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I just got out of a relationship, so there sure is some confidence issues. But overall I'm pretty happy with myself. But I see your point, I will keep practising with an open mindset and respect for my self and the ladies.
/r/seduction30/05/15 05:35 PM
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It's totally cool to theorize even with limited experience, but everyone will tell you: it's much better getting that experience first hand and failing 1.000 times then making up situations in your head. :) Go get 'em Casanova!!
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:30 PM
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You gotta make her want to fuck you. If by rapport you mean you've talked to her about your life, then she does not want to fuck you, she might (a big might) go on a date. Get physical and tell her you want her (start subtle then tell her you want to fuck her against the wall). I'm no expert, but whenever I've pulled a one-night stand it's been because I was super sexual and didn't care either way :)
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:26 PM
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Seconded. I have personally found two girlfriends doing this stuff. It really helps and also it gives you a heck more confidence. One thing I found is that I end up with a lot more possibles and yet i still go with whom i have a connection with, I have not gotten picky, I have just sped up my dating so that I find "love" or the potential for love superfast. Would I be with the woman of my dreams if I had not begun? I do not know, but I don't think so.
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:12 PM
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Hmm, then you should "turn off" your attraction to her: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N6Ag6gynp2I
/r/seduction20/03/14 07:57 PM
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You wouldn't be on r/seduction and be afraid of rejection would you? Why are you speculating as to whether or not she likes you? Just find out! Sooner rather than later! Moving? Well, at least she's out of your head and you can start focusing on other chicks (I would recommend keeping contact to a minimum: for me semi-on relationships sap my willingness to game!)
/r/seduction20/03/14 05:22 PM
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I think it's important for you to not get bogged down with old emotions that wont go anywhere. If you really wan to fuck her, do you really want to be her friend? It seems like your brain is trying to make it ok to waste your time on this girl because you secretly (or not so secretly) really just want to fuck her. If I were you I would just put my moves on her, you'll find out whether or not you're compatible and if not, at least she knows your true intentions and THEN you can be friends. SHE kn…
/r/seduction20/03/14 04:52 PM
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I don't know about science. Psychology is mostly about making you not want to kill yourself and be ok with who you are. Most people are interested in some sort of romantic relationship so "doing something about it in way that feels natural to you" is a pretty normal cure (also works for weight, patterns of thought, job situation etc.). I mean, what else are they going to suggest? Not ever doing it?
/r/seduction03/03/14 11:59 PM
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You'll be surprised how quickly that changes. Just relax about getting the pussy, you are not a bad person for having slept with less than a hundred women (even zero). What you want is to eliminate nervousness, this is an exhilarating process! I started out all gooey and now I can walk up to the sexiest ladies and flirt (not bragging, it very often does not go anywhere because I still get nervous when I get to end-game). Just keep at it, if you are not actively gaming don't think about it, other…
/r/seduction03/03/14 11:56 PM
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I agree. It's just that sometimes one's behavior almost invites certain other behaviors. Haven't you ever met a girl who was practically begging to be treated a certain way? (like a princesse, a whore). Not saying people aren't different, just that certain behaviors are interesting and people either feel like they have to or they do it because they think its hot. In this case perhaps his insecurity made it very easy and perhaps it even seemed like he wanted it to happen.
/r/seduction03/03/14 11:51 PM
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Well, maybe they were friends with you because of how easy you were to 'control'. Do not make this dgaf into one of those life goal things were you forget to be yourself. ngaf, in my understanding, is not being mean or provocative, but letting go of the idea that your selfconfidence should stem from others people's approval of you. If before you said I'm sorry if a girl rejected you, now you say, well, and BIIIIG SMILE, your loss. See, you KNOW that she's missed out and you KNOW that what you di…
/r/seduction25/02/14 05:37 PM
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1- 25 2- 14 3. Started when I was 24.5 (went from 7 to 14) and had three semi-girlfriends that stopped me from going out regularly. Right now I'll fuck anything that moves, I've basically got no standards. I skipped a step in the process I think :) However, I will reject girls in the city from now on, and make it clear to myself that I am in charge of who I give the chance to be with me.
/r/seduction10/12/13 10:01 PM
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Hmm, how about masturbating? LOL :) I never got this nofab-stuff, it seems to be driven mostly by sexual guilt. I never had any problems with energy and I masturbate daily.
/r/seduction07/11/13 09:08 PM
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Only if you relax and stay in the freaking moment :) Nothing can hurt you if you're having maximum fun, i try to not give a fuck as often as possible. I also have a good looking friend, who girls walk up to by themselves, but remember girls also do that to you, and when they do its because you're freaking interesting and not just a prize :) If you're the best you and she's not interested, then she's not for you :)
/r/seduction13/07/13 09:28 PM
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Went out tuesday through saturday. Banged a 5-6 wednesday, made out with a 6-7 thursday. Danced with maybe 5 groups of 7-10s for long periods of time, danced and tried escalating with 4-5 single ladies ranging from 2-5 (the 2 was a friend, who i unfortunately had sex with very drunk, but is a nice person and fun going out with (she doesn't get in the way/get jealoux)). Am i trying too hard? I was semi drunk 3-4 nights and not drunk at ALL saturday.
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:07 PM
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Shit i reported the top poster, i tried to reply, haha, how do undo it?
/r/seduction16/06/13 04:29 PM
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Thanks for the advice everyone :) I can recognize much of what you are saying, and i guess i kinda lost my initial focus, the fact that I wanted to be the one to seduce, not the other way around. I HAVE danced and lead and kissed before, like a boss, but I was kind of drunk and it ended there. I guess i need more practise :) And i assure you gentlemen, I WILL NOT STOP TILL I FIND A BEAUTIFUL INTERESTING GIRLFRIEND!!
/r/seduction16/06/13 04:23 PM
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