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Then why not the height? or maybe both since for some people those who are younger than them by a bit might feel childish to them in some ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:21 PM
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It's just that I do find it funny when women in this case think their side which is composed of millions of people and has a plethora of other factors involved is incapable of being unfair and wrong, like how delusional can you be really? Humans on average are awful, especially in these settings where emotions are high and rationalizing shit is rampant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:18 PM
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I can't name any but I'm sure there are a bunch, just like there are a bunch of women who either killed or horribly mistreated men due to feminism, it's all following a natural course of action due to how human's psyche is. Eh, whatever this isn't going anywhere anyway so might as well cut it short.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:17 PM

As in it makes you feel cute like the attraction to height?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:14 PM

What's the reason behind that 2-year gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:06 PM

Cats are cool but no they wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:57 PM
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What are you talking about ? Are you essentially saying people particularly women are mean to incels online ? Yes , but because we are attacked by incels to justify their celibacy. Not really. Society in general looks down on virgin men and women can be a bit on edge hearing about those complaints that they have, most of which are reasonable. So, I'd say some women have a very strong in-group bias which makes them sensitive to the criticism of any woman, or women in general. There is also the fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:56 PM

Legal, financial, and if there are kids more heartbreak.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:47 PM

No way? The guy is very unattractive and has some disabilities. Not really the best masculine archetype out there. But I do think that a hot actress won't be affected much by his status and fame unlike an average woman, so it's intriguing to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:45 PM

What I want to say is women proposing is a bad idea since men face bigger repercussions in case that marriage fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:43 PM

People who say these kinds of things usually have a very low ick threshold towards their partners. What I heard is you want someone who's performing a stereotypical masculine dance 24/7. I am not trying to judge here, but are you aware of the disadvantages of falling toward that sort of subconscious intolerance and thinking? Like how quickly your pussy would dry if you saw your man just fucking bawling his eyes out, baby crying and all? Have you ever experienced this? Because I don't think peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:42 PM

The D-D, no shame in that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:37 PM

I don't think that's a good idea actually. Maybe there are guys who do want to get married but are scared off by how quickly you bring it up and they get suspicious. And why are you so in need of that proposal doesn't love and companionship without any government intervention cut it? Men in general are pretty distrustful of that right now and you bringing it up sounds like you're working against their interests and trying to harm them, and it isn't really what one might call a sexy quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:35 PM

If we're going on an adventure where there is a 50% chance that I will get severely injured while nothing will happen to you, then it makes sense for me to be the one to initiate that proposal as I have much more to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:33 PM
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Incels don't lose access to anything and no one is placing incels in a position of little power or importance. I've lived as a black woman witnessing marginalization personally and from my loved ones around me. True, but there are social views that affect the way people talk about certain people and how they view them and so on which gets internalized by those people and creates for them a very hostile and unwelcoming environment which exacerbates their problems. And of course incels get insulte…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:29 PM
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It's not ironic because he didn't attribute those characteristics to a single group of people like women, he was talking in general. The chaotic feminine has nothing to do with women, but inward psychological traits of individuals sort of like the Tai Chi diagram, people being composed of both. He sees himself as someone who has more feminine energy and traits so yeah he wasn't really insulting some other people but criticizing the human condition as a whole. Thus when people mocked those tears …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:20 PM

Lol is fucking right!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:09 PM
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Let's be clear on this one, you don't think that there is a chance, a small one even, that you can be stalked if you're in the business of studying culture, social trends, psychology, and so on... And you're famous for being a controversial figure who ruffles some feathers? People send death threats for the stupidest reasons, getting stalked and harrassed is just normal once you reach a certain social influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:03 PM
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That's just stupidity man, you can't just go around calling people you don't agree with clinically insane, if anything it's a reflection of your own psychological instability that people's disagreements bring forth such strong negative feelings in you that you consider them as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:58 PM
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Good god man, how delusional and weak do you have to be to spew such unfiltered bs lol? You are not the decision maker of what is objectively true or not. It seems as such to you because you have emotional investments and gains in the beliefs that you hold but other people are different they hold other things as important for a plethora of reasons hence the difference. You are not wise, they aren't either, you're just racing in different horse tracks betting on different horses. It's normal from…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:53 PM

That's fair, you clearly set out boundaries and stepped over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:49 PM
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This is Reddit we hate everyone who is associated with the right due to left superficial propaganda about whom we should like and dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:48 PM
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There is nothing funny about that. You being emotionally invested in his suffering due to political differences is on the hand worrying to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:45 PM
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Have you noticed how a lot of famous men who cried on national TV became famous memes like Kanye, Will Smith, Tyrese Gibson, and others. hmm ... Why are they all black?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:43 PM

What made you decide that it's worth breaking up over?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:37 PM

I see, well done. I'm having a bit of trouble with consistency as of late but I try to at least keep it working and work out at home with body weight training and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:35 PM

Not really, a lot of men are waking up and becoming aware of the dangers of porn on the brain/mind and choosing to quit. Ok, maybe a lot is... a lot, some.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:28 PM

You're giving the angle and lighting too much credit by saying mostly. They played a role that's without a doubt but there is an obvious difference since it's more than 20lbs+ of muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:19 PM

Other than that it doesn't really much economic sense at all, especially for the man right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:48 PM

Not really baby momma, wife, and husband under the eyes of both of you there is no need for government involvement in personal stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:45 PM

What are the benefits though other than some arbitrary psychological influence of seriousness? Like taxes and stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:39 PM

What legal frame?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:36 PM

Damn 2 months that's insane, how much have you been eating? And I don't think it's mostly muscle if it's just 2 months right? But overall nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:26 PM

I can't argue with that actually. But ultimately it's a matter of habit and getting accustomed to things, vaginas aren't the most aesthetically pleasing organs out there but you know that's normal it's genitalia. If the driving factor behind kids mutilation is pandering to the female's sense of aesthetics then it's pretty clear who should come first. There has been numerous studies on how destructive it is on babies since they can't use anesthesia, it's just not a matter of pain and you forget a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:25 PM

Circumcision MGM is morally reprehensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:05 PM

You don't necessarily have to do it later either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:04 PM

Begone with your destructive positivity, you've done enough damage! Wise were the ones who said that the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Curses!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:02 PM

You freaking demon chill. Ah shit, you're challenging me right now, they're fine just a bad angle you should see them from the front!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:58 AM

Yo, what the heck that's me! Bad angle, bad angle I tell you! My pecs are sculpted by the gods themselves, the margin of error is pretty slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:55 AM

What do you think about this transformation? https://imgur.com/a/7NACMmX
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:41 AM

u/MiasmicSector She's talking about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:48 PM

telling Here is where you're messing up. It's not really difficult mate, I mean if you've really really made up your mind and processed everything about it. No fake cry for help no nothing, then it's just a matter of bom bang you're out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:37 PM

It depends on how you look at it I guess. But people seem to want to force you to stay. Lol as if!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:32 PM

Not really it's such a simple answer for me. I'd rather be forcefully teleported to a party of this magnitude than not be invited at all. At least then if I do find it to be boring and not to my taste I can dip. If you know what I mean. Non-existence is at the end of the day the 99.999999% of our existence so might as well enjoy this shit a bit for better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:26 PM

Was asexual. You can't bring up someone who never expressed any desire for sex as an example, that doesn't make sense. I doubt we really know that for sure, for sure. But yeah there are a bunch of other sexless dudes. I just looked it up Nikola Tesla and Immanuel Kant, I mean these two are a great duo. Well, that's great for you man keep on enjoying other things and work on yourself, mentally speaking, maybe one day you'll get to put a P in a P, it's not really some great achievement either. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:22 PM

Haha lol but thankfully we're here man, it's such a weird situation that regardless of how painful it is always tops non-existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:19 PM
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That could be measured alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:15 PM

I do not think this is really the main or only reason people give birth. Some don't even think about it they just run the natural course of where life is taking them and bang baby. Some do it because they find great fulfillment in having a bunch of people all of whom are very close to themselves, but I think most people just do it for a plethora of reasons, and sometimes one of which is the one you stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:12 PM

My argument is very simple: If you're not a bad person and you want to get laid, you'll get laid. That's all there is to it. It's 100% "just world fallacy" and it's 100% true. The only people who are out there who aren't fucking are weirdo incels who genuinely despise women. Not really bad people get laid all the time, I think they get laid way way more often through manipulation, force, and just being an overall dick. Find me ONE person there who isn't completely and utterly fucking terrible an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:09 PM

Being lusted for is a quintessial part of being a human. The notion that there are far greater things to do is just idiotic. Highly doubtful. Do you mean to tell me that as long no girl gives you the fuck me eyes your life is worthless? I find that hard to believe. You said lusted, the emphasis is on that. What even is "far greater things one should aspire to"? Is it making 10 billion USD, is it becoming the president of the US? What would any of that matter if you have never experienced love? H…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:06 PM

How is it rape? Like I get the idea of taking advantage of very vulnerable people who have no other skills than that and need to provide for their families and so on, but there is a multitude of people you know. Some girls just like it because it seems easy or for whatever other reason. There is no way you're not hiring a hooker just because of ethical apprehensions, there is more to the issue. Maybe you're afraid, you don't want a woman to see in a state that you deem as pathetic, you will feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:01 PM
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I think it was mostly putting oneself in fatal situations in an attempt to save someone or something's life. I was looking for the stat to give it to you but I couldn't find the exact thread where I saw it. I saw it less than a month now in r/MensRights
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:54 PM

I do understand the value and importance of getting laid, love, and companionship, don't get me wrong. However, it doesn't change the fact that it's such a minuscule aspect in the grand scheme of things, there are far greater things that I think one should aspire to, one of which is having character and being someone whom the wind cannot shake. Not getting your dick wet and letting it reduce you to such a sorry state is one example. Your whole argument is driven by self-loathing I don't really t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:48 PM
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A stat that I saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:35 PM

Waking up hard is the norm in most healthy males, hence the popular term morning wood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:34 PM

Even if what you said is true, not finding love and reproducing isn't really the greatest measure of one's value from a more existential perspective, not even biological. Some of the greatest men who have ever lived, in my opinion at least, never had any children and some of them never got laid. That is assuming you're the most non-fuckable guy out there which I doubt. Things are really just important as we allow them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:33 PM
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Dead on is a strong word for such a big movement. The average human is dumb and emotional and has no particular interest nor genuine care for the overall quality of life or the pursuit of truth. Any movement that managed to garner a big chunk of people is a good testament and reflection of how empty and emotionally driven it is so that it only offers people refuge from their own weakness. But I agree feminism has a lot of important points and it shed light on some of the subtle and obvious ways …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:48 PM
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I agree but you need to add some parameters there. Most victims of homicide are men, men are responsible for 80% of violent crimes and 60% of those are by 1% of men. 95% of heroic acts of protection and sacrifice are also done by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:41 PM
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Sometimes I touch my own butt just to get a feel of how a woman's would feel like, sigh...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:34 PM

You're like a Pandora's box, you keep on surprising! Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:31 PM
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This is the most satisfying answer to you, not the most factual. The important question that we should ask ourselves is rather why we find satisfaction in these answers and how to avoid these tendencies that make us engage in and perpetuate delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:48 PM
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It's been a couple of years since I last played a game but the other day I came across this one called Fishing Planet and coincidentally I was contemplating getting a rod to start fishing and so I went for it. And I wasn't disappointed! The game is super-realistic, not in the graphics(they are great), but in the mechanics. You need to take everything into consideration to catch a fish its favorite bait/lure, wind speed, water temperature, weather, time of day, and your gear's capability. The onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:44 PM

But you're not really talking to the same person. Maybe people complained and then made a gameplan and moved on and you're just seeing new waves of complainers because the doers are silent?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:12 PM

All of my turds feel gay, because they feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:42 PM
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Ignorance is bliss I suppose. The Duluth model is a thing, if things go sideways she can call the cops and you'll be deemed automatically guilty and jailed. In Scotland right now they're working on pushing these cases without a jury, just a judge if he or she finds you guilty then bang from innocent to prison time with the hardcore criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:38 PM
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Well, I do appreciate the open-mindedness it goes a long way towards building a healthy society and it is every individual's responsibility to hold themselves accountable for being weak and perpetuating negative ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:57 PM

The problem is this “War On Boys” rhetoric excuses such behavior because its claiming sexism for when these behavioral problems results in getting demerits at school. It’s like BLM crying racism without acknowledging the problems these communities have with men/boys acting violently and just disregarding the law, contributing to the escalating of police encounters. You are afraid that it will. It will not I can assure you. There are too many things to ensure that. The empathy gap, the women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:56 PM
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Surprisingly wholesome, thanks for the comments very mature of you. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:48 PM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:46 PM
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I agree. However, it is blaming men because it is hypocritical and incomplete. Women have been spewing toxic shit since the dawn of the internet, "The future is female", "Girl Power", "Toxic Masculinity", "M*n", and so on... We have so many double standards and just a shitshow of how we treat men. Just in Reddit for example, go to the popular subs and see the things they're allowed to post and upvoted to the peak of popular that is about men. Look at stuff relationship advice and see the differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:45 PM
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Let's suppose that was indeed the case, although that remains to be seen because in Reddit or just West in general any criticism towards women is some sort of hate movement because only god knows how enlightened the women are as a group. Why is it okay for women to indulge in their hate against men without any opposition, encouraged even while the opposite isn't? I can't remember how many "Oh god men" with 10k votes and more that I saw in very big subreddits in the tens of millions. That behavio…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:30 PM
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Yeah, let's trust Reddit's objective sense of morality and justice. You're also not normal, and if you hold such sentiments then it is only natural that you partake in focusing heavily on whatever you think men are doing badly. But you will be celebrated and supported in their hate, and they will not, rightfully so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:26 PM
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Ah, I see. Fair enough. It's just that there are men like that as well but are still called misogynistic nonetheless, I believe the sub was even banned. MGTOW. Because how dare they not want anything to do with women? Could they actually believe that women are bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:57 PM

Then why do I watch a fuckton of conservatives and consistently criticize woke feminists? Then I take it back. But it doesn't change the fact that you do have negative biases about men and generalize a lot. Not believing either gender is oppressed and the belief of personal responsibility is feminist to you? No, no. Gender-specific issues do exist and should be treated as such. Personal responsibility is very necessary, absolutely even. However, so is dealing with social and foundational issues …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:53 PM

Usually calling random things facts do help in sleeping better at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:44 PM

If this will help you sleep better at night go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:37 PM

You distance yourself from feminists because you know they're not looked at favorably here but you are a feminist Lilith. Everything there is about you is a textbook feminist way of thinking. There can't be a discussion if you've already chosen what to believe before you even talked with people or did any research. This shows what? an emotional investment in the outcome, you have biases, negative ones about a huge chunk of the population and you are in a society that doesn't criticize those bias…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:25 PM
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Just like that misogynistic trope: I want my women silent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:07 PM

I've been vegan before but now I'm more vegetarian. It's a weird combo, I am associated with woke liberals but woke liberals see me as an incel. It's not weird go for it, she'll like it who doesn't want to be a tree?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:50 AM

You just see what you want to see Lilith. There is no discussion if your mind is already made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:47 AM

What? Who the heck are ya? Some 26F in an open relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:54 AM

It's just nasty man. That's like polyamory with extra steps. #Monogamy is the shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:46 AM

Ouf, talk about unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:39 AM

The thing is people who really view things as such would be at the extreme end of the red pill, and no most of them aren't virgins and have great game. You're conflating bad thinking with getting women, but that's not the case. Studies show actual misogynists do very great with women because they really do view them as less and so they can act very haughty, arrogant, and so on which translates to confidence and a superficial display of competence which is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:37 AM

Haha you got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:31 AM

This is too elegant. He hated that. I'd wager that he'd love to rave with the youngsters sober as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:03 AM

And wine! Don't forget a bit of wine under the moonlight. He loved that shit. Well, he also used to fuck there but just drinking wine is good enough I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:00 AM

Fuck I wish. I can only admire him from 800 years away.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:55 AM

Why not a Zen Chad monk is the question? My favorite Zen monk likes to fuck around but eventually fell in love with a blind chick when he was close to death. Ironic in some ways, but he had fun. Well... somtimes. Eight inches strong, it is my favourite thing; If I'm alone at night, I embrace it fully - A beautiful woman hasn't touched it for ages. Within my fundoshi there is an entire universe! Fucker was packing though haha! Here is another poem about pussy from the same monk: It has the origin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:43 AM

Yeah lol, what's up with that? I can't stop watching them for some reason. We'll see how this will turn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:06 PM

Dude the woman killed them in their sleep and/or framed them I doubt they will find the time to browse PPD, LOL! But yeah no I don't have direct experience with behavior that severe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:51 PM

Your whole opposition towards this whole sex is not a need because you think then some men feel entitled to it and you're here to save the ladies from less entitled men. Sex is a need. To feel entitled to sex is a sign of great psychological dysfunction and turmoil. No one is entitled to anything that requires the effort and willingness of another. The majority of sexless men don't feel entitled to sex, that shit is weak af. Those who do are troubled and aren't exactly seen as the sanest people …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:46 PM

The biggest indication is seeing someone's past coupled with present circumstances and their current mental and emotional state. It's very easy to read people and keep updated about their overall "story" if you will. Of course in this case it's someone living with you so the long hours of interaction are bound to bring a lot of valuable knowledge about said person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:43 PM

What a privileged statement lmao. Tell that to a 30-year-old man who never received any form of physical intimacy and see how much this "great desire" messes up with his head. It's very well documented. Intimacy, physical touch, and sex are needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:34 PM

When I get sick my body manages to produce these nasty phlegm and trust me you'll be disturbed through no fault of your own. Those things are the definition of unholy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:32 PM

Men who when she looks at them she sees nothing of value to her. They don't have money, she doesn't want their attention and basically, there is just nothing to extract be it psychological or physical. Losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:28 PM

Your future self.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:11 PM

I'd say sometimes people just don't want to upgrade that relationship for whatever reason, and sometimes people do want that but are either clueless or apprehensive about how to approach it. So, just take chances and stick your neck out because you will get rejected but you'll also make some friends. That "Yeah totally bro" could actually be both a rejection and also an acceptance, I guess it'll depend on other subtle elements to gauge which is which. But if you can't do that just ask them once …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:48 PM

Here is the thing, you don't want it to be sexism, you want boys to be the ones fully responsible for everything so that... I don't know, you could keep your privilege and sleep well at night. Hence, sexist. Again I'll give show your male counterpart, that guy who denies female-specific problems, sexism, and misogyny just because. Why can't you accept that there are some men's issues where women play a big part, a small part in others, and no part whatsoever in other issues? You know just like h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:20 PM

Have you heard about the scientific method? To have zero desire for any particular result or outcome because that would influence and be a hindrance to actually finding the truth. You already have a particular idea that you want to be true, and that is why you'll see it regardless of how many experiments you do. You're like those die-hard RP fans that you see in an FnF podcast or something. Zero desire for anything other than negatively portraying women to feel better about themselves. There is …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:01 PM

Because they are compared to girls. There are biological differences between the two and in this behavioral problems don't mean hitting, bullying, and this and that. It just means being loud, playing rough with other boys, making a ruckus in class, and being inattentive. This is why it's unfair, the girls' mode of functioning is seen as the perfect normal healthy human behavior, but this isn't the case. That is why boys are over-prescribed ADHD and are medicated, punished, and find themselves in…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:44 PM

I am 100% sure she doesn't see the irony of her entire existence. She is exactly like those people who she religiously hates. She generalizes, makes stupid points, isn't interested in truth merely furthering her ideological involvement, wants to negatively portray the opposite side, has a side, and is just bitter and doesn't care for society as a whole merely some stupid emotional investment to protect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:38 PM
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I think AF/BB is emotionalized but not in the way women perceive it. Women generally see it as some sort of attack for some reason, but this topic specifically was never meant for them, it was meant for the blue-pilled betas who need a wake-up call so they can work on themselves to be someone's first choice and not the 30s. It's tough love in some senses as it highlights how some women go about settling and so on and it advises men to grow a pair, have some standards, and walk out if you don't f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:31 PM

A master deflector out here! This is exactly what I said boys who do bad things shouldn't be held accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:20 PM

Is this really the conclusion you took from that? Sigh, get a grip, no need to take out your frustrations about misogynistic men on young boys who have done no wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:06 PM

It tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:46 PM

I think you're delusional then. I agree that there are some gender-specific behavior but I don't think it's biological but are social and should be approached as such. I will never just let a woman bitch every time shit gets a bit tough or complain about the same thing without doing anything about it and not say anything. I've seen women who are very well-adjusted and are healthy so that's my bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:46 PM

If the reverse was true and the women who were having behavioral problems and disproportionately go to jail the narrative would be society has failed women and sets them up for failure from the get-go through constant abuse, neglect, and lack of healthy outlets that they end up in prison. You know this whole topic you're on about only has two answers. Either men are inherently violent and toxic, or our society is made up in such a way that it produces dysfunctional men because it doesn't have th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:43 PM

Ah, yes yes, great points. I also think just biologically speaking men having an out-group bias was necessary for the survival of our species, otherwise, imagine all of the drama that would have happened? More than the drama, even before we were self-aware things would have been bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:35 PM
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I'm a 23-year-old autistic virgin. Yet, it doesn't change the fact that what was said is true. Ad hominem and all that jazz. Seeing your flair I thought you cool for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:23 PM

It's immediately "see its their own fault" but never "see its their own achievement" Tell me more about this, I don't quite get the point you're trying to convey.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:22 PM

You are looking at this from a woman's perspective. You are projecting. The world isn't made up of two different groups who are only interested in their own group's benefits and self-interests. The world is made up of individuals who look after themselves, and that is especially true for the men's side of things. The men who have the power don't care about men's issues, they care about how maintain their strong grip over their power and influence which would mean needing strong and solidified su…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:19 PM
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Yeah, you sound stable and objectively logical. This is all but an emotionally driven drivel.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:12 PM

Studies show that the popular forms of therapy aren't suited for male psychology. Other studies also show that because that field is female-dominated it is in a lot of ways punitive against men. You know that 91% of men who kill themselves seek professional help before they off themselves? Contrary to the popular victim-blaming belief men should just ask for help and open up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:11 PM

Men have an out-group bias, and women have an in-group one. If you look at individual behavior and general global behavior you'll notice the same trend. Even politicians value women's issues more because it's more voters. So, yes, you're right men can be too individualistic to a fault and it's one of the core reasons why things are the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:09 PM

They don't. They care about women's issues, we've been taught for 50 years now how poor and helpless women are, and how privileged are men. What are you expecting from a feminist-indoctrinated society?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:05 PM

This is literally a gender flip version of what woke feminists say to never take responsibility for themselves and to never address real problems, only to fuel their sexism. The difference is whether that barrier is there or isn't. The barrier I spoke of exists and can be measured, but that is if you really care. Look, I have no respect for you whatsoever, you are weak. You are that man who can't accept the fact that women in some situations are very prone to get raped and sexually assaulted jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:03 PM

Because you know people are different and at different stages of growth and maturity. You will find reasonably healthy people to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:59 AM

There are degrees to this and nuance is necessary. I think that finger-pointing and blame are justified because feminism or gynocentrism is at the root of all of these issues because their foundation lies on some very strong debatable topics such as male privilege, patriarchy, and women's oppression. To admit and highlight the problems of men will definitely undermine them as a whole which is why they will always try to undermine men's issues if not outright cancel them. They're whiny little shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:52 AM

Yeah but don't just accept those things as they're unhealthy and unsustainable for a long-term relationship. She's a grown-ass woman if she's doing something unhealthy talk to her about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:48 AM

If you’re going to bring up a serious problem., do it in a way that’s ACTUALLY ADDRESSING IT. Not just wanting to whine about “gynocentricism”. If you want to complain do it in a way that won't make me feel bad. That's what I'm hearing. Complaining or whining as you called it is actually necessary, it's the first step towards change. And as of yet, in this feminist-monopolized society change isn't easy and so whining is the only outlet for injustice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:46 AM

Why are you staying is the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:43 AM

Why is it bullshit? You just have an in-group bias and you feel specifically targeted that is why you're defensive. Boys are graded worse than girls for the same grades, they are graduating from colleges less and less, and are killing themselves by the droves. Why can't you just empathize no one is blaming you personally, it's a societal issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:42 AM
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That's what the whole post is about, you liked other things about them and sex can be improved. Unless you think sex can't be improved and in this case, it makes sense for you to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:37 AM
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Yeah, I do agree completely. I also think it is a matter of maturity. It's like how when we were young teenagers we sought girlfriends sometimes just because we liked that image of us being with someone, or for whatever stupid superficial reason. However, as you mature and you change you start wanting something more, you get greedy but in a more healthy way, you want someone who you will connect with deeply, a partner, and so on. I think this is the same as they're completely satisfied with thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:58 AM
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I would say yeah this is the biggest reason why I don't agree with marrying early, a lot of changes occur and chances are you and your partner will grow up to become incompatible in a lot of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:47 AM
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Boys are graded worse than girls for the same answers, still, this is but a superficial symptom of a bigger problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:44 AM
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I think at the root of it all it's just giving in to meaningless pleasure and we all do that to some degree whether it be through movies, shows, fast food, alcohol, weed, drugs, and so on... Why should sex be any different? Would you change the way you look at someone just because you found out that they partake in something a little bit too much? It would change how you look at them but not negatively, you'll just think that they have some issues, just like this girl exactly going to therapy an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:41 AM
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Sex is a serious affair, it is objectively serious. You might not treat it as such due to social influence which is filled with its own fair share of troubles, but it is so. Biologically there is a risk of pregnancy and STDs, and psychologically it is a very intimate act, you get naked, you perform sexual acts, and so on... All of these things are very vulnerable things that should be given the importance that they deserve so that it'll be something that only brings the two of you closer togethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:42 PM
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You're just seeing what you want to see as I have no idea how you reached this conclusion I didn't say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:38 PM
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It was specific enough use your imagination it's fine to think that women such as those do indeed exist it's normal, and it's not entirely their faults either the men are also responsible, just in a more pathetic way but responsible nonetheless. Your close social circle isn't reflective of the world as a whole, read, watch, and talk with people who either saw or experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:17 PM
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Yes, I think what you described is non-existent. Then you are simply delusional, the way I'd look at someone who told me this is the same way I'd look at someone who said the sky is green. I don't know if you're just lying, but if you're being serious then that simply means that you have an agenda or rather a narrative that you want to upkeep because it doesn't suit your ideals. I can't quite put my finger on it really, maybe the women in these cases are portrayed rather negatively thus you want…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:05 PM
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That's what this whole post is about, isn't it? When women past a certain age start looking to settle down and they go for guys who they wouldn't have dated usually. Those average men seem to them like the safest bet because of a lot of reasons such as their lack of options, their low self-esteem compared to them, their lacking experience due to their desert-like dating prospects, and so on... This gives the women in question a huge advantage and power in those relationships as they can dictate …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:51 PM
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That is almost definitely. Insecure men with no self-respect who let people who clearly disrespect them and think lowly of them without walking away because they're both terrified of being alone and are satisfied with just the crumbs of an illusory loving relationship. Sheesh poor guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:28 PM
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I wouldn't say arbitrary, it's a common nugget of social truth, something that doesn't necessarily mean anything in and of itself but we give it meaning and so from then on it carries a certain expectation. To put sex on hold in the first stages of the relationship would usually mean that someone is looking for something serious and long-term, takes sex seriously, and so on... Which has nothing to do with being sex-negative or anything like that. But these things change to reflect the current so…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:24 PM
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I would just say that he's a man who's very secure in himself and enjoys being a giver in a relationship. Some man might act exactly the same but if he lacks those important psychological traits it'll be a pitiful display of desperation instead of a romantic man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:09 PM
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I have no idea why some women on this sub love to be so redundant. If you want to have sex in the first date go for it, if you want to wait go for it, do whatever you want. The fact that she's a free woman who can do whatever she wants is something that is given, no one thought otherwise, this isn't the ISIS dating sub. We were discussing how those different options that she has lead to different outcomes, and that's what OP wants, to know which option will lead to her desired outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 07:57 PM
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Acknowledging him means also acknowledging other things such as you are mature, you can do whatever you want, you'll move out, and so on... Which they have trouble with. You know of the great signs of love to me is understanding people's fucked up ways of thinking and just see that as a basic weakness that we all share and learn how to navigate that relationship regardless. This doesn't mean being a doormat, quite the opposite in fact, something different altogether. Just tell him it's nothing p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:34 PM
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That's a tough one. Your mom doesn't recognize your adulthood, maturity, and self-agency to have a boyfriend, or rather she doesn't want to see it, which is her problem if you ask me children eventually grow up and leave the nest that's unavoidable. You can also be a part of this problem if you're also older but never bothered to adult, as in you still take full advantage of their care and never question it or rebel against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:25 PM
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If you live in the West maybe not so much although I'm sure there is, but in other poorer corners of the world sacrifice is a great virtue as it ensures the survival of a lot of people, more than that it keeps people's hopes in humanity and their communities very high which is one of the biggest pillars of security and happiness in any given society. I guess the main point here is you're trying to eliminate something good, which is bad. I do agree with you that there is a stupid form of sacrific…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/23 07:13 PM
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Of course, you're just talking about cases where sacrifice isn't necessary and was done purely out of some sort of heroic romanticism right? Because there are cases where sacrifice is necessary to save someone, you're not advocating for people to always believe that their own life will always have a higher value just because it belongs to them. I think teaching sacrifice is great as it at least manages to keep on rippling a wave of goodness towards anything that it comes into contact with, and w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/23 05:10 PM
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Yeah, it was done to me without anesthesia as well. I think I was 6 years old or something, I don't remember it well enough but I heard from the family I was screaming like a banshee, which makes sense. I am definitely carrying that trauma deep down somewhere as it subtly negatively influences everything there is about me.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 03:25 PM
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Well, you gotta appeal to the female's aesthetic preference man... Let's sexualize young boys the moment they're born so as to not make women uncomfortable, lol.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 05:47 PM

Get your entertainment somewhere else. Novels are a great way to pass the time and at the same time it isn't as effortless as movies and tv shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:49 PM
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That's actually possible. Those particular cases are very hard, especially if it's a toxic male then all the more suspicions. It's gonna be a bumpy road ahead!
/r/MensRights16/04/23 06:15 PM
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He was fucking 14 Jesus christ. That's like from minor to toddler territory, pretty disturbing indeed. Going to the police will definitely make things all the more difficult to get through but there might also be the guilt of not going so it'll be a confusing time for him, glad he has some support though hopefully it'll make things a tad bit more bearable.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 05:46 PM
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I'll take a woke pussy for someone trying to downplay the effect of child predators any day my man! So, woke pussy it is.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 05:44 PM
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And among many other reasons, this is why you don't have sex with a minor, a child, with someone so out of your league psychologically speaking that you mess them up for good. It's a sad state of affairs, hope your buddy is doing alright he shouldn't blame himself too much for that society at large is contributing to it and that's who should be blamed.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 05:37 PM
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Yes, this is rarely talked about. When you look back and see how vulnerable you were as a minor with someone who was actively taking advantage of your innocence, you feel so guilty, humiliated, emasculated, and regretful of the whole ordeal but no one listens after all you're the MAN for getting laid with an older lady. Even that term older lady is an understatement is comes off just like a 22 year old having sex with a 30 year old, but those two things couldn't be further apart from each other.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 05:29 PM
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You really can't know man. I've seen cases where the guy was very young and had sex with an objectively older woman, think like 17 to 38. He goes through with it at the moment and might feel nice but going forward his mind will always get back to those moments as ones of humiliation. Because whether we like it or not the huge difference in life experiences makes the whole sexual interaction not that is following a natural course of action boy meets girl, but a more sinister one. A woman actively…
/r/MensRights16/04/23 04:31 PM
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In her early career, Gearhart took part in a series of seminars at San Francisco State University, where feminist scholars were critically discussing issues of rape, slavery, and the possibility of nuclear annihilation. Gearhart outlines a three-step proposal for female-led social change from her essay, "The Future–-If There Is One–-is Female": I) Every culture must begin to affirm a female future. II) Species responsibility must be returned to women in every culture. III) The proportion of men …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/23 06:54 PM

It's almost definitely disingenuous to say 30% of men are like this, and you know that. I thought the flair was satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:55 PM

Saying they aren't getting any doesn't mean they feel entitled to it, the very vast majority of them just blame themselves and wallow in self-hate. It's so disingenuous to say that, truly. To feel entitled to sex, as in you've done nothing wrong and people who have wronged and took it away from you requires a very toxic and disturbing psychological foundation through which that entitlement could spring, and I assure you if just 30% of men had that psychological foundation to feel ENTITLED to sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:52 PM

Haha, I wouldn't dare but I expect the same treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:47 PM

Feminism is for lack of a better word a certain lens, a change in perspective, it's a way to view gender dynamics or anything really from an angle that accepts several highly debatable topics as facts of life toxic masculinity, male ego, women's oppression since the beginning of time, patriarchy, male privilege, and so on... Just like how the RP is filled with still debatable topics through which men view the world so is feminism. The way you view feminism as being common sense, harmless, normal…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:46 PM

Then women should consume no feminist content or literature before that age because it has a high likelihood of turning them antagonistic towards men. Sounds fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:31 PM
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I kind of agree with you, but the way you approached looking at it, as in from a very fundamental perspective then every single person is also like that. Requires outside sources to emotionally stabilize themselves. Who doesn't do that to varying degrees both consciously and unconsciously? I do agree they won't be a good partner if the relationship has a lot of outside influence instead of just the two individuals dealing with their own stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:03 PM
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The lengths you people go to, lol.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 09:49 PM
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Jesus Christ, how dense can you be? It's not about the advice, it's the difference in treatment. Each and every piece of advice in both of those columns are great, but why isn't the wife told to communicate, listen, don't interrupt, and empathize?
/r/MensRights14/04/23 09:46 PM
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Don't be a stupid troll. Frank advice is if in both cases the AI provided the exact same route of action. Listen, empathize, set boundaries, and counseling in this order for both of them. If you tell the man to have some empathy and cut her some slack. And tell the woman you better get ready to run and you should start recording your talks. Then that's an issue. Agree?
/r/MensRights14/04/23 09:42 PM

Oh, I see. Well, you live and learn!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:38 PM

Holy hell I could've never figured that out from just that. Is this some special firearm terminology or I'm just dense?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:36 PM

I bet it'll be a great opening conversation. "What cute little 38 thing that is special and you have right inside of a pussy? More than that whose pussy is that!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:33 PM

What is going on with that flair!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:27 PM

Ouf, that's a tough one man. Either there is something wrong with your brain or something with your mind. The good news is both are changeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:25 PM

Well that's debatable you know. The lack of awareness over something doesn't imply that one doesn't actively do it. It's always great to have discussions. Do people get emotionally hung up over shit? Yes, but just like every other thing in the world. That's a fair judgment, but I wanted to participate and I didn't want to be redundant. Other people asked silly questions, and I wondered what if it ain't so silly after all and there is a motive involved, it's subtle, and maybe even OP isn't aware …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:05 PM

My bf and I laugh at people on here all the time because some of y’all are so out of touch with reality. That's like the Wall Street broken walking along the street with his friends talking and laughing about the homeless and how ridiculous and funny they are. Frankly, what are the chances that he agreed with several things said here but seeing your strong ridicule he didn't voice it out? At the end of the day he's a man and he will have more things in common with other men about their lived exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:51 PM

I always find it hilarious reading about fat people, just being fat and they can't even stop eating, poor bastards. How do you walk like that? Also I always felt like it'd be sweaty as fuck. I never said I was better than fat people either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:41 PM

Ouf I always feel complicated about that water splash. Eat more fiber and iron it'll make the shit sturdier and firm, easily thrown out, and feels weirdly good... and gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:39 PM

That doesn't sound healthy whatsoever. To delude yourself into thinking you're better than some folks due to some arbitrary and fragmentary reasons. Humility is a virtue. If life happened to give you great hands and thus have no issues finding intimacy and companionship then it is no measure of your own superiority just that people are different and each with their own their own particular set of challenges. Yes, I am a retarded incel because I made some observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:37 PM

She is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:08 PM

Why do I find this weird? It seems like with the popularity of red pill and these terminologies being more mainstream it'll lead to more fetishism. Previously women would chase the Chad just because you know... biology, and a bit of social boost to be dating the hot guy, but now there is an even greater social validity of sorts, dating the desirable Chad! Do you really approach it as such or are you just framing in that way because you're in this sub and you're a woman so you probably hate the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:08 PM

That isn't just a red flag mate, that's a whole communist parade.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:02 PM

What do you teach?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:01 PM

How enjoyable was it from a scale of 1 to 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:00 PM
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Conspiracy theory here is an exaggeration to showcase the underlying theme shared between the two. An illogical certainty about something that you clearly don't know enough about. Can someone have speculations? Yes, they are great and healthy as you connect several points together to infer the likelihood of someone doing something. Personally, I think sex trafficking and the whole camming thing aren't something that is that far-fetched for someone like Tate who grow up in difficulties, probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:58 PM
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Words don't mean shit man, especially if those words will spell the doom of the person who said them. He is cringe, he likes to play the Morpheus uncancellable Chad, and he says edgy non politically correct shit like incels in their forums. Could those words be completely true for some reason the audio was leaked? Absolutely! But the other possibility is also rather high, that he's just a dick you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:26 PM
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What do you mean it's hard to find that many authentically worse people than him? What are you on about? Everyone is more or less convinced of their own worldviews and makes sure to share it with others to help them or to further their own personal agendas and that's exactly what he's doing. He's either 100% convinced of what he preaches or he isn't and knows how to target his demographic which makes it even more immoral, but that's that. A grifter and a con-artist hardly deserve all of that hat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:19 PM
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These aren't facts man. He is after all out of prison and we distant plebeians can't really make a comprehensive and sound judgment due to the lack of information that we have that is why I said to be certain in the face of a big improbability usually means there is something emotional occurring in the undercurrents.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:16 PM
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I realize that, but there is also the concept of patterns and understanding people's ideals and how they shape up how they view their lives. There are certain discussions that are very difficult to have with some people due to how emotionally invested they are in the matter, discussing evolution with a very religious person, discussing male privilege with a feminist, and talking about Tate with someone who's very clearly blue pilled, feminist maybe, and just someone who has the whole Reddit's be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:14 PM
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Sigh, I don't care. Look at your flair, your mind is made up. You want him to be that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:48 PM
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Nice to hear that from the Romanian next-door neighbor who also had super hearing ability. Jesus christ people get a grip I thought conspiracy theorists were uncool?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:33 PM
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I just think that we're so distant from all of that to make any reasonable and factual judgment. People who think he's innocent are as clueless as those who think he isn't, maybe clueless isn't the right word here but emotionally invested to protect that side of yours for whatever stupid conscious or unconscious reason. He has youtube videos that HE posted talking about beating the shit out of women, which is of course satire but where do you draw line? I don't care for Tate as a guy, but I do c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:00 PM
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What immoral actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:33 PM
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I agree completely, this is why I wrote this post honestly. I am not even an RP man just more like purple if we want to put a color on it and so I realize that to willingly date a fully red-pilled man isn't something for the vast majority of Western women that's why the post came off a bit weird. Anyways, thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:23 PM
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Do you think all of those cases are as you described them to be?
/r/AllPillDebate09/04/23 05:23 PM
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There is a spectacular post on this sub about male romance check it out. It highlights how different dating is for men and women due to biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:04 PM
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It is weak as hell but aren't we all? Given the perfect environmental circumstances you're also capable of shooting up a school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:47 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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