Daily Community Chat Megathread

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-15T10:20:35+00:00

I don't think women realize how psychologically damaging constant rejection and failure with the opposite sex can be.

Me: Have you thought about narrowing your search based on compatibility and type?

Men here: Why the fuck would I do that? Nah, I’d rather be random about who I approach.

There’s a constant pattern of: * Man whines. * Woman gives suggestions. * Man tells her to fuck off. * Repeat Step 1

I’m very immune to this self-pitying behavior.

Again, the irony of this group, claiming that men and women are extremely different…while men here act like whiny ass women.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-15T00:40:32+00:00

"What if she does her own Only-fans"

Then she betrayed me, and l know it's not gonna be successful since she needs a men to take care of the finance and business quality, the moment women make money they always waste it on themselves

RP-MJ · 2023-04-15T00:36:06+00:00

"Bitches ain't shit"

You would be surprised how many women are out here thinking they are worth something because of rich/famous dudes giving them attention

WestCombSplit · 2023-04-15T00:28:18+00:00

Being on dating reality TV subreddits have made me realise that a Women watching reality TV is a red flag. They're so unhinged and probably hate Men

RP-MJ · 2023-04-14T23:35:47+00:00

Now that l think about it

Can't believe there was really a strip club near my high-school

Should of went there after graduation

Maffioze · 2023-04-14T22:53:22+00:00

https://youtu.be/OA8aw07dpg0

Your average ppd user after they get laid.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-04-14T22:27:07+00:00

How much do you agree with this statement?

"When Women are stressed they tend to not want sex. When Men are stressed they tend to want to have sex to relieve it."

RP-MJ · 2023-04-14T22:16:27+00:00

Oh l just love this married guys making wild attacks to TRP manosphere

"RP is toxic for men"

"provides no solutions for men in dating"

Really dude, yea the man with one woman for 20+ years has something to say about the RP

Now am not a defender for TRP but this dudes are really just annoying thinking their opinions holds more truth

Marriage sure does mess up a man

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-14T22:08:18+00:00

Good sex explained in 9 minutes | Dr. Emily Nagoski

Maffioze · 2023-04-14T22:04:56+00:00

J. Cole is the best American rapper. No CMV I am dying on another hill.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-14T21:13:45+00:00

Fuck, my youth is just gone. And I was miserable during all of it. Preteens, teens, 20s.. just completely miserable. And now I'm settling into middle age with nothing but garbage to look back on.

Such is, I guess

Maffioze · 2023-04-14T20:47:33+00:00

What's the logic behind refusing Russians from fleeing to Europe?

Isn't it in our own self interest to let them in since it will weaken Russia? Outside of the ethical reasons.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-14T20:46:03+00:00

"Why is it important for a women to agree with you"

Because it would be nice for someone l truly love to agree with me, fighting the world and not having your women agree with you is mentally problematic, not saying she has/will agree with me on everything but just the little things like cars,football

Also the more she agrees with me, the more she will be attracted to me since she'll submit her knowledge to me

But this just a preference of mine

HazyMemory7 · 2023-04-14T20:22:11+00:00

2nd date yesterday with girl I mentioned like a weekish ago was picture perfect, like something out of a college rom com. There is something so blissful about waking up next to a girl in your arms. But alas we only have 2 more weeks together before we go our separate ways for the summer rip

Also going to an arcade bar is just unrivaled as far as date activities go

meteorness123 · 2023-04-14T20:14:20+00:00

Would you rather be a billionaire and look like Jeff Bezos or a Chad with an income of 65k a year ?

huhwhatokok · 2023-04-14T20:06:35+00:00

The achraf hakimi news is sick. He married you, a post wall woman, gave you kids when your eggs were on the rope, and then you divorce him and try to go for half his property? Like damn have some respect.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-14T20:01:02+00:00

PPD Men: Men are more logical and facts-based, unlike you emotional women!

Also PPD men: I FEEL like my anecdotal evidence is correct. And I FEEL like your studies are wrong since they dont agree with me. JUST TRUST ME, BRUH! Im right!

liefelijk · 2023-04-14T19:58:21+00:00

So which is it? Do men ignore personality and status and focus solely on beauty? Or do they factor in n-count, reputation, and agreeability? You don’t get to have it both ways.

Maffioze · 2023-04-14T19:51:03+00:00

I recognize that evolutionary psychology has a very bad reputation because of what happened in the past but I keep finding it wild that people refuse to believe in its validity as a concept/field.

The fact that they can't distinguish biological essentialism in a moral sense from simply describing reality in a scientific way says more about them to be honest.

Peacesquad · 2023-04-14T19:46:02+00:00

I always post two times in a row because I’m insecure. Who hurt me?

Peacesquad · 2023-04-14T19:45:47+00:00

What’s up yall

Traditional-Bad-4055 · 2023-04-14T19:37:52+00:00

Bored working from home so looking through the local “are we dating the same guy” Facebook page using my gf’s fb and omg some of these women are fucking stupid

Whole thread on there about some girl’s bf being sentenced to years in prison and she’s looking for support and a bunch of girls in the comments talking about their husbands being locked up for 20 years and shit. Like why are you staying with someone who is going to prison???

If my gf did something serious enough to be sentenced to years in prison I’m dumping her immediately wtf

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-04-14T19:36:21+00:00

I'm going to miss college when I graduate next month. Dating as a student is so much easier, from what I understand.

chancetolive · 2023-04-14T19:33:54+00:00

i guess men are horndogs even till their 70s

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-14T19:33:49+00:00

I'm at my heaviest, and I've never looked better!

Alexa play Body by Megan Thee Stallion. 🍑

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-14T19:29:36+00:00

A few chubby women cold approached me asking me if I wanted to go to church with them. The church needs to work on its marketing (and fitness). If they wanted atheists like me to take the god pill, they should be using cute thin girl next doors to spread the word of god.

Religious fatties should be working out and dieting to become slim so that they can become better messengers of god.

HugeEntertainment610 · 2023-04-14T19:20:38+00:00

I've been taking 30 min strolls for the past few weeks and my forearms are already turning dark

baresquad · 2023-04-14T19:09:14+00:00

Is making someone wait 6 months for sex unreasonable?

I don’t think so, people are allowed to have their boundaries but I also think it’s unreasonable to expect every single person to be ok with it.

I don’t believe in waiting so I’ll never do it.

samtheaccountant · 2023-04-14T19:04:40+00:00

I don't think women realize how psychologically damaging constant rejection and failure with the opposite sex can be. And men are just expected to actively be pursuing by cold approaching, warm approaching, swiping on apps, with minimal success rates until they find "the one" and through all of that be fine mentally.

And on top of that, men are expected to be the stoic, unemotional gender, which makes the issue even worse.

WestCombSplit · 2023-04-14T19:01:20+00:00

Q4All: What percentage of Women who emphasise that they're looking for a funny guy are funny themselves?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-14T18:59:01+00:00

Only in this subreddit is using studies, surveys, and statistics considered irrelevant because guys here want to project their personal anecdotes onto everyone else.

AspiringMogger · 2023-04-14T13:00:07+00:00

I read a thread on Twitter recently. I feel as though the notion “looks don’t matter” has become a relic of the past. Now it’s “of course looks matter, women want handsome boyfriends/husbands as well”.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-14T11:53:58+00:00

If a woman is only willing to fuck you if you neglect your emotional well-being, dump her. Otherwise you’re part of the problem. The audacity of this sub Reddit to claim that women just love assholes, while ignoring that they would choosing fucking a heartless bitch who hates him acting like a human being.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-14T14:26:30+00:00

If my husband was eyeing another woman I would dump his ass.

If my husband wasn't eying other women I would also dump his ass.

If I had a husband I would dump his ass... I'm a guy, I don't need a husband.

samtheaccountant · 2023-04-14T02:28:02+00:00

Dating is so much easier for woman, but data shows that woman are unhappier than men to a statistically significant level. What is the cause of this and what are they doing so wrong, at the population level?

Maffioze · 2023-04-14T11:01:57+00:00

Nothing feels better than being in love with a woman who actually respects all your emotions while appreciating what you do for her.

basteandpilled · 2023-04-14T06:57:55+00:00

Anyone here see that recent Andrew Tate twitter thread about his aggressive, mostly-absent father teaching him a valuable lesson about men by screaming at him and his mother and getting his head shaved against his will? And how his father was right and his mother was a silly female?

What a fucking waste. Imagine all the things that woman could have put her time and effort into instead of raising that drain on society. Having sons is for chumps.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-14T17:50:27+00:00

The biggest solace I can take from PPD is that misandrist women are bitter & lonely, however being a misogynist has like 0 impact on a man's SMV. In fact, I would say that being a misogynist probably increases your value since women like being underfoot.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-14T13:40:48+00:00

Pet bird owners will know that when a female bird gets too comfortable with her surroundings, she will start laying, as she deems the habitat suitable for raising children. If not, she will hold off on laying.

This is why I'm skeptical of the reasoning that women are having less kids because they believe kids to be a burden on their lives. No, women have a natural instinct to want to raise kids and propagate genetics. Otherwise we would have went extinct ages ago. But similar to birds, these instincts do not kick in when she feels her surrounding environment is poor quality for raising children. I'm willing to bet a majority of the women who suffer from postpartum depression are dealing with anxiety that their environment may be bad for raising kids but are unable to put a finger on it.

In modern society, where people are living in cramped apartments, cost of living requiring dual income and less ability for women to stay at home to raise their kids, it's no wonder women are evaluating their environment as poor for raising kids.

The way to solve the birthrate crisis is to make shit more affordable for the average couple. And to make dual income no longer necessary for comfortable living.

caobozo · 2023-04-14T14:43:53+00:00

going off some recent threads it appears that some men on here genuinely believe that housework and childcare demand no real effort because we have dishwashers now and it only takes a minute to change a diaper. wonder how their mothers would feel about those claims lol

nothatyoucare · 2023-04-14T15:06:40+00:00

Remember the reason that she's so angry and goes on about "men chasing Stacey" is they didn't choose her and she can't fucking stand it.

SeaSquirrel · 2023-04-14T17:38:27+00:00

Men in this sub have horrible taste in women.

That is all.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-04-14T00:37:48+00:00

“According to the American Perspectives Survey, the gaps in relationship status between 18-29 men and women exist primarily in the cohabitating and married categories. There's no noticeable gap in those 'in a committed relationship', i.e. unmarried and non-cohabiting partners...”

“I see this as good evidence against the meme that the pew survey demonstrates chad harems, as that survey didn't break down the types of relationships, it only showed a gap between men and women in a committed relationship more broadly...”

So no, there aren’t a bunch of “Chad harems”. As always PPD took a study on its face and used it to spread black pill propaganda.

nothatyoucare · 2023-04-14T03:59:30+00:00

Don't date robots https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJ6knaienVE

Billy would work hard to make money with his paper route then he'd used the money to buy dinner for Mavis thus earning a slim chance to perform the reproductive act. But in a world where teens can date robots why should he bother why should anyone bother?

And

all civilization was just an effort to impress the opposite sex and sometimes the same sex.

Futurama with the hard truths

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-14T15:27:55+00:00

When you say "sex is important" and then they say "sex isn't everything," what's a good response?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-14T16:04:38+00:00

It's funny watching guys get offended because there’s women who find their sex obsession to be gross.

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-14T03:22:19+00:00

Made garlic shrimp pasta for the first time and it turned out really good. What are you eating today?

nothatyoucare · 2023-04-14T04:15:05+00:00

I will forever support women shitting on us for wanting to financially abort babies while at the same time forcing women to birth babies with no support whatsoever.

George Carlin breaks it down: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SgjGwOByays

“Boy, these conservatives are really something, aren't they? They're all in favor of the unborn. They will do anything for the unborn. But once you're born, you're on your own. Pro-life conservatives are obsessed with the fetus from conception to nine months. After that, they don't want to know about you. They don't want to hear from you. No nothing. No neonatal care, no day care, no head start, no school lunch, no food stamps, no welfare, no nothing. If you're preborn, you're fine; if you're preschool, you're fucked.”

ReferenceImpossible2 · 2023-04-14T13:46:36+00:00

Discussion here would be a lot better if people didn’t omit things when they bring up personal anecdotes.

“Of course my husband goes to feminist marches, he’s a chad”*

*Also I haven’t had sex with him for months and fantasize, and he isn’t attractive to me anymore. We’re both old and getting fatter in our 40s.

“Former chad here, I used to pull women at the club all the time and take them home for threesomes, they were totally mirin my vibe bro”*

*The women I take home from the clubs are women even a blind man wouldn’t go for at last call. Also my one single threesome was with two overweight theatre girls who were more into eachother during the act

Ohmaygahh · 2023-04-14T14:45:03+00:00

The greatest lie women have pulled on men when they reject men's sexual advances is that "they aren't like that" and "is sex the only thing that's important to you?", posing these statements and remarks as if they themselves are morally or virtuously "above" it.

Rejected men took this too much to heart, and in doing so, wrongly believe that women are more virtuous, deeper and less selfish than they are.

This is a lie.

We are all animals, and it is ALL about hot monkey sex. Men, ignore women's reasoning for why she doesn't want to with you. All that is important is that she doesn't want to, her reasons are her own and have no reflection on you.

chilikettlechips · 2023-04-14T15:21:29+00:00

If wife is depressed then husband

pp still hard

If husband is depressed

how can he do this to me????? Man problem becomes woman tragedy.

Willow-girl · 2023-04-14T16:41:14+00:00

This morning, I discovered Ingrid tormenting a young garter snake. The man took it away from her before she could do it any serious damage, but all day she's been strutting around as if to say, "I caught the danger noodle!"

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-14T17:26:00+00:00

The biggest WIDELY ACCEPTED double standard here is the difference between the way attraction is viewed for men and women.

man has "high" standards: eww, entitled incel, you're stupid, be realistic
woman has "high" standards: so noble, she's not attracted to crude things like physical appearance, she can only be attracted if she has a deep emotional connection with a man; terrible men, they need to be better, she's victimized by the lazy men who refused to do the basic, easy things to be just barely attractive; how dare anyone say anything critical; she's so cool and awesome, she'll be just as happy being single anyway

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-14T03:39:11+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/RomanceBooks/comments/12knzs6/who_do_you_prefer_as_your_mmc_alphaholes_or/

even /r/romancebooks admits dark triad appeal

saraimarsena · 2023-04-14T12:00:42+00:00

how much do you guys agree w this post regarding “dread” game for women?

What this means is that, if you want to show a man, "damnit, you should be lucky to have me!", don't go about it by trying to show him how many other men want you and would be lucky to have you. This may work for a man if done well, but it's highly unlikely to work for you. So that means don't go farming for compliments with a risqué picture on instagram. Instead, work on showing him why he should really be feeling so lucky. This means doing small but noticeable things -- compliment him more (men are generally very lacking in terms of getting compliments), give him a massage, just do something nice for him in general. Attractive girls are a dime a dozen. An attractive girl who cares for her partner and treats him with respect and kindness, however, is a girl worth cherishing. Be that girl.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-14T15:17:51+00:00

An example of me not blindly believe women:

I was in a group chat with one girl I’ll nickname ‘Princess’. Princess was like 19.

I would notice she would say random things out of the blue to make us pity her.

Then one day she claims she might be pregnant THE DAY AFTER ANNOUNCING she broke up with her boyfriend. Sounding like a contrieved plot in a soap opera.

So she confirms she’s pregnant.

Me: Can we see the test?

Her: Already threw it away. Besides, I never understood why people take pictures of those!

And then afterwards she never mentioned the pregnancy again.

I don't know what happened 9 months later because I had a falling out with that group.

Anyway, brought it up because I find it laughable that men here think I'm not unisex in my refusal to just blindly believe people.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-14T15:27:29+00:00

If your a broke dude with a hot girlfriend

Then yes, you should make Only-fans

And also take 65% of the money made since we all know women don't put any focus on the bigger picture of the business but just themselves

caobozo · 2023-04-14T17:01:34+00:00

n count discussion thread: 600 comments

self improvement discussion thread: 150 comments

says a lot about society

edit: im kidding you silly geese

questioningfeminist · 2023-04-14T17:41:02+00:00

Q4Feminists: Don't you think that claiming your are oppressed is a massive slap in the face to women across the planet that are ACTUALLY oppressed?

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-04-14T00:33:22+00:00

Looking at PPD, I can see why men have gradually started leaning to not trusting bluepill-like ideas and women in general, because it has devolved into mostly villinzing men, which creates a self-prohepecy of people to appealing to ideas like red and black pill in the first place.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-04-14T00:42:00+00:00

Holding women to the same standard as men is called misogyny. Feminism is preferred treatment.

gymbronyc718 · 2023-04-14T01:44:04+00:00

What do men on PPD want exactly? Sympathy? Acknowledgment? Would those things make you go away or at least stop whining? Please do tell.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-14T02:01:09+00:00

Can women have real self confidence when they have everything handed to them in life? To demonstrate self confidence, they need situations to prove their competency and self confidence but all the situations they are in are on easy mode.

For example, anywhere they go, women know that there will be people wanting to talk to them and be friendly to them. If there is a threat or she is feeling sad or lonely, people will be there to comfort and defend her. When you know that you will always be taken care of, your "confidence" will be based on that knowledge than actual confidence. They're never put in a situation where they need real confidence.

meteorness123 · 2023-04-14T03:25:21+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12kyo20/women_lie_about_their_partner_preferences_they/

Absolute autism. Not much different in the comments either

One of the few reasonable comments

"Yes, 100%. An attractive man who’s an asshole might be able to find a woman willing to make an exception for him because of his looks. But he’s not going to be pulling healthy, stable, sane women. Asshole men tend to date asshole women (or women who have a tolerance for abuse, which generally gets learned from previous abuse as children.)

But these aren’t people who like… have happy lives together. Neither of them is capable of it. The only way to have a relationship that is healthy is for both people to be considerate of one another.

If you are an asshole, no matter how attractive you are, you are going to be a bad partner. That’s just a fact."

scwizard · 2023-04-14T05:53:44+00:00

Romance novel tropes.

Outwardly he's violent and mean, but secretly he fosters kittens and he's actually really sweet towards people that he cares about.

Outwardly he's fallen on rough times, but secretly he's wealthy and donates a lot to charity and is reluctant to spend money on himself due to self esteem issues even though he deserves it.

Outwardly he is commitment phobic and isn't looking for a serious relationship, but secretly he just needs the right woman to come along who actually sees his true self and gets past his shell.

jamal_dc · 2023-04-14T07:17:12+00:00

I’m not interested in dating unattractive women. When I look at the women in my life who arr perhaps interested in me but that I don’t find attractive back they usually have something very fixable. One is grossly overweight. Not even slightly. Extremely obese. I on the other hand am very in shape (like bordering influencer levels of being in shape). The other woman is normal but just doesn’t look after herself. I found a photo of her from when she did a photoshoot and she looks gorgeous. It’s not even makeup. She just needs a good moisturiser and better hygiene and she’d be a bombshell. Why are women like this!? What irks me about these women is they’ll wonder why they’ve only ever had fwb relationships and not LTRs. They reject decent looking men and think something better is coming along but they don’t look after themselves.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-14T16:15:15+00:00

I genuinely am so excited about AI porn. There will finally be porn with thin, innocent-looking, girl next door types.

baresquad · 2023-04-14T16:20:08+00:00

If I ever get engaged, I’m not asking her dad for permission or his blessing to marry his daughter. This isn’t 1965.

eye_fuck · 2023-04-14T17:49:02+00:00

Do you agree that women are 'complaining gender'?

Given higher neuroticism, higher likelihood of having mood swings (hormonal shifts during menstrual circle, pregnancy etc), 'i need to vent, not looking for solutions', nagging, coming up with concepts like emotional labor and mansplaining, etc.

scwizard · 2023-04-14T00:39:03+00:00

I am a female and I'm definitely better than plain looking and due to circumstances I do not have a lot of 'options' at all. I know plenty of males with more options than me and many of them are 'plain looking'

Lololol "circumstances"

Swordfromthecement · 2023-04-14T02:20:56+00:00

Anyone else have a habit of daydreaming constantly? I have a very rich inner world and could daydream for hours but my productivity plummets. The only music I can listen to when i need to get work done is brown noise or instrumentals.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-14T02:56:59+00:00

I'm redpilling /r/polls one poll at a time

https://www.reddit.com/r/polls/comments/12lfnel/men_and_women_what_of_the_opposite_gender_do_you/

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-14T03:27:16+00:00

Also just a few more students and I'll fully cover our rent again. Feels good.

JiifuhTV · 2023-04-14T12:52:52+00:00

would this work in the US 😭

u/purplish_possum

teball3 · 2023-04-14T15:09:29+00:00

/u/danceswithmyr just gave me an accidental revelation about the perpetuation of red pills. I've said it before that as myself a blue through and through tried and true, I can't see eye to eye with a lot of red pillers because what 'success in love' is, is too different.

Well, I just realized why "the red pill" is often quoted as "the truth about women's attraction." and NOT "the true dating strategy for men."

It's because Red-pillers know that their ideology is selfish and destructive. And so, to justify it, they have to say they are just playing the same game as women. That women are secretly also selfish and destructive, so for them to act in the same way is just fair turnabout. Because if they were the only ones being selfish and destructive, than they would have to accept that in a world of good and bad people, they are one of the bad ones. So, if you can besmirch the name of "good" well enough, then you can just call yourself another human in it for themselves like all the rest of us.

Typically we think that dogmatic hopelessness is something that comes from the black pill, but now I see. The hopelessness starts with the red pill.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-14T16:56:17+00:00

Funny how me and my friends are old enough to be in the marriage demographic

Yet non of us don't ever wanna get married unless we have accomplished a lot

But l just don't think am ever gonna get married, devoting your sexual freedom to one person for over decades sounds absolutely miserable

But l don't mind having my children from multiple women

MyLastBestChance · 2023-04-14T00:01:59+00:00

😃1

saraimarsena · 2023-04-14T00:16:35+00:00

today was a decent day !

my telfar came in and i’m so excited 🖤🥰 perfect everyday bag, and it’s fun to do something nice for yourself every so often :)

weather was beautiful, kids had a great time at the park. there was one pretty bad meltdown from H today tho, he was HIGHLY upset i told him i couldn’t fix his broken ritz cracker :( (gotta love 2 year olds 🙄🤣)

had a fantastic salad as a snack earlier, bf ordering wingstop for dinner which leads me to my …

Q4all: how do you like your wings ?

(only one right answer, buffalo sauced up w blue cheese dip mmm 😋)

Mobrowncheeks · 2023-04-14T00:19:05+00:00

Women don’t have to do anything with the information with the red pill. red pill and blue pill alike keep arguing the “ so what” of all these posts. There is nothing any particular individual needs to od with the information. A woman should live her life as she choses, and know that her choices close doors from certain men.

And there’s nothing wrong with that. These men likely aren’t the type of men the woman wants anyway

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-14T00:45:59+00:00

One scary realisation I have come to is how much men love misogynistic women. Not women who care for men , mind you but women who downright resent women are absolutely loved by men. Can someone explain this phenomenon to me?

Because I personally would be very wary of a man who resents men

WestCombSplit · 2023-04-14T01:18:55+00:00

Q4All: What would you do if you saw your partner cry when they found out that their ex died?

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-04-14T01:33:10+00:00

Its guys out here right now paying 400 for jeans to impress girls that dont even like em

mummydontknow · 2023-04-14T01:54:02+00:00

People are reminded to not fuck their co-workers, but a mixed workplace isn't a red flag??

SlutHater_Unlimited · 2023-04-14T02:02:50+00:00

Men should have the right to financially abort an unborn child due to bodily autonomy. You see, child support requires money, which requires work, which requires a man to sacrofice his physical and mental health, thus violating his bodily autonomy.

scwizard · 2023-04-14T05:34:42+00:00

used to think I was feeling overwhelmed for no reason. Then I started offloading mental load tasks onto my partner. And now I have no idea who has more load,

How does offloading mental load tasks even work?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-14T13:28:20+00:00

Q4A: If you want kids, why?

mummydontknow · 2023-04-14T13:39:26+00:00

I should stop caring whether people will be offended by my gut instincts.

I'm literally wasting this superpower.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-04-14T14:30:53+00:00

For the past few years I've dabbled in more straight forward weight lifting, and now my arms are too muscular for my jean jacket and cotton button down shirts.

Tis a blessing and a curse.

Willow-girl · 2023-04-14T15:00:47+00:00

I've been trying to wean myself off my latest round of prednisone but my foot isn't buying it. All morning, it's been screaming, "WHERE ARE THE OTHER 10 MG? YOU'RE HOLDING OUT ON ME! GIVE ME MY OTHER 10 MG!"

TGIF ...

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-04-14T15:05:57+00:00

Men's sex drive:

Is she hot

Women's sex drive:

Does he have good genes for my offspring
Would he be a competent provider

Women's sex drive revolves around the wellbeing of their hypothetical kids.

lulll · 2023-04-14T15:13:45+00:00

women are a bop it

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-04-14T16:10:52+00:00

God I hate these trad larpers on tiktok/instagram/twitter. Real trad couples keep to themselves and don’t feel the need to broadcast their life on the interwebs.

FuuraKafu · 2023-04-14T18:57:32+00:00

The reason why "cool things" are generally more associated with men is because women are into cool things and they want men to be cool. So of course men try to adapt to that. The flipside of this is beauty. Men love beauty so women try to adapt to that.

That's why I find this constant widely accepted take of "men think they are better and more capable than women because they are misogynistic" to be a bit disingenuous. There are obviously some more extreme versions of that, but overall that male insecurity is just the equivalent of hetero women freaking the fuck out by their partner crossdressing. "Hey, that's my domain!"

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-14T18:50:59+00:00

Men claim not to care about income and then complain that they're expected to provide for a whole family. I'm pretty sure my husband appreciates that we share responsibilities and I have tradeable enough skills.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-14T18:47:19+00:00

I'm taking a shit AMA!

EDIT: This AMA is over, tnx everyone for participating.

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-14T18:44:18+00:00

I've got a new student, so now I cover our rent completely and have some more money still. Wonderful, my anxiety has just got much better.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-04-14T18:33:06+00:00

On a scale from light pink to blood red, how big of a red flag is a girl saying to you “it turns me on when you’re mean to me.”

HighlyFlashy · 2023-04-14T18:20:36+00:00

I’m dating a 6’1, hot, frat boy, Chad AMA

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EulenWatcher · 2023-04-14T00:25:39+00:00

How do people here define the word "blame"? I ask because some people have obtuse definitions.

Setting aside the negative aspect, "blame" is just a way to explain how something happened (or how something could have been different and lead to a different outcome). Assuming women are people - they make choices, have agency, etc. - a pretty safe assumption, when a woman rejects someone, her choice is what explains what happened (the rejection).

So, if a woman rejects a man for dating, the "fix" is her making a different choice, nothing else needs to change. We could load "how" with negative judgement to make it "blame," but it would be no less true.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-04-14T01:01:08+00:00

Does it occur to women that most society treats women like children, and most women are fine with that.

For a men, nobody will feel sorry for you. A women can be weak, and she doesn't need to take accountability because that is "victim blaming."

SlutHater_Unlimited · 2023-04-14T01:43:55+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/12l8u0f/i_just_turned_downstopped_dating_a_guy_because_of/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb

Another day, another woman being allergic to accountability and responsibility.

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-14T01:49:38+00:00

I'm gonna give 8 lessons in one day. My poor vocal chords.

mummydontknow · 2023-04-14T01:56:06+00:00

It's been a year, do I send her that mildly offensive tiktok or do I move on?

scwizard · 2023-04-14T02:37:53+00:00

At the convince store I saw a woman in a sexy dress and her boyfriend wearing a button down pineapple shirt.

I hate that I know what that means.

scwizard · 2023-04-14T05:27:30+00:00

I have been seeing all the recent posts about weaponized incompetence. And in the past, I read the posts about the mental load. And I can’t even begin to describe how this empowered me to make changes and finally draw the line.

I am a mother of 3 (early teenage) children and have been married to my husband for 20 years.

Another divorce thanks to the twox pill.

Although actually they might be communicating instead of divorcing idk

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-14T10:08:41+00:00

Ladies what do you think about the OG bad boy Billy the Kid?

mwb111300 · 2023-04-14T14:15:23+00:00

Anyone seen the show beef on Netflix? Curious what people think of it in the context of ppd

lulll · 2023-04-14T14:52:06+00:00

q4w how many mens hearts have you stepped on in high heels today

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-04-14T16:32:55+00:00

You go to the gym, there are two lockers;

1st one is overused and smells like sweat and piss and cheap deodorant but in a good spot

2nd one is in a bad spot however no one put their stuff in it whole day

Which one would you pick?

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-14T16:49:47+00:00

Asian girls let a man in from of them to get into the bus.

He thinks that’s due to respect, I wonder whether they wanted to see where he’d sit so they could sit far away from him. Or maybe he’s old/heavy, so they let him go first due to it.

samtheaccountant · 2023-04-14T16:54:09+00:00

It's sad being tall and fit, but realizing that your looksmatch is an obese single mother.

danielwastaken · 2023-04-14T17:00:18+00:00

It's been a year since my friend kissed me on the cheek while we were out at the bar and I didn't make a move on her after bc she had a boyfriend. They broke up last month bc he wasn't feeling it anymore and not a day goes by that I don't regret going for it.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-14T18:01:37+00:00

I've been helping my partner with his athletic performance. And I'm excited to see how he has improved at tonight's game.

I'm using him as a guinea pig for a fitness idea I have. Partially inspired by this sub.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-14T00:36:08+00:00

Doesn't it get exhausting to feed into hyperbolic fantasies?

DisasterPeace7 · 2023-04-14T00:45:55+00:00

Guys I just showed my wife excrement sign 484404s wish on the last daily thread, and she told me to "tell her to go fuck herself and for me to get ready so we can be early" , you just hate seeing people not get what they want for early Christmas 😭😭😭😭😭

AngeCruelle · 2023-04-14T04:56:15+00:00

Question for married users who are/your spouse is prone to squirting.

How do you deal with the mess. Rn the most common feedback I've been getting irl is "towels" but like...every time?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-14T05:50:12+00:00

Gonna go touch grass.

But which kind? Park? Mountain? Cannabis? Field?

UneastAji · 2023-04-14T10:13:12+00:00

Said I was leaving, got banned anyways, then I realized why it’s hard to leave like L tried that one time

I started dating again tho, amazing what 3 days can do. Unfortunately there’s so many fucking ugly people, I get how women think when swiping because fucking hell, some of these women are just ugly as sin

The worst are the big ones that talk about food on their profile. Have some fucking self awareness. The best are the obvious pick mes like borat fans or the ones that talk about finance/sports. Need more women like that🫶

LaloTwins · 2023-04-14T14:42:04+00:00

Here's a quick explanation for how the women who reject men are responsible, even if not solely, for the man being rejected. It isn't really necessary to make a value judgement, but if you wanted to see it negatively, you could go so far as to say the woman is "to blame." It's pretty simple, here's an analogy.

Let's say there's a cup of coffee that costs $3, but I only have $2. What needs to change for me to be able to buy the coffee? Either of these changes would do it:

I get at least one more dollar
the price goes down to $2 or lower

All else equal, the price not going down prevents me from buying the coffee, so in that way, it is "to blame" for me not being able to buy the coffee.

Lowering the price is analogous to a woman changing her decision, her choice, to reject me. She could choose to not reject me, and that would solve the problem. Everyone wins. So, in that way, she's "to blame."

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-14T17:32:50+00:00

My greatest talent is emotionally hurting people.

You learn that art by ~~surviving~~ growing up surrounded by narcissists. I only use it very, very sparingly but if you do need to make a serial killer cry just gimme a call.

The shitty part is... when people ask me what my greatest talent is, I have to lie.

Except if I have an interview for customer service job.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-14T17:37:59+00:00

For the last time people

TRP is not an Ideology, Ideologies are based on ideas

HyperGamey is not an idea

Women wanting confident,charismatic men is not an idea

Self-improvement is not an idea

RP-MJ · 2023-04-14T15:51:38+00:00

"What if she offers to pay"

Ayy that's fine just don't date those kind of women

In my experience, best dates l usually have is where l've the role of paying

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