I have been giving this a shot for some time now, but i keep being dragged into old habits. I got 5 numbers last night, which was ok, but the majority are worthless, I think they are an excuse.

My approach goes like this: Approaches, my name is, get to know what she studies, have a little fun, maybe spin her around a bit or dance with her, make some sexual joke or something like that, get her number, next. (always ask her if she's single, sometimes overtly, sometimes by hinting).

I've gotten something like 40-50 numbers these past 8 months and gone on dates with 3-4 (of the girls i got numbers from), had 4 f-closes (two were not good looking and I think it sucked). Most of them write me back, but flake when it comes to an actual date.

Perhaps I should go for the kiss more often and be less drunk when doing it (so i remember all actions taken and can correct them).

I need motivation to keep going and advice on what to change, because it seems like girls don't magically love me even though i talk to them (i am not vulnerable, when it is just talking):)