anecdotes and yes men have more varied tastes which is why there are models and pornstars of all shapes and sizes and colours but with men’s beauty there’s a similar, narrower pattern as to what’s considered appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:43 PM
1

Damn you’re not spewing your blue pilled shit for once, I’m impressed quite frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:36 PM
2

What you need is exposure therapy, after getting some humiliating experiences you’ll realize it’s not thaaat big of a deal, you’d survive and then you move on and try to meet someone who accepts you and genuinely desires you. Until you’re able to meet someone like that just rinse and repeat. Or at the very least experience how sex feels with an escort you don’t wanna be old with no libido regretting not fucking in your prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:35 PM
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Us? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:14 PM
8

Hormone therapy wouldn’t increase his size post puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:52 PM
4

Wealth, status, looks(maxxing), some arbitrary narcissistic traits etc and this ain’t even all of them. Takes forever to achieve all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:27 PM
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Stemmaxx then moneymaxx then escortmaxx, that’s as good as it gets for him and honestly that’s not too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:21 PM
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It’s not like red pill is just a four liner thing, you can read the whole thing and still come to wrong conclusions or fail to apply it in real life because of some other reasons, doesn’t mean you’re not red pilled. You could even say to some extent it’s subjective how “red pillers” perceive and define the ideology as per the definition they consider to be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:42 PM
2

But if it doesn’t guarantee success provided you follow all the information and adapt accordingly then isn’t it just blackpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:14 PM
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Tbf it takes quite some time to achieve all the things that are supposed to make you attractive to the opposite sex according to red pill. If you’ve already done all that and you’re still unsuccessful then I agree the ideology doesn’t work at least for you in particular but it could still be about personal failure as opposed to the method being flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:10 PM
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Average penis size according to multiple sources I found is between 5.1 and 5.5 so even when it comes to numbers you’re wrong so I can only imagine how off most women are when it comes to perception. Here’s one https://www.healthline.com/health/mens-health/average-penis-size
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:49 PM
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I didn’t say there’s any correlation between stature and vagina size. When I was talking about shortness I was saying it’s not about what’s convenient in terms of height difference as an example to prove that the main part of the appeal is about perceived masculinity and not physical compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:32 PM
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Doesn’t matter, it’s not about what’s compatible it’s about perceived masculinity which is also why very short women still want tall men regardless of how inconvenient it is in bed or even in day to day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:27 PM
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They prefer what they perceive as average which is often above average. No one goes around actually measuring dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:21 PM
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They don’t care until it starts going below average, even oc said “big enough to feel good” which is vague on purpose so if someone calls it out they can say deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:14 PM
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Only because they don’t wanna be called shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:10 PM
8

This is your daily dose of strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:40 AM
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Single women Married women Single moms Married men Single men Single dads
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:25 AM
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Pretty easy solution, don’t date a red piller.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:19 AM
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I agree with this although I think there would still be quite a few men who want strictly monogamy but they’d be in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:18 AM
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Stoning someone is a direct and violent act it’s not really comparable to watching something non violent that badly affects people’s life behind the scenes. especially when it affects the way men interact with women Men are more progressive and considerate about women than ever and porn hasn’t existed for a very long time, also the vast majority of men watch porn however the vast majority of men don’t seem disconnected to reality and assaulting women left and right. The reason I’m asking you to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:42 AM
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I think a lot of people have a line of thinking that if they alone stopped watching it, it wouldn’t really make an impact as there are millions if not billions of people watching it. So what difference does it make if they’re just one more consumer? You can’t really make men as a whole not watch porn it’s not really practical, the only thing to do here is to push back on the industries to stop making addicting, incredibly dopamine inducing content in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:25 AM
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Why would manosphere be anti divorce when they’re so sex obsessed? If a marriage wasn’t working out it’s very likely that they have a dead bedroom too so their advice would either be to divorce or to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:49 PM
5

Don’t most people already agree with this? On Reddit at least anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:41 PM
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It has dropped significantly in china and India as well I’ve seen stats before.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 10:54 PM
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She’s trying to put you down and saying you’re not as attractive as you think you are in a way that she has plausible deniability in case you call her out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:20 AM
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What would you rate your partner’s attractiveness on a societal scale? Purely physically
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:26 PM
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They would if most rejections were civil instead of straight up sadistic public humiliations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:00 PM
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Tall can mean anywhere from 5’11 to 7’0 and yes most men aren’t tall, I’m just saying women who’re hell bent on wanting a masculine man usually have an above average height requirement or not shorter than average at the very least. I’ll repeat once again I’m not referring to most women just like you’re not referring to most men. I’m talking about women who want a “traditional” man while not having traditional traits themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:41 PM
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Acting submissive because you like feeling “feminine” doesn’t mean there’s a power imbalance in the relationship. It’s just similar to role play because both partners enjoy fulfilling a certain role.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:38 PM
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Many of these women go for tall men because they just can’t bring themselves to respect shorter men or see them as a real man which makes their perspective as more gender conforming and hence “traditional”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:35 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:22 PM
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Grow em out and get some bangs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:20 PM
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Reddit in general is probably the wrong place to ask this, what women here say is not the representative of what the majority of women would find attractive/unattractive. Men have more linear tastes though I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:38 PM
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It’s true some people use it as an excuse to be more of an asshole but that doesn’t make oppression olympics inherently bad. Same as some use the label of feminism to justify misandry, it doesn’t mean feminism is bad, it’s just those particular people are assholes. If you’re not willing to acknowledge that something disproportionately affects a certain group then there’s nothing people will do about it to level the playing field. If people don’t do anything about it then the problem gets worse. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:08 PM
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Why shouldn’t it be a competition? Men are a lot lonelier and don’t get much slack compared to women if you’re not even willing to acknowledge a problem how would you go about solving it? Why is gender misery olympics allowed when it’s negatively affecting women more but not when it’s the other way around?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:59 PM
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They do though, you don’t know what’s it like to be me. Women are straight up sadistic bullies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:36 PM
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No tall is tall, baby face doesn’t mean ugly anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:27 PM
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If it makes you feel any better, half my head is grey and I’m only 21 :3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:11 AM
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Ok wtf I didn’t know my bad Also I’m 21 I post in fa30 bc main sub is too normie
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:52 AM
1

So what’s your type anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:06 AM
2

Only because you’re tall, even if you were average height this wouldn’t be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:35 AM
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You can if you’re a pretty in the face with a good head of hair
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:33 AM
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Let us cope in peace, life is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:33 AM
1

Yeah scalp micro pigmentation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:29 AM
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I have to shout not being monolith all the time to women and all they do is bash and dehumanize me. At least women and white knights have your back. We have no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:44 PM
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Shes talking about average people not multi millionaires and you say this as if they don’t have any agency and that they’re not getting anything out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:58 PM
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Women don’t date men uglier than them, you just rate men’s appearance very harshly and you’re probably too lenient on women’s appearance. We’ve seen what women consider a “dad bod” and that’s enough to know how harshly we’re judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:21 PM
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This is like saying 100% bank robbers are humans. Humans bad!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:34 PM
0

Pretty accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:50 AM
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Casual sexism (i.e women are bad at driving, less competent in general etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:34 AM
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My own race doesn’t want me either, that’s why I look for others and it’s not like I’m excluding my race. I’d date anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:55 PM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:31 PM
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He’s asking you that despite the fact that you’re satisfied with how your body looks and works, is it in good enough shape to attract straight men? I’m just explaining what he’s trying to say I’m not myself asking you anything just to be clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 11:58 AM
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I think you’re better off with a roommate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:52 PM
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How about don’t exploit men for money? The only way to ethically do this is if the other person knows you’re settling for him for financial reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:44 PM
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You’re in Scandinavia?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:54 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:50 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:42 PM
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Is that rare in Norway? Parents being supportive of dating black or brown men? Because there’s a bigger stigma there right compared to the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:36 PM
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So your family would be ok with you dating a brown or black man as well as having kids with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:33 PM
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I’d be the biggest simp to ever simp if it got me laid idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:32 PM
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That won’t change the results though you’ll still be sexless if you’re the only one doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:47 AM
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I will complain about it til I’m dead, the world is incredibly unfair and I will never not be salty about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:41 AM
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😭 fml
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:11 AM
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I would run at them fast as I can just to make em lose their shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:06 AM
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I’m not saying you’re dictating our lives I’m just saying the same advice is never given to ethnic women who are after white men, I mean that’s like 80% of r/foreveralonewomen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:55 PM
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That would weed out 98% of the population where I live and like the other commenter said you don’t get to decide our preferences, why should I settle when everyone else is encouraged to get what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:42 PM
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The average man doesn’t meet the threshold so the men who are considered ugly are actually quite common
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:45 PM
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Just because it’s not the norm doesn’t mean it’s a made up scenario. I’m expecting to be told what’s the cut off point where acts of services or kindness or what have you can come off as desperate or people pleasing or submissive rather than just being perceived as a good, loving partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:58 PM
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Why have you never wanted a man to cook for you if you don’t mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:54 PM
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Norm compared to the average romantic relationship? I don’t know enough people and I’m comfortable going around asking this kinda shit, if it doesn’t apply to your life then feel free to scroll past it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:50 PM
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I don’t and I’d prefer it if you could elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:48 PM
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Does making meals on a daily basis adjusted to your tastes and frequent personalized gifts and texts sound like the norm to you? Because I haven’t seen much of that and since it’s not the norm it can definitely come off as too nurturing to someone who’s not used to that kinda treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:47 PM
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What if those romantic texts became way too frequent or cheesy or frequently sent you gifts at work? Wouldn’t that get annoying at some point and he might come off as needy even if that’s not how he sees it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:41 PM
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It’s a dream up until it overwhelms you and you start to think of your partner as a nurturing paternal figure as opposed to a romantic and sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:34 PM
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Go ahead then tell me what you think the “truth” is in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:29 PM
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The keyword here is being “too nurturing”, what you described seems like the regular amount of nurturing I very much doubt that’ll negatively impact a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:23 PM
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Most people irl don’t do know this red pill black pill PUA bullshit, at best they think red pill = Andrew Tate that’s it so if it worked ten years ago it still would and if it’s not working for you, you’re probably doing it wrong or you have so little self awareness that it’s hard for you to adapt according to your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:59 PM
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But more often than not the you’ll be attracted to women who are considered hot, and even if that’s not the case you’re the exception not the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:28 PM
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It’s more objective than subjective even if the objective definition has more to do social conditioning than pure biology
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:12 PM
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You gotta build up a good bit of it in your mouth before you spit it on your hand
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 01:19 PM
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I could pull a thousand reels of women saying the most abhorrent shit about men for superficial things. I dunno why you think you’ve made your point by posting one reel, it’s not like I said men don’t ever talk down on women based off superficial things. All I said was Instagram is full of dickheads regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:32 PM
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They don’t do all that for women though, they do it because they’re forced to, to earn a living or to make their bosses rich because again what other choice do they have? Women don’t have anything to with all this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:17 PM
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No? Feminine doesn’t necessarily mean gay
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:03 PM
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Not even I what? If you’re asking if I want men then no I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:03 PM
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Where are you pulling that number from? You’re very clearly extremely biased against men and you’re forgetting the fact men also shit on other men, women don’t shit on their own kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:21 PM
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No women don’t need men, most of them are doing just fine without relationships or sex. Only thing you need men for is to build things and keep society going which they would continue to do anyway even if women disappeared for a year straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:11 PM
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Yes they desperately need women, men don’t crave physical or emotional intimacy from other men most of the time which is why the “men need to look out for each other” argument is bullshit. Women don’t want men. Men don’t want men. No one wants men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:07 PM
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If there are women who do it to men as well then the conclusion should be Instagram is full of dickheads and not that men are overly harsh when it comes to women’s appearance, I mean just look at any height related TikTok or reels ffs they’re incredibly cruel about men’s bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 11:50 AM
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Happy for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:52 PM
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Is he hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:32 PM
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Most obviously aren’t but an alarming number of men are increasingly going the NEET route
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:47 PM
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Women are doing just fine though, it’s men who are checking out and NEETing because life isn’t worth it anymore. Too much effort for too little reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:05 PM
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Yes and I did and they provided a source and that’s not the first time I saw that anyway. Also going off of what I see irl it does check out anecdotally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:43 PM
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And I’m just supposed to take your word on that? If it’s not true then I need you to prove it or cite some source at least
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:35 PM
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What makes it garbage?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:33 PM
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If that was enough this sub wouldn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:15 PM
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For some men transactional things are all they have to offer because they don’t meet the criteria for a regular relationship and most of this criteria consists of immutable things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:06 PM
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Don’t we see like statistics of 60% or so young men struggling to date on a daily basis here? That’s more than the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:04 PM
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It’s not that for hard for you Some men do need a house and all that materialistic crap to get someone interested, it’s either that or a life of solitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:54 PM
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So what exactly are we talking about here? In what situation do you think I don’t take no for an answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:35 PM
3

? I don’t even ask anyone out lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:28 PM
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They’re fairly complicated and contradicting when you don’t meet their arbitrary standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:40 PM
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Pretty much but I don’t think it’s gendered and I don’t think it’s limited dating/sex either. People have been virtue signalling since the beginning of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:58 PM
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Easy to say fix your issues or take responsibility of your dating life while being tall broad NT and white. You have inherent advantages in every way possible and like every other normie you credit your success to your work instead of realising most of it has to do with immutable traits that you did nothing to “earn”. People who have inherent immutable disadvantages can’t do much about it there’s no gym to get rid of your autism/height/race/face.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:55 PM
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I’m not conservative but aren’t they less likely to be into body modification and tattoos?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:41 PM
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Like she said above, it might help but probably still not. Some people are just not cut out for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:16 PM
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You reckon he could get his dick wet if he wasn’t a whiny pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:58 PM
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When I see one (which is very frequent) I just feel intense anger and I just wanna get away from them and like wash my hands 28 times
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:14 AM
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Getting disgusted by someone’s stature seems like a really odd thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:42 AM
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Help me choose between meth addicts and fentanyl addicts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:41 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:10 AM
2

Oh yeah true that I actually reminded me of Dr K video related to this so if it interests you check it out What makes ADHD in women is different
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:33 AM
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Why are you accounting for that? Most people are neurotypical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:24 AM
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Yknow what I’ll just edit my post and make it solely about physical traits because otherwise everyone will answer like that, not that I’m saying you’re lying or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:21 AM
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When they say feminine it usually means feminine features (facial neotony, hourglass etc) + someone agreeable and easy to be around. To be clear I don’t want these traits I just think this is what they mean when they say they want feminine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:02 AM
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Do you believe men are just as hypergamous as women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:44 PM
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Just because they have agency doesn’t mean they’ll do something about it, 70% of US is either obese or fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:50 PM
12

Ok but why do you hate phones
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:59 PM
7

Alcohol is to cope with balding soo….
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:12 PM
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I thought it was top 20%? When’d it become 1?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:02 PM
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Balding + beer gut = hit the wall, which is most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:01 PM
7

Who? The vocal minority on the internet? How often do you even come across people who give a shit about your sex life?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:36 PM
4

You being in your own head is a death sentence? Sounds like a skill issue ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:35 PM
6

Being a deadbeat parent or a con artist is a moral failing, being a virgin is not and there’s no way for people to know if you are one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:45 PM
8

Who is going around asking people if they’re virgins let alone the reason for their virginity?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:40 PM
6

You can still just put them under the virgin umbrella no? Don’t need new labels
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:34 PM
4

Tbf the kinda men she mentioned in her first paragraph are quite common on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:22 PM
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Is that not enough for a hookup?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:17 PM
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I am not denying the work that goes into it I’m simply saying you don’t need top percentage physique to date/get laid as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:17 PM
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I wish he went into detail because how the fuck does that even happen what the fuckkk
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:23 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:37 AM
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I don’t expect you to understand a single thing about women’s bodies Most men’s calorie deficit is eating 2 burgers rather than 3 The irony
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:15 AM
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Vast majority of women would be shaped like an apple? Are you telling me every other European and East Asian country’s women have strict diet? Because the majority of them are slim and a healthy bmi. This apple/skateboard obesity shit is limited to America. Just fix your diet and you won’t even have to hit the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:06 AM
4

What were the boxes if you don’t mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:21 AM
10

The silence is deafening
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:19 AM
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Plastic surgery doesn’t have the same ROI for men bc most of their attractiveness comes from traits even plastic surgery can’t change (frame, height, MPB, race)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:45 AM
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Who’s asking you to be a perfect hourglass Instagram model though? Women do just fine without even being a healthy weight so just having a normal bmi already puts you in top percentages. I get that you’re working your ass off in the gym but it’s unnecessary for 95% of the women and necessary for at least more than 70% of the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:43 AM
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Literally n@zi adjacent preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:38 AM
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Yeah their version of dad bod is still like top 20% physique lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:33 AM
3

Ask out enough of them and you won’t even make a dime
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:56 PM
4

The women I come across irl don’t do this and are usually normal level headed people. But this stereotype definitely fits the women of this sub, they’re here to win and put men down instead of trying to get closer to the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:17 PM
4

Well have you considered that not everyone’s a Chad McChadington like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:00 PM
1

Just outta curiosity do you have specific looks standard (ex: a certain height/hair color or whatever) or is it an arbitrary you know it when you see it kinda thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:22 PM
2

Yeah fair I probably asked the wrong question. I’ll change it, would you date a friend who’s ugly but meets all your personality criterias? Provided no one else is in the equation? And if not then isn’t this the point of this entire thread that no amount of confidence and personality would do anything if you don’t meet the looks threshold? And yes men don’t do that either but we never claimed that they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:17 PM
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Wouldn’t you still likely date a friend who’s conventionally attractive than one who’s butt ugly? Like even if they’re both equally interesting or confident or whatever personality based criteria you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:07 PM
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Everyone’s a stranger until you get to know them and halo effect doesn’t go away after initial interaction and the same goes for horn effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:49 PM
9

“You must be a lifeless basement dweller since our views don’t match”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:45 PM
10

Can a 5’1 bald ethnic man be attractive if he was confident enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:08 PM
9

Yes you can, you don’t need confidence you do need to be neurotypical though but even that people will overlook if you’re hot enough. There’s nothing hotter than being physically hot. Also dating apps exist and if you’re hot it’ll take a lot outta you to fuck up and when you do it likely has nothing to do with confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:59 AM
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How do you know that it’s a very rare 1 in 50 kinda thing when you’re not even straight? Even if you’re going by observing other people your experiences would be very limited and you’re likely to have a positive bias since you have no skin in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:53 AM
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Yes you can
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:51 AM
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No shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:51 AM
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Literal crime? As in people should get legally punished for it? That’s insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:22 AM
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It’s gonna get removed again bc same gender questions ain’t allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:51 AM
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They can’t figure them out because people are complex and inconsistent, jobs are a lot more predictable especially when you’re not thinking with your dick. If most men were bi they wouldn’t be able to figure out other men either and the same concept applies if most women were bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:14 PM
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Most people don’t care because they don’t even know you exist, once they know you struggle you’re gonna be seen as a weirdo/potential threat because in their eyes there’s no other reason someone would struggle to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:08 PM
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Blame isn’t the word I’d use, no one chooses to be neurodivergent I’m not looking for a fight I’m trying to figure out what is it about you that’s holding you back despite having so many positive traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:49 PM
1

Of course it doesn’t but you’re tolerating him anyway so he clearly meets some subjective criteria that makes you stay in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:46 PM
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Constantly saying? Cherry picked examples are not an accurate representation of the norm. The vast majority of men don’t think loneliness justifies violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:45 PM
2

But that’s on you for not only staying in abusive relationship but also not vetting and ignoring the red flags in the start. They’re very different unless you see yourself and all other women as helpless victims with no agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:43 PM
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Not being sexually/romantically successful doesn’t mean you’re an unemployed .is user who yaps about revenge fantasies all day. The fact that you made that jump proves my point that sexually unsuccessful = violent incel in your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:38 PM
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Obviously not, definition of a good parent is a lot less subjective than definition of a good partner. I don’t even know why you’re comparing the two since no one gets to choose their parents but they do get to choose their partner and that makes it a conscious decision with a subjective criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:35 PM
7

He’s saying society sees you as immoral or morally deficient if you can’t pull. Individuals might not think that for not dating you he’s speaking on a broader scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:23 PM
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Definition of a good partner is subjective though so you can def be a shitty person and still have someone romantically idolizing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:21 PM
8

Are you neurotypical?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:05 PM
3

Why didn’t you pursue the women who told you you’re handsome?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:46 PM
2

So you’re saying size does matter then? Even if it’s just about the aesthetics
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:08 AM
1

What does not knowing how to fly mean in this context? What are they failing at?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:56 PM
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Most men are locked out not most women but yeah if you look at it that way then fair enough it’s relatively niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:23 PM
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It’s niche in terms of who gets the privilege of participating in it. If you’re counting everyone who wants to participate then it’s not niche anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:08 PM
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There is a hookup culture but it’s now only reserved for women and men who meet the criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:04 PM
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Then the title should be “The problem with some heterosexual men” also why is this limited to heterosexual men? Bi men can also be like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:32 PM
1

Well because some men are not right in the head, and if your counter argument to this is that some women are also not right in the head then it’s no longer a gendered issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:30 PM
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So the prisoners that get sent love letters are respected by women? Sounds like they’re creating their own problems
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:25 PM
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Neither me nor the OC said they benefit from that, who are you even arguing with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:19 PM
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He said plenty not all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:15 PM
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Don’t let him put you down I appreciate you brother I hope we both make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:24 PM
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Ugly + mentally ill + broke + effeminate, pointless to even try so I don’t bother. Still salty about it though and will continue to be until the day I die.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:35 PM
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You can be self aware about your situation and still not have your shit together, life doesn’t always go the way you planned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:27 PM
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Glad you enjoyed it <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:18 AM
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<image> HAAAAAANK! DONT LIVE WITH YOUR PARENTS HAAAAAAANK!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:03 AM
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I can agree to that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:05 PM
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They’re at historical highs because we don’t live in a bubble anymore, we get bombarded with negative news all over the world which wasn’t a thing before the internet, also now that mental health is taken more seriously and there’s less stigma people are more likely to seek help and thus more likely to get diagnosed with something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:22 PM
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I wasn’t speaking for everybody else anyway, I said personally in my initial comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:29 AM
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Not autistic but extremely asocial, I just don’t mesh well with most people and materialistic things make me consistently happy so I dunno what to tell you, even when I do click with someone they eventually do some disappointing shit or it just gets stale. Money and materialism has never disappointed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:48 PM
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Money buys me stuff that I’m emotionally connected to like good food, a clean and spacious home, expensive stuff in games as well as buying expensive triple A games the moment they release etc. It’s not as simple as just buying stuff for the sake of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:55 PM
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Personally if I didn’t have an emotional or physical urge to get a partner then I’d still grind to buy a house and a car and just general regular upper middle class luxuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:44 PM
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Why are you comparing adults in the 80s to the adults today though? Times have changed people are a lot more progressive and “normal” now outside your Reddit bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:53 PM
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It came from Netflix, 9/10 times locker room talk is not about women and even when it is about women it’s “I like x, she likes y what do I do?” kinda thing because if it was sexual, people around you would think you’re a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:05 AM
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I’m a normal proud virgin slut stop looking at me!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:19 PM
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It is beyond me why anyone would listen to that obnoxious insufferable defeatist of a man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:42 AM
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I believe you, but you gotta explain what you think the main problem is because odds are you have more agency than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:46 PM
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From 1% to 2%? Delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:44 PM
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I didn’t say your standards are unreasonable I’m just saying a lot of other people in your position would suck it up and pay for the date because god knows how long it would take to even get a date with someone else. And if your main problem is social skills or something that’s improvable or solvable then you do have agency and you are quite privileged for being 6’3 alone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:38 PM
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And you’re being picky because your 6’3 ass can afford to be, which is what OP is talking about. If most people could afford to be picky they would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:29 PM
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Statistically most women don’t even use dating apps so I don’t know why you’re basing your entire reality off that, do you not see average looking looksmatched couple where you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:49 PM
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Poor puppy? What about the woman? The puppy is where you draw the line of no chance of parole? Instead of the first time around?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:35 PM
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Tbf I don’t think people deny that women don’t have their own unique sets of privileges, they just say that overall male privilege > female privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:21 AM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:32 AM
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Easy to ignore the other gender when you innately have more social status and social privilege because of your gender
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:54 AM
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Most of Reddit including this sub is American or European though, sure it’s the case sometimes but the vast majority of time it’s an American who basis their reality off the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:29 PM
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This is cope most women find men in their 20s or men close to their own age the most physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:53 PM
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I feel like if you told the majority of men that they’d likely never get laid or in a relationship most of them would wanna self delete
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:20 PM
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99% of this sub is just men and women mindlessly shitting on each other
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:10 PM
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On an individual level no one’s gonna notice you’re gone, you can’t convince men as a whole to not be thirsty and desperate and become monks instead if they’re having a really hard time dating. It’s just not practical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:03 PM
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I’m not exactly blue pilled but I know a dude on Reddit who’s 5ft bald south asian born in Northern Europe and I do feel quite sorry for him, saying he got dealt a shit hand is an understatement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:56 PM
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I’m not red pill though? And there are red pillers who don’t think that so can we chill with the generalisations?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:12 PM
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Ok the “no one does that part” was wrong off of one example you found in the wild, good for you for understanding how hyperboles work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:49 PM
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Yes you made a “rebuttal claim” where you also cherry picked one tiny part of his original argument, good on ya for debating in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:33 PM
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Woah wtf when did I ever say that? Edit: tf are you people downvoting for I have literally never said that, fucking misandrist ass sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:28 PM
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And yet women still participate in casual sex so clearly they’re getting something out of it, orgasm gap exists because of biology it’s inherently easier for men to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:27 PM
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So your only argument is to pick the part where he fucked up and said no one thinks it’s the biggest problem? Yes ok you found one man who thinks it is and you can find a couple more but that’s still not an accurate representation of what most men think. I can come up with women saying atrocious shit too, does that mean that’s the majority opinion? You’re the one being an emotional white knight here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:24 PM
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Women aren’t complaining about dating just like billionaires aren’t complaining about poverty, why would they complain about something that comes easy to them? Something that they have innate privilege over?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:20 PM
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What’s the point of cherry picking unhinged comments? You can do this to make any group on this planet look bad, this person does not accurately represent what the majority of men on Reddit think let alone the majority of men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:17 PM
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It’s meaningless to YOU. Why do you feel like you can speak for everyone? If it makes someone happy then it is meaningful and it’s only selfish when it’s not reciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:16 PM
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So somehow it’s not sexism or bigotry or generalisations when you reverse genders?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:08 PM
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Just take a look at height and race preference and requirements statistics that women have for men, it is literally n@zi adjacent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:08 PM
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What? Gonna need you to rephrase that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:21 PM
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If abortion is a luxury then every basic right you have is a luxury, comparing abortions to gold watches is fucking insane are you actually this dense or just disingenuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:08 PM
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Sex is a luxury, abortion rights is basic bodily autonomy. How hard is this to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:51 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:29 PM
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I remember seeing stats that women and LGBTQ folks have higher rates of going to college and I’m guessing it’s because they have higher incentive to be financially independent because the lower class you are financially, the more it opens you up to abuse and that goes doubly for marginalised groups. In white collar jobs and upper class areas being known as a bigot or otherwise an unprofessional uncivil person would hurt your career a lot more than it would for a blue collar person in a lower cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:11 PM
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Fair enough, sorry you had to go through all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:08 PM
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So all or most wives are slaves? First you compare yourself with a refugee and now a slave, how out of touch are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:51 PM
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Also a correlation that men who struggle romantically also struggle all around socially, so they’re quite isolated which no surprise is bad for your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:49 PM
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Not to victim blame but why did you get into a relationship with him in the first place? Were the red flags not there from the start?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:46 PM
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Whenever the topic comes up? I don’t spend my entire day thinking about people with tragic lives but that doesn’t mean I say insensitive shit about them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:40 PM
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No? Why are you assuming shit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:32 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:41 AM
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Soon as they sag, you become a hag! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:54 AM
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Fr, shape and perkiness >>>>> size
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:09 AM
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I agree with the last paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:39 AM
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I dunno about others but I genuinely wholeheartedly like all sizes except maybe completely flat and even then it’s not a dealbreaker. If your frame fit your size then I really don’t give two shits how big or small you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:36 AM
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This is kinda insensitive to actual refugees
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:44 AM
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The topic was if men are upfront about how much looks have to do with rejecting someone, I never said men don’t lie about anything ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:50 AM
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The difference is that men are straight about it and women rationalise it by assuming bad things about men they find unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:41 AM
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Men locker room chat 9/10 times is not about women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:34 AM
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There’s nothing more blackpilling than real life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:18 AM
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There’s been like 3 shootings in total that’s less than 0.1% of incels
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:18 PM
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And the majority of incels do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:27 AM
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So you think the only people who look for casual in their 30s are people who didn’t get to hook up in their 20s? Because that’s not how it works, you can develop just fine and reach your milestones in time and still want casual sex in your 30s 40s 50s, nothing wrong with that. Different strokes and all. Also why so much judgement and scrutiny for people who missed milestones? So what if someone wants to catch up on missed milestones? What’s the shame in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:53 PM
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You’re not allowed to look for casual sex past 30? Why this restriction at an arbitrary number?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:39 PM
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God forbid a woman wants to be loved
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 05:07 PM
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Thank you, took me a whole week.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:36 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:14 AM
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That is such a specific scenario though how does that apply in day to day situations? If you’re pregnant you could just have other family members or friends drive you there I’m sure one of them would be willing to regardless of the time you call em.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:52 AM
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the poorest people today live far better than the middle class of 1850s Uhhhhhhhhhh whaaaaaaaaaat noooooooooooo whaaaaaaaat? WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAT???? Whaaaaaat the fuckkkkk aaaaareeee yoooouuu saaaaaaying faaaaaaam?!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:07 AM
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This isn’t limited to one topic though, very often the right is just close minded c*nts and the left is self serving hypocrites who lack self awareness. People are having less kids because it’s expensive and because there’s less cultural pressure and you don’t have to rely on a man to be financially stable anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:04 PM
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He’s not asking for a solution he’s asking for acknowledgment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:20 PM
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Yes there wasn’t money but there was always social status and social status means more access to resources, your life is prioritised more, more people to help raise the offspring with and general luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:10 PM
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Max potential is still in their twenties though, if you’re overweight and unkempt most of your life and then at 40 you decide to grind gym and do proper skincare and makeup then yes you might be the hottest you’ve been in your life and maybe even conventionally attractive but that doesn’t change the fact that you’d be even more attractive if you did all that in your twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:37 AM
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What would you do if the same thing happens again? You meet someone new and the chemistry and attraction is even better? Rinse and repeat?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:30 PM
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It’s not for you to decide what matters to people, if it’s important to the other person then either disclose or talk about why you don’t wanna disclose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:52 PM
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Do you really wanna be in a relationship with someone who’ll think low of you for having a high n count? Does the ‘starting relationship on a lie’ not apply when it’s women doing it? Doesn’t the other person deserve to know what they’re getting into?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:31 PM
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Me when I strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:14 PM
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I’ve been in therapy for near 3 years now, if anything it made me even more depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:48 PM
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Alright that’s cool and all but you don’t sound very blue pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:48 PM
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How does the process of making peace with that work? And don’t say therapy it doesn’t work for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:44 PM
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Pretty far if you can convince them you have some big connections
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:41 PM
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Me during dick size discussions <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:14 PM
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My advice is don’t listen to redditors regardless of their gender, instead take advice from someone who knows enough about you so they can tailor it according to your needs. Yes I know saying don’t listen to Redditors as a Redditor is contradictory but idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:57 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:00 PM
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Man got lucky once and thinks he has everything figured out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:17 AM
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I personally think nuking social media and dating apps would make things a lot closer to normal, of course there will still be incels that’s inevitable but people would be a lot less lonely even in a platonic sense if there only option to socialise is meeting people in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:35 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:51 PM
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Shit is tone deaf though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:05 PM
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I think with Big dicks at the very least you won’t ever get shamed for it, they might turn you down because of incompatibility but they’ll never make you feel unmanly for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:35 PM
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What does green pill mean? Apart from being jaded?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:33 PM
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Well you can ignore that one Redditor, the rest of us will respond in good faith and it doesn’t have to be a long arse formatted paragraph, just the main reasonings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:19 AM
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What did you do to make yourself unbelievably attractive? Isn’t there a ceiling?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:29 AM
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I don’t think it’s a reach to say most criminals are extroverted and have high risk behaviour which means they’re more likely to ask out women and the more likely you’re to ask out women the more likely it is that you end up dating someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:26 AM
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True but I find it entertaining tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:26 PM
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Is your wife aware of your beliefs? If so then how does she feel about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:52 PM
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I don’t think it owes me politeness. I think it does owe me basic decency though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:21 PM
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Well I don’t think saying something like that should have no repercussions, there should be some laws around it and same for if someone calls your slurs imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:06 PM
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Catcalling should come under verbal assault/harassment but I can agree that you don’t owe people courtesy or kindness or politeness and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:47 PM
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But if they didn’t you’d be ok with them using you because the government says so?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:28 AM
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Are most coupled men you come across IRL not average? If not then can I ask where you’re based?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:22 PM
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I don’t think anybody denied that? I don’t think anyone outside of Reddit cares who you date or not date for whatever arbitrary reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:18 PM
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Not necessarily but I don’t think OF in particular is morally wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:36 PM
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I honestly think that would change if we just nuked social media including dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:33 PM
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I don’t even know why the topic of OF is brought up so much, only the very top percent make good money the rest don’t even make enough to survive alone off it. On top of that I don’t blame anyone to take opportunities to make more money, it’s legal work anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:11 PM
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Like you’d date/have sex with literally anyone? You underestimate how hideous or otherwise off putting people can be
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:50 PM
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Damn I know someone with all those traits except the why aren’t women flocking to me part, he knows why he’s just sad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:15 AM
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Personally I’m a man and I find men physically disgusting to the point that I don’t even like shaking hands with them so it has nothing to do with homophobia at least in my case
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:33 PM
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Raised it, I’m on finasteride which lower my libido by like 20% and Wellbutrin brought it back up. When I wasn’t on finasteride Wellbutrin made me crazy horny but now I’m more on the normal side.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:48 AM
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I’ll be getting my ADHD diagnosis this month and I’m scared :3 Also Wellbutrin helped me with my libido and I’m really grateful for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:41 AM
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You’re a gem
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:23 AM
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Just outta curiosity, when you say it leaves more Asian men for you does that include South Asian? If not then would you consider yourself a bigot?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:08 AM
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Same my dad is fucking useless
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:11 PM
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Not a parent but I was all those things you mentioned and my parents didn’t do jack about it, I’m the only small framed small handed person in my entire family tree including the women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:45 PM
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In my defence I meant women on the more average/below average side so they’re more confused about their place, ugly and pretty people usually know where they stand and yes it is a generalisation so some people get unfairly looped in but fwiw I think what I said above applies for men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:30 AM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:41 PM
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I think this applies to women who don’t get approached very often or have a hard time dating in general so they’re unsure about their place in the dating market and an ugly person approaching them confirms their worst fears. If a woman is highly attractive I don’t think she’d feel disgust or at least not at the same level since she’s likely already secure about her place in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:49 AM
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